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I Love a Man That Does Not Deserve Me

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    Been There, Done That.

    You live, you learn.  With me being such a nice (naive) person, I would try to hang in there after I clearly felt the relationship going to hell in a handbasket.But with age comes wisdom, and I had to learn that when a man FIRST starts to show me that he is a jerk, I believe...
    Keap Keap 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    Lost In My Marrage

    ok so i have been married to my husband for 3 going on 4 years. i love him but its fading because i feel he is pushing me away he dose drugs and drinks alot .we have a 2year old son . my husband comes home from work and dose one of two things goes to sleep or dose drug he will...
    pixiedoc pixiedoc 22-25 1 Response Sep 30, 2012

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    Make Another Go Of It

    My husband and I have not been getting along for a while, pretty much since I got pregnant and we found out it was twins. Im 8 months pregnant right now and its just been getting worse. I know hes been lying to me about lots of things, but not long ago I discovered texts and nude...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    I Left Him Because I Deserve Better

    I should probably use the past tense as I am no longer with him and no longer feel the love I did for him. Things started out good and went to bad. I started to forget why I was in the relationship in the first place and started to resent him. He wanted to be like me, free...
    forgetmenots forgetmenots 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I Did Respond to This Experience, Moments Ago

    I AM SORY ABOUT YOUR RELANSHIP. I KNOW IT HURTS. MINE DOES TOO. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED 28 YRS.SHE WORKS NIGHTS, I WORK DAYS. SHE SLEEPS ON A COUCH IN THE LIVINGROOM WATCHING TV.  I SLEEP ON A KING SIZE BED IN OUR MASTER BEEDROOM. IF WE GET A DAY OFF TOGETHER WE ARGUE. I AM A...
    vetro vetro 51-55, M 7 Responses Mar 15, 2009

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    Healing A Broken Heart

    I will firstly admit that after 10 years together,children family life etc...I thought that as we were growing older together and settling down,making certain commitments. I thought I had succeed with this man where other women seemingly failed. WRONG,WRONG,WRONG! He always had a...
    nevaeh5683 nevaeh5683 26-30, F Apr 7, 2012

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    Heart Lost In Vegas

    I must begin by saying this is about cheating with a married man.  In defense, it does simply... just happen.  I never meant it to... but was truly helpless to prevent it. After a sexless marriage of almost 20 years, I was seduced by a younger man.  This...
    DancingwDanger DancingwDanger 51-55, F 5 Responses Dec 6, 2007

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    I'm Petty, I Think Not!!-vent

    I know being used a bit comes with the territory of a relationship whether its for sex, just to vent and everything in between but when does it become misuse. This is my dilemma, now I might still be feeling some offense from yesterday but this is what happened.My boyfriend is in...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Am I Living In A Fantasy Or Simply Not Allowing Myself To Live And Be Loved

    I have spent so long finding faults with myself that I have learned to live with and accommodate the bad/negative thoughts that I have both created and convinced myself of. I've been in a relationship for 10 years. We have 2 kids of our own and I have also adopted my partners son...
    nevaeh5683 nevaeh5683 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    Are you tired of disappointing first dates with men who seem good on paper but not great face-to-face? Are you sick of terrible relationships that leave you feeling less than...
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    I dated someone for a few years. I call it dating but I was really just the girl on the side. I think deep down he knew how I felt but didn't care. I tried to be there for him...
    NewGuernica NewGuernica 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    My heart has been smashed to pieces over & over again for two years. I am not a stupid person but I am a complete fool. I am ashamed. I am lost. I hurt, I hurt, I hurt, I hurt, I...
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    NURTURING THE BLOSSOM! I know you have self esteem issues, you have difficulty seeing yourself as worthy of admiration... Well, when are you gonna stop for a minute and realize...
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    NURTURING THE BLOSSOM I know you have self esteem issues, you have difficulty seeing yourself as worthy of admiration... Well, when are you gonna stop for a minute and realize...
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    jhenifad jhenifad 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Many gripe about Disney and how it doesn't help kids deal with real issues. Disney is entertainment not history. But I HAVE seen and continue to see Disney focus on real life...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 26 mins ago

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    Shed the Shadow Oh how he watches me in the shadow of his tree, strong, bold and blocking out the glare of the sun. He claims I shine like the stars, the moon, brighter than them...
    Femininewiles Femininewiles 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    FIGHT CLUB let the chips fall where they may It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything This is your life and it's ending one minute at a time On a...
    chillheart chillheart 22-25, M 35 mins ago

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    My wife of four years has told me as of now she doesn't like sex. Ever since we gotten married and had children the affection and intimacy has fell off the grid. She was pregnant...
    born2reign born2reign 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 26

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    Ladies!! If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or...
    peace82 peace82 26-30, F Sep 6

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    "Love. Love is the greatest gift God ever gave man. Love is not wanting to go anywhere without her. Love is not caring what other people think about...
    some1callmeJoy some1callmeJoy 46-50, F 1 Response 47 mins ago

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    You are such a wonderful but miserable person but I can't stop adoring you. I love you so much but then you get angry and the things you say cut deep but even when everyone is...
    gypsisoul gypsisoul 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    a year ago I would say I don't but then I met my boyfriend... I sincerely hope that no one who reads this will ever settle for something that doesn't turn your whole life around...
    untetheredsoul untetheredsoul 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    After months of feeling hopeless, I came across this cutie on POF. We began talking and I'm so thankful I sent him a message. I've never loved anyone the way I've loved him. And...
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M Sep 2

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    September 3. Word Power. "I know I'm controlling, but so is my husband. Possibly more controlling than I am. Each time I set out to leave him, each time I started to walk away...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Sep 3

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    It's really not how I planned it, but I think I wouldn't have wanted it any other way... It's not what I was looking for, but it still happened and I guess, that's the magic that...
    Chips007 Chips007 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 10

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    'Listen' If a friend tells you their problem and you tell them don't feel bad or you just try to cheer him up it's like you're saying their feelings are wrong & to turn them...
    GBFrnz GBFrnz 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    hankpalmer hankpalmer 18-21, F 76 Responses Sep 10

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