I Love a Man Who's Emotionally Unavailable

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    I Had To Write A Dear John Letter

    I cant tell you all in one night how I came to be in love with an emotionally unavailable man. But I can start in pieces. Its been about a year and a half that we have been talking. After this time we finally met up and finally I gave myself to him...and he to me...we made love...
    Mimi76 Mimi76
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2012

    Not Sure If It Love, But Still

    I have been in a relationship with this guy mike for almost a month, and for a month before that we were going on dates.He was sweet at the beginning. he sent me sweet texts, and he was the one that asked me on the first date, and he told me he liked me. Now that we are in a...
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2012

    I finally forced the issue

    because I had to end it, now being without contact is painful as it was having a one sided relationship.. I got drawn in and hooked pretty quickly. Never again... Still working on detaching... Sometimes I think being emotionally unavailable is a gift because they don't get hurt...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 18, 2015

    I'm looking more for advice about my situation.

    "LOVE" just may go a bit deeper than where this is now...or not, depending on how you define it. Numero uno...I'm in a relationship...upward of 8 years. I love the person I'm with. With that said, he knows that I need things he doesn't understand and can't relate to...especially...
    ImnessAntiess ImnessAntiess
    26-30, F
    Feb 26

    Love Him But Not Sure Where He's Coming From

    I love a man who is not available - separated but still has 'stuff' to work out.  We met 2 years ago - he fell in love with me but I was not ready, having emerged from a very painful relationship & not ready (at that time) to move on.  We separated for about a year...
    newlifelady newlifelady
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Aug 27, 2008
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