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I Love a Married Man

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    I was in an abusive relationship

    for years. When I first met my MM, I was married and he wasn't. As soon as I seen him there was an instant attraction to him. We worked together. I never told him or anyone of my attraction. He got married. I left my job for a better job. Fast forward 8 years. Him and I talked...
    JuliaH JuliaH 41-45, F Oct 9

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    Has been more than 3 weeks

    since it ended and I'm still an emotional wreck. I'm so sensitive to everything my MM does at work. When he avoids eye contact with me, when he cancels meetings with me etc. I feel so terrible today that I had an argument with him over work. Makes it even harder for me to face...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    Love of My Life-her Husband-leaving Her For Me

    T he more I read everyone else's stories, the more I feel the need to share mine. While it is some much like all the others, there is a twist.   I met this man, 13 years my senior, when I started a new job last January where he was my boss. I was in a relationship at the...
    lilyfly7777 lilyfly7777 22-25 8 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    I recently re encountered with my middle school

    boyfriend and who I think was and will always be the love of my life. He feels the same and I started seeing him a month ago, the problem is that he's being married for 17 years. I've been divorced for 2 years now. We have not been intimate, but have kissed and stuff. I...
    Dearpenny72 Dearpenny72 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I love my MM dearly. After 2 years,

    I ended it because I wanted more than the leftovers, and because I wanted to matter. The months of friendship nearly killed me. I spent most of those months hoping we would get back together. Well, we did, and, we hit the ground running in January. Everything had been amazing...
    purpledog25 purpledog25 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    lisapaige93 lisapaige93 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 19

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    I Am Having An Affair With My First True Love

    OK - here's my story. My husband dumped me over the phone after a 7 year relationship, married for 3 and a half years. He was 11 years my junior and I supported him in his aspiration to become a commercial pilot - he ended up costing me over $35,000. He left me for some chick he...
    firsttruelove firsttruelove 41-45, F 20 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    I think it's like playing with fire

    or gambling. If you don't take a risk you will never know. If you do be prepared for some consequences. In the end it could be amazing or end up bad but always know the risks. I think if you can get away with it then go for it and enjoy it. I think it's a hot fantasy to have a...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Well hi I'm not sure how many people will read

    this but jut thought I would share. If you are in a relationship with a married man its probably a bad idea. It's taboo and against the bible and against good morals consciences and judgment. But in all honesty our eyes want what they see our emotions want what makes them happy...
    shayhenager shayhenager 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Can't Take the Jealousy

    My story begins with my hooking up with a married men six months ago.  Since then he and I talk frequently and we have talked about everything, nothing has been off limits for our conversations.  The only thing that I never told his was that I fell in love with him...
    ttreemurphy ttreemurphy 31-35, F 19 Responses Jun 1, 2008

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    This Is What I Have Never Wanted For My Life

    I always use to say, never ever fall in love with a married guy, they r just users, in short they r blood sucking leaches. But wow all those words, i have to eat them my self. I right now am madly in love with a married guy. we are in relation since last 2 years. it is a...
    iceheartblues iceheartblues 41-45, F 8 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    Ladies Read

    First off, I'll say I am attracted to married men. A lot. There is no problem with it, I'm just letting you in on some insight if thats what you wanna call it? Well, I'm basically married, been living with the man for over three years (won't marry him because I'll lose my...
    LaceyXturrin LaceyXturrin 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    How do you feel about being the other women

    knowing he will not leave his wife and family
    Truone16 Truone16 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    Am I going crazy? Lately I'm starting to have

    anxiety attacks when I think of facing him at work. I have been emotional and losing my temper at him at work ever since he ended things with me and went back to his wife. So I have been trying to curb my emotions. And then I started having anxiety attacks as I don't know how...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Loving A Married Man

    To Whom It May Concern: Mine is a story told a thousand times before. I love a man who is married. He has been married for 20 years and has 3 children; aged 13 to 17. He is 49 and I am 43. I have never posted anything but since becoming involved with Gerry, I have felt, on some...
    Lanya Lanya 41-45, F 34 Responses Oct 25, 2009

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    One Of The Many Reasons Why..."i Love A Married Man"

    This is our recent text. After 3 years, it just keeps getting better! MM: I am so excited to see you. And I don't just mean excited to see you, but excited to see you. I want to kiss your whole face forever before I kiss anything else. I want to put my hands through your...
    aod7909 aod7909 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    I'm married, ( been sexless marriage

    since 2006), but live and work hours from my family, met a married man who is in the same situation, started out as fwb's , but it has grown into more....... We have fun. And he's given me back my confidence, and I'm not ready to give him up... It's been almost a year...
    fnpbcbw fnpbcbw 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    How The Tables Have Turned...

    I've been cheated on. I know how terrible it feels to have the person you love put their energy into someone else. I swore to myself I was never going to the "the other woman" in any situation. I swore I'd never put another woman through what I went through. Yet somehow, here I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    I never ever thought I would be in this

    situation. I never thought I'd be the other woman. I initially went into this very selfishly. I went looking for a married man so that it was a sure thing, he wouldn't get feelings for me and I could just get what I want and that would be it . I have not felt a thing for anyone...
    whoareyou208 whoareyou208 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I Am So Happy In My Relationship With A Married Man

    The title of my story is diametrically opposed to most stories/experiences the women who love married men have.  I have been there though.  What has changed for me is my own personal need to be "the one" he is married to. We first met each other from an on-line adult site...
    mcgeckogirl mcgeckogirl 56-60, F 14 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    We were together for 3 months

    before I knew he was married. We fell in love... I've never been with someone that was such a good match for me. I found out and didn't leave.. I should have, it's just not that easy. His wife had a baby today.. I knew it was coming but wasn't prepared for how I would feel. I'm...
    4kari 4kari 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 18

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    I wish he was here with me,

    but instead hes home with her...
    Chicadelcaribe Chicadelcaribe 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    Well my relationship started with the good ol

    Facebook. We went to school together in a small bayou town. Haven't seen or heard from him since finishing school. One day i was just scrolling on Facebook and i received a instant message. Just saying hi, how are you? We chatted briefly every now and then and one day he asked...
    hisbabydoll1215 hisbabydoll1215 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    Wives don't hate the "other woman"

    because their necessarily jealous, they hate them bc they are slutty ******* that have no respect for love, family, commitment and are helping drag other woman down. Aiding in children being from broken homes, marriage being torn apart due to a strangers selfishness. I'm not...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I was having an affair with a married man

    since September. I went into it for a physical needs type if thing, but it quickly deepened. He was the one who initiated the deeper relationship. I have spent the last ten months in heaven. I have been divorced many years and finally fell in love again. I heard the same thing...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    Married Boyfriend

    I was pursued by a friend who is married. We started seeing each other and are now in love. It's been 6 months. He says he will leave his wife. I gave him until October to figure it out but that I couldn't continue with him after then. I need to move on and if he stays, he...
    iamthewalrus6 iamthewalrus6 36-40, F 19 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    Why do mean throw us just enough line to hang

    on, and then they are the ones who push us away to drown. I love my MM, but he is so hard to understand. He wants me, let's be friends, he wants me, dirty texting for hours, let's be friends, he wants me. It's like a roller coaster, he's this way, then that, then back again...
    Blueeyes65 Blueeyes65 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Never Saw It Coming

    Boy I used to judge people who had affairs and thought they were evil. Well I have a totally different opinion now that it happened (yes it happened) to me. My relationship with MM started so innocently on my part. I NEVER thought of him in a sexual way. I think he was...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 12 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    I Don'T Actually Love Him At All.

    I meet this guy name Nate, he was our car salesman. I was 17 at the time I met him. He was probably in his 30s. When my parents were negotiating a price with him for a car. I happened to glance by his computer and realized he was married. I found him attractive. during the time I...
    haley2323 haley2323 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    Recall my last post about how I think his

    feelings for me a disappearing, trust a woman's instinct. He said yesterday all these arguments I keep causing have really pushed him away. He doesn't know if things are fixable but when he thinks of me now all that comes to his head is stress I give him. This happened because...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My Married Friend With Extra's

    The man I at least have feelings for is the mechanic who services my car. My brother worked with him for a few years and he has become a family friend which makes all of this a bit harder as mum and dad and my brother are not completely aware of what is going on. It began last...
    shall13 shall13 36-40, F 12 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    HE'S Married

    Four years ago I met the man whom I am involved with now we were initially friends then it progressed he never mentioned that he was married until last March when I over heard him talking and he confessed he claims that his wife won't give him a divorce could this be...
    Braveheart4real Braveheart4real 31-35, F 10 Responses May 11, 2008

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    So I lost my cool with him at work.

    Shouted at him over some work issue and shocked all my colleagues. Sometimes I feel extreme sadness and other times, extreme anger with him. I'm not sure if this is my mind's way of coping with the hurt after he dumped me twice. I experience extreme mood swings and I'm so scared...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    My mm and I reconnected 10 years ago.

    We had met at work over 27 years ago, fell in love and had a relationship that lasted 2 years. I broke it off back then and he was sad but understanding that we both needed to attend to our own marriages. The years passed, I had children, moved around the country, dreamed sweet...
    bossmansgirl bossmansgirl 56-60 4 Responses Oct 15

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    Heartbroken In Letting Go

    I ought to know better!!! Just what the devil is wrong with me?? Yes I'm letting go of him... He's destructive, I'm unhappy, we shouldn't be but I love him. I love every little thing about him. I love his cute smile, his magical eyes, and the sound of his voice. I love his...
    MajesticLady MajesticLady 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Well, I am in love with a married man.

    We are currently online only, but have been for 8 months. He wants to meet in person but I'm so hesitant. We have an amazing time talking; laughing, debating, arguing, kissing, making up; it's been incredible. He has begun to tell me he needs me and I'm his rock; that he loves...
    mrscalabash59 mrscalabash59 56-60, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Open minded and younger married man here.

    I am 30. Let's talk message me.
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 18

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    I still have feelings

    for a married man but i chose to love him from afar and just wait for the feelings to die down. Will it ever die???
    Annwithlove Annwithlove 26-30, F 9 Responses May 27

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    I just broke it off with my MM.

    ..I'm so sad. I love him so much.
    AnthroRiotGRRRL AnthroRiotGRRRL 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    A week ago, for the first time,

    he told me he loves me. How I have been waiting to hear that. How I thought I'd be over the moon. But instead all I can do is crying...
    asta20 asta20 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 17

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    It's Nothing To Brag About.

    Many years ago, in the early 1990's when I was newly divorced and had two tiny babies (now 19 and almost 18), I became very, very involved with a married man. He used to come see me at work on the regular and ended up moving me in to an apartment five minutes away from his office...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 73 Responses May 3, 2011

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    My ex and I dated for a while

    and I fell for him..hard! I know I loved him the whole time and he loved me to. He had plans to go into the navy and he broke up with be cuz he didnt want me to have to live my life worrying about him while he was gone and he didnt wanna risk me having to live without him if he...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F 1 Response May 27

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    Thank God for my children.

    If I didn't have them, I would never had pulled myself out of bed today. I just want to die right now.
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    One More Sad Song..

    So I fell in love and I fell hard.. It was going great and I was happy.. Until he confessed his marriage to me.. It's not like I meant to and I should've read the signs that kept appearing.. I got attention, but only at certain times.. I would be ignored sometimes when I...
    hostilegirlie hostilegirlie 18-21, F 28 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    Yes I Do, and It's Mutual

    I am in love with a MM. Have been for almost 5 years now. But our love story began years ago when we first laid eyes on each other at the tender age of 16.  Many long years into the present fate intervened, and we were reunited. I know with every fiber of my being that we have...
    KattG KattG 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    It was nice taking to you tonight.

    What you do for me is unexplainable... Thank you for being you.
    latenightsxo latenightsxo 26-30, F Jun 5

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    I Love A Married Man

    He is an amazing lover, friend and partner. I could never leave this man alone. I care about him with all my heart. I put his hapiness above mine. His needs first. I am in love with him. I love his body, his mind and his soul. We are connected in a way that cannot be explained...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Will I ever stop grieving?

    Has been a month since mm ended things with me and it still pains me that he will never stroke my hair again, never hold me in his arms again & never kiss my lips again. I see him everyday at work & someone whom I was so close to is like a stranger now. How do I get rid of...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 20

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    I had a huge fight with the mm yesterday.

    He has ended things one month ago and I was feeling so emotional yesterday. Texted him and he ignored me and that escalated into a row. I'm hurting badly and he said he has moved on and don't feel a thing. My heart broke into a million pieces. I haven't even able to eat or sleep...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am feeling so down,

    still so hung up over my mm after he ended things a month ago. Today I had to go to his desk to ask him some work stuff and accidentally saw his text messages with his wife. They were sharing a little joke and seem so happy. My heart broke into a million pieces. I hate being the...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    You Know What You're In For?

    To all ladies who have found themselves in this situation: You may have fallen in love with a married man. But please don't be fooled. You are going to get hurt. I know you don't want to believe me but deep inside you know its true. He will say sweet things and even show love...
    sheekchic sheekchic 31-35 11 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    i met my MM at a work confrence

    and we hit it off straight away we talked about his life and mine and we swaped numbers but i didnt get round to calling and neither did he. a year later we met again at a weekend confrence and again talked like we had had known each oher for years and talked into the early...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I Loved A Married Man

    7 passionate years, a million empty promises and shame is what I got from loving a married man. My story is true and goes back 20 years. I met a man who was a banquet manager at a upscale hotel. I was a waitress/bartender. Our age difference was 26 years and I guess I thought I...
    anmllvr anmllvr 46-50, F 9 Responses Dec 1, 2009

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