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I Love a Married Man

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    I am crazy about a guy.

    He's sooo handsome, charming, and gives me butterflies. The problem? He's not mine and never will be. We talk. We flirt. We see each other occasionally in passing. I wish I was his lover but I know it will never be. Why am I attracted to the men I can't have? Ugh
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 31

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    Am I going crazy? Lately I'm starting to have

    anxiety attacks when I think of facing him at work. I have been emotional and losing my temper at him at work ever since he ended things with me and went back to his wife. So I have been trying to curb my emotions. And then I started having anxiety attacks as I don't know how...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 28

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    He is my best friends partner have known them

    for years our children have grown up together. They know me inside out. I went through a really bad split with my ex. He came onto me first but I refused but a month later he tried again and I am sorry to say but I couldn't resist the things he said the way he made me feel...
    lolita3121 lolita3121 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 6

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    I met him online through his wife.

    His wife and I were friends first...He introduced himself to me and we became friends- no funny business! She knew we talked and that made it seem extra okay, that she knew, that she approved. Safe. Safe is the word I'm looking for , we were all friends now after all.. but he...
    bagel54 bagel54 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    Not only do I love one married man,

    I'm in love with two and having very deep feelings for a third. I just need to find a man who is single and wants to be with me for me. But it's hard not to love each of these men.
    SingleIn2014 SingleIn2014 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 3

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    Well, I am in love with a married man.

    We are currently online only, but have been for 8 months. He wants to meet in person but I'm so hesitant. We have an amazing time talking; laughing, debating, arguing, kissing, making up; it's been incredible. He has begun to tell me he needs me and I'm his rock; that he loves...
    mrscalabash59 mrscalabash59 56-60, F 5 Responses Oct 29

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    Loving A Married Man

    To Whom It May Concern: Mine is a story told a thousand times before. I love a man who is married. He has been married for 20 years and has 3 children; aged 13 to 17. He is 49 and I am 43. I have never posted anything but since becoming involved with Gerry, I have felt, on some...
    Lanya Lanya 41-45, F 35 Responses Oct 25, 2009

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    HE'S Married

    Four years ago I met the man whom I am involved with now we were initially friends then it progressed he never mentioned that he was married until last March when I over heard him talking and he confessed he claims that his wife won't give him a divorce could this be...
    Braveheart4real Braveheart4real 31-35, F 10 Responses May 11, 2008

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    kerendion kerendion 26-30, F Nov 4

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    So I lost my cool with him at work.

    Shouted at him over some work issue and shocked all my colleagues. Sometimes I feel extreme sadness and other times, extreme anger with him. I'm not sure if this is my mind's way of coping with the hurt after he dumped me twice. I experience extreme mood swings and I'm so scared...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    I was having an affair with a married man

    since September. I went into it for a physical needs type if thing, but it quickly deepened. He was the one who initiated the deeper relationship. I have spent the last ten months in heaven. I have been divorced many years and finally fell in love again. I heard the same thing...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    Never Saw It Coming

    Boy I used to judge people who had affairs and thought they were evil. Well I have a totally different opinion now that it happened (yes it happened) to me. My relationship with MM started so innocently on my part. I NEVER thought of him in a sexual way. I think he was...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 12 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    Heartbroken In Letting Go

    I ought to know better!!! Just what the devil is wrong with me?? Yes I'm letting go of him... He's destructive, I'm unhappy, we shouldn't be but I love him. I love every little thing about him. I love his cute smile, his magical eyes, and the sound of his voice. I love his...
    MajesticLady MajesticLady 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I Loved A Married Man

    7 passionate years, a million empty promises and shame is what I got from loving a married man. My story is true and goes back 20 years. I met a man who was a banquet manager at a upscale hotel. I was a waitress/bartender. Our age difference was 26 years and I guess I thought I...
    anmllvr anmllvr 46-50, F 9 Responses Dec 1, 2009

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    I finally felt the grief has lifted from my

    heart though I still haven't gotten over the mm. For the past few weeks I was able to laugh and joke with him like how we used to before we started the affair. I was so heartbroken after we ended 2 months ago. Couldn't eat or sleep while life goes on for him. I decided to move...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    One Of The Many Reasons Why..."i Love A Married Man"

    This is our recent text. After 3 years, it just keeps getting better! MM: I am so excited to see you. And I don't just mean excited to see you, but excited to see you. I want to kiss your whole face forever before I kiss anything else. I want to put my hands through your...
    aod7909 aod7909 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    Married Boyfriend

    I was pursued by a friend who is married. We started seeing each other and are now in love. It's been 6 months. He says he will leave his wife. I gave him until October to figure it out but that I couldn't continue with him after then. I need to move on and if he stays, he...
    iamthewalrus6 iamthewalrus6 36-40, F 19 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    Wives don't hate the "other woman"

    because their necessarily jealous, they hate them bc they are slutty ******* that have no respect for love, family, commitment and are helping drag other woman down. Aiding in children being from broken homes, marriage being torn apart due to a strangers selfishness. I'm not...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    Yes I Do, and It's Mutual

    I am in love with a MM. Have been for almost 5 years now. But our love story began years ago when we first laid eyes on each other at the tender age of 16.  Many long years into the present fate intervened, and we were reunited. I know with every fiber of my being that we have...
    KattG KattG 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    One More Sad Song..

    So I fell in love and I fell hard.. It was going great and I was happy.. Until he confessed his marriage to me.. It's not like I meant to and I should've read the signs that kept appearing.. I got attention, but only at certain times.. I would be ignored sometimes when I...
    hostilegirlie hostilegirlie 18-21, F 27 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    Too Good!

    I love him.  He loves me.  The sexual chemistry between us is mind-blowing.  After 2 years, we act as if each time was the first time.  We both agree we can never get enough of each other.  We can spend hours, days in bed.  Our home life situations allow us the ability...
    aod7909 aod7909 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2011

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    I love my MM dearly. After 2 years,

    I ended it because I wanted more than the leftovers, and because I wanted to matter. The months of friendship nearly killed me. I spent most of those months hoping we would get back together. Well, we did, and, we hit the ground running in January. Everything had been amazing...
    purpledog25 purpledog25 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    lisapaige93 lisapaige93 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 19

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    I Am Having An Affair With My First True Love

    OK - here's my story. My husband dumped me over the phone after a 7 year relationship, married for 3 and a half years. He was 11 years my junior and I supported him in his aspiration to become a commercial pilot - he ended up costing me over $35,000. He left me for some chick he...
    firsttruelove firsttruelove 41-45, F 20 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    I just want you to want me like I do you.

    I think I could truly love you.
    AllMyLoveExists AllMyLoveExists 36-40 1 Response Nov 3

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    Why do mean throw us just enough line to hang

    on, and then they are the ones who push us away to drown. I love my MM, but he is so hard to understand. He wants me, let's be friends, he wants me, dirty texting for hours, let's be friends, he wants me. It's like a roller coaster, he's this way, then that, then back again...
    Blueeyes65 Blueeyes65 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    lisapaige93 lisapaige93 18-21, F 14 Responses 4 days ago

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    Has been more than 3 weeks

    since it ended and I'm still an emotional wreck. I'm so sensitive to everything my MM does at work. When he avoids eye contact with me, when he cancels meetings with me etc. I feel so terrible today that I had an argument with him over work. Makes it even harder for me to face...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    My mm and I reconnected 10 years ago.

    We had met at work over 27 years ago, fell in love and had a relationship that lasted 2 years. I broke it off back then and he was sad but understanding that we both needed to attend to our own marriages. The years passed, I had children, moved around the country, dreamed sweet...
    bossmansgirl bossmansgirl 56-60 3 Responses Oct 15

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    I'm Married. He's Married.

    I've written my story and erased my story so many times. I'm not sure where to begin. I suppose I'll just start. I'm married, he's married, but we are not married to each other. We met when we were 15 yrs old and dated for a couple of months, if you could even call it dating. His...
    aod7909 aod7909 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    It's Nothing To Brag About.

    Many years ago, in the early 1990's when I was newly divorced and had two tiny babies (now 19 and almost 18), I became very, very involved with a married man. He used to come see me at work on the regular and ended up moving me in to an apartment five minutes away from his office...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 75 Responses May 3, 2011

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    I am feeling so down,

    still so hung up over my mm after he ended things a month ago. Today I had to go to his desk to ask him some work stuff and accidentally saw his text messages with his wife. They were sharing a little joke and seem so happy. My heart broke into a million pieces. I hate being the...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 24

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    Will I ever stop grieving?

    Has been a month since mm ended things with me and it still pains me that he will never stroke my hair again, never hold me in his arms again & never kiss my lips again. I see him everyday at work & someone whom I was so close to is like a stranger now. How do I get rid of...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 20

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    Recall my last post about how I think his

    feelings for me a disappearing, trust a woman's instinct. He said yesterday all these arguments I keep causing have really pushed him away. He doesn't know if things are fixable but when he thinks of me now all that comes to his head is stress I give him. This happened because...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 24

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    I just broke it off with my MM.

    ..I'm so sad. I love him so much.
    AnthroRiotGRRRL AnthroRiotGRRRL 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    My Married Friend With Extra's

    The man I at least have feelings for is the mechanic who services my car. My brother worked with him for a few years and he has become a family friend which makes all of this a bit harder as mum and dad and my brother are not completely aware of what is going on. It began last...
    shall13 shall13 36-40, F 12 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    Ladies Read

    First off, I'll say I am attracted to married men. A lot. There is no problem with it, I'm just letting you in on some insight if thats what you wanna call it? Well, I'm basically married, been living with the man for over three years (won't marry him because I'll lose my...
    LaceyXturrin LaceyXturrin 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Well my relationship started with the good ol

    Facebook. We went to school together in a small bayou town. Haven't seen or heard from him since finishing school. One day i was just scrolling on Facebook and i received a instant message. Just saying hi, how are you? We chatted briefly every now and then and one day he asked...
    hisbabydoll1215 hisbabydoll1215 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    A week ago, for the first time,

    he told me he loves me. How I have been waiting to hear that. How I thought I'd be over the moon. But instead all I can do is crying...
    asta20 asta20 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 17

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    We spending Thanksgiving together at my Uncles

    house I'm soo excited and happy!!
    got2bme44 got2bme44 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    This Is What I Have Never Wanted For My Life

    I always use to say, never ever fall in love with a married guy, they r just users, in short they r blood sucking leaches. But wow all those words, i have to eat them my self. I right now am madly in love with a married guy. we are in relation since last 2 years. it is a...
    iceheartblues iceheartblues 41-45, F 8 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    I Don'T Actually Love Him At All.

    I meet this guy name Nate, he was our car salesman. I was 17 at the time I met him. He was probably in his 30s. When my parents were negotiating a price with him for a car. I happened to glance by his computer and realized he was married. I found him attractive. during the time I...
    haley2323 haley2323 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    I still have feelings

    for a married man but i chose to love him from afar and just wait for the feelings to die down. Will it ever die???
    Annwithlove Annwithlove 26-30, F 9 Responses May 27

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    I am very much in love with a married man.

    His name is Frank and we have been married several years. We now have five kids together. Our twins were born in October. We are very happy as a family. There is nothing we would not do for each other and our kids.
    momfromvirginia momfromvirginia 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I have been involved with a married guy

    since the last 6 months. I have always managed to stay away from taken men. But failed this time. Innocent friendship of two workmates just grew into love and attraction that I could not resist at the time. Going through a break up with my ex boyfriend wasn’t easy and MM was...
    Lovelast Lovelast 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I Love A Married Man

    He is an amazing lover, friend and partner. I could never leave this man alone. I care about him with all my heart. I put his hapiness above mine. His needs first. I am in love with him. I love his body, his mind and his soul. We are connected in a way that cannot be explained...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    I had a huge fight with the mm yesterday.

    He has ended things one month ago and I was feeling so emotional yesterday. Texted him and he ignored me and that escalated into a row. I'm hurting badly and he said he has moved on and don't feel a thing. My heart broke into a million pieces. I haven't even able to eat or sleep...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    I have been coping well lately,

    been able to chat and joke with the mm for the first time since we ended 2 months ago. But I'm feeling down again today. He accidentally saw the web pages I have been browsing on my phone and they are all articles about overcoming the heartache of the end of an affair. Things...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Well hi I'm not sure how many people will read

    this but jut thought I would share. If you are in a relationship with a married man its probably a bad idea. It's taboo and against the bible and against good morals consciences and judgment. But in all honesty our eyes want what they see our emotions want what makes them happy...
    shayhenager shayhenager 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 29

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