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I Love a Married Man

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    Please try not to judge me too harshly.

    I already am mean enough to myself about this. I have been with my boyfriend for over four years now. We have a 3 year old daughter and I'm 8 months pregnant with our son. Now let me tell you my boyfriend and my relationship isn't very good, it went down hill when he cheated on...
    smallworld14 smallworld14 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    I finally felt the grief has lifted from my

    heart though I still haven't gotten over the mm. For the past few weeks I was able to laugh and joke with him like how we used to before we started the affair. I was so heartbroken after we ended 2 months ago. Couldn't eat or sleep while life goes on for him. I decided to move...
    Lina2702 Lina2702 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I love a married man

    and I'm not quite 18 yet. He loves me too and we've been together for about 2.5/3 years. And just to put some of your minds at ease, we've had no sexual experience because we agreed that it'd be best to wait and he was rather bothered by it not being legal or morally right...
    ImandaraDasa ImandaraDasa 26-30, F Nov 15, 2014

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    Why do mean throw us just enough line to hang

    on, and then they are the ones who push us away to drown. I love my MM, but he is so hard to understand. He wants me, let's be friends, he wants me, dirty texting for hours, let's be friends, he wants me. It's like a roller coaster, he's this way, then that, then back again...
    Blueeyes65 Blueeyes65 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2014

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    One More Sad Song..

    So I fell in love and I fell hard.. It was going great and I was happy.. Until he confessed his marriage to me.. It's not like I meant to and I should've read the signs that kept appearing.. I got attention, but only at certain times.. I would be ignored sometimes when I...
    hostilegirlie hostilegirlie 18-21, F 29 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 17

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    It's about the ego ladies I'm sorry

    if I add end some of yall cause yall might have a mans that going to leave his wife and love you but I knew I made all kinds of excuses to have my other woman knowing I wasn't leaving but I changed that faithful now to my I was a coward back then hurt woman and my wife but I no...
    robertl30 robertl30 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    I am very much in love with a married man.

    His name is Frank and we have been married several years. We now have five kids together. Our twins were born in October. We are very happy as a family. There is nothing we would not do for each other and our kids.
    momfromvirginia momfromvirginia 46-50, F Dec 6, 2014

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    Right now all I want to do is simply hold you

    close and make you feel how much I love you. To gently stroke your arm and tell you that you are safe with me. You know you are. You know me well. Yet you hide what's inside your mind. You hide your thoughts, problems and feelings inside. I am always blurring out what I feel and...
    justlovedhim justlovedhim 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I didn't know he was married,

    we shared a bond but now I am ready to let him go.
    jaianna jaianna 36-40 2 Responses Feb 22

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    You Know What You're In For?

    To all ladies who have found themselves in this situation: You may have fallen in love with a married man. But please don't be fooled. You are going to get hurt. I know you don't want to believe me but deep inside you know its true. He will say sweet things and even show love...
    sheekchic sheekchic 31-35 11 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    I still have feelings

    for a married man but i chose to love him from afar and just wait for the feelings to die down. Will it ever die???
    Annwithlove Annwithlove 31-35, F 8 Responses May 27, 2014

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    It's Nothing To Brag About.

    Many years ago, in the early 1990's when I was newly divorced and had two tiny babies (now 19 and almost 18), I became very, very involved with a married man. He used to come see me at work on the regular and ended up moving me in to an apartment five minutes away from his office...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 71 Responses May 3, 2011

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    My MM is very unhappy in his marriage.

    She had cheated on him 7 times before we met. It was a random meeting and we fought the connection for awhile. But it was too strong to fight. He i saving money to leave. He is stalling bc she doesn't work. They have one daughter who he wants custody of bc his wife drinks way...
    kelle72 kelle72 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 15

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    I am in so much pain,

    I literally cannot function. I am in love with a married man. He is unhappy and his wife treats him really bad. I know this because we were all friends at one point. I can't seem to walk away but it is literally killing me. She threatens to tell the kids he doesn't love them and...
    Ttiffany330 Ttiffany330 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I masturb8 at work everyday.

    .it's so spontaneous and the chance of being caught makes it amazing..
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 12

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    I wanted to reply to somthing I posted here

    thanks for being understanding those of u who read my post and not hateful I made a lot of f &&&zed up decisions in my life I'm not proud of them but what makes me more humble is knowing I got a wife who forgave me and it is a process fighting temptation but I no now ex...
    robertl30 robertl30 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I Am Having An Affair With My First True Love

    OK - here's my story. My husband dumped me over the phone after a 7 year relationship, married for 3 and a half years. He was 11 years my junior and I supported him in his aspiration to become a commercial pilot - he ended up costing me over $35,000. He left me for some chick he...
    firsttruelove firsttruelove 41-45, F 20 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    its the truth if ur a hot married man it just

    turns me on I cnt help bt love it. I don't wanna break up a happy family. I just wanna have sex with u and feel naughty I did it before but not recently since I have my bf right now
    laverse laverse 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 18

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    Never Saw It Coming

    Boy I used to judge people who had affairs and thought they were evil. Well I have a totally different opinion now that it happened (yes it happened) to me. My relationship with MM started so innocently on my part. I NEVER thought of him in a sexual way. I think he was...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 12 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    minmin95 minmin95 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    He doesn't know what he's doing to me

    when he flirts and makes dirty jokes. The other day he was stretching bread dough (we work in a sub shop) and I came in and said, "I love watching you tug on it," because I'm dirty and gross. And he was like, "wanna tug on it for me?" So I went over to him and stroked it. He...
    Scal92 Scal92 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    I too love a married man; he doesn't feel the

    same as I.25 yrs he finally let his hatred of me be known to the world. He moved to a different state ran away from me, left our 3 children.He started a Facebook and the nausea begins.Befriending of women he had cheated on me wit.Openly the affairs the disrespect he has yet to...
    bNangela4u bNangela4u 41-45, F Mar 11

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    Not only is he married,

    he was my teacher. My love for him is very complicated, seeing as it started out as a father daughter ish relationship but for me I think I actually started falling for him. Our relationship has changed so much, we don't have as much contact as we used to but I still dream about...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 15

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    I know it probably looks bad.

    A naive 17 year old girl who has strong feelings for a teacher that is 48 years old with a wife and two kids. I beat myself up about it all of the time, and I say to myself "Girl, he's old enough to be your father! His daughter is only 5 years younger than you." But he is...
    medicinedreams medicinedreams 16-17, F 3 Responses May 27

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    I was having an affair with a married man

    since September. I went into it for a physical needs type if thing, but it quickly deepened. He was the one who initiated the deeper relationship. I have spent the last ten months in heaven. I have been divorced many years and finally fell in love again. I heard the same thing...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    Hello to everybody who may read my story.

    I stumbled across this site by pure accident. Because I have been trying so hard to read other people's experiences (especially from the other women) on how they got through this. I am so very sad right now and as many of you know I can not talk to anybody. I don't want to...
    justlovedhim justlovedhim 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Yes I Do, and It's Mutual

    I am in love with a MM. Have been for almost 5 years now. But our love story began years ago when we first laid eyes on each other at the tender age of 16.  Many long years into the present fate intervened, and we were reunited. I know with every fiber of my being that we have...
    KattG KattG 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    It started when I was 17,

    and I got a job at a restaurant/bar as a hostess. He was a server, and from the very beginning, he flattered me with compliments and glances and too-long touches on the shoulder as we passed. He was attractive, charming, in the military, and had a ring adorning his finger on his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 10

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    I've been involved with a married man

    for 5 years. In the beginning, I tried to fight my feelings, as did he. Eventually we could not deny our feelings for each other and the relationship became physical. He has brought up the topic of us moving in together and making our relationship public several times. My...
    Quinnj504 Quinnj504 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    When ever I see him, I get butterflies.

    I smile like an idiot when we make eye contact then I look away because I can't take it. He asks me, "What was that face for?" I say, "What face? Shut up! You were the one making a weird face!" I laugh my *** off at his dumb jokes. Not because I'm just being nice, but because...
    Scal92 Scal92 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I Love A Married Man

    He is an amazing lover, friend and partner. I could never leave this man alone. I care about him with all my heart. I put his hapiness above mine. His needs first. I am in love with him. I love his body, his mind and his soul. We are connected in a way that cannot be explained...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bellecc11 bellecc11 26-30, F Jul 7

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    Married Boyfriend

    I was pursued by a friend who is married. We started seeing each other and are now in love. It's been 6 months. He says he will leave his wife. I gave him until October to figure it out but that I couldn't continue with him after then. I need to move on and if he stays, he...
    iamthewalrus6 iamthewalrus6 36-40, F 18 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    Loving A Married Man

    To Whom It May Concern: Mine is a story told a thousand times before. I love a man who is married. He has been married for 20 years and has 3 children; aged 13 to 17. He is 49 and I am 43. I have never posted anything but since becoming involved with Gerry, I have felt, on some...
    Lanya Lanya 41-45, F 34 Responses Oct 25, 2009

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    karlakutie karlakutie 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    This Is What I Have Never Wanted For My Life

    I always use to say, never ever fall in love with a married guy, they r just users, in short they r blood sucking leaches. But wow all those words, i have to eat them my self. I right now am madly in love with a married guy. we are in relation since last 2 years. it is a...
    iceheartblues iceheartblues 41-45, F 8 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    I am unhappily married.

    .. have been for five years. I got married at 18... been married for 6. My wife. heated on me in our first year of marriage... it was hard to get over... we tried to work it out... till now I'm over trying. I just want to have fun like she did years ago... I'm looking for someone...
    travis90 travis90 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I love him so much ,

    but I can't be this other woman . He brings the best in me, he knows how to make me smile . I love being around him, but the guilt was killing me . I cry every night, he tells me that I'm always on his mind , but if I was I would have been his wife . I often wonder how he acts...
    liveforever1 liveforever1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F Apr 21

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    amymayoral01 amymayoral01 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I know this looks really bad,

    but please don't judge me. I was 17 when I started working as a waitress in a restaurant in my hometown. One day, as I was about to leave work and enter my car, I met this dreamy looking guy, who was answering his phone outside the restaurant. I looked at him and he smiled at...
    ironwoman45 ironwoman45 26-30, F Aug 3

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    I never ever thought I would be in this

    situation. I never thought I'd be the other woman. I initially went into this very selfishly. I went looking for a married man so that it was a sure thing, he wouldn't get feelings for me and I could just get what I want and that would be it . I have not felt a thing for anyone...
    whoareyou208 whoareyou208 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    Wives don't hate the "other woman"

    because their necessarily jealous, they hate them bc they are slutty ******* that have no respect for love, family, commitment and are helping drag other woman down. Aiding in children being from broken homes, marriage being torn apart due to a strangers selfishness. I'm not...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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