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I Love a Married Man

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    I Can't Take the Jealousy

    My story begins with my hooking up with a married men six months ago.  Since then he and I talk frequently and we have talked about everything, nothing has been off limits for our conversations.  The only thing that I never told his was that I fell in love with him...
    ttreemurphy ttreemurphy 31-35, F 19 Responses Jun 1, 2008

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    I was having an affair with a married man

    since September. I went into it for a physical needs type if thing, but it quickly deepened. He was the one who initiated the deeper relationship. I have spent the last ten months in heaven. I have been divorced many years and finally fell in love again. I heard the same thing...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    A Bed Made Just For Cathy

    A Bed Made Just for Cathy The pillow that you made for me It was soft with feather down And the headboard, it came from an old house That was about to be torn down And the songs you always sang to me Oh wow to fall asleep Did they sound the same to her In the bed you made for me...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Oct 10, 2013

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    I love my MM dearly. After 2 years,

    I ended it because I wanted more than the leftovers, and because I wanted to matter. The months of friendship nearly killed me. I spent most of those months hoping we would get back together. Well, we did, and, we hit the ground running in January. Everything had been amazing...
    purpledog25 purpledog25 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    I Don'T Actually Love Him At All.

    I meet this guy name Nate, he was our car salesman. I was 17 at the time I met him. He was probably in his 30s. When my parents were negotiating a price with him for a car. I happened to glance by his computer and realized he was married. I found him attractive. during the time I...
    haley2323 haley2323 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    Married And In Love With A Married Man Who No Longer Loves Me Back

    I have been in love with my married man for 10 long years. He wasn't married when we met but I was in a relationship. I am so ashamed to admit it but we had an affair and it was the most wonderful, liberating, intense time of my life. He showed me the world. Wrote me love...
    LifeIsSoConfusing LifeIsSoConfusing 31-35 5 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    Yes I Do, and It's Mutual

    I am in love with a MM. Have been for almost 5 years now. But our love story began years ago when we first laid eyes on each other at the tender age of 16.  Many long years into the present fate intervened, and we were reunited. I know with every fiber of my being that we have...
    KattG KattG 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    I Need Help!!!

    There's the guy and oh course he's married. I love him and I know there's something special between us, I can feel it. But since he's married I've been trying to let go of him. The only thing is, is he keeps charming his way back to my heart and it makes me fall harder for him. I...
    Tryin2BottleUpLightnin Tryin2BottleUpLightnin 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    After ending the relationship with my MM a few

    months back, we vowed to work on preserving our friendship. I also promised I would stand by him, and support him as best I could pursuing a career goal in the months ahead as we had always talked about. It wasn't the easiest by any means, but we were making slow progress. A...
    purpledog25 purpledog25 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    It was nice taking to you tonight.

    What you do for me is unexplainable... Thank you for being you.
    brianne1111 brianne1111 22-25, F Jun 5

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    One More Sad Song..

    So I fell in love and I fell hard.. It was going great and I was happy.. Until he confessed his marriage to me.. It's not like I meant to and I should've read the signs that kept appearing.. I got attention, but only at certain times.. I would be ignored sometimes when I...
    hostilegirlie hostilegirlie 18-21, F 28 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    One Of The Many Reasons Why..."i Love A Married Man"

    This is our recent text. After 3 years, it just keeps getting better! MM: I am so excited to see you. And I don't just mean excited to see you, but excited to see you. I want to kiss your whole face forever before I kiss anything else. I want to put my hands through your...
    aod7909 aod7909 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    I Am Having An Affair With My First True Love

    OK - here's my story. My husband dumped me over the phone after a 7 year relationship, married for 3 and a half years. He was 11 years my junior and I supported him in his aspiration to become a commercial pilot - he ended up costing me over $35,000. He left me for some chick he...
    firsttruelove firsttruelove 41-45, F 20 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    A long time ago, I was visited in the early

    morning hours by a very drunk friend. I've always had a kind of crush on him, but he's married. That day he started talking bout how he was lonely and felt alone. Time went by and I had to hug him. After that he complimented me on how I smelled and later asked me to kiss him. I...
    Macsen0 Macsen0 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 6

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    My Married Friend With Extra's

    The man I at least have feelings for is the mechanic who services my car. My brother worked with him for a few years and he has become a family friend which makes all of this a bit harder as mum and dad and my brother are not completely aware of what is going on. It began last...
    shall13 shall13 36-40, F 12 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    I Loved A Married Man

    7 passionate years, a million empty promises and shame is what I got from loving a married man. My story is true and goes back 20 years. I met a man who was a banquet manager at a upscale hotel. I was a waitress/bartender. Our age difference was 26 years and I guess I thought I...
    anmllvr anmllvr 46-50, F 9 Responses Dec 1, 2009

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    How Could It Be?

    Well I did what I said I would NEVER do. Yep, you guessed it. I became involved with a married man. It's so crazy because upon initially meeting him in June 2012, I had no idea he was married. He flirted a little bit but I brushed it off. Second meeting, there was something...
    dazedandconfused29 dazedandconfused29 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2013

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    Wives don't hate the "other woman"

    because their necessarily jealous, they hate them bc they are slutty ******* that have no respect for love, family, commitment and are helping drag other woman down. Aiding in children being from broken homes, marriage being torn apart due to a strangers selfishness. I'm not...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    Ladies Read

    First off, I'll say I am attracted to married men. A lot. There is no problem with it, I'm just letting you in on some insight if thats what you wanna call it? Well, I'm basically married, been living with the man for over three years (won't marry him because I'll lose my...
    LaceyXturrin LaceyXturrin 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    I still have feelings

    for a married man but i chose to love him from afar and just wait for the feelings to die down. Will it ever die???
    Annwithlove Annwithlove 26-30, F 9 Responses May 27

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    One day, whether you are 17 34 or 65 you will

    stumble upon someone who will start a fire in you that cannot die. However, the saddest most awful truth you will ever come to find - is that they are not always with whom we spend our lives.
    JaneBloodyAusten JaneBloodyAusten 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    i met my MM at a work confrence

    and we hit it off straight away we talked about his life and mine and we swaped numbers but i didnt get round to calling and neither did he. a year later we met again at a weekend confrence and again talked like we had had known each oher for years and talked into the early...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 23

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    There Can Be A Happily Ever After For An Affair

    Doug’s Happily Ever After “I want the fairytale.” - Julia Roberts as Vivian in Pretty Woman I interviewed Doug because it was imperative that his story be prominently depicted in this book. As committed as these types of relationships can be, it is infrequent that an...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Sep 15, 2013

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    Never Saw It Coming

    Boy I used to judge people who had affairs and thought they were evil. Well I have a totally different opinion now that it happened (yes it happened) to me. My relationship with MM started so innocently on my part. I NEVER thought of him in a sexual way. I think he was...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 12 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    Sad Or Glad? But Miss Him...

    I was married 4, 22 yrs. Then my husband fell 4 sumone at his job.one time was all it took 4 me and I filed for a divorce. P. Worked where I worked didn't really know him, our comany facilities merged. He was not my type, never gave him a second look. But started to ask me out...
    Waspaulies Waspaulies 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2013

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    Could'nt Help But Fall Inlove...What Now?

    My story is typical. My boyfriend of 10 + years had left me and I had just been trying to move on. Part of the process involved moving into a new company. In doing so, I met MM. He was older, more mature, very charming and shared a lot of things about our work. We shared a lot of...
    coldandlost coldandlost 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2013

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    Loving A Married Man

    To Whom It May Concern: Mine is a story told a thousand times before. I love a man who is married. He has been married for 20 years and has 3 children; aged 13 to 17. He is 49 and I am 43. I have never posted anything but since becoming involved with Gerry, I have felt, on some...
    Lanya Lanya 41-45, F 34 Responses Oct 25, 2009

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    Love of My Life-her Husband-leaving Her For Me

    T he more I read everyone else's stories, the more I feel the need to share mine. While it is some much like all the others, there is a twist.   I met this man, 13 years my senior, when I started a new job last January where he was my boss. I was in a relationship at the...
    lilyfly7777 lilyfly7777 22-25 8 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    In Love With A Married Irishman

    I am in love with a married Irishman. He is seven years older than me. Very successful and handsome and father of four kids. He and I met at a company event and ended up kissing . He and I now live in different countries and yet we are in touch with each other through the...
    msdoomed msdoomed 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2013

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    I'm Not Even In Love.

    I had a crush on this boy for 8 whole years. I met him in the fourth grade when my teacher told me to go get a drink at the water fountain. I went, and when I turned my head back from drinking water, I noticed this boy. Pale skin and dark hair. I shrugged him off because I was...
    drivemysoul drivemysoul 18-21 1 Response Aug 9, 2013

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    I'm married, ( been sexless marriage

    since 2006), but live and work hours from my family, met a married man who is in the same situation, started out as fwb's , but it has grown into more....... We have fun. And he's given me back my confidence, and I'm not ready to give him up... It's been almost a year...
    fnpbcbw fnpbcbw 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    When A Married Man Fall For You!

    I was never going to believe until I went out with him for the first time together. Even though we work together, we talk and sometimes we see each other...I have no feelings for him at all. When we went to one of the park and begin to talk about work, family, sex, relationship...
    AnnaBellaRockz AnnaBellaRockz 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2011

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    I Thought It Was Safe

    I am involved with a married man that his sister introduced us. she told me all bout him and his wife not sleeping in same room and all.I thought this could be a very safe. we could have our fun and he could leave and i could do what i want. Man was i wrong. This man has...
    zandersgamny zandersgamny 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    Thank God for my children.

    If I didn't have them, I would never had pulled myself out of bed today. I just want to die right now.
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I think it's like playing with fire

    or gambling. If you don't take a risk you will never know. If you do be prepared for some consequences. In the end it could be amazing or end up bad but always know the risks. I think if you can get away with it then go for it and enjoy it. I think it's a hot fantasy to have a...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    In Love With A Married Man...but I Think It's Ok...maybe

    I have known my MM for about 4 years now, but we didn't start really hanging out until about a year and a half ago. I originally liked that he could keep up when I talked **** to him. I like a good verbal sparring, and he actually "beat" me more often than I did him. We started...
    bennettl bennettl 26-30, F 4 Responses May 29, 2011

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    Loving A Married Man Is The Worse Thing

    I meet my mm last year .. We live in different country's he lives in uk and me Sweden .. Since day one we chat everyday and Skype .he was there for me when I needed him he always made me fill so happy . We have same friends here where I live ... After 4 months my friends...
    titi80 titi80 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2013

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    My ex and I dated for a while

    and I fell for him..hard! I know I loved him the whole time and he loved me to. He had plans to go into the navy and he broke up with be cuz he didnt want me to have to live my life worrying about him while he was gone and he didnt wanna risk me having to live without him if he...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F 1 Response May 27

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    HE'S Married

    Four years ago I met the man whom I am involved with now we were initially friends then it progressed he never mentioned that he was married until last March when I over heard him talking and he confessed he claims that his wife won't give him a divorce could this be...
    Braveheart4real Braveheart4real 31-35, F 10 Responses May 11, 2008

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    It's Nothing To Brag About.

    Many years ago, in the early 1990's when I was newly divorced and had two tiny babies (now 19 and almost 18), I became very, very involved with a married man. He used to come see me at work on the regular and ended up moving me in to an apartment five minutes away from his office...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 73 Responses May 3, 2011

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    And Enjoyable, Stressful, Happy Mess.

    These last six months I have gained a great deal of insight about myself. Some of it good, most of it not. He's married, I am engaged. I love my fiancé but I have also fallen for Mr *. In lust or in love - I am not quite sure. But I do plan on seeing it though to find out. He...
    Luckymiss3 Luckymiss3 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    This Is What I Have Never Wanted For My Life

    I always use to say, never ever fall in love with a married guy, they r just users, in short they r blood sucking leaches. But wow all those words, i have to eat them my self. I right now am madly in love with a married guy. we are in relation since last 2 years. it is a...
    iceheartblues iceheartblues 41-45, F 8 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    How The Tables Have Turned...

    I've been cheated on. I know how terrible it feels to have the person you love put their energy into someone else. I swore to myself I was never going to the "the other woman" in any situation. I swore I'd never put another woman through what I went through. Yet somehow, here I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    I Am So Happy In My Relationship With A Married Man

    The title of my story is diametrically opposed to most stories/experiences the women who love married men have.  I have been there though.  What has changed for me is my own personal need to be "the one" he is married to. We first met each other from an on-line adult site...
    mcgeckogirl mcgeckogirl 56-60, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    My Birthday

    today i turned to 24 years old. 7 years a go i met you when i was so innocent. i never imagined i would reach the situation i had now. I m lonely, i need you to be my side. But i still could not make you be mine. This relation i don;t know how u call it. I know you would never be...
    angelamaxy angelamaxy 22-25 2 Responses Aug 3, 2013

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    What Happens When When He Is Sick?

    My best friend and MM is in the hospital. When he didn't call or text I checked the local ones and found him there. I don't know what happened or if he is even expected to live, and worse, there is no way I can find out. I am not family. I am not his wife. We have no friends...
    youngestgirl youngestgirl 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2013

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    I Love A Married Man

    He is an amazing lover, friend and partner. I could never leave this man alone. I care about him with all my heart. I put his hapiness above mine. His needs first. I am in love with him. I love his body, his mind and his soul. We are connected in a way that cannot be explained...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Married Boyfriend

    I was pursued by a friend who is married. We started seeing each other and are now in love. It's been 6 months. He says he will leave his wife. I gave him until October to figure it out but that I couldn't continue with him after then. I need to move on and if he stays, he...
    iamthewalrus6 iamthewalrus6 36-40, F 19 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    You Know What You're In For?

    To all ladies who have found themselves in this situation: You may have fallen in love with a married man. But please don't be fooled. You are going to get hurt. I know you don't want to believe me but deep inside you know its true. He will say sweet things and even show love...
    sheekchic sheekchic 31-35 11 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    I'm Married. He's Married.

    I've written my story and erased my story so many times. I'm not sure where to begin. I suppose I'll just start. I'm married, he's married, but we are not married to each other. We met when we were 15 yrs old and dated for a couple of months, if you could even call it dating. His...
    aod7909 aod7909 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    What Would You Want?

    I want to hear from the wives or husbands who are or think they are being cheated on. Suppose your spouse has been searching online for several years for someone because they feel they are not getting everything they want or need out of an otherwise satisfactory marriage. They...
    Crazy4Rn Crazy4Rn 41-45, F 7 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Heartbroken In Letting Go

    I ought to know better!!! Just what the devil is wrong with me?? Yes I'm letting go of him... He's destructive, I'm unhappy, we shouldn't be but I love him. I love every little thing about him. I love his cute smile, his magical eyes, and the sound of his voice. I love his...
    MajesticLady MajesticLady 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    This is a long story so please bear with me if you can. I met a man back in 2008 through his sister who was a good friend of mine at the time. I knew he was married from the start...
    plmagnet29 plmagnet29 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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