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I Love Aggressive Men

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    Well I sometimes think I do -

    but I also realize this has been an issue for me. That is being attracted to aggressive men. This weekend we went out to a club Saturday night. Had a fun time but for some reason got into a heated argument on the way home. It got out of hand. I was dramatic and packed a bag to...
    Skylalast Skylalast 36-40, F May 26

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    Aggressive Guys.

    I love dominate/aggressive guys. I want a guy to tie me to a bed and have his way with me! I love being punished by a sexy guy! Pull my hair and bite me…please make me scream with lust. Pound into me…. Talk dirty to me and tell me how wet I am. Make me scream your name while...
    Norra Norra 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Just So Fun !!!!

    the more aggressive the better . I want someone whos gonna tell me when im acting like a ***** and tell me to simmer myself down . I love it when guys are aggressive in bed and toss me around a lil bit . i may only be  4' 10 under 100 lbs but that doesnt mean im fragile . I...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2008

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    This has nothing to do with BDSM

    or an abusive man, but honestly, aggressive men are the sexiest men. There's nothing more reassuring than having a man who knows what he wants and is determined to work for it.
    beesboo beesboo 18-21, F Apr 18

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    Drives Me Wild

    I don't know why but theres something so sexy about an aggressive man, a manly man, a man with strength and passion. I find my husband at his sexiest when we are mid argument and he's shouting at me, I have often just grabbed him and dragged him to the bedroom....our argument...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    Aggressive to a certian ext...

    Aggressive to a certian extent i guess they could also be called driven, they know what they want and what it will take to get it. It is a very attractive trait in a man it seems to run hand in hand with confidence as well.
    wallflower20 wallflower20 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    A Real Man?

    The guy who I'm dating started out looking like a 'real man' -  he's got muscle, he's great at sports, etc. But aggressive? No! He finds my aggressiveness attractive -- and he expects me to do EVERYTHING - and I feel like he's comparing me with his mother. Grow up!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 23, 2008

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    Well Yes

    ............but only in the bedroom   heehee
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    In the bed room... Seriously what girl wouldn't

    want her man to have control over her!! Neck grabbing *** slapping and lip biting buuuuut If it's not in the bed room then the aggressiveness is pretty annoying.. It's always a catch lol..
    zy7a zy7a 18-21, F 2 Responses May 26

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    Aggressive

    I do like a aggressive men to a point. I like a man to come on strong but I don't like it when he is pushing his self on me when I said no. Plus, I am not very fond of men getting pissed off at me because I will not do what they want. To bad!  
    123ct 123ct 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2008

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    I Want Aggressive

    Yes i'll admit it, i am an aggressive woman. An only child, i get what i want, when i want it, and my way is the right way.  But just once I'd like a man who makes sure to get what he wants, who takes control and leads the way.  Both in bed and in the relationship the...
    b1ackfire b1ackfire 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2010

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    The Only Time I Really Enjo...

    The only time I really enjoy an aggressive man is in the bedroom.
    keyna keyna 36-40, F Apr 25, 2008

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    bellax0 bellax0 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 9

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    Even Me Out

    I think that one of the reasons why I am into Aggressive men is that I myself am not aggressive. I have the tendancy to let people get their way and I just hang back on the edges, hardly even speaking up at all. Aggressive men somehow turn me on. I like their fire and I love...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 11, 2012

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    My Friend And I Decided To Compete For Supreme Manliness...!

    My friend Luis and I - two amateur YouTubers - compete for supreme manliness... to be kind of like the Old Spice guy. And we captured it on camera:
    BrentBlogs BrentBlogs 26-30, M Sep 7, 2013

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    Aggressiveness Not Assholism

    I like a man who is aggressive in his pursuits. A man who knows what he wants, carefully and meticulously plans out his way to get it and goes after it.I never cared for men who practice the idiot arts of assholism.  Those are arrogant men who are too self-assured and think...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    Ooh Yes!

    None of these wimpy guys asking if this is ok or can they do that to me, just do it, as nike says!
    KellyJ KellyJ 26-30, F 5 Responses May 15, 2007

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    Not In General....

    I dont like angry or scary men, for obvious reasons (theyre angry and scary....)   but I love it when someone I know and trust is aggressive with me in bed.... when it feels right for both of us..... i love it when a guy is violent with me, slaps me, throws me around, pins...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2008

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    Men who aren't afraid to yell at you

    when you need it or put you in your place get mad love from me 😘
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    I don't think that aggressive is going to make

    you atractive or better,oryou are going to have more flirts,one thing i'm sure if you are aggressive i'm going to be also aggressive with you,and start a quarrel,which is not good for me,i prefere peace,anyway everyone have their own taste.
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Mar 17

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    Aggresive Men

    i love aggresive men that turns me on plus im aggresive were i live i cant find any does anybody know were i can find an aggresive man at i would like to meet some
    mami2sexii mami2sexii 22-25 1 Response Feb 6, 2013

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    Cause I Am One

    You women know that you love us You want men to treat you like women should be treated
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 17, 2007

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    SassySammy SassySammy 18-21, F Mar 16

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    I'm always horny and I love to have sex, especially with older men. There's just something about them that's so... addictive? haha probably not the word to describe it but I always...
    natalielan506 natalielan506 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 20

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    I have dated all races but I must admit that my longest relationships have been with white men. I have always had a curious mind and would be the one listening to Jodeci one minute...
    minablaze minablaze 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    My last 3 relationships were with bigger men. I'm not overweight but I am full bodied and I like to date men that are bigger than me. In my experience chubby guys have a great...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    The only men I've had crushes on are men that are like 15 years older than me.
    elanordee elanordee 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    As a fellow white person I say thank you to everyone who finds white men attractive. If anyone wants to chat send me a message,I love talking to new people :)
    Jasondan09 Jasondan09 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I would love to meet a black girl who liked white men. Especially if she is submissive and kinky
    kb7687 kb7687 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I'm looking for a younger women that likes older men. I have always been attracted to younger women and it's only gotten stronger over the years. I'm open minded, non-judgemental...
    Jaraky Jaraky 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    Yeah, white men are pretty much my preference. I can't help what I am attracted to. I want to state this on dating sites without sounding like a racist. Plus, I just feel like I...
    NeelraDorianGray NeelraDorianGray 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 23

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    I like people of most races. I like White men with dark eyes and light hair and a bit of rhythm. The few white guys I have dated, I met dancing .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    I don't know what it is, I just find them so attractive, so much more attractive than white boys, black men just do something for me and I don't know why. plus the stereotype seems...
    SarahMom1978 SarahMom1978 36-40, F 14 Responses Sep 6

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    I've always been attracted to older men, even when i was a child. When I was very young my mother said there was this firefighter who came to our apt to check the smoke/alarm...
    suxsco suxsco 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I forgot to mentioned, I'm 4'10" & chubby. My roommate is sooo tall, very likeable and has piercing sparkling blue eyes!
    DiscoNight1970s DiscoNight1970s 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    enriqueclasico enriqueclasico 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I think a real man fights for what he loves. He will rise up against his fears and swallow his pride for the one he loves. I also think a real man is sweet, kind ,sensitive and...
    jonnyboy325685 jonnyboy325685 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    RP Only Im a c.ock addict I love sucking it licking it and being slapped with it hard. I love being slapped on my face t.itties, and ***. I love being spit on especially in my...
    SlutHaylee SlutHaylee 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Would love to relive my youthful love life, but to do that I need a young woman to give herself to me completely
    Bari43 Bari43 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    I kinda like this experience lol but yes I love me some chocolate love 😉.
    COD101 COD101 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I have always loved younger girls and it used to work out pretty well for me now I have been alone for so long that I don't know what to think anymore. I would love to meet a...
    lustinme lustinme 46-50, M Sep 9

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    I love everything about younger girls from their energy, charm and of course their looks. Even though i'm an older man now, I find that i'm lusting after them more then ever and...
    Jaraky Jaraky 51-55, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love being the size that I am. Weighing in at 435 pounds is one of the best feelings I've ever had. Of course I hope to one day double that weight with the help of a loved woman...
    goofyg54 goofyg54 18-21, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I don't know what it is but I have always been strongly attracted to Hispanic guys. Especially Ricans love em....I have mostly only dated Hispanics and when they start speaking in...
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