I Love Aggressive Men

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 405 People

    Aggressiveness Not Assholism

    I like a man who is aggressive in his pursuits. A man who knows what he wants, carefully and meticulously plans out his way to get it and goes after it.I never cared for men who practice the idiot arts of assholism.  Those are arrogant men who are too self-assured and think...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2012
    SassySammy SassySammy
    22-25, F
    Mar 16, 2014

    This has nothing to do with BDSM

    or an abusive man, but honestly, aggressive men are the sexiest men. There's nothing more reassuring than having a man who knows what he wants and is determined to work for it.
    beesboo beesboo
    22-25, F
    Apr 18, 2014

    Even Me Out

    I think that one of the reasons why I am into Aggressive men is that I myself am not aggressive. I have the tendancy to let people get their way and I just hang back on the edges, hardly even speaking up at all. Aggressive men somehow turn me on. I like their fire and I love...
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    Jul 11, 2012

    Not In General....

    I dont like angry or scary men, for obvious reasons (theyre angry and scary....)   but I love it when someone I know and trust is aggressive with me in bed.... when it feels right for both of us..... i love it when a guy is violent with me, slaps me, throws me around, pins...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2008

    "These ************* are thinking im playing,

    thinking im saying this **** cuz im thinking it just to be saying it" -Em
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    Dec 30, 2015
    Trapgodbella Trapgodbella
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 9, 2014
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    May 8, 2015

    Men who aren't afraid to yell at you

    when you need it or put you in your place get mad love from me 😘
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 4, 2014

    I Want Aggressive

    Yes i'll admit it, i am an aggressive woman. An only child, i get what i want, when i want it, and my way is the right way.  But just once I'd like a man who makes sure to get what he wants, who takes control and leads the way.  Both in bed and in the relationship the...
    b1ackfire b1ackfire
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 9, 2010

    A Real Man?

    The guy who I'm dating started out looking like a 'real man' -  he's got muscle, he's great at sports, etc. But aggressive? No! He finds my aggressiveness attractive -- and he expects me to do EVERYTHING - and I feel like he's comparing me with his mother. Grow up!!!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 23, 2008

    Well Yes

    ............but only in the bedroom   heehee
    deleted deleted
    11 Responses Apr 25, 2008

    Just So Fun !!!!

    the more aggressive the better . I want someone whos gonna tell me when im acting like a ***** and tell me to simmer myself down . I love it when guys are aggressive in bed and toss me around a lil bit . i may only be  4' 10 under 100 lbs but that doesnt mean im fragile . I...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2008

    Its funny I never realized just how much I love

    when a man is aggressive with me. I just got into it with a complete stranger. The name calling and degrading, the passion, and the anger! Wow! I never realized just how "stimulating" it is for me! lol
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    Jun 16, 2015


    I do like a aggressive men to a point. I like a man to come on strong but I don't like it when he is pushing his self on me when I said no. Plus, I am not very fond of men getting pissed off at me because I will not do what they want. To bad!  
    123ct 123ct
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2008

    Aggresive Men

    i love aggresive men that turns me on plus im aggresive were i live i cant find any does anybody know were i can find an aggresive man at i would like to meet some
    mami2sexii mami2sexii
    1 Response Feb 6, 2013

    Aggressive, older men is what attracts me.

    Letting a guy have his way and do anything to me with me is what I love
    deleted deleted
    May 27, 2015

    Aggressive to a certian ext...

    Aggressive to a certian extent i guess they could also be called driven, they know what they want and what it will take to get it. It is a very attractive trait in a man it seems to run hand in hand with confidence as well.
    wallflower20 wallflower20
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2008

    Ooh Yes!

    None of these wimpy guys asking if this is ok or can they do that to me, just do it, as nike says!
    KellyJ KellyJ
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 15, 2007

    Cause I Am One

    You women know that you love us You want men to treat you like women should be treated
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Dec 17, 2007

    In the bed room... Seriously what girl wouldn't

    want her man to have control over her!! Neck grabbing *** slapping and lip biting buuuuut If it's not in the bed room then the aggressiveness is pretty annoying.. It's always a catch lol..
    zy7a zy7a
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 26, 2014

    The Only Time I Really Enjo...

    The only time I really enjoy an aggressive man is in the bedroom.
    keyna keyna
    36-40, F
    Apr 25, 2008

    Well I sometimes think I do -

    but I also realize this has been an issue for me. That is being attracted to aggressive men. This weekend we went out to a club Saturday night. Had a fun time but for some reason got into a heated argument on the way home. It got out of hand. I was dramatic and packed a bag to...
    Skylalast Skylalast
    41-45, F
    May 26, 2014

    Aggressive Guys.

    I love dominate/aggressive guys. I want a guy to tie me to a bed and have his way with me! I love being punished by a sexy guy! Pull my hair and bite me…please make me scream with lust. Pound into me…. Talk dirty to me and tell me how wet I am. Make me scream your name while...
    Norra Norra
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2012
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