I Love Being Single

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 321 People

    I don't know why everybody these days is

    thinking about boys and sex and kids and marriage. There's still plenty of things I want to do before I tie the knot and have a family. I love being single. I'll get married and have kids in the future eventually. And if I grow old and live with 35 cats or in my case, dogs lol...
    DiamondInTheSkye DiamondInTheSkye
    18-21, F
    Jun 29, 2014

    Where Can You Go Wrong?

    Being single is the best way you can be! You have all the freedom in the World without having to constantly be asked," Who are you with?". You don't have to put up with someone else's jealousy or have to constantly worry about being cheated on or let down by someone you love and...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2012

    I've been single since the day I was born.

    I am totally ok with it :). I've been on dates, I've just never felt the chemistry. I guess that fate makes me single because all of the people I attract aren't looking for commitment or they just want to hook up. I have broken down crying once because I know that the people who...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 25, 2015

    Even though I love being single,

    I miss the cuddle of a beautiful,smart,funny,interesting girl. Am picky and I know,but I would never dumb down my standards for the experience. I have experienced life that,I would rather be single,chase my dreams and make beautiful memories with awesome friends,than have a...
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    1 Response Jul 3, 2014

    I wish people would stop labeling being single

    the worst thing in the world. There are a lot of things that are way more worse than being single. A lot of people are not mentally ready for a relationship. If they're not happy being single, they'll never be happy in a relationship. If you ever hear people say they hate the...
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    1 Response Mar 27, 2015

    I love the freedom to do what the hell I wanna

    do. My friend wanted to buy blinds for her bedroom she asked on facebook for them then few minutes later said sorry my partner won't let me he says we need curtains anyone got curtains for sale? Another person was going to buy a kitten from me but then said she wasn't allowed...
    uncontrollabledesire88 uncontrollabledesire88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    Ok so a person on here messages me he says hi

    it must be hard being a single mum when I tell himto **** off he replies your the one who is shagging 3 different men you may die a horrific death after getting aids.. I am not shagging 3 men and if you have such a low opinion of me why the hell you messaging me in the...
    uncontrollabledesire88 uncontrollabledesire88
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2015

    I'm loving it. No text messages to return,

    late night phone calls before exam day, trying to figure out if we should do "it"...just me, myself, and I. Honestly, I could never imagine being in a relationship. I love my freedom too much.
    AsianGirlSwimmer AsianGirlSwimmer
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 26, 2015

    Lovin' It

    No commitments. No expectations. I'm freeeee.
    YtilaerEpacse YtilaerEpacse
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2012
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109
    16-17, M
    Jun 16, 2014

    It was all good being in a relationship.

    But I love enjoying my clear mind.
    lyricrob1 lyricrob1
    18-21, F
    Jan 12, 2016

    I will live my life to the fullest!

    No drama. Single and FUNNN ;)
    Sen22 Sen22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2016

    I want to build life

    for myself and after settling down and have everything in place the way I want it then maybe I would consider getting one
    Amacey Amacey
    18-21, F
    May 13, 2015

    I get to do what I want to do!

    ! Hit me up if you want to chat!
    bigbootyblondie bigbootyblondie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

    I'm not desperate for a relationship like

    everyone else is nowadays.
    deleted deleted
    May 7, 2015

    It's fine, as long as there's my bed,

    food, and Wi-Fi. I'm good.
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone
    16-17, F
    Jan 9, 2015

    Why Or How Are You Still Single?

    A 27 year old who is still single..why??Men always ask me that as if being single is the same as being unemployed and I must be searching for a partner..when in reality, it's how I prefer it. I Married young at 19. We had a decent marriage, but we both had curriousities and it...
    JezBelle JezBelle
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2013

    Nowadays, everyone has trust issues with the

    opposite gender. Guys think all women are total ******* and only want guys who treat them like crap. Women prove that then whine about not finding a good guy. Then when a nice guy comes along, they're looked at as creeps. I advice everyone just to stay single until your very...
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    Oct 25, 2015

    It's so ****** up that singles are looked down

    upon all because being single isn't considered "normal." We are considered as lonely and depressed. I call that bullshit. How can you be lonely and depressed if you're not in a relationship? That, I'll never understand. People will pressure you to be in a relationship because...
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    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    Sweet Freedom

    I have been single for just over a month, out of a serious long term relationship. I moved back in with my mom at 26. You think that would bring you down, but Im feeling better than ever. Last night I gave his rings back and my things were returned. Luckily, I was sleeping when...
    tmarker86 tmarker86
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2012

    I just love being by myself.

    I have time to think. My friends keep trying to hook me up with thier friends. I hate it though. I love being able to have peace and quiet in my life. I love the calmness of being single. I only have to worry about myself and enjoying life by myself.
    sfdrboy sfdrboy
    22-25, M
    Aug 26, 2014

    Why are so many people complaining about being

    single? Being single is awesome! I can do what I want or who I want and not feel the pressures of a relationship. I don't want to be settled down at twenty years old I want to experience life and do crazy things! Why is it so important to have a boyfriend or girlfriend? We...
    AlohaAmigo27 AlohaAmigo27
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 14, 2014

    There is no other freedom greater

    than being single....though friends tease me for not having a bf...calling me the less fortunate one...i give a damn 😎.....i love ❤ being single
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 26, 2015

    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand

    Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are now and came across an article similar to this that said you could make thousands of dollars within weeks with only an initial investment...
    manusundr manusundr
    46-50, M
    Aug 22, 2015

    It feels lonely sometimes,

    but it feels worse to have someone who's supposed to be there for you and can't be. I enjoy being on my own.
    BelleofApril BelleofApril
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2014

    Relationships take so much work.

    It will be too much for me :/
    deleted deleted
    Jul 10, 2015

    One time my dad, his ex girlfriend,

    and I went to their friend's house for a BBQ. At first, I didn't want to go, but my dad wanted me to so I can get out of the house. Then suddenly he said maybe I'll meet somebody. I knew exactly what he meant by that. I was thinking, o.O wtf? Hell, no. I'm not going to MEET...
    deleted deleted
    May 13, 2015

    No Excuse Needed...

    ..Today, I was out and about, just looking for stuff to furnish my home, laundry bag, mattress and plants for the house…. and it become clear to me how I love been single, with no care and worry in my life. I could careless if I, stumbled in at whatever time, looking like I had...
    Mynoshh Mynoshh
    31-35, M
    Jun 12, 2013

    Times have changed. Nice guys (not all,

    but most) have turned to ******** because they think that's what women want. Sadly, that's true. I'm not including myself, but just stating a fact. I don't think any guy will ever believe a woman wants a nice guy because as soon as she finds one, she'll treat him like crap. I...
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    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    I would feel trapped

    and suffocated if I was in a relationship. I really love my freedom :)
    deleted deleted
    Apr 5, 2015

    Livin It Up In Singledom

    Raised with the ways of church and the dreams of Disney, I'm just now learning that there is nothing wrong with being single. My whole life I've heard 'you'll find "the one" and finally get your "happily ever after" ending.' Well, now I'm learning that "the one" isn't the key to...
    JaneGirl7 JaneGirl7
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Nov 21, 2012
    Trish1988 Trish1988
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    My mom has taught me to never lead a guy on.

    Yet, she wants me to be in a relationship just so I can be happy. So, I shouldn't lead a guy on, but use him to make me happy? Hmm :/ I don't understand how that makes sense.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    I almost prefer it. I recently had a string of

    almost relationships, and don't get me wrong... It was nice. However, all of them fell through.... And it's kind if a relief. If I found someone I liked, I'm sure it would be equally as enjoyable. But, it's nice to be single. I can do what I want when I want to-which is the big...
    queserasera22 queserasera22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2014

    I don't want to care about anyone else.

    I don't want to share anything with anyone else. And I don't want to think about anyone else. I want to be selfish. To me, it sounds like being in a relationship is so physically and mentally exhausting. I really don't want to waste my time and energy for something I don't want...
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    1 Response Apr 7, 2015

    I used to be sad, but then I had the realization

    that I don't have to take care of anyone else. I can do what I want and when I want. I wasted so much time taking care of someon else. Time to make myself happy!!!! (:
    Hannaahhboo Hannaahhboo
    Apr 10, 2015

    No better feeling than to be able to do

    whatever you want and whenever you want to do it!A lot of people make the mistake of thinking that just because a person's single,that that automatically means that they're lonely!Not always the case!Some of us are single by choice and enjoy our freedom to do whatever we please...
    hammer963 hammer963
    51-55, M
    Jun 23, 2015

    Im 14 and my other friends were already on a

    serious relationship. I'm not in envy or anything and I'm not opposing it but I thought that we're too young to face serious relationships like what a waste of time and energy to get broken hearted at an early age. We should enjoy our young days. Observing young relationships...
    alelina alelina
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015

    I still don't know who I am.

    How can I give myself to someone else if I don't know who I am? I want to wait until I've figured out who I am, what I want, and what the heck I'll do with my life. Then, I'll find someone to share my life with. I want a life before I can do that.
    MyChemicalBreakup MyChemicalBreakup
    16-17, F
    Dec 2, 2014

    I don't need to be in a relationship to be

    happy. I actually don't find it important to be in a relationship. I find trying to live my life and trying to survive in this world WAY more important.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    I love being single, it feels good to not

    worry about relationship problems. I have more time to be me and do me. Life has opened up for me. I feel it's a waste of time chasing women, most look great but it's usually smoke and mirrors. Women are cool but i believe life as a single person is so much better.
    sfdrboy sfdrboy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 11, 2015
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