I kinda hate to look at it as stealing more like learning. I go through the list of group's at time's but dont often find much that feel's like me so I brows profile's. I do this anyway when I make a new friend or I see a comment from sombody that I like as it is a godd way to...
Sometimes, I do browse profiles and steal others experiences, lol. I dont think it is wrong. If it attracts me, I'll go for it and at the same time, I get to know the person by their experiences which is a good thing. Haha.
I only steal those which apply to me, i don't mind people stealing the experience groups i've started or stolen. Feel free to raid me as much as you like. Sharing should be encouraged, i'd feel flattered.
I never found very good topics when looking in the groups pull-down at the top of my page. I never knew what to look for. Looking at the people I have things in common with seems to be an easier way to find things that I relate to.
I find that there are just too many choices of groups. LOL. And its so overwhelming that I can't think of what I want to search. So I find that seeing what others have is useful. Helps me search on my own too.