I Love Butch Women

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 299 People

    Always Been Attracted To Butch/Bois

    I am a femm and always been attracted to butch/bois. Only problem is they don't seem to be attracted to me. I hope to someday meet someone who likes me for me and does not use me...
    babygurl20007 babygurl20007
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2013

    Let Our Community Know - Shout It Out.

    First kudo's to mismountain's post. It outlines a major breakdown in the community - globally. I must add that the current Butch backlash is quite upsetting. The behaviour of the community alone in ways contributed to this internal discrimination. There was a time being Butch...
    Focus101 Focus101
    41-45
    1 Response Feb 20, 2013
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2014

    Stud Love

    I've always been attracted ever since I could remember. The fact a woman can look and feel so strong but still so feminine... gives me chills :-)
    LauraEmily LauraEmily
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 4, 2012

    Hello I Am Soft Butch

    Hello I am soft butch from Ohio. Single but trying to make friends as well as meeting someone special. I love animals and have some saved pets. Just found this site not long ago and I think it's great. Ifyou need a friend don't be shy to friend me and maybe we can chat sometime...
    pararose pararose
    46-50, F
    Sep 20, 2013

    Sexy Strong

    I'm attracted to many different types of women, but my favorite kind- the ones that turn my head every time- are the butches. The boyish hair, the casual boy clothes, the mannerisms, the crooked smiles...androgyny is so unbelievably hot. The confidence to express your feminine...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    annacc11 annacc11
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 18, 2015

    Nothing Better

    Nothing better than a woman... The way she carries herself... The inner confidence that she has to have to walk down the street, in men's cologne and attire... Nothing sexier than that sexy short hair and that eye contact of, hey there... MMMMM... Nothing sexier than a woman that...
    Jan 29, 2013

    Why is it so hard to find butch women

    who are attracted to "tomboy femme" women?
    redmawbk redmawbk
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    My Ideal Butch Woman

    For me, It's all about balance. I am a feminine woman who enjoys being a woman and all the trappings; heels, makeup,lacy confections,etc. I am also a woman who is confident in my abilities and independent. I have my own interests and opinions. I can do a few "nontraditional...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl
    41-45, F
    23 Responses Nov 17, 2008

    Looking For Email Pal Who Likes Butch Lesbian Like Me. Age 25 Up Only

    Hi, I'm Joan by name. I'm Butch Lesbian, I'm 29 years old. I'm originally came from the Philippines. But I'm here now in Taiwan Republic of China, for almost 4 years. I'm a Caregiver for Elderly by profession. I write poetry in any genre, whenever I'm inspired to write. I write...
    Poeticbutch Poeticbutch
    31-35
    Oct 28, 2013

    Butch Women...you Rock My World!

    Because I see myself as a more "feminine" bisexual woman I prefer more "masculine" women. Don't get me wrong I think lipstick lesbians or femmes are gorgeous and very sexually appealing but I feel that butch women offer more than that...at least for me. Femmes are more of a...
    smartandbeautiful3 smartandbeautiful3
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 8, 2012

    She Is Older But Not Wiser..........

    I am a femme vho is very much attracted to the just plain Butch...which is what you get when date a Butch born in the 50's...Old School...I have been studying the various styles of Butch lesbians.....stone wasn't for me any more that softer butch..nor Boi nor Dyke........I found...
    samanthapink1122 samanthapink1122
    56-60, F
    Sep 4, 2013

    I'm Butch Lesbian...Looking For Femme/Bicurious Email Pal Ages 25 Up Only.

    Hi, I'm Joan by name. I'm Butch Lesbian, I'm 29 years old. I'm originally came from the Philippines. But I'm here now in Taiwan Republic of China, for almost 4 years. I'm a Caregiver for Elderly by profession. I write poetry in any genre, whenever I'm inspired to write. I write...
    Poeticbutch Poeticbutch
    31-35
    1 Response Oct 28, 2013

    I Love The "handsome" Woman

    I am a tomboy/andro type. Although contrary to the "norm" if there is even such a thing. I love the same as I am.I have dated femme's, and the dynamic with them is cool, it actually enhances the masculine side of me, which I really enjoyed, but what I really love is a strong fit...
    ASong4Kassidy ASong4Kassidy
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 14, 2012

    ; ) Oh Studs...

    i love studs they are beyond sexy don't get me wrong fems are beautiful but the touch or hold that a stud has is different. they put you in your place when you need it and hold you up when you need it they are great back bones when you are at your absolute worst ahhh i just love...
    goldenlez goldenlez
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2012

    Girl Crush

    I have a HUGE crush on this young butch girl that comes into work .She is perfect and I get to perv at her loviness a few days a week , I wish she was mine .
    certifiable certifiable
    70+, F
    3 Responses Oct 31, 2012

    love to see a birch lesbian packing with a

    bulge in her jockey shorts.
    photousa photousa
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2015

    And why does anyone not understand

    why I like girls who look like "guys". There's so much more to it so leave me alone.
    Femmeheartsoul Femmeheartsoul
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Mar 26, 2014

    There is nothing I love more

    than a butch woman. I love the way they carry themselves, they just give off confidence. I love how brave they are, their whole existence defies social norms. They're fearless to be themselves in a world that believes that women must be dainty and feminine. I respect them so...
    missmandicandi missmandicandi
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 21, 2014

    Why Love Butch Women? 101

    Steps to Understanding How Someone Could Be Attracted to Butch Women   Drop all of your expectations and assumptions about what is/can be/ought to be attractive to others. All of them. Learn to tell the difference...
    darkchild darkchild
    31-35, F
    4 Responses May 24, 2009

    I Love Butch Women

    I love beauty. The women in Vanity Fair and Glamour magazines are divine. I love to look at their faces. I could die in a pool reflecting the perfect outlines of their features. I want to paint their faces on my canvas. But, I am not attracted to them. I don't want to kiss their...
    OmniPulchra OmniPulchra
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2008

    I'm Butch Lesbian...Looking For Femme/Bicurious Email Pal Ages 25 Up Only.

    Hi, I'm Joan by name. I'm Butch Lesbian, I'm 29 years old. I'm originally came from the Philippines. But I'm here now in Taiwan Republic of China, for almost 4 years. I'm a Caregiver for Elderly by profession. I write poetry in any genre, whenever I'm inspired to write. I write...
    Poeticbutch Poeticbutch
    31-35
    1 Response Oct 28, 2013

    Feminine Women Don't Arouse Me.

    Hollywood actress don't turn me on at all.   I always prefer short haired, butch women.  Particularly if they are wearing a strap on.  
    buspuppie buspuppie
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 16, 2009

    there's something about a woman

    that looks and act's like a man...that just turns me on...hmmm...just saying
    yummy5541 yummy5541
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    I would love it a powerful beautiful butch

    woman was a rival for my wife and that she seduced my wife into to being her lover. They could taunt and mock me and beat me up.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    We Are Glad You Do

    Yes in this world everyone loves to see the femme on femme lesbians just glad that there are women who love and appreciate us butches too! Thank you!
    Dx55555 Dx55555
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2012
    cj911 cj911
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    The Butch of My Dreams

    I wrote this over a decade ago but much of it still holds true. The butch of my dreams.... - is a hopeless romantic at heart - actively pursues me - knows how to say my name in a way that sends shivers down my spine - leads when we dance - lets me fall asleep in her arms...
    femme7 femme7
    41-45, F
    13 Responses Mar 19, 2009

    You Women Need To Speak Up More :)

    I am a woman who used to be butch. Well, I still am, I don't think I can really change that about myself. But, I am a much softer butch then I used to be. Why? Well I don't know if it's just the city I live in (Sydney), or if it's the glorification of fem's in the media, or...
    misomountain misomountain
    22-25
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2012

    I have had many femme lovers,

    and am very attracted to femme women, don't get me wrong, but to me, (soft) butch women are the best!
    nycdazzle nycdazzle
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2015

    Soft Butch With A Thing For Butch Women

    Its always been this way. Since I was 12 and this girl who I thought was a boy wanted to carry my books for me. I was like ok, but then when I found he was a she.. I was so unbelievable turned on, (as much as a teen can be turned on). I was fascinated, and enthralled and it...
    ASong4Kassidy ASong4Kassidy
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2012
    dirtymind29 dirtymind29
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 16, 2015
    DominantStud DominantStud
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 3, 2015

    Only just found this website,

    amazing! I had this fascination when I was growing up about older, masculine looking women. I didn't know at the time they were called butch. I have become an adult, got married to a man (not a very succesful marriage but that's another story), have children... and as years pass...
    easyfriday5 easyfriday5
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    So update of my butch friend.

    She called me today out of the blue. To remind me its saints Patrick day. And says we need to get drunk tonight. Then reminded me not to get too drunk like last time saying that she doesn't want to have to put me in the shower again. It's as if she still completely forgot...
    blacksoldier43 blacksoldier43
    26-30, M
    Mar 17

    I have had many femme lovers,

    and am very attracted to femme women, don't get me wrong, but to me, (soft) butch women are the best!
    nycdazzle nycdazzle
    31-35, F
    Sep 16, 2015

    Omg my girl is butch

    and 12 years younger than me. Everything about her turns me on. her body language the way she dresses. she can rock a hat like no one else. I call her my little hood rat lol
    wendysport2 wendysport2
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    I Love Butches & I Love Fems ~ The Best Of All Are The Ones In The Middle.

    I happen to see myself in the middle of having traits of both.....Which must be why I appreciate each person for who they are.Depending on whom I'm with tends to bring out different aspects of my personality.Right now my SO is my 1st in the middle of both sides & we compliment...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2011

    Knocked Me Off My Feet

    I ALWAYS FELT SOMETHING STRANGE BEING AROUND LESBIAN BUTCH-SOFT BUTCH WOMEN.  I DID'NT KNOW IF IT WAS ATTRACTION, OR DISCOMFORT.  I HAD NOT FULLY REALIZED I WAS A LESBIAN WOMAN.  THAT CAME WAY LATER.  AFTER 20 YEARS OF MARIAGE, CHILDREN ETC.  HOWEVER, ONE DAY, WHILE JOINING...
    wakachaka wakachaka
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2011

    K D Lang

    I noticed a picture of k d lang. I LOVE her! The way she carries herself in that suit...I fell for her in "drag"...ok, she gained a lot of weight, lately, still...I don't know why, but she "fits" my profile. As a lttle add-on...k d lang can fix her bike! It's funny, 'cause I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 31, 2013
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