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I Love Domestic Discipline

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    Discipline Service.

    I am a 50 year young man now living in West Cornwall UK. I used to live in London and have for over 20 years offered a discipline service to men and women who needed some guidance and control in their lives but did not have a partner who was willing or able to do this for them...
    john1962 john1962 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Vicky's Punishment For Smoking...

    (note for the readers : I write each of my stories for a specific sub - some are fantasies, some are scenarios that will actually play out, some are stories based on passed experiences. I want to share those stories with EP, because I'm interested in what others think, if they...
    drfessee drfessee 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    Need To Be Spanked

    Ok guys I need to be punished or spanked I should say I live in San Antonio... If anyone lives in San Antonio and would want to spank me message me on here please I need to be spanked right away
    sdeleon18 sdeleon18 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    OTK For The First Time

    One of the things I love about DD is the element of surprise, what implement is he going to use, what position will I be in? Last night I was told to bend over a chair to receive a spanking with the loopy.. I couldn't for the life of me stand still, so after about 10 swats (the...
    girvingtree girvingtree 18-21, F Aug 18, 2013

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    Bad Move

    Today I did something completely impulsive and foolish. I got in a mood with my husband and removed my wedding ring, knowing full well he'd get angry. I received a hard slippering for doing it. I was very sorry afterwards but felt better for it. My husband hugged me and told me...
    vinnygirl vinnygirl 46-50, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    My Punishment!

    My husband andi are recently new to the dd lifestyle, and I can't seem to get a handle on myself. I keep opening my mouth when I ought to shut it, I keep failing to complete all my chores on my daily lists, I keep slamming the front door, being disrespectful or rude to my husband...
    Ddgirl219 Ddgirl219 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    Spanking Females Should Become Socially Accepted And Normal

    here on ep i see mainly three different opiniongroups about spanking girlf`ds and women. the first group are the ideological feminists, men and women. second there are the ones that support it as they know how good and effective for relationsships it is or could be. and the thrid...
    mrdap mrdap 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 10, 2013

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    Wife Does But Husband Doesn'T

    I have spanked for many years and through those years I have help many women. Women who felt the need for Domestic Discipline or just plainly felt the need for a good spanking but Husband won't do it. I respect the husband's reasons but have felt and believe a woman who NEEDS...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M May 4, 2013

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    Feeling Loved

    Okay so me & my boyfriend had ordered a pizza & when it was time to pick it up I got out of the car and so did he. When he walked in I said I'm big girl, I could have gotten the pizza myself. He hugged me tightly from the back & whispered in my ear & said 'I don't know or quite...
    SpoiledRottenBaby SpoiledRottenBaby 18-21, F 3 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Help Me Write A Contract

    Hi, my husband wants me to write a contract, on these four points 1.mental, 2. emotional,3 physical4. sexual I'm having trouble getting started, it will be mutual, he loves telling me owns me, and by the same token i own him. I am a free woman, but at times I will submit to his...
    Mercedes1210 Mercedes1210 46-50 Jun 8, 2013

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    Domestic Discipline Shameful Yearnings

    I want my husband Greg to spank me. To feel his power over me, all encompassing. Punishing me. He is stern, cold, determined—unmerciful. Confident. Whipping me with a switch he had sought himself in the yard. His power breathed through me rendering me breathless and completely...
    Jan 13, 2013

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    OTK For The First Time

    One of the things I love about DD is the element of surprise, what implement is he going to use, what position will I be in? Last night I was told to bend over a chair to receive a spanking with the loopy.. I couldn't for the life of me stand still, so after about 10 swats (the...
    girvingtree girvingtree 18-21, F Aug 18, 2013

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    Am I More Than DD, More Than A Sub

    My husband had some serious talks with me last week about my speech. I'm not one who swears or argues or yells.  So it wasn't that.  But it was about the CONTENT of my speech.I've had some stressful situations fairly recently and they have me heavily reflecting inward.  Part...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Mickey

    My creative hubby's mind never ceases. Before we left for Disney, he was saying he wished he had more implements to choose from instead of just the lexan paddle we have.  Yes, we have a brush, but he can't bring himself to use it for that and then use it for brushing our hair...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    I Am Regularly Whipped And I Agree With It

    I am a Nigerian student living in London. I feel that I live a double life. I come from a patriarchal society in which female subordination is universal. I assumed that I would marry outside my own culture and tribe. That changed recently as I fell in love with an Igbo man (our...
    blackbabe36 blackbabe36 22-25 2 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    Domestic Discipline Shameful Yearnings

    I want my husband Greg to spank me. To feel his power over me, all encompassing. Punishing me. He is stern, cold, determined—unmerciful. Confident. Whipping me with a switch he had sought himself in the yard. His power breathed through me rendering me breathless and completely...
    Jan 12, 2013

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    He Just Knows

    Last night I asked him if he wanted to continue DD. There were a few comments made recently that had me puzzled and I was doubting his resolve.  I wasn't doubting his love, but more his desire to be the HoH we need him to be.  We talked about the positives that have come from...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    Converted Too

      i am a normal mid-european educated men and always learnt that equality in sexes is something normal and only put in question by bad people. im now around 30 in age and finally got my eyes opened. before i did have some relationships, they went somehow but finally didnt...
    mrdap mrdap 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    You're Suppose To Call

    I hear the door close, “Dumplin’,” I call, “we need to have a talk.” You know why and you don’t want to “have a talk.”  “Hi, I home, all safe and sound,”   you call back hoping to avoid a “talk,” then think it would have been better not to mention the...
    Oldgrumpbear Oldgrumpbear 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    I'm confused. What is a domestic discipline marriage??
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    http://www.dddating.wildapricot.org/join-us DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE DATING FREE MEMBERSHIP!
    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F Jul 14

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    http://www.dddating.wildapricot.org/join-us DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE DATING FREE MEMBERSHIP! free for first 50 members!!!!
    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I love my husbands guidance but sometimes feel that I do not get enough discipline. We are newer to the lifestyle and I think he is afraid of punishing to often. We had a long talk...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    Every time someone hears that i am in a DD marriage all they focus on is i am spanked . Well that is just one part of it .Yes i am spanked but thats not the only punishment i am...
    isubmittohim79 isubmittohim79 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 26

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    This brat's life. Part 1 of 2 I will begin this blog by saying up front that I have never been in love like this in my entire life. I found my soul mate and I am crazy head over...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I DONT BUT I WANT TOO ugh how I want tooooo But we are black and in our culture it's "domestic violence" My husband will NOT EVEN CONSIDER IT but after a lonnnnggggg thinking...
    karlakashes karlakashes 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Using handcuffs during discipline is no problem. Not remembering where the key is can be a problem... Sir, may I suggest we go back to more basic forms of restraints? :-)
    Amandine1982 Amandine1982 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 30

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    Been awhile since I have been in here. We moved into our own place and started a business all in the last few weeks. My job has also changed to include three times the duties...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I talked to my husband yesterday after some soul searching and let him know that I did not believe that I gave 100% of myself to my last punishment on Sunday. He thanked me for...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Yesterday was a pretty hard day. I tried to focus on the one rule that bothers HoH the most. He likes to be called by name when asking a direct question to me or when I address him...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    Is there anyone (female or couple) in Texas or Oklahoma that share this lifestyle that would like to chat and be that "one person in real life that knows"? I love chatting with...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 10

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    Life is getting complicated. So last night by the time I got home from work, I pretty much didn't care if or how much trouble I was in. I know I am in so much trouble anyways...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Anyone have any experience with maintenance spankings?
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 27

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    And I do not know why I can't keep my mouth shut! Ive got three punishments waiting for me when I get home after work. I broke three rules today. I was really crabby and...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I had ended up getting all three punishments yesterday. Two combined in the morning and one at night. In the morning I felt so submissive. I cried on the last spank and continued...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    Im not one that typically gets b*&chy during "this time of the month"....I just cry. A lot. Im sensitive and I can get a bit grouchy. I don't want to follow the rules and expect...
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    I am still trying watch what I say and how I say things. I am expected to call my HoH by name when addressing him or when asked a direct question. I am trying to remember but it...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Hello :) I used to be on EP last year and forgot my old user name. There were a few people I enjoyed talking to :) if anyone wouldn't mind talking, I'd appreciate it! Thanx
    loveparrots loveparrots 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 3

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    This was written on 7-3. Didn't have time to post until now! Last night, was my "reminder" to call him by name when addressing him or being asked a direct question. We discussed...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Hi We run a website and membership is free http://www.dddating.wildapricot.org
    princess1950 princess1950 36-40, F Jul 6

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    Does any one have experience with a leather strap? Something close to a belt but with a handle?
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 7

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    Punished to the fullest-I took liberties Well I haven't been in here much. So much has happened. Moved, he started a business, kids, just crazy busy. During this time he was so...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I don't see how this is going to work! I feel really bad. I am home sick from work. I have had bad dreams and my master is never around. He is working so hard to make a better...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    It has been a few days since I posted. My husband and I have had a lot of discussions lately. We decided that maintenance is going to be added to our lives. It will not be...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I am still so afraid... I'm scared to let it go... I want to give the full control. It is a burden, A stumbling block... Why such a stubborn soul... I do not make these steel rules...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Trouble big time - then a nice break Well I got in huge trouble over the weekend. He took me to one of his empty rental houses- made a make shift spanking bench and gave me 700...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Cussing rule He added a new rule- no cussing. If any of you knew me you would know how ridiculous that is. It feels like something that would be setting me up to fail. Grrrrrrrr...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 16

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    I have realized that I have been a selfish girl. I have not been thinking about the benefits this lifestyle will have for my HoH. I constantly have been focusing my energy on rules...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    At the breaking point I am at the breaking point. I can't do this anymore. I need to fix me. My everything is off. My thoughts are going to bad places. I can't help it. I think...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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