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I Love Having My Hair Played With

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    I know this sounds weird cuz im a dude,

    but I love it when my wife rubs her fingers through my hair. Especially when we cuddle. I even calla sleep at the babe we shop sometimes! Lol
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend 31-35, M Nov 15, 2014

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    It's one of the most relaxing things ever.

    ... Especially with my type of hair. :P
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    Shivers I love it. Having my hair played with

    is shiver-inducing, toe-curling wonderful. I have always liked having my hair brushed by someone. It just feels nice, I go into an almost trance when that happens. Its usually my mom who does it. It just feels good, but I never realized how good it feels to have my hair played...
    abigailc abigailc 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Is the best feeling in the world

    when someone you love so much plays with your hair at the end of a long day relieves so much stress especially a nice massage too! :) sleep so much better too
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 27, 2014

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    That would be sooooooo great!

    I love it so much lol. Just having fingers running through my hair relaxes me haha
    TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys TeethTheSizeOfPianoKeys 18-21, M Nov 29, 2014

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    One of my favourite feelings.

    It's like instant relaxation
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    xxtina15 xxtina15 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    When people play with my hair,

    it makes me tired. I guess its just relaxing to me.
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My wife and I both love head skritches,

    and our kids have learned to love them as well. It is so relaxing to lay with my head in her lap and have her run a brush or just her fingers through my hair. More than about 10 minutes of good vigorous head skritching will put me to sleep, though. And even giving a head skritch...
    pantyluvr843 pantyluvr843 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 15

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    madsgrammar madsgrammar 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    xxtina15 xxtina15 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I like when my hair is being brushed by someone.

    That's the best feeling for me. My BFF and I brush each other's hair sometimes. That's always fun too.
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I love to have a person sit me in front of them

    combing my hair then takeing me laying me back to the sink to shampoo condition my hair caped up
    hairshampooist hairshampooist 26-30, M Dec 5, 2014

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    OMMMMMMMFGGG I luv it :-D

    when someone plays with my hair I get goose bumps all over my body and I relax hard boddyyyyyy
    Sadfate Sadfate 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

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    I love it. My hair reaches about an inch above

    the middle of my back, so it's long. My ex used to run his fingers through the top of my hair, near my scalp..when I went down on him. I love it when I'm resting and someone just gently plays with the ends. It sends a tingly feeling down my spine. It tickles and makes me feel...
    Livvy2 Livvy2 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 5, 2014

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    Because I love my hair

    so much, I shaved it off. It feels good liberating.
    STArDUST8 STArDUST8 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    Oh my this statement really brings back

    memories of when my boy used to play with my hair. He's been in prison over 2 months now and what I wouldn't do to have him hear tonight playing with my hair... Very sad and lonely! Oh my I miss and love him so much. Can't deal ....huh
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F Dec 4, 2014

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    Being a "hair naturalist" it is natural

    for me to draw attention to it and have people wanting to play in my hair. I've never been against women who want to put perms, relaxers or weave in their hair...it's just not for me. If you are going to play in it (hair) it might as well be all of me. Tugged, scratched or...
    UnderStandM3 UnderStandM3 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2014

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    Way too much. Wicked intense.

    You have no idea how much it means to me when a person plays with my hair.
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    Having my hair played with relaxes me to no end.

    I love having someone softly and gently brush my hair with their hands or lightly tug on it. I might just fall asleep in your lap!
    kittenstar kittenstar 18-21, M May 29, 2014

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    I want you to play with my hair.

    ..Brush it...Run your hands through it....Massage my head....As candles burn and I lie in your arms...
    ifoundhim ifoundhim 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 11

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    It's one of the best feelings in the world.

    I'm glad my kids like to play in it.
    londepV londepV 22-25, F Feb 20

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    My best friend let me curl up on her lap

    and she played with my hair and rubbed my back and read me poetry <3 this is why we are friends <3
    indecisivewitch indecisivewitch 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Loved It. Miss It.

    One of my favorite things to do after having sex with my ex was laying in his lap and having him play with my hair until I feel asleep on top of him. I don't miss the relationship at all... But I do miss that!
    PrincessGi PrincessGi 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    I love the feeling of you stroking my hair with

    a brush or just your fingers slowly. It not only makes my head feel good but also it can put me to sleep. I wish you still did this to me.
    goodwitch011070 goodwitch011070 41-45, F Mar 16

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    There is nothing more I enjoy more

    than a man touching my hair. Not just touching my hair but exploring my hair; making my curls bounce with his fingers, mouth well you get the point. I enjoy when we are close and I can hear him inhale and moan by just playing and smelling my hair. The question is, do you dare...
    STArDUST8 STArDUST8 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    anpdg anpdg 13-15, F 1 Response May 29, 2014

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    I remember when I was in grade 1 one of my

    closest friends would always play with my hair and braid it. One time, it was so relaxing that I fell asleep in class! LOL.
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2014

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    Tbh. When it's a guy

    who plays with my hair, it's a turn on for me. When his hand will occasionall brush against my neck or tug a bit too hard. :) i luv it. But even if it wasnt a turn on, i would like it. :) not tryin to be perverted, just telling da truth.
    Takemetomywonderland Takemetomywonderland 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    Your fingers dance easily on the ends of my

    hair straws. slowly they pull, tug and tease like a tango.. They find the way to my hairs heart.. They reach the scalp.. Ahhhh sigh ;)
    Kardia Kardia 36-40 10 Responses Feb 19

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    Blancasmiles Blancasmiles 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    xxtina15 xxtina15 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Seriously, who doesn't?

    I also love hands on my face, and fingers exploring my lips. It's one of those things I just surrender to.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    *sigh* Let me lay on your lap

    while you stroke my hair... Absolute bliss. ❤️(Thank you to diablesse for this perfect picture. I love it!)
    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 12 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    megigrace megigrace 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    This is one of my favorites.

    I would give just about anything for one night of cuddling up next to someone who just runs their fingers through my hair for a while. It is so calming to me, and all of my worries disappear.
    JARSMS JARSMS 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2014

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    I love having my hair played with

    but nobody ever wants to play with it I wish there was someone who wanted to play with my hair
    jjadyn12345 jjadyn12345 13-15, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    My entire body being covered in goosebumps

    because my love is softly stroking my hair
    Needlepokes Needlepokes 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I love it so much! Run your fingers through my

    hair, stroke my hair, play with my hair, brush my hair... I love it all <3
    JennyRose2 JennyRose2 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    i know it doesnt look like i go to the

    hairdressers very often but its actually one of my favourite things to do. I love it when they shampoo and massage your scalp, its one of my favourite feelings ever.
    UnderTheBodhiTree UnderTheBodhiTree 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I swear, having my girl friend play with my

    hair always puts me to sleep. Best feeling in the world 😍
    ShyBi416 ShyBi416 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    Nooneknowsmythoughts Nooneknowsmythoughts 18-21, F Jun 24, 2014

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    If I'm ever in a relationship,

    I don't want to have sex or anything like that. Just give me forehead kisses and play with my hair and I'll sleep with my head on your chest. Period.
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 10, 2014

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