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I Love Having My Hair Played With

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    I have kind of curly hair,

    and a lot of it, and it just feels nice to lay back and have fingers running through my hair. It's so soothing and relaxing, it puts me to sleep in like 5 minutes haha.
    HisDaysAreNumbered HisDaysAreNumbered 18-21, M Sep 26

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    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 16-17, F Oct 8

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    Nooneknowsmythoughts Nooneknowsmythoughts 18-21, F Jun 24

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    I swear, having my girl friend play with my

    hair always puts me to sleep. Best feeling in the world 😍
    ShyBi416 ShyBi416 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    abrokendreamer abrokendreamer 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    My mom used to braid my hair

    when I was a kid. I miss the calming feeling.
    bard66 bard66 18-21, F Sep 27

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    Having my hair stroked

    or getting a foot massage will almost always make me fall asleep. I used to go out with a guy who liked running his fingers through my hair. Whenever we were watching TV somewhere, I would lay my head in his lap and he would do that for the longest time. I would end up missing...
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    Being a "hair naturalist" it is natural

    for me to draw attention to it and have people wanting to play in my hair. I've never been against women who want to put perms, relaxers or weave in their hair...it's just not for me. If you are going to play in it (hair) it might as well be all of me. Tugged, scratched or...
    UnderStandM3 UnderStandM3 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    When I was younger I had a friend who's hair I

    used to play with and who played with mine. She used to spend time running her hands through it, plaiting and twirling it before eventually putting it up. Why is it that when we reach adulthood we stop doing these small things for each other?
    lclaire2014 lclaire2014 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I love it! It makes me tired,

    when I'm upset and mom is comforting me she plays with my hair until I fall asleep, I usually wake up feeling much better :)
    williamm02 williamm02 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    When we were young girls.

    We used to put our hair up like the current Motown singers and sing our hearts out. It is nice to have sisters.
    SweetMae SweetMae 56-60, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    OMMMMMMMFGGG I luv it :-D

    when someone plays with my hair I get goose bumps all over my body and I relax hard boddyyyyyy
    Sadfate Sadfate 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    My friends tug at the curls

    and roll them and make them bounce in school and at the movies. It's the cutest and funniest thing for me (they don't know much about curls) and they have a lot of fun making sound effects and playing, guys and girls!
    Anonliljokergirl Anonliljokergirl 16-17, F 1 Response May 30

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    Loved It. Miss It.

    One of my favorite things to do after having sex with my ex was laying in his lap and having him play with my hair until I feel asleep on top of him. I don't miss the relationship at all... But I do miss that!
    PrincessGi PrincessGi 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    My hair is short but I love men with long hair!

    It drives me crazy! I just wanna pull it for fun!
    spaceylibra spaceylibra 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    Blancasmiles Blancasmiles 16-17, F 1 Response May 22

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    Yesss, especially in cuddles

    and while kissing <3 Can't resist
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F Aug 29

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    I do love having my hair played with,

    I don't Know why. It just feels nice and it's calming I guess. But yea it's nice.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Oooh yes i love that.

    ..your finghers curling my long locks...tug it and wishper in my ear that you wanna cut it...then you do cutting movements with your finghers true my hair and grinnn....you pull it all up and let it fall over me ...smelling it and brush it...omg!!! i love it when you play with my...
    SandyRapunzel SandyRapunzel 46-50 5 Responses Mar 10

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    My most favourite time is

    when I lay my head on my brother's lap and he would start playing with it and his hands brushes my hair gently...I would instantly fall asleep💤 so relaxing😍
    KatieP767 KatieP767 13-15, F 4 Responses May 27

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    I'm always the one who gives head massages.

    . they're the best thing ever! Wish I could receive one more often
    imitosis imitosis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I do, her fingers scratching the back of my

    neck sends shivers down my back, and in our most passionate moments, her firm grip on my scalp just adds to my passion.
    MrSquishy MrSquishy 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    anpdg anpdg 13-15, F May 29

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    Oh my gosh yessssss!!

    !! The sensation and feeling this sends throughout my entire body is awesome. Gives me goosebumps sends chills down throughout my entire body, and can take my breath away. I love it when someone just runs their fingers through my hair, brushes it, braids it, washes it, or does...
    BrokenSoul88 BrokenSoul88 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    *sigh* Let me lay on your lap

    while you stroke my hair... Absolute bliss. ❤️(Thank you to diablesse for this perfect picture. I love it!)
    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 12 Responses Sep 11

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    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 1 Response May 29

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    I have curly hair. Often the hair gets tangled.

    If someone is taking measures to untangle it or just playing with it makes me very happy. If no-one is taking an initiative, i'll make someone to do it. That's how much i like it :)
    Abi936 Abi936 18-21, M Sep 5

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    spirituallife25 spirituallife25 16-17 Aug 29

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    i know it doesnt look like i go to the

    hairdressers very often but its actually one of my favourite things to do. I love it when they shampoo and massage your scalp, its one of my favourite feelings ever.
    UnderTheBodhiTree UnderTheBodhiTree 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 10

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    Tbh. When it's a guy

    who plays with my hair, it's a turn on for me. When his hand will occasionall brush against my neck or tug a bit too hard. :) i luv it. But even if it wasnt a turn on, i would like it. :) not tryin to be perverted, just telling da truth.
    Takemetomywonderland Takemetomywonderland 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 8

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    majdaaaa majdaaaa 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I love it. My hair reaches about an inch above

    the middle of my back, so it's long. My ex used to run his fingers through the top of my hair, near my scalp..when I went down on him. I love it when I'm resting and someone just gently plays with the ends. It sends a tingly feeling down my spine. It tickles and makes me feel...
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 5

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    Touch it, braid it, pull it,

    tangle it, kiss it, fondle it, blow on it, just DONT stop!
    HollyD23 HollyD23 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 20

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    NormalTeenGirl NormalTeenGirl 13-15, F a week ago

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    I love having my hair played with

    because it is so relaxing and feels good..
    chialuvgirl chialuvgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I could fall asleep every time somebody did

    this to me! It's probably one of the best feelings ever!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F Jul 29

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    I love to have my hair played with

    and playing with my own hair. I do it almost constantly when I'm stressed out or if I'm trying to relax. It both relaxes me and turns me on when someone else plays with my hair. I've really been enjoying growing out my hair again. I never expected it to take so long to get back...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 7 Responses Jan 3

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    I love it so much! Run your fingers through my

    hair, stroke my hair, play with my hair, brush my hair... I love it all <3
    JennyRose2 JennyRose2 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Shivers I love it. Having my hair played with

    is shiver-inducing, toe-curling wonderful. I have always liked having my hair brushed by someone. It just feels nice, I go into an almost trance when that happens. Its usually my mom who does it. It just feels good, but I never realized how good it feels to have my hair played...
    abigailc abigailc 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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    i got my hair in a Fishtale Braid yesterday

    and i still dont want to take it out XD i love having my hair in a braid and my friends or someone play with it i love it ^_^ but when i was 10 i hated it lol
    TheRainbowDino TheRainbowDino 13-15, F Sep 18

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    My Long Hair Braid

    hi, am a boy from hyderabad my name's chaitanya throughout my life i always had short hair so after i joined my engineering i decided to grow my hair long...my hair grow's fast and its curly..after 6 months my hair started to reach my shoulder and it was summer so i went to my...
    realysweetguy realysweetguy 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    OMG if you ever do it,

    i'll love you forever .. Thats how i am when it comes to playing with my haiir 😊
    xxooxx1986 xxooxx1986 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    My hairs long and dark brown

    and people like how it smells like candy lol and how soft it is idk why I don't play with my hair I have people for that lol
    FlyingAwayAndFallingApart FlyingAwayAndFallingApart 18-21, F Sep 27

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    It's really relaxing,

    and makes all my stress melt away.
    Kano413 Kano413 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    My boyfriend always plays with my hair

    but sometimes can be a little rough
    BlackIndian95 BlackIndian95 18-21, F Sep 7

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    I remember when I was in grade 1 one of my

    closest friends would always play with my hair and braid it. One time, it was so relaxing that I fell asleep in class! LOL.
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    BUT...I hate when strangers think they could

    touch my hair. "Oh my god, I love your hair!!!" And then they proceed to stick their nasty fingers in my luscious locks. Look, I know my hair cascades like a waterfall and is radiant like the sun, but keep your hands to yourself please. I am not going to hell for anyone this...
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F a week ago

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    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    It's just really relaxing

    and calming, when my friends go up to me and randomly start playing with my hair. It's the only thing that can shut me up. Cause I'm usually hyper and talkative. But when someone played with my hair, I get really really quiet and go into a blank stare, I lay my head down and...
    countrygirlISTaylor countrygirlISTaylor 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I LOVE ❤❤having my hair played with 💆lol

    i love it soo much lol i don't know why but it feels amazing 😊☺
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F Jun 25

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    OMG this is like one of my biggest turn ons.

    I love it when someone plays with my hair it gets me so excited! A few friends found out about how my hair turns me on and every chance the get they touch my hair, pulling it or stroking it or running their hand though it. Makes me want to purr X3
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21 1 Response Jan 1

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    This is one of my favorites.

    I would give just about anything for one night of cuddling up next to someone who just runs their fingers through my hair for a while. It is so calming to me, and all of my worries disappear.
    smhinterrupted smhinterrupted 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 6

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    Is the best feeling in the world

    when someone you love so much plays with your hair at the end of a long day relieves so much stress especially a nice massage too! :) sleep so much better too
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 27

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    OMG I LOVE IT it feels

    so nice just to have your scalp played with for that 10 seconds that they r willing to do it for