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I Love Him Although I Shouldn't

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    The Fire Won't Go Out

    It's been years. He is not mine. He travels. He knows my name. He knows my laugh. We have sung and danced all night. but, We have never touched. I love him even though it would hurt others if I told him. His "girlfriend" and my admirer. Damn love...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F Oct 23, 2008

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    Is There Hope?

    I told my friend I like him. Since we're both bi I thought we could try to be together but I think I ruined whatever chance (if there even was one) and our friendship as well. No matter I will still love him. Even if I shouldn't but I feel so dirty! :'( I am IN LOVE!!! I will...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M Nov 20, 2010

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    Dangerous!

    I sometimes feel like I love my best friend. I told him i have thought about it before. He said he understood and was not surprised. I love him as a brother anyway. But I suppose if it weren't for his dad we might be together. His stepmother likes me and she doesn't know I'm bi...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    Here We Go Down This Road Again

    I shouldn't love him hell I shouldn't even like him!  The list of what I shouldn't with him could go on forever!  I shouldn't look forward to hearing from him or count down when I'm going to see him again.  I hate that he is at work right now and I...
    crazyinlove88 crazyinlove88 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Arrghhh

    It's been 2 years since we broke up.. we did everything together.. he said he no longer loves me... it hurts...and its hurt for 2 years.. its got better to only feel worse then ever before.. i shouldnt love him .. but i cant help it.. and i miss him.. and it makes me miserable...
    popsypop popsypop 18-21 2 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    He Might Leave...

    I am more or less in love with my best friend. Unfortunately he might be going to military school if he gets caught dipping again. I have tried to get him to stop, he wants to stop. He is the best friend I have ever made in my school career. I know it's not neccessarliy a good...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 4, 2010

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    I Finally Told Him...:)

    I told my friend I like him. He said he prefers African American boys. But we're still cool! :) That's good enough for me but however this one girl we are both friends with told me she wanted to be there when I told him. She was and she made it more uncomfortable than it...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2010

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    I Know It Cannot Be Fixed.

    Β In high school, I met a guy, Matt, that was always there for me. We always had fun together and I was sure that he was going to be the guy that I would spend the rest of my life with. We dated for almost 3 years but the last few months were rocky. I was 19 at the time, and...
    chomikm chomikm 18-21 Oct 16, 2011

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    There's Now A Small Chance...

    My friend broke up with his boyfriend! Now maybe I can tell him how I feel without feeling dirty about it!
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M Nov 17, 2010

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    In Over My Head

    I love my best friend and I don't know why. I'm confused as to whether it's botherly or in a gay way. I would rather have a girlfriend, but I don't know if that will change anything. I find myself OBSESSING over him! I consider him family so this makes it even more damn twisted...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2010

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    Time To Say Goodbye?

    Once upon a time I felt like I was his whole world, like my feelings mattered and I was loved. I believed in him and trusted him. I gave him everything I had to give. I was there when he needed me, staying up all night for days on end if he needed to talk. This was all okay...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 28, 2011

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    He Is Back

    He is back in my life again and i still love him, i have so much to work out..I know i shouldnt care about him cause he hurt me greatly but i just cant make my feelings go away..
    lovelygal lovelygal 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2008

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    He has a history of being a heartbreaker &

    ladies man. I've been warned but now he's in his 40's & tells me he's a changed man. We've been deeply in love for over a year & he hasn't done anything wrong. Should I marry him?
    jasminebear jasminebear 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I feel in love with one of my best friends best friends and my my best friend pushed me into telling him how I felt about him so I did then he told me that he likes me too and now...
    MomijiSohma1999 MomijiSohma1999 13-15, F a week ago

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    I have this ex, he has ruined my life but i still love him slightly, i left him nearly a year ago and went into depression, and now taking anti depressants, he just messaged me...
    korsakris korsakris 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    Once I'm free to date, will I? Yes. Until and unless the man I really want makes a commitment to me - I will not tie myself down or make promises. My brain says, "Date other...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    How shall I put this? My body has certain needs. I'm feeling very much "in need" this evening. I used a toy to take care of myself, but I still want more. There is no toy in the...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I got a quick drive-by note from him today. Not as good as a real conversation - but better than nothing.
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    It is never wrong to love someone, but it's the way we love that makes it "wrong".
    OliviaOcean OliviaOcean 18-21, F Sep 8

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    He was out of town, now he's back. My little bruised heart doesn't know how to feel.
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Another drive-by note - that's two days in a row now. It's not a real conversation - but better than nothing, I suppose. People probably think I'm crazy. But yanno - I don't care...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F Sep 6

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    He lives in my neighborhood hez internet dude and he has a girl friend !! :((
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    16 years ago, I met someone. I will never forget the first time I saw him, though for years I had let the memory tuck itself in a quiet spot, deep in my heart. His...
    tormentbynite tormentbynite 31-35, F Aug 25

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    I met him in high school and we baca me good good good friends you would say we loved each other like family he would do anything for me but one day I was with him just hanging out...
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I love him, he has blocked me on everything today so there is no longer anyway I can talk to him. I never did anything to him. I tried to get to know his 'friend' better to find...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    I have this crush on this girl with me at work. She's really pretty, but the problem is it would never work because from two very different backgrounds and our personalities are...
    elpsy elpsy 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    Does my gf love me? We live together and were planning on getting married. I got sick today and had to cancel our vacation plans. She now is yelling at me and wants to fly out...
    l3ean l3ean 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 21

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    "One shouldn't be too hard on oneself when the object of one's affection returns the favor with rather less enthusiasm than one might have hoped. " (The object of My Affection)
    greycells greycells 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I didn't know how to tell him. Tell him that he was the only guy in the world that could make me feel so happy and sad at the same time. Sometimes I feel lost and out of touch, but...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    well my ex broke up with me a month ago. We have a son together and I try all the time to get back with him. We still have sex the only thing differently is that he won't say he...
    Fleo94 Fleo94 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    iam very happy to finally be able to tell u my problem and i hope that u can help me with it. iam a fourht year medical student from Tunisia .on my first year at college i liked...
    rola20 rola20 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    After months of feeling hopeless, I came across this cutie on POF. We began talking and I'm so thankful I sent him a message. I've never loved anyone the way I've loved him. And...
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M Sep 2

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    I just ruined the most perfect relationship ill ever have. By saying I'm going to want to experience my life. All I want is to be with him. I can't see my life without him. And I...
    TallyO TallyO 13-15, F Sep 2

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    And I almost have a love hate relationship with lovey-mushy girly side. I love him. But I'm not blind. I can see him and all his flaws. I see him. He's.....he's your average...
    SleepyHead2123 SleepyHead2123 18-21 5 days ago

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    I loved him so much. I still do, though things are so different now. We used to have the world together. Now, we don't have much. I gave him all of my heart. I kept no secrets...
    ladyhawk12 ladyhawk12 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    So here's a complicated story. I'm Mara. I'm 15 and I am a complicated young character. You see, where I live I don't have many friends so I catch the bus out of my town to go to...
    MaraIsNotKawaii MaraIsNotKawaii 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I love my boyfriend a lot, I know I'm young so save the talk lol, but I really do. But I really think I love him for the wrong reason. He took my virginity and was my first kiss...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Did you ever love someone who didn't returned you love? Yes that's very, very sad! :( But what if you are afraid to confess your feelings to that someone, it is even more difficult...
    delfin13 delfin13 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F Aug 29

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    It's funny how your heart will yearn for that which it can't have. Funnier still how people will take advantage of that. I loved him. He knew it. I told him so. He said it back...
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 9 Responses Sep 1

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    So last night I was trying to get to sleep, but I just couldn't. I was thinking of him...He was the one that got away. He and I had crushes on each other in high school, which we...
    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F Aug 24

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    I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year, yes a year. I have tried but all I feel is annoyed most of the time. He is a really nice guy, and I think part of the...
    normil normil 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I love him, but I haven't said it yet.
    MotoLove MotoLove 13-15 Aug 24

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    I love someone who don't love me. I fell in love when I am 14. I love her madly. She was my classmate who cheeled up with frnds an also popular in the school. At first I hate her...
    paulsneha paulsneha 18-21, F Aug 25

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    He played with my feelings and treated me like s*** for a whole year but i stil loved him with all my heart πŸ’”
    aliyah519 aliyah519 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    Abused me and my family took me for granted but what could i do i loved him.. They told me 2 let go bt it wasnt so easy 2 do. A persons tru colours show later down the line at some...
    aliyah519 aliyah519 22-25, F Aug 26

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    dose he still love me he hasn't been on for days and we broke up a day or two before he stopped getting on my mind is saying he doesn't love me any more but my heart says he dose...
    coltan108 coltan108 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    Obliterated Heart He loves me he says. I know I love him. I knew that sorry wasn't going to do it. He use to care, he use share his feelings with me, but the love he use to give...