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I Love Him Although I Shouldn't

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    I Know It Cannot Be Fixed.

     In high school, I met a guy, Matt, that was always there for me. We always had fun together and I was sure that he was going to be the guy that I would spend the rest of my life with. We dated for almost 3 years but the last few months were rocky. I was 19 at the time, and...
    chomikm chomikm 18-21 Oct 16, 2011

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    Time To Say Goodbye?

    Once upon a time I felt like I was his whole world, like my feelings mattered and I was loved. I believed in him and trusted him. I gave him everything I had to give. I was there when he needed me, staying up all night for days on end if he needed to talk. This was all okay...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 28, 2011

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    Is There Hope?

    I told my friend I like him. Since we're both bi I thought we could try to be together but I think I ruined whatever chance (if there even was one) and our friendship as well. No matter I will still love him. Even if I shouldn't but I feel so dirty! :'( I am IN LOVE!!! I will...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M Nov 20, 2010

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    He Might Leave...

    I am more or less in love with my best friend. Unfortunately he might be going to military school if he gets caught dipping again. I have tried to get him to stop, he wants to stop. He is the best friend I have ever made in my school career. I know it's not neccessarliy a good...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 4, 2010

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    Here We Go Down This Road Again

    I shouldn't love him hell I shouldn't even like him!  The list of what I shouldn't with him could go on forever!  I shouldn't look forward to hearing from him or count down when I'm going to see him again.  I hate that he is at work right now and I...
    crazyinlove88 crazyinlove88 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    There's Now A Small Chance...

    My friend broke up with his boyfriend! Now maybe I can tell him how I feel without feeling dirty about it!
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M Nov 17, 2010

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    Dangerous!

    I sometimes feel like I love my best friend. I told him i have thought about it before. He said he understood and was not surprised. I love him as a brother anyway. But I suppose if it weren't for his dad we might be together. His stepmother likes me and she doesn't know I'm bi...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    In Over My Head

    I love my best friend and I don't know why. I'm confused as to whether it's botherly or in a gay way. I would rather have a girlfriend, but I don't know if that will change anything. I find myself OBSESSING over him! I consider him family so this makes it even more damn twisted...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2010

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    I Finally Told Him...:)

    I told my friend I like him. He said he prefers African American boys. But we're still cool! :) That's good enough for me but however this one girl we are both friends with told me she wanted to be there when I told him. She was and she made it more uncomfortable than it...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2010

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    The Fire Won't Go Out

    It's been years. He is not mine. He travels. He knows my name. He knows my laugh. We have sung and danced all night. but, We have never touched. I love him even though it would hurt others if I told him. His "girlfriend" and my admirer. Damn love...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F Oct 23, 2008

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    He has a history of being a heartbreaker &

    ladies man. I've been warned but now he's in his 40's & tells me he's a changed man. We've been deeply in love for over a year & he hasn't done anything wrong. Should I marry him?
    jasminebear jasminebear 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Arrghhh

    It's been 2 years since we broke up.. we did everything together.. he said he no longer loves me... it hurts...and its hurt for 2 years.. its got better to only feel worse then ever before.. i shouldnt love him .. but i cant help it.. and i miss him.. and it makes me miserable...
    popsypop popsypop 18-21 2 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    He Is Back

    He is back in my life again and i still love him, i have so much to work out..I know i shouldnt care about him cause he hurt me greatly but i just cant make my feelings go away..
    lovelygal lovelygal 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2008

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    He was out of town, now he's back. My little bruised heart doesn't know how to feel.
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    - It's Only Getting Worse ., I Constantly Think Of Him , Talk To Him , & Stare At Him . I Have To Stop . I NEED To Stop . I Don't Kno How To Stop . Esp. w/o Cutting Him Off...
    BeeHunty BeeHunty 18-21, F Aug 13

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    Yes, you see correctly. A song posted tonight - a song posted night before last. I had a quick message last night. (At a time when I knew not to expect any.) Nice!
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    16 years ago, I met someone. I will never forget the first time I saw him, though for years I had let the memory tuck itself in a quiet spot, deep in my heart. His...
    tormentbynite tormentbynite 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I struggle with relationships as I'm 17 and never been in one... so maybe you guys can help. Backstory: both of us have never been in relationships at all. He's super shy I'm...
    LostInTheSolarSystem LostInTheSolarSystem 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I shouldn't but times like this when how alone I am really hits me I crave a relationship. Two of my exs still have feelings for me. One has made his feelings very clear recently...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F Aug 6

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    One day I went out after work with some friends, and some people I kind of knew, but not well. After leaving the bar, one of the guys I didn't know all that well invited all of us...
    Jackie22k Jackie22k 26-30, F Aug 3

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    I miss him so much :'( what should I do? I shouldn't be feeling like this after what he did. Someone help!
    DessyLove DessyLove 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    I love him, he has blocked me on everything today so there is no longer anyway I can talk to him. I never did anything to him. I tried to get to know his 'friend' better to find...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I miss him, that capricious little f~cker. He was definitely dangerous for me, with the way he would shift moods so quickly. Too quickly. I could never keep up. I got afraid...
    QueenOfLosers QueenOfLosers 13-15, F Aug 19

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    I miss so much that I cried, but I know I shouldn't miss him. I wish I can delete last week memories.
    KimVouch KimVouch 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Some people shouldn't have kids. I see a lot of adults Letting their kids walk behind them. The kids look about 1-3 years old. What I feel like doing taking their kid and see what...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Urrrggghhh! Many people just shouldn't have kids! Especially if they live like pigs themselves! Gosh! I'm sick and tired of seeing clothes on the sofa, napkins, tissues, socks, and...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Does my gf love me? We live together and were planning on getting married. I got sick today and had to cancel our vacation plans. She now is yelling at me and wants to fly out...
    l3ean l3ean 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 21

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    "One shouldn't be too hard on oneself when the object of one's affection returns the favor with rather less enthusiasm than one might have hoped. " (The object of My Affection)
    greycells greycells 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Today is a very special day Today is his birthday, birthday of the love of my life, theperson I love more than anything...Thanks to that wonderful mother who gave birth to such a...
    animelover1990 animelover1990 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I'm listening to a love song normally listen to Rap and just because I love someone that done't know it Anyone can relate
    MilesMathers MilesMathers 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

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    He was older. He was my friends brother. And oh every girl in school must of wanted him. And gosh I thought I could never impress him. He made me want to like cars and motorcycles...
    Cozie Cozie 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 5

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    Time to vent or whatever. Enjoy. January 28th, 2014... I met him. Where? Tumblr! Of course. I was typically following back some blogs and answering messages. Well, gosh, I...
    captivateyourlife captivateyourlife 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    well my ex broke up with me a month ago. We have a son together and I try all the time to get back with him. We still have sex the only thing differently is that he won't say he...
    Fleo94 Fleo94 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I get what people are saying about how absence makes the heart grow stronger... But what are you to do when you have been with someone for 3 years and only see that person once or...
    alwayswondering07 alwayswondering07 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I got into a relationship with a guy named drake. Drake was a few years older than me and battled a nasty drug addiction. our relationship turned toxic very quickly and he started...
    Katelynann30 Katelynann30 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    It kind of sucks. You don't realize how crappy it is because you've put so much effort in-so clearly anyone would love that, right? Wrong. Loving him was so hard. I might not have...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F Aug 7

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I love him because I love him. but I also hate him for not giving any support for our 8 months old son. He have this condition that he won't give any support as long as he don't...
    arianeshane arianeshane 18-21, F Aug 11

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    So last night I was trying to get to sleep, but I just couldn't. I was thinking of him...He was the one that got away. He and I had crushes on each other in high school, which we...
    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F a week ago

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    I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year, yes a year. I have tried but all I feel is annoyed most of the time. He is a really nice guy, and I think part of the...
    normil normil 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Love..Controversial topic isn't it. Does it suck or is the best thing to happen to a person. Its like one of the biggest risk you can take out there. Love obviously requires love...
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 Aug 3

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    I think he tried, that's whats painful, that he tried and failed to do so, I loved him with a passion, he wasn't great, but I accepted him, I wish he could have done the same for...
    melonladyy melonladyy 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 4

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    We went through a lot together..he hurt me..he helped me...he was there for me..and at times I felt helpless..seems like the feelings towards he won't vanish..he is still part of...
    genesis99 genesis99 22-25, F Aug 18

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