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I Love Him Although I Shouldn't

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    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    The Fire Won't Go Out

    It's been years. He is not mine. He travels. He knows my name. He knows my laugh. We have sung and danced all night. but, We have never touched. I love him even though it would hurt others if I told him. His "girlfriend" and my admirer. Damn love...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F Oct 23, 2008

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    He Is Back

    He is back in my life again and i still love him, i have so much to work out..I know i shouldnt care about him cause he hurt me greatly but i just cant make my feelings go away..
    lovelygal lovelygal 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2008

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    In Over My Head

    I love my best friend and I don't know why. I'm confused as to whether it's botherly or in a gay way. I would rather have a girlfriend, but I don't know if that will change anything. I find myself OBSESSING over him! I consider him family so this makes it even more damn twisted...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2010

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    Time To Say Goodbye?

    Once upon a time I felt like I was his whole world, like my feelings mattered and I was loved. I believed in him and trusted him. I gave him everything I had to give. I was there when he needed me, staying up all night for days on end if he needed to talk. This was all okay...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 28, 2011

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    Here We Go Down This Road Again

    I shouldn't love him hell I shouldn't even like him!  The list of what I shouldn't with him could go on forever!  I shouldn't look forward to hearing from him or count down when I'm going to see him again.  I hate that he is at work right now and I...
    crazyinlove88 crazyinlove88 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    I Know It Cannot Be Fixed.

     In high school, I met a guy, Matt, that was always there for me. We always had fun together and I was sure that he was going to be the guy that I would spend the rest of my life with. We dated for almost 3 years but the last few months were rocky. I was 19 at the time, and...
    chomikm chomikm 18-21 Oct 16, 2011

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    Arrghhh

    It's been 2 years since we broke up.. we did everything together.. he said he no longer loves me... it hurts...and its hurt for 2 years.. its got better to only feel worse then ever before.. i shouldnt love him .. but i cant help it.. and i miss him.. and it makes me miserable...
    popsypop popsypop 18-21 2 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    Dangerous!

    I sometimes feel like I love my best friend. I told him i have thought about it before. He said he understood and was not surprised. I love him as a brother anyway. But I suppose if it weren't for his dad we might be together. His stepmother likes me and she doesn't know I'm bi...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    He has a history of being a heartbreaker &

    ladies man. I've been warned but now he's in his 40's & tells me he's a changed man. We've been deeply in love for over a year & he hasn't done anything wrong. Should I marry him?
    jasminebear jasminebear 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    There's Now A Small Chance...

    My friend broke up with his boyfriend! Now maybe I can tell him how I feel without feeling dirty about it!
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M Nov 17, 2010

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    He Might Leave...

    I am more or less in love with my best friend. Unfortunately he might be going to military school if he gets caught dipping again. I have tried to get him to stop, he wants to stop. He is the best friend I have ever made in my school career. I know it's not neccessarliy a good...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 4, 2010

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    Is There Hope?

    I told my friend I like him. Since we're both bi I thought we could try to be together but I think I ruined whatever chance (if there even was one) and our friendship as well. No matter I will still love him. Even if I shouldn't but I feel so dirty! :'( I am IN LOVE!!! I will...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M Nov 20, 2010

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    I Finally Told Him...:)

    I told my friend I like him. He said he prefers African American boys. But we're still cool! :) That's good enough for me but however this one girl we are both friends with told me she wanted to be there when I told him. She was and she made it more uncomfortable than it...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2010

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    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I was mad at him. I thought he was behaving like a jackass. And I spoke plainly to him. I'm not mad any more; and I'm still interested. But I'm going to call him on his bullshit...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    He hearted my story today. That makes me happy. Not as happy as a little conversation would, though. That would take, what - 10 minutes? I still want to meet him IRL....and at...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yes, I still do. But I meant what I said - I am not going to let that fact ruin my life. I'm not going to make major life decisions based on him unless I start getting a lot more...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Good conversation 2 days ago...quick line yesterday...I'm happy. And since he gave me a heads-up, I know not to freak out if he can't be present much the next couple of weeks...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    - It's Only Getting Worse ., I Constantly Think Of Him , Talk To Him , & Stare At Him . I Have To Stop . I NEED To Stop . I Don't Kno How To Stop . Esp. w/o Cutting Him Off...
    BeeHunty BeeHunty 18-21, F a week ago

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    Yes, you see correctly. A song posted tonight - a song posted night before last. I had a quick message last night. (At a time when I knew not to expect any.) Nice!
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F a week ago

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    I love him, he has blocked me on everything today so there is no longer anyway I can talk to him. I never did anything to him. I tried to get to know his 'friend' better to find...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I shouldn't but times like this when how alone I am really hits me I crave a relationship. Two of my exs still have feelings for me. One has made his feelings very clear recently...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F Aug 6

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    One day I went out after work with some friends, and some people I kind of knew, but not well. After leaving the bar, one of the guys I didn't know all that well invited all of us...
    Jackie22k Jackie22k 26-30, F Aug 3

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    Yes, I know I shouldn't miss her the way I do now but part of me wants to make myself thinking about her. Her crooked smile, the taunting confidence on her face, her pointy nose...
    happyquest happyquest 22-25, F Jul 23

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    I miss him so much :'( what should I do? I shouldn't be feeling like this after what he did. Someone help!
    DessyLove DessyLove 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    I miss him, that capricious little f~cker. He was definitely dangerous for me, with the way he would shift moods so quickly. Too quickly. I could never keep up. I got afraid...
    QueenOfLosers QueenOfLosers 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I haven't dated anyone in almost two years. I made a conscious decision at 15 that I'm not ready for a relationship. I have a few mental illnesses that make it hard to hold...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I miss so much that I cried, but I know I shouldn't miss him. I wish I can delete last week memories.
    KimVouch KimVouch 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I know no one is perfect but not everyone should have kids. Doctors and laws should get into parents' IQ, whether they have common sense or not, habits, and salary. Gosh! If one...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I don't know if I really miss them or miss the times we had together. I shouldn't miss them because they're immature and manipulative and make me feel like ****. I know I'm better...
    amyvictoriaaa amyvictoriaaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I shouldn't do it but its not like I'm spreading it around like butter. It stays between the two of us . I promise .
    ilovefood99 ilovefood99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Some people shouldn't have kids. I see a lot of adults Letting their kids walk behind them. The kids look about 1-3 years old. What I feel like doing taking their kid and see what...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Urrrggghhh! Many people just shouldn't have kids! Especially if they live like pigs themselves! Gosh! I'm sick and tired of seeing clothes on the sofa, napkins, tissues, socks, and...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I know I shouldn't miss her, but I do. She is the one that decided to stop talking without any explanation. I know I didn't do anything wrong and it's on her, but I still miss her...
    shygirl2014 shygirl2014 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    He confuses me. Some days, I swear i see clear hints that he likes me. Other days, it's as if he's avoiding me. I can't get him out of my head. He's the first thing i think about...
    confusionswirlinginmyhead confusionswirlinginmyhead 18-21, F Jul 31

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    Today is a very special day...Today is his birthday, birthday of the love of my life, the person i love more then anything...Thanks to that woman who gave birth to such a kind...
    animelover1990 animelover1990 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why is now in days that we (people in general), always have to find a way to prove our undying love for one another? What happen to " I LOVE YOU", or "YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO ME? I...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    We met at an event.. A year ago .. If a year ago you would've told me that today I would've been crazy in love with that man I would've laugh at you .. And on top of that, I...
    muyakaa muyakaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I met this guy John February of 2013. We gotten really close, feelings started to develop, then finally he told me he loved me around May. I know it only took us 4 months to fall...
    Nroses77 Nroses77 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    So I was dating a soldier for almost a year (one month from a year when he broke up with me). We were perfectly happy before he let for annual training. Two weeks into it he calls...
    ArmyNakata ArmyNakata 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    He was older. He was my friends brother. And oh every girl in school must of wanted him. And gosh I thought I could never impress him. He made me want to like cars and motorcycles...
    Cozie Cozie 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 5

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    Time to vent or whatever. Enjoy. January 28th, 2014... I met him. Where? Tumblr! Of course. I was typically following back some blogs and answering messages. Well, gosh, I...
    captivateyourlife captivateyourlife 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hey guys, I need relationship opinions or advice. I've been really confused if part of the troubles of the relationship is on me or him. At the moment i'am in a relationship for 6...
    nixielizabeth nixielizabeth 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 21

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    I used to hate myself. I took blame for everyone else's pain and mistakes. I thought that I was scum of the Earth and how could anyone like me or care about me. And I often felt...
    hazy6 hazy6 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    He calls me his best friend, and I let it stay that way because he makes me so happy and I don't want to lose him. I am so addicted to him and fascinated by him. He is so smart...
    MrsDewitt MrsDewitt 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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