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I Love Him Although I Shouldn't

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    Is There Hope?

    I told my friend I like him. Since we're both bi I thought we could try to be together but I think I ruined whatever chance (if there even was one) and our friendship as well. No matter I will still love him. Even if I shouldn't but I feel so dirty! :'( I am IN LOVE!!! I will...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M Nov 20, 2010

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    In Over My Head

    I love my best friend and I don't know why. I'm confused as to whether it's botherly or in a gay way. I would rather have a girlfriend, but I don't know if that will change anything. I find myself OBSESSING over him! I consider him family so this makes it even more damn twisted...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2010

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    Dangerous!

    I sometimes feel like I love my best friend. I told him i have thought about it before. He said he understood and was not surprised. I love him as a brother anyway. But I suppose if it weren't for his dad we might be together. His stepmother likes me and she doesn't know I'm bi...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2010

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    He Is Back

    He is back in my life again and i still love him, i have so much to work out..I know i shouldnt care about him cause he hurt me greatly but i just cant make my feelings go away..
    lovelygal lovelygal 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2008

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    I Finally Told Him...:)

    I told my friend I like him. He said he prefers African American boys. But we're still cool! :) That's good enough for me but however this one girl we are both friends with told me she wanted to be there when I told him. She was and she made it more uncomfortable than it...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2010

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    Arrghhh

    It's been 2 years since we broke up.. we did everything together.. he said he no longer loves me... it hurts...and its hurt for 2 years.. its got better to only feel worse then ever before.. i shouldnt love him .. but i cant help it.. and i miss him.. and it makes me miserable...
    popsypop popsypop 18-21 2 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    I Know It Cannot Be Fixed.

     In high school, I met a guy, Matt, that was always there for me. We always had fun together and I was sure that he was going to be the guy that I would spend the rest of my life with. We dated for almost 3 years but the last few months were rocky. I was 19 at the time, and...
    chomikm chomikm 18-21 Oct 16, 2011

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    He Might Leave...

    I am more or less in love with my best friend. Unfortunately he might be going to military school if he gets caught dipping again. I have tried to get him to stop, he wants to stop. He is the best friend I have ever made in my school career. I know it's not neccessarliy a good...
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 4, 2010

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    Here We Go Down This Road Again

    I shouldn't love him hell I shouldn't even like him!  The list of what I shouldn't with him could go on forever!  I shouldn't look forward to hearing from him or count down when I'm going to see him again.  I hate that he is at work right now and I...
    crazyinlove88 crazyinlove88 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    The Fire Won't Go Out

    It's been years. He is not mine. He travels. He knows my name. He knows my laugh. We have sung and danced all night. but, We have never touched. I love him even though it would hurt others if I told him. His "girlfriend" and my admirer. Damn love...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F Oct 23, 2008

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    There's Now A Small Chance...

    My friend broke up with his boyfriend! Now maybe I can tell him how I feel without feeling dirty about it!
    Wilnara Wilnara 18-21, M Nov 17, 2010

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    He has a history of being a heartbreaker &

    ladies man. I've been warned but now he's in his 40's & tells me he's a changed man. We've been deeply in love for over a year & he hasn't done anything wrong. Should I marry him?
    jasminebear jasminebear 36-40, F Mar 11

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    I will always love my ex boyfriend Dorian and we use to fight so hard sometimes when we got into arguments and I use to cry so hard. I know that we love for each other but we have...
    lyricbutterfly2013 lyricbutterfly2013 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    He's depressed and not saying much. I've said as much as I dare to say. I'd love to comfort away his pain - but he has to let me. I won't chase him.
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    It kinda started when I told my friend I like a guy no naming and then one day he asked me out I freaked out and said NO I was so dumb now I feel an idiot saying no 3 times the...
    TinaBuckel TinaBuckel 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I love him, I don't know why I was blessed with him, so I just do, it's like I just could die for him, I love him more than I could love any person, they see a loser, a bum, a...
    sheloveshim57 sheloveshim57 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    oh dang. I'm looking at this picture of that person. I realized I hecka loved him. I don't think I do anymore because my emotions seem to have calmed down but there's a part of me...
    wackywoman wackywoman 26-30 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    it's kinda weird for me to talk about this , you see i am not that kind of girl who has crushes n stuff XD .. but recently ( and for the frist time , i met a guy , he makes my...
    RooDream RooDream 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've had a crush on him since summer. We're just friends though. I was with his former best friend for a little. and he dated a girl that used to be my friend. And she almost dated...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Seeing him for the first time, i didn't expect i would ever fall for him. It was my first day of 9th grade and we had 6th period together. As the year went on, me and him got...
    Smallgirl12 Smallgirl12 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My damn heart don't understand that he is not the one for me!!! Here I'm talking about a guy, my prince, my sweetheart and the one to whom i love more than my life!!! It all...
    whyonlymewhy whyonlymewhy 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am in love with someone who doesn't love me back or doesn't show it. I know I shouldn't be but the heart wants what the hearts and I want himmmmm! 😍😍
    toyamanaskieeee toyamanaskieeee 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I saw you today and I swear it was in slow motion. I locked myself out and I saw your window was open. I yelled out, and to my astonishment, it was you... It could have been five...
    JelloFloor JelloFloor 26-30, F Mar 27

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    I needed someone who would love more than he love himself.Drama mode on.
    Irregularactivities Irregularactivities 16-17, F Apr 6

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    Last Saint Patrick's Day I went out with some girl friends from cosmetology school. I hadn't really binge drank since I left college so I was excited for a real "night out" college...
    victoriaxbx victoriaxbx 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Sometimes I gossip when I shouldn't... Particularly when I'm stressed or drunk. I feel so bad for gossiping. So for anyone I've ever gossiped about out there. I am truly sorry...
    Rosesanddiamonds Rosesanddiamonds 22-25, F Apr 2

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    When you love someone that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My name’s John, and on January 2nd, 2014, I met the guy of my dreams. Yes, I said guy. Yes, I am gay. I’ve told quite a few people but haven’t really got around to announcing...
    hallasholm101 hallasholm101 18-21 a week ago

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    So when I was 10 I went to visit my uncle who lives in California. I had a great time! So my last day we went to the beach and there I met a scrawny boy with blonde hair and blue...
    DeadlyKryptonite DeadlyKryptonite 13-15, F Mar 20

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    Sometimes I feel like my fiancée doesn't know how much I love him. I am so in love with him. I do anything for him. I love him so much and now even more than ever. We recently had...
    Krystalgarciaa Krystalgarciaa 22-25, F Mar 25

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    We used to be very much in love. Everything was fine. Then things started going bad. I kept blaming for everything that was wrong in my life. He kept telling me that I don't...
    sashaloren sashaloren 26-30 1 Response Mar 27

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    It was kind of like, destiny, like it was supposed to happen. I was 13 years old, I moved to a new town for about a year. and I met a new friend, who also became my best friend...
    HockeyLuver HockeyLuver 13-15, F Apr 5

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    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 23 months already. Let me just give you a quick overview of our relationship. My boyfriend is my eldest brother's best friend, while my...
    beth5912 beth5912 22-25 Apr 7

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    We were together for two years and I swear I've never felt this way about anyone else. He is the love of my life...I can't ever deny that. I fought long and hard for our...
    chescafrxn chescafrxn 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I made a friend online. I know it's dangerous, but I was careful. I have never had a friend I could open up to. It's been killing me since I was 10 years old, and I'm 15 now. When...
    dancer21117 dancer21117 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    My best friend always tells me about his new love . He always tells me about how deeply in love with her he is and how he tells her she is the love of his life and he's not going...
    GirlonFiyah GirlonFiyah 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    The fire time I saw him, I swear I heard some music in my head. He was simply beautiful. He had these gorgeous thick eyelashes, which underneath were hidden the cutest emerald eyes...
    ibak12 ibak12 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    You can't even understand. He's an idol while I'm here stuck in a small town nobody knows about. He's halfway across the world and I've never met him before. It started over 10...
    exoflower exoflower 70+, F 5 hrs ago

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    There is a man I'm deeply in love. I met him 6 years ago in an online chat room. I was skipping through a bunch of rooms and I was fortunate enough to end up in the room he was. We...
    oathtoorder oathtoorder 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    It's not that I loved someone, but that I currently love someone who doesn't feel the same. We dated almost 2 years ago, and he was just so perfect. I actually thought that maybe...
    morganlynn95 morganlynn95 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    It still hurts. The pain. Though its not physical pain, at this point I think I'd rather take the physical pain. At least that does not last long. This love story of mine was short...
    ceetasha23 ceetasha23 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Hi please help and take the time to read this I am really sad right now you see there is this guy I have had a crush on for 3 years now and he likes me back but I'm to scared to...
    clarygirl7 clarygirl7 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    This is my first experience. I have decided to share this with you guys because I don't trust no one to tell this. I am 18 years old and from Asia. I have lived in European...
    Enkhuushv Enkhuushv 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I fell in love with this one boy on Facebook were in a relationship right now but I'm his queen he's my king and I don't know if I love him or hate him he's never on that much but...
    AnnLittle AnnLittle 18-21, F Mar 24

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    I love him and he loves me too but I love him more. He can make me feel like I'm on top of the world or like scum he might uplift me but he also embarrasses me. I'm so confused I...
    lostsoulxx lostsoulxx 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    My best guy friend We were really close, I had the teenieeesstt crush on him which vanquished almost immedietly but my friend told him and after saying 'it would break my heart if...
    snazzygal3000 snazzygal3000 13-15, F Mar 26

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    For almost 3 years, I LOVE HIM ! well, that's not new but what makes my love for him different?.. For almost 3 years we only met for 4 times! May 2011..May 2012,,Aug. 2013...Jan...
    aderie48 aderie48 16-17, F Mar 29

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