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I Love Him and Don't Know What to Do

for anyone who loves someone and is not sure why or how or even when it started 103 People

    How do you not fall for someone?

    All the ingredients for a great relationship are there - the chemistry, the common elements, the friendship, the future aspirations, the attraction to each other...but he isn't ready to be in a relationship. What exactly does that mean? For J, I think it means that he is...
    Kristenbb Kristenbb 31-35, F Dec 22, 2013

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    I Never Thought This Would Happen..

    I love him.. The whole story started in a wrong way i know..but when our heart beats, we are out of control.. at the begining, he loved me and i didnt, we were in a relationship, but it meant nothing to me.. with time i got used to him, and i started loving him, i know i hurt him...
    LonelyGurlll LonelyGurlll 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 15, 2011

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    It kinda started when I told my friend I like a

    guy no naming and then one day he asked me out I freaked out and said NO I was so dumb now I feel an idiot saying no 3 times the thing is I really like him but have a feeling he is NEVER going to ask again what do I do I never do stuff right I hate my life i will never have him...
    TinaBuckel TinaBuckel 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    Help Me

    I love him but I do not know if he love me becouse from 2 weeks ago he not call me  and if i talk to him he talk but he  not  with me I do not what to do
    SoSo123 SoSo123 18-21, F Dec 5, 2008

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    I Really Don't Know What To Do

    I love him so much that I can say he is may soulmate, the love of my life. I only want to be with him and noone else. When I notice a man is interested in me, I cut off the talk. He is on my mind constantly. He is the best man I've ever known. I want to make him see how much I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 Dec 2, 2012

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    I Hate It But I Do

    I still love him even though he broke my heart and even though he did wrong by me, unfortunatly the feeling just doesnt go away...
    lovelygal lovelygal 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2008

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    I am in love with the man

    who groomed me. It is an extremely long and confusing story so I am not going to get into it (for now) as the court case is currently on-going. It has gotten so bad without seeing him, speaking to him, I hope that he pleads not guilty at his hearing so I will see him during...
    WayUpHigh WayUpHigh 18-21, F Jan 13, 2014

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    I Loved Someone Who Didnt Love Me

    Well now were do i start?? Well 2006 i was 5 months pregnant with my first child (conceived by rape). I was on the o2 internet one night. My screen name was pregnant25 even tho i was only 24. This guy come up as romantic36 we swapped numbers and continued talking for another week...
    paulafinn09 paulafinn09 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 20, 2011

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    I Told Him I Still Loved Him...

    He said I was strong for telling him and that was it.I need to get his attention.I know if I was there in his company I would be able to.4000 miles is killing me.
    respectthesong respectthesong 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 5, 2010

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    It's A Cycle

    It has been nearly a year since I met him.  He came onto me very subtly, but I just knew we would end up dating from the first conversation we had.  We just clicked.  He was my first boyfriend as well, and since I’m a very insecure, shy girl I felt like he was the only guy I...
    toragirl toragirl 18-21, F Jun 3, 2011

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    I will always love my ex boyfriend Dorian

    and we use to fight so hard sometimes when we got into arguments and I use to cry so hard. I know that we love for each other but we have a love hate relationship that always breaks us up apart but it hurts so bad. Maybe we only have a physical connection because it was only...
    lyricbutterfly2013 lyricbutterfly2013 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5, 2014

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    I Think I Love Him But I Can Never Do Anything About It !!!

      I recently started a new school in September and i made a  few friends and everything was going well. Then i saw him , i even had a conversation with him. I would be with my friends and he would be with his and our eyes would meet and it was as if we had something...
    insatiablyinsanity insatiablyinsanity 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Maybe In The Future?

    I met him in my Freshman year of college and his Sophomore year. I joined a student org at the beginning of the year and he was the head of it that year. He was PreMed, I am still an International Affairs major. He just graduated early by one year because of a special program and...
    whereishe25 whereishe25 18-21 Aug 12, 2012

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    Loving Him

    Wow, where to begin? Well, i guess it all started last year when we were in the same classes for homeroom and Spanish. Once I saw him I KNEW that I had to become his friend because he was SO cool....So most of last year, we spent getting to know each other as friends...but...
    sarastim19 sarastim19 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    Me And Him

    i met a boy on the station. we talk a lot on facebook but i dont know what to say when i see him. help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    loveyou2xxx loveyou2xxx 16-17 Dec 6, 2012

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    Serendipity.

    Last year, we were together- we never kissed, but we were passionate in every other way. He had...some family issues last year that he had to deal with. I wanted to love him and just be with him so badly. The months after went by and I assumed he had forgotten about me, he got a...
    shamrock17 shamrock17 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2, 2009

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    Uncertainty Again

    Some people wished to know how everything developed between my lecturer and me, so this is part two about our special connection. Yes, for me it still feels special, even when my euphoria has gone. I'll tell you why. Well, when I couldn't stand the situation anymore, I decided to...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    My Obsessive Crush :)

    I have this HUGE CRUSH on my batch mate for over 4 years now. I really, really like him. I don't know if it's real, or I really am just a conceited human being but I think he likes me even a little bit. I often catch him looking at me. And now, we're starting to be friends. We...
    camilletan camilletan 18-21 Aug 21, 2013

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    I’m at a crossroads. I have been with my husband for 10 years; married for half of that time. We had years of bliss. We met in college and grew together. We loved each other...
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    I am no longer sure if I still am in love with him or just comfortable and love him like a bestfriend. If I leave him I don't have much family and the ones I have I'm not really...
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    I've been with him for four years, we were planning on getting married in July of this year but three days ago he went to the gym and this guy that works at the clinic told him I...
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    What if I am still in love with my ex that I broke up with 4 years ago and I'm too proud to admit it to him? I have dated in that time. I've done a lot in that time. Including...
    brokenpetal brokenpetal 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    I don't know what happened to me ? 5 months ago something happened that changed my life forever. I met Chris. Being as naive and innocent as I was, I trusted a stranger with no...
    sadvibes sadvibes 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I can't help but compare myself to others. My friends are more than just full time students. Here I am at home, still living with my parents, gaming, hardly a social life and no...
    ikg00 ikg00 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    This life wow! I just don't know what I feel anymore. I just know I'm tired. I have these dreams of driving through the country air. Fresh and beautiful trees. Green pretty grass...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F Mar 18

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    A girl here keeps getting at me. She makes remarks about my cousin, how I deserved what I did to me, and that I shouldn't have got him put in prison for it. But then also comments...
    betruetoyourself14 betruetoyourself14 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I have recently found myself in a place where I don’t know anymore. I constantly feel like a failure. I feel like I can’t do anything right. I mess up everything. I can’t...
    Hindercat Hindercat 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    I I keep getting on here hoping that I'll see something or talk to someone, and that I'll recognize what I'm searching for when I see it. I don't know what I'm looking for. I don...
    thatonewoman thatonewoman 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    i'm kinda scared of us breaking up.. were 14 and 15 and having a baby... but don't want his support as a friend i want his support as a boyfriend.. someone that will love me and...
    xxsanekittenxx xxsanekittenxx 13-15, F Mar 16

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    Sometimes I don't know what I'm doing in life. I just can't get up enough motivation to do the things I want/ need to do no matter I talk about doing. Part of be gets really...
    Blessedbyfae Blessedbyfae 22-25, F Mar 17

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    I'm 20 years old and to this day I still don't know what loving someone is... I have never had a girlfriend I have never felt like I connected with someone all I've ever known is...
    TheLynxx TheLynxx 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I am 17 years old and I don't know what I want to do with my life. Even though I know I shouldn't compare myself to others, I know that most of my classmates already know what they...
    Jasliet Jasliet 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    People (teenagers) who think they got it bad, or that they're depressed, so they cut or take pills and try to OD. ******* really? You have no idea what life is. Lemme give you a...
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 11

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    Sometimes I want new friends when I can't see what's good with the old. Sometimes I wonder why I can't get a boyfriend. Then when I'm actually get one I don't need one. ETC ETC ETC...
    WhisperingGrass WhisperingGrass 16-17, F Mar 16

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    My brother keeps on hitting me and hurting me lately. I know that he has done it all my life but now I cant stand it. I cant cope with the pain it causes. I really want to leave...
    oceaneyes97 oceaneyes97 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I'm currently on vacation and I don't know what to do,I don't want to be stuck at home sitting in front of my laptop or desktop all day like a lazy couch potato I want to be active...
    DepressedAngell DepressedAngell 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've a huge cruch on my brother's best friend...he's elder than me and i don't know what to do
    lamyy lamyy 16-17, F Mar 3

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    My boyfriend had a gay experience with a friend of his when he was on drugs. He said said that he didn't want to and it was the drugs but i don't know what to believe or how to...
    jess1goodchild jess1goodchild 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Everything is just so hard I'm losing who I am. I'm tired of feeling low , lost,depressed in waned like invisible AMD I don't know what to do I just want to be lvoed and protected...
    lela201465 lela201465 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    It's simple as that, really. I have depression and anxiety (general, separation, and social). I just don't know what I want.
    Shaywen Shaywen 16-17, F Mar 21

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    I just confused, unorganised, and extremely exhausted. There is a lot of uni work to be done, but I just can't do it. I get distracted and put it aside, telling myself to do it...
    henal216 henal216 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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