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I Love Him But Can't Have Him

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    The Best Man

    I fell in love with my husbands best man. I realised it about 6 months after i got married. I had an opportunity to tell him but i'm a coward. Now i regularly obsess about him. Here is the full story.   The best man, my husband and I were all at uni together. I got...
    swabeyas swabeyas 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2010

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    Those Little Moments ...

    We was laying in bed. She was asleep and i rested my hand on her back when he reached his arm around her to hold her. I felt his hand brush over mine and i wanted to move it away in case i was in his way but i left it settled there thinking that if i moved it he would think i was...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 30, 2013

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    I Love Him But To Him Im Just A Friend :(

    so theres this guy at school and he is just perfect in every way in the past few weeks we have become really close in a friendly way but i see him as much more and have done for a long time he's really popular with girls but is'nt a slag at all he mostly just ignores them, he has...
    danielle1234 danielle1234 16-17 1 Response Nov 16, 2011

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    I Am So Frustrated!

    I married an older man 25 years ago. Not saying I don't love him, I'm just very frustrated with everything now. He has had Parkinson's for seven years, has had three strokes and now has dementia from the Parkinson's! 19 years ago on the first day of my job I was introduced to...
    Lisaslife Lisaslife 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    From Puppy Love To Heartache

    I fell in love with him when I first layed eyes on him, I caught myself staring at him!  I had to make myself stop, but I kept stealing glances at him anyway.  Would you believe that I was only in preschool at the time?  I fell in love before I even knew what love...
    JackieAna JackieAna 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    I Do....

    he's amazing. like a whirlwind that passes me by and leaves me feeling amazing.     i cant have him for many many stupid little reasons.     thats ok i guess. as long as he's still around.   xtessex
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    I Love Him But He Doesn't Love Me.

    So I've been stuck in a relationship for about 2 months. I know, two months isn't very long at all. We started off as just friends and neither of us had any intentions in dating one another. That quickly changed, we started developing feelings for each other but I was still not...
    Catcat1234 Catcat1234 16-17, F Aug 18, 2013

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    My Tutor

    God, I adore my tutor. He is so absolutely cute and fun and clever and I don't know what. (I know I must be an ******* to say this while I'm in a relationship but that's what I'm always like. This doesn't mean I don't love my boyfriend. I just love him too.) Tomorrow I'll have...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2007

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    He broke my heart and left me

    for his ex. She left you before you fool! Why take her back. But then I realized I would do the same for you. I can't help but want the thing that makes me the happiest back in my life.
    mracinow mracinow 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I Will Never Forget Him.

    I met jay 5 years ago when my brother introduced me to him. He was my brothers best friend and roomate. He and my bro had to move in with us for a while...i was 15 at the time and jay was 21. In the 3 months he stayed with us at my parents house, i grew more in love with him...
    ifsogirl777 ifsogirl777 18-21 Jan 1, 2012

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    I don't know how I feel about him.

    When I'm talking with him or sitting right beside him, his attention goes straight to me. Even if we don't talk, it's like I know he doesn't mind the silence. I love the fact we can stand each other's craziness and actually have an intellectual coversation. I think I started to...
    HarmonyEvers HarmonyEvers 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Betrayed...will I Ever Love Again!!!

    I was in a relationship for 3 1/2 years with my best friend. We had been friends for years and then started dating we had our break ups and our ups and downs but we always got threw it after being with each other for a year we moved 30 minutes away to another town we got our own...
    kmendoza9 kmendoza9 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    Forbidden Love

    When I see you… My heart starts racing & it sometimes feels like it’s skipped a beat. When I’m in your arms… I feel like not letting you go & losing you. When I stare into your eyes…I see how happy you make me feel. When you hold my hand & I hold...
    Vix3n Vix3n 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    Is It Over For Good This Time?

    after ending an 'affair' back end of last year because my hubby found out, I have been back in touch with my MM for the past few months. We havent seen each other, but have texted and talked most days. I found out that whilst hed been seeing me for 5 years he actually met someone...
    sillysoo sillysoo 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    It Feels So Good, But He's So Bad For Me..

    He's one of those guys that makes you feel like the world, but the makes you feel like you mean nothing. He's one of those guys that you know he loves you, but doesn't show it. I've never felt this way. I just love him so much but I know I cat have him. Nuff said.
    Chaossexdrivenbetch23 Chaossexdrivenbetch23 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    I'm happy for him. Really I am.

    I just wish I wasn't so jealous.
    pixel2metal pixel2metal 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Unknown Past

    this is a poem i wrote to my ex boyfriend... unknown past walking on the broken glass; hurting myself trying to fix the unknown past. was it me, or was it you? 'til then, i have no clue. questioning myself if our love was real, i guess you wasn't looking for the real...
    love2singgurl love2singgurl 16-17, F Aug 31, 2010

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    Second Chance

    I met him when I was 17 and he was 18. We had one wonderful year together but he was uncomfortable committing to someone so early and I had to let him go. I must have thought about him every day. I kept him in a corner of my heart and never forgot him. I married and had two sons...
    stonesfan56 stonesfan56 56-60, F 6 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    The Only Man I've Ever Loved.

    I was fourteen my brother and his friends were hanging outside of my house, we were introduced and right then and there I knew he was the one.That day while driving away he smiled at me and I swear I could feel my heart thump through my chest.He had a gorgeous girlfriend for the...
    Elizajay Elizajay 22-25 May 7, 2012

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    So Into My Co-worker

    We like each other, a lot. But there a couple of obstacles: we work for the same company and division even though he is based in another city and he is much younger than me. Work  is sacred to me and I do not mix business and pleasure. I have a lot of responsibilities and need a...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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    Scared Of The Happy End

    I have never felt the way I do when I look into your eyes. Nothing has ever affected my thoughts more than the way you smile at me accross your desk. Nothing has ever made me shiver in the heat as much as when I think of your hair, nothing has ever made me so hot. Nothing has...
    monty1212 monty1212 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2012

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    He's Not Mine To Have

    He's my best friend, but he is straight and doesn't like me like that. I love him but I'd just hold him back so I guess its for the better.
    Deathward22 Deathward22 18-21, M Jul 14, 2013

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    Looking Back I'm Such An Idiot... But Can't Stop Thinking Of Him

    It's a total cliche, I'm married and so is he. We work together, we've flirted a lot then for one crazy month we were lovers and it truly was the best time ever. He makes me laugh, we get on so well together and I'd honestly go to the ends of the earth for him if he asked me to...
    Pollaidh Pollaidh 31-35 1 Response Apr 29, 2011

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    I Love Him Dearly (poem)

    I love you dearly, dearly, he said. And I nearly, nearly, fled. But my heart melted from his eyes. And my head forgot all the lies… I thought maybe, maybe, this is real. But then baby, baby, what’s the deal? You say you adore me, And then you ignore me. I love you...
    LainaLuv9 LainaLuv9 36-40 1 Response Mar 9, 2012

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    Him ....

    He was such a funny man ... he was always game for a laugh ... chasing me around doing stupid little crazy things with me. Like pelting the teenagers out the front with snow balls and then hiding behind cars ... giggling like children. Having little food fights whilst trying to...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 28, 2013

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    10 Months Of Heartbreak.

    so, i dated this guy for 10 months, on & off. i fell in love really fast, faster then i expected. he broke up with me for absolutely nothing, i mean, he dumped me 10 times, or 11 times, i lost count. haha. but, he put me through alot of stress, like, i don't know, i would cry...
    love2singgurl love2singgurl 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 25, 2010

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    Scared ...

    He was special to me once, meant the world to me once ... We would talk everyday on cam and we was always laughing and joking. He has this way about him ... he brought out the child in me i guess ... this silly me that i didn't even know was there inside of me all along. He would...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 28, 2013

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    I Want To Give Up

    on life sometimes. I love these 2 guys. I have loved one for 2 years now and am waaaaaaaaaaaaay too scared to tell him. so many times i have been like yh lets tell him today...tomorrow...never... The other one is one of my best friends. He knows everything about me (other than...
    mabelangel mabelangel 13-15 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    In Rare Form Today

    Maybe it's just because I am pissy.... Maybe it is sexual frustration.... Maybe it is because I always want things I can't have... My relationship is great, but I am being greedy today. I want amazing sex and passion. I am craving that endless attention...that mind blowing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 18, 2013

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    I met this tall,good looking guy/doctor at work.

    I became his nurse in the opd section.Never knew he was that good looking when i was few inches away from him.He makes me smile and i dont get bored nor tired in a pm duty.There was a time that when my head nurse informed me that ill be having my duty im his clinic my heart skip...
    dreamingnightingale dreamingnightingale 26-30, F Mar 9

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    I feel my heart is breaking.

    I fell in love with someone with a partner had a 12 month affair while I was in the UK,I'm now back in oz and we talk daily.im sue to return to the UK soon but scared as I don't want to be the ow but im so in love with him.im 50and my life was so great 3 years ago but it's like I...
    pommygirl pommygirl 46-50, F Jun 28

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    :( Cant Have You

    I've told him I love him because there something about him that's special, all he does is shrug and says so? everytime I text him saying hi you want to hang out? and he ignores it, that kills me. he told me if I wanted to be just his "friend with benefit" I told him of course not...
    LizzyBear619 LizzyBear619 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    I Should Know Better.

    my goodness should i ever known better. i am in love with a special guy but he wants to be strictly for the physical part instead of the emotional, though we both agreed it to be so but i can't help these feelings i have developed for him. and i have told him but nothing has...
    fallenangelkokoro fallenangelkokoro 18-21, F Jan 2, 2013

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    I fell in love with a boy in a book .

    . He's the sweetest , weirdest and most wonderful thing that ever crossed my mind .. The point isnt just that he is a non-existent person but he doesnt even exist any longer in that fictional world .. He die of cancer !! When he did , i couldnt help crying all night long .. It...
    sweetembrace13297 sweetembrace13297 16-17, F Jan 8

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    Well sorry fibs is kinda long I just wanted

    maybe some advice? So there's this one guy who I really liked for awhile and he knew I did and we would hangout and you could tell he liked me but wouldn't admit it. Anyway months later I took his virginity and I really liked him, and he seemed to accept me. Then, he found out I...
    userbamego123 userbamego123 13-15, F Jun 8

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    He's Perfect

    A few years ago I was fortunate enough to meet someone. He came at the right time. He had all the qualities I could wish for in a partner and he was the perfect gentleman with impeccable manners. He had a sense of humour second to none. As we were not living close to each other...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 18 Responses Jun 24, 2011

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    Only A Mere Friend

    I love this guy a lot. But hes going out with my bff i didnt tell her i liked him im sure she would,ve broke up with him or maybe even ignored him for a long period of time till he broke up with her they like each other a lot but it hurts for me to see him by another persons side...
    Foreverandnever Foreverandnever 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I'm So Sad Today :(

    He said he just wants to be friends! And every smart girl know that's just code to ''go away'' ! :(
    directionergirl directionergirl 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    I "can't" Be With Him

    I was born in Acapulco, Mexico. Raised here in California in the same city since 4 month of age.  I don't know why, but somehow My family still hasn't gotten papers. I am classified as an illegal immigrant. Ever since I recognized this, It tore me down. It makes me feel like...
    Diana721 Diana721 22-25, F Sep 26, 2010

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    I liked him for a very long time now.

    I think I'm starting to love him... But to him, I'm just "the friend." I'm one of the few girls he can have a decent conversation with. We both understand each other and we can easily joke with each other. But he told me about the girl he likes. He told me her name and...
    HarmonyEvers HarmonyEvers 16-17, F Jul 9

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    Cod4

    I have been playing xboxlive since I was 12 but it all started when I was 16. I was playing match on COD4 with my homie sick, we had been gaming together from the start but this story isn't about him. It's about Real the man I love to this day. Anyways Sick and I were talkin...
    LilDrgnFly LilDrgnFly 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2012

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    Love And Be Loved

    My story is just simple. I was divorced only a few months when I met the man of my heart. From the day that I met him, we were just so into each other. I knew he was the man that I wanted to share my life and love with. My kids adored him, my family loved him and I centered my...
    Broken43 Broken43 41-45 2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    So Wrong But So Right?

    ive know my best friends family for 10 years, not just her, her mom sister brothers dad cousins uncles the works, i was kicked out of my house last summer and moved in with them for a good 7 months, her one brother and i when we were younger alwaysed picked on eachother had...
    schoolfire schoolfire 16-17, F May 3, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I want one sooo much :( whenever I go to my aunties i don't leave Caspar the whippet alone.
    MollyMeggs MollyMeggs 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I have been with my boyfriend (Jake) for almost 3 years now and he is wonderful. He is the most incredible caring and funny guy and I'm very much in love with him. So this is why...
    littlefluffycloud littlefluffycloud 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    ...i cried now and thinking that this is unfair...why i need to fall in love with him...why he stares and look at me through the eyes that almost touches my soul on our first...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Unfortunately. The wrong person came into my life at the wrong time. He is eves apple - I have never felt such strong desire. I feel drunk around him. I feel weak. These feelings...
    happycupcake happycupcake 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    ...just had a telephone conversation with him today...but i imagine his eyes and felt his sadness...i miss him and we can't have the opportunity to see each other...ours is a...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I had a crush with a senior. we were in the same theatre club but I don't know what to do so... I kept it secret. I sent a letter to him telling him that I loved him but I didn't...
    gytriajeng gytriajeng 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    837 miles separate us. We met on tumblr and 7 months later we met in person. The minute his hands were around my waist hugging me I knew I was going to fall for him. The way he...
    slizzer slizzer 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am in love with my friends brother in law. He is gorgeous and has the sweetest personality. The one problem is he has a girl friend who has emotional problems. He tries to smile...
    staky85 staky85 26-30 Jul 6

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    I love a her and she loves me too But i can't have her because she already have a boyfriend. And she's scared that our friendship might be ruin if we follow our feelings
    Harukami Harukami 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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