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I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

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    We're A New Couple . . . Is It Doomed?

    We've been together for almost four months, and dating a few months before that. We've spent nearly every day together for the past few months. We know what the other is thinking. I'm not attracted to him. I blame it on our first kiss. But its been so long now I worry...
    AnitaReason AnitaReason 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    Not Attracted To Her

    It's just when she smokes hate the smell hate the taste hate everything about it when she smokes all the attraction I have for her leaves me when she isn't smoking as in "quit" I'm very attracted to her and enjoy kissing her when she hasn't been smoking
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M Dec 23, 2012

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    Man Of My Dreams!...but I'm Not Attracted To Him:

    Hello, I've never been married but I am 40yrs old...so I am fairly experienced in life ...I've recently reunited with someone that I've never dated, but who's ALWAYS been extremely attracted to me since we were about 16yrs old...let me add that I used to be a very shallow person...
    NaniDiamond NaniDiamond 36-40, F 27 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Pregnant With My Best Friend

    Amazing guy! Never been treated so well. I cannot imagine a better dad, but like many of you, im not attracted. Kissing is the hardest part actually. The sex is great and we love each other. I am so grateful for so much in my life and try to stay positive, but still I just cannot...
    Caseopea Caseopea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

    I love my man a lot and I truly want him to be happy. Im not sexually attracted to him though and when he touches me it feels like a foreign man so i always move away.I love him and i feel stuck. What should i do?
    MClaire MClaire 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    We'Re Like A Couple But I Just Don'T Think I'M Attracted To Him!

    I'm 20 and at university, last year I lived in student accommodation with this guy who really isn't the kind of guy I would normal consider dating. He was one of the first friends i made at uni so we're pretty close. We'd lived together 3 months when he told me he thought he was...
    RazzleDazzle123 RazzleDazzle123 18-21 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    i am falling for him even though i knew all along that i was just being played.. FOOLISH ❤️❤️❤️💔😡
    kamialaplana kamialaplana 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    My ex bf gave up on me and us should I still be sad about it, my feelings were really strong but we just ended things for good
    giselleevelyn giselleevelyn 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Sometimes I feel like my fiancée doesn't know how much I love him. I am so in love with him. I do anything for him. I love him so much and now even more than ever. We recently had...
    Krystalgarciaa Krystalgarciaa 22-25, F Mar 25

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    You can't even understand. He's an idol while I'm here stuck in a small town nobody knows about. He's halfway across the world and I've never met him before. It started over 10...
    exoflower exoflower 70+, F 4 days ago

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    We used to be very much in love. Everything was fine. Then things started going bad. I kept blaming for everything that was wrong in my life. He kept telling me that I don't...
    sashaloren sashaloren 26-30 1 Response Mar 27

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    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 23 months already. Let me just give you a quick overview of our relationship. My boyfriend is my eldest brother's best friend, while my...
    beth5912 beth5912 22-25 Apr 7

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I made a friend online. I know it's dangerous, but I was careful. I have never had a friend I could open up to. It's been killing me since I was 10 years old, and I'm 15 now. When...
    dancer21117 dancer21117 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    My damn heart don't understand that he is not the one for me!!! Here I'm talking about a guy, my prince, my sweetheart and the one to whom i love more than my life!!! It all...
    whyonlymewhy whyonlymewhy 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I love him, I don't know why I was blessed with him, so I just do, it's like I just could die for him, I love him more than I could love any person, they see a loser, a bum, a...
    sheloveshim57 sheloveshim57 18-21, F Apr 12

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    There is a man I'm deeply in love. I met him 6 years ago in an online chat room. I was skipping through a bunch of rooms and I was fortunate enough to end up in the room he was. We...
    oathtoorder oathtoorder 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I fell in love with this one boy on Facebook were in a relationship right now but I'm his queen he's my king and I don't know if I love him or hate him he's never on that much but...
    AnnLittle AnnLittle 18-21, F Mar 24

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    and maybe that is why is hurts... but the way he talks to others... sucks... it makes me feel like we are just a fling... which I tried to ask about and he wont answer... was I...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    It was kind of like, destiny, like it was supposed to happen. I was 13 years old, I moved to a new town for about a year. and I met a new friend, who also became my best friend...
    HockeyLuver HockeyLuver 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I have loved him since I was 13 and I know people say you can't fall inlove when you are still in school but from the moment we first meet I knew that I loved him its weird to know...
    sadandalonegirl sadandalonegirl 16-17 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I am 23 years old and have spend the last two years of my life with the most amazing man ever. We started talking while I was in a short term relationship with another guy, it was...
    equisgirl1 equisgirl1 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Just felt like sharing! I cant get him off my mind!! I love him so much! 6 months strong, but really 20 years we have been in love with eachother. I close my eyes and see him. I...
    20yearscoming 20yearscoming 22-25, F Apr 10

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    I met this guy through my ex. and we've been talking non stop. i know everything about him. and he tells me everything he calls me in the worst of times and he calls me in the best...
    7Bird 7Bird 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    My best friend always tells me about his new love . He always tells me about how deeply in love with her he is and how he tells her she is the love of his life and he's not going...
    GirlonFiyah GirlonFiyah 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    oh dang. I'm looking at this picture of that person. I realized I hecka loved him. I don't think I do anymore because my emotions seem to have calmed down but there's a part of me...
    wackywoman wackywoman 26-30 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have wanted this guy for over a year. We would be together all the time. I would sleep over almost every night. He make me happy. He fills that empty hole I feel inside. He even...
    Ravenfairie Ravenfairie 31-35, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Yeah well. From the moment I saw him 2 years ago, I love him so much it hurts. It hurts that he doesn't feel the same way, I'm starting to think he never will. But I will never...
    JeciJecii JeciJecii 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    The dude in my profile pic is my crush. I love him soooo freakin much, but i don't even know him forreal. How is it that you love someone so much and you hardly know anything about...
    TygaLastKingPrincess TygaLastKingPrincess 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I love him more that Romeo loves Juliet, but I am so scared that I'm going to loose him
    alice4114 alice4114 13-15, F Apr 13

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    i love him so much..:) hehe <3
    iamhis17 iamhis17 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    If my brother died I don't think id care... I don't love him
    nawpjh nawpjh 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I will always love my ex boyfriend Dorian and we use to fight so hard sometimes when we got into arguments and I use to cry so hard. I know that we love for each other but we have...
    lyricbutterfly2013 lyricbutterfly2013 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    It kinda started when I told my friend I like a guy no naming and then one day he asked me out I freaked out and said NO I was so dumb now I feel an idiot saying no 3 times the...
    TinaBuckel TinaBuckel 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    he took my virginity but we are just friends, he has a girlfriend...i don't know if i love him or if i'm just saying that because he was my first :/
    lynxacree7 lynxacree7 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Just because I'm lonely... Lol. Atleast I understand why I feel this way. I want to like him but I know he's not the one. Usually I'm fine once a week has passed with no contact...
    mrvitous26 mrvitous26 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I love peanut butter on toast in a morning
    EnglishEmpress EnglishEmpress 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    So in June of 2013 I was with my best friend one night and she made me go on this teen dating site. At first I was hesitant bc I didn't do that kind of stuff. But after a day or so...
    atlrauhlin atlrauhlin 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    My name’s John, and on January 2nd, 2014, I met the guy of my dreams. Yes, I said guy. Yes, I am gay. I’ve told quite a few people but haven’t really got around to announcing...
    hallasholm101 hallasholm101 18-21 Apr 11

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    I can probably be most of you'll, older sister... Before today, I didn't think of responding to most experiences here on ep, because I can tell when some really wants help, or...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I still miss him after an year of our breakup. I get jealous seeing other couples. I miss that bond of affection. I mishis caring actions. I still want to be with him. I miss our...
    steee15 steee15 18-21, F Mar 27

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    So me and my fiance have been together 5 years. With in the first year he had done some shady stuff on line with girls. Ever since iv had such a hard time to trust him and recently...
    jamvu9 jamvu9 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I know he's a bad guy. Kind of terrible, actually. However, I can't NOT want him. It's over. He ended it weeks ago, but I still think about him. It doesn't take my breath away or...
    CaliLove87 CaliLove87 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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