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I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

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    We'Re Like A Couple But I Just Don'T Think I'M Attracted To Him!

    I'm 20 and at university, last year I lived in student accommodation with this guy who really isn't the kind of guy I would normal consider dating. He was one of the first friends i made at uni so we're pretty close. We'd lived together 3 months when he told me he thought he was...
    RazzleDazzle123 RazzleDazzle123 18-21 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    Not Attracted To Her

    It's just when she smokes hate the smell hate the taste hate everything about it when she smokes all the attraction I have for her leaves me when she isn't smoking as in "quit" I'm very attracted to her and enjoy kissing her when she hasn't been smoking
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M Dec 23, 2012

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    We're A New Couple . . . Is It Doomed?

    We've been together for almost four months, and dating a few months before that. We've spent nearly every day together for the past few months. We know what the other is thinking. I'm not attracted to him. I blame it on our first kiss. But its been so long now I worry...
    AnitaReason AnitaReason 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

    I love my man a lot and I truly want him to be happy. Im not sexually attracted to him though and when he touches me it feels like a foreign man so i always move away.I love him and i feel stuck. What should i do?
    MClaire MClaire 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    Man Of My Dreams!...but I'm Not Attracted To Him:

    Hello, I've never been married but I am 40yrs old...so I am fairly experienced in life ...I've recently reunited with someone that I've never dated, but who's ALWAYS been extremely attracted to me since we were about 16yrs old...let me add that I used to be a very shallow person...
    NaniDiamond NaniDiamond 36-40, F 28 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Pregnant With My Best Friend

    Amazing guy! Never been treated so well. I cannot imagine a better dad, but like many of you, im not attracted. Kissing is the hardest part actually. The sex is great and we love each other. I am so grateful for so much in my life and try to stay positive, but still I just cannot...
    Caseopea Caseopea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    I love him because I love him. but I also hate him for not giving any support for our 8 months old son. He have this condition that he won't give any support as long as he don't...
    arianeshane arianeshane 18-21, F Aug 11

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    For me it's "I love HER, she loves HIM". I have a crush on a girl who moved to my town last december. She's absolutely flawless and her voice is music to my ears. We've battled the...
    thelastfirstchoice thelastfirstchoice 13-15, F Aug 4

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    Yes. Sometimes I can strangle my man when he acts like a douche head but I love him to death.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    he is my swimming teacher (@council pool) , 10 years older , fit , kind and sweet . he is a really sweet guy and makes me feel good about my self . he's a great teacher I learnt...
    bananafruit bananafruit 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I have feelings for this guy but he has a girlfriend of 2 years ( i am not the type of girl that would mess that up) we are in high school and my friends say that it will end but i...
    Cassie143 Cassie143 16-17, F Aug 4

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    I met him when I was a sophomore in highschool. I had a loving and caring boyfriend at the time but I liked a little spice. Being young and naive I had interest in this bad boy. I...
    jcelli jcelli 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    - It's Only Getting Worse ., I Constantly Think Of Him , Talk To Him , & Stare At Him . I Have To Stop . I NEED To Stop . I Don't Kno How To Stop . Esp. w/o Cutting Him Off...
    BeeHunty BeeHunty 18-21, F Aug 13

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    I'm afraid of falling in love. Nothing can ever end well when two people are in love. I'm afraid my heart will be broken,shattered. I want to live life because it's so short.sh...
    itsgemma01 itsgemma01 13-15, F Aug 8

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    I dont believe that ive become this person.. A while ago i used to look at people in this sort of prediciment and pitty their lives.. But now i find myself in the same situation...
    ep1093 ep1093 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Now we are talking again and it feels like nothing has changed but time itself. You say the things you know I'd like to hear. After all this time I don't know how you can still get...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F Aug 13

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    Story of my life . I need to stop window shopping
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 4

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I love him, but i dont know if he loves me back. He asked me why i did, i never knew the reason, and he responded as if it was nothing. 😩
    wargoddess1 wargoddess1 18-21, F Aug 15

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    I love my boyfriend very much but our differences tears us apart he likes to do what he wants meaning that if i think something is wrong he feel like its not wrong or if i know...
    SATIVA88 SATIVA88 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    He confuses me. Some days, I swear i see clear hints that he likes me. Other days, it's as if he's avoiding me. I can't get him out of my head. He's the first thing i think about...
    confusionswirlinginmyhead confusionswirlinginmyhead 18-21, F Jul 31

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    Today is a very special day...Today is his birthday, birthday of the love of my life, the person i love more then anything...Thanks to that woman who gave birth to such a kind...
    animelover1990 animelover1990 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I met this guy John February of 2013. We gotten really close, feelings started to develop, then finally he told me he loved me around May. I know it only took us 4 months to fall...
    Nroses77 Nroses77 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    He calls me his best friend, and I let it stay that way because he makes me so happy and I don't want to lose him. I am so addicted to him and fascinated by him. He is so smart...
    MrsDewitt MrsDewitt 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I loved my ex boyfriend a lot. We were so perfect together. We were like two peas in a pod, he smiled, I smiled. When we would argue we would know exactly what the other was...
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    One day I went out after work with some friends, and some people I kind of knew, but not well. After leaving the bar, one of the guys I didn't know all that well invited all of us...
    Jackie22k Jackie22k 26-30, F Aug 3

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    i started loving my bf accidentally when i ws tryng to get rid off an childhood fren/classmate who had crush on me n ws spreading rumours everywhere tat no 1 shd look at me cz im...
    givemedeath givemedeath 18-21, F Aug 9

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    I love him, he has blocked me on everything today so there is no longer anyway I can talk to him. I never did anything to him. I tried to get to know his 'friend' better to find...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I used to hate myself. I took blame for everyone else's pain and mistakes. I thought that I was scum of the Earth and how could anyone like me or care about me. And I often felt...
    hazy6 hazy6 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I kno he really likes me but I want more I dnt want to tell him I love him first but I'm tired of waiting for him. Should I tell him how I feel
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    I recently got into an online relationship with a really awesome guy. I am his first girlfriend, and he is my second relationship ever. The thing is, I rushed quickly into this...
    SweetTea4 SweetTea4 16-17, F Aug 8

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    Okay long story ! But I will shorten it ! So I had a crush on this PR boy with all white skin black eyebrows chocolate eyes an he can play basketball and he is very smart and is...
    fashiondelama fashiondelama 13-15, F Aug 9

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    Im in love with this amazing funny cute talented guy. I love him so much. He always makes me smile :) he's always thinking positive which is the best thing about him. I could say...
    xhumairax xhumairax 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Okay, so this is about what my babe does, as for the little things. He has done many cute, sweet, spontaneous things for me. Like making dinner, buying roses/flowers, and writing...
    MyEternalDesires MyEternalDesires 22-25, F a week ago

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    We went through a lot together..he hurt me..he helped me...he was there for me..and at times I felt helpless..seems like the feelings towards he won't vanish..he is still part of...
    genesis99 genesis99 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Its as simple as that. I want a future with him, but there can be no future without communication.
    Kattamine Kattamine 18-21, F Jul 30

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    I love him, I really do but he's making things too difficult. He's leaving tonight and I'm broken about it but it needs to happen I'm so done with this ****.
    PixieeDustt PixieeDustt 18-21, F Aug 13

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    There is a person who is like my heart. but he doesn't know that. He doesn't know how much I love him.he doesn't know how much he is important to me. If a day he says stop...
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    He just wants to be friends with benefits and I want more yes I want the sex too but I feel like we would be great together. We were having out for the longest period of time...
    thequitebutcuriousone thequitebutcuriousone 18-21, F Aug 5

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    There's this girl I like we talk a lot and I told her I like her I want to tell her I love her but I can't because I don't know what she'll say.
    xXtysonXx xXtysonXx 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't know what to do for him. He randomly didn't speak to me all day yesterday, even though our conversation that morning was wonderful. I stayed up all night so I could be...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Aug 10

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    There is this guy (Jorge) I am in love with him I have wanted him since the day i met him. After about 6 mo. of knowing him he sang this song to me Safe and Sound by Capital Cities...
    julianrodriguez199 julianrodriguez199 22-25 1 Response Jul 31

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    It's so hard not to message him right now, I've never done anything before that was this hard. Watching him leave last night tore my heart into pieces but it had to happen, he...
    PixieeDustt PixieeDustt 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    My guy friend acts like he likes me when were together, and invites me to do things first and will text me first a lot, but sometimes we go a week or so without talking and he's...
    yoyo2591 yoyo2591 22-25, F a week ago

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    Love..Controversial topic isn't it. Does it suck or is the best thing to happen to a person. Its like one of the biggest risk you can take out there. Love obviously requires love...
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 Aug 3

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    I am still in love with my ex-ex but he has a baby mama whom he does not want to be with last time I knew. I have been single for 8 months and haven't dated, mingled, or socialized...
    Spirit567 Spirit567 22-25, F Aug 12

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