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I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

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    Man Of My Dreams!...but I'm Not Attracted To Him:

    Hello, I've never been married but I am 40yrs old...so I am fairly experienced in life ...I've recently reunited with someone that I've never dated, but who's ALWAYS been extremely attracted to me since we were about 16yrs old...let me add that I used to be a very shallow person...
    NaniDiamond NaniDiamond 36-40, F 30 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Not Attracted To Her

    It's just when she smokes hate the smell hate the taste hate everything about it when she smokes all the attraction I have for her leaves me when she isn't smoking as in "quit" I'm very attracted to her and enjoy kissing her when she hasn't been smoking
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M Dec 23, 2012

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    We'Re Like A Couple But I Just Don'T Think I'M Attracted To Him!

    I'm 20 and at university, last year I lived in student accommodation with this guy who really isn't the kind of guy I would normal consider dating. He was one of the first friends i made at uni so we're pretty close. We'd lived together 3 months when he told me he thought he was...
    RazzleDazzle123 RazzleDazzle123 18-21 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    We're A New Couple . . . Is It Doomed?

    We've been together for almost four months, and dating a few months before that. We've spent nearly every day together for the past few months. We know what the other is thinking. I'm not attracted to him. I blame it on our first kiss. But its been so long now I worry...
    AnitaReason AnitaReason 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    Pregnant With My Best Friend

    Amazing guy! Never been treated so well. I cannot imagine a better dad, but like many of you, im not attracted. Kissing is the hardest part actually. The sex is great and we love each other. I am so grateful for so much in my life and try to stay positive, but still I just cannot...
    Caseopea Caseopea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

    I love my man a lot and I truly want him to be happy. Im not sexually attracted to him though and when he touches me it feels like a foreign man so i always move away.I love him and i feel stuck. What should i do?
    MClaire MClaire 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    The chemistry we used to have was amazing!

    Even after the kid was born and I was exhausted, just a look or touch would make me ready, almost anytime. Some stuff happened- a long story in which we both essentially committed .the "dealbreaker" (I almost cheated, he got a little angry and violent during a drunken argument...
    wanderingwacky wanderingwacky 41-45, F Mar 5

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    I have a classmate and I like him very much. He's the first one to have a crush on me actually then I liked him too when he told me he likes me. I have so much feelings for him and...
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    I thought these words for so long. Looked at myself and cursed my flaws. Wondered what it was I had done. What I could do. Like the dog that gets kicked and keeps coming back for...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    forgetting my first bf was very much painful but it took like only 2 months for me to recover but this time.. everything is so different at first i cried a lot i was feeling...
    lovebug199880 lovebug199880 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Sorry i have to let this out I fell for this guy way too fast. Ugh his smile, his laugh, the way he speaks it replays in my head all the time. Im so attached to him. The way he...
    mybeatingheart20 mybeatingheart20 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    He don't know what I would do for him I love him so much but he doesn't love me back????!!!!!He knows who he is!!!!??
    TBH3292 TBH3292 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    Dhikrayat Dhikrayat 22-25, F Mar 1

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    He is my lover, my friend, my world .. He saved me from myself .. he showed me love that I never had ... the type of love that is normally just dreamed about .. Never in my life...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    That moment when you see the person you love and everything fits when you're with them is the best feeling in the world. Even though every night ends in tears because he's not here...
    delusi0nal delusi0nal 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    is it weird that I have so much love and concern for my bf's family before I even met them? My love for him extends to everything that is apart of him. I am prepared for all of...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Mar 10

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    I remember him asking me to marry him after our first couple of dates together. I laughed and told him to keep waiting. He waited for me after high school and after university...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F Mar 14

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    I remember him asking me to marry him after our first couple of dates together. I laughed and told him to keep waiting. He waited for me after high school and after university...
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    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F Mar 15

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    me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 mouths now and we really love each other but we lives like 3 or 4 thousand mile away from each other and there is a 0.000000000002...
    duran127 duran127 13-15, M 3 Responses Mar 15

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    He was supposed to move in with me. He promised he wouldn't get tired of me like everyone else did. How could I turn someone so sweet into an abusive person. I corrupt people. And...
    KayandtheCelloCats KayandtheCelloCats 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I met a guy on an online dating app called scout and we had an incredible connection. We used to message back and forth. After a while we decided to talk on skype. Our video chat...
    itsmeagaim itsmeagaim 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    he makes me feel things, joy, sadness, anger, trust, powerful, beautiful, and so much more. But I know he still loves her, even tho she broke him. He loves her, and he always will...
    girlwiththe girlwiththe 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    He loves me past my looks, education, and worth. he loves my soul- opening my eyes to true passion. when he kisses me my hair stands on edge reacting to the shock. When this...
    leylarenee leylarenee 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    PrincessAlicia33 PrincessAlicia33 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Can I plzzzzzz have him ooooooommmmmgggg sexy <3333
    Dezitorsmilez Dezitorsmilez 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    He is soooooo fwken cute it's my dream to go to his concert and to meet him omg
    Dezitorsmilez Dezitorsmilez 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Lord give me enough strength to tell him how much he means to me.👬
    Blushboi Blushboi 16-17, M Mar 8

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    Constant dreams about him and his new girl. Damn, it's eating me alive.
    ArayaSymone ArayaSymone 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    You're one of the people i never asked from God, but still He gave you to me. I asked Him why? He said "Because he can fill your life like no one else can"
    KarenDew KarenDew 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    It's not fair. I didn't ask for this. I didn't need you to come waltzing into my life and make me feel like this. It's been 6 long years. And you are still as fickle as ever...
    littlebitterling littlebitterling 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    so I'm in love with this guy but he doesn't love me like I do and it hurts me so much, it makes me feel so bad and ugly, I wish he could love me like I do
    faithtobehappy faithtobehappy 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    "I love you"... Those three simple words cannot begin to express my overflowing emotion for you. Those three simple words do not seem like enough. Every floating thought in my head...
    anonymouslymysterious anonymouslymysterious 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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