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I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

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    Not Attracted To Her

    It's just when she smokes hate the smell hate the taste hate everything about it when she smokes all the attraction I have for her leaves me when she isn't smoking as in "quit" I'm very attracted to her and enjoy kissing her when she hasn't been smoking
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M Dec 23, 2012

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    We'Re Like A Couple But I Just Don'T Think I'M Attracted To Him!

    I'm 20 and at university, last year I lived in student accommodation with this guy who really isn't the kind of guy I would normal consider dating. He was one of the first friends i made at uni so we're pretty close. We'd lived together 3 months when he told me he thought he was...
    RazzleDazzle123 RazzleDazzle123 18-21 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    Pregnant With My Best Friend

    Amazing guy! Never been treated so well. I cannot imagine a better dad, but like many of you, im not attracted. Kissing is the hardest part actually. The sex is great and we love each other. I am so grateful for so much in my life and try to stay positive, but still I just cannot...
    Caseopea Caseopea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    We're A New Couple . . . Is It Doomed?

    We've been together for almost four months, and dating a few months before that. We've spent nearly every day together for the past few months. We know what the other is thinking. I'm not attracted to him. I blame it on our first kiss. But its been so long now I worry...
    AnitaReason AnitaReason 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

    I love my man a lot and I truly want him to be happy. Im not sexually attracted to him though and when he touches me it feels like a foreign man so i always move away.I love him and i feel stuck. What should i do?
    MClaire MClaire 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    Man Of My Dreams!...but I'm Not Attracted To Him:

    Hello, I've never been married but I am 40yrs old...so I am fairly experienced in life ...I've recently reunited with someone that I've never dated, but who's ALWAYS been extremely attracted to me since we were about 16yrs old...let me add that I used to be a very shallow person...
    NaniDiamond NaniDiamond 36-40, F 28 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I love him because i want to prove something for my self.. I love him because i want to make sure that he loves me then I'll break his heart , at the same time I hate him because...
    Reemabdlhalm Reemabdlhalm 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Sigh. I like him soo much. I've known him since 2nd grade and now we are sophomores. We hardly talk 😭😭
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I've known him for around seven years & always thought he was charming & handsome guy, but we weren't very close. This year it has changed, we spend almost everyday together for...
    KatelynnRae98 KatelynnRae98 16-17, F a week ago

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    You are such a wonderful but miserable person but I can't stop adoring you. I love you so much but then you get angry and the things you say cut deep but even when everyone is...
    gypsisoul gypsisoul 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    He loves me I know that. But he act like i'm nothing to him . My man is so afraid from his feeling to me . Ah men.
    mmo94 mmo94 18-21, F Aug 29

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    8 months of laughter, flirting, friendship, craziness, confusion, and miles away from eachother. Never met. But so sure he is perfect for me. He drives me crazy. He knows how to...
    Findingmylittleself Findingmylittleself 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    dose he still love me he hasn't been on for days and we broke up a day or two before he stopped getting on my mind is saying he doesn't love me any more but my heart says he dose...
    coltan108 coltan108 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    He is great. Kind, helpful. But I'm not sexually and emotionally fulfilled. What's wrong with me. I can't make it work with a good man. I fantasize about someone else.
    blackbutterfly86 blackbutterfly86 26-30, F Sep 5

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    And I almost have a love hate relationship with lovey-mushy girly side. I love him. But I'm not blind. I can see him and all his flaws. I see him. He's.....he's your average...
    SleepyHead2123 SleepyHead2123 18-21 6 days ago

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    I love my boyfriend very much but our differences tears us apart he likes to do what he wants meaning that if i think something is wrong he feel like its not wrong or if i know...
    SATIVA88 SATIVA88 26-30, F Aug 21

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    I love him, but I haven't said it yet.
    MotoLove MotoLove 13-15 Aug 24

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    After months of feeling hopeless, I came across this cutie on POF. We began talking and I'm so thankful I sent him a message. I've never loved anyone the way I've loved him. And...
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M Sep 2

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    I just ruined the most perfect relationship ill ever have. By saying I'm going to want to experience my life. All I want is to be with him. I can't see my life without him. And I...
    TallyO TallyO 13-15, F Sep 2

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    I didn't know how to tell him. Tell him that he was the only guy in the world that could make me feel so happy and sad at the same time. Sometimes I feel lost and out of touch, but...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    well my ex broke up with me a month ago. We have a son together and I try all the time to get back with him. We still have sex the only thing differently is that he won't say he...
    Fleo94 Fleo94 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    So here's a complicated story. I'm Mara. I'm 15 and I am a complicated young character. You see, where I live I don't have many friends so I catch the bus out of my town to go to...
    MaraIsNotKawaii MaraIsNotKawaii 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    16 years ago, I met someone. I will never forget the first time I saw him, though for years I had let the memory tuck itself in a quiet spot, deep in my heart. His...
    tormentbynite tormentbynite 31-35, F Aug 25

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    I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year, yes a year. I have tried but all I feel is annoyed most of the time. He is a really nice guy, and I think part of the...
    normil normil 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I think im in love with him but im so confussed i never know how to feel, but music keeps me alive when he cant. And when i sing the world feels fine then hes in a good mood and...
    Tooweak Tooweak 16-17, F Sep 3

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    I Love The Feeling Of How He Replies Back I Love Of How He Looks I Love That We Live Close I Know That He Has A BoyFriend But I Still Love Him
    DubDancer24 DubDancer24 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    ❤️❤️❤️Simply love him!! ❤️❤️❤️
    Pretywoman Pretywoman 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    There is a person who is like my heart. but he doesn't know that. He doesn't know how much I love him.he doesn't know how much he is important to me. If a day he says stop...
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 9 Responses Aug 21

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    I'm not even sure if I really really like him, but he's on my mind so much. But I don't want to make a move, because I don't want to give in to this temptation; I know the outcome...
    averagecomplicatedhuman averagecomplicatedhuman 18-21, F Aug 30

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    There's this girl I like we talk a lot and I told her I like her I want to tell her I love her but I can't because I don't know what she'll say.
    xXtysonXx xXtysonXx 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    I love you but you are a cheater.
    LastTime1 LastTime1 13-15, M Sep 6

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    Ok so my mr. Friend asked me help for this girl.. I did. Told him things i know. I was "hurt" when he didnt choose me afterall the "i like you" that mr. friend told me. Maybe i...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    So this is a weird situation this is more of a question than a story but ok I'm only 13 I've never had a bf never had my first kiss nothing...my 11 year old friend has a 14 year...
    kathie2000 kathie2000 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    He is my best friend. He doesn't see me as his best friend, nor does he see anyone as a best friend. He tells me anything and everything. I can't tell him everything. He is gay. I...
    AlliterationAnonymous AlliterationAnonymous 18-21, F Aug 28

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    I do.. But now he ignores me.. I'm lucky if I can see him once a week nowadays because he works 2 jobs. When we do get to see each other, he just plays his videogames online with...
    ashley719 ashley719 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I have always known it would be hard to hear of him finally falling for someone else. I just recently realized though; that I'd get back together with him over any of my ex's...
    Ilovehavingbraces Ilovehavingbraces 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I love spencer to death, i never want to leave him
    Frozenfireflies Frozenfireflies 13-15, M Aug 24

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    He's hot he's my everything I love everything about him 😍😘😙he is the best
    Koolboy55 Koolboy55 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 12

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    And so I'm still inlove with him.
    juliahamilton24 juliahamilton24 13-15, F Aug 21

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    i heard the voice of a angel and it was his i saw the face of a angel it was his i seen the soul of a angel and it was his i still miss him
    coltan108 coltan108 13-15, M Aug 23

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    I wish I would get a drunk text or email from him. "I miss f***ing you". I would respond: I miss it too. We were extremely compatible that way, but things kept getting in the...
    Houndstooth Houndstooth 51-55, F Sep 11

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    I really miss him alot sometimes
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F a week ago

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    I was with my ex for a year and 8 months. He was the absolute sweetest guy I've EVER met. He showered me with love and affection and as did I. We went to Hawaii, we went to...
    Noireon Noireon 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I'm not Supposed To Love You, You Told Me Not To Care, You Told Me NotTo Live My Life Wishing For You Here. You Told Me To Forget, And That One Day We'Ll Start Anew, But I'm So...
    MelodramaticFool MelodramaticFool 13-15, F Sep 7

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    I'm still in love with my ex. but he's kinda in love with another girl and what they have is strong 😔what should I do? I cant move on
    Moneshaa Moneshaa 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    WOW, I cant belive 4 months has gone by that fast. With each day that passes. Spencer's and I love grows stronger than ever. I love you baby!
    Frozenfireflies Frozenfireflies 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    (True story) when I was 19 I had just got my first apartment on my own. I loved it. It was in a brand new apartment complex, and also had a swimming pool. One day at the pool I...
    rlj119 rlj119 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    He makes me look forward to my day, he makes me smile he makes me laugh. I thank you for this my love.