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I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

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    We'Re Like A Couple But I Just Don'T Think I'M Attracted To Him!

    I'm 20 and at university, last year I lived in student accommodation with this guy who really isn't the kind of guy I would normal consider dating. He was one of the first friends i made at uni so we're pretty close. We'd lived together 3 months when he told me he thought he was...
    RazzleDazzle123 RazzleDazzle123 18-21 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    We're A New Couple . . . Is It Doomed?

    We've been together for almost four months, and dating a few months before that. We've spent nearly every day together for the past few months. We know what the other is thinking. I'm not attracted to him. I blame it on our first kiss. But its been so long now I worry...
    AnitaReason AnitaReason 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    Pregnant With My Best Friend

    Amazing guy! Never been treated so well. I cannot imagine a better dad, but like many of you, im not attracted. Kissing is the hardest part actually. The sex is great and we love each other. I am so grateful for so much in my life and try to stay positive, but still I just cannot...
    Caseopea Caseopea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Not Attracted To Her

    It's just when she smokes hate the smell hate the taste hate everything about it when she smokes all the attraction I have for her leaves me when she isn't smoking as in "quit" I'm very attracted to her and enjoy kissing her when she hasn't been smoking
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M Dec 23, 2012

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    Man Of My Dreams!...but I'm Not Attracted To Him:

    Hello, I've never been married but I am 40yrs old...so I am fairly experienced in life ...I've recently reunited with someone that I've never dated, but who's ALWAYS been extremely attracted to me since we were about 16yrs old...let me add that I used to be a very shallow person...
    NaniDiamond NaniDiamond 36-40, F 28 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

    I love my man a lot and I truly want him to be happy. Im not sexually attracted to him though and when he touches me it feels like a foreign man so i always move away.I love him and i feel stuck. What should i do?
    MClaire MClaire 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    I liked him for a very long time now. I think I'm starting to love him... But to him, I'm just "the friend." I'm one of the few girls he can have a decent conversation with. We...
    HarmonyEvers HarmonyEvers 16-17, F Jul 9

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    How can love and hate be so close but yet so far in definition? I would know considering i love the person i hate most. And i now realize that the only reason i hate him is because...
    verox3 verox3 13-15, F Jul 12

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    Yes I love him and hate him. It was fun hanging out and chatting with him. He lied to me a lot of times and treat me like ***** when he is in a bad mood. He said he love me but...
    yomy1603 yomy1603 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I hate him when he yelling at me. I love him more when he smile,nice,sweet and romantic to me XD.
    pokwang1111 pokwang1111 22-25, M Jun 30

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    I don't know how I feel about him. When I'm talking with him or sitting right beside him, his attention goes straight to me. Even if we don't talk, it's like I know he doesn't mind...
    HarmonyEvers HarmonyEvers 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    He's my boyfriend, and we've been together for 8 months. He was a senior in high school(now graduated), and I, a junior. We've always known each other, just never talked until...
    MissSheila MissSheila 16-17, F Jul 10

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    The silence feels the room.. I stare at him although he pays no mind. I cant help but be pissed.... Who says that i mean really?! Its a thrill thing for me... Having sex in places...
    LittleHandGrenade LittleHandGrenade 18-21, F Jun 30

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    He broke my heart and left me for his ex. She left you before you fool! Why take her back. But then I realized I would do the same for you. I can't help but want the thing that...
    mracinow mracinow 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Well first of all I know I'm a total idiot, but I really can't help my feelings. I fancied my married boss for years, as he was married I just suppressed the emotion. I've been...
    Layla32 Layla32 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I can't help but fear that my feelings are entirely one-sided. It really has gotten to the point where it physically hurts to even think about him. We've been good friends for a...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    We started out as friends. He dropped the L bomb while he had a girlfriend and I was even friends with the girlfriend, and it went downhill from there. We stopped being friends for...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Happily In love, made me feel like we were going to last forever, always told me he loved me and he never wanted to loose me, we were so happy, then... He rang me up at 10:00pm...
    lizaamae lizaamae 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    It's the love part that's keeping me here. I don't like him very much. We've been together for four (nearly five) years. It seems like we've traded places. Most of our relationship...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I love my bf. He doesn't control me or take advantage of me , unlike other men. He let me do whatever I want whenever I want and he never complain any of them.. He has given me...
    Sharlita Sharlita 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    We met at an event.. A year ago .. If a year ago you would've told me that today I would've been crazy in love with that man I would've laugh at you .. And on top of that, I...
    muyakaa muyakaa 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I met this guy John February of 2013. We gotten really close, feelings started to develop, then finally he told me he loved me around May. I know it only took us 4 months to fall...
    Nroses77 Nroses77 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I started dating my soul mate on 2/9/89 and married him on 6/19/93. We started our family by having a daughter on 8/12/95 and then a son on 2/18/00. Our lives were dedicated to...
    zbrokenheart zbrokenheart 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I was withy ex for over 3 years, out relationship was always on and off yes he will stop contacting me for no reason according to him he was going out of the country for work...
    babosa20 babosa20 26-30, F Jul 7

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    At that moment I was indecisive so he gave up on me. Why can't I just hate him and move on. Why can't I just be mad at him for not fighting for me? For making everything we had...
    Fani101 Fani101 18-21, F Jul 15

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    I used to hate myself. I took blame for everyone else's pain and mistakes. I thought that I was scum of the Earth and how could anyone like me or care about me. And I often felt...
    hazy6 hazy6 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    He calls me his best friend, and I let it stay that way because he makes me so happy and I don't want to lose him. I am so addicted to him and fascinated by him. He is so smart...
    MrsDewitt MrsDewitt 22-25, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    We started with power struggles when we first met, so we clashed often and we damaged each other but still after each pain we cause we never held it against us. We always end up...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 5

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    and ive never loved another human, (besides my kids), like I loved him. Now id like to introduce him to my chipper vac
    50freenflirty 50freenflirty 26-30, F Jul 8

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    But I just don't know what to do about it. So many people would tell me to let go. Let him go. I'm sure there are those that would think I was crazy. But I just can't get him out...
    TearsAlwaysWin TearsAlwaysWin 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Its Like Every Day my love for him grows a little more. After Three -Four years here we are, planning a wedding, moving in together and planning our own little family. Things weren...
    BrightStarKali BrightStarKali 18-21, F Jul 10

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    That feeling when you love him too much , and when you get closer to him , and explain your feelings ... He ****** you off 😣
    NahilOweidate NahilOweidate 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I don't know what it is but this guy has has my heart since the day he walked in my life. He has manage to break my heart into so many pieces, managed to put me through so much...
    R3b3llion32 R3b3llion32 22-25, F a week ago

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    I fell in love and i want to be happy with him but my family wont let me 😔
    Siomara Siomara 18-21 1 Response Jul 13

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    My little boy has a cough tonight. I hope he's not unwell. He's such a lovely little boy. Sometimes he can be a right little monkey but I love him dearly.
    samscleverbox samscleverbox 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    A couple of weeks ago I met someone. He is a really good-looking, tall guy with somewhat sad bright blue eyes. It was in a place frequently visited by tourists, so it wasn't hard...
    Julize Julize 18-21, F Jul 5

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    We aren't even dating Why won't he ask me out? I'm falling for this kid His eyes, his hair, his smile, his voice, his laugh, his ticklish spots, the way he wraps me in his arms...
    kenzieburr kenzieburr 16-17, F Jul 16

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    He pushed me away in the beginning. I stopped trying to reach out for him with a broken heart. He came back to me unexpectedly. I could not forget how he used to push me away...
    cloudish cloudish 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Tonight Derek came home from work, but not before stopping at my house, to grab a few things for me. My meds, some clothes and even my favorite pillow. He's the most thoughtful man...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Our paths are crossed for a very short period of time and soon we'll both be leaving what it now our home to go to different places. He has shown me what love can be and I've never...
    TessieRue TessieRue 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    So my boyfriend just left me and said he'll only come back to me if I end up pregnant. Right not I'm 50/50 that I may be, but going to wait for another month and see if I start my...
    rubina18 rubina18 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    He came into my life and changed all the darkness into light. I owe him so much but will never be able to repay him for what he has done for me and how he has changed my life
    jpops jpops 22-25, F Jul 6

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    So, I last saw my OM on the 4th and when he didn't reply my texts for 4 days, he does today for "I need 'it' " whoa. I know that we tease each other about using one another but...
    lonelysara1211 lonelysara1211 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I have loved my cousin for my entire life about a year ago I let him move in with me one thing lead to another over time. Need less to say we both fell in love with one another...
    leosheart leosheart 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    almost 8 months. I cannot wait to see him.
    tediousjpg tediousjpg 16-17 Jun 29

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    I Still Love Kyron 😘🙋😂🙏😐😔😞❤️💔. He says he's sorry and he still wants me but I don't care. Even though he hasn't really done anything wrong, am still mad...
    shakirakyronx shakirakyronx 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I love you He's the best boyfriend in the world He's sweet funny and super hot I'm so lucky to have him
    xoDanielxo xoDanielxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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