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I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

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    We're A New Couple . . . Is It Doomed?

    We've been together for almost four months, and dating a few months before that. We've spent nearly every day together for the past few months. We know what the other is thinking. I'm not attracted to him. I blame it on our first kiss. But its been so long now I worry...
    AnitaReason AnitaReason 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

    I love my man a lot and I truly want him to be happy. Im not sexually attracted to him though and when he touches me it feels like a foreign man so i always move away.I love him and i feel stuck. What should i do?
    MClaire MClaire 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    We'Re Like A Couple But I Just Don'T Think I'M Attracted To Him!

    I'm 20 and at university, last year I lived in student accommodation with this guy who really isn't the kind of guy I would normal consider dating. He was one of the first friends i made at uni so we're pretty close. We'd lived together 3 months when he told me he thought he was...
    RazzleDazzle123 RazzleDazzle123 18-21 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    Pregnant With My Best Friend

    Amazing guy! Never been treated so well. I cannot imagine a better dad, but like many of you, im not attracted. Kissing is the hardest part actually. The sex is great and we love each other. I am so grateful for so much in my life and try to stay positive, but still I just cannot...
    Caseopea Caseopea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Man Of My Dreams!...but I'm Not Attracted To Him:

    Hello, I've never been married but I am 40yrs old...so I am fairly experienced in life ...I've recently reunited with someone that I've never dated, but who's ALWAYS been extremely attracted to me since we were about 16yrs old...let me add that I used to be a very shallow person...
    NaniDiamond NaniDiamond 36-40, F 30 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Not Attracted To Her

    It's just when she smokes hate the smell hate the taste hate everything about it when she smokes all the attraction I have for her leaves me when she isn't smoking as in "quit" I'm very attracted to her and enjoy kissing her when she hasn't been smoking
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M Dec 23, 2012

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    i love him cus we had each other for like 6 years.. but im not in love with him. i cannot feel the feeling of being "in-love". in fact, i never did experience that. i felt so sad...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I love his so much that i think about him all the Time. But then I want to get away and scream at him for sting the way he does. But sadly I love him.
    ariboberrXO ariboberrXO 18-21, F Jan 9

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    I don't know anymore I am not Happy I am sad he loves me but he is acting like a kid he is making angry sad but still I can't break up with him
    IjUstDoNtCare12 IjUstDoNtCare12 13-15, F a week ago

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    I'm so confused, one day my husband is the sweetest man in the world the next he hates me and looks at every flaw. It could be a week an hour there's no telling when his mood will...
    Mee4 Mee4 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    there is a boy and he is super cute he has hazel eyes with some green and he is tall he has short brown hair and I love him but he's straight so that sucks
    HallowSky270 HallowSky270 13-15, M Jan 6

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    I don't know how I am going to focus on work today. I didn't want to leave my bed. All I can do is cry all day and all night. How can I go on like this. I feel like I want to leave...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I would have thought by now I would have gotten over him. I've been on several dates. Kissed other men. Nothing feels the same. I don't know what to do. I've tried being nice to...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I love my ex. I'm soo deeply in love with him. I'm not ready to give him up. I'd give anything to see him, and touch him... i miss him so much. i love him soo so much..
    Dreamscape98x Dreamscape98x 16-17, F Jan 4

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    My ex is coming tonight to get the rest of his stuff. I saw him yesterday and he told me he loves me and thinks about me every night. He said I'll always have a place in his heart...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 14

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    he's hurt me so much and I just go right back to him when he wants me to cuz I love him so much I don't think he knows how much he has hurt me... I know I've hurt him but that was...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I mean his my everything I just can never see myself without him . We fight like couples he has gotten me so mad like u don't even know but that doesn't mean I will end it all...
    Iloveastronomy Iloveastronomy 18-21, F Jan 6

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    i have a brother who is 17 and one who is 2. my brother Justin(age 17) moved out when he was 16: he didnt wnat to follow any of the rules, he was mean an rude to everyone in the...
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 18

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    I love a TON of things like dancing, performing, hanging out with friends, staying thin, the color pink and just a TON of other stuff BUT I realize I love Nate more than any of...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sometimes I cry because I love him... and sometimes I cry BECAUSE I Love HIM.
    2015ishere 2015ishere 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    my boyfriend of just under a year has gone to prison and is going to be there for a long time I cant give up on him because he never gave up on my im 25 and obvs my family don't...
    lauralou89 lauralou89 22-25, F Jan 20

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    when my dad died i thought it's the end of the word and i stopped letting people get in my life so that i won't get hurt again by watching them going away but without knowing he...
    sarra02 sarra02 18-21, F Jan 22

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    Mr,G. dropped by for a visit tonight........he got in both doors, front and back. I am full, and can barely walk. Omg, I love him making me feel like this............
    daddyfun95 daddyfun95 18-21, F 22 Responses Jan 17

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    I LOVE HIM LOL he might notice 😁😁
    eltrakills eltrakills 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    Me and him (Connor) have been together for almost 7 months. He is my world, he males me feel things that I've never ever felt before. However, I get mad at him a lot, buy ai cant...
    AARisTHEbest AARisTHEbest 13-15, F 19 hrs ago

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    So, here I am, an adult...and I find myself to have fallen in love with a man that has never been in a relationship. I know that he knows my feelings for him. And everyone else...
    BlueMoonLuck BlueMoonLuck 22-25, F Jan 20

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    Lol this sounds so dumb but jai Brooks.... Ugh I wish he knew I existed haha
    Allieyo Allieyo 16-17, F 14 hrs ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    its been 2 weeks since we've split up. We were together for four years and it was a long distance relationship. It was working out so well and we were so happy! I graduated from...
    ambi1991 ambi1991 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I don't know any other way to love... but completely, truly, unconditionally, whole-heartedly. "The depth of your love today will be the depth of your wound tomorrow." I let him...
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    How long do I have to keep waiting ? Not knowing if I'm waiting for nothing... I'm afraid he'll pop back up right when I have moved on and I'll remember all the pain he's caused...
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 22-25, F Jan 23

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    I was sixteen, and I was in the middle of my silly fangirl phase with the onceluts on Facebook. It was about a week I had joined the fan club, and I knew a few girls already. We...
    McChiliPeppa McChiliPeppa 18-21 Jan 6

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    I knew this would happen i'm not strong enough to not care when he txts. I'm here thinking of ways to get him back. Someone shoot me. I must be desperate. I won't do it though...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    Years ago I met this beautiful girl, who became a close friend of mine. We spent time together on a regular basis, I'd even watch as she would get flirtatious with other men and I...
    steampunkBeverage steampunkBeverage 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    every wednesday and saturday, one of the rules in our university was we are allowed to wear any dress but only the allowed since we have dress code rather than our uniform, earlier...
    ritztwain ritztwain 18-21, M a week ago

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    So I been together with my man since September 2011 & we have been through a lot by that I mean great moments but also bad. We broke up once only for 3weeks during summer 2012...
    Iloveastronomy Iloveastronomy 18-21, F Jan 6

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    He called me tonight. said he hadn't before but he'd wanted to. but he wasn't ready. I said it's ok. I wasn't ready either. I was kind. friendly. I didn't let any of the bad stuff...
    ZombieBaitMaiden ZombieBaitMaiden 31-35, F Jan 9

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    Sometimes all I want is cuddling beside you. But sometimes all I want is just kicking your ***. Sometimes you make my day. But sometimes you kill me slowly. Sometimes your words...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F Jan 23

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    I love my dearest Wolf and so I dedicate this song to him : ) Boat Song ( Lyrics )If you were a boat, my darlingA boat, my darlingI'd be the wind at your backIf you were...
    MissisWolf MissisWolf 41-45, F Jan 23

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    I think it's going to be a good year when he told me to listen to this and sent the sweetest message. I think we are finally finding love right where we are.:) When your legs don...
    endlesschapters endlesschapters 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    Mine ❤️ Who knows him? If you do hit me up 😁
    CalmYourShit CalmYourShit 18-21, F Jan 8

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    Even though I'm getting over the break up... Deep down I'll always have a soft spot for him
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 18-21, F Jan 15

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    This guy is amazing. I have amazing nights full of candles, movies and cuddles. I am so grateful. I love you 💕 Yes in the photo he is cuddling me:3
    CuteLittleScrewUp CuteLittleScrewUp 16-17, F Jan 5

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    You're always going to be a part of me. If I ever start to break, you'll fix me. I thought I needed you completely out of my life. All I really needed? I needed you. I know that no...
    jiayong jiayong 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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