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I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

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    Not Attracted To Her

    It's just when she smokes hate the smell hate the taste hate everything about it when she smokes all the attraction I have for her leaves me when she isn't smoking as in "quit" I'm very attracted to her and enjoy kissing her when she hasn't been smoking
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M Dec 23, 2012

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    Man Of My Dreams!...but I'm Not Attracted To Him:

    Hello, I've never been married but I am 40yrs old...so I am fairly experienced in life ...I've recently reunited with someone that I've never dated, but who's ALWAYS been extremely attracted to me since we were about 16yrs old...let me add that I used to be a very shallow person...
    NaniDiamond NaniDiamond 36-40, F 28 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    We're A New Couple . . . Is It Doomed?

    We've been together for almost four months, and dating a few months before that. We've spent nearly every day together for the past few months. We know what the other is thinking. I'm not attracted to him. I blame it on our first kiss. But its been so long now I worry...
    AnitaReason AnitaReason 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    We'Re Like A Couple But I Just Don'T Think I'M Attracted To Him!

    I'm 20 and at university, last year I lived in student accommodation with this guy who really isn't the kind of guy I would normal consider dating. He was one of the first friends i made at uni so we're pretty close. We'd lived together 3 months when he told me he thought he was...
    RazzleDazzle123 RazzleDazzle123 18-21 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    Pregnant With My Best Friend

    Amazing guy! Never been treated so well. I cannot imagine a better dad, but like many of you, im not attracted. Kissing is the hardest part actually. The sex is great and we love each other. I am so grateful for so much in my life and try to stay positive, but still I just cannot...
    Caseopea Caseopea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

    I love my man a lot and I truly want him to be happy. Im not sexually attracted to him though and when he touches me it feels like a foreign man so i always move away.I love him and i feel stuck. What should i do?
    MClaire MClaire 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I've been with my partner for 3 years now. We have been on a rocky journey but i can say i truly love him. Our relationship is in a very good place, we have learnt alot from each...
    kiwifruit kiwifruit 18-21, F Sep 25

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    He's no good. This I know. Why do I love him so much? I have the chance to expose him and pay him back. Hope I have the heart to do it.
    hjakes hjakes 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This has happened a lot to me actually. Well I haven't loved many people in my life but there's always someone else. And it's also like, people I love treat me like crap and when...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F Oct 8

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    I feel helpless. It really is out of my control. I don't know if there's anything else that I can do. I'm frustrated because I had just typed out a long paragraph and it got erased...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    I love how he's not perfect. I love him when he's happy and excited, and just as much when he's having a bad day. I don't love him for his looks, his money, his possessions....I...
    pixelpretty91 pixelpretty91 22-25, F Oct 16

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    I love him and by him I mean Stuie Our relationship isn't perfect and is a struggle sometimes. We r very different people and he does have his flaws but........ I love him so...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F Sep 25

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    I was infatuated by a guy that I've seen between classes. I usually don't get to know the people that I'm interested in, I always just stay with the desire to meet them until it...
    Waveheart Waveheart 22-25, F Oct 10

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    I wished I could find a way to show him how much he means to me and how much I love him. No matter what I do I feel like it will never be good enough or I don't deserve someone as...
    Adpatrick Adpatrick 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    I truly believe my husband does not have the same capacity for love as I do. I don't think it is possible for him to love me like I love him.
    sfm21 sfm21 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I love him so much , we haven't known eachother for a very long time , but he's the best thing that's ever happened to me . He's helped me through my depression and problems I've...
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 2

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    I have endured so much with this guy. Yes we are now fully done. He says that he no longer cares for me and that all he feels is emotional attachment.. I hate that I still love him...
    tutu18 tutu18 18-21 Oct 7

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    His name is Sam. He's such an amazing guy. My secret is that I love him and he doesn't even know it. We are currently "talking" but I'm past that point. I'm in love. I'm just...
    Collegexoxo Collegexoxo 18-21, F Oct 8

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    I love him to death and I would do anything for him.. But I don't feel like he feels the same about me.. I am just scared he's gonna hurt me like the other guys I've dated..
    Muppo23 Muppo23 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    But he is my friend. I am so afraid to lose him but at the same time I kept thinking of him. Everyday it makes my heart hurts. But I am happy that we texted each other very ofen...
    celinecooper celinecooper 22-25 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I love my but any girls wanna see?
    Fatgirl2001 Fatgirl2001 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    I love peanut butter but it gives me pimples * sigh*
    onionheart16 onionheart16 26-30, F Oct 13

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    Right now, I need to focus on mending my insecurities and problems. Here are some quotes that I can relate to. I'll come back and read these every time I feel like breaking down...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Oct 10

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    I don't know what to do. I can't persuade him of anything. He has to figure it out on his own. I just hope the happiness and love I brought into this relationship is enough for him...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    Peanut butter has always been a big part of my "food life" haha. It is the one food I have consistently loved throughout my entire life and I still enjoy it now as a college...
    Ezria96 Ezria96 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    When I was a junior in high school I met a boy. It wasn't love at first sight, in fact, I ignored him mostly. But as time went on we became better friends. Best friends, in fact...
    EimineP EimineP 22-25, F Oct 10

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    I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years. He is a wonderful guy but for the last two years the relationship hasn't been great. Hes never cheated on me or physically hurt me...
    HMM11 HMM11 22-25, F Oct 15

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    I lost my opportunity. I was blinded by someone else :/ He liked me & I rejected his offers of hanging out over and over again. I regret it. Clearly, I had no idea how much he...
    FaithKensington FaithKensington 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    he knows that I've been suicidal and has realized that since I met him my depression has died down at a considerably fast rate. sometimes he talks in a way that makes me think he...
    summerwinterfallspring summerwinterfallspring 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I love how he's always there for me. Drop anything going on to make me feel even remotely better. How he's always readily available to talk. How no matter how he's feeling, he...
    Enveleyna Enveleyna 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    I’ve been talking to this guy/boy/man that I met online around a year ago. He is older than me. I’m 21 and he’s 26. He has a secure and successful career, went to school on...
    lookingatstars lookingatstars 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    He just won't accept my part in any of this. He still thinks he's the one to have done wrong. I wrote a speech to him, apologizing for my own issues that have affected this...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Oct 7

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    I think about him all day all night you never escape my mind my heart aches when. You are not here I love you so much and I am happy that you are mine I love you so much Ashton
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    I was in love once and I let him go...I still think of him today.
    Nick20954 Nick20954 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I finally got to see the man of my dreams we have waited almost 2 months for this moment. We cuddled and made out and I already miss him...
    Muppo23 Muppo23 13-15, F Oct 11

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    Since the summer of my sophmore year i knew. You were the one. I cant tell you how manh nights i have cried wishing that you felt the same. I pit my self out on the line to tell...
    lovelyjxox lovelyjxox 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Since the summer of my sophmore year i knew. You were the one. I cant tell you how manh nights i have cried wishing that you felt the same. I pit my self out on the line to tell...
    lovelyjxox lovelyjxox 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I can recognize everyone in his family even though I haven't seen them for a long time ^^ I know it probably seems like it's "no big deal" but it is very much important for me to...
    kittywolfeyes kittywolfeyes 16-17, F Sep 28

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    I really want to... but distance makes it more hard for me to show what I truly feel for me. Distance is a big challenge for us.. even though we know we love each other... we don't...
    myleslus myleslus 22-25, F Oct 14

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    ...i thank God, i slowly accepting the fact that we really can't be together, my heart is more at peace now but still love you and misses you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Oct 15

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    I like my best bro friend. He likes another girl but he treats me like he likes me more than he does her. I'm confused a little by him and I'm not sure if it's even a good idea...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    "Well isn't this exactly where you'd like me, I'm exactly where you'd like me, you know; praying for love in a lap dance, and paying in naivety" - panic! At the disco But it's...
    makaiajane makaiajane 16-17, F Sep 30

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    I seriously LOVE female ***** I can't help myself. #squats
    mixedlove mixedlove 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    The one thing I do love is my butt! It's perfect!
    katstho katstho 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    Mmmm love licking them yum
    Masterlicks Masterlicks 31-35, M Oct 3

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    love chatting about anything from why people like this site, to whats going on in their lives. If life is throwing you a curve ball, drop me a line too, been there myself and know...
    foodforthought84 foodforthought84 26-30, M Oct 6

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    I love licking girls navel it is no nice inbox or pm me if u even wanna talk about bellies
    bellybuttonlick bellybuttonlick 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 12

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