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I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

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    I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

    I love my man a lot and I truly want him to be happy. Im not sexually attracted to him though and when he touches me it feels like a foreign man so i always move away.I love him and i feel stuck. What should i do?
    MClaire MClaire 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    The chemistry we used to have was amazing!

    Even after the kid was born and I was exhausted, just a look or touch would make me ready, almost anytime. Some stuff happened- a long story in which we both essentially committed .the "dealbreaker" (I almost cheated, he got a little angry and violent during a drunken argument...
    wanderingwacky wanderingwacky 41-45, F Mar 5

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    Man Of My Dreams!...but I'm Not Attracted To Him:

    Hello, I've never been married but I am 40yrs old...so I am fairly experienced in life ...I've recently reunited with someone that I've never dated, but who's ALWAYS been extremely attracted to me since we were about 16yrs old...let me add that I used to be a very shallow person...
    NaniDiamond NaniDiamond 36-40, F 31 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Not Attracted To Her

    It's just when she smokes hate the smell hate the taste hate everything about it when she smokes all the attraction I have for her leaves me when she isn't smoking as in "quit" I'm very attracted to her and enjoy kissing her when she hasn't been smoking
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M Dec 23, 2012

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    We'Re Like A Couple But I Just Don'T Think I'M Attracted To Him!

    I'm 20 and at university, last year I lived in student accommodation with this guy who really isn't the kind of guy I would normal consider dating. He was one of the first friends i made at uni so we're pretty close. We'd lived together 3 months when he told me he thought he was...
    RazzleDazzle123 RazzleDazzle123 18-21 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    We're A New Couple . . . Is It Doomed?

    We've been together for almost four months, and dating a few months before that. We've spent nearly every day together for the past few months. We know what the other is thinking. I'm not attracted to him. I blame it on our first kiss. But its been so long now I worry...
    AnitaReason AnitaReason 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    Pregnant With My Best Friend

    Amazing guy! Never been treated so well. I cannot imagine a better dad, but like many of you, im not attracted. Kissing is the hardest part actually. The sex is great and we love each other. I am so grateful for so much in my life and try to stay positive, but still I just cannot...
    Caseopea Caseopea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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