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I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

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    I Love Him But Im Not Attracted

    I love my man a lot and I truly want him to be happy. Im not sexually attracted to him though and when he touches me it feels like a foreign man so i always move away.I love him and i feel stuck. What should i do?
    MClaire MClaire 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    Man Of My Dreams!...but I'm Not Attracted To Him:

    Hello, I've never been married but I am 40yrs old...so I am fairly experienced in life ...I've recently reunited with someone that I've never dated, but who's ALWAYS been extremely attracted to me since we were about 16yrs old...let me add that I used to be a very shallow person...
    NaniDiamond NaniDiamond 36-40, F 32 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    We're A New Couple . . . Is It Doomed?

    We've been together for almost four months, and dating a few months before that. We've spent nearly every day together for the past few months. We know what the other is thinking. I'm not attracted to him. I blame it on our first kiss. But its been so long now I worry...
    AnitaReason AnitaReason 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    Pregnant With My Best Friend

    Amazing guy! Never been treated so well. I cannot imagine a better dad, but like many of you, im not attracted. Kissing is the hardest part actually. The sex is great and we love each other. I am so grateful for so much in my life and try to stay positive, but still I just cannot...
    Caseopea Caseopea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    The chemistry we used to have was amazing!

    Even after the kid was born and I was exhausted, just a look or touch would make me ready, almost anytime. Some stuff happened- a long story in which we both essentially committed .the "dealbreaker" (I almost cheated, he got a little angry and violent during a drunken argument...
    wanderingwacky wanderingwacky 41-45, F Mar 5, 2015

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    We'Re Like A Couple But I Just Don'T Think I'M Attracted To Him!

    I'm 20 and at university, last year I lived in student accommodation with this guy who really isn't the kind of guy I would normal consider dating. He was one of the first friends i made at uni so we're pretty close. We'd lived together 3 months when he told me he thought he was...
    RazzleDazzle123 RazzleDazzle123 18-21 2 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    Not Attracted To Her

    It's just when she smokes hate the smell hate the taste hate everything about it when she smokes all the attraction I have for her leaves me when she isn't smoking as in "quit" I'm very attracted to her and enjoy kissing her when she hasn't been smoking
    Kangaboy91 Kangaboy91 18-21, M Dec 23, 2012

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    i think i am in love with this guy, but i cant tell him how i feel bcause he is getting in a lot of trouble because of me what should i do
    janellhart0510 janellhart0510 13-15, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    sometimes it seems that he is still there but I imagine just me and I try every day to forget but he can not do it
    vanessakbb vanessakbb 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    sometimes it seems that he is still there but I imagine just me and I try every day to forget but he can not do it....
    vanessakbb vanessakbb 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    my love for him is fading away day by day(mainly cuz of his actions, we had so much of chemistry n now its gone), valentines is near n i feel so irritated !!
    beautyndbeast beautyndbeast 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Love peanut butter anything it's just soo good. Love it with chocolate. On its own. With celery. In baking. Icing. Ice cream. Luckily I'm not addicted or all those things...
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    "Sometimes I wanna punch you in your perfect teeth." - Tony Stark Team Iron Man, anybody? :)
    PrincessFrankie PrincessFrankie 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    me when it's the time of the month. just don't touch me. that's all I ask lols
    BABA4801 BABA4801 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    uhhh not really, I just want to punch you in the face (or wherever is "punchable" in you) >:(
    GummiBr GummiBr 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So the guy I'm going to school with I've had a major crush on him since day 1 we are finally dating
    Camrakes Camrakes 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I. *******. Hate. Him. He ruined my life, and then he blames me! Wtf?
    TheGoodPuppet TheGoodPuppet 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband an I have been together 19 years, married almost 10. We have 2 children together. We are/were the best of friends, lovers. We have been through tons in our 19 years...
    Ranmik81206 Ranmik81206 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    This is my furry innie. You like it? (Girls only)
    pregbelliesandnavels2 pregbelliesandnavels2 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    There is a Bellybutton contest on instagram lemme know if you wanna be in it
    7531yo 7531yo 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I'm amazed at my own capability to love an another human being. I think all the credit goes to him for bringing out my best . For making me understand that love is something which...
    Hazeleyes2010 Hazeleyes2010 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Yes, I like tattoos but don't have any yet. I might get one someday but it would have to have some meaning behind it.
    PanHead1989 PanHead1989 26-30, M a week ago

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    Our relationship isn't all tasks, orders, domination, rules, sub/dom, master/slave stuff. It's him phoning to say he's coming to see me after work, it's our hour long...
    OwnedByDaddy OwnedByDaddy 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    but had the most amazing afternoon on the phone with my awesome girlfriend , she makes me feel on top of the world . I love this lady with all my heart and adore her .
    rockitt66 rockitt66 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    I remember feeling love. I think I love cats. But I don't feel attachment. I tell people I love them but it's more for manipulation, to "rub them the right way". I've been really...
    Lyric8 Lyric8 18-21, F Feb 2

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    We were together: two bodies hand in hand, soul in soul. Our breathing, our heartbeats, however cliche, but we were connected. His hands eating me up, insatiable hands wanting to...
    pleasantlysurprising pleasantlysurprising 22-25, F Feb 1

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    After two years I realized his love had been fake. I was planning to move up there and live with him. We had plans to go on adventures to see the world. He was there for me through...
    calumnious calumnious 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I grew up with a Dachshund. Would love to get one again, but don't have the money.
    melbdad melbdad 51-55, M Jan 31

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    Babe I love you, I need you with me all the time. Babe, we meant to be I think about you all the time. Cause you know how to love me right, the sleeps of night is forgettable now...
    FierceFox FierceFox 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    it is incredibly stimulating and pleasurable. many people are not fans but if you are willing to try it you should. it may be incredibly memorable for all the right reasons
    Newconvo1 Newconvo1 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    l feel a bit silly admiring this.. But I'm a Lezzy and totally adore other women's bellies ?
    Poodlelez Poodlelez 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29

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    I'm in love with this boy with the perfect smile in the beginning when we met he was so sweet and we hung out all the time Then the popular gorgeous girl started talking to him...
    CookieTracker7 CookieTracker7 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Yet again. I haven't been on this site in years. When I look back on it my stories were so.... ugh. But here I am again and yet again, I have a thing for one of my best friends...
    mayabutterfly mayabutterfly 16-17, F Jan 28

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    Recently I put the breaks on a long-term friendship with a cis, straight, male friend of mine who hoped into bed with me naked. We spent the weekend together in the same bed, but...
    OrionBlk OrionBlk 36-40, F Jan 28

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    I want to read poetry to you while you play with my hair.
    Ablebodied Ablebodied 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T Jan 26

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    i've seen gerard butler movies but never really like him before i saw him on Phantom's of the opera, he had that creepy-super-masculine expression that still matches phantom's...
    meslm meslm 18-21, F Jan 25

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    As of late, I got a boyfriend! He is simply amazing, with his simple features, amazing voice, and oh- his personality is favourite! I may be young, but already I can't wait to get...
    LovelyDonoght LovelyDonoght 13-15, F Jan 24