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I Love Intellectual Sex

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    The Mind Is Amazing

     intellectuality and experience have been amazing companions to sex.  don't get me wrong, there is a time and a place for a good ****!  however, i find even great physical sex is better when there is a mental connection. 
    TilTomorrow TilTomorrow
    31-35, M
    Jan 28, 2010

    Intellectual Sex: What Is It?

    What is it: It's the most complicated way of reaching an ecstasy (followed by an orgazem in advanced levels) through metaphorical references to man/woman organs and their real sexual interaction that intrigues the imagination to wander through endless possibilities of ...
    Doublethink Doublethink
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 18, 2009

    Caught Up In The Rapture Of Intellectual Sex

    There is a rapture unlike any other….and no, not that rapture which is also unlike any other; however I speak of a sensual sexual rapture. You know the kind of which I speak, the kind that leaves you breathless, panting, moaning, craving, depleted, shattered.   A slow...
    Caramelicious Caramelicious
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Aug 12, 2011

    Ultimately Good For Your Health, Too!

    "Intellectual sex" can mean that your mind is making much more of the coupling than is real ... and that can make the sex hotter than it might be. With many partners, what was going on in my mind was quite different from what they saw on the surface. This is undoubtedly selfish...
    auroramaru auroramaru
    46-50, F
    3 Responses May 29, 2011

    Sex And The Imagination

    I'd love to talk about sex in a adult, mature way, imagination is very important and discussing ideas and interests can be very rewarding.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Jun 6, 2010

    Shades Of Grey

    With the current hype around Fifty shades of grey a colleague was asking me if I had read the book yet. They said to me some of it was over the line. My reply with a glint in my eye was!"with the right person there are no lines, they are shades of Grey!"A fitting song of control...
    charlie1960 charlie1960
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jul 19, 2012

    ******* (Energy)

    The time has come.Banter is fun.Intellect is stimulating.A voice can be a melody.But they are not just experienced.They each have their effect.They assault you with pleasure.They propel you forwardAnd alter your consciousness.Mind and body grow closerUntil the boundary between...
    WyattDuFuque WyattDuFuque
    66-70, M
    1 Response Apr 16, 2013

    A Mind - Body Connection

    When I was younger, there were always plenty of men, some were fun, caring, sweet and funny but even so, I never had great sex or true satisfaction in my relationships before I met my Husband. He has shown me how rare and special that sort of connection is and how great sex...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

    Yes, Candy, I Agree. I Need More Than Moaned Vowels

    This was originally posted in I Am Not Looking For A New Relationship but is updated for this group.I am highly sexual (despite my advanced age). I love a connection with women where we can whip each other into a carnal frenzy culminating in mutual ******(s). That does not mean...
    WyattDuFuque WyattDuFuque
    66-70, M
    1 Response Apr 7, 2013

    It Fascinates Me

    It fascinates me....To enter orbit in this Universe of passionFeeling the cravings in the speed of the lightWith the wings of an „angel“, the mind of an „evil“It fascinates me...To paint the eyes with dreamsSmearing special honey on the „lips“Fire of fantasies...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jul 16, 2012

    Then it happens that you chat with a special

    girl, and she does not read your answer and misunderstands. Kitten, unblock me. You have not read my reply ...
    Arkimede Arkimede
    46-50, M
    Nov 20, 2015

    Struggling With Terminology

    This is an area I find hugely erotic, perhaps because it oils the underlying impulses that dicate our sexual responses, and not the elements that define the lowest common denominator (of sex). In my experience, and paradoxically, the intellectual pursuit is...
    doublefeature doublefeature
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 19, 2009

    The Difference

    Intellectual and physical sex are two distinctly different things in my book. Where one is a stimulation for the body, the other, is a challenge and stimulation for the mind. Intellectual sex is (for me) a philosophical conversation, a heated debate, a metaphorical game of chess...
    Orckiss Orckiss
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Jan 22, 2010

    Oh If Only....

    Oh if only I could feel your fingers brushing ever so lightly over my nipples feeling how they respond as if a light breeze has gently kissed each one under a bright blue sky transforming them into deliciously tempting dark red cherries Oh if only I could feel your sweet lips...
    Lofn2010 Lofn2010
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2011

    Eye Addict

    The scanty provocative garter belt provides the needed fix for those addicted to the eyes of another.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 4, 2012


    What’s more honest, Than when she whispers how she cheats? Who could be as true to me, as she; Who tells me how, at first, With soft caresses, smiles and rising pupils (like dark full moons); Fights past the doubts and butterflies, To taste that first forbidden kiss. Trembling...
    Martz2c Martz2c
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 11, 2011

    Sex Is Beautiful

    On a carnal level, there is nothing as fulfilling and gratifying as sex. However, I think we've all had sex that while still good (is there really bad consensual sex?), it left us feeling empty, dirty and used afterwards. What events transpired that left us feeling the way we did...
    popescottxxiv popescottxxiv
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2010
    SofaKing9000 SofaKing9000
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jan 2, 2014

    Planning And Imagination

    If by "Intellectual Sex" we mean using your imagination, then I say "there's nothing better". The biggest sex organ in the human body is between the ears (and I am not refering to eyebrows). The grey porridge matter is what really matters. So much of sex is really about...
    Martz2c Martz2c
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

    Sexual Training Backfired

    Ed and Michele had been married for many years.  In the early days, their sex life was very good, although Ed never got enough.  Michele would occasionally watch **** movies with her husband, and if they weren’t too hardcore, she would get very hot.  Michele would read...
    Enbknow Enbknow
    51-55, M
    Mar 7, 2011

    I'm not sure what that means,

    but it sure sounds good. Or wait, is that like a mindfuck? Still sounds good though.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    It Starts In The Mind!

    One of the first things I look for in a potential lover is her mind. If she's intellitent and open minded, that's a lethal combination. Many such women are fantastic lovers, because they have very erotic minds, and that's where great sex starts.
    ihaveanextremesolefetish ihaveanextremesolefetish
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Feb 1, 2010

    Sexually Sophisticated

    As I've grown and matured, I realize that being sexually open while not being reckless is a hallmark of intelligence I deeply respect in others. Unfortunately, I only find these types of people online (I can be a bit reserved in person). Creativity and imagination are very...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 22, 2010

    Appreciating Poetry

    I have this 35 year old woman as a recently added friend.  She sent me some of her poems.  I wrote my comments and after I had sent those to her, I read the poem again.  The title was Intensity.  There were two lines that intrigued me on second reading - 'too...
    ouselay ouselay
    56-60, M
    Dec 29, 2009

    Bringer Of The Joy

    Lovers and madmen have such seething brains, Such shaping fantasies, that apprehend More than cool reason ever comprehends. The lunatic, the lover and the poet Are of imagination all compact: One sees more devils than vast hell can hold, That is, the madman: the lover, all as...
    Timmmm Timmmm
    56-60, M
    Jun 19, 2012

    What She Does Not Say To You

    Women provide men a companion that will fully trust and give of themselves as long as we let them know how much they mean to us. Understanding a woman's desire is not in what she says, but in what she shows you. Give her chills, make her sigh, let her know her satisfaction is...
    Seiai Seiai
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Jul 17, 2010

    Everyone Likes Sex

    One of the truly wonderful things about EP for me is seeing how there is such a wide range of people of all ages and interests, sexes and persuasions who will openly admit how much they like and love sex. It is such a basic and fundamental experience that we all share. For so...
    Andie69 Andie69
    51-55, M
    Jul 3, 2013

    I Love

    I love sophisticated matured woman. They know how to turn on his man at any given situation
    deleted deleted
    Jan 8, 2011

    That's Why I Love To Have Sex With Him

    The guy I am seeing is an absolutely brilliant man. Imagine a sexy, slightly-less-of-an-*** version of Dr. House. He can talk about things and make me feel like a child sometimes just because he knows so much more than I do. It is a huge turn on for me to know that this...
    tearmedown tearmedown
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 7, 2011

    My Kind Of Experience

    So, I joined EP to explore my sexual side. But from what I've seen so far, many of the people who've done the same leave their interactions to versions of: "Wanna cyber? Add me:" That's not my style. (Though I love phone sex, cyber sex, talking dirty, etc.) But...
    MauriceBendrix MauriceBendrix
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2010
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