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I Love Intelligent Women

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    Smart women are an absolute turn on

    for me. I don't even care if she is smarter than me. Maybe I can learn something from her.
    Hnation Hnation 26-30, M Jul 2

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    Women With Brains Make Me Happy

    There is this woman I know. She used to be a ********. She lives in a trailer house with her kids, and just recently left her deadbeat husband. She always makes sure she gets extra hours. She knows how to do phony math, and combines it with acting including tears on demand. She...
    Neotone Neotone 26-30, M Aug 28, 2011

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    Am I A Freak?

    Perhaps I should have written this under a group for fetishes, but here I go... I love intelligent women so much that I'm at times fysically attracted to them. This isn't perhaps that special but it sure makes my life complicated because falling in love with intelligent women who...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 29, 2010

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    eperic eperic 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Yes Indeedy

    I love smart women.  Nothing turns me on more than an intelligent, driven, caring woman who knows who she is and where she's going.  To be enitirely honest I can't see myself with the bimbo/airhead type of woman that get's so much media portrayal, because I know the...
    wordsmith85 wordsmith85 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    There'S Nothing Like

    An intelligent woman. Deep conversation can be stimulating on so many levels.
    sp3gold sp3gold 36-40, M Oct 12, 2013

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    I have slept with the same man

    for 23 years and I'm proud to call him my husband. He has been with me through all my stupid decisions. Never once wavered. He has been faithful to me. I have had the urges to sleep with a woman for 10 years now and never acted upon them but the urges are very stong and Monday...
    Fmmason1966 Fmmason1966 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    The Woman

    It's not all about the looks, it's about moral and perspectives. About ethics and principals. How can a hooker raise a child with a bright future ...
    ThePhilosopherFromSpace ThePhilosopherFromSpace 18-21 Nov 10, 2012

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    I feel that this is almost sexist,

    as if it were an oddity to come cross an intelligent woman. Regardless of that, intelligent women are truly enjoyable.
    Sgm51ngc5194 Sgm51ngc5194 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I really do, I wouldn't want any other,

    strong, smart women, the best turn on ever. I prefer intelligence over looks. So they can actually read cookbooks, read the labels in my clothes to wash them properly. So they can handle money to buy food and cleaning products.
    RagnarLodbrok RagnarLodbrok 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    A Twisted Ideal.

    I love intelligent women. Its so cool when Im outsmarted by a girl. Its a blow to my ego but I dont care. An intelligent conversation is always welcome on my side. Women arent meant to be average and intelligence is not only meant for men. Smart women are what the world needs
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses May 3, 2012

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    Men Say This Often But I Have My Doubts....

    I have a number of thought on the subject and I am not sure that it is true that men love intelligent women. There are women I know that are turned on by intelligent men as much as some women are turned on by 20 something, cute blonds, but I have yet to see men do the same for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 41 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    Her Powerful, Attractive Mind

    I always admire a perceptive and enquiring mind. A resourceful and adaptive mind. A playful mind. An intellectually responsive mind. A mind that is mature and ever-expanding. One that has the drive and flexibility to reprogram itself towards appreciation and mindfulness. A mind...
    jenga1 jenga1 46-50, F Sep 2, 2013

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    Intelligent Women

    Intelligent women,There's nothin' better,Great conversation,Cool friends,Laughing,Joking,Playing around,What more could one want?Than intelligent women?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Oct 26, 2011

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    See My Question @ Valuing Female Perspectives @ Relational Dimension Of ..

    .. what's said & needs saying in the right way Like a stimulating challenge or 3? OK: how can we best make the most of the bad weather week ahead? How to best wake up the all too many mesmirised by 24x7 multimedia brainwashing a la Brave New World? Read Dr Paul Taylor's...
    ShyButCreativeSexyGuy ShyButCreativeSexyGuy 46-50, M Jul 2, 2012

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    I Am Looking For An Intelligent Woman

    I like smart people anyway, and have found the bright, aware, refreshing, sometimes challenging Intelligent Women I've known make me feel more alive and happier. I've dated enough to know that less intelligent women just aren't right for me. I've learned from marriage that you...
    seaf34 seaf34 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    Yup

    "Beauty is skin deep but dumb is forever."
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2009

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    Guide..

    An intelligent woman is like a beautiful bird with colorful feathers and melodious song ..... She enchants your heart and soul .. And keeps you standing in the storms of life ....
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    My girlfriend is intelligent

    and good looking. That's why I like her. Sometimes she is crazy though. Intelligent people are very rare these days. Choose your friends wisely.
    ReadyToDieMothafucka ReadyToDieMothafucka 70+, T 1 Response Aug 10

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    I've said this before: a woman's looks will

    attract me to her, but her brains/personality will make me want to fight to keep her in my life at all costs.
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M Jan 15

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    Not For Some... Or Is It Most? And, Where Are You All?

    There was actually a guy I, and I realize this statement may belie my presumed intelligence, but... well, I found him perfect for me -- not at first, but he soon seemed hilarious, there was enough affection going on, so smart and smart-alecky, creative, just great. I...
    penname penname 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    Is There Any Other Way?

    I certainly love intelligent women...but in my mind I alwasy wonder if there is really any other choice. How could I not desire a woman that I can shar emy thoughts with, that we can speak of deep and philosophical things well into the night? Is the...
    SolFeather SolFeather 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    I used to think I didn't care about how

    intelligent a woman is. After several short and while physically exciting but rather boring over all relationships, I realized my closest female friends are all fairly smart and they seem to be the only women who seem to be fun to be around all the time. Something to think...
    usmcdonkey usmcdonkey 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    Would Love To Meet More.....

    There is always so much more to a person. Although the way most people insulate themselves we could all be living in our own bubbles. I have been with several women, but the only one I remember being comfortable with was someone I met for less than a day. We talked and for the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 22, 2011

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    And Unicorns

    Well, really. It's such a nice idea, though.
    GarciaMarquez GarciaMarquez 46-50, M 8 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    The Best Women Are Those That Think

    It's hard to have a releationship if there is nothing to discuss...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    Intelligent Women

    I've dated them smart and I've dated them dumb and I've decided definitely that it's smart women that I'm attracted to the most. I like a woman I can talk to about anything, who can help me figure things out, and who is basically more than just a pretty face. Looks may fade as...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 4, 2011

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    It's No Fun When They Show They Know

    With this title I mean that being smart isn't that bad, it's great even. When you are on the same level, or she is able to give you the genuine idea that because of your love it is no point at all that you are not quite at her level (the difference must not become to big a gap...
    wannashareit wannashareit 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    ?? Seems like a mirage to me ?

    ? I get there to find out ..... They moved on.
    woodland27 woodland27 41-45, M Dec 28, 2013

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    I've always dreamed about a balanced partner.

    ..well, to be fair, in the beggining i was for an extremly beautiful, sexy and intelligent woman, but those are rare or even impossible. I decided to go with what life gives me and i started my first relationship with a beautiful girl, nice, friendly and hardly intelligent, an...
    Bogdan13 Bogdan13 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    I really like talking to women

    that know how to use grammar decently. I also enjoy when they can share my sense of sarcastic and witty humor.
    goofyg54 goofyg54 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Gotta Have A Sharp Gal!

    I've heard frequently enough throughout my life this idea that men don't like super smart women; that we tend to feel undermined, intimidated, or even emasculated in a sense by women of greater intelligence.  I'm not sure how this rumor got started, or why it continues to...
    Azureman Azureman 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Brains Over Beauty

    I find that I am much more likely to spend time with an intelligent women regardless of her looks but just can't stand being around a women who is dumb as a post even if she is gorgeous.  
    rodeo7100 rodeo7100 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Honestly, I really am more attracted to a woman

    by the way she thinks and the warmth of her manner than the way she looks or really even what she does. I want to fall in love with a girl who knows who she is, and loves herself. Only then can she love others. Warmth is also so important. Teachers and counselors have been the...
    splinterbl splinterbl 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I Love Intelligent Women

    Hi. I am a teenage girl who loves women that are intelligent and pretty. ^^
    EgoistNarcissistic EgoistNarcissistic 18-21 Dec 13, 2012

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    Is It Shame?

    Yesterday, I need sex, went to a red light and an asian introduced and made mine hard but the receptionist said she already booked.I left there with a hard ****.While I was driving in trafic, turned on the laptop and jumped to a **** site.It  was getting harder, I parked in a...
    shadioon2010 shadioon2010 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2011

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    The First Smart Woman That I Was Attracted to

    M y story dates from the late 80's when I was still seeking my way through life. I was only 19, enormously shy, quite innocent and fresh out of a failed attempt at university. I know now that I had been wronged when the university ...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F Sep 18, 2009

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    Fell In Love With Her Brain.

    When I met my wife I was 20 years old.  She was gorgeous and I was attracted to her immensily. She was 27 at the time.  I was working at a grocery store. We started meeting discreetly due to our relationship being taboo to our families.  Meeting that were purely...
    badbane badbane 22-25 4 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    I love when a woman is able to have a

    conversation with thats about intellectual matters. In my opinion thats more important than any other physical aspect
    nik1639 nik1639 18-21, M Sep 7

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    Intelligent women are beautiful. They do not need to be objectified for you to show your appreciation. I enjoy being able to have an intelligent conversation with someone without...
    c0nfus3d22 c0nfus3d22 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    Hello so first of all I'm a lesbian i have always found myself being more attracted to intelligent women than those who are not. I love holding deep conversations about life and...
    NightsEternalShadow NightsEternalShadow 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I lover older women? LOL I do love older women!Anyway, Jessica Lange omg there's just something about her that totally does it for me :) 
    RaceCarrington RaceCarrington 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I know this may seem weird. But, I really love mature women, especially a Caucasian or Latina (no I'm not racist). It's really hard to just randomly go up to one I think Is...
    perkofawallflower perkofawallflower 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    i hope to find my intelligent one :) i cant like woman who is not intelligent. i like to talk with intelligent people. intelligence is very sexy for me :) lol
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm almost exclusively living in women's clothes, now. I have a job where I can work from home a lot, so I only have to put on menswear when I have to go to the office. And...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Well you see there is this beautiful person I found myself drawn to. With her I know I can be myself, I can show my sensitivity and express my innermost emotions freely and I know...
    AcousticAnne AcousticAnne 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    For me the perfect woman is; Petite Soft spoken / ASMR Pretty in the traditional sense Intelligent with dark SOH Wears heels, skirts and stockings Best feature legs and *** Good...
    Lostinlife1978 Lostinlife1978 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Back in college I met up with a really good friend named Dierdre. She was 6' 1', in excellent physical condition and played college volleyball. She had this long waist length...
    Unreasonable1 Unreasonable1 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Are there any older women who love teen boys? I'm a teen boy looking for older women!! Just message me
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am a straight woman, but I just think all women are so beautiful and delicate looking but also strong. I like to draw sometimes and my favorite thing to sketch is a woman's body...
    alikatkat alikatkat 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Every since I can remember I have always caught myself watching white women. I am married and my wife is a sexy black women, but for some reason I want to experience a sexy white...
    gcode2083 gcode2083 26-30, M Sep 3

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    Don't get me wrong, I also adore women my age as well. But, that a younger women even pays attention to makes me feel so vibrant. I was out last night and the cutie walks up to...
    koos73 koos73 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 11