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I Love Intelligent Women

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    I've said this before: a woman's looks will

    attract me to her, but her brains/personality will make me want to fight to keep her in my life at all costs.
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M Jan 15

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    Gotta Have A Sharp Gal!

    I've heard frequently enough throughout my life this idea that men don't like super smart women; that we tend to feel undermined, intimidated, or even emasculated in a sense by women of greater intelligence.  I'm not sure how this rumor got started, or why it continues to...
    Azureman Azureman 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Is It Shame?

    Yesterday, I need sex, went to a red light and an asian introduced and made mine hard but the receptionist said she already booked.I left there with a hard ****.While I was driving in trafic, turned on the laptop and jumped to a **** site.ItĀ  was getting harder, I parked in a...
    shadioon2010 shadioon2010 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2011

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    Most Important

    The number one trait I look for in a woman is intelligence, closely followed by personality and what I call "style". That does not mean I don't appreciate good looks. I definately do.
    Spekkiesca Spekkiesca 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2009

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    Honestly, I really am more attracted to a woman

    by the way she thinks and the warmth of her manner than the way she looks or really even what she does. I want to fall in love with a girl who knows who she is, and loves herself. Only then can she love others. Warmth is also so important. Teachers and counselors have been the...
    splinterbl splinterbl 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    And Unicorns

    Well, really. It's such a nice idea, though.
    GarciaMarquez GarciaMarquez 46-50, M 8 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    Brains Over Beauty

    I find that I am much more likely to spend time with an intelligent women regardless of her looks but just can't stand being around a women who is dumb as a post even if she is gorgeous.  
    rodeo7100 rodeo7100 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Men Say This Often But I Have My Doubts....

    I have a number of thought on the subject and I am not sure that it is true that men love intelligent women. There are women I know that are turned on by intelligent men as much as some women are turned on by 20 something, cute blonds, but I have yet to see men do the same for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 41 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    Yes Indeedy

    I love smart women.  Nothing turns me on more than an intelligent, driven, caring woman who knows who she is and where she's going.  To be enitirely honest I can't see myself with the bimbo/airhead type of woman that get's so much media portrayal, because I know the...
    wordsmith85 wordsmith85 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    A Twisted Ideal.

    I love intelligent women. Its so cool when Im outsmarted by a girl. Its a blow to my ego but I dont care. An intelligent conversation is always welcome on my side. Women arent meant to be average and intelligence is not only meant for men. Smart women are what the world needs
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses May 3, 2012

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    I used to think I didn't care about how

    intelligent a woman is. After several short and while physically exciting but rather boring over all relationships, I realized my closest female friends are all fairly smart and they seem to be the only women who seem to be fun to be around all the time. Something to think...
    usmcdonkey usmcdonkey 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    ?? Seems like a mirage to me ?

    ? I get there to find out ..... They moved on.
    woodland27 woodland27 41-45, M Dec 28, 2013

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    See My Question @ Valuing Female Perspectives @ Relational Dimension Of ..

    .. what's said & needs saying in the right way Like a stimulating challenge or 3? OK: how can we best make the most of the bad weather week ahead? How to best wake up the all too many mesmirised by 24x7 multimedia brainwashing a la Brave New World? Read Dr Paul Taylor's...
    ShyButCreativeSexyGuy ShyButCreativeSexyGuy 46-50, M Jul 2, 2012

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    Fell In Love With Her Brain.

    When I met my wife I was 20 years old.  She was gorgeous and I was attracted to her immensily. She was 27 at the time.  I was working at a grocery store. We started meeting discreetly due to our relationship being taboo to our families.  Meeting that were purely...
    badbane badbane 22-25 4 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    Smart women are an absolute turn on

    for me. I don't even care if she is smarter than me. Maybe I can learn something from her.
    Hnation Hnation 22-25, M Jul 2

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    many wars make her many breaks break her most

    over look her they seek intelligence somewhere between her chest and her thighs. her hair and her eyes. not between her fingers or the corner of her smile look closely there are no lines and no light in her eyes just a knowing expression that this is a catch phrase an idea an...
    Diabo1ique Diabo1ique 70+ 1 Response Mar 9

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    Her Powerful, Attractive Mind

    I always admire a perceptive and enquiring mind. A resourceful and adaptive mind. A playful mind. An intellectually responsive mind. A mind that is mature and ever-expanding. One that has the drive and flexibility to reprogram itself towards appreciation and mindfulness. A mind...
    jenga1 jenga1 46-50, F Sep 2, 2013

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    The Woman

    It's not all about the looks, it's about moral and perspectives. About ethics and principals. How can a hooker raise a child with a bright future ...
    ThePhilosopherFromSpace ThePhilosopherFromSpace 18-21 Nov 10, 2012

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    There'S Nothing Like

    An intelligent woman. Deep conversation can be stimulating on so many levels.
    sp3gold sp3gold 36-40, M Oct 12, 2013

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    I've always dreamed about a balanced partner.

    ..well, to be fair, in the beggining i was for an extremly beautiful, sexy and intelligent woman, but those are rare or even impossible. I decided to go with what life gives me and i started my first relationship with a beautiful girl, nice, friendly and hardly intelligent, an...
    Bogdan13 Bogdan13 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    I Am Looking For An Intelligent Woman

    I like smart people anyway, and have found the bright, aware, refreshing, sometimes challenging Intelligent Women I've known make me feel more alive and happier. I've dated enough to know that less intelligent women just aren't right for me. I've learned from marriage that you...
    seaf34 seaf34 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    The Best Women Are Those That Think

    It's hard to have a releationship if there is nothing to discuss...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    Intelligent Women

    Intelligent women,There's nothin' better,GreatĀ conversation,Cool friends,Laughing,Joking,Playing around,What more could one want?Than intelligent women?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Oct 26, 2011

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    Not For Some... Or Is It Most? And, Where Are You All?

    There was actually a guy I, and I realize this statement may belie my presumed intelligence, but... well, I found him perfect for me -- not at first, but he soon seemed hilarious, there was enough affection going on, so smart and smart-alecky, creative, just great. I...
    penname penname 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    Would Love To Meet More.....

    There is always so much more to a person. Although the way most people insulate themselves we could all be living in our own bubbles. I have been with several women, but the only one I remember being comfortable with was someone I met for less than a day. We talked and for the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 22, 2011

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    Women With Brains Make Me Happy

    There is this woman I know. She used to be a ********. She lives in a trailer house with her kids, and just recently left her deadbeat husband. She always makes sure she gets extra hours. She knows how to do phony math, and combines it with acting including tears on demand. She...
    Neotone Neotone 26-30, M Aug 28, 2011

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    Is There Any Other Way?

    I certainly love intelligent women...but in my mind I alwasy wonder if there is really any other choice. How could I not desire a woman that I can shar emy thoughts with, that we can speak of deep and philosophical things well into the night? Is the...
    SolFeather SolFeather 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    I really like talking to women

    that know how to use grammar decently. I also enjoy when they can share my sense of sarcastic and witty humor.
    goofyg54 goofyg54 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Not For Some... Or Is It Most? And, Where Are You All?

    There was actually a guy I, and I realize this statement may belie my presumed intelligence, but... well, I found him perfect for me -- not at first, but he soon seemed hilarious, there was enough affection going on, so smart and smart-alecky, creative, just great. I...
    penname penname 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    Guide..

    An intelligent woman is like a beautiful bird with colorful feathers and melodious song ..... She enchants your heart and soul .. And keeps you standing in the storms of life ....
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    The First Smart Woman That I Was Attracted to

    M y story dates from the late 80's when I was still seeking my way through life. I was only 19, enormously shy, quite innocent and fresh out of a failed attempt at university. I know now that I had been wronged when the university ...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F Sep 18, 2009

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    I Love Intelligent Women

    Hi. I am a teenage girl who loves women that are intelligent and pretty. ^^
    EgoistNarcissistic EgoistNarcissistic 18-21 Dec 13, 2012

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    Yup

    "Beauty is skin deep but dumb is forever."
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2009

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    Am I A Freak?

    Perhaps I should have written this under a group for fetishes, but here I go... I love intelligent women so much that I'm at times fysically attracted to them. This isn't perhaps that special but it sure makes my life complicated because falling in love with intelligent women who...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2010

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    Intelligent Women

    I've dated them smart and I've dated them dumb and I've decided definitely that it's smart women that I'm attracted to the most. I like a woman I can talk to about anything, who can help me figure things out, and who is basically more than just a pretty face. Looks may fade as...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 4, 2011

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    There is nothing better

    than an intelligent independant woman, one who is not like the others who follow trends like a flock of freaking sheep. A woman capable of independant action and thought wit whom i cn have an intelligent conversation with, attracts me very much. Not talking to a woman who;s main...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    It's No Fun When They Show They Know

    With this title I mean that being smart isn't that bad, it's great even. When you are on the same level, or she is able to give you the genuine idea that because of your love it is no point at all that you are not quite at her level (the difference must not become to big a gap...
    wannashareit wannashareit 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    I love smart girls . They can't just be book smart tho. They need to be STREET smart too.. There's nothing more attractive to me than a girl's intelligence.
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    Intelligent mature woman/girls are a huge turn on. I would rather not talk to someone who can't hold a conservation or is too immature to handle certain topics.
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    "Sometimes the strongest women are the ones who love beyond all faults, cry behind closed doors and fights battles no one knows about." ~Unknown **I love this quote. I dedicate...
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    I finally got to spend some time with her today. Busiest woman ever. I guess that's how it is for strong-headed, independent women. It was funny because before today I was...
    NewShoes12 NewShoes12 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I can't stop myself from wanting to be a girl sometimes. I do believe I should have been born a girl, I truly feel that because this part of me gets so excited when wearing women's...
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    I am a white 50 yo white man who Ioves black women. I find black women beautiful and they are more real. I'm in virginia so I run into some negativity from folks who are living...
    windshield999 windshield999 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    I hate when men call women dum women can do anything a guy can do. And the u.s. might have a women leader in 2 years form now
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    I have always been more attracted to black women. As a little kid I had a crush on Rudy from the Cosby Show. Then while all my friends liked Kelly from saved by the bell, I always...
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    However I wish to date a women who can accept my defect. Hanging out together as women will be very interesting
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