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I Love Intimacy

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    It keeps me alive. I honestly do it to feel

    like I am someone and someone cares. I wish it wasn't this way, if my parents found out it would break their hearts so terribly especially my dad. We talk about how I do have people that love me, like him, and that I don't need attention from guys to feel complete. He always...
    IvyRed15 IvyRed15 16-17, F Dec 29, 2013

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    The Repayment Part 9

    Home or the house perhaps was not the right place to come after such a sweet occurrence. Shrey and Frank were watching a football match on the television when the Two For Joy entered. Shrey - Man, where were you? Come on, freshen up and come to the table. Today we have made a...
    abhisham001 abhisham001 36-40, M Dec 1, 2011

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    Open Yourself

    When we get out of the glass bottle of our ego and when we escape like the squirrels in the cage of our personality and get into the forest again, we shall shiver with cold and fright. But things will happen to us so that we don’t know ourselves. Cool, unlying life will...
    Southernman48 Southernman48 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I Am Grateful To You

    Thank You for leading me to new possibilities, what I thought its never going to happen. I am Grateful to You...
    Lena200 Lena200 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Of Course It's Not Just About Sex.

    Intimacy is definitely not just about sex. Sure that is an important part of it. But intimacy is also what you feel when you're not having sex. To truly care for someone means dropping what you're doing at a moment's notice for that person. How does your significant other treat...
    lost4ever lost4ever 46-50, M 1 Response May 19, 2008

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    That Soft Spot

    Men's faces are not as soft as women's. That's just an obvious fact.But I have noticed something. There is a place beneath a man's temple, between that place where hairs start growing and the side of the ear, where the skin is incredibly thin and soft, almost fragile. And when I...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    My Pleasure

    Women are amazing. With their soft milky white or tan skin..their passionate eyes, welcoming lips, and soothing voices.. I yearn to be between a beautiful woman's legs. To feel every part of their body against mine, to feel her chest rise.. rise so high that her nipples caress...
    TattooedAthena TattooedAthena 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I Miss Her Touch....

    We have been separated for 9 months now and I really miss the physical closeness we shared. Coming home from work and wrapping her in my arms, laying in bed with her in the mornings close together, the brief random caresses during the day, the lovemaking, etc. I long to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14, 2013

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    Intimacy is more than just a connection between

    lovers. It's how we connect with our world and the people in it. The thought of how people communicate and reach out to each other has been on my mind lately. If you watch people around you long enough you can start to feel the tention or calm coming off of them. For example...
    Red73 Red73 36-40, F Jan 9

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    Just This

    Feel your hand on mine, your fingers playing with mine tenderly; your soft caress in my hair and neck. Lean against you and feel your body warmth. Run my fingers across your smooth, golden, youthful skin and in your matted, crazy hair. Brush past you and feel my heart skip a...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    I Love Intimacy Too

    I love intimacy too. You could say I crave it. My girlfriend seems to think it is only about sex with me, but I truly crave making love to her. The connection. She doesn't get it. She understands the intimacy, for sure, and I think she likes the connection too, but I think she...
    atomictom atomictom 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    Love To Touch.

    To be with a man who loves to touch you and be touched. To kiss and be kissed. After the sex, wants to hold you and be held. That is the ultimate intimacy. Haven't found one so far. Hope to.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    It's a Big Word!

    I love connecting, openness, sharing, touching, teasing, laughing, crying, tickling, wrestling, kissing, undressing, holding, talking, satisfying, longing. To me there is no border between sex and intimacy. Intimacy can flow into sex without any party having to stop and think if...
    vinceBx vinceBx 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 13, 2008

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    AMAZING Intimacy

    I am not talking sex although that is awesome.  I am talking looking deep into each others eyes and holding each other all night. I am talking about kissing intimately for no real reason. I am talking about talking to each other without saying a word.  Has anyone else...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses May 18, 2008

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    A Part Of My Life.

    It was July. A little humid for a mid-summers eve, but not uncomfortable. My stomach was tight, like I had just done a hundred sit ups. She had bright red hair. Her 5'6" frame seemed like something out of a dream. So feminine. I had decided that I wanted to get to know her better...
    Eugenethemagicaljeep Eugenethemagicaljeep 51-55, M Dec 10, 2011

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    DO You Know What Intimacy Is?

    Today, the word intimacy has taken on sexual connotations. But it is much more than that. It includes all the different dimensions of our lives, yes, the physical, but also the social, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects as well. Intimacy really means total life sharing. And...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 4 Responses May 19, 2008

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    A Blessing And A Curse....

    Intimacy can mean many things to many people...I beleive it is emotional and physical!I am going through a very difficult seperation right nowand have spent alot of time reflecting on the changes I am experiencing...I am a highly sexual person...crave it immensely...and miss it...
    sunbaby sunbaby 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    True Intimacy

    ...is not about sex...I'm sure most of you are aware of that..It's about sharing...It's about communicating....It's about honesty...It's about trust...It's about love.For the first time in a long time, I am involved in an intimate relationship.The unselfish lovemaking that is...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    There's No "i" In Team...

    But alas, there are two "i"s in intimacy. I'm a man... married to a wonderful woman now for almost 15 years. We're strong Christians, have awesome kids, and generally seem to like each other... even LOVE each other... a good deal of the time. The problem? She has no interest...
    Gregarrio Gregarrio 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Will Happen...

    One day it will happen,,,You will wait for me. I will search for you in the crowd, you see me and our eyes meet. Time will stand still, for...seconds, minutes because I will be lost in your eyes. You will come thru the crowd, you are getting closer with every stepp. I can't move...
    Lena200 Lena200 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2013

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    Allow It

    Being able to be intimate with another is probably one of the most wonderful experiences in life. By being intimate we allow ourselves to stand naked and vulnerable in front of the other without the fear of being too exposed. We allow ourselves to be touched in many different...
    trailguide trailguide 36-40, F 39 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    I Enjoy Intimacy

    I been in a few relationships over the years and not all were laced with intimacy. Although I know how it feels and what it is, I am still unable to define how some ladies provide this warm, and most joyous feeling. It makes my body dance with every touch.
    MrNash MrNash 36-40, M 6 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    The Repayment Part 8

    Time repeated itself. Bandhu and Siksha were once again sitting in a restaurant as they used to do in Nainital. The only difference was that last time there was answer in search of question and this time there was question in search of answer. Previously there was love in search...
    abhisham001 abhisham001 36-40, M Dec 1, 2011

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    So There's This Girl

    that i've known for years. we met through my stepsister, formerly her best friend. she's had some rough sport in her life, and i've had some spots in my just rough enough to "get what she's going through". we have grown very close. this girl and i. we're intimate. we slept...
    rujon rujon 18-21, M Feb 25, 2012

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    The Calm Before The Storm.

    To me intimacy is an essential part of lovemaking. intimacy can be a stolen glance across the dinner table in a crowed resturant. Holding hands or snuggling while watching tv, a text during the day just to say I love you. Little moments shared here and there can build a fire that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    I Love It

        i love intimacy . i love when my fiance' will come to my work and we will just hold each 0ther . i will then try and get a 15 minute break and we will talk and one time ended up making out .
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 27, 2009

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    Being Intimate

    I look back over my life and find that I have been intimate with three people. I define intimacy as  being able to talk to that person on a very trusting level, being able to express my emotions freely, especially about sex.  I cannot include my wife because of my...
    anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M 7 Responses Feb 28, 2010

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    Swelling Symphonies

    The smooth breaking silence slows space as if the world actually cared about our love. The window chip the soft light that pours through the soft dust lining. Every pale touch was a swelling symphony across the ear drums we bare. Every kiss was a violin stroking passion along its...
    Xingouttheos Xingouttheos 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    First Date In A While

    All you female friends of mine in EPland. I need some suggestions. Many of you know that I'm getting a divorce. I was married almost 33 years, so it's been a while since I've been with another woman. I may be a little rusty in the romancing thing. I have a woman coming for...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 14 Responses Jul 7, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    It would be nice to find a woman that is as passionate about intimacy as I am. Someone that does not give a dam about who might see them or where they are. Someone that loves...
    Blazen71 Blazen71 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    We can all agree that sex is an important part of the intimacy, but thank goodness is not everything!!! The trust, respect, the sharing thoughts,dreams & secrets and love comes in...
    newlifejuliana newlifejuliana 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 9

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    My marriage lacks affection, closeness and intimacy. We don't kiss, hug or hold hands....no date nights....the main priority is to raise our kids...we talk a lot, however, when it...
    DreamWing DreamWing 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Easy enough to have sex without intimacy...people do it all the time. Sex is physical. Intimacy is emotional. When the two meet it is the best of both worlds but certainly you...
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 1

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    Sex is great but I would choose cuddling or hand holding or kissing over sex any day. I just love to wake up with my head laying on the chest of someone I love. And omg hand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 7

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    More correctly, loved and desired as much as I love and desire them. Physical intimacy and affection are of paramount importance to me; it borders on the verge of physical need. I...
    roMANtic14 roMANtic14 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I just love feeling the warmth and intimacy of another person. It is really comforting.
    Cramsey2 Cramsey2 18-21, M Mar 29

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    I want affection and intimacy ! It's not good for man to be alone. The beauty of a woman inspires and challenges me .
    danielstar danielstar 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I am hoping someone can understand and tell me how to deal with this. Now i might sound like being a wuss when i say leaving my wife is not an option as i have 2 beautiful and...
    manchalaladka manchalaladka 36-40, M 9 Responses Mar 28

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    The trifecta of gifts one person can bestow on another in my book. Intimacy need not necessarily be physical to count.
    RandomUniverse RandomUniverse 61-65, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I love it when i rest my head on my boyfriend's chest or shoulder as i run my hand on his arm and body. I love the warmth i get as our bodies are pressed together, the feel of...
    vers vers 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 15

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    When I’m stressed or in emotional pain, I need physical comfort. A hug, a gentle kiss, a compassionate touch. But my man, he’s the complete opposite…When he’s stressed and...
    dragonflEYEfly dragonflEYEfly 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    This has been a difficult week to say the least. There are things this week that I never thought I would have to face or have to try and overcome. But, through it all, I needed a...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I just want to be loved. If someone loves me it's so much better than sex. Just the simple things like cuddling, or holding hands, snuggling under a blanket together watching tv...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 9

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    Most people get married believing a myth, that marriage is beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for; companionship, intimacy, friendship. The truth is that...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 9

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    I absolutely love being passionately loved by my husband. On the other hand, I passionately love my husband as well. We both believe in lots of foreplay in our lives so both of...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    21 years of marriage, trust violated, I'm done, I've been a good man, husband, father, but when it comes to emotions and the understanding of handling compressed situations . Your...
    DMS777 DMS777 41-45, M 20 hrs ago

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    Acceptance, Affection, Aggression, Ambivalence, Anxiety, Apathy, Boredom, Calm, Compassion, Confusion, Contempt, Courage, Depression, Desire, Doubt, Ecstasy...
    Greywlf Greywlf 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I would love it if my husband would show me more or any affection! I feel empty inside and we have been together for four years married for one year and already the flame is out!
    dexter10176 dexter10176 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 30

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    i love getting soft kisses on my neck, it feels nice and i enjoy the intimacy.now that im single again i'm going to miss it alot :(.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 10

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    No other filmaker has so perfectly captured the complexity of family relationships than Ozu. This great master, the cinemas greatest humanist, created dramas that seem so simple...
    Qataram Qataram 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Do You Think? Do you honestly think that by just removing yourself from my life, that I will be able to get over you? That I will not think about you constantly? That I will not...
    Itsmytime2be Itsmytime2be 41-45, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I'm missing a woman's perspective, tender emotional love and care. Are there women in Sydney (who can relate to the local conditions and environments) willing to be an online chat...
    naturelove691 naturelove691 46-50, M Mar 27

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