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I Love My Army Soldier

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    Being The Primary Parent Is Hard. :/ 8/26/2013

    So tonight (technically morning) around 1am our four year old (5 next month) comes into my room and asks if she can snuggle with me...well of course I say...so she crawls in (daddy is deployed and it is comforting sometimes to have her with me all snuggled up). Well...she is...
    ignite555 ignite555 22-25, F Aug 26, 2013

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    New Army Girlfriend:/

    My boyfriend just left Tuesday for BCT/AIT at Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri. We've been together for 3 months and I've spent almost everyday of those three months by his side. Having him gone is a bigger heartache then I could have ever imagined. I haven't stop crying, I haven't...
    ajcatch5 ajcatch5 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    angelbeaner angelbeaner 18-21, F Mar 7

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    I Miss You

    It's been about a  month and a half since my boyfriend has left for Kuwait. I miss him like crazy and i think of him constantly. We found out just recently that after this deployment he will be staying in New Jersey for another year for training, which i think is a great...
    mscaffro849 mscaffro849 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    My Real Life Romance

    My story started June 2, 2012. I was enjoying a night out when I noticed these three guys sitting across from me. One stood out, I hadn't talked to him yet but already knew he was in the Army and his age. I tried to act as though I didn't notice him but when I'd look over he was...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 1 Response May 2, 2013

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    Not Sure....

    I love my boyfriend with all my heart. He has been my best friend for awhile before we started dating. Now we are having a beautiful baby girl this sept. He wants me to move with him when he gets stationed. I want our baby girl to have a father and a mother in her life. I just...
    lovezdh lovezdh 18-21, F Jun 14, 2013

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    Staying Strong For My Hero

    my boyfriend, george, left for basic three weeks ago. i miss him so much. i was a wreck for a long time, and still have my moments. i got to talk to him on the phone quite a few times before he actually started basic up. i miss talking to him though.:/ i am staying as...
    Anxious13 Anxious13 16-17 1 Response Jul 26, 2009

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    I Love My Army Soldier

    I couldn't say if enough I love my ARMY SOLDIER ... He makes me proud everyday .. And to know his doing this for our future together make me weak in the knees knowing he would do something not every man would even consider doing .. His everything I ever wanted in a man my hero...
    ForeverAndEver ForeverAndEver 19-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    It Started In Afghanistan.

    Eight months ago I had just gotten out of a terrible relationship & from a small town in Michigan's upper peninsula. I was a single mother with no education & a bad past. I felt like I had no chance of finding the right guy in a town that had shut it's doors on me. I found myself...
    ayashhbashh ayashhbashh 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17, 2012

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    My Soldiers My Love

    I Really respect and love my soldiers, and of course they deserved for our love. When we sleep comfortably , They stand on boundary in Freeze and In Dark Night just to save us from enemy. LOVE MY SOLDIERS and HATS OFF TO YOU
    razishadab razishadab 22-25, M May 31, 2012

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    Down To A Little More Than A Month :)

    He's been gone for almost 4, and I'm excited to see him graduate! I've missed playing black ops with him I think more than anything lol. Since he's been gone I've played maybe 2 times and its just not the same lol. I can't even play minecraft either xD I miss my gaming buddy, my...
    alibear03 alibear03 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2013

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    This Man Keeps Reminding Me Why I Fell In Love With Him

    Omg! Just got two letters in the mail from of course my army man. I think it's adorable that he insists on writing letters to me still even though we talk every afternoon. Lol it's just the greatest thing in the world knowing that someone puts the much tought into you and so much...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F Aug 16, 2012

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    He's Actually Thinking About Leaving Me...

    Ok if u guys read my last story then u will understand this one.....ok here goes.I finally got worried that my fiance hadn't called yet so I decided to text him asking him if he still loved me and if this was something he still wnated to pursue well 10 mins later he replies back...
    PvtCateswife PvtCateswife 19-21, F 7 Responses Nov 13, 2007

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    It's Hard

    Sometimes it's hard to go through the pain hurt and sadness of our soldier being away and it sucks that we have to wait for a phone call, letter, package etc. But all this pain sadness and hurt that we go through only makes us love more. Think about it, every time we get that...
    nm617ox nm617ox 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 16, 2011

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    Blog Of An Army Wife/Ex Wife.

    There is no turning back...this much I know. I know there is no greater love than the love I feel for him. He has held my heart for years, and no matter what we went through or what he did and how I responded...he was always "it" for me. He was THAT man in my life. The father of...
    ignite555 ignite555 22-25, F Aug 18, 2013

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    Can Anyone Help

    Well I am new to being a wife and new to this site. I have been reading these stories and they are helping realize that I am not a strange person for having these feelings. My husband Wes left for Iraq nearly two months ago and wont be home unitl aug 4 2009. I have been feeling...
    awabernatha awabernatha 22-25 6 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    My Hero, My Husband, My Soldier

    I met Justin 6 years ago and he was the roughest boy I had ever met, covered in tattoos loved to drink and no future. I LOVED HIM right away.  We became inseperable moved to Louisville, Ky and have been together ever since. In the past 6 years he has done more for me and our...
    LDuliba26 LDuliba26 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2007

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    If You Can Get Shot At You Should Be Able To Be Served Liquor.

    So the past week my aunt was getting married so Ryan and I went up there for the wedding. I was one of the Jr bridesmaids but Ryan he wore his uniform to the wedding and he looked so nice in it(: But my brother also came and he's 20 and Ryan is 19 when they went to the bar they...
    nessababy1014 nessababy1014 18-21, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Ladies I Need a Little Help Here

    I'm having one of those nights, you all know what I'm talking about.  When every single thing in the room reminds you of him, every song on the radio is about him.  When it's been awhile since you've heard from him and the doubt begins to fill your mind quicker...
    arrowangel21 arrowangel21 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 22, 2008

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    I Love My Soldier!

    okay well idk if this really has a point to it but i just wanted to share that i love him so much! I was kinda in a funk the past two days...well all days since he's been gone, but whenever i see him i get this overwhelming warmness inside my chest that makes me want to reach out...
    reginalayton reginalayton 16-17 Nov 11, 2010

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    Talkin About Future?

    Is talking to my soldier about the future while he's gone a bad thing? And how do I know if he is ready to put all our feelings out on the table, been feeling insure lately and want to see if this is the real deal!?
    Bug728 Bug728 16-17, F Apr 1, 2013

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    How?

    How do you tell your soldier you love him and have him feel like you are never leaving?
    Bug728 Bug728 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    The Begining

    almost two months ago i met the most amazing guy ever! i'm a skeptic when it comes to falling in love but i fell in love with him fast. it's not some crazy butterfly love either. this is deep to the core. 15 months ago he was deployed to afghanistan. he jumps out of planes into...
    jala93 jala93 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2011

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    My Relationship Ended);

    So Franky and I split was so broken and still am and its been 1 year but he was 22 I was 17 and it didn't work out because of our ages. I was in love with him and I still am but were not going to work because our families don't like each other and his mom wants him no where near...
    nessababy1014 nessababy1014 18-21, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Experienced Army Wife...

    Hey Ladies -  I was just reading some of the stories and found that many of you are new to the military life.  I have been married to an Army man for close to 8 years and have been through 3 deployments with him.  If you need any support or advice, or just...
    thepilotswife thepilotswife 31-35, F 14 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Loves My Brother-in-law Xxx

    my brother is engaged to a soilder n i get on really well with him and love him to bits its like having 2 big brothers :D but my bro-in-law's going to afghan in a week for 6 months and my brother really struggles to cope when his fiancee is away :( i'm not really sure what i...
    lm17 lm17 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2009

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    Trust Issues

    My boyfriend of 8 months recently told me that he doesn't trust me when I go out. He claims because I go to ASU, a "party school" that I am gonna go out and cheat. When in fact every time I go out I just think about him and how badly I wish he was here with me instead of 2500...
    tayloraj19 tayloraj19 18-21, F Sep 2, 2013

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    I Knew It!

    Just a few hours ago my boyfriend surprised me with my christmas gift early. Its a promise ring and i love it! He wanted me to have one before he left again. I guess to try to enforce and prove his love. I know a promise ring is just a ring but it means a lot that he is taking...
    jala93 jala93 18-21, F Dec 19, 2011

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    I Just Relized

    My hubby just left me for his second deployment...=( but I just relized how much he has left his mark in the household. the daily night time routine..kiss the kids goodnight, tuck them in. Then crash on the couch and cuddle with me. Now that he is gone..there is this big fat void...
    irishwannabeky irishwannabeky 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 6, 2007

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    Deployed And Pregnant/re-blogged!

    So im 20, 21 in July my boyfriend ( fiancé ) is 24 to be honest we haven't been together long, but when we met we just clicked, i guess we were just " meant to be " anyway he was re-deployed 6 weeks ago, a week ago i found out im 5 weeks pregnant, now I thought he would of been...
    princessabi princessabi 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    "a Soldier Calls Me Baby"

    If you want to talk about romance, don't look for skits or movies or tv. It's not real, those are written by people that sometimes have never even experienced true love. You want real romance? Look at the hearts and relationships and stories of all these girls that are patiently...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    He Asked For The Ring Sizeeee!

    my boyfriend, usually visits every other weekend, being as we live in different states.this was not our weekend for visits, and he surprised me. he sent me a picture of my airport, and said "i seem to be lost pretty lady, could you maybe pick me up?"i about died on the way to...
    bonnyandclyde bonnyandclyde 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    I Miss My Soldier Man Even When He's Here.....

    I am so consumed within all my thoughts.. there are so many,  I am thrilled my soldier is comming home to me even if it is only for just under two weeks but even though he is comming home I often feel terrible a part of me wants him to come and a part of me is...
    southernflower7 southernflower7 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 14, 2010

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    My Hero Wears Combat Boots and Dog Tags

      Hello my name is Stacey I am in las vegas. My boyfriend is at fort Leonard Wood Basic right now. We met in high school I was always the over achiever. My Sophomore year I was a student aide in his Freshmen AP Biology class. I was a cheerleader the whole bit he was a...
    queentoasoldier queentoasoldier 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Love My Soldier Not Our Internet

    Really missing my boyfriend. Has anyone ever had Skype cut out in the middle of a really special moment and it just ruins the rest of your day? Had a lot of communication issues today. Stupid internet at the base he is at. I just want to hear his voice and see his face. It's...
    LittleMissAirhead LittleMissAirhead 18-21, F Jan 17, 2013

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    Ft.Hood Texas-anyone?

    Hello   I just joined the group, and was wondering i any of you guys in here have husbands stationed at Ft.Hood,Tx? I am wanting to meet more wives that have something in common with me like some of the older wives?I am in my 40's and have found only the younger group at...
    japgirl35 japgirl35 41-45 4 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    Umm...

    So I might be pregnant but my boyfriend might be getting deployed soon and I have no idea what to do. My period is a week late and im kind of freaking out, so what do I do?
    nessababy1014 nessababy1014 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2013

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    My Fiance Just Left For Basic! :)

    So my new fiance left for basic at Ft. Benning a few days ago! So far I've been holding up much better than I anticipated! He was able to call me from the airport before he flew out, but I havent heard from him since then. Im not going to expect to hear from him for a few weeks...
    am84756 am84756 18-21, F Apr 24, 2013

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    Input Needed!

    Is it alright to be friends with someone of the opposite sex if you are in a relationship? I mean not just text once in a while friends but hang out friends, one on one at a golf course or something along those lines...maybe going and getting a beer together...if you are VERY...
    ignite555 ignite555 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    This Is Going to Be the Hardest Year

    Well i feel like i am missing a big part of my heart, my boyfriend left for his first deployment and won't be back till January next year.. Right now he is in Kuwait doing a couple more weeks of training and as of right now i get to talk to him almost everyday, but i know that...
    ilovemysolider ilovemysolider 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2008

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    Hey Everyone!

    My name is Veronica and I'm 20 years old. I'm a college student studying Early Childhood Development and I can't wait to further my career! As most of you can see, I'm also a proud United States Army Girlfriend and I can't imagine my life without him. We've been best friends...
    VCA1993 VCA1993 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    The Last Time We Spoke. 9/6/2013

    About a week ago I got a facebook IM. "how's it going?" is how the IM's always start. Never loving or sweet. Very cold and to the point. So we begin talking. Recently, viewing some things on his facebook that are LESS than thrilling to a girlfriend on his page...im slightly...
    ignite555 ignite555 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    I Finally Calmed Down.

    It's taken me a while to write this for the simple fact that every time I think about it I tear up. I got word the other day that my boyfriend will be one of the many who will be sent over seas after he is done with his AIT training. It's been killing me to know that he still...
    VCA1993 VCA1993 18-21, F Feb 23, 2013

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    I loved him before he was a soldier

    and will continue well after! Missing him like crazy 11 more days till I see him!!
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    My Hero

    My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months now, I haved never kissed my boyfriend, we started dating while he was on deployment, but I wouldn't change it for one second, He has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am proud to wait for him He is my...
    ejennings2010 ejennings2010 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    So Relieved!

    So it ended up being true. I got my wish! My boyfriend will be staying "close" to home (4 hours away) and won't be traveling half way around the world. I honestly thank God for this because it could have been bad. He's only going to be in New York at Fort Drum and I couldn't be a...
    VCA1993 VCA1993 18-21, F Mar 19, 2013

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    Call From Germany 8/18/2013

    He called me today. He talked about his army plans and the fact that...his psychologist isn't sure he is going to make it back mentally after this third tour in Afghanistan. Not sure why he told me...maybe a warning. I'm not sure. The call was almost painful, filled with long...
    ignite555 ignite555 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    It Has Been A Week...any Advice? :(

    Well everyone, today marks a week since Mathew left for basic training. I've kept myself busy all week-Monday I went shopping with my mom & skipped school-then worked til closing, Tuesday I went to school and became certified in CPR, Wednesday I went to school, and made Rice...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 11, 2012

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    Hawaii!?

    So I just received a letter from my SIT letting me know a few of the stations we could be going to. He told me that Hawaii was one of the places. I have been hoping and praying that's where we go. I hope we don't get New York cause they deploy in June and he graduates basic/AIT...
    alwaysnforevertk alwaysnforevertk 22-25, F Feb 24, 2013

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    Hey Ladies!

    As Army Girlfriends, I kind of had an idea! But, to do this I'd need help from some other military families! I was thinking of starting a charity type thing, sending care packages, letters, and such to our deployed soldiers! I haven't really thought much about how to get it...
    ilmsx3 ilmsx3 18-21, F Feb 6, 2013

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    Cant wait until june to see my man again!

    (He is on the left) love him so much! :)
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Feb 23

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    3 Years And Counting

    Me and boyfriend of 3 years have never been happier..Bringing in the new year with nothing but love for each other... I just wish he was here to spend it with me, See he is in the army and has been since we have been together.... Deployment in Kuwait is hard and i just wish he...
    ForeverMissMae ForeverMissMae 16-17, F Jan 2, 2013

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    He's Cute

    This story is so funny. Its kind of old but....  I got a card from David. I was so excited. I opened it and it was in Spanish. Which David is Mexican but he doesn't know much Spanish. I opened it and inside he wrote this is how I feel baby. I thought well I don't know...
    lenzeyanddavid lenzeyanddavid 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2010

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    He'S Not Mine, But I Care For Him Deeply.

    This whole situation is really confusing unless I make you privy to the whole story. It's pretty one-sided, and I'm sort of the hopeless romantic type. Four years ago, my first year of college, I was walking through the parking lot to class. Just an average fall day, luckily...
    amory23 amory23 18-21 2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    Little Moments With Little Girls...8/20/2013

    Tonight my four year old daughter and I were in the car and she was talking non stop about her daddy and where he is and what he is doing and what her plans are for when he comes home. I begin explaining to her that he was in Germany but today he goes to Afghanistan to fight the...
    ignite555 ignite555 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    2 Am

    Something as simple as a phone call at 2 in the morning from my baby makes my entire day, and the lonliness go away. " I love you baby, don't ever forget that. You're the best thing in my entire life. I miss you so much and I can't wait to hold in my arms again" is what he says...
    ConklinsGirl ConklinsGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2011

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    Battle: La

    So dummy me went to go see the movie Battle last night. Sometimes during the movie it was tough to see how hopeless the situation was and made me wonder how often our soldiers face that? As horrible as my thoughts were (thanks tv) I had this HUGE sense of pride. Pride for my...
    PvtRWoodsgirl PvtRWoodsgirl 18-21, F Mar 14, 2011

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