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I Love My Husband But I Can Not Trust Him

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    ???i Do Not Trust My Husband???

    hello , my name is dee.  I have a hard time trusting my husband.   I met him we got married and he has a hard time when he sees another woman he stares not glances but stares.  this bothers me and i know its not supposed to .  he says that it is nothing when he stares...
    delaney12 delaney12 36-40 4 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    It Makes Me Sad Every Day

    He's cheated before. He will cheat again. And yet I love him and am not ready to leave. It just feels like a matter of time. I don't know why I am waiting. I know he loves me. And I am madly in love with him still--after four years. He is so good to me in every other way. But for...
    AnnaKarenin AnnaKarenin 46-50 3 Responses Feb 2, 2008

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    I Trust Him, But I Don't, Why?

    My husband and I haven't been married very long and he is absolutely wonderful. In every way he is nearly perfect (or as perfect as someone can be) we've had our share of problems, but nothing too serious, and he really hasn't EVER given me a reason not to trust him. The problem...
    mozneurosurgeon mozneurosurgeon 18-21 Nov 9, 2012

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    How I Got My Husband Back

    i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Dr.Ishvara for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost two months. i am very much grateful to Dr.Ishvara. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like...
    tessy567 tessy567 26-30 1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    I Know Trust Is Very Important

    I met my husband through a weird situation, A couple of years ago I had hired a lawyer for my divorce case to my son father. In the process I was a single mom providing for my daughter and grand kids. Helping my other daughter and sending my son in prison commissary . Throughout...
    paloma007 paloma007 46-50, F Jan 27, 2012

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    MY Life Today What to Do !!!

    "I love my husband But I can not Trust him",  I met my husband five years ago, living together for three years we have one daughter together.  One child male 16 yrs on my first marriage, he has two children one female 23 yrs old, one male 18 yrs old from...
    Bren35 Bren35 31-35 Apr 29, 2009

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    I'm Just Confused , and Depress

    I love my my husband but i dont trust him at all it has been three years since were married and seven years we had know one another all my life i search for the one but lately my husband started to take photos of his female friends and store it in his ablum then they will call...
    averlene averlene 26-30 2 Responses Oct 13, 2008

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    INSECURE

    I had a dream about my husband, I went to meet him at his work place and when I saw him he had a hickey marks all over his skin.  I have no idea what that means but I am afraid of losing him.  Well is hanging out with one of his friend who works with him and a few days...
    pumpkin pumpkin 21-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26, 2007

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    Facebook

    My hubby and I have been married for almost 2 years. Last year I discovered him talking to an ex about their child. The problem was not the talking or texting. It was the fact the denied it completely even called me crazy until I showed the proof of all the erased calls and texts...
    aphrodite87 aphrodite87 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    I suppose I should start this by saying

    that I don't really know what to feel anymore. My husband and I just celebrated our second anniversary a few days ago. And while I'm happy that we've lasted thus far as a married couple, (almost seven years together total,) I came to a startling conclusion. I still don't trust...
    nerdygirl92 nerdygirl92 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 2

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    Lost Trust

    Hey I am very new here but want help .My husband lies to me and whenever i ask he blames me this time I am feeling like looser I don't want to lose him.pls help me..
    ginisha ginisha 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    I Can't Trust My Husband.. He Keeps Breaking My Heart With His Lies !! I Am About To Break Up With Him ):

    We met nearly 2 years ago .. We fall in love & we got married last April. I used to trust him so much that i believed every thing he said ! i guess i was a fool. I caught him lying many many times but he always denied & he promised & swore not to lie again and if he does it again...
    jewel80 jewel80 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2010

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    FORGETTING

    MY, HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE WE WERE 18, AND HAVE GROWN APART, NOW 32 YEARS OF AGE WE ALMOST HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON, BUT OUR THREE CHILDREN. YEARS HAVE GONE PASS AND WE LIVE OUR LIVES SEPERATE,I WOULD ALWAYS ASKED HIM TO SPEND TIME WITH ME AND THE FAMILY, HIS ...
    LOVME LOVME 31-35, F Oct 18, 2007

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    I Love My Husband But Cant Trust Him.

    I married my husband 1 year and 6 mths ago, I just cant trust him no matter how hard I try. I dont think he has cheated on me , but when we began our relationship he lied to me about his ex (mother of his 2 kids) and those lies are in my head day and night. He lied abiut weather...
    mireina mireina 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    From 100% To 0% In A Millisecond...

    I used to trust my husband 100%. Now, I trust him 0%. I am trying really hard to get over all the lies told, the deceit, the secrets, but mostly, the betrayal. I don't know how you are supposed to build on a relationship when there is no trust. And, I don't see the tide turning...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    Emotional Affair

    I love him with all that I am, with all that I was and all that I will ever be but I can't trust him. Not after catching him having emotional affairs with not one but three women. He said the main woman was just a roll playing game on facebook that got out of hand but why the...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 1 Response May 31, 2011

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    Not Sure Of This Feeling

    I have been married for 24 years never ever had to worry about my husband unless I chose note too not sure. I have 2 kids 24 and 19. My husband has always been so good to me. We went to Mexico last month which we do everyear for 10 years now and I think I had a nervous breakdown...
    okimdyinginside okimdyinginside 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2013

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    Heart Broken

    Hello, Well here it goes. I been married for 14 years, with a wonderful man. He's 38 and I'm 33 years old. Until a couple of weeks ago I believed my marriage was almost perfect. I discovered that my husband had been texting a 23 year old girl and sending her pictures of...
    rcsosa rcsosa 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    Not Trusting My Husband Has Ruined My Marriage.

    I have caught my husband flirting with women, inboxing women on FB, saying he's single on his MySpace profile and lying about little things. When I confront him, he gets upset with me and turns everything on me. He makes me feel like crap. He starts arguments all the time. He is...
    alone2think alone2think 46-50 5 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    Not Sure If I Am Over Reacting??

    My husband and I have been married for three yrs and together for 4. He has been in prison for twenty mos. of our relationship. I was four mos. preg. when he went it. I have raised our daughter by my self and maintained our relationship despite everything that he has lied about...
    lonelymommy lonelymommy 22-25 3 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    I Love My Husband But I Have Trust Issues

    ok so we have been married for 2 yrs and when we go out and he sees a hot girl he makes it known either by telling me or making a noise. this drives me crazy i know men look but he doesnt half to make me feel invisible. we have 2 boys together and he is a great dad. i just worry...
    brit35962 brit35962 26-30 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    Aggggggggg

    Hi I've been with my husband for 11 years he has hurt me decieved me and broken my trust several times. He swares he has changed and even says "what more do you want from me". He has changed but over the years he has chipped away at my personality. I used to be a confident happy...
    Twinkx Twinkx 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2013

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    Love My Addict Husband, But Only Trust Him About 20% Most Days...

    Married to a wonderful, faithful Husband & Father who's struggled with addiction the durration of our nearly 2 decade long relationship & while going through addiction stuggles has lied and taken from our families financial resources, etc to support his habit. I love him with all...
    nvldy nvldy 31-35 2 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    How Can You Replace Broken Trust?

    I truly love my husband with all my heart. We have been married for 10 years and been together for 12. We have had our really rocky times in the past but I thought it was all behind us. He used to drink, and saying heavily is an understatement. He was hospitalized for...
    loribethNC loribethNC 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 22, 2007

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    Liar

    He cheated on my when we first started dating and it was like PULLING TEETH to get the truth out of him. I don't believe that it was the only time. He has lied soo many times about the stupidest things!! He can tell me the sky is blue and I'll think twice before believing him...
    mojo1028 mojo1028 22-25 2 Responses Dec 29, 2011

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    Savitri And Satyavan : An Indian Love Story

    There was a king called Ashvapati. The king had a daughter, who was so good and beautiful that she was called Sâvitri, which is the name of a sacred prayer of the Hindus. When Savitri grew old enough, her father asked her to choose a husband for herself. These ancient Indian...
    Abhih123 Abhih123 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    I Love My Husband But There's No Trust At All

    My husband & I had been together on & off since senior year of high school. High school he cheated then I cheated we went our separate ways & ended up getting married. 4 months into marriage he decides to have emotional relations with a Co worker (he's military) he wouldn't end...
    Adrienne1988 Adrienne1988 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    3 Years Ago

    So my husband and I have been together for over 8 years now. We have 3 (nearly 4) beautiful children. However, my husband cheated on me but that was 3 years ago. He did not have sex, he touched and did not get opportunity to go further. And when I caught him, I had to drag the...
    Kinah Kinah 26-30, F Dec 19, 2011

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    When The Going Gets Rough, He Signs Up On Various Dating/sex Sites

    He was bored after 23 years. And it was just so much easier to sign up to half a dozen dating/sex sites than to put an effort into the marriage. So nice to know that I have a 57 year old child I must constantly entertain. And it's even better to know that *I* am the one who...
    insanityrunsinthefamily insanityrunsinthefamily 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    I Need To Trust....................

    My husband and I were having problems.  He wanted a divorce then changed his mind.  We agreed to work on our marriage, then I find out he has been having a emotional affair.  He promised to stop texting, calling and seeing this women.  Our relationship has turned around to...
    newlifeat50 newlifeat50 46-50 6 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Love But No Trust

    I also have a husband who drinks too much.  His third DUI landed him 90 days in jail, he just got out.  There were also other girls, meeting most of them online thru several dating sites he posted himself on.  I think the guy is totally addicted to...
    loriah loriah 46-50, F Oct 6, 2009

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    Is There Any Hope? I Can't Trust Him

    We met as teenagers and married young. About a month after we were married he tells me that he lied about something. I say what? He said that he WAS a virgin the first time we had sex, but had told me he wasn't. OKAAAAY. Through the years he would withhold information which...
    HawaiiGreen HawaiiGreen 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    I Am Madly In Love With Him. But We Are Strugeling To Stay Together..

    After 11yrs of bieng with my husband I discovered he was cheating on me. After that my marriage just went into the worst roller coaster ride ever. Now its been 15yrs and we are still strugeling to be together..... The trust between us has gone down the drain .... But we love each...
    BonitaFlower BonitaFlower 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2012

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    Trouble With Trust

    My husband tells me I need help with trusting him as I can't help but think that he cheated on me or wanted to but can't bring himself to admit it. It all started when he went to work at our sons daycare. When he called me there was always one of the female workers there giggling...
    Vmelanson Vmelanson 36-40 2 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    Going Crazy Looking For Clues

    Sometimes I feel like a crazy person the way I have to go thru things. My husband often lies to me about everything and anything. Seemingly for no reason? He has come home extremely late. He has made plans with friends but not told me about them. Said he is stuck in traffic...
    Littledreamer83 Littledreamer83 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    To Trust The One You Love....Why Can'T It Be That Simple?

    My story here is a bit different. I trust my man to be faithful. I don't believe he has ever cheated, and although I can't predict the future, I don't think he ever would. It's not that I'm "all that". There are lots of women around who are more desirable than me. No, it's not...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    he is being soo involved with his phone

    and internet activities i cant take that habbit of his on my nerves. thats why i keep myself apart from him
    kianaat kianaat 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I Wanna Trust My Husband

    My husband cheated on me a month before we got married and im having a hard time trusting him
    CheetahGurl CheetahGurl 26-30 Nov 29, 2011

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    I Just Cant Trust Him

    I fell in love hard for my husband. He is the only man I even been in love with, and we met at a horse fair where some boys were harassing me and giving me a hard time, trying to grab me. I was getting angry at them but there isnt much I can do, and he saw what was happening and...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F Aug 12, 2013

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    Life is not fair. Love comes at the most inopportune times. I wish we had some insight into our future and could choose our own paths. I am constantly wondering, why? Why do I let...
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    There is a level of disconnect that never use to be. The absence of depth is apparent in the brief embrace or kiss that remains. We exchange pleasantries as two old friends but...
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    EnglishEmpress EnglishEmpress 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I can't promise you the world or that I'm the man for you. I can't promise that I'll always say the right things or never make a mistake. I can promise to always be here and be...
    leaving6622 leaving6622 36-40, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My husband and I argue all the time because he won't stop lying about STUPID things! He lies about everything to prove points, ect. He will get paid, and not save his check stub...
    lauradl1117 lauradl1117 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    If something is left upon someone having significant consequences, then it is likely to stay. About two years ago, an old bully I knew from middle school contacted me on Facebook...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 10 hrs ago

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    its difficult for me to trust anyone,everytime i end up people taking advantage of me and i realise that in the end i feel hard to trust anyone, anymore
    sonushah sonushah 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I decided I really want to talk to someone; I mean really talk to someone openly, like I've tried to do before, but it just takes a while. I haven't done anything about it for over...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    recently I've lost all my friends, again. It tends to happen to me at the end of every school year. 6th grade. middle school I had one friend. highschool i started and made a lot...
    thelostgirl25 thelostgirl25 22-25, F Mar 22

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    I'm in 7th grande age 14 when we met and till 6 years our relation last we get engaged by our parents and when I turn 20 we get married but right after our marriage he always...
    maiyrah maiyrah 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I was so lucky, I was with someone I could trust so completely it was like he was an extension of myself. And now he's been taken away and I'm so angry, and upset and broken.
    jayanna7 jayanna7 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8