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I Love My Mom, But

Mothers can be aggravating, annoying, & well Mothering.... What do they do to annoy you? Share & Be Heard 359 People

    I Love You But You Are Making Some Really Stupid Decisions...

         I want to start off by saying that I love my mom. She is an amazing woman. At this point in time she is making some really bad decisions right now that are having a really bad effect on me. she believes that she is free to go out to bars and sleep with other men. This is...
    jadedlilly jadedlilly 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    She blabs everything I say to everyone we know.

    I know she means well, but I've stopped confiding in her - I know whatever I say will be repeated ten minutes later to my siblings, and my grandma, and Mom's neighbors, and it'll be brought up in church and added to the prayer list in the bulletin... I love my mother so much...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I Love My Mother, But She Lied

    She lied to me about everything. for seventeen years she lied and told me my father was dead, I had a mental breakdown when I found out he's alive and well. She made me feel guilty about my own sexual assault. She called me a **** and told me that she lost her virginity to her...
    EmmaliLucia EmmaliLucia 18-21 2 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    I'm not such a big help.

    I'm actually considered a headache as according to her other headaches (my siblings :)).
    gemrhine183 gemrhine183 18-21, F Oct 6

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    She Nice But...

    She finds my little sisters really hard work. She's always stressing out when they play up, she's always moaning.... I try and look after them as much as I can but still. She was 42 when she had them because her ex husband (who was a lot younger) wanted kids...
    Achilles1989 Achilles1989 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    I can't help but love her

    because she raised me and some mothers don't even try, but she is very mean. I don't understand her. Sometimes, she's very nice and pleasant and sometimes she's an absolute nightmare. I could ask a simple question and she will go off on me like a damn atomic bomb. She's got the...
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 1 Response May 23

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    ... she hurts me all of the time,

    even if she doesn't realize she's doing it. My family isn't poor, but we know what it's like to have too much month left at the end of the money. I work in retail, but still live at home... two of my five siblings (one older, one younger) live there too, the former of which has...
    yaguu yaguu 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    When I was a kid she would make me hold still

    and hold open my eye and shed lick the white part and make me do the same. I know that sounds like a disgusting joke but It's true. She also asks to see me naked sometimes and gets upset when I say no. And she makes fun of me every single time I wear my hair natural. She also...
    NonexistantSoul NonexistantSoul 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Ok I'm thinking about picking up a really bad

    habit and getting a private medical insurance vacation but I won't to go to one of the really good locations...UGH
    Bela21 Bela21 41-45, F Oct 11

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    She's Been The One Person Who Stayed Constant In My Life

    I know at the end of the day, no matter how harsh she is, she'll always be there for me. I love her, but she can be so cruel, and hurtful. She's always tearing me down, but then when I try to tell her I'm hurting she'll say I bring my own negativity. She won't listen when I tell...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F Nov 26, 2010

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    Keitha13 Keitha13 16-17, F Mar 22

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    Mum Is Just So Draining

    I'm slowly learning what it means to surround yourself with people that make you feel good. Gosh, darn it, relatives you can't avoid altogether, without being drastic about it. My mother is particularly draining. She has no idea that she's like that. In fact, in her self...
    EternallyHopeful EternallyHopeful 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 13, 2010

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    she doesn't love me - she

    once said "I am your mother so I'll always love you... but I do not like you" - broke my heart in two & I never quite recovered from that
    Li1981 Li1981 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    My Mother

    That is what this story is about. I love my mom alot. A whole lot and ive forgiven her for everything. As far back as i can remember i lived with my grandparents and my mom was hardly ever around. When she was she was more like an older sister then a mother. I wanted a mother...
    ashadeofskyy ashadeofskyy 18-21, F Feb 23, 2013

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    I Am Grateful To Be Learning Form Her...thanks Lifesgardener And Ricksucks And Other Commenters...

    To the people who commented on my previous story of which I posted, and have now deleted - LifesGardener, yeah, you're right. I should be grateful and I know this except I find it so hard. I have worked hard to try to teach my siblings to pick up their pace around the home but...
    diell diell 26-30 Feb 12, 2011

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    She sometimes doesn't know

    when to back off and stop putting all the responsibility on me. I can't do everything for her like how she wants me to do.
    ladyyukihime ladyyukihime 18-21, F Jul 29

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    I hate how she does things.

    .. A couple weeks ago she took my phone away for 2 days because I "had an attitude" anyways, when I got it back I looked and she had read all my texts, Facebook messages, and she looked at my pics, my apps, my search history, my app history, and she even searched "how to get...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 17

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    My mother has a very lighthearted way of giving

    advice. It might be the result of raising four boys (mainly on her own after my dad died) so she often talks to us like a pal. I know she means well, but it sounds funny coming from her. Lately, after I bummed up my knee, on the same leg as my bum ankle, her advice to me, was...
    oneinawillian oneinawillian 41-45, M 4 Responses Sep 13

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    My mother and father cared about money a lot.

    They were always very stingy about it and while they could feed us, we were poorly fed. I became very weak and I did not know better Nutrition. Further and further, I fell into depression until it was endless. I was sick all the time, as well, but my mom said it was all in my...
    FunnyLookingCorpse FunnyLookingCorpse 18-21 Mar 24

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    celeste96 celeste96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I love my mom, but she does this weird thing

    where she tries to be "cool" it's not pretty. It looks like Elmo's getting eaten by a snake and crying for help
    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Mar 19

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    She gets so annoying

    and complains a lot... The rest of the time I love her though lol
    vividdreamer97 vividdreamer97 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    My mom is always in my business,

    every time am not around she goes through all mr stuff,she checks my purses goes looks under my bed ,looks in my droors ;and this in only when I'm not around,But I've caught her one two many times.and i hate it when she asks me:who r u talking to or who r u texting.Ive even seen...
    crazcat97 crazcat97 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I love my mom but, loving her is hard.

    I think she is psychotic and it's driving me insane. I feel like she hurts me more than anyone else ever has or ever could. The only solution I know is to cut ties, which I will get scolded for. We're a close family, but then we're not (if anyone can understand that) My...
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    Luvmuffin13 Luvmuffin13 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    Is it bad that I don't want to love her?

    My whole childhood I've had to be the parent. I was always scared to death that she'd get too messed up (on whatever her choice of drug was that day) and something horrible happen. I couldn't sleep at night because I wanted to look after her. She signed her rights over to one of...
    ShaiLayne ShaiLayne 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I love my Mom, but I wish she didn't try

    and be my best friend all the time. I don't want to hear negativeness about my dad. And I just wish out of the 20 phone calls per day one of them could at least be positive. And I feel bad for even feeling this way.
    Bela21 Bela21 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    Haha I love her, but I don't think she loves me

    as much as she adores her little perfect niece... Kinda sad lol :/ haha...
    MoonlightCiel75 MoonlightCiel75 16-17, F Jul 12

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    An Incredible Woman

    She has a bleeding heart for the suffering of the innocent and an open-mind. She is extremely generous and adores the ground my daughter walks on. I love her very much,however! She drives me crazy with her lack of understanding and under-estimating me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    But i feel like she doesnt love me .

    . How i yearn for her acceptance her loyalty should be with me im her daughter .. I dnt understand why she doesnt ever side with me .. She complains about how hurtful my sisters are but she will stiil pick them over me she wont come in my defense wen theyve hurt me but if i did...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    She's never knocks and always walks in on me

    when I'm changing. 😡😡
    Catladycori Catladycori 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I love her so much but I hate the person she

    has become she has become insensitive, ungrateful, super bossy, rude, and she is very emotionally abusive I just can't deal with this anymore I'm on the edge of another total breakdown and I'm tired of her treating me the way she does.
    BabyDuchanne BabyDuchanne 16-17, F May 23

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    Is it unladylike to hang out in a local

    downtown coffee shop? My mother says that it is after I told her I met a very nice person there and spent a few hours downtown. She equated it to a barfly and said it was inappropriate. This is old-fashioned thinking, I believe, but maybe she is right?
    earthyogi earthyogi 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    A Love/hate Relationship

    My Mother is always there for me when I need her. I think that's what Mother's are suppose to do. I love her very much, and I respect her, and admire the struggles she went through in life to raise the three of us kids. What boggles my mind is how she is. I mean she is always...
    jessybaby28 jessybaby28 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    I feel really terrible saying this,

    I love my mother, she's taken care of me, fed me, been a mother, and I know a lot of people don't have mothers but she knew she had the chance to help me but chose not to. I had serious problems in my early childhood, but she was afraid and never got help for me. She let me to...
    BeingInMonochrome BeingInMonochrome 16-17 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Would You Like Eggs With That?

    Most days with my mother aren't so pleasant for a lot of reasons many people wouldn't understand or want to comprehend. On rare occasions is she the person i want to be around. God knows I love her, but shes literally a thorn in the foot. She's not strict or none of that mess...
    Katarina2012 Katarina2012 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    I sometimes feel like she doesn't love me

    as much as I love her. She is basically having an affair and I support her in it seeing as her husband is a complete douche. Well he found out a few months back but he still wants to be with her so he finally ended up getting a job to be able to finally contribute to the bills...
    lookingtovent lookingtovent 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Love,hate Relationship.

    Don't get me wrong, i love my mother, but i don't like her as a person. She is the person that hurt me most in life, &  i don't think i would ever be able to forgive her.
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2010

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    She complains and complains

    and complains some more. She complains that "nobody helps her" which is a lie. Why would we help her when she's always doing it herself? And then when we offer she tells is not to. Contradicting herself 😒 And then she tells us to stop using dishes and eating so much , so we...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I hate her for criticizing me instead of

    encouraging me and making me feel better. Sometimes it's depressing. 😒 she never cared that much for me.
    Trishhh Trishhh 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I don't understand why she thinks I owe her the

    world because she took care of me, I appreciate it of course I also respect her but thats what shes suppose to do she gave birth to me, shes my mom who else was suppose to take care of me you know? I didn't ask to be born into this horrible world, she puts sooo much pressure on...
    Jamila94 Jamila94 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    She has a huge hindsight.

    She married a man we all despise of, and she is still married to him. What justifies her choices?
    T3chmupp3t T3chmupp3t 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 15

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    Another Mum Story

    I came back to read my last story in this group, because I am finding these issues with Mum are ongoing. There were such great comments on there, and I hope y'all can tolerate yet another Mum story from me.  I know that what I'm saying can be seen as selfish, but I am...
    EternallyHopeful EternallyHopeful 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    Going Down Hill

    I love my mom, and we used to be like really good friends. However lately I feel she has gone from feeling important and being my equal to acting like my kid. My mom and I have never had the typical mother-daughter relationship since my parents divorced as my brother and I...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F Jun 13, 2010

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