Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Love "Secretary"

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 285 People

    Funny How Uncomfortable This Movie Makes Some People

    My sister, Kinky Queen of Sex Over-Share, who I was so sure would love this movie, was put off and thought me a total loon for liking it so much. Not only was she put off, but it upset her. I've also heard certain guys say they didn't like it, and there's always this look on...
    mmmcookies mmmcookies 26-30 13 Responses Sep 5, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Watched It In High School

    It put into perspective exactly what I wanted in a man. The ending, I hate to say, had me in tears.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Damn Its Sexy!

    Oh.everytime i see dis movie,i get turnd on like hell..damn it!lol.both the leading actors r like so hot(together n otherwise)..i got hots 4 both of em..and the story so awsome.saw it 8 years ago...stil its efect is as alive..yea.and da thng i crave n love most in it.is the hard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 15, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Surprise!

    One of my closest friends, Gary, wants to be a sex therapist when he's finished college, and has used me as a guinea pig since high school.  I had been dating a fairly normal guy for about 2 years, but being shy and not really having the language to explain myself...
    hAnih hAnih 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Spader

    love this movie. strange yes but somehow motivational. If you want something get it. If you have a illness- make it work for what you want in life.
    blessedmovers blessedmovers 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 12, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He began spanking me

    as I said “referring.” The funny thing was, I wasn’t even surprised. I actually kept reading, although my understanding of it was not very clear. I began crying on it, which blurred the ink. The word “humiliation” came into my mind with such force that it effectively...
    KaskadingKoquette KaskadingKoquette 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Made Me Realize...

    When I saw this movie for the first time, I fell in love with it. It introduced me to massochism. When I married my husband, I made him watch it for the first time. He loved it so much!!! We decided to try this relationship... We realized that he was a sadist and I was a...
    abilene8907 abilene8907 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 5, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yay!

    I'm so glad I found this group! Secretary is one of my favourite movies ever. The first time I saw it, I was staying in the same hotel room as my mother and she was sleeping - she told me she kept waking up while he was spanking her, and had no idea what the hell I was watching...
    esclave esclave 16-17, F Dec 29, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's Just Sooo Good!

    I just rewatched this movie after years. It is a favorite of mine and very powerful. I relate to Lee's character as a recovered cutter. Besides that, this movie is unique and amazing. It's just sooo good!
    astrick8 astrick8 36-40, F Oct 17, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    LOVE It !

    I absolutely love this movie! It's one of my favorites! It is what started me down the path of realizing that I was into really kinky sex.  I owe this movie a lot..hehe
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 4, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Great Film

    Cutting, S & M, Sub/Dom....what's not to like?...Spader and Gyllenhal are just perfect in their roles too. Still amazed it got made and they didn't make any cuts. It's a bit of a deal-breaker on friendship for me too, if people don't like it I kind of know they wouldn't like...
    mikemcneil mikemcneil 51-55, M 3 Responses Dec 13, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hmmm

    I first saw it a few years ago, and the opening sequence, where Maggie Gyllenhaal walks around the office collects the typing and the coffee and takes them to the back room with bondage thing around her neck just hooked me. I just thought it was brilliant. (^_^)
    Ravengambitx Ravengambitx 26-30, M Dec 26, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Most People Don't Get This Movie

    I've discovered that most people don't get this movie... And I don't think it has anything to with the fact that it is risque, but just how abject or pathetic seeming the main character seems. I think these people completely missing the point.  The movie's about...
    keepingwarm keepingwarm 31-35 3 Responses Dec 12, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Top Motivational Film

    Yes, yes, yes!!!  Watched it three times.
    aftermath aftermath 61-65, F 5 Responses Jul 18, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Memories.

    I remember renting this film and watching it at my seventeenth birthday party with a bunch of girls from school. I was immediately charmed by all the characters. Found that I could, indeed, related to Lee in a lot of ways. Especially how she ended up turning her need for ...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30 1 Response Dec 11, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yes, Mr. Grey!!

    E. Edward Grey...Oh My God..... I am a dominant lady for the most part but Mr. Grey makes me want to please him so much. I am very much like Lee at times and was a self-harmer. She's a lucky character. I also learned to modulate and control my voice in Pro Domme work because of...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 25, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    this is the dumbest site I have have had the

    displeasure of wasting five minutes.
    signup8877 signup8877 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    One Scoop of Creamed Potatoes...

    "One scoop of creamed potatoes, a slice of butter, four peas, and as much ice cream as you'd like to eat."  I love that scene. "Just one scoop... of creamed potatoes... a slice of butter... oh... and... four peas... Oh!  Oh!" Fabulous.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 4, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Favorite Scene

    I love the scene where the camera is looking down the hallway at the closed office door as he's spanking her and you can hear her  grunts each time she's smacked.
    midlifechaos midlifechaos 41-45, M Apr 24, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I See Us In "secretary"

    6 years ago..I worked with a young man, he had a few more months in the job than me, so he systematically had a bit more presence than me. Little did he know at that time I was a cutter.. Many years passed I continued to cut. I had another relationship that went nowhere, why...
    CorruptedAngel CorruptedAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Top 5

    Great film...definitely in my top 5 everyone should see it...whether they understand it or not
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Who Woulda Thought

    That I would see that here-funny and strange movie-but erotic in many ways...
    satinlion satinlion 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Loved

    James Spader in this movie. Maggie is wonderful as well. I remember watching this movie on IFC years ago and I say it's one of my favorite romance movies. Haha yes, it is a romance story in my eyes. I love when Lee is sitting on Mr. Gray's chair, palms down on desk for days...
    fortysixandtwo fortysixandtwo 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 20, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    That Spanking Scene Is So Hot.

    I've seen it on Youtube. He tells his secretary to bend over the desk. She says "I don't understand", and he replies "there's nothing to understand". He spanks her while she reads a letter that he dictated on the subject of animal captivity. I would like to see the whole movie...
    will999 will999 61-65, M 2 Responses Jun 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Totally addicted to 80's music. And the thing is, it wasn't until about two years ago that I really started to like 80's music. I'd heard it but never really liked it because after...
    ArtieParty39 ArtieParty39 16-17, M 5 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    As you might know the persona series has quickly become my favourite game series I love all the different personas you can use Most of my favourite are from the sun arcana with...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 13 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There is no point in a persons life if he doesn't love himself.
    111rosy560 111rosy560 13-15, F 38 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love to kiss a woman's neck softly and gently and sensuously. Unfortunately my wife is so sensitive it makes her giggle and gives her goosebumps. Big huge goosebumps all over...
    volvoman60 volvoman60 56-60, M 43 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It is Love that makes people happy. It is Love that fills happiness with joy. It is Love that birthed me, not my mother. A hundred blessings and praises to that Mother! Your...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 53 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Google is my everything, I would leave my law degree if I was offered a job at google, I love google apps, I just love google, gosh I think its an obsession
    nicky411 nicky411 18-21, F 54 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    it took until very recently to pluck up the courage but I was glad I did. it took a while to get used to it but loved it all the same. so much so I took a few swims that holiday
    wetdunks wetdunks 26-30, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Though I'm young, I'm already hopelessly devoted to her. She's gorgeous, fiery, adventurous and rocks my world. Best of all, I know she's just as hopelessly devoted to me. I...
    GeminiPrince GeminiPrince 16-17, M 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love a nice pair of breasts, i could suck on them for hours!
    ChrisB9HC ChrisB9HC 26-30, M 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love the smell of the rains. it feels so calm when it rains.its like all your sadness being washed away with every drops.
    ThePreciousMe ThePreciousMe 22-25, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Be proud and experience wearing it. Want me to show how? I am a SissyMaker and love to do it. Teased .
    MistressChazzy MistressChazzy 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know i seems can't madly in love no more. I've loved once, first love that wasn't sweet at all. He didn't love me back even he hated me just because he knew i had a feeling...
    fragilegile fragilegile 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    women have bodies that make me want to kiss them,caress them,love them as much as I have the time to enjoy being with them...I love the female body always have ans forever will...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    it was two days ago that I saw her beautiful face, it was two days ago she just turned 18, when im not talking to her i miss her so much my world stops spinning, she came into my...
    MysteryKS7 MysteryKS7 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    August 31st 2015 It's a grey, wet and autumnal feel to the last day of August. The bank holiday being restful though as a result. The break has given me time to think of the...
    NottsProfGent NottsProfGent 46-50, M 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I see one with a big massive chest,my heart skips a beat and my imagination runs wild. I would love the opportunity to meet one and be with her up close and very personal. As...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "I love you" is a term you use for someone you love. I dont say I love you to someone I do not love. I prefer to say i love you to someone I am romantic with or with my family. So...
    JynxScream JynxScream 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I had to be in this group because this is how I honesty feel.It's hard to be a breast loving man.I get put into the stereotypical idea that I'm shallow or perverted towards women...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    RIP Wayne Dyer, You helped millions. If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. When you...
    squizz5 squizz5 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel