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I Love Sexual Tension

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    I Thrive On Sexual Tension.

    I am a 40 year old educated married male in Seattle. It has taken quite some time to accept this about myself because I live in a society that frowns upon sexual tension. After some time reflecting and gaining life experience, I realize now that there must be others like myself...
    christian5327 christian5327
    Oct 25, 2012

    A Not So Random Encounter

    We met years ago.. but collided on the dance floor... just dancing.. I swear.. well at first.. then it was ..timid touches and the lacing of the fingers.. his hands on my hips... and then we were bumping and grinding... Off the dance floor.. he lit my cigarette.. and bought me a...
    Awakening Awakening
    31-35, F
    13 Responses Apr 16, 2008

    Fuel For a Delightful Life

    I love sexual tension so much. It's behind almost everything that I do, my art, my singing, my writing. I LOVE it, I adore being lusted after slowly, with intent...Oh yes, it is my fuel.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 13, 2008

    Of Course, I Also Enjoy the Release

    This can be a literary device, visual or musical device, and of course can manifest itself in almost any online or off -line scenario.  I love it between any gender combination, and different ages as well (legal adults, of course). My personal favorite is that moment when...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Apr 14, 2008

    The Subtles

    I guess I need to laugh when I saw this group. I find the topic as somewhat forgotten with the years. I was exposed to this kinds of maneuverings while at young age. Haven't stepped to teenage yet actually. And as I find myself ready to reciprocate the positive way. The...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2011

    when so much transpires.

    .. mostly on my end...your end..not his end not her end...and now you're completely mute...u disappear without notice ..u leave them hanging for a change... and it stays that way forever... if the two ever meet again... do more staring than talking... make them work to release...
    DigitalForensicsFox DigitalForensicsFox
    26-30, F
    Mar 26

    First Look

    That first look, when you know you are both thinking the same thing. The feeling that passes through you as your fingers touch them for the first time. Their hand, an arm it doesn't really matter. The sparks stops your heart , forces you to think about breathing...
    m357 m357
    41-45, M
    Feb 1, 2010

    The Cell Phone

    You hear the vibrating in your desk drawer. You open it, and see the text message, cradling the cell phone in your delicate manicured finger tips. The letters spell out the name, place and time I will meet you. You drop the device back in alongside the tacks, discarded notes, and...
    BigTeddybear10011 BigTeddybear10011
    17 Responses May 1, 2008

    The angst of wondering if.

    .. maybe. ..the anticipation thrilling. The verbal sparring. Hot glances. Yes, please.
    slsr slsr
    41-45, F
    Apr 16

    Dirty Dancing

    For me nothing beats the tingling thrill I get when I am slow dancing with a guy and feel his aroused **** against my thigh for the first time. I find it impossible not to gently rub against it.... so that he knows... that I know... and am enjoying it!THAT ... is...
    bazzerooni bazzerooni
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 24, 2010


    I awake to a note on my pillow......"Your beautiful when you sleep." On the bathroom mirror the note reads..."Can't wait for tonight." In my coffee cup I find a slip of paper that just says..."be ready." Later that day a text comes that says, "I can already taste you." An...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 3, 2013

    All Part of the Tease

    I love chatting with men and sitting close to them. I'm not ashamed to talk about sexual topics openly and for some men it makes them squirm as they try to be polite and intelligent in this area to impress me. The innuendos explode and the conversations heated, the stares...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 31, 2009

    The Work Function

    There was a work function with performances, key note speakers, etc. It was a busy day so I was back and forth between my office and this function. Well, at one point, me and my other man were standing next to each other leaning on the wall. I dared not look at him but I could...
    GuavaberryKisses GuavaberryKisses
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2012

    Words Are Foreplay

    The journey is the destination, right? That's the old adage, and it definitely works when it comes to sexual tension. I think the most tension I had on a date didn't even result in anybody falling into bed. Many years ago, I had worked with someone across the...
    midtownfellow72 midtownfellow72
    36-40, M
    Oct 20, 2009
    DigitalForensicsFox DigitalForensicsFox
    26-30, F
    Mar 26

    Sexual Tension...kind Of A Long Read..

    I cannot get this off my mind...well I should say...I can't get him off my mind---a little background first.. This person is a cousin through marriage -no blood relation; though we grew up as 'family' I suppose is fair to say. I 'joined' this other family when my mother married...
    polkio polkio
    26-30, F
    Jul 22, 2012

    I Just Been Getting This T Theory But I Need To Be Known

    I have been occasionally getting this {I'm keeping it a Secret for now and will Tag it with a code letter = T} Theory.Yet because I am not like others and my genre interest in all this world is only me that knows it, has to stay hidden because of  this  conventional worldly...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP
    56-60, M
    Jun 29, 2011

    It's Incredible!

    I can feel it in the air between us, like static electricity. A hand touching my waist, whispers in my ear, you come close enough to embrace me, yet we hold back.  Our eyes meet briefly and you smile as you brush past me as close as you can, without seeming too obvious...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009
    41-45, F
    May 16, 2009

    Deeper Than Words

    Deeper Than Words Not broken down,                       complexity is simplicity Sometimes we look for that already found Simply open the door,                    ...
    OkayBut OkayBut
    51-55, M
    Apr 21, 2010

    Just To Pass The Time

    i create a lot of sexual tension at work just to pass the time. i think people take me the wrong way sometimes, and think that i really want to **** them. sometimes i do, but most of the time, it's just a game. i don't really like to get invovled like that with people from work...
    Amberlin420 Amberlin420
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 6, 2010

    XXX Me

    Grab me and take me hard. Throw me up against a wall. I don't care where we are, in a mall, restaurant or your parent's house. Upstairs, dessert still on the table, coffee still warm. I excuse myself to use the restroom. Your footsteps come quick behind me. I know what you want...
    BigTeddybear10011 BigTeddybear10011
    Aug 20, 2008

    Very Much So....

    well who wouldnt enjoy a very strong mutual attraction. add natural "chemistriry" bada bing bada boom lol. the anticipation is the best horniest for play imaginable!
    singlemale30 singlemale30
    31-35, M
    Aug 4, 2010

    Over 20 Years...

    For the entire twenty years I have known Jean Lin, I have always gotten an erection when I am in her presence. And though it may be impossible to analyze what sexually attracts a man to a woman, it seems for me, Jean has it all.  I guess what first attracted me was her Chinese...
    guy10 guy10
    51-55, M
    Jan 17, 2011

    A New Top...

    I noticed it as soon as she walked in. She is wearing a new top. Not that any of her blouses are 'old' or in need of replacing. There was just something about this one though. The full, frilly neckline around the back, the shimmer of the off white satin,  the mother of pearl...
    BigTeddybear10011 BigTeddybear10011
    1 Response Jun 19, 2008

    When I have a crush

    and the crusheé gives me a gentle touch or a friendly hug. I scream loud enough to fill a football stadium inside and my soul is blinded by the kisses I want to smother her with. All she sees is a little nano second of trembling, but believe me wanton sexual desire is...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire
    41-45, M
    Oct 14, 2014

    Just A Thought.

    I love sexual tension, but I hate admitting that. I love being a tease, and I love it when others are interested in me. I love being teased back. I am too committed to my boyfriend to stray from this relationship; I refuse to act on other desires. It is nice though, knowing...
    MissLefroy MissLefroy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2011

    The Plot...thickens...

    That moment where I'm sitting across the table from a very compelling man... Wry secret smiles Tilted heads Subtle innuendo Or (Knowing me) Directly Addressing The growing Need The moment where I usually Will lean In With a boldness Sparkling in My Liquid dark chocolate Eyes...
    slsr slsr
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 3, 2013

    To Me I Think This Is The Secret To Life

    I think the Secret to Life, is to find our Body as the Architect of Life. And by doing so we make our lives have the best of Health and it taps into this 'Chakra's of our Inner Energies', the Auto-Erotic of Sexual Tension through out the Body. I try to look for that all...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP
    56-60, M
    Apr 16, 2010

    So Good....

    The feeling when you just want to ravage someone....That is one of the best feelings in the world. It makes you feel like a teenager all over again. YUM!
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams
    26-30, F
    Nov 30, 2010

    Fondled In Bed

    My wife has the most elegant and skillful fingers!  This morning she reached over and began circling my balls with such light movements.  She kept exploring my genitals with her hand, squeezing just right, pulling a little and most of all those wonderful light...
    shibaricouple shibaricouple
    36-40, M
    Jan 30, 2010

    We Are Puzzles To Polarities ( A Blog Forwarded To Here)

    I made this into my Blog and nobody is paying attention to it, so I am Re-Posting it here: We Are ... Puzzles ... To Polarities. I Think the Whole Spectrum and Meaning Of Life has been that ... {We} ... are Divided into Puzzle Pieces as to ... { Who...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP
    56-60, M
    Nov 19, 2010

    Saturday Night

    I have had to work Saturdays for the last ten years or so.  A few years ago the kids were around the house quite a bit and it was hard to find quiet, alone time with my wife.  I had always wanted to try a swing club and after a couple of false starts we found one that...
    gettinsum1 gettinsum1
    56-60, M
    Feb 26, 2010

    When I'm in a secret sexual relationship with

    someone... and we end up seeing each other on normal term like with other people around... Oh my goodness lol It's like the most fun and exciting thing ever knowing that me and this person would totally be doing it if it wasn't for the other people. And talking on normal terms...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    Can't Avoid It

    I'm sure the tension is mutual at least.I've been thinking about him a lot although I probably shouldn't be. I wish I knew how to talk to him. :/ I do like him and he knows it. I find this kind of thing awkward basically anything that has to do with possible romance or stuff like...
    wack1985 wack1985
    31-35, F
    Sep 26, 2012

    Of Course.

    I love sexual tension. Knowing that there is a mutual attraction and the only way to break the tension is to have sex is such a good feeling. :)
    deleted deleted
    Apr 6, 2013

    Like a Clear Morning Sky

    I could stare into them for a week. I am lying beside her, naked, our bodies so close we could feel the heat coming off of each other. They are blue, like a cool clear summer sky. The white around those pools of azure is clear, bright, and almost gives off its own shimmer. Our...
    BigTeddybear10011 BigTeddybear10011
    1 Response Jun 20, 2008

    It May Not Be Just The Sex Itself As Saying Sex Helps Losing Weight

    For me it is actually the "Sexual Tension"As for getting and having muscle stamina to exercise. The point being is having the incentive and catalyst for exercising and being able to do it where there is more than exercise involved. There is this added sensation of pleasure doing...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP
    56-60, M
    Feb 1, 2013

    All Work, No Play?

    I presently work in an office with a dress code. It's interesting how some girls push the envelope, skirts a little higher then allowed, blouses a bit lower, bras that push up breasts. It's not about getting the attention of all the guys, for me anyway, but usually one or two...
    UndergroundAngel UndergroundAngel
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 17, 2008

    Read On...

    Anticipation Contemplation Expectation Apprehension Sensation Perception Discretion Yearning Learning Longing Urging Needing Touching Groping Craving Desiring Stimulation Aspiration Copulation *********** Repeat
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 15, 2013

    What Happened To The Tension?

    He would touch me all the time when he first met me. Soft touches that made me feel slightly uncomfortable yet i deeply desired more. Then one night after drinking and other things i shouldn't have been doing..he made his intentions known. I was ok with knowing what he wanted. We...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat
    41-45, F
    May 2, 2011


    Some people radiate sexual energy, others don't. One of my closest friends always says that there are different levels of attraction, people can be: 1. pretty/handsome 2. gorgeous 3. sexy/hot (This could be two different categories) It's not always dependent on physical...
    chancesbreathe chancesbreathe
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Jul 24, 2009

    Oh Yeah, Love It

    There's nothing like trying to have a normal conversation with a guy I'm really attracted to, knowing that he is attracted to me as well. Looking at each other that certain special way, feeling the tension in our voices and smiles, even before either of you makes a move. It gets...
    sara120 sara120
    22-25, F
    Oct 10, 2009

    Sexual Tension At Work

    Many years ago, I worked in an office where everyone was in their early 20's. I was very attracted to one of the people who worked for me. One time we were talking in my office, and I don't remember exactly what we were talking about, it was probably something sexual. But I do...
    tallman60 tallman60
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2011
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