I Love Smart Women

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    My last boyfriend broke up with me.

    One of the last things he told me was "you are too smart for me, I need a dumb girlfriend" and I feel bad about that, I've been single for a while... waiting for a smart man
    mimiromy mimiromy
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 14, 2016


    It is not intelligence I seek, brains are all over the place and they are cold. It is not intuition I'm looking for. That too is to be found everywhere and it has a touch of arrogance. Nothing of this knocks me off my feet. But a woman may deeply impress me with a...
    moreandless moreandless
    56-60, M
    19 Responses Jan 28, 2010

    I like smart women. Like physicists

    and scientists. Is it just me, but the women I've know are very selfish creatures. They would do anything for their children. But when it comes to helping their boyfriend or husband, they all of a sudden become lazy. They find a guy to provide for them, and they ride that train...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    In My Life

    I do love smart women. I have had the opportunity to know some very smart ladies in my lifetime and I must say that the last two I have meet have stolen my heart away. One has gone away to deal with life and the other one has come back so she can live. I can’t explain it...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Jun 28, 2008

    Women should not play down their intelligence

    for men. The smarter, the better!
    deleted deleted
    Nov 16, 2015

    Yeah Chicka!

    Sarah, you sexy *****! I love you! Your smart, savvy approach to life made me fall head over heels immediately. You're hot but your mind is hotter. I love that we can talk about Unified Field Theory without me feeling like an alien. I love that I can always share my passion for...
    DesiAngrez DesiAngrez
    22-25, M
    Mar 22, 2011

    It would be easy for me to say I love smart

    women glibly, just to get myself in a better position with them. But that would be dishonest. I am not that kind of man. In most times and places women were left uneducated formally, yet they learned from the book of life. Yet many became very wise anyway, even without a...
    Dancewithme2 Dancewithme2
    56-60, M
    Sep 16, 2015


    My wife is a wonderfully smart woman who loves to tease me just a little every time she tops me by about 5 points on an IQ test. The ditsy routine might be "cute" in movies and on TV but in reality there is nothing like a woman who can hold her own in a conversation.
    StressRelief4Me StressRelief4Me
    26-30, M
    Jul 8, 2010

    More Now Than Ever

    I'm finding that educated and intelligent women are such a turn on. Maybe it really does all start in the mind. And it seems that they always gives me something to think about. lol
    IamGone IamGone
    41-45, M
    1 Response Aug 29, 2010


    From school and onward, I always loved being in the presence of very intelligent women. What has happened, however-- and this is not a jab at ex-girlfriends-- is that I have never been in a relationship with one. When I meet a smart woman, I tend to just like her friendship...
    archiemelbourne archiemelbourne
    22-25, M
    Nov 3, 2010

    The Curse Of The Monkey's Paw

    There was a story, by O Henry maybe, called the curse of the monkey's paw. The results of the curse were that you got EXACTLY what you wished for. I now work for a company composed virtually entirely of smart women. Lord help me!
    cfnmhouseboy cfnmhouseboy
    61-65, M
    Dec 6, 2010

    Beauty & Brains For The Win!

    In the society we live in, I think women are made to feel as though they should be dumbed down, subservient little bimbos. As though intelligence is a bad thing, and they have to be clingy and needy and dependent. I've got to say, I love a woman who I can have a long conversation...
    Guinevere5290 Guinevere5290
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2012

    I Really Love Smart Women

    Im a 23 year old guy and I absolutley love a woman that can keep up with me in discussing books, music, History, movies and current world events. In a age of dixiedom where alot of young girls watch asinine shows like jersey shore and the such i am finding witty smart women more...
    chadjoplin92 chadjoplin92
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 13, 2012

    Never Mind A Hot Bod

    Inelligent women, of any size or shape, are by far the best in bed! ...and, you ladies are much more interesting to just hang out with, too!
    GirlieSpirit GirlieSpirit
    41-45, T
    4 Responses Nov 1, 2010

    I Want Her To Be Able To Understand What I'm Saying

    It's so frustrating when I have to continually stop & rephrase a sentence because the person I'm talking with can't comprehend either the subject or vocabulary.  I'm a woman with pretty good  intelligence myself.  To be honest it is one of the reasons...
    lezfemme lezfemme
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Mar 9, 2010

    Something to Talk About

    and it's not just what what you say, but how you tease it. Yes, we all love to be teased, if the reward is worth the banter... intellectual stimulation is the foreplay to foreplay. There's nothing more satisfying than holding a woman's attention with your own quick wit, sharp...
    dd231 dd231
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 26, 2007

    27m From Egypt

    I am looking for smart women too be frined withe me
    amr27 amr27
    31-35, M
    Mar 22, 2013

    The Writer And The Queen

    It is not a matter of expensive lookingframes on the wall,and other testimonies of the time spentin classrooms.She may have stunned her teachers,they may admire her logic,it doesn't do the trick,it does not unlock.Sometimes it does though, I admit.Unexpected she is, showing the...
    moreandless moreandless
    56-60, M
    4 Responses May 1, 2011

    Intelligent But Not Exhausting

    I think it's nice when a woman IS highly intelligent but not if she's constantly BEING highly intelligent.  I've always preferred women at least as intelligent as I and they weren't that hard to find :-). After all, 6 years on campus doing a BA and MA and one tends to get...
    moshman moshman
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2010

    Cant Fined Her

    I know that it sounds like im just a picky guy but I have a real bad habit of getting with stupid girls... i even married one.. i just really wish that i could fined a girl that was smart enough to have a conversation with about more that what she watched on tv last night. i...
    dann042O dann042O
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2012

    Women ARE smart!!!! Most of them are incredibly

    gifted in things that can surprise you!
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Jul 15, 2014

    Very Smart Women

    i love women who have a very lively and solid intellectual life ! you dont have to be an academic, but you like to think about things that don't necessarily have to do with the mundane :)
    brownTongue brownTongue
    31-35, M
    1 Response Dec 13, 2012

    Brae Churchwell

    i would lik to kiss wiyh you i am13 i liv in enfeld il apprmint 4 fisrt aprmint up stars on your rigt
    churchwell churchwell
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2012

    God Bless Em All

    Women, awesome women, youEnchant, delight, amuse! And when you are smart, witty and wise only a fool would fail to appreciiate your gifts and feel grateful. There is comfort, joy and beauty in having a unique relationship with a special woman; she can bring incredible blessings...
    Rbrtnlsn Rbrtnlsn
    Apr 18, 2012

    Training Young Girls

    Its actually quite sad but alot of these young girls start out by acting ditzy to get "the guy" that they like. I watched one my cousins do this to perfection. Shes a beautiful, intelligent girl, but apparently all the guys her age were intimidated by her brains, so to...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Feb 13, 2008

    I married a Stanford graduate

    who is a software quality engineer. Enough said.
    emperornorton47 emperornorton47
    56-60, M
    Sep 15, 2015

    Todays Women

    Women of today can do anything they put their mind too. Which is a great thing for society as a whole. My ideal woman is someone who has a brain and opinions.. I want someone I can treat as an intellectual equal. She doesn't have to be a beauty queen, at least not on the outside...
    pakettle pakettle
    70+, M
    Aug 4, 2012

    I Love Women Who Are Smarter Than Me!

    smart women who can have a conversation. who can understand complex things. who know how to and can take care of themselves. mmmyes.
    ocelia ocelia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2009

    I Even Like Them With Green Eggs And Ham

    I like strong educated independent women not afraid of hard work, home schooling children, farming, hunting, fishing. Not afraid of mini skirts and pumps and knows how to dance, walk and talk. Cooking ? I'll have some green eggs and ham thank-you.
    MythSlayers MythSlayers
    31-35, M
    Jan 15, 2012

    I hate when men call women dum women can do

    anything a guy can do. And the u.s. might have a women leader in 2 years form now
    dominick5 dominick5
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    Looking For A Friend Thats A Girl

    Hey my names Chad I'm looking for friends who are girls. I think girls tend to be more in touch with themselves than guys and would be better friends than some of my Guy friends. I would like to meet some girls I could talk to.
    chadjoplin92 chadjoplin92
    26-30, M
    Oct 19, 2012

    By All Means

     Why would anyone not?
    skibob skibob
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Mar 21, 2009

    A Match In Mind And Body

    Ive had a chequered love life, married at 22, divorced at 33, dating until 36, then settled(?) with someone, but of all the factors i hve to say, Ive dated slim girls, big girls, blonde girls and brunettes, but if they cant hold me mentally they dont last.Im not a guy who wants a...
    thebrightdazzler thebrightdazzler
    36-40, M
    Oct 1, 2011

    I Have Smart Wife.

    She is SO smart that she constantly tries to convince me that I am smarter! 38 years/good vibes!
    7proctor 7proctor
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jan 20, 2011

    Smart Women

    Smart women,Love 'em,In fact,Sometimes,Think there's nothin' better!
    storywriter2 storywriter2
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2012

    Nothing Better

    Nothing in the world is better than a smart, beautiful, educated woman. If anyone finds one, please send her my way. I could use a woman with some smarts :)
    deleted deleted
    Jul 1, 2011

    Her Intellect And Success Are A Turn On

    My wife is a very succesful lawyer who just made partner today! I love to see the hidden shark in her come out when she takes down her unsuspected opponent. I can't tell you how hard my penis is when she continues to get anything she sets her mind to. I just want to bath her...
    runswift runswift
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Feb 17, 2012

    I love smart women. They just.

    ... I just love them
    deleted deleted
    Sep 19, 2015

    There Are No

    There are no important differences between men and women. But the unimportant ones are sometimes very interesting.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 14, 2010

    But the Problem Is.....

    trying to sound intelligent while her **** keep staring at you...
    thatweirdromanguy thatweirdromanguy
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Dec 18, 2007

    And I Found One Of The Smartest

    She'll never talk much about it herself, or at least when she does she greatly minimizes her own virtues, but I am married to one of the smartest women in the world. I am convinced that there is nothing that she can't learn. Over the years, I have watched her study and work...
    ord2act ord2act
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2011
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