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I Love Somebody I Shouldn't

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    A Titanic Moment Over And Over Again.....

    THeres this guy who attends the same gym i attend and I have noticed when im there he is always looking at me and he makes it known so that i return his gaze. He looks at me in a way as if im the only female in the gym! I have now developed a huge crush on him as he gives me...
    Jaydedgirl Jaydedgirl 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2010

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    I Loved The Wrong Person... Few Weeks He Will Be Married Guy :)

    a year a go i v met an older guy(man) hes 34 divorced has a 12 year old child. he acts like teen irresponsible, likes young girl, alcoholic, smoker, addicted to hash ,... and yet i felt crazy in love with him. he made me feel like i was his ticket to maturity, i was the savior of...
    lebanongirl lebanongirl 22-25 5 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    I Miss Him.

    It doesn't make me bleed when i think of him anymore,  but it aches just the same.  I can close my eyes and see all my girlhood fantasies of him,  beckoning me to come home. Frequently i think  is shouldn't have crossed that line- from best friend to lover...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses May 16, 2008

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    Some Kind of Closure

    I've poured a lot of myself into this particular group.  Many people would think that it is counter-productive the way i write about all these intense feelings i have for him.  That i will always have for him. But it has really helped me.  It's given me a place to...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Mar 13, 2008

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    A Titanic Moment Over & Over Again!

    THeres this guy who attends the same gym i attend and I have noticed when im there he is always looking at me and he makes it known so that i return his gaze. He looks at me in a way as if im the only female in the gym! The way he looks at me reminds me of when Jack first set...
    Jaydedgirl Jaydedgirl 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    A Tricky Thing

    It's not so much that i shouldn't love him as i should be very very careful about it.  I don't want to break his heart, and i don't want to be dishonorable.  You have to understand that i love my husband and i respect him very much.  I don't even hide this from...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Sep 13, 2008

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    Dear Marine,

    I dreamed about you again last night.  It was chaotic, and unlike the other dreams we weren't the only 2 people in the world. There's a lot of things i wish i could say to you right now.  Like the fact that i will never stop missing my best friend.  About how...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2008

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    Resisting Temptation

    I so badly wanted to e-mail or something today. To wish him to have a good day, and maybe even hear about some plans to see a girl or something. But i know it wouldn't have gone that way- all i would have gotten was bitterness for decisions that i wouldn't change and mistakes...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2008

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    O My Goodness

    I went out drinking the other night with a good friend of mine.  We've been close since High school, and for a brief period of College, we were "Something more" not really friends with benefits, or dating... we were lovers, but... idk in a unique less defined sort...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2009

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    Yes Indeed.

    But if I haven't already told you who it is, or you haven't already worked it out, then I'm afraid I won't be telling you about them :)
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M Nov 14, 2009

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    My Marine

    For some reason, today i just cant stop thinking about him.  especially his voice- talking to me on the phone pestering me until i laughed and I'd get that goofy *** grin on my face. Or his smell... goodness.. sometimes i could go days just wishing to smell his scent...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2007

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    Why Can't I Make This Feeling Go Away?

    I'm falling for a client.  He lives in a different state, is single, and would not be slightly interested in me...even though my marriage is essentially over.  I started feeling something when I saw him in April.  We email each other several times a day...just a...
    snugglebunny156 snugglebunny156 31-35, F 3 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Is It Love?

    I have such strong feelings for him. I know I shouldn't or I'm not supposed to. But, I can't help it. He's not what I would normally call an attractive guy! But he is! He's attractive and pretty much all I adore in a man. It kills me that I can't, I could never be with him. :( He...
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    I Love Somebody I Should

    Many will disagree, but we should be together. I was criminally charged, I went to jail, I lost my job, but I found the greatest friend and love I have ever had. I plan to beat the charges because they are untrue and I am fighting for my job, but regardless we have each other...
    BittenDog BittenDog 46-50, M Dec 28, 2010

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    No Longer...

    At least for one of my obsessions. In October of this year, a man i have loved since i was 15 years old broke the last straw. I've written about him many times, in fact i actually created this group to help my cope for the conflicting emotions i was dealing with. I cannot...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2011

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    He's Getting Married

    I only met him a couple of weeks ago and we clicked right from the beginning. A few days later I met his fiance. I did everything I could to put him out of my mind, told myself he was unavailable. Still I fell for him. I have never felt so connected to or fallen so hard or so...
    MisadventoursOfLove MisadventoursOfLove 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2010

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    I Wish He Would Understand

    Sometimes, when i talk to him everything is great, we talk about movies, and drinking and sometimes even philosophy. These times make it worth while to continue to talk to him, at least on-line like we do.... but other times- like last night for example- he gets depressed and...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Dec 19, 2007

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    Obsessing

    I so don't even know what is wrong with me today.  I miss him so bad today i ache... literally it feels like he's reached into my chest and is squeezing my heart for his own entertainment. It's sad and pathetic- first of i have no right to even want him anymore.  I...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Irrationaly Bound... Forever?

    I talk about my Sadist a lot i know, some good some bad.... like i don't really know how to feel about him.  The problem is I love him in away that our time apart doesn't make me ache less but more. I can forget, for minutes, hours and even days sometimes but then when i...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2010

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    Dear Mv

    I'm tired of trying to figure out what the magic words are that will make you be nice to me when we do talk.  It's always a dice roll between the best friend i used to k now and t he angry bitter man you act like those other times. There's a chance I guess that you are...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Feb 4, 2009

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    I Had Three

    My first was someone that I lived with but couldn't be legally married to him.  He needed something more than I could give him other than sex, meals and housecleaning. My second was someone that I found who had just lost a spouse.  We became close but knew that it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 1, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    it's kinda weird for me to talk about this , you see i am not that kind of girl who has crushes n stuff XD .. but recently ( and for the frist time , i met a guy , he makes my...
    RooDream RooDream 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    So I'm a sophomore in high school, and social life is confusing enough. Just this semester, my two best girlfriends and I have become friends with a new group of great guys that I...
    caroline1398 caroline1398 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I saw you today and I swear it was in slow motion. I locked myself out and I saw your window was open. I yelled out, and to my astonishment, it was you... It could have been five...
    JelloFloor JelloFloor 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Sometimes I gossip when I shouldn't... Particularly when I'm stressed or drunk. I feel so bad for gossiping. So for anyone I've ever gossiped about out there. I am truly sorry...
    Rosesanddiamonds Rosesanddiamonds 22-25, F Apr 2

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    Last Saint Patrick's Day I went out with some girl friends from cosmetology school. I hadn't really binge drank since I left college so I was excited for a real "night out" college...
    victoriaxbx victoriaxbx 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I've had a crush on him since summer. We're just friends though. I was with his former best friend for a little. and he dated a girl that used to be my friend. And she almost dated...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Drew Barrymore, Amber Benson...the list goes on and on at times. I shouldn't crush on these girls because I will never meet them or even get a chance to say words to them. I'm...
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I liked him since eighth grade until senior year. I have maybe said two or 3 words or sentences to him ever since and they were in the context of academics only. I am always so...
    Shamandora Shamandora 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    Hey! I'm new here at EP and I really need someone to talk to, good advice, experiences and such.. I don't know what to do! My boyfriend did do drugs and tried to take his own life...
    lilcarey lilcarey 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Please someone take their time to read this, I feel like a lot of people can relate to this. I put a lot of thought into this. It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 1

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    I needed someone who would love more than he love himself.Drama mode on.
    Irregularactivities Irregularactivities 16-17, F Apr 6

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    I have a friend who I love (and hate). He's friendly, fun to be around and annoying. He's one of my best friends. I tell him everything and he doesn't judge. I'm very comfortable...
    missinvisiblegirl missinvisiblegirl 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    When you love someone that doesn't love you back. When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15

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    This is the man I have a crush on - like I said, "love" might be putting it a bit strongly. But there's no group called "I'm Not In Love But I Could Love This Person." He...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 3 days ago

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    I have a crush on this pastor even though he is not my pastor. I went to a Christ of god in Christ event he was preaching an my eyes where glued to him. He looked handsome , of...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I have a crush. I do. He's not here, for me to tell in person which is probably a good thing. I smile about him, I think about his voice,curious about what he is doing at the...
    aprylshowers330 aprylshowers330 26-30, F Mar 28

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    So there's a guy that I've liked since august , I finally got the gutts to tell him I liked him a day before my birthday , and I thought on my bday if get him as a gift well it...
    zahriastar zahriastar 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I think that they should teach parenting as a compulsory subject to everyone. It's a good birth control for some and it would reduce the amount of people who are bad parents. It...
    thisisanick thisisanick 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I have a crush on someone a lot younger than me (16+ tho) wen I see her i can't take my eyes off her. I have 2 be careful so I don’t get caught looking at her off my fiance
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I think people should have children when they're ready. Only they know when that is. It's not really about whether the child is planned or not. I'm always thinking about how the...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I saw the marks on her arms. I passed her a note saying she can talk to me and trust me. She texted me days later things I can't keep a secret. I valued her life over my trust. Her...
    Qwerkyqwerty Qwerkyqwerty 16-17, F Apr 9

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    So I just got a new personal trainer because although I'm quite athletic I feel that I need an extra push. The problem with that is that I forgot how hot personal trainers can be...
    reesespeices reesespeices 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I have a crush on my ex we dated last year then I moved schools and then I moved back then we started talking but then I found out she had a bf they were dating for a while so it...
    LoveToSpare LoveToSpare 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    About five years ago, while working at a small "mom & pop" store, I met a great guy. He was not someone that would immediately catch your eye, just an "average joe" if you will...
    Poss84 Poss84 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I miss him.. I really miss him. His smile, his laugh, our chats, our connection. I miss everything about him. I'm married, he's married and our emotional affair became something I...
    UGonnaKissMeOrNot UGonnaKissMeOrNot 31-35, F 16 Responses a week ago

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    What do you do if you really like a guy. I first met him, we never talked. Then we talked a lot on Facebook, then in person.... and I met up with him twice {with friends} I see him...
    nellieeexox nellieeexox 13-15, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    How can my feelings still be intense when we haven't interacted in months. Do you still think of me? I can't imagine you feeling so much for me and now nothing. Is that true? Or...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F Apr 1

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    I would love to be with a Japanese T-girl
    ib14fun ib14fun 41-45 1 Response Apr 14

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    I have recently been infatuated with this guy. I catch him staring at me sometimes and I think he is really attractive. Ever since I've become infatuated, I've been feeling...
    Keppclam Keppclam 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Hello my name is Anna, I can help in all matters in life. I give advice to those who are troubled and confused. Don’t sit and wonder if a loved one is being faithful to you...
    PsychicAnnaOnline PsychicAnnaOnline 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    It gets a little easier every day. I was what you needed then. She is what you need now. The things she is giving you now, I can't. It is so great to see you happy. I am doing my...
    MyLifeIsNow MyLifeIsNow 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My husband's friend told him that he ran out of formula for his 2 month old son so he gave him Mountain Dew!!!!
    lovinglife86 lovinglife86 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25