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I Love Somebody I Shouldn't

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    I Had Three

    My first was someone that I lived with but couldn't be legally married to him.  He needed something more than I could give him other than sex, meals and housecleaning. My second was someone that I found who had just lost a spouse.  We became close but knew that it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 1, 2008

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    A Titanic Moment Over And Over Again.....

    THeres this guy who attends the same gym i attend and I have noticed when im there he is always looking at me and he makes it known so that i return his gaze. He looks at me in a way as if im the only female in the gym! I have now developed a huge crush on him as he gives me...
    Jaydedgirl Jaydedgirl 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2010

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    Dear Marine,

    I dreamed about you again last night.  It was chaotic, and unlike the other dreams we weren't the only 2 people in the world. There's a lot of things i wish i could say to you right now.  Like the fact that i will never stop missing my best friend.  About how...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2008

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    Obsessing

    I so don't even know what is wrong with me today.  I miss him so bad today i ache... literally it feels like he's reached into my chest and is squeezing my heart for his own entertainment. It's sad and pathetic- first of i have no right to even want him anymore.  I...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    I Miss Him.

    It doesn't make me bleed when i think of him anymore,  but it aches just the same.  I can close my eyes and see all my girlhood fantasies of him,  beckoning me to come home. Frequently i think  is shouldn't have crossed that line- from best friend to lover...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses May 16, 2008

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    Yes Indeed.

    But if I haven't already told you who it is, or you haven't already worked it out, then I'm afraid I won't be telling you about them :)
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M Nov 14, 2009

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    Irrationaly Bound... Forever?

    I talk about my Sadist a lot i know, some good some bad.... like i don't really know how to feel about him.  The problem is I love him in away that our time apart doesn't make me ache less but more. I can forget, for minutes, hours and even days sometimes but then when i...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2010

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    Some Kind of Closure

    I've poured a lot of myself into this particular group.  Many people would think that it is counter-productive the way i write about all these intense feelings i have for him.  That i will always have for him. But it has really helped me.  It's given me a place to...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Mar 13, 2008

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    O My Goodness

    I went out drinking the other night with a good friend of mine.  We've been close since High school, and for a brief period of College, we were "Something more" not really friends with benefits, or dating... we were lovers, but... idk in a unique less defined sort...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2009

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    My Marine

    For some reason, today i just cant stop thinking about him.  especially his voice- talking to me on the phone pestering me until i laughed and I'd get that goofy *** grin on my face. Or his smell... goodness.. sometimes i could go days just wishing to smell his scent...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2007

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    Why Can't I Make This Feeling Go Away?

    I'm falling for a client.  He lives in a different state, is single, and would not be slightly interested in me...even though my marriage is essentially over.  I started feeling something when I saw him in April.  We email each other several times a day...just a...
    snugglebunny156 snugglebunny156 31-35, F 3 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Resisting Temptation

    I so badly wanted to e-mail or something today. To wish him to have a good day, and maybe even hear about some plans to see a girl or something. But i know it wouldn't have gone that way- all i would have gotten was bitterness for decisions that i wouldn't change and mistakes...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2008

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    I Love Somebody I Should

    Many will disagree, but we should be together. I was criminally charged, I went to jail, I lost my job, but I found the greatest friend and love I have ever had. I plan to beat the charges because they are untrue and I am fighting for my job, but regardless we have each other...
    BittenDog BittenDog 46-50, M Dec 28, 2010

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    I Wish He Would Understand

    Sometimes, when i talk to him everything is great, we talk about movies, and drinking and sometimes even philosophy. These times make it worth while to continue to talk to him, at least on-line like we do.... but other times- like last night for example- he gets depressed and...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Dec 19, 2007

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    A Tricky Thing

    It's not so much that i shouldn't love him as i should be very very careful about it.  I don't want to break his heart, and i don't want to be dishonorable.  You have to understand that i love my husband and i respect him very much.  I don't even hide this from...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Sep 13, 2008

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    No Longer...

    At least for one of my obsessions. In October of this year, a man i have loved since i was 15 years old broke the last straw. I've written about him many times, in fact i actually created this group to help my cope for the conflicting emotions i was dealing with. I cannot...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2011

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    Dear Mv

    I'm tired of trying to figure out what the magic words are that will make you be nice to me when we do talk.  It's always a dice roll between the best friend i used to k now and t he angry bitter man you act like those other times. There's a chance I guess that you are...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Feb 4, 2009

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    He's Getting Married

    I only met him a couple of weeks ago and we clicked right from the beginning. A few days later I met his fiance. I did everything I could to put him out of my mind, told myself he was unavailable. Still I fell for him. I have never felt so connected to or fallen so hard or so...
    MisadventoursOfLove MisadventoursOfLove 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2010

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    I Loved The Wrong Person... Few Weeks He Will Be Married Guy :)

    a year a go i v met an older guy(man) hes 34 divorced has a 12 year old child. he acts like teen irresponsible, likes young girl, alcoholic, smoker, addicted to hash ,... and yet i felt crazy in love with him. he made me feel like i was his ticket to maturity, i was the savior of...
    lebanongirl lebanongirl 22-25 5 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    A Titanic Moment Over & Over Again!

    THeres this guy who attends the same gym i attend and I have noticed when im there he is always looking at me and he makes it known so that i return his gaze. He looks at me in a way as if im the only female in the gym! The way he looks at me reminds me of when Jack first set...
    Jaydedgirl Jaydedgirl 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    I have this crush on this girl with me at work. She's really pretty, but the problem is it would never work because from two very different backgrounds and our personalities are...
    elpsy elpsy 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    I feel in love with one of my best friends best friends and my my best friend pushed me into telling him how I felt about him so I did then he told me that he likes me too and now...
    MomijiSohma1999 MomijiSohma1999 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    oh my goodness.He is the most charming, sexy, smart , admirable man I have ever met. Like seriously I don't think I have ever met anyone as sweet and nice as him. Woah he makes me...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Once I'm free to date, will I? Yes. Until and unless the man I really want makes a commitment to me - I will not tie myself down or make promises. My brain says, "Date other...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I have this ex, he has ruined my life but i still love him slightly, i left him nearly a year ago and went into depression, and now taking anti depressants, he just messaged me...
    korsakris korsakris 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    He was out of town, now he's back. My little bruised heart doesn't know how to feel.
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I'm falling for a married woman and I'm trying my best not to. First of all I'm a lesbian so I know the feeling won't ever be mutual and I really don't want it to be. Secondly she...
    YouDaOne23 YouDaOne23 18-21, F Sep 5

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    Another drive-by note - that's two days in a row now. It's not a real conversation - but better than nothing, I suppose. People probably think I'm crazy. But yanno - I don't care...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F Sep 6

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    It is never wrong to love someone, but it's the way we love that makes it "wrong".
    OliviaOcean OliviaOcean 18-21, F a week ago

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    I have a crush on my best friend. Is it orthodox to be so close to someone and spend countless hours with them sharing everything between jokes and heartaches? I used to think so...
    supermike978 supermike978 18-21 Aug 19

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    I'm happy there's a group for this. I doubt there's any way to make sense of the various feelings I have so hey, let's do bullet points. • I want to reach out to him again...
    consistentshift consistentshift 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    'Eu Te Amo' was what I used to say. 'Eu te amo trembem' was what he used to reply. Note the word: 'used to' I don't speak Portuguese and these are the only words I know from...
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I have a major crush on my female boss and it's driving me so crazy!! I've been working at my job for a little over a month now, and I can't help but to think about her all day...
    Lynnie21 Lynnie21 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I like someone who is quite older than me, he's actually someone I pass in the halls at school everyday, and he's the 11th grade English teacher. (I'm only a freshman) He looks...
    SydGrazo SydGrazo 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    You know your Amish teen is in trouble when he uses the slang expression: "Talk to the hand, cause the beard ain't listening."
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F Aug 17

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    I miss him, that capricious little f~cker. He was definitely dangerous for me, with the way he would shift moods so quickly. Too quickly. I could never keep up. I got afraid...
    QueenOfLosers QueenOfLosers 13-15, F Aug 19

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    My cousin and his girlfriend don't even take care of there kid. It's usually my cousin parents who watch him... They are so irresponsible 😡💢
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 13-15, F Aug 25

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    I just started a new job and am in my early 20's. The guy that is training the other new "recruits" is twice my age (at least, but doesn't look it) and a foot shorter than me, if...
    Bellarosa7 Bellarosa7 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Simple fix-make every parent go through the same screening that adoptive parents go through.If you're too poor,don't have stability, a good job etc.then you need to get a state...
    jjb6560 jjb6560 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I'm starting to have feelings for a co-worker. I know that he would never look at me that way, but I can't help but fall deeper.
    shortstackshell shortstackshell 26-30, F Aug 29

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    I had a childhood love. It was real and I believed it would last forever. Though we were little kids, secretly we got engaged. I knew I would spend the rest of my life with him but...
    Eyeaspasta Eyeaspasta 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    How shall I put this? My body has certain needs. I'm feeling very much "in need" this evening. I used a toy to take care of myself, but I still want more. There is no toy in the...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I got a quick drive-by note from him today. Not as good as a real conversation - but better than nothing.
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    He lives in my neighborhood hez internet dude and he has a girl friend !! :((
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Two someones. Wanted them mine. But murphys law struck And here i am.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 18

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    I miss our "conversations" maybe i miss u more than u know. i hope u read this. Amor.
    GoodEnough09 GoodEnough09 41-45 Aug 19

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    Well i really like this guy who has a girlfriend but they really havent even been dating for long and when we were texting i thought we were really going somewhere but no. But im...
    PeaceAndLove1 PeaceAndLove1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    And it's getting out of hand...
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I always think of what Keanu Reed's character said in that movie Parenthood. "...you need a license to buy a dog, or drive a car. Hell, you need a license to catch a fish! But...
    Nuovinzi Nuovinzi 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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