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I Love Somebody I Shouldn't

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    A Titanic Moment Over And Over Again.....

    THeres this guy who attends the same gym i attend and I have noticed when im there he is always looking at me and he makes it known so that i return his gaze. He looks at me in a way as if im the only female in the gym! I have now developed a huge crush on him as he gives me...
    Jaydedgirl Jaydedgirl 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2010

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    O My Goodness

    I went out drinking the other night with a good friend of mine.  We've been close since High school, and for a brief period of College, we were "Something more" not really friends with benefits, or dating... we were lovers, but... idk in a unique less defined sort...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2009

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    A Titanic Moment Over & Over Again!

    THeres this guy who attends the same gym i attend and I have noticed when im there he is always looking at me and he makes it known so that i return his gaze. He looks at me in a way as if im the only female in the gym! The way he looks at me reminds me of when Jack first set...
    Jaydedgirl Jaydedgirl 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    Some Kind of Closure

    I've poured a lot of myself into this particular group.  Many people would think that it is counter-productive the way i write about all these intense feelings i have for him.  That i will always have for him. But it has really helped me.  It's given me a place to...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Mar 13, 2008

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    A Tricky Thing

    It's not so much that i shouldn't love him as i should be very very careful about it.  I don't want to break his heart, and i don't want to be dishonorable.  You have to understand that i love my husband and i respect him very much.  I don't even hide this from...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Sep 13, 2008

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    My Marine

    For some reason, today i just cant stop thinking about him.  especially his voice- talking to me on the phone pestering me until i laughed and I'd get that goofy *** grin on my face. Or his smell... goodness.. sometimes i could go days just wishing to smell his scent...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2007

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    He's Getting Married

    I only met him a couple of weeks ago and we clicked right from the beginning. A few days later I met his fiance. I did everything I could to put him out of my mind, told myself he was unavailable. Still I fell for him. I have never felt so connected to or fallen so hard or so...
    MisadventoursOfLove MisadventoursOfLove 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2010

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    I Had Three

    My first was someone that I lived with but couldn't be legally married to him.  He needed something more than I could give him other than sex, meals and housecleaning. My second was someone that I found who had just lost a spouse.  We became close but knew that it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 1, 2008

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    I Miss Him.

    It doesn't make me bleed when i think of him anymore,  but it aches just the same.  I can close my eyes and see all my girlhood fantasies of him,  beckoning me to come home. Frequently i think  is shouldn't have crossed that line- from best friend to lover...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses May 16, 2008

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    Dear Marine,

    I dreamed about you again last night.  It was chaotic, and unlike the other dreams we weren't the only 2 people in the world. There's a lot of things i wish i could say to you right now.  Like the fact that i will never stop missing my best friend.  About how...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2008

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    I Wish He Would Understand

    Sometimes, when i talk to him everything is great, we talk about movies, and drinking and sometimes even philosophy. These times make it worth while to continue to talk to him, at least on-line like we do.... but other times- like last night for example- he gets depressed and...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Dec 19, 2007

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    I Loved The Wrong Person... Few Weeks He Will Be Married Guy :)

    a year a go i v met an older guy(man) hes 34 divorced has a 12 year old child. he acts like teen irresponsible, likes young girl, alcoholic, smoker, addicted to hash ,... and yet i felt crazy in love with him. he made me feel like i was his ticket to maturity, i was the savior of...
    lebanongirl lebanongirl 22-25 5 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    Why Can't I Make This Feeling Go Away?

    I'm falling for a client.  He lives in a different state, is single, and would not be slightly interested in me...even though my marriage is essentially over.  I started feeling something when I saw him in April.  We email each other several times a day...just a...
    snugglebunny156 snugglebunny156 31-35, F 3 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Obsessing

    I so don't even know what is wrong with me today.  I miss him so bad today i ache... literally it feels like he's reached into my chest and is squeezing my heart for his own entertainment. It's sad and pathetic- first of i have no right to even want him anymore.  I...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    Irrationaly Bound... Forever?

    I talk about my Sadist a lot i know, some good some bad.... like i don't really know how to feel about him.  The problem is I love him in away that our time apart doesn't make me ache less but more. I can forget, for minutes, hours and even days sometimes but then when i...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2010

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    I Love Somebody I Should

    Many will disagree, but we should be together. I was criminally charged, I went to jail, I lost my job, but I found the greatest friend and love I have ever had. I plan to beat the charges because they are untrue and I am fighting for my job, but regardless we have each other...
    BittenDog BittenDog 46-50, M Dec 28, 2010

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    Dear Mv

    I'm tired of trying to figure out what the magic words are that will make you be nice to me when we do talk.  It's always a dice roll between the best friend i used to k now and t he angry bitter man you act like those other times. There's a chance I guess that you are...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Feb 4, 2009

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    Resisting Temptation

    I so badly wanted to e-mail or something today. To wish him to have a good day, and maybe even hear about some plans to see a girl or something. But i know it wouldn't have gone that way- all i would have gotten was bitterness for decisions that i wouldn't change and mistakes...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2008

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    Yes Indeed.

    But if I haven't already told you who it is, or you haven't already worked it out, then I'm afraid I won't be telling you about them :)
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M Nov 14, 2009

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    No Longer...

    At least for one of my obsessions. In October of this year, a man i have loved since i was 15 years old broke the last straw. I've written about him many times, in fact i actually created this group to help my cope for the conflicting emotions i was dealing with. I cannot...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Yes, I know I shouldn't miss her the way I do now but part of me wants to make myself thinking about her. Her crooked smile, the taunting confidence on her face, her pointy nose...
    happyquest happyquest 22-25, F Jul 23

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    I shouldn't but times like this when how alone I am really hits me I crave a relationship. Two of my exs still have feelings for me. One has made his feelings very clear recently...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F Aug 6

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    I haven't dated anyone in almost two years. I made a conscious decision at 15 that I'm not ready for a relationship. I have a few mental illnesses that make it hard to hold...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I know no one is perfect but not everyone should have kids. Doctors and laws should get into parents' IQ, whether they have common sense or not, habits, and salary. Gosh! If one...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I don't know if I really miss them or miss the times we had together. I shouldn't miss them because they're immature and manipulative and make me feel like ****. I know I'm better...
    amyvictoriaaa amyvictoriaaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I shouldn't do it but its not like I'm spreading it around like butter. It stays between the two of us . I promise .
    ilovefood99 ilovefood99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Some people shouldn't have kids. I see a lot of adults Letting their kids walk behind them. The kids look about 1-3 years old. What I feel like doing taking their kid and see what...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Urrrggghhh! Many people just shouldn't have kids! Especially if they live like pigs themselves! Gosh! I'm sick and tired of seeing clothes on the sofa, napkins, tissues, socks, and...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I miss him so much :'( what should I do? I shouldn't be feeling like this after what he did. Someone help!
    DessyLove DessyLove 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    I know I shouldn't miss her, but I do. She is the one that decided to stop talking without any explanation. I know I didn't do anything wrong and it's on her, but I still miss her...
    shygirl2014 shygirl2014 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I was mad at him. I thought he was behaving like a jackass. And I spoke plainly to him. I'm not mad any more; and I'm still interested. But I'm going to call him on his bullshit...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    If it's meant to be, then we will not always please each other. People are like that. We'll get irritated, annoyed, get hurt feelings, get outright angry. But grown-up people with...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    He hearted my story today. That makes me happy. Not as happy as a little conversation would, though. That would take, what - 10 minutes? I still want to meet him IRL....and at...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Since I can't love her, I have decided to forget her. It is hard though, to forget someone. But it looks like I have to and I should.
    happyquest happyquest 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Last night I had a dream that we went to Disneyland. Went on all the rides, didn't have to wait in line. I drove you to your house where we stared up at the stars I listened to...
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Good conversation 2 days ago...quick line yesterday...I'm happy. And since he gave me a heads-up, I know not to freak out if he can't be present much the next couple of weeks...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I just think it's ridiculous how some horrible people are blessed enough to have kids but mistreat them when there are amazing people who would make amazing parents but can't have...
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 9

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    My dad is one. Loves money and drink. And image. Is a lawyer. His only assetes came from it. Scheme and manipulate to look good. Fourth wife. One died...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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    I'm in love with three men I should not be: my neighbor's husband, my math teacher, and my best friend's dad. There are all different, but I think they are all freaking great.
    HeadWest HeadWest 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can name quite a few people in my area who should be made sterile! I think there should be a law that requires want-to-be parents to have some sort of test to make sure they...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I'm happy there's a group for this. I doubt there's any way to make sense of the various feelings I have so hey, let's do bullet points. • I want to reach out to him again...
    consistentshift consistentshift 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I believe that some people should have kids too. I know this lady that beats her autistic child because she can't handle how different he is. She also makes her kids lie about her...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I think my best friend's dad is really cute! She and him fight all the time but when He and I hang out we just have the most random, fun, and interesting conversations! He's...
    HeadWest HeadWest 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    We were good friends through out school . We both went in different directions for a number of reasons . 25 years later and with the help of technology , we found each other . Our...
    naughtybloke naughtybloke 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    And yet I don't assume I have the right to dictate who should and who should not be procreating.
    Visola Visola 22-25, F Jul 29

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    To people on here. Don't. It is all for the worse. I'm not directing this towards anyone, any group, I'm just saying. It is not worth it. People leave you. No matter if you've been...
    UnphasedDreams UnphasedDreams 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I have a crush on a girl who is a little younger, maybe 2-3 years younger but she is so nice. She plans on having sex when she's married and I think that's awesome cause so many...
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    I agree, although, everybody else that agree probably has different views on the subject. Drug addicts and physical abusers are obviously out. Personally, this is why I feel that...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Aug 1

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    One person that came to my mind is Teen Mom's Janelle! She couldn't even take care of the first kid she had and now she's having another one....dumbass! And I hate that some...
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 1