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I Love Someone But They Don't Love Me

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    Through High School

    I have loved someone through high school for four years running now. I have never been out with anyone in my life and am 15 years old. We rarely talk because the people he hangs around with are people I don't get along with very well. I want to talk to him, but I just don't...
    jbo1 jbo1 16-17, M Mar 8, 2010

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    Someone Help Me

    There is a girl at school that I know I love, but she doesn't feel the same way back. I asked her out after I find out that she really liked me and it was perfect while we were together. Absolutely no problems, happiest time of my life. Then three weeks later, dumps me...
    Nyana Nyana 16-17 2 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    She Doesn't Love Me

    I'm 13 years old almost 14 and I've loved this girl for over 10 years now. I truly do love her because I just want the nest for her, and her to be happy. The problem is that she doesn't love me back. In grade 5, we went out fr a week. It ended after a week because it was sort of...
    Mike3986 Mike3986 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 19, 2012

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    Sigh...my Best Friend

    I know it may sound stupid and petty coming from a 14 year old girl, but I have very strong feelings for my best guy friend. The night I first started to realize my feelings for him was January 28th, 2012. That was the night we started to talk and tell each other everything. To...
    JustAnotherGirl07698 JustAnotherGirl07698 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Love Hurts

    so let me get this out there, I'm gay. Kinda a big part of the whole story.It was freshmen year of high school, everyone is coming in to their "freshmen orientation" and we all head to our first period. In our school band is first. Now since I've grown up with everyone in my...
    geekdeband17 geekdeband17 16-17 Sep 4, 2012

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    Why?

    Why do you do this to me? You should know better! You're alone. I'm alone. I ******* love you, ok. And it ******* breaks my heart to see you rejecting me! I've always been nice, I'm not ugly nor am I fat. We like the same things, why are you so mean to me? Don't ignore me! Can't...
    Sheeranite Sheeranite 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2012

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    Helllpppp!!!!😰

    So, I grew up with this guy that's two years older than me. My best friend. Oh how I miss him! When he was 13 years old, he and his family, moved to Lufkin TX. Exactly 6 hrs and 23 mins from where I live in golden meadow Louisiana. When I'm around this guy at camp, I get this...
    BrookeDantinLovesYou BrookeDantinLovesYou 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    Me, Myself And Emotion

    “My thoughts continually turn to her; every sad song reminds me of her. I fantasize about us being together. Sometimes I awaken and know I’ve been dreaming about her.  It’s an ache that literally hurts my chest.  I can’t eat, sleep, or concentrate on work!  Or get on...
    z1978 z1978 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 23, 2011

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    Hurting All the Time

    I’ve been madly in love and obsessed with a girl for the last 4 years.  I can’t move on.  I’ve told her how I’ve felt and been rejected.  I feel like absolute crap every day when I wake up when reality hits me and every night when I try...
    RJM12 RJM12 21-25, M 2 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    That's Not Exactly Correct

    He does love me. Just not "that way". It's ok, I don't want to force anyone into anything. It's just frustrating because every time I start a new relationship I wish he and I had one. When I start having feelings for someone, thoughts of him pop into my head. He knows how I...
    Sumpin Sumpin 51-55, F Sep 26, 2013

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    Why Did Things Have to Go So Bad

    there was this guy i was with at first we were not friends at all then all of a sudden whenever he saw me he would always be tallin me he likes me and he want to be with me then one day my friend and i went for a walk and we saw him and he was like can i have your number so i was...
    lovesucks lovesucks 16-18 1 Response Feb 11, 2008

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    Head Over Heels In Love With A Very Guarded Man

    I have just left a five year marriage, 3 of those years were hell 2 and a half of which we did not have sex.  We recently moved to a new area just before seperating.  We also have 2 small children.  I was looking for a job in the new areaand applied to a hair salon on the same...
    lorrainehalkjaer lorrainehalkjaer 36-40 2 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Need Help Asap!!

    So heres my story, im 22 have two kids just recently had my second one a month ago, and ive been married for 4 years and have been with him for 6years yesterday, and ill say it was horrible, so ill start off from the start where everything began. I met him at 16 and i always...
    epicnessofthedinoness epicnessofthedinoness 22-25 Jun 16, 2012

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    Rebounding From Rebounding From The Rebound

    I met the guy quite by chance one day this past spring. Just prior, I had returned from a trip to the town that I had gone to high school in. I was visiting with one of my high school sweethearts and went with the intentions of picking up where we left off. That didn't happen...
    lewdies7 lewdies7 46-50 Sep 15, 2010

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    Finally!!!

    i have finally come to the decision that i am no longer going to allow myself to be in love with this idiot.  i have my own relationship and while it has extreme issues, this is an extra one that does NOT need to be there.  i am way too cool and fabulous for him and...
    geenpunchbuggie geenpunchbuggie 31-35 Apr 2, 2009

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    How Could I Have Someone Who Don't Want To Have?

    How could i win over someone's who don't trust guy like me?
    tommyboy305 tommyboy305 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    Coworker

    I work at PetSmart, and there is this girl who I work with who can always put a smile on my face and when I see her at work every time she can make me laugh and enjoy coming to work. Recently I have had these strong feelings for her and have caught myself just staring blankly at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 4, 2012

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    Lost

    I don't always know how to explain my emotions very well and maybe that is what frustrates me the most. I feel so alone now and I know I am not technically alone. The one person that I told everything to, The one who made me smile and laugh by just being near him, he is gone. Out...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Should I Give Up?

    Im 28 years old and im thinking about kicking someone out of my life! I first met her about 6 years ago. We became really close and would of been dating but she had a bf! Then about 2 years ago she found out she had ms and her bf broke up with her! I didnt see her for about 4...
    scootrk scootrk 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    Broken

    I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and 11 months. He decided to leave me exactly one month before our 4 year anniversary. I've been taking it very hard. I had no idea this was coming. Prior to his decision, he was telling me he was in love with me and that he wanted to marry...
    bettertoforgetyou bettertoforgetyou 22-25, F 1 Response May 17, 2010

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    Shattered Heart

    I loved you so much. How can I get it through to my heart that you don't love me back. I have never felt so much hurt in my life. so much pain. I don't care if this ever gets read or not. I just want my life back. I only want to feel like a normal person again. Instead of...
    Kuffs150 Kuffs150 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    I Love Him And It Hurts

    i feel pathetic doing this but... i've known this guy for like 4 years. and i liked him since the day i talked to him. i'm 14, but mature for my age. and i met this guy over an mmo game. a GAME. you guys might think it's stupid but this guy is like my best friend no joke, he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    I Love Her

    Ok well I have super strong feeling for this beautiful most amazing girl I have ever meet in my life but she right now says that she has feeling for her ex which did her so dirty and she still has feeling for her ex which she doesnt want ill do anything for her no matter i will...
    timz354 timz354 16-17 1 Response Feb 17, 2009

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    A Little Background On My Insane Situation

    So, here's a crazy story I'm pretty sure I'm going to make into a book someday because it is that crazy and out of this world--stranger than fiction, you know. My freshman year of high school, my friend and I were living life on the edge, dojng the most crazy, usually instantly...
    Yellowrhapsody Yellowrhapsody 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 11, 2008

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    Why Did Things Have to Go So Bad

    there was this guy i was with at first we were not friends at all then all of a sudden whenever he saw me he would always be tallin me he likes me and he want to be with me then one day my friend and i went for a walk and we saw him and he was like can i have your number so i was...
    lovesucks lovesucks 16-18 Feb 11, 2008

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    Again Last Night.

    If there was one thing I'd like for Christmas is to know this is the last night I'm going to hurt over her. I feel in love with her 6 years ago and have spent most of the time with a broken heart and hopelessly in love. I've always known I likely couldn't have her and how...
    Wanderlust69 Wanderlust69 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    Everyone I Loved Bckstabed Me ...i Dont Forget

    all my friends and relatives or family all the people i put trust in let me down when i was young they never stopped letting me down the people i met in my teens, twenties and thirties let me down i loved many who did no love me! the whole thing of relatives and so-called friends...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Mar 10, 2011

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    What to Do?

    We started off dating... hot and heavy right away.  After about a year I tell him I love him.... he says nothing.  A few months later he tells me he doesn't love me and never will.  I am heartbroken.  We have so much in common, have became VERY good...
    nkevans nkevans 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

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    I Love Someone, But They Don't Know

    I met a girl at school, I'm good friends with her and we have so many things in common it's unbelievable. We spent a whole day talking to each other and we seemed to match so perfectly. After knowing her for over a year and a half I asked her out, but she said no, she didn't want...
    AlexisV AlexisV 16-18, M 5 Responses Dec 27, 2007

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    My Flatmate.

    I have been in love with my best friend for almost 10 years. I have seen other guys in that time, and I liked them, but it wasn't what I really wanted. Now he is my flatmate. I thought I was over him - but I've discovered I'm not.  Even when he does things that annoy me...
    Squeak Squeak 22-25 5 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    For almost 3 years, I LOVE HIM ! well, that's not new but what makes my love for him different?.. For almost 3 years we only met for 4 times! May 2011..May 2012,,Aug. 2013...Jan...
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    I fell for someone last year. He doesn't like me. 😕
    Aidan500 Aidan500 13-15, M Apr 11

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    I feel everyone's pain. I have been with my man for 18 months now. Six months ago, we moved down south together. He now works full time and goes to school full time, so I know he...
    kinders92 kinders92 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    It's not that I didn't feel loved it was just because I wasn't loved by that person so if you don't feel loved then it's probobly best to leave that relationship there's nothing...
    edgarr edgarr 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    There is nothing worse than being in a relationship but feeling no love. My bf and I have been dating since last August. One wonderful year in the same city and one difficult year...
    mimileelee mimileelee 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I am his wife but yet I feel like I'm the other woman. It's about to be two months since I gave the hubby an ultimatum his family or this other woman. As I suspected he choose her...
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    My mom is Chinese, my dad is Indian and I was born in UK but half raised in Malaysia where my parents are from. However until REALLY recently I never used to find myself sexy (even...
    littlesaiyan littlesaiyan 22-25, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    My estranged wife is making my life so difficult I don't think I can be with her anymore. She is intent on just partying to all hours despite our having two small children and a...
    Allboutmykids Allboutmykids 31-35, M 6 Responses Apr 4

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    I'm in a long distance relationship. I haven't gotten to see my boyfriend in months. He hasn't been able to contact me much. I know I love him but I am scared. He tells me he isn...
    disapney disapney 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    This is true....it feels like she don't care anymore and even tho we talk a lot still.... I always tell her shes beautiful and I love her but all she says is thanks... Like it only...
    adam7475 adam7475 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm always very sad but I just don't know why.
    mogilem mogilem 13-15, M Mar 31

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    Oh god... what have i got myself into... Stupid me. I've met this guy, he's my friends friend.. And it's just so awkward... we started off as just two people who knew the same...
    emmatebby emmatebby 18-21, F Mar 20

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    And I finally said - I'm done, lets call it off. Feel so better now, but at the same time is odd to see the person who I shared almost 5 years of my life looking lost, I feel sorry...
    Chris268brasil Chris268brasil 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hi I also feel that I have lost my life.i want to end my marriage ,but can not due to my family & even I can not live this life .no understanding ,no love , no sex,no warmth , what...
    jpshah jpshah 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 19

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    Im 35 and hubby is 44. We are married for 7 years. When he reached 40, his libido went down. It is not everyday sex anymore and it is like twice a month sex now. Im blunt so I...
    outofsortsgal outofsortsgal 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I havent been with my partner very long, neither of us are driving at the moment and live in different towns so its fairly difficult to see each other, but in the dating phase we...
    clairejones93 clairejones93 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I text my guy on sat and five days later I haven't had a response. Scared this is the beginning of the end.
    Belissa Belissa 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    For months now I have been trying to understand what's going on here I love this man so much in spite of the hurt he has put me through and he doesn't see me. I have stayed even...
    whenwillheseeme whenwillheseeme 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    But how do you get past the terrible loneliness we can be sitting in the same room and it's as though I'm not there. Like you and others in my position you give so much of yourself...
    whenwillheseeme whenwillheseeme 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    Seriously guys, It's the kind of day I really want something but i dont know what exactly. Is it weird to feel that way? I feel like i lost something and i really need it back...
    jeannetjayy jeannetjayy 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Im seriously struggling to find motivation to revise for my exams (last year in school) as I find them stupid and pointless. I mean when will I ever use the formula to find the...
    Robolt Robolt 18-21 1 Response Apr 8

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    I hate my boyfriend I made a video of my attempt to runaway , it's on my YouTube channel you can watch if if you like http://youtu.be/IpAcNarSrLY
    cutieserafina cutieserafina 22-25, F Apr 4

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