Post

I Love Someone But They Don't Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 269 People

    Finally!!!

    i have finally come to the decision that i am no longer going to allow myself to be in love with this idiot.  i have my own relationship and while it has extreme issues, this is an extra one that does NOT need to be there.  i am way too cool and fabulous for him and...
    geenpunchbuggie geenpunchbuggie 31-35 Apr 2, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hurting All the Time

    I’ve been madly in love and obsessed with a girl for the last 4 years.  I can’t move on.  I’ve told her how I’ve felt and been rejected.  I feel like absolute crap every day when I wake up when reality hits me and every night when I try...
    RJM12 RJM12 21-25, M 2 Responses Mar 22, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Helllpppp!!!!๐Ÿ˜ฐ

    So, I grew up with this guy that's two years older than me. My best friend. Oh how I miss him! When he was 13 years old, he and his family, moved to Lufkin TX. Exactly 6 hrs and 23 mins from where I live in golden meadow Louisiana. When I'm around this guy at camp, I get this...
    BrookeDantinLovesYou BrookeDantinLovesYou 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Being In Love Alone

    I love someone very much, but here I am alone again tonight. should be used to it by now, but the lonliness never leaves. You see I love a married man, and guess shame on me, should have known better, but he was everything that I ever wanted a partner to be. He was very kind and...
    willystoy willystoy 36-40 3 Responses Jan 10, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Me, Myself And Emotion

    โ€œMy thoughts continually turn to her; every sad song reminds me of her. I fantasize about us being together. Sometimes I awaken and know Iโ€™ve been dreaming about her.ย ย Itโ€™s an ache that literally hurts my chest. ย I canโ€™t eat, sleep, or concentrate on work! ย Or get on...
    z1978 z1978 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 23, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Rebounding From Rebounding From The Rebound

    I met the guy quite by chance one day this past spring. Just prior, I had returned from a trip to the town that I had gone to high school in. I was visiting with one of my high school sweethearts and went with the intentions of picking up where we left off. That didn't happen...
    lewdies7 lewdies7 46-50 Sep 15, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Love Hurts

    so let me get this out there, I'm gay. Kinda a big part of the whole story.It was freshmen year of high school, everyone is coming in to their "freshmen orientation" and we all head to our first period. In our school band is first. Now since I've grown up with everyone in my...
    geekdeband17 geekdeband17 16-17 Sep 4, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What Should I Do?! :[

    I liked this guy Justin for a longggg time now. I dated him acouple Summers ago, I never really got over him since he was my last relationship and because of church I spend acouple hours with him a week or longer. I recently got ratted out because he wanted to text me, you see he...
    ArtsyJayde ArtsyJayde 13-15, F Feb 5, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Need Help Asap!!

    So heres my story, im 22 have two kids just recently had my second one a month ago, and ive been married for 4 years and have been with him for 6years yesterday, and ill say it was horrible, so ill start off from the start where everything began. I met him at 16 and i always...
    epicnessofthedinoness epicnessofthedinoness 22-25 Jun 16, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Shattered Heart

    I loved you so much. How can I get it through to my heart that you don't love me back. I have never felt so much hurt in my life. so much pain. I don't care if this ever gets read or not. I just want my life back. I only want to feel like a normal person again. Instead of...
    Kuffs150 Kuffs150 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Again Last Night.

    If there was one thing I'd like for Christmas is to know this is the last night I'm going to hurt over her. I feel in love with her 6 years ago and have spent most of the time with a broken heart and hopelessly in love. I've always known I likely couldn't have her and how...
    Wanderlust69 Wanderlust69 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Someone Help Me

    There is a girl at school that I know I love, but she doesn't feel the same way back. I asked her out after I find out that she really liked me and it was perfect while we were together. Absolutely no problems, happiest time of my life. Then three weeks later, dumps me...
    Nyana Nyana 16-17 2 Responses Jul 15, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How Could I Have Someone Who Don't Want To Have?

    How could i win over someone's who don't trust guy like me?
    tommyboy305 tommyboy305 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Did Things Have to Go So Bad

    there was this guy i was with at first we were not friends at all then all of a sudden whenever he saw me he would always be tallin me he likes me and he want to be with me then one day my friend and i went for a walk and we saw him and he was like can i have your number so i was...
    lovesucks lovesucks 16-18 Feb 11, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    That's Not Exactly Correct

    He does love me. Just not "that way". It's ok, I don't want to force anyone into anything. It's just frustrating because every time I start a new relationship I wish he and I had one. When I start having feelings for someone, thoughts of him pop into my head. He knows how I...
    Sumpin Sumpin 51-55, F Sep 26, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Everyone I Loved Bckstabed Me ...i Dont Forget

    all my friends and relatives or family all the people i put trust in let me down when i was young they never stopped letting me down the people i met in my teens, twenties and thirties let me down i loved many who did no love me! the whole thing of relatives and so-called friends...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Mar 10, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lost

    I don't always know how to explain my emotions very well and maybe that is what frustrates me the most. I feel so alone now and I know I am not technically alone. The one person that I told everything to, The one who made me smile and laugh by just being near him, he is gone. Out...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why?

    Why do you do this to me? You should know better! You're alone. I'm alone. I ******* love you, ok. And it ******* breaks my heart to see you rejecting me! I've always been nice, I'm not ugly nor am I fat. We like the same things, why are you so mean to me? Don't ignore me! Can't...
    Sheeranite Sheeranite 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    She Doesn't Love Me

    I'm 13 years old almost 14 and I've loved this girl for over 10 years now. I truly do love her because I just want the nest for her, and her to be happy. The problem is that she doesn't love me back. In grade 5, we went out fr a week. It ended after a week because it was sort of...
    Mike3986 Mike3986 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 19, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Should I Give Up?

    Im 28 years old and im thinking about kicking someone out of my life! I first met her about 6 years ago. We became really close and would of been dating but she had a bf! Then about 2 years ago she found out she had ms and her bf broke up with her! I didnt see her for about 4...
    scootrk scootrk 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Him And It Hurts

    i feel pathetic doing this but... i've known this guy for like 4 years. and i liked him since the day i talked to him. i'm 14, but mature for my age. and i met this guy over an mmo game. a GAME. you guys might think it's stupid but this guy is like my best friend no joke, he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Through High School

    I have loved someone through high school for four years running now. I have never been out with anyone in my life and am 15 years old. We rarely talk because the people he hangs around with are people I don't get along with very well. I want to talk to him, but I just don't...
    jbo1 jbo1 16-17, M Mar 8, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Flatmate.

    I have been in love with my best friend for almost 10 years. I have seen other guys in that time, and I liked them, but it wasn't what I really wanted. Now he is my flatmate. I thought I was over him - but I've discovered I'm not.  Even when he does things that annoy me...
    Squeak Squeak 22-25 5 Responses Oct 10, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Have Sence Sixth Grade

    i love him i have sence sixth grade when i was 10 i am a lot older now and he bearly leaves my mind i went out with him a long time ago whne i use to be in trouble , now that i dont get in trouble and im actually a good perso and student and not popular he doesnt want me and...
    scared154 scared154 13-15, F Nov 22, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Her

    Ok well I have super strong feeling for this beautiful most amazing girl I have ever meet in my life but she right now says that she has feeling for her ex which did her so dirty and she still has feeling for her ex which she doesnt want ill do anything for her no matter i will...
    timz354 timz354 16-17 1 Response Feb 17, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What to Do?

    We started off dating... hot and heavy right away.  After about a year I tell him I love him.... he says nothing.  A few months later he tells me he doesn't love me and never will.  I am heartbroken.  We have so much in common, have became VERY good...
    nkevans nkevans 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Broken

    I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and 11 months. He decided to leave me exactly one month before our 4 year anniversary. I've been taking it very hard. I had no idea this was coming. Prior to his decision, he was telling me he was in love with me and that he wanted to marry...
    bettertoforgetyou bettertoforgetyou 22-25, F 1 Response May 17, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A Little Background On My Insane Situation

    So, here's a crazy story I'm pretty sure I'm going to make into a book someday because it is that crazy and out of this world--stranger than fiction, you know. My freshman year of high school, my friend and I were living life on the edge, dojng the most crazy, usually instantly...
    Yellowrhapsody Yellowrhapsody 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 11, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Someone, But They Don't Know

    I met a girl at school, I'm good friends with her and we have so many things in common it's unbelievable. We spent a whole day talking to each other and we seemed to match so perfectly. After knowing her for over a year and a half I asked her out, but she said no, she didn't want...
    AlexisV AlexisV 16-18, M 5 Responses Dec 27, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sigh...my Best Friend

    I know it may sound stupid and petty coming from a 14 year old girl, but I have very strong feelings for my best guy friend. The night I first started to realize my feelings for him was January 28th, 2012. That was the night we started to talk and tell each other everything. To...
    JustAnotherGirl07698 JustAnotherGirl07698 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Did Things Have to Go So Bad

    there was this guy i was with at first we were not friends at all then all of a sudden whenever he saw me he would always be tallin me he likes me and he want to be with me then one day my friend and i went for a walk and we saw him and he was like can i have your number so i was...
    lovesucks lovesucks 16-18 1 Response Feb 11, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm Not Completely Sure...

    I'm not completely sure if she likes me or not... I mean we sometimes talk in class, and I catch her looking at me and then she turns away, and also in History she sits next to me and we talk sometimes. Otherwise she talks to her friends. When were working on sheets it seems like...
    Shark411 Shark411 18-21, M Oct 5, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Coworker

    I work at PetSmart, and there is this girl who I work with who can always put a smile on my face and when I see her at work every time she can make me laugh and enjoy coming to work. Recently I have had these strong feelings for her and have caught myself just staring blankly at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 4, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Head Over Heels In Love With A Very Guarded Man

    I have just left a five year marriage, 3 of those years were hell 2 and a half of which we did not have sex.ย  We recently moved to a new area just before seperating.ย  We also have 2 small children.ย  I was looking for a job in the new areaand applied to a hair salon on the same...
    lorrainehalkjaer lorrainehalkjaer 36-40 2 Responses Apr 11, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    So I have a friend who I've known for about 3 and a half years now. I've had feelings for her for quite some time, the thing is she was married when I first met her. She is...
    Twitch313 Twitch313 26-30, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The girl I like went to her home country for a whole month and I missed her so much ,I didn't realize how much I really liked her until we were apart ,she's coming home next week I...
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've lived in this town for about 9 years now, since right before high school and now I'm 23. In freshman year I met a group of guys I really liked, we have similar interests and I...
    titor5100 titor5100 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It was about 3 years ago and i wanted to sate this guy tyler soooo badly but he asked me for advice to get this girl megan...damn
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ugh it's like the lowest of the low.๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ‘ฟ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ๐Ÿ˜ฆ๐Ÿ˜ง
    Tyelioo Tyelioo 13-15, F Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I found the most amazing girl but I'm not in love with her. She's sweet, funny, intelligent, kind, and a great listener. Just a great person so far and I've known her for like 4...
    JayLee23 JayLee23 26-30, M Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a guy friend who I care about so deeply. We tell each other everyday that we love each other and we both care about each other also. Everything was going fine until he asked...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F Jun 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I try to do things for him that I know he likes and enjoys, and I know he loves and cares for me-- but at the end of the day, I go to bed feeling empty and alone. I don't want to...
    NoYourComstock NoYourComstock 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Melancholy, my natural state. Longing for a place far away, for a time where all is different, for people long lost. I don't belong here, and while I pretend I do on occasion, I...
    TragicMonkey TragicMonkey 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always kiss her forehead, kiss her cheek, touch her and hug her. I'm making all the effort but she doesn't. I am also the one who has to initiate love making. I know I am...
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If he did, he would liberate himself.... expression shouldn't be held captive. How can you be at peace with yourself if you don't share
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This goes hand-in-hand with the sexless marriage thing. My wife does not like to deal with emotions and so we rarely are able to communicate well and work through our problems. I...
    myguitarisbusted myguitarisbusted 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is something I have felt for a while. But it's because I feel in love with a lie. And once I found out one they all keep coming down. Finally last I said I am done.
    washio2005 washio2005 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    That's not what the **** it is, ya dumbasses. It's like saying that the lgbt community is a Hetero hating group because they want equal rights like straight people. That's not what...
    PanicAtTheDiscount PanicAtTheDiscount 13-15, F Jul 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been living w my BF for 12 years. It started out wonderful. We had 6 beautiful years. Then he started having health problems, got hooked on painkilling drugs, and lost all...
    Tertiary Tertiary 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm head over heels in love with a man that just doesn't seem to have enough time for me anymore. I've been there for him for every up and down in the last 5 yrs and as of late...
    Learning2LuvMe Learning2LuvMe 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok, he and I are on FaceTime now, I've been crying silently all this time while he's busy on his phone looking for car stuff - he doesn't even saw that I was crying
    PompeyLd87 PompeyLd87 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 23