I Love Someone I Can't Have

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 503 People

    I Love Him But Can'T Have Him

    My mom is Mormon and she had missionary's come over one day. The first time I saw Elder BlahBlah I didn't think he was all that great but everyone else thought he was the hottest guy ever. He started coming over more often and I started talking to him. We found out we liked the...
    MyLifeIsWoe MyLifeIsWoe
    16-17
    1 Response Feb 10, 2013

    His Name Is Dumby Lol

    He's become my best friend and I think I could have him if I want to. I also want what's best for him, so maybe he's better off with her. This hurts!
    lovelyautumn lovelyautumn
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2008

    Because I had them and I lost them

    and second chances aren't always an option.
    Godlevel Godlevel
    18-21
    Jul 29, 2015

    Another story, this one is about something

    that happened today that made my heart go all a-flutter and make me feel like I was in a Jane Austin novel... Yesterday I treated myself to a new jacket, normally that is no big deal people never notice me or what I wear and that's fine by me. However, this jacket is a real...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat
    26-30, F
    Sep 1, 2015
    dqtxeb25 dqtxeb25
    22-25, F
    Oct 29, 2015

    Again I have to leave the warmth

    and strength of your arms. Being wrapped up in them makes me feel so safe, so loved, beautiful even. But she's going to be home soon. We both know this will never be anything more yet neither of us can let go. So we go on with our separate lives even though our...
    Babydust24 Babydust24
    36-40, F
    Jul 29, 2015

    He's Very Loyal

    And he's married to this awful woman who habitually lies to him, as well as abuses both him (emotionally) & their daughter (probably "only" emotionally). He is miserable, but far too loyal to ever leave her.
    Pixie87 Pixie87
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 27, 2011
    nathan16500 nathan16500
    13-15, M
    3 Responses Sep 24, 2014

    The Struggle

    I wake up still tired from falling asleep way too late. The sound of my alarm tells me time for breakfast, so eventually after a few thoughts of what kind of a day this is going to be(not even purely pessimistic ones), I get up anyway. I have my usual what-to-wear struggle. I...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2008

    Confused

    i love s.one who loves me back .. we had a perfect relationship but it changes to a nightmare because of poeple they took my past against me cuz they know that i'd an experience with another guy before so they ruined everything between us i've tried my best to make him back but...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2013

    I still love my ex, but she has someone else,

    and it just hurts knowing that what we had will never happen again.
    actasagod actasagod
    18-21, M
    Aug 9, 2015

    How long I will have

    that someone who will accept me who ever ️iam.
    verlaidamendoza28 verlaidamendoza28
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2015
    TEMPOLTON TEMPOLTON
    41-45, M
    Dec 22, 2014

    You got me caught....

    In all this mess.... I guess, we can blame it on the rain.... My pain, Is knowing I can't have you.... I can't have you.... Tell me does she, look at you the way I do? Try to understand your words and the way you move? Does she get the same big rush, When you go in for a hug and...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014

    Just The Way It Is

    Well, where to begin.........I am a bit different, which makes it extremely hard to meet people for the first time.......and when i do meet someone really cool...its easy for me to be emotionally attached.........i know its not love per say........but it feels like love to me...
    Jaclyn30 Jaclyn30
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Nov 26, 2011

    God Is A God Of Love Then Please Help Me Understand

    A few yrs ago my Son left the country for a gap yr and while there had a terrible experience he came back traumatized. His personality changed but hid his feelings well. After 7yrs the threapist said he had to tell his parents what happened and he did. I lost my voice through...
    mpde mpde
    56-60, F
    7 Responses Apr 23, 2012

    I'm Over It. But There's Still a Part of Me....

    I have a new boyfriend of about 3 or so weeks. I don't feel for him nearly as much as i felt for my ex. And i still have so much love for him. I would love to be with him again. After a 6 or so month relationship we parted because he moved to the other side of the world...
    jasminjane jasminjane
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2008

    Yup.

    Meh. I don't know what to do about it. Possibly let time take its course and see what happens.  
    SnapWire SnapWire
    18-21, M
    Sep 15, 2009

    My Stupidity

    shes my ex shes happier without me i know if i pushed she would take me bk but i cant cos she is happier without me
    romeo991155 romeo991155
    22-25
    1 Response Dec 15, 2012

    His Girlfriend Suffers More Than Me

    5 years ago, my husband cheated. Out of revenge, I went on a dating site where I caught my husband to purposely find someone to chat with. There was no evidence that my husband dated a woman at that time because I set up a profile to supervise his activities and found no...
    greyzone greyzone
    36-40, F
    Feb 21, 2013

    And I want to kill myself

    because of it.
    Nevaeh15 Nevaeh15
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 2, 2015

    This section is becoming my most "popular"

    experience area, but I suppose it's easier to talk about something as I am experiencing it as opposed to in any other way. Today was, as usual, lovely. He had kept his last favourite sweet / candy for me and said "I want you to have my last sweet!" I was touched, he fetched me...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat
    26-30, F
    Sep 3, 2015

    Today in the wonderful world of wanting someone

    I can't have I was reminded of how painful it is to know the "other person" really does exist. He and I were joking, all day long, the two of us had amusing banter with our team, we joked about things people were saying and when people were getting long winded and boring I...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat
    26-30, F
    Sep 2, 2015

    Isa..... come to me. I know it is hard to

    change.... to let go and soar....
    TEMPOLTON TEMPOLTON
    41-45, M
    Nov 24, 2014

    We make music together.

    She's gorgeous, young, and clearly admires me. At one point she wanted to kiss, but stopped herself. Now each time she smiles at me I spend the next days until we see each other again thinking about her. It's possible we could be in a passionate affair, but for now she lights up...
    Ianbond Ianbond
    46-50, M
    Dec 9, 2013

    I like this guy that move to my middle school.

    and now he is going to high school with me. and I really liked him in middle school. and I scared when I see him again he will just annoy me like he did last year
    snbreeden20000 snbreeden20000
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015
    TheGhostofAGirl TheGhostofAGirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2014

    From the first time I ever saw Megan I was

    interested. I went over to my friend Laura's house and she was there and we hit it off laughing and talking... I only found out later that she was Laura's ex. Later still that Megan loved Laura. I thought I got past it... I could be a friend to both of these girls. As I got...
    pecollins pecollins
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2014

    Want to know something truly tragic?

    In my work I have a two close female friends I can trust 100% with anything I tell them, one of them I feel I cannot trust them with this, not in the sense she would tell anyone but in the sense I respect and adore her that much I couldn't bear to make her judge me in a bad...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 4, 2015

    Saying Yes, Screaming No

    I'm still in love with my ex girlfriend. She left me a few days after our one year anniversary to get with someone else, whom she is engaged to now. And now I feel like I can never get her back. I love her so much that I would still say I would die for her to this day. She...
    TheKidiKehT TheKidiKehT
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 28, 2009

    It has been a comfort,

    being a member of this EP group, there are so many people in a similar boat and sharing a similar pain it is truly comforting. Emotions are such a complicated mess to figure out sometimes. Three years ago I was moved in my office to a new area, I knew no one and I was...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    Cat and Mouse...

    I never expected it, didn't seek it out, but somehow fell in love with a married woman. What a mess! Loving someone you cannot have. Emails, phone calls, sweet words back & forth. Ending up where? At an impasse. She has a 13 year old child to raise and feels obligated...
    zillaron zillaron
    51-55, M
    11 Responses Sep 15, 2009

    Every time I get close enough to grab her

    something pulls us apart, as much as I try to push back against it. And now the inexorable march of time is pushing us further apart and leaving me disheartened. My only consolation is that we are young and one day our paths will cross again. If not than I hope she will find...
    Jshorty96 Jshorty96
    18-21, M
    Jul 28, 2015

    Forbidden By Time and Place

    WE love each other but my family don't like him. We alreadyhurteach other so many times but at the end of the day we know that no matter how hard we fight we still love each other. I really regret it when I ask my parents to help me in my love life.Now they are not helping, they...
    boznicxs boznicxs
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Sep 30, 2009

    In A Land So Dark

    Her blue eyes.... never have I felt so wounded by someone's look. For me there is no light, there waits no light, not in those eyes. I am too old for romance, she is looking for it; she loves her God, I am an atheist (or as close to one as you can get without being one); she...
    menschfeind menschfeind
    26-30
    Jul 13, 2010

    Courage

    You wouldn't take my outstretched hand. Were you scared? Are you afraid of how it makes you feel? That spark that jumps between our skin like electricity, flitting and flying through the air. I know you like to have control, to pick and chose, to have everything in order, in...
    Blueskies22 Blueskies22
    26-30, F
    Aug 14, 2013

    Its Not Love Its A Crush

    I have a crush on my husbands brother even though I don't necessarily like him much as a person. He is okay but its something about his eyes and his muscular arms that attracts me and I feel like I want him but in real life I don't want him. Its like a fantasy. My husband knows...
    fairy77 fairy77
    31-35
    Oct 1, 2011

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11 kimcc11
    26-30, F
    Sep 1, 2015

    Your hair, your face,

    your beautiful eyes...I want to tell you how strikingly beautiful you are every day, but I can't. Because you have someone in your life already, even though he's 1000 miles away. Because society deems it wrong. Because I would lose you as a friend. Your laugh, your smile, your...
    HopelessRomantic6 HopelessRomantic6
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 16, 2014

    Horses And Fairytales

    I lost it all in a day. How selfish can I be? I had the dream at least and now that is gone too.
    errantmind errantmind
    41-45, F
    Mar 26, 2013

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chavacc11 chavacc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 28, 2015

    Loving Some One I Can't Have.

    It's heart rending to fall in love with some who cares little or not about you. As I said in my previous write ups, I am married to a man I have no romantic or erotic love for. I married him out of simple obedience and respect for the wishes of my late father, thereby making me...
    maureenumeh maureenumeh
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2011

    I always fall I love

    for famous people who I never meet or guys who already have a girlfriend or doesn't like me
    swaggybaggypant swaggybaggypant
    13-15, F
    Jul 29, 2015

    I love this guy well I thought I did

    and I'm really young and I feel stupid
    kathrynvansickle kathrynvansickle
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    Yeah! Miss World!!!!!

    !!!********
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    Sep 17, 2014

    I Wasn't Lonely Until I Met You...

    My whole life I have been quite comfortable with not having a girlfriend. I'd have a fling here or there but never got to the actual point of 'Boyfriend/Girlfriend' status with someone (sometimes because I would look too far ahead and see it not working out so I wouldn't...
    Sniggle Sniggle
    22-25, M
    Nov 14, 2012
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