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I Love Someone I Can't Have

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    I Love Someone I Might Never Have

    Ok we'll I know this boy who's three years older. I love him a lot. I love how his dirty blonde hair falls in his face. He's friends with my brother but he's so much older and I rarely see him. When I do we joke around a bit but to him I think he likes my as a little sister or...
    Spiritwolf13 Spiritwolf13 16-17, F Feb 20, 2013

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    If You Only Knew...

    If you only knew how much I love youWould you still behave the way you do?Forever tempting fate,While I just sit and wait.And worry about what fate might do to you.If you only knew how much I sufferWould you maybe change your point of view?Or will you still go onTill all our...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F Feb 11, 2012

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    Just The Way It Is

    Well, where to begin.........I am a bit different, which makes it extremely hard to meet people for the first time.......and when i do meet someone really cool...its easy for me to be emotionally attached.........i know its not love per say........but it feels like love to me...
    jazzy30 jazzy30 26-30, T 7 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    I Love Him But Can'T Have Him

    My mom is Mormon and she had missionary's come over one day. The first time I saw Elder BlahBlah I didn't think he was all that great but everyone else thought he was the hottest guy ever. He started coming over more often and I started talking to him. We found out we liked the...
    MyLifeIsWoe MyLifeIsWoe 16-17 1 Response Feb 10, 2013

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    Its Not Love Its A Crush

    I have a crush on my husbands brother even though I don't necessarily like him much as a person. He is okay but its something about his eyes and his muscular arms that attracts me and I feel like I want him but in real life I don't want him. Its like a fantasy. My husband knows...
    fairy77 fairy77 31-35 Oct 1, 2011

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    Saying Yes, Screaming No

    I'm still in love with my ex girlfriend. She left me a few days after our one year anniversary to get with someone else, whom she is engaged to now. And now I feel like I can never get her back. I love her so much that I would still say I would die for her to this day. She...
    TheKidiKehT TheKidiKehT 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 28, 2009

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    He's Very Loyal

    And he's married to this awful woman who habitually lies to him, as well as abuses both him (emotionally) & their daughter (probably "only" emotionally). He is miserable, but far too loyal to ever leave her.
    Pixie87 Pixie87 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Courage

    You wouldn't take my outstretched hand. Were you scared? Are you afraid of how it makes you feel? That spark that jumps between our skin like electricity, flitting and flying through the air. I know you like to have control, to pick and chose, to have everything in order, in...
    Blueskies22 Blueskies22 26-30, F Aug 14, 2013

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    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2011

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    Strange And Beautiful

    I've been watching your world from afar,I've been trying to be where you are,And I've been secretly falling apart,I'll see.To me, you're strange and you're beautiful,You'd be so perfect with me but you just can't see,You turn every head but you don't see me.'ll put a spell on you...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    His Name Is Dumby Lol

    He's become my best friend and I think I could have him if I want to. I also want what's best for him, so maybe he's better off with her. This hurts!
    lovelyautumn lovelyautumn 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    God Is A God Of Love Then Please Help Me Understand

    A few yrs ago my Son left the country for a gap yr and while there had a terrible experience he came back traumatized. His personality changed but hid his feelings well. After 7yrs the threapist said he had to tell his parents what happened and he did. I lost my voice through...
    mpde mpde 56-60, F 9 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Yup.

    Meh. I don't know what to do about it. Possibly let time take its course and see what happens.  
    SnapWire SnapWire 18-21, M Sep 15, 2009

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    Forbidden By Time and Place

    WE love each other but my family don't like him. We alreadyhurteach other so many times but at the end of the day we know that no matter how hard we fight we still love each other. I really regret it when I ask my parents to help me in my love life.Now they are not helping, they...
    boznicxs boznicxs 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    My Stupidity

    shes my ex shes happier without me i know if i pushed she would take me bk but i cant cos she is happier without me
    romeo991155 romeo991155 22-25 Dec 15, 2012

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    Confused

    i love s.one who loves me back .. we had a perfect relationship but it changes to a nightmare because of poeple they took my past against me cuz they know that i'd an experience with another guy before so they ruined everything between us i've tried my best to make him back but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    I Love Her

    I have a female friend,not girl friend.We meet since 3 years.We were in the same university but not same department,she was my department"s friend"s room mate. We came close via Facebook,then cell phone and in real life we started hangout with other friend.After completing my...
    prince4 prince4 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    I Wasn't Lonely Until I Met You...

    My whole life I have been quite comfortable with not having a girlfriend. I'd have a fling here or there but never got to the actual point of 'Boyfriend/Girlfriend' status with someone (sometimes because I would look too far ahead and see it not working out so I wouldn't...
    Sniggle Sniggle 22-25, M Nov 14, 2012

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    In A Land So Dark

    Her blue eyes.... never have I felt so wounded by someone's look. For me there is no light, there waits no light, not in those eyes. I am too old for romance, she is looking for it; she loves her God, I am an atheist (or as close to one as you can get without being one); she...
    menschfeind menschfeind 26-30 Jul 13, 2010

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    His Girlfriend Suffers More Than Me

    5 years ago, my husband cheated. Out of revenge, I went on a dating site where I caught my husband to purposely find someone to chat with. There was no evidence that my husband dated a woman at that time because I set up a profile to supervise his activities and found no...
    greyzone greyzone 36-40, F Feb 21, 2013

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    Cat and Mouse...

    I never expected it, didn't seek it out, but somehow fell in love with a married woman. What a mess! Loving someone you cannot have. Emails, phone calls, sweet words back & forth. Ending up where? At an impasse. She has a 13 year old child to raise and feels obligated...
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 11 Responses Sep 15, 2009

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    I'm Over It. But There's Still a Part of Me....

    I have a new boyfriend of about 3 or so weeks. I don't feel for him nearly as much as i felt for my ex. And i still have so much love for him. I would love to be with him again. After a 6 or so month relationship we parted because he moved to the other side of the world...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    The Struggle

    I wake up still tired from falling asleep way too late. The sound of my alarm tells me time for breakfast, so eventually after a few thoughts of what kind of a day this is going to be(not even purely pessimistic ones), I get up anyway. I have my usual what-to-wear struggle. I...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    We make music together.

    She's gorgeous, young, and clearly admires me. At one point she wanted to kiss, but stopped herself. Now each time she smiles at me I spend the next days until we see each other again thinking about her. It's possible we could be in a passionate affair, but for now she lights up...
    Ianbond Ianbond 41-45, M Dec 9, 2013

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    I Can't Lie You're On My Mind! :)

    Cute cute song!!I must have been a foolTo love you so hard for so longSo much stronger than beforeBut so much harder to move onAnd now the bitter chill of the winterStill blows through me like a plagueOnly to wake up with an empty bedOn a perfect summer dayMy world just feels so...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2011

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    Loving Some One I Can't Have.

    It's heart rending to fall in love with some who cares little or not about you. As I said in my previous write ups, I am married to a man I have no romantic or erotic love for. I married him out of simple obedience and respect for the wishes of my late father, thereby making me...
    maureenumeh maureenumeh 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    I Found Love In A Hopeless Place..

    Turn away ‘cause I need you more Feel the heartbeat in my mind It’s the way I’m feeling I just can’t deny But I’ve gotta let it go…. :( we found love in a HOPELESS place!!
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F Feb 10, 2012

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    Horses And Fairytales

    I lost it all in a day. How selfish can I be? I had the dream at least and now that is gone too.
    errantmind errantmind 41-45, F Mar 26, 2013

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    I am in love with my friends brother in law. He is gorgeous and has the sweetest personality. The one problem is he has a girl friend who has emotional problems. He tries to smile...
    staky85 staky85 26-30 Jul 6

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    Firstly I hate the word 'have' it suggests people are a possession for others to own and they aren't, that said this is the closest I have to express myself. It will have to do. So...
    LastEnglishRose LastEnglishRose 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    ...i cried now and thinking that this is unfair...why i need to fall in love with him...why he stares and look at me through the eyes that almost touches my soul on our first...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I become jolly whenever I see her, but it breaks my heart to think that I can't have that angel.
    eratosthenes eratosthenes 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 28

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    ...just had a telephone conversation with him today...but i imagine his eyes and felt his sadness...i miss him and we can't have the opportunity to see each other...ours is a...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    837 miles separate us. We met on tumblr and 7 months later we met in person. The minute his hands were around my waist hugging me I knew I was going to fall for him. The way he...
    slizzer slizzer 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I love a her and she loves me too But i can't have her because she already have a boyfriend. And she's scared that our friendship might be ruin if we follow our feelings
    Harukami Harukami 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I don't understand why destiny allowed some people to meet, when there's no way for them to be together...i can't bear the thought of forgetting you and live my life without you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Sometimes life just isn't fair... So many times people with huge hearts like myself love someone so strongly..and that other person scarcely notices, thinks nothing of their...
    saturnsdaughter saturnsdaughter 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Unfortunately. The wrong person came into my life at the wrong time. He is eves apple - I have never felt such strong desire. I feel drunk around him. I feel weak. These feelings...
    happycupcake happycupcake 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I'm gay and it's hard enough to find people where I live, I found a guy or he found me on the computer and it was a long distance relationship, which I knew would be terrible in...
    EricRadliffe EricRadliffe 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Most of my friends think that I'm over him I'm really not I just say I am so they don't bother me about it. He's dating this girl now it's been two days I think I hate hearing...
    mikaylahoguexo mikaylahoguexo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Well, kind of. Since it's such a long story, this will be part 1. I am a dancer, and almost one year ago, after a performance, there was another show on the same stage. My...
    ReplacedAxe ReplacedAxe 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    I fell in love with my best friend. I really shouldn't have. Especially since I dated her best friend, but I did. And I can't get over it. Everything about her is smart, and...
    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I get anxiety when I see him.. Even before I see him. Can't really look at him or carry a conversation. Always regret after how I act not too interested... but I'm sure he knows...
    Mira53 Mira53 36-40, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Omg...I really wanna see him right now...hug and kiss him...but I can't 😔
    Mamasita25 Mamasita25 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    ...3 days now that we have no communications...texted him many times, but no reply and his phone is off for 3 days but once a day he turn ON for few minutes, maybe to check my...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Jul 2

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    So I have a crush on this guy... he is amazing but he's really popular and currently has a girlfriend who is so, so pretty. She is really nice and it's so hard to hate her. I'm one...
    Dancergirl3 Dancergirl3 13-15 4 Responses Jul 2

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    I feel so down...I can't go to sleep...I miss him a lot...I couldn't see him this weekend...can't get him out of my mind...
    Mamasita25 Mamasita25 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    ​This summer, I am going on a guided study trip with some friends. I happen to like one of my friends (I fall for every guy taller than me), but something is hinting to me that...
    RadicallyGreen RadicallyGreen 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    ...trying to let go of him, but it's hurting me so much...can't bear the thought of not communicating with him at all...i'm so hurt...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I can't disconnect the person I think he is and who he really is.. I think I'm caught in what I think a relationship with him would be like. I feel like he'll be the first guy that...
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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