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I Love Someone I Know I Can't Have

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    Realisation

    so i broke up with my ex girlfriend more then a year ago, you can find a few stories about it on my profile. but i wanted to share a certain moment with you, that i might not have shared before. so we broke up, very emotional and stuff, i cried a bit. and the world kinda fell...
    phollon2 phollon2 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    Loved Him, Still Love Him!

     I remember when we met: Two kids crazy about life, he was not the full package but he was just perfect. He was crazy in his ways and lived life in an edge of thrill. We became high school sweet-hearts and after several years of wait in his behalf, we took the next step...
    Chalupa8 Chalupa8 26-30, F Aug 24, 2008

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    She Is Taken

    She makes me feel so alive when i am around her. When i am with her i feel so content and warm inside. People think i am needy i am not needy i am just in love with her and i don't think she is used to being shown so much love and affection, the people in her life have never...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Sep 30, 2013

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    Konstantine

    I cant imagine all the people that you know or the places that you go when the lights are turned down low and i don't understand all the things you've seen but I'm slipping in between you and your big dreams its always you and my big dreams and you tell me that its over...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2008

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    Obstacles

    Obstacles. He says this in response to my question. I know the answer. I don't know why I need him to say it. He has just read my mind again. The third time in succession. I'm feeling off. Have run to the store so I can talk to him away from ears that don't need to hear. Off...
    flowersinherhair flowersinherhair 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    Things I'll Never Say

    I'm tugging at my hair I'm pulling at my clothes I'm trying to keep my cool I know it shows I'm staring at my feet My cheeks are turning red I'm searching for the words inside my head [Pre-Chorus] (Cause) I'm feeling nervous Trying to be so perfect Cause I know you...
    Amandra Amandra 18-21, F Oct 21, 2012

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    42 And Foolish

    Get comfortable, this won't be short. I decided in 2010 to become a teacher after years in sales. After some substitute teaching I found I have a passion for special education students so I earned a master's in special education and a severe endorsement. I work with 18-22 year...
    foolishlover1970 foolishlover1970 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    It Feels A Life Away These Days

    It's not the simplest story to tell, but then again none of the stories on here are. Her name was Megan, I met her in my last year of high school. Later on she told me that she had been trying for a year to get my attention, still laugh at how I could have over looked someone...
    jfrost092 jfrost092 18-21, M Nov 7, 2012

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    Yeah - the Song Remains the Same

    Yeah - and I want him . So - why did I join this group??  Great question! I loved him  -  he didn't love me -- I let him go -- he came back -- I still see him. But I don't love him - or anyone.    
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F Nov 30, 2008

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    I Cry

    I cry because I love him. I can't tell him because I don't think he would understand. I don't honestly think he would care. He is with someone else, so even if he did care, it wouldn't matter. They are like together all the time. They run a business together. So I love him, and...
    angelbutterflies angelbutterflies 21-25, F 1 Response Feb 26, 2008

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    I'm not her type, and

    when i talk to her my heart breaks a little more, knowing i can't and never ever will have her
    futurediary futurediary 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    Daress Diss Boyy...

    His names Peterr.Im 15. He's 16. I kno im just a kid bt it still bothers me.Im romanian and we stuff kinda differnet.Ive been liken him for about 3 months.Idk why i do thoe.He use to just take me as a booty call and it really bothered me.But i still fell for em.He's goin out with...
    PenaGirl PenaGirl 16-17, F Oct 6, 2009

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    Ain't That Always How It Is?

    You always want what you can't have? I had so much fun with her. We could make entire days go by just sitting around watching movies and we'd have a blast. One of the funny things, I usually have a low tolerance for 'floating' people socially but with her, I always enjoyed...
    dedre dedre 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 13, 2009

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    Autumn That Year

    Autumn must be the most beautiful and romantic season of all, yet somehow mixes with a bit of sadness and sorrow. Whenever the word “autumn” appears, I would think about streets with yellow leaves falling, I would imagine myself walking under those streets; and I did, looking...
    zerohan zerohan 18-21, F Jan 13, 2012

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    She Says She Thinks She's Falling In Love With Me

    And I know I love her. She is married 5 years and I just dont think she will toss away 100's of friends and family for me. I am not even sure she should. I will have to tell her one day, that she should leave her husband and we should be together forever. I dont want to do it...
    happyman happyman 36-40, M Apr 4, 2008

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    I Always Want What I Cant Have...

    I love you so much that it hurts me to think we wont ever be. You see I have these visions... up in my head, I lay down in bed and the thoughts race through. I close my eyes and I envision how things could be between me and you. Your my best friend, I don't ever want us to end...
    Yourmydevilwithin Yourmydevilwithin 18-21 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    Cant Say Who

    I've had the opportunity to get to know quite a few people on this site and its been wonderful. I've gotten close to someone who I know cant be with me ever but can care about deeply at a distance. It stinks because there is a genuineness that he shows and he doesnt realize...
    GlitzyGirl22 GlitzyGirl22 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 21, 2010

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    ..distance will never separate me from loving the same man i can't have...i refused to let go and move on..i still want him to be part of my life and in everything i do..a wish of...
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    alexorn alexorn 22-25 Dec 9

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    It's a hard feeling to know that it won't happen yet knowing that loving them means you'll be there for them no matter what. I can't figure out how to shut off the pain.
    ProphetaMessias ProphetaMessias 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 5

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    MarimbaJake MarimbaJake 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    tommy21v tommy21v 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Littlemissshy7 Littlemissshy7 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    loverofthelight95 loverofthelight95 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Tonight was confusing... Talked to someone I never thought I'd really talk to again. I looked a mess, I was tired cold, and just overly exhausted. I was texting as I saw him walk...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    Let me begin with well I have a problem I like 2 girls at my school. And they are both friends and everyone is telling me to ask out of the the girls that I hang out with. But how...
    madison57 madison57 13-15, M Nov 26

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    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F Nov 26

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    She is a youtuber and she lives in Japan. I've been following her 5 months since she started making videos, which is around April 2011. It hurts so much, I want to touch her, kiss...
    Machipa Machipa 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    we work together and have for years and somewhere along the way I fell madly in love with her. We she started working with me she was just out of college and now 8 years later...
    jwt3333 jwt3333 22-25 1 Response Nov 20

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    I am in love with a girl. and i just cant stop thinking about her. i have lots of feelings for her and i am so attached to her. i dont know if i can live if i ever lose her...
    AngelLuvsBabyBlue AngelLuvsBabyBlue 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    It's been months since I've seen him, feels like years. Every single day I wake up and remind myself that he's not here, and it kills me. I might see him late next January, but...
    Nightingale73 Nightingale73 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    I met her for the fist time in 1998. I know a long time ago but that was when it started. We road the same bus to and from High school. She was the first lady to refuse my advances...
    Thanval Thanval 31-35, M Nov 23

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    I really love him so much. He's 25 years older and devoted to his wife. His wife is a lovely person. He's resisted me for years. We've grown closer over the last few months...
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    adeechloe adeechloe 13-15, F Nov 25

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    meximum meximum 36-40, M Nov 28

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