I Love Someone I Shouldn't

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    He Was The One

    Everyone has that person in their past who was The One That Got Away. Mine recently reappeared in my life and I am still reeling from it. PB and I dated for 3 years off and on in the early 90's. He was charming, witty, charismatic and extremely intelligent. We had the most mind...
    VogonPoetry VogonPoetry
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Oct 13, 2012

    I just cannot believe I did this to myself.

    I am in love, absolute 100% madly in love with my boyfriends of years now. BUT recently I started a new job, and I am falling for my co-worker. It was just a little crush and whatever I would get passed it. But its becoming more than that and I can't stop it. The worst part is I...
    NaiYoMie3 NaiYoMie3
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2014

    I fell for a married man.

    I'm afraid I'll never find somebody who makes me so happy or treats me like he does. His eyes tell me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me. Letting him go is the hardest thing I've ever done. I thought we had a future..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2015

    It Seems Impossible..

    All of it seems unreal. He's 16. I'm 13. He lives in England. I live in Canada. Our time zones are 4 hours apart. We live 3000 miles away from each other. There is an ocean between us. I can't think of one thing to make it harder. Today, he asked me to be his girlfriend. And I...
    123IMissYou321 123IMissYou321
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Aug 13, 2013

    Had a great day!!! sometimes I feel like I

    should be with the guy I just hung out with. We are so alike. But I'm in love with his best friend. :-/
    Lucietabell124 Lucietabell124
    18-21, F
    Jul 1, 2014

    And hearing his voice makes my heart skip a beat

    and break a little at the same time.
    ch3ll3 ch3ll3
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2014

    Crew can i ask u something my name is Antonio

    and im 13 Here is situation.Girls in my school hate me.I dont know why but they hate me. anyway I met one boy he is 13 too we played and kidding and do other stuff and after three moths of hanging outwith him he sad to me that he have interest for boys(bicurious) it was such...
    13agercuriosity 13agercuriosity
    13-15
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    Distance And Time

    I am in love with someone I shouldn't love and have been for over 10 years. This is kind of a big deal because I am only 27.In January of 2002 I was placed in a higher math class with the idea of getting into a good college. I was a junior. There was a boy. A dark and mysterious...
    sroverturf sroverturf
    26-30
    1 Response May 25, 2012

    I miss him so much...

    For about two and a half years I've tried so hard to keep up the charade of there being nothing there outside of me and my boyfriend of a year less than I've loved this guy. I care deeply for my boyfriend. When he and I are together I hardly think about anything other than him...
    Luca0 Luca0
    22-25, T
    Jul 20, 2015

    I love one of my best friends.

    We both have loved each other for years. I don't know what to do, we have never tried dating because we both have a bad track record. I would rather never be with him than risk hurting him. The problem is that I am in a serious relationship, and I feel like I am misleading my...
    dpool92 dpool92
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

    He lives in my neighborhood hez internet dude

    and he has a girl friend !! :((
    anasteel2 anasteel2
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2014

    I'm in love with my sister-in-law.

    She's younger than me, beautiful, funny and smart. She's great with my kids. I wish it wasn't so, my wife is wonderful, but whenever my SiL comes in the room my heart skips a beat.
    Bootlover621 Bootlover621
    41-45, M
    Oct 2, 2015

    i am begging to develop feelings

    for my friend's daughter. i feel terrible about it.
    jedh3 jedh3
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    I Don't Want to Love Him Anymore

    He isn't mine, he was for such a long time and in my mind of mind's he is. I have not felt that feeling of pure happiness since we went out separate ways. I shouldn't love him because he's is someone elses. We've hurt her in the past and I would never ever want to do it again...
    lulubelle12345 lulubelle12345
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Feb 6, 2007

    That's what they say,

    but they don't know about us. One Direction - They Don't Know About Us http://youtu.be/zIFo7jKH8tc You can tell people who not to love, but it doesn't work like that. Everybody keep loving those people you love <3
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    I've known her ever since she was born.

    Heck, she's almost like a little sister to me. But for some strange reason, whenever I'm around her, I just feel this urge for her, almost like I'm needing her. What's wrong about it is that she's 6 years younger than me (16) and it would feel really awkward to say anything to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 13, 2015

    After moving to the U.

    S., I met a man and fell in love. I was divorced for a few years and thought I would never again be in love, but I was. We were together for more than a year, but he drank so much. When he was not drinking, he was loving and kind, such a good man. When he drank, he became...
    Shampati Shampati
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    She is older than me.

    She lives several states away. She is in an unhappy, dead-end relationship. We were good friends for a long time. She talked me through some of the worst moments of my life. I didn't mean to fall in love -- it just happened, and she didn't stop me. Now I have to work through...
    Springfever78 Springfever78
    22-25, F
    Dec 10, 2013

    It's strange. There are far too many ways

    that we get on each other's nerves. He's crazy. I'm serious. He's worried about being "cool"....I couldn't care less. I've been pretty successful with my life goals at this point. He's still trying to find his way. (That last one gets to him more than me.) And we have tried...
    MercedesK MercedesK
    22-25, F
    Jan 2, 2015

    Someone Else's Husband

     You can't always control who you fall in love with. If I could control who I fell for I would definitely not have chosen to fall in love with someone's else's husband. It just happened. He was just so easy to love. We met here on ep. We were both trapped in troubled marriages...
    howsab howsab
    31-35, F
    7 Responses May 2, 2013

    I've never told anyone close to me.

    He'll never be mine but I wish he could just know. He needs to know he's the only person I've ever felt any sort of connection to. I would never want to break up his marriage I just can't seem to move past him. The way he makes me feel and the way he talks to me makes me feel...
    Justdez Justdez
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2014

    It is never wrong to love someone,

    but it's the way we love that makes it "wrong".
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 8, 2014

    Le Sigh

    I got to know him and fell for him. I fell so damn hard... I ached to see him and touch him and kiss him. It drove me nuts when I didn't see him. And from what he said, it was the same for him. Then I found out he's married. He's in the process of getting a divorce now. I don't...
    SmotherMe SmotherMe
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jul 6, 2010
    Jaycee04 Jaycee04
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2015

    I have this ex, he has ruined my life

    but i still love him slightly, i left him nearly a year ago and went into depression, and now taking anti depressants, he just messaged me telling me that he loves me and everything and that makes feelings come back for him and it makes me so sad. He also sent a picture of a...
    korsakris korsakris
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 29, 2014

    I miss him so much I can't stand it.

    I love him becauseI of the way he smiles. And the way he brightens my day when he talk to me. How comfortable he makes me feel even when I'm super awkward. The way he doesn't care about what ****** up things I've done or happened to me in the past. The way he smells so freaking...
    kaylaes52 kaylaes52
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2014

    I am in love with my best friend.

    It's impossible to happen. Especially because we fight a lot just being friends. I wish someone would understand
    Britt199b Britt199b
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 24, 2014

    Star-Crossed As Ever.

    I am married. It's not a real marriage, though. We still consider each other as boyfriend/girlfriend. We only got married because of the benefits it would bring us, and because it meant that he could move with me when my job relocated me. Our history is pretty simple. "David" and...
    boundblossom boundblossom
    22-25
    5 Responses Mar 10, 2013
    annonymous56 annonymous56
    16-17, F
    May 17, 2015

    He kissed me when I was 16

    and now, more than a decade later, I still get butterflies when I think about him. We dated for a short time at that age, and it ended as quickly as it started. Years went by. We dated other people, lived with serious boyfriends and girlfriends, moved to other cities and states...
    lostinlove0 lostinlove0
    31-35, F
    Oct 15, 2015

    so first of all, im already in a relationship.

    Ok so this is what happened, basically, i met them both at the same time, chatted with them at the same time and fell inlove with them both at the same time. Heres the thing, they like me too, but the other guy(lets call him Bryan), ok so bryan's kind of secretive, im actually...
    lalalalacrimosa lalalalacrimosa
    16-17, F
    Feb 18

    Cake Or Eat It?

    It's been weeks of no contact with my mistress and I'm hurting so bad on the inside. After having multiple affairs over the last few years, I wound up with a single woman 10yrs my junior that was everything I ever fantasies about. I never had any idea I could fall this way for...
    Surferdude7 Surferdude7
    41-45, M
    1 Response Oct 4, 2012

    I have a boyfriend already lets just start with

    that. He is kind, caring, and would do anything in the world to make me happy. He loves me for who I am and how i look and loves all my flaws with it. He is working so that one day we can live together at some point and he has already expressed he wants to marry me and have...
    lanaB96 lanaB96
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    Why Do I Love Her?

    There are so many things that aren't right with my secret obsession. My crush, the person I love so much, it kills me to be away from her. First off, it's a she, I'm a she. We're both girls. Secondly, she is my big sister. Even though I am adopted, and have no blood relation, we...
    Emolia Emolia
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Aug 15, 2012

    I've known this guy since I was 12 years old,

    he was my first kiss, and my first love. We've always had this crazy chemistry, but the timing for is was just never right. He's been my one closest truest friend, and I know I will love him no matter what. The problem is he just recently got engaged, just as he moved back to...
    mmgirl22 mmgirl22
    22-25, F
    Feb 23, 2014

    I Think I'm Falling For Someone I Shouldn't...

    I'm somewhat happily married... my husband and I married rather quickly after I left an abusive relationship. He feels so safe to me, in my mind he saved me from my ex-husband. It's so comfortable to me to feel taken care of, but I miss the passion. A month after I got married...
    jezebel8 jezebel8
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

    I Love My Stepmother

    No woman in this world ,turned me on or made me so horny as my stepmom. I would dream of her constantly, I still fantisize about her preety toes in pantyhose , and dream of making love to her
    Shinnyhosee23 Shinnyhosee23
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 30, 2012

    Married With Crush On Coworker

    I am falling hard for a coworker but I’m married with two children. I can’t say that I love my wife and I’m not sure I did when I married her. Marrying her just felt like the comfortable thing to do. We had been together for so long, since we were teenagers. If we didn...
    serendipity1998 serendipity1998
    31-35, M
    7 Responses Oct 3, 2012

    M

    Although started as an innocent way to explore my sexuality. Has now become a very important part of my life. This man has become more than just my online lover. I adore him. I look forward to his phone calls. Texts, emails. Howeve, he chooses to reach me. I shouldn't feel this...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    17 Responses Sep 27, 2012

    Is It Love Or Lust.

    This is crazy !! I am married with 4 children , i am a stay at home dad of 11+ years( love my job) lol. but I think I have feelings for another woman. Me and her talk when we are a around each other, we seek each other out to talk (sometimes alone and when we are with are...
    Maxroper Maxroper
    41-45, M
    8 Responses Nov 30, 2012

    This Might Be Wrong

    When I was 10 years old I was not into having crushes and boyfriends. One day I was at the park with my family and friends having a bbq. When my mom's friend calls her son on the phone and tells him to come to the park. I was helping my friend build a paper doll house when all of...
    Kinn23 Kinn23
    22-25, F
    Jul 6, 2013

    Volens-

    I wish I didn't notice how your face lit up when you were translating a latin word I wish I didn't read my old notebooks just to read your jokes that I'd written down (I always laughed too loud too long) I wish I didn't know you had kids- two in fact (six and...
    waiting8 waiting8
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 11, 2012

    I wish I didn't love him

    but I do. He's in love with someone else but he still says he loves me. I don't really know what to do anymore. It's exhausting loving him and knowing he at least has some feelings for me but he feels guilty acting on those feelings. We also did some naughty things but he just...
    kaylaes52 kaylaes52
    18-21, F
    Jun 25, 2014

    I loved someone who didn't love me

    and they wouldn't say one way or another allowing me to hurt even more!
    steve393 steve393
    46-50, M
    Jun 13, 2015

    DOES HE LOVE ME? I fell in love with a man

    who's married and 12 years older than me. I cannot stop thinking about him. The problem is I don't know if he loves me or not. I am afraid to ask him because I don't want to lose him even though I can see the same feeling from his eyes. Maybe I am just being naive and...
    Sherlinism Sherlinism
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

    My love isn't exactly love per say.

    It's more like a crush. But the difference is that this crush is painful and intense. I think about him wherever and whenever I am. Everything reminds me of him but he's a 7 year long friend of mine and im pretty sure he just thinks of me as a friend... i want to get over him...
    ARandomPanda202 ARandomPanda202
    26-30, F
    Oct 13, 2015

    That says it all.....

    I'm married
    soutahguy soutahguy
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 28, 2015
    Kitten2005 Kitten2005
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    So I realize this issue we have is not exactly

    something most would accept. Falling in love with your ex-husband's brother is awkward enough in itself I suppose without adding all the other things that make this complicated. For the sake of anonymity I'll call my brother in law Bill and my ex husband Ted. Also, this is...
    StupidProblem2Have StupidProblem2Have
    26-30, F
    Dec 31, 2013

    It's Not Obsession

    I'm so stupid that I still keep these feelings to stay the same. I re-read my old conversations whenever I miss him even if it's just killing me more and more, but what's wrong with that? I miss him, I miss him a lot. Is it really the best thing he can ever do? To separate me...
    HakujitsuSeiten HakujitsuSeiten
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2012
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