I Love Someone In Prison

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    Hi there! I'm new to this

    and I just hope I can have support from others. I've been reading some of you 'all stories, and I was so relief because I though I was the only "crazy one" (some people refer to us as crazy for being in love with an inmate)going thru this situation. Anyway, I'm from Texas and I...
    aimeecflores aimeecflores
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 9, 2015

    Always get negative people on these posting

    about my boyfriend in prison So annoying !
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Feb 15

    I can't say I'm the same

    as the other people that are probably in this group but I hold similarities. My love is not sexual but rather of a friend better than any I have ever had. An amazing, charismatic man who is honest and reasonable. Yet he is in prison because of being in the vicinity of a crime...
    Uku7777 Uku7777
    18-21, M
    Jan 15

    Looking forward to visitation he says he can't

    wait to see,hug,kiss,and smell me!!!! I adore this man:-)
    shonnie1982 shonnie1982
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 30, 2015

    my rough day ended beautifully.

    .. I received a letter in the mail from him... Just when I needed him most... he told me he was up thinking about me and just wanted to say he loves me... he thanked me for everything I was doing for him and his parents... he said he loves seeing and getting to touch me when...
    Poisoned0608 Poisoned0608
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Feb 19

    Everyone is entitled to there own opinion

    and what I choose to do is my choice and my problem. I can't stand for some of you to sit here and judge us because we choose to remain with our husband's(boyfriends) who are in prison. I love mines and I'm going to stick by him regardless(To death donus part). I should see more...
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 16

    I have been incarcerated

    and work in a prison reentry program. I am also owner of Prison CONversation which provides support and guidance to those people who are incarcerated and adult family members. Feel free to check out Prison CONversation.com and if I can help let me know
    foot15 foot15
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Mar 10

    it wasn't my lifelong dream to become a prison

    wife but it was a life long dream to find a man to make me happy...that dream came true and if his location isn't a issue for me don't make it a issue for you
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 9

    less than 24hrs to go

    and couldn't be happier :D :D :D I don't care if people have an opinion that once someone's been prison they'll keep going back because right now I've got high hopes, and if it doesn't work out no I won't be putting myself through this again but at least I can say I tried...
    J41LBIRD93 J41LBIRD93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2014

    if your relationship can make it through a

    prison term your relationship can make it through anything
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 9

    Got a letter today from my man saying he can

    get parole after 12 months of prison time. :) I'm so happy.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 15

    you know your a prison wife

    when u sleep on your pillow pretending it's his chest ...girls I kmow this journey hard and tough being alone but remember as much as u want n miss him he want and misses your to stay strong don't give up follow your hearts
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 9

    I know we all constantly miss our loved ones in

    prison but there comes a time day or night when we want them there right next to us sharing the moment and then you realize they aren't the only ones behind tall walls and feeling trapped. I was driving today and I wanted him there, moments like that, knowing he can't be there...
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 21, 2014

    so glad it's finally Friday

    and back to visit tomorrow I can't wait to see this man.... phone calls and letters r great but that physical contact is what does me in lol...I'm so in love w him and can't wait to hold him again... I hope this year Flys by I'm so ready to ave him in my arms full time and have...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 15

    I love my boyfriend with everything in me he's

    my bestfriend , therapist lol , personal chef , hair stylist ,protector everything you would want in a man he's got it .. I'm so over protective when it comes to him .. He going in soon and I'm trying to make every moment last and pleasant.. My Soulmate .. My first love ❤️
    ForYouIWillWait ForYouIWillWait
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2015

    good morning to all those prison wives

    and their families hope you all have a good day and hope all goes well for our loved ones inside as well....have a good day and stay safe
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 7

    The hardest thing I think to experience in life

    is to miss someone who you love, and no matter how hard you try to carry on with day to day life, nothing feels right, not eating, not living, anything without him.
    leavana0215 leavana0215
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 14, 2015

    inside you there is a power,

    there are ideas and thoughts, that Noone has ever thought of, there is the strength to love, purely and intensely, and to have someone love you back, there is power to make people happy, and to make people laugh, and to fall in love , to change lives and futures, don't forget...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Feb 22

    RIDE OR DIE.... it's more

    than a saying it's a way of life.when you love someone so much you are willing to accept their time as your own. despite how tough and long that road becomes... when you give it everything you got even though it seems easier to just give up.. when you sacrifice your own needs...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 9

    I love my bae we've grown a lot these past 4

    yrs ...I'm going to visit him in a few weeks.. no matter were this journey takes us he'll always be my bestfriend
    shonnie1982 shonnie1982
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2015

    I may be a prison wife

    but that don't make me desperate or ugly or lonely...I am strong independent and beautiful....because my husband wears stripes and yours wears a tie doesn't make your or him better...next time you judge ask yourself could I handle it ? over a year or more apart...sleepless...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 9

    don't judge me for my choices

    when u don't even understand my reasons
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Feb 19

    Thankful for this site I've met some amazing

    woman thank you for your messages and response let's continue to support each other....
    shonnie1982 shonnie1982
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    It really annoys me people just

    rather ask why he in jail/prison for and doesn't have nothing to do with my post? LOL None of your business if it doesn't concern you. LOL!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    Power to make own decesions Right to love

    who I want Inmates one n only Strong and loyal Overcoming obsticles Never giving up Women power Independent and focused Freedom awaits us Everyday phone calls
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 9
    bb1017 bb1017
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    Well I say for myself i meet this dude he is in

    prison too am stucking it with him love him so much i meet him last year is going almost one year 9mths we getting married soon got haters dont give a **** what one said about us still standing strong
    sexymomma31 sexymomma31
    31-35
    4 Responses May 18, 2015

    My boyfriend of a 1 year

    and two months is leaving any day now ... I am numb to the situation and try to block it out my memory . How do I cope with this transition that will happen soon .. He didn't commit the crime when he was with me it was a pending charge from two years ago ..
    ForYouIWillWait ForYouIWillWait
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 16

    goodnight to all my prison wives out there

    and gnite to my bby that I miss so much had a great visit w him today...hope everyone is keeping their heads up and doing ok..goodnight everyone and the prisoners too sleep tight sweet dreams
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 18

    So for the last six years my baby has had his

    visits behind a glass. Yesterday he called and told Me that he would come from behind the glass in the next two months. I am so excited !!!!!! I can't wait to touch my baby! love him so much
    charXo3 charXo3
    18-21, F
    Jul 1, 2015

    I started recording me

    and my boo's phone conversations it helps when the prison is on lock down and we can't talk...
    shonnie1982 shonnie1982
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    this goes to everyone

    that thinks people in rison should b avoided ....just because someone makes a bad choice at a bad.moment in the life does not change what or who they are...we all make mistakes and it sucks that people get as long as time as they do in prison sometimes for things they have done...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    Haven't post in awhile ,

    But my boyfriend just got release from Seg and got transfer to a new prison :) so he isn't in his cell for 24/7 all day.. Now he can get into the welding program That they offer :) Just two more years until parole reviewing :) Trust in his parole attorney !
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 13

    I wish I could see him :/ missing him

    so much lately! Hope everyone else is staying strong and doing well! Have a great day 😊
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO
    26-30, F
    6 Responses May 10, 2014

    Idk if I'm weird or not ,

    I still have me and my boyfriend text messages in my phone and old voicemails . I don't get to talk to him on the phone or nothing just letters . It sucks . I just love re-reading our old text messages Ugh lol
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2015

    i'm so in love with him.

    i've been in love with him before he's been locked up, i love him now & i'll continue to love him when this is all over. i just got off the phone with him & i'm like a little ******* kid smiling from ear to ear. doing this is so hard, so you gotta be one strong ************ for...
    mustbeskrong mustbeskrong
    18-21, F
    Feb 23

    Only God knows my journey

    and god knows our journey .. I plan to stay at the feet of the most high God while my man does his time I'm ready to wait I'm ready to support him im ready . I feel a over amount of strength knowing that God is going to be with me through it all and is going to give me strength...
    ForYouIWillWait ForYouIWillWait
    22-25, F
    Jul 3, 2015

    Passing Judgement

    Before you pass judgement on why we are in love with our men, I must say that you need to look in the mirror and be thankful that you are not in their shoes. Because I know you have made mistakes just as we have and for the most part, they were caught and you weren't. If God...
    yjflowers14 yjflowers14
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 6, 2013

    Waiting... I Wish He Could Come Home...

    I wish today were sunday and he'd call me at his regular time... I wish I could hug him and tell him everything will be fine.. I wish I could see him smile and kiss my lips again I wish for the sun to shine for us and life to be right once more.. I wish he could just come home...
    cmorton557 cmorton557
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 26, 2013

    Advice please... I'm new to the group

    and I just wanted to know how do some of you ladies cope or deal with your spouse being in prison.. My husband is serving 8 years and its killing me and I don't know how to cope or even be strong in this situation.
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 11

    My husband is "away".

    I have no one to talk to. No one understands. I don't know who I can or cannot trust. I want to talk about him and tell the world how much I love and miss him. But if I talk about him, I have to explain the situation. Then I get judged. I truly love him. I miss him so...
    MissbeingMrs MissbeingMrs
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Jan 25, 2015

    ladies remember what you have with him is worth

    it, it is worth every lonely night and every tear u cry when u miss him, and the pain u feel when you don't have him close....it is worth it because he is most likely your one and only.when u picture ur future and your life ahead u see only him..no matter how painful the...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 9

    Excited getting married to my boyfriend this

    weekend 😊 I know it's not going be the dream wedding that I want .. But it doesn't matter . I know once he gets out he promise he going give me the dream wedding that I want and the ring I want because I deserve it 😜 #3moreyear until parole 😊
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 16, 2015

    it's not that I truely love waiting

    but it's the person that I'm waiting for that I truly love.....
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Mar 9

    hope all u ladies r ok today I know alot of

    ladies may be going threw hard times in this journey in their lives but if u know where your heart belongs and it's where it is right now then the journey at the end will b more than worth it ... stay strong remember stay busy and keep your heads up
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 18
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 16

    I'm In Love With An Inmate

    Hi there. I am new to this website. I did not know my love met him off a pen pal site. I have fallen in love and we have many plans when he does get released. Hes in there for a dug trafficking charge. He got 10 years. He has served almost 6. He is up for parole in...
    tyreenswifey79 tyreenswifey79
    31-35
    16 Responses Mar 6, 2012

    I just wanted to say Hello to all the ladies

    keep your heads up and stay strong our men are blessed to have us...I know some days are better than others trust,believe, and stand on faith...Hugs to you all and enjoy your 4th July: -)
    shonnie1982 shonnie1982
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2015

    hit my messages if you need someone to talk

    to/support. my mans been down 3 and a half months and I know it's hard babygirl but I'm here for yall 😘💖
    bekaaa bekaaa
    18-21
    Feb 13

    well had a weekend of seeing my baby at visit .

    .was good to see him ...I know it's hard for all us prison wives and families but stay strong everyone everything happens for a reason... it's hard I've been doing 6 years and it never gets easier ...just keep,ur heads up n stay strong good luck everyone n good night
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Feb 8

    LOVEEE IT :) Makes me happy !

    !! I miss & love my Boyfriend so much !
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    just talked to my love I will have sweet dreams

    tonight!!!! I love me some him....keep your head up ladies.... gn
    shonnie1982 shonnie1982
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    I just got back from a great visit w my bby.

    ..I love that man w all my heart and I just feel on cloud nine when I'm in his presence I forget everything at that moment I fall more and more in love w him as days pass and everytime I get to see him reassures me of why I fell in love and how lucky I am .... I hope everyone is...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 16

    today is a little rough.

    .. I miss him so much that I want to scream... I'm holding back my tears... I feel like breaking down...
    Poisoned0608 Poisoned0608
    51-55, F
    1 Response Feb 18

    good day today took my babies to the snow

    and got to send my baby pics so he could feel like part of the fun...he doesn't want us to hold back on our lives because he is there so that's y every lil thing we do I take pics and send to him and write a journal of our day...he called while we were there and got to b in on...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    Jan 18

    I miss my uncle and I'm kinda proud of him.

    he went in for alleged murder of his wife which he apparently didn't do and most people can vouch that. he just didn't want a representation by a lawyer, he admitted to it at later stages of the case, was found guilty of first degree murder and went in for life without parole. I...
    dollarsigns dollarsigns
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 8
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