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I Love Someone In Prison

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    My boyfriend has a year left

    if everything goes the way we want..seems so soon but still a bit of time
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Waiting Is A Lonely Game

    I dont really know were to start. I fell in love with an old flame, who i went to high school with some time ago now! I found him on a well known web site, an got in touch with him. I was so happy to have found him again! We went out together for dates, it was great. I soon found...
    toria28 toria28 26-30, F 41 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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    Love Locked Down

    So about 6 months back I was doing my normal workout at my gym when I met the most interesting, sweetest woman. We began talking and somehow got on the topic of dating and ex's. Then she proceeds to mention her son and how she think he would like me. All I kept thinking was I...
    Tigraa Tigraa 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2013

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    Soulmate

    I was looking for a pen pal and found a website called writeaprisoner.com. I wasn't even considering writing someone, but his profile was really amazing and I sent him a message. I had no hope that he'd respond. However, a month later, just when my grandfather had passed away...
    Mcneil Mcneil 18-21, F Nov 10, 2013

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    Its 3am and cant sleep.

    I got my call from my man last night and the probation officer will be phoning me today or if not she wants to see me when I go up for my visit today. The welfare officer also wants to see him. He's due out on the 1st March but it's looking like he could be home a lot sooner. I...
    sofinuim sofinuim 46-50 1 Response Jan 20

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    It's 4:40 am and I really hate I went to bed

    early b/c now I'm wide awake. Oh well, what is a woman to do? Ummm...write my baby! What a great way to past time. I love him so much, he's my happiness! What would I do without him in my life! He's the only man that truly completes me. K&R
    LonelyHeart817 LonelyHeart817 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    Days like today Katy perry helps - I will love

    you unconditionally ! It's time to just let time pass il always be here(:
    arieesimone arieesimone 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    His Voice

    There are several things I don't like about having a man in prison. One of the most hated things is the constant anticipation. When it's our days to talk. My day is sooo looong. I go through several emotions and I grow agitated. As the evening nears i have to find stuff to do...
    lovemesomehim lovemesomehim 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    Ugh

    I need some girls to talk to who understand how I'm feeling. I have no one going through the same thing as me. He is in for at least a year prob 2. For robbery and assault. I can't do anything about him being in jail but I love him and will stick by him. I am completely totally...
    skyeinfinity skyeinfinity 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I'm In Love With An Inmate

    Hi there. I am new to this website. I did not know my love met him off a pen pal site. I have fallen in love and we have many plans when he does get released. Hes in there for a dug trafficking charge. He got 10 years. He has served almost 6. He is up for parole in...
    tyreenswifey79 tyreenswifey79 31-35 7 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    True Love Behind Bars

    I know what some of you might be thinking, "Can someone find true love in prison?" I say it's possible but not for all. I meet charlie 14 years ago through a prison pen pal site. We wrote each other weekly and in a month he fell in love with me and asked me to be his girl I told...
    goddessangelluv goddessangelluv 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    ...that moment when you forget to turn ur

    ringer back on, I did that and I missed my honeys call earlier today! Feeling frustrated...I love hearing his voice, haven't seen him in months so I long for his calls! About to get on Jpay to send an email informing him to please call me ASAP!!!! Missing my baby....
    LonelyHeart817 LonelyHeart817 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I feel in love with my best friend

    after being friends for two years I do everything make sure he has money on his books money on the phone make his day we talk everyday we have a lot of plans together im just a lil worried he's not jail talking to me because I'm deeply in love with this man he did everything for...
    cmoney203 cmoney203 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Love!!!!!

    I find it so crazy each day makes me and my love get closer and closer.. He been locked up for 11 months now and we have years to go.. Sometime I find it hard but when you love someone so much you up your all in... And am in this for the rest of my life... He finally ready to get...
    Jenjuice Jenjuice 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    My god brother is in prison

    and although we never got to date when he was home, I turned him down so many times. But now that he's away I'm realizing my love and the connection we have. We have known each other since I was 2 he was about 5. And we have so much in common. I love him he is my Bestfriend, my...
    hishalf hishalf 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Him & I

    Well me and my man have been together coming up on a year soon. Our story isn't story book by many but it's our love story none the less. I met him playing around on line as a joke with my friends. He was passing through my city doing the same. When I first saw his picture, he...
    lovemesomehim lovemesomehim 31-35, F Jul 28, 2013

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    I love the man he's becoming

    for us! There's not a day that goes by that im not madly in love with the love of my life!
    jdbatts495 jdbatts495 18-21, F Jan 19

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    Happy (:

    Saturday I went to go see my man :) He is allowed to a 2 hour contact visit. I love the Jail he is in right now everything seems so fast & easy also it is only 45 mins away. I am still smiling those 2-hours mean the world to me & will keep my spirits up for the rest of the week...
    ximena210 ximena210 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2013

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      I am new here.

    I have been writing to a guy in prison for 3.5 years. We met through a Christian pen pals website. I have liked him a lot for a very long time and found out last week that he likes me and asked me to start a relationship. I don't know what to do
    srhevans srhevans 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    Hoping My Love Gets Early Release

    Missing my lover and praying he gets out in the next 3-5 months! I cannot wait to spend a day with him! I went and met his grandma for the first time. She really liked me. I really see me and him working when he gets out. This long wait has been such a struggle but I honestly...
    Candimarie91 Candimarie91 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    Passing Judgement

    Before you pass judgement on why we are in love with our men, I must say that you need to look in the mirror and be thankful that you are not in their shoes. Because I know you have made mistakes just as we have and for the most part, they were caught and you weren't. If God...
    yyomi10 yyomi10 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    He Is My Soulmate

    HE MAKES ME LAUGH, HE MAKES ME DREAM, HE MAKES ME APPRECIATE LIFE AND ALL THAT GOD HAS BLESSED ME WITH. HE PRAYS WITH ME EVERY TIME WE TALK ON THE PHONE. HE SINGS TO ME. I MET HIM SEPTEMBER 14, 2013 AND TO BE HONEST, WHEN WE TALKED ON THE PHONE, IT'S LIKE WE KNEW EACH OTHER...
    yyomi10 yyomi10 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    I met my guy Sept '08

    and we started as friends with benefits. It only lasted a few months but we stayed friends. He got engaged to this girl because she was his twins best friend. His brother was killed in a car accident and instead of his girl being their for him she pushed for him to get married...
    mzladypk mzladypk 46-50, F Jan 20

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    Love Story 20 Years In The Making!

    My guy and I have known each other for over 20 years, since we were kids. We have a 16 year old daughter together but went our separate ways when she was 6 (my choice) We were so in love with each other but not really mature enough to do anything about it. Well fast forward a...
    Bamagurl711 Bamagurl711 36-40, F May 11, 2013

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    I Never Knew Love, Until I Met My Prison 'pen Pal'

    Crazy Story....A guy I was seeing that had been in prison asked me to write a "friend" he had that was still in prison.  He said I was a nice girl, and they this guy and I would probably get along, and this guy had no family or friends near him, therefore could "use" a pen pal...
    Amylynn0582 Amylynn0582 26-30 9 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    Our Convos

    Our conversations are always great, from then til now, he never stops calling me. My man who had been in prison for 5 years, he loved calling me and talking to me. Every conversations we had were always different, it was always positive. Sometimes when I'm not in a good mood, he...
    Bonita26 Bonita26 22-25, F Nov 2, 2013

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    My husband received a 5 year sentence.

    I never thought I would be in this situation. I'm scared nobody understands what we go through as women who love someone in prison. I have been looking for some sort of support groups in my area I have yet to find any. If any one knows of any please let me know thank you.
    hpmartinez hpmartinez 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    The Begining Of Forever

    I finally met my fiance in May of 2008. He and my brother had been doing time together for quite a few years and were cell mates for most of those years. Back in 2000 he had wrote me and i wrote back a few times but I was young and didn't keep in touch. Over the years I had heard...
    kissesintherain0723 kissesintherain0723 26-30 6 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    Back Together

    When I was 14 years old I met my first love, I got pregnant, I was not allow to have this baby .I was all alone my parents made my boyfriend get out of my life, he was 4 years older than me. They wanted to call the cops on him. Which I had no clue, I just thought he left cause I...
    MariaBell1003 MariaBell1003 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2013

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    I forget how lucky I am,

    as I sit here feeling it cos I didn't get my call tonight. I am so greatful that I hear his voice 9 nights out of 10 and I appreciate that it is not the same for everyone and I spare a thought tonight for all you out there who only hear their mans voice once a week. Have a...
    sofinuim sofinuim 46-50 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    I'm dating a prisoner,

    we have been together for 6 months, he'll be released in Feb, but I'm so scared people will find out before he is released. And this will change their opinions of him. I've tried to keep our relationship a secret, but we're so in love and so it gets harder and harder every day.
    Onedin Onedin 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Fam(Ily) Is Everything An Faith Is All I Had

    My name is music ... An im so excited my fiancé is coming home !!! He Literally Has two Weeks Left After A 3 1/2 year bid ... Wow where do I began , ill Start by Saying it wasnt easy .. But i believe with everything in me that it will be worth it ... Going into this bid with my...
    musicbarbie musicbarbie 26-30 1 Response Nov 17, 2013

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    A family friend I have known my entire life has

    bin in prison for about 3 years the most he has left is 5 years I have loved him my whole life how do I go about being in such a relationship ?! He doesn't know it but means everything too me
    arieesimone arieesimone 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    We finally are one...

    .Our covenant to each other and to our father, God. Thank You Jesus...Mr and Mrs
    yyomi10 yyomi10 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Tonight is one of those nights

    that I miss my baby. Feeling slightly lonely...I cnt wait for Jan. 31, 2014 to get here, I can start back seeing the love of my life. I thank God he's only an hour away! --missing him so much right now-- --I guess I will write him a letter-- K&R
    LonelyHeart817 LonelyHeart817 36-40, F Dec 17, 2013

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    Im 21 years old ive known my love

    for my hole life. We got together back in aug 2011 I was preggo for my first child who wasnt his but he was there for everything. My sons ***** donor doesnt want him. my love did he was there for his birth he is his daddy in our eyes he is his son. Me and him been threw hell and...
    Dianna21 Dianna21 18-21, F Feb 5

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    My Time....

    My time has been spent poorly these past days. I live for the phone calls to hear his voice, those damn 15 minutes! I have learned to hate the recorded lady who tells us we only have 60 seconds left and rudely interrupts a thriving conversation! I get annoyed with other inmates...
    SweetsWife311 SweetsWife311 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    I Am Frustrated!!! -for Better?...for Worse?

    For better or for worse, that’s the commitment that women who involved themselves with men in prison make. It’s kind of a given, considering the obvious. Well even though things could be worst things have definitely been better. I have been very positive up to this point but...
    lovemesomehim lovemesomehim 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    Love/Hate Relationship

    Me and my boyfriend had a love hate relationship... Last year in June he did something stupid and then went on the run for couple of month ...back in jan of dis year they caught him... He been in jail for 11 months now and he just got sentence to a lot of years... And these 11...
    Jenjuice Jenjuice 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    We met online and spent the night under the

    stars and he stole my broken heart that night. A few months later he called and told me he had to go turn himself in. With him in county was not to bad we got video visits but he got moved out to the yard and it has been over a month since I have seen him. I miss him like crazy...
    MissW0lfy MissW0lfy 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Waiting,,,To Exhale.. Waiting For Life To Begin Again...

    I know I'm not the only one. I don't want to come across as being overly needy or unable to stand my own. I'm a strong person. Usually, I'm a fighter and I won't back down until I get what I was after. I usually have a tougher attitude. It usually is hard to get under my skin...
    cmorton557 cmorton557 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    I feel that some people don't understand me at

    all!!! I feel like screaming everytime I hear that I should leave my man cause he in prison for a long time!!! No one know the love we have for each other!!! What type of woman I would be to walk away from someone you needs me the most? I wish people would just leave me alone...
    Jenjuice Jenjuice 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    Like I said I have bin in love with this guy

    for my whole life I recently got back I touch with him and have bin more than happy every since it's weird I don't get to see him because the most he has is another 5 years I have no problem staying by his side we have big age difference but it doesn't matter to me i get upset...
    arieesimone arieesimone 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Waiting... I Wish He Could Come Home...

    I wish today were sunday and he'd call me at his regular time... I wish I could hug him and tell him everything will be fine.. I wish I could see him smile and kiss my lips again I wish for the sun to shine for us and life to be right once more.. I wish he could just come home...
    cmorton557 cmorton557 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    We Are Getting Stronger

    EVERYDAY WE TALK, WE ARE GETTING MORE STRONGER. I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS MAN. YES, HE HAS A PAST BUT SO DO I. NOBODY IS SAYING THIS WILL BE EASY BUT IT WILL BE WORTH IT. I FOUND THE MAN I HAD BEEN DREAMING ABOUT SINCE I WAS A LITTLE GIRL. I KNOW THIS BECAUSE I FEEL IT IN...
    yyomi10 yyomi10 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    Created Diseaster

    I find myself constantly going through my phone just looking for that one person to talk too...that one person I know will genuinely care about what I will have to say. I go through all 100 contacts and can't even click one, knowing that by the time I finish a text or let the...
    SweetsWife311 SweetsWife311 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    Lasting love

    My fiance and I have been together since November of 2011 & engaged since February 2012. He was arrested a week after our engagement and it has been a crazy journey since that day. I'm still very much in love with him & that will never change. I believe that he will get that...
    teriaboo teriaboo 18-21 Oct 29, 2013

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    An Artist Journey: 23 Years In Prison

    “If you see me walking down the streets, and I start to cry each time we meet…walk on by” Isaac Hayes- Walk on By 1996 Cooped up in my cell while lying on my bunk bed, I watched the final scene of Dead...
    idletimeart idletimeart 41-45, M Jan 15, 2013

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    New At Prison Love

    Hello Ladies, I'm New To This Prison Love.  My Brother Asked Me Could I Write His Celly And I Said Okay SInce There Is Nothing Wrong With a "PEN PAL" So We Started Writing Each Other Getting To Know And  We're Now Bestfriends I Also Found Myself Falling In Love With...
    MrsCali1126 MrsCali1126 22-25, F 11 Responses Oct 12, 2010

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    It's not that I loved someone, but that I currently love someone who doesn't feel the same. We dated almost 2 years ago, and he was just so perfect. I actually thought that maybe...
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    I loved someone that didn't loved me. He used to chat on me everyday. He used to tell me 'goodnight' evernight. He played guiter for me. He gave the big doll to me. He talked to...
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    Even til this day my feelings are so strong for him... I loved him, I love him but looking back it's pretty clear that the feelings are not mutual he must have stayed with me out...
    LadyMayah LadyMayah 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    Recently in my life, I've been knocked back. Again. I love someone, yes love, who I've seen a lot of recently, it's hard anyway because they live near me. Awkward. So I've devoted...
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    I remember when I went through this the worst feeling ever. When you love someone and give them your all and the treat you like a piece of **** in return. I'm blessed that I have...
    jsabree18 jsabree18 18-21, F Apr 7

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