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I Love Someone Who Doesn't Love Me Back

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 116 People

    It's Not Love, But It's Pretty Damn Close

    I met "Kristy" over a year ago. She and I became best friends. She had a group of friends that she introduced me to, and I became pretty chill with all of them. Then she introduced me to "Peter". The second I saw him I knew he was going to be my next obsession. He was of average...
    GCLUVUHYEAH GCLUVUHYEAH 16-17, F Jan 7, 2011

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    Hopeless Since 4th Grade

    At first, I didn't know what it was. You never do, really. All I can remember is the butterflies slamming against my stomach, my heart racing at the tiniest glance of him. It was this way, him not even noticing me, me staring at him shyly, for a year. And then we went to middle...
    spsophie spsophie 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2012

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    Platonic Sad Love Story

    For me it's been 7 damn months since I know this guy and I have tried so hard to get him to love me back . we used to work together and we've been on and off since we first met . I have done anything a girl can do for a guy and he still wants to take it slow. he calls me like...
    Neginemz Neginemz 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    In Love With My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    It's really not as bad as it sounds. Yes, I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend but there's a lot behind it. I've known him for a little over a year, while she's known him for a few months less. She basically figured out who he was because I, her best friend, had been into...
    Nicoletaylor12 Nicoletaylor12 16-17, F Oct 28, 2012

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    Missteps Every sideways glance,

    Every corner-of-the-eye view I steal of you Digs me deeper, Makes more real The brutal, unbeautiful Truth that is my Every Day: I love you more than you may ever say Of me. "When the eyes say one thing, and the tongue another, A practiced man relies on the language of the first...
    embr1233 embr1233 31-35, F Jul 8, 2014

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    June 16th

    He and I texted for a few hours around ten. Great conversation. Walked from my sister's swim meet to his house close to five. He and I watched a film of which I cannot recall the name. These were my first expectations. The first of these rancid, never-to-be dreams that drag me...
    thekidonthepiano thekidonthepiano 22-25, M Jun 17, 2011

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    It All Began Summer Of 08'

    A friend of mine told me about this guy she knew. She thought I might like him. I was staying in Texas for the summer and she gave me his IM address so we could chat. The night before I left town, we finally had a chance to talk. I was sad to be leaving because it meant I would...
    onesadgirl onesadgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2010

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    I Wish The Feelings Were Mutual..

    ive liked the same guy for about 3 years now, im 16 and hes 20 alot of people will think the age difference is a bit big but 1. when you love somebody you dont care, and 2. long term, 4 years aint that much. when i first met him he acted more like an older brother to me; picking...
    TheDinosaurGoesRoar TheDinosaurGoesRoar 16-17, F May 8, 2011

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    I am totally in love with this man

    but he has made it clear from the beginning that he doesn't want a relationship, we have been sleeping together for almost a year now and I am pregnant. He says he doesn't want anything to do with it. What a ***. Feeling like **** but I kno what I need to do.
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    It Turned Out Terribly

     I fell in love with a very close friend of mine.  I knew that I loved her for over 7 months before I cracked and told her She didn't believe me at first, she thought it was all a joke because I am a girl to. But I told her the sincerest truth -That I love her I had...
    stareyed stareyed 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2009

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    An Impossible Love

    My name is Pavii. Her name is Stela. I am fourteen and she is twenty. You already have two of the reasons that could stay between us, even if she loved me back which is true only in my dreams. I first saw her gorgeous eyes this summer and I fell in love with her the first second...
    MissPJ MissPJ 18-21, F Feb 9, 2012

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    He Never Knew

    Ever since I was thirteen I liked a guy in school. At first it was sort of a crush but as i got older and the year went by I liked him more and more. Since our school is a combination of middle school and high school I knew him just for that. It started out when I joined jazz...
    lapcat95 lapcat95 16-17, F Aug 11, 2011

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    I Know He Doesn't Feel The Same Way

    I am so in love with this boy, my brother knows him and they sometimes (but rarely) hang out. This boy is cute, chatty and loves a good laugh (like me!) but he smokes dodgy stuff and I think he doesn't have great personal hygiene. I'm not being horrible but he comes from a rough...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 28, 2012

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    If Only I Could Tell...how He Felt

    I've sadly had my eye on the same guy since I was 10. We met during a sledding accident and that's when I found out that he actually lived across the alley from my house. His brother had ran me over and he came running to my rescue. He helped me to my house and told my mother...
    lovebites10 lovebites10 13-15, F Jul 22, 2011

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    My Goodbye Letter

    One day this past summer, in early September, I was on my way to class and made a sudden right turn onto the turnpike and headed towards the beach. I made the 20 minute drive to the shore, parked my car, and sat in the parking lot just starring into the bushes that hid the view...
    ThQnOfHrts16 ThQnOfHrts16 22-25, F 13 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    Broken Heart

    I knew a guy on internet. I love him and I paid for his flights to come here. I rent a house for him and after couple months he moved in my place and stayed with me. I supported all he needs and finance here and not ask for return. But, he always took off when things got...
    mesweet mesweet 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    In Love With Someone Who Doesn't Love Me.

    So here it goes! I'm totaly in love with a guy who doesn't love me back!! I'm not blowing my own trumpet but I'm quite an atractive girl and the guys seem to love me! I work as a health care assistant in the hospital when a patient came onto my ward after a really bad car...
    Molly91 Molly91 18-21 1 Response Feb 19, 2012

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    You Say You Love Me.....

    you say you love me..... but you don't Y.Y if you truely loved me you wouldn't of done what you did.... you would've stayed loyal and you wouldn't try to hurt me like you do, and depite your lies i still love you. I love you so much, but i know that you don't love me the same, if...
    turtlefudgecakes turtlefudgecakes 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2011

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    I Though She Was The One

    When I was a bit younger I fell madly in love with a girl whom I had gone to school with for a few years, I let her know (after getting to know her and a bit of flirting) and she admitted she felt the same. So we decided to start dating, going to movies and such. It was...
    SocialMisfit SocialMisfit 26-30 2 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    Alex.....

    It started on the first day of seventh grade it was a new school and I knew one person, my best friend Amelia. We were talking by our lockers and I saw this guy and my mouth dropped and I nudged Amelia and asked her who he was ( she knew like everyone) so she was like oh that's...
    Musicgirl1012 Musicgirl1012 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2011

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    For a long time I was in love with someone who wasn't in love with me but now I'm over it, I have learned that people who act like they don't care about you it's because they truly...
    Marlenyfl83 Marlenyfl83 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    When does this end? I mean, I thought I was moving on and getting over this but tonight I drove by her house and there she was, sitting on the front porch. I don't think she saw it...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    :( besides having a loved one die has to be the most challenging and emotionally crushing thing ever. To be in the same place as someone who almost hates you. And for what? I haven...
    jussme91 jussme91 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    So, i mean yes i am in love. I don't want to be in love, i really wish i could stop wanting to be around him. He is shy, and kinda weird and awkward, but i men so am i. I go to a...
    isabellajamison isabellajamison 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    It started with her name. She was a friend of a friend, and when her name was first mentioned I remember thinking: “*****, that is a gorgeous name.” It would be a while before...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M a week ago

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    I wish my face was good enough for you.... Pretty enough. I wish my body was good enough for you.... Perfect enough. I wish my personality was good enough for you...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F Jan 1

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    I'm not in the mood for anything. I basically feel like **** right now. But a few weeks ago when I thought about him I felt nothing and everything was fine. Now all of a sudden I...
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Two semesters ago, there was this boy and this girl that always shared a seat on the bus. They would share food and their drinks together every morning. I thought it was sweet...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    And the thing that bothered the most wasn't what she did. How she used me for emotional comfort and nothing else. No. What bothered me most was all family and and friends (except...
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    We have all been in this spot at one point or another with someone who isn't that into you, but you are for them. Painful certainly but the question is how do we let the pain...
    LJformarriedwomen LJformarriedwomen 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 6

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    One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life, That word is Love ! Only love let's us see normal things In an extraordinary way. Love is not a matter of counting...
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M 15 hrs ago

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    I have a LOT to reveal about my relationship with my long distance boyfriend. I need ADVICE!!! So if you can, please read this. Thank you for your time. My boyfriend gave me the...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    so well I'd just moved into a new house and my dog went missing, the neighbors had found her and he was standing outside my dog and his son who is 24. me and mum started talking...
    GeorgiaRhodes GeorgiaRhodes 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    My 4 month affair ended suddenly when his wife discovered he had been chatting online with other people, mostly from Craigslist personals. I too found this out and confronted him...
    catsanddogs25 catsanddogs25 31-35, F Jan 13

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    Love doesn't always have to be romantic. Loved friends. Not loved back. Love my mother, sure she doesn't love me back.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Jan 14

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    I still think about her every once in awhile. How she completely destroyed my trust in women. Being led on and used wouldn't have been so bad if she wasn't everything that I...
    CloseButNoGuitar CloseButNoGuitar 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's strange. There are far too many ways that we get on each other's nerves. He's crazy. I'm serious. He's worried about being "cool"....I couldn't care less. I've been pretty...
    MercedesK MercedesK 22-25, F Jan 2

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    I gave you my heart, I gave you my soul, I gave you my life, my love, you stole. I never poured my heart out to anyone as much as I did for you. I did things for you, I said things...
    LonelyAJ LonelyAJ 18-21, M 10 Responses Jan 11

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    I just told my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years It was over because she tries to please her mother and me and we are different like today is her day off and she told me last night she was...
    lovebelts lovebelts 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I have loved him for like 14 years. We're both single now and I'm afraid he doesn't love me back (i guess). All i did was to shut my feelings cause i don't want to ruin the...
    moonchildd moonchildd 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    Gaaah. I ****** up is what I did. I broke up with him after I moved away for school because I thought that it would be easier to end it than let the distance make it fall apart...
    forbidden19 forbidden19 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Well... It's my mom. She does love me, but she doesn't believe in God and she doesn't show she loves me. She never kisses me or hugs me. I do my best to love her, and i do a great...
    juliettecf juliettecf 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    My girlfriend and I, we have been together for 3 months now and I feel like she doesn't love me. She says she loves me but that she doesn't believe in love so... I'm a bit lost...
    LovingBands LovingBands 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    I miss my ex girlfriend. She was my first love and we haven't spoken in over a year. I find it pretty so heartbreaking that I'm so young and already feel that she is going to be...
    smokebombtom smokebombtom 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 3

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    No matter how hard I tell myself not to fall for her my heart is telling me the complete opposite. Each day I see her I fall deeper in love with her. She's in an on and off again...
    YouDaOne23 YouDaOne23 18-21, F Jan 7

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    I'm in love with someone who thinks I'm a pysco. We had a long distance relationship and he was my first. Hes 12 years older than me. I am still hurting and I have tried my best to...
    kpweant1 kpweant1 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 10

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    I love her with all my heart. She says she loves me too, but she won't commit to seeing me, because she doesn't know what she is doing on the day I asked to come see her. That...
    mortaritaville07 mortaritaville07 41-45, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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