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I Love Someone Who Doesn't Love Me Back

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    In Love With My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    It's really not as bad as it sounds. Yes, I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend but there's a lot behind it. I've known him for a little over a year, while she's known him for a few months less. She basically figured out who he was because I, her best friend, had been into...
    Nicoletaylor12 Nicoletaylor12 16-17, F Oct 28, 2012

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    It All Began Summer Of 08'

    A friend of mine told me about this guy she knew. She thought I might like him. I was staying in Texas for the summer and she gave me his IM address so we could chat. The night before I left town, we finally had a chance to talk. I was sad to be leaving because it meant I would...
    onesadgirl onesadgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2010

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    It's Not Love, But It's Pretty Damn Close

    I met "Kristy" over a year ago. She and I became best friends. She had a group of friends that she introduced me to, and I became pretty chill with all of them. Then she introduced me to "Peter". The second I saw him I knew he was going to be my next obsession. He was of average...
    GCLUVUHYEAH GCLUVUHYEAH 16-17, F Jan 7, 2011

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    I Know He Doesn't Feel The Same Way

    I am so in love with this boy, my brother knows him and they sometimes (but rarely) hang out. This boy is cute, chatty and loves a good laugh (like me!) but he smokes dodgy stuff and I think he doesn't have great personal hygiene. I'm not being horrible but he comes from a rough...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 28, 2012

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    It Turned Out Terribly

     I fell in love with a very close friend of mine.  I knew that I loved her for over 7 months before I cracked and told her She didn't believe me at first, she thought it was all a joke because I am a girl to. But I told her the sincerest truth -That I love her I had...
    stareyed stareyed 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2009

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    He Never Knew

    Ever since I was thirteen I liked a guy in school. At first it was sort of a crush but as i got older and the year went by I liked him more and more. Since our school is a combination of middle school and high school I knew him just for that. It started out when I joined jazz...
    lapcat95 lapcat95 16-17, F Aug 11, 2011

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    I Wish The Feelings Were Mutual..

    ive liked the same guy for about 3 years now, im 16 and hes 20 alot of people will think the age difference is a bit big but 1. when you love somebody you dont care, and 2. long term, 4 years aint that much. when i first met him he acted more like an older brother to me; picking...
    TheDinosaurGoesRoar TheDinosaurGoesRoar 16-17, F May 8, 2011

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    I Though She Was The One

    When I was a bit younger I fell madly in love with a girl whom I had gone to school with for a few years, I let her know (after getting to know her and a bit of flirting) and she admitted she felt the same. So we decided to start dating, going to movies and such. It was...
    SocialMisfit SocialMisfit 26-30 2 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    Missteps Every sideways glance,

    Every corner-of-the-eye view I steal of you Digs me deeper, Makes more real The brutal, unbeautiful Truth that is my Every Day: I love you more than you may ever say Of me. "When the eyes say one thing, and the tongue another, A practiced man relies on the language of the first...
    embr1233 embr1233 31-35, F Jul 8

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    You Say You Love Me.....

    you say you love me..... but you don't Y.Y if you truely loved me you wouldn't of done what you did.... you would've stayed loyal and you wouldn't try to hurt me like you do, and depite your lies i still love you. I love you so much, but i know that you don't love me the same, if...
    turtlefudgecakes turtlefudgecakes 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2011

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    Platonic Sad Love Story

    For me it's been 7 damn months since I know this guy and I have tried so hard to get him to love me back . we used to work together and we've been on and off since we first met . I have done anything a girl can do for a guy and he still wants to take it slow. he calls me like...
    Neginemz Neginemz 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    I am totally in love with this man

    but he has made it clear from the beginning that he doesn't want a relationship, we have been sleeping together for almost a year now and I am pregnant. He says he doesn't want anything to do with it. What a ***. Feeling like **** but I kno what I need to do.
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Broken Heart

    I knew a guy on internet. I love him and I paid for his flights to come here. I rent a house for him and after couple months he moved in my place and stayed with me. I supported all he needs and finance here and not ask for return. But, he always took off when things got...
    mesweet mesweet 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    My Goodbye Letter

    One day this past summer, in early September, I was on my way to class and made a sudden right turn onto the turnpike and headed towards the beach. I made the 20 minute drive to the shore, parked my car, and sat in the parking lot just starring into the bushes that hid the view...
    ThQnOfHrts16 ThQnOfHrts16 22-25, F 13 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    An Impossible Love

    My name is Pavii. Her name is Stela. I am fourteen and she is twenty. You already have two of the reasons that could stay between us, even if she loved me back which is true only in my dreams. I first saw her gorgeous eyes this summer and I fell in love with her the first second...
    MissPJ MissPJ 18-21, F Feb 9, 2012

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    If Only I Could Tell...how He Felt

    I've sadly had my eye on the same guy since I was 10. We met during a sledding accident and that's when I found out that he actually lived across the alley from my house. His brother had ran me over and he came running to my rescue. He helped me to my house and told my mother...
    lovebites10 lovebites10 13-15, F Jul 22, 2011

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    Hopeless Since 4th Grade

    At first, I didn't know what it was. You never do, really. All I can remember is the butterflies slamming against my stomach, my heart racing at the tiniest glance of him. It was this way, him not even noticing me, me staring at him shyly, for a year. And then we went to middle...
    spsophie spsophie 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2012

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    In Love With Someone Who Doesn't Love Me.

    So here it goes! I'm totaly in love with a guy who doesn't love me back!! I'm not blowing my own trumpet but I'm quite an atractive girl and the guys seem to love me! I work as a health care assistant in the hospital when a patient came onto my ward after a really bad car...
    Molly91 Molly91 18-21 1 Response Feb 19, 2012

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    Alex.....

    It started on the first day of seventh grade it was a new school and I knew one person, my best friend Amelia. We were talking by our lockers and I saw this guy and my mouth dropped and I nudged Amelia and asked her who he was ( she knew like everyone) so she was like oh that's...
    Musicgirl1012 Musicgirl1012 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2011

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    June 16th

    He and I texted for a few hours around ten. Great conversation. Walked from my sister's swim meet to his house close to five. He and I watched a film of which I cannot recall the name. These were my first expectations. The first of these rancid, never-to-be dreams that drag me...
    thekidonthepiano thekidonthepiano 22-25, M Jun 17, 2011

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    Everyday I check countless times to see if he's online . I find him online most times but he has forgotten about my existence . Pride won't let me text him first . I'm waiting to...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ugh. Falling in love with your best friend sucks 😔
    djjd123 djjd123 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    From the moment we first started talking I knew she was too good for me. She was so full of life when all I could see was darkness. When I first saw what she looked like my...
    happinessescapedme happinessescapedme 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Harsh reality. She doesn't feel the same way. And tells you, " I tried, but just don't like you". Um, thanks for trying I guess. Thanks for the effort? Coulda been a bit less blunt...
    topsearch92 topsearch92 22-25, M Aug 20

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    It might take me a while but eventually I do...so good riddance...
    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Hahaha it's been so long since I've felt like this. It was over over a year ago and sometime during and after it I was self-medicating. Days like this remind me why I started. Just...
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M Aug 6

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    How awful to love someone who doesn't love you back, at least not in the way you want her to. You are best friends, and you're always there for her her, but she has told you that...
    logic93 logic93 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I was dating a soldier for almost a year (one month from a year when he broke up with me). We were perfectly happy before he let for annual training. Two weeks into it he calls...
    ArmyNakata ArmyNakata 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    -I miss someone who doesn't miss me. -I miss her smile but she doesn't miss mine. -I miss hugging her but she would never touch me. -I miss that feeling I get whenever I see her...
    obea13 obea13 18-21, M Aug 21

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    I love someone who don't love me. I fell in love when I am 14. I love her madly. She was my classmate who cheeled up with frnds an also popular in the school. At first I hate her...
    paulsneha paulsneha 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Time to vent or whatever. Enjoy. January 28th, 2014... I met him. Where? Tumblr! Of course. I was typically following back some blogs and answering messages. Well, gosh, I...
    captivateyourlife captivateyourlife 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Who hasn't? i could count...but then i couldn't... But then i have fallen for hot dudes on a tv or laptop screen, and rewind or pause and stare at the pic and sigh, until my heart...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    It's been about 8 month now, that I cling to a guy that doesn't love me back. At first he even wanted something, but hen somehow I managed to ruin that feeling and everything...
    dragonkin9 dragonkin9 26-30, F Aug 4

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    I've kept a secret from you. You thought that I was perfect, but I'm far from it. I know I'm young and human, but that's no excuse. You my not understand. I don't know if this was...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm in a deli inside a Grocery store. A girl is all over this guy, leaning into him, rubbing all over him like a Cat. He's moving away no display of emotion back, looked like he...
    TxRocker TxRocker 46-50, M Aug 13

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    I am engaged and going to get married in December. My fiancé is working in abroad. It’s our arranged marriage. Everything is going well but the problem is that he has a very...
    swatidec30 swatidec30 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 7

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    Today was my first day of school. It's a new school and my friend already went there so she introduced me to some friends. I talked to them all the time but never met them. I met...
    zxmnwendy zxmnwendy 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    He was out of town, now he's back. My little bruised heart doesn't know how to feel.
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I'm sitting my car and crying.. Finally grieving my breakup.. Feeling rejected sucks.. But I really want to get stronger and be better. Unfortunately, I made a mistake with having...
    ShellBellem ShellBellem 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I get what people are saying about how absence makes the heart grow stronger... But what are you to do when you have been with someone for 3 years and only see that person once or...
    alwayswondering07 alwayswondering07 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    We were half asleep cuddling face to face, and I could've sworn I heard you say 'I really want to be open with you right now.. I love you' but I soon realized it was one of my half...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    It kind of sucks. You don't realize how crappy it is because you've put so much effort in-so clearly anyone would love that, right? Wrong. Loving him was so hard. I might not have...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F Aug 7

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    And it sucks. It makes me feel like crap. He has made it clear he doesn't care and so why do i? it's not fair.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I have been in a relationship for about he'll I don't know cause its been off and on but we have a 14 year old son and I love her but I feel as though she doesn't love me
    insaneknight insaneknight 31-35, M Aug 4

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    I'm still in love with that boy that doesn't love me :( sometimes it would be easier if I didn't but I don't want the easy option. The pain that I feel is the only thing that makes...
    angelskyanderson angelskyanderson 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I wonder if this doesn't happen to everyone at some stage in life. It would have helped if I'd been a bit more together as a person at the time, but that's a long way in the past...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    Come with me stay with me, boy stay the night. The words you say doesn't feel right, you hesitate. You expect me to say something, but I know it's too little too late. I told you...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Aug 21

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    I am in love with someone who's in love with someone else, who is in love with someone else. Can't you see I am in the same boat? I'd be there for you but I get it. They're the...
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F 1 day ago