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I Love Someone Who Doesn't Love Me Back

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    June 16th

    He and I texted for a few hours around ten. Great conversation. Walked from my sister's swim meet to his house close to five. He and I watched a film of which I cannot recall the name. These were my first expectations. The first of these rancid, never-to-be dreams that drag me...
    thekidonthepiano thekidonthepiano 22-25, M Jun 17, 2011

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    Platonic Sad Love Story

    For me it's been 7 damn months since I know this guy and I have tried so hard to get him to love me back . we used to work together and we've been on and off since we first met . I have done anything a girl can do for a guy and he still wants to take it slow. he calls me like...
    Neginemz Neginemz 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    It Turned Out Terribly

     I fell in love with a very close friend of mine.  I knew that I loved her for over 7 months before I cracked and told her She didn't believe me at first, she thought it was all a joke because I am a girl to. But I told her the sincerest truth -That I love her I had...
    stareyed stareyed 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2009

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    He Never Knew

    Ever since I was thirteen I liked a guy in school. At first it was sort of a crush but as i got older and the year went by I liked him more and more. Since our school is a combination of middle school and high school I knew him just for that. It started out when I joined jazz...
    lapcat95 lapcat95 16-17, F Aug 11, 2011

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    I Know He Doesn't Feel The Same Way

    I am so in love with this boy, my brother knows him and they sometimes (but rarely) hang out. This boy is cute, chatty and loves a good laugh (like me!) but he smokes dodgy stuff and I think he doesn't have great personal hygiene. I'm not being horrible but he comes from a rough...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 28, 2012

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    It's Not Love, But It's Pretty Damn Close

    I met "Kristy" over a year ago. She and I became best friends. She had a group of friends that she introduced me to, and I became pretty chill with all of them. Then she introduced me to "Peter". The second I saw him I knew he was going to be my next obsession. He was of average...
    GCLUVUHYEAH GCLUVUHYEAH 16-17, F Jan 7, 2011

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    I am totally in love with this man

    but he has made it clear from the beginning that he doesn't want a relationship, we have been sleeping together for almost a year now and I am pregnant. He says he doesn't want anything to do with it. What a ***. Feeling like **** but I kno what I need to do.
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    My Goodbye Letter

    One day this past summer, in early September, I was on my way to class and made a sudden right turn onto the turnpike and headed towards the beach. I made the 20 minute drive to the shore, parked my car, and sat in the parking lot just starring into the bushes that hid the view...
    ThQnOfHrts16 ThQnOfHrts16 22-25, F 13 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    I Though She Was The One

    When I was a bit younger I fell madly in love with a girl whom I had gone to school with for a few years, I let her know (after getting to know her and a bit of flirting) and she admitted she felt the same. So we decided to start dating, going to movies and such. It was...
    SocialMisfit SocialMisfit 26-30 2 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    Missteps Every sideways glance,

    Every corner-of-the-eye view I steal of you Digs me deeper, Makes more real The brutal, unbeautiful Truth that is my Every Day: I love you more than you may ever say Of me. "When the eyes say one thing, and the tongue another, A practiced man relies on the language of the first...
    embr1233 embr1233 31-35, F Jul 8, 2014

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    An Impossible Love

    My name is Pavii. Her name is Stela. I am fourteen and she is twenty. You already have two of the reasons that could stay between us, even if she loved me back which is true only in my dreams. I first saw her gorgeous eyes this summer and I fell in love with her the first second...
    MissPJ MissPJ 18-21, F Feb 9, 2012

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    Broken Heart

    I knew a guy on internet. I love him and I paid for his flights to come here. I rent a house for him and after couple months he moved in my place and stayed with me. I supported all he needs and finance here and not ask for return. But, he always took off when things got...
    mesweet mesweet 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    If Only I Could Tell...how He Felt

    I've sadly had my eye on the same guy since I was 10. We met during a sledding accident and that's when I found out that he actually lived across the alley from my house. His brother had ran me over and he came running to my rescue. He helped me to my house and told my mother...
    lovebites10 lovebites10 13-15, F Jul 22, 2011

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    In Love With Someone Who Doesn't Love Me.

    So here it goes! I'm totaly in love with a guy who doesn't love me back!! I'm not blowing my own trumpet but I'm quite an atractive girl and the guys seem to love me! I work as a health care assistant in the hospital when a patient came onto my ward after a really bad car...
    Molly91 Molly91 18-21 1 Response Feb 19, 2012

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    You Say You Love Me.....

    you say you love me..... but you don't Y.Y if you truely loved me you wouldn't of done what you did.... you would've stayed loyal and you wouldn't try to hurt me like you do, and depite your lies i still love you. I love you so much, but i know that you don't love me the same, if...
    turtlefudgecakes turtlefudgecakes 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2011

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    Alex.....

    It started on the first day of seventh grade it was a new school and I knew one person, my best friend Amelia. We were talking by our lockers and I saw this guy and my mouth dropped and I nudged Amelia and asked her who he was ( she knew like everyone) so she was like oh that's...
    Musicgirl1012 Musicgirl1012 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2011

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    It All Began Summer Of 08'

    A friend of mine told me about this guy she knew. She thought I might like him. I was staying in Texas for the summer and she gave me his IM address so we could chat. The night before I left town, we finally had a chance to talk. I was sad to be leaving because it meant I would...
    onesadgirl onesadgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2010

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    Hopeless Since 4th Grade

    At first, I didn't know what it was. You never do, really. All I can remember is the butterflies slamming against my stomach, my heart racing at the tiniest glance of him. It was this way, him not even noticing me, me staring at him shyly, for a year. And then we went to middle...
    spsophie spsophie 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2012

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    In Love With My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    It's really not as bad as it sounds. Yes, I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend but there's a lot behind it. I've known him for a little over a year, while she's known him for a few months less. She basically figured out who he was because I, her best friend, had been into...
    Nicoletaylor12 Nicoletaylor12 16-17, F Oct 28, 2012

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    I Wish The Feelings Were Mutual..

    ive liked the same guy for about 3 years now, im 16 and hes 20 alot of people will think the age difference is a bit big but 1. when you love somebody you dont care, and 2. long term, 4 years aint that much. when i first met him he acted more like an older brother to me; picking...
    TheDinosaurGoesRoar TheDinosaurGoesRoar 16-17, F May 8, 2011

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    Yeah i'm sad because the person who i like didn't care about me ,he really don't have a reason to care ,he don't know who i'm ......Pretty sad and funny ,i talked with him 2...
    Blackyisblack Blackyisblack 13-15, F 1 Response May 3

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    So I dreamt that I was at his house and he wanted me there. We were sitting on opposite couches in this large house and I was reading a kids book. He was watching tv. I get up to...
    livlife1615 livlife1615 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend acts as if I don't exist most of the time, never going out of his way to even talk to me. When I'm with him all he's doing is homework and barely acknowledging me. I...
    Blueaquatic Blueaquatic 18-21, F May 18

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    -_- i don't know how to stop caring about him.i feel so stupid because i don't think he even cares about me anymore.
    weirdalex93 weirdalex93 22-25, F 1 Response May 8

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    I love you and I lost you.
    randomrae randomrae 22-25, T 1 Response May 12

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    One day I met this guy and we started talking then I fell in live with him but a couple days later I told him and he said sorry but I only like you as a friend.
    skyegraeler skyegraeler 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I loved someone who didn't love me... I still love someone who doesn't love me. It's gotten easier though because I accepted the fact that we will never work. He's a great friend...
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6

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    So.... I love somebody who doesn't reciprocate my feelings back. He loves me but he doesn't see me as his long term, one and only kinda woman. He tells me about other women he...
    OrchidLilacChrys OrchidLilacChrys 26-30, F 1 Response May 19

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    I have never felt reciprocated love. I don't mean like the friends and family package deal that everybody gets, I mean romantically. It's not from a lack of trying, but as I look...
    monkey0506 monkey0506 26-30, M 1 Response May 9

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    Yes I loved somebody who didn't love me...I knew he didn't but I still fell for him...I feel like a complete idiot and wish I could take back the years...but I can't:/ he left when...
    LerisaEllis LerisaEllis 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I don't know how I'm supposed to go on. Knowing that there's always going to be that part of me that is completely, madly in love with someone who didn't even care enough about me...
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F 3 Responses May 8

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    He finally texted, than we talked on the phone. It was a relief but sad and empty too. I wanted to hear him say he wanted to see me. I took two weeks off vacation to see him. Of...
    byshoreline byshoreline 36-40, F 3 Responses May 12

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    I loved someone that didn't love me and I don't regret it at all. While it felt terrible most of the time, short-lived moments of happiness were also one of the best days of my...
    everydayissummerr everydayissummerr 26-30, F May 4

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    I don't know guys whether you're reading this or not, but I needed to write about it. Everything started 4 months ago, when my friend added me to a group chat with someone that I...
    Georgie505 Georgie505 18-21, M May 8

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    I have loved the same person for I don't even know how long. To be fair, she doesn't actually know, so I guess there will always be that big "what if" that is killing me. The issue...
    BowtiesRcool BowtiesRcool 22-25, M 2 Responses May 2

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    I love one of my close friends at school. He's so kind and funny and sweet, but I know he doesn't love me back. I've felt like this for about a year. He's not perfect, who is...
    James13xx James13xx 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Am new to these and I need a good advice on this, am just 22 and my relationship is almost 2years. My boyfriend is not showing me affection, we only kiss when we want to have sex...
    Marryam13 Marryam13 22-25 3 Responses May 17

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    I have a guy who is flirting with me everyday but sometimes he distances himself and other times he is really close to me. Then one day he was really flirting with me and I thought...
    KAG676 KAG676 13-15, F 2 Responses May 14

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    I can feel the bile rising in my throat. He just doesn't know how important he is to me. I need him. But he's too perfect. I would rather be killed and torn apart than be in this...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    I'll be turning 23 this month and I've still never had a boyfriend. I've met a few boys who seem interested in me at first, but it's never lead to anything more then one kiss or a...
    batjokes batjokes 22-25, F 11 Responses May 11

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    September 2014. I just turned 17 and started college. I met this really pretty girl with red hair and piercings and I immediately got a crush on her. It took me two weeks to build...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 17

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    I know that in most cases it's hard for males to reciprocate most feelings and 9/10 the woman falls in love much quicker.. but I never understood how you as a woman could feel like...
    asiabeautyxo asiabeautyxo 18-21, F 13 Responses May 21

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    I love someone that I don't think loves me back
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 17

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