I Love Someone Who Doesn't Love Me Back

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 125 People

    Missteps Every sideways glance,

    Every corner-of-the-eye view I steal of you Digs me deeper, Makes more real The brutal, unbeautiful Truth that is my Every Day: I love you more than you may ever say Of me. "When the eyes say one thing, and the tongue another, A practiced man relies on the language of the first...
    embr1233 embr1233
    31-35, F
    Jul 8, 2014

    He Never Knew

    Ever since I was thirteen I liked a guy in school. At first it was sort of a crush but as i got older and the year went by I liked him more and more. Since our school is a combination of middle school and high school I knew him just for that. It started out when I joined jazz...
    lapcat95 lapcat95
    16-17, F
    Aug 11, 2011

    It's Not Love, But It's Pretty Damn Close

    I met "Kristy" over a year ago. She and I became best friends. She had a group of friends that she introduced me to, and I became pretty chill with all of them. Then she introduced me to "Peter". The second I saw him I knew he was going to be my next obsession. He was of average...
    GCLUVUHYEAH GCLUVUHYEAH
    16-17, F
    Jan 7, 2011

    Platonic Sad Love Story

    For me it's been 7 damn months since I know this guy and I have tried so hard to get him to love me back . we used to work together and we've been on and off since we first met . I have done anything a girl can do for a guy and he still wants to take it slow. he calls me like...
    Neginemz Neginemz
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2013

    Hopeless Since 4th Grade

    At first, I didn't know what it was. You never do, really. All I can remember is the butterflies slamming against my stomach, my heart racing at the tiniest glance of him. It was this way, him not even noticing me, me staring at him shyly, for a year. And then we went to middle...
    spsophie spsophie
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 29, 2012

    Before you look at my age

    and think "she's too young. She barely knows what love is." Let me tell you something: this boy is in my mind 24/7. I lay awake until 3am thinking about him. He's in my dreams. Good and bad. If he got hurt, I don't know what I'd do. I haven't told him yet because he doesn't like...
    lrbethke01 lrbethke01
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 23

    If Only I Could Tell...how He Felt

    I've sadly had my eye on the same guy since I was 10. We met during a sledding accident and that's when I found out that he actually lived across the alley from my house. His brother had ran me over and he came running to my rescue. He helped me to my house and told my mother...
    lovebites10 lovebites10
    13-15, F
    Jul 22, 2011

    I Know He Doesn't Feel The Same Way

    I am so in love with this boy, my brother knows him and they sometimes (but rarely) hang out. This boy is cute, chatty and loves a good laugh (like me!) but he smokes dodgy stuff and I think he doesn't have great personal hygiene. I'm not being horrible but he comes from a rough...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 28, 2012

    In Love With My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    It's really not as bad as it sounds. Yes, I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend but there's a lot behind it. I've known him for a little over a year, while she's known him for a few months less. She basically figured out who he was because I, her best friend, had been into...
    Nicoletaylor12 Nicoletaylor12
    16-17, F
    Oct 28, 2012

    It All Began Summer Of 08'

    A friend of mine told me about this guy she knew. She thought I might like him. I was staying in Texas for the summer and she gave me his IM address so we could chat. The night before I left town, we finally had a chance to talk. I was sad to be leaving because it meant I would...
    onesadgirl onesadgirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2010

    An Impossible Love

    My name is Pavii. Her name is Stela. I am fourteen and she is twenty. You already have two of the reasons that could stay between us, even if she loved me back which is true only in my dreams. I first saw her gorgeous eyes this summer and I fell in love with her the first second...
    MissPJ MissPJ
    18-21, F
    Feb 9, 2012

    I Though She Was The One

    When I was a bit younger I fell madly in love with a girl whom I had gone to school with for a few years, I let her know (after getting to know her and a bit of flirting) and she admitted she felt the same. So we decided to start dating, going to movies and such. It was...
    SocialMisfit SocialMisfit
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2009

    I Wish The Feelings Were Mutual..

    ive liked the same guy for about 3 years now, im 16 and hes 20 alot of people will think the age difference is a bit big but 1. when you love somebody you dont care, and 2. long term, 4 years aint that much. when i first met him he acted more like an older brother to me; picking...
    TheDinosaurGoesRoar TheDinosaurGoesRoar
    16-17, F
    May 8, 2011

    It Turned Out Terribly

     I fell in love with a very close friend of mine.  I knew that I loved her for over 7 months before I cracked and told her She didn't believe me at first, she thought it was all a joke because I am a girl to. But I told her the sincerest truth -That I love her I had...
    stareyed stareyed
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2009

    In Love With Someone Who Doesn't Love Me.

    So here it goes! I'm totaly in love with a guy who doesn't love me back!! I'm not blowing my own trumpet but I'm quite an atractive girl and the guys seem to love me! I work as a health care assistant in the hospital when a patient came onto my ward after a really bad car...
    Molly91 Molly91
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 19, 2012

    I am totally in love with this man

    but he has made it clear from the beginning that he doesn't want a relationship, we have been sleeping together for almost a year now and I am pregnant. He says he doesn't want anything to do with it. What a ***. Feeling like **** but I kno what I need to do.
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2014

    My Goodbye Letter

    One day this past summer, in early September, I was on my way to class and made a sudden right turn onto the turnpike and headed towards the beach. I made the 20 minute drive to the shore, parked my car, and sat in the parking lot just starring into the bushes that hid the view...
    ThQnOfHrts16 ThQnOfHrts16
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Feb 23, 2010

    June 16th

    He and I texted for a few hours around ten. Great conversation. Walked from my sister's swim meet to his house close to five. He and I watched a film of which I cannot recall the name. These were my first expectations. The first of these rancid, never-to-be dreams that drag me...
    thekidonthepiano thekidonthepiano
    22-25, M
    Jun 17, 2011

    Alex.....

    It started on the first day of seventh grade it was a new school and I knew one person, my best friend Amelia. We were talking by our lockers and I saw this guy and my mouth dropped and I nudged Amelia and asked her who he was ( she knew like everyone) so she was like oh that's...
    Musicgirl1012 Musicgirl1012
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2011

    You Say You Love Me.....

    you say you love me..... but you don't Y.Y if you truely loved me you wouldn't of done what you did.... you would've stayed loyal and you wouldn't try to hurt me like you do, and depite your lies i still love you. I love you so much, but i know that you don't love me the same, if...
    turtlefudgecakes turtlefudgecakes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2011

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