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I Love Someone Who Doesn't Love Me

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    Patience is something i lack,

    but when it came to him...boy i was patient as ever. Two years to be exact i waited for him never stepped out or anything. But i still waited when he finally came home i threw myself on him it felt good. I loved him from the jump maybe i fell for him to quick. But i can clearly...
    ayooxjaelyn ayooxjaelyn 22-25, F Jan 30, 2014

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    Will There Ever Be Room For Me?

    My love story starts early. From the moment I met her in 7th grade to today, she has been the love of my life.  We had something in those early, confusing adolescent years that I will never forget.  Yes we dated, but I wasn't the only one.  I was just a boy, and I...
    everyreason everyreason 18-21 3 Responses Mar 10, 2009

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    Unrequited Love

    I am bi and fell in love with a girl for all I know is straight. I love her. Its not like a crush where you want to date them and kiss them, I want to be able to tell her I love her, go up behind her and hug her. Im willing to do anything for her, but she is straight for all i...
    vasthanirvana vasthanirvana 18-21, F Sep 30, 2013

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    Down and Dirty

    today is kicking my ***. you're like a poison in my head that won't disperse. how the hell am i supposed to just forget about you- is life that simple? i was doing so well, bottling up all the emotions, pretending everything was okay. i know it's not. deep down i know i'm not...
    lostcancerian lostcancerian 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I Wont Give Up

    He called me one night for over two hours and asked me constantly if I loved him,and that if am dating two guys with one closer to me and the other in abroad,both treating me equally whom will I marry if am asked by both men.I then ask him if he was travelling and he said no.I...
    missy26vee missy26vee 26-30, F Mar 8, 2013

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    Boyfriend Of 6 Years Broke Up With Me Last Night

    I've been with the same guy for 6 years. We've been on and off together. We break up, we make up. Last night was the last straw. I really love this guy but he doesn't feel the same way. He doesn't love me or see a future with me. He wants to move on and find happiness elsewhere...
    sojetlagged sojetlagged 31-35 1 Response Nov 14, 2013

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    I always thought my boyfriend would be a smart

    loyal guy that I knew for years. I was so wrong. A guy who I will refer to as Ian was new to the school. He just came up to me and said he liked me. I had a low self esteem at that time and had no idea why he liked me. He made me louder and feel good about myself. Then at the...
    COOKIESATTACKME COOKIESATTACKME 18-21, F Jan 2, 2014

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    I'm currently seeing someone

    who hasn't shown they care about me. We don't spend much time together and he doesn't have much to say to me anymore. I'm putting too much trying to keep it together, but I can't keep it up much longer. If he ever has plans, I'm the last to know and the one left behind. He's...
    seredipidy seredipidy 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    Every time I write a song

    for a girl, she either hates me before I can finish the song and she never hears it, or doesn't reciprocate the feelings. Maybe making songs for the girl you like is a bad idea, but I'm old-fashioned and still believe in romance that simply doesn't happen this day and age.
    alexisrhodeslover alexisrhodeslover 18-21 Feb 8

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    Valentine's Day Without the One You Want: a Survival Guide

    Valentine's Day (aka Singleness Awareness Day) can be brutal, especially when you know who you want and they don't want you back.  I have a radio show Valentine's night just for those of us who are alone. I invite you to listen in and I will even play a song for you if you...
    PhantomAccordion PhantomAccordion 26-30, F Feb 14, 2008

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    I got bored and changed my facebook

    relationship status to complicated for kicks and giggles. My ex (who I still love) got super exited and sad that I didn't get a new girlfriend when I told her it was just a joke... *sigh*
    misterwhale misterwhale 16-17, M Mar 22

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    Day4 Serious/pain/love/ Hurting

    Yesterday, I called him around 5 to only find out he had already had left to Oakland and he never called me. No one did. I finally got a hold of him but only for a couple of minuets, not long but enough to make me cry, not in any wrong way maybe. but that i missed him and I'ma...
    Gabina19 Gabina19 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    He Said He Loved Me But He Didn't

    I shared this story in another group as well but thought it fit here too. I'm just so broken, lost and depressed. I miss my exboyfriend so much. We were together for a bit after a year, celebrated our anniversary with gifts and a night away and then two weeks later he said the...
    orangeblossoms orangeblossoms 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    Did you ever love someone

    who didn't returned you love? Yes that's very, very sad! :( But what if you are afraid to confess your feelings to that someone, it is even more difficult. Afraid of rejection...Did you ever saw someone and felt like you known them your whole life, like there is some connection...
    delfin13 delfin13 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    I'Ve Liked Him Ever Since Kindergarten

    Ive literally known him forever.I'm gonna call him bob... So bob was always very playful with me, he would always hug me from behind and get close to me, and I'm one of those people who would act like i don't like it but i actually love it. So he had dated around 3 girls in the...
    DeepInTheShadows DeepInTheShadows 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2013

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    Mentally Torturous Imaginary Perfect Christmas

    I am angry with myself for letting this on again/off again behavior drag on forever but I am unwilling to cut ties with him permanently because it seems like this is better than having him completely absent from my life. At present, it seems I do not exist. In a few months once...
    deadant7 deadant7 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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    My ex started drinking a year

    and a half ago. She left me for a bartender. We have twins together one has disabilities. I have them all the time and take care of everything. Some days I can't cope and breakdown. I Don't know when this pain will ever end.
    leshrac leshrac 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    He Took Care Of Me. He Loved Me, Not Romantically, But He Thought I Was Special.

    He used to. Maybe not in a boyfriend/girlfriend way. Maybe as my mentor, as a friend. Maybe not in a dating way. But he cared about me. He took care of me. Now I've hurt him too many times. He doesn't want to even hear me on the phone. You used to care about me. I'm sorry. May...
    Ste11aeres Ste11aeres 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2012

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    I Have Never Been In This Situation

    i have never fall in love with someone who doesn't love me ... i can't ... i usually love or like who love me or who cook nice meal hahahaha ... i don't know , when a girl cook a nice meal for me i start to have a good feeling towards her  lol
    listenup listenup 26-30, M 29 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    Love someone who doesn't love you back is like

    a dear love a hungry lion. Because she doesn't love you and it hurts. Also the further you stay away the less pain it gets.
    Ph24689 Ph24689 18-21, M Feb 18, 2014

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    David, Sometimes I wonder what is is I’m

    supposed to do… what it is that would dull the pain I feel just being alive. It’s hard, going day to day without having the one person who means the world to you. I live every day in regret, wishing I’d just… I wish I hadn’t driven you away. I wish I had been enough...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F Apr 14, 2014

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    I Feel Like An Idiot

    So for the last year of high school, i liked a boy who has a gf. It started as  just a small interest in him, then i lost weight and he suddenly started giving me a lot of sexual attention even though he is very serious about his relationship with his gf. I guess i wasnt used to...
    LisaS2020 LisaS2020 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2011

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    Why Can't I Let Go?

    I recently kind of got back together with my ex, and mother of my child. She broke up with me and left me alone with my 21 month old son. After about a month or two she started talking to me and saying she loves me. I don't really believe her, and today she said that if a certain...
    DepressedinMN DepressedinMN 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 1, 2007

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    I Feel Silly And Stupid

    I mean honestly...I am 47 years old...too old for such nonsense of falling in love. Well, and in actuality I didn't "fall" in love with this man. I grew into it. I think of him as this lake which was this beautiful lake of friendship that occasionally lapped up and over its...
    PrayerWhisperer PrayerWhisperer 46-50, F 4 Responses May 10, 2011

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    Love is about giving,

    theres no win and there no loose. But it's nothing more painful than loving someone who doesn't love you back. It felt like theres a huge rock that tied in chain that you are pulling and ache your heart and brain out every time when you see her around. But theres nothing else...
    Ph24689 Ph24689 18-21, M Mar 20, 2014

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    :( besides having a loved one die has to be the

    most challenging and emotionally crushing thing ever. To be in the same place as someone who almost hates you. And for what? I haven't done anything. I think it's sick he won't leave. I think he loves to break me down and do nothing. He is sick.
    jussme91 jussme91 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    His Name Was Tim

    He never even knew I was alive and if he did, he didn't care. The first thing I noticed about him was his eyes and his smile. His hair was Brown and sort of long in the front. He was about 6'1" with a slender build. He was in a band even though they were pretty lousy I could...
    SaiaN SaiaN 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2013

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    This guy, i honestly cant get him out of my

    head, its constant! Not a day go's by without me thinking of him. I dont mean to or purposely do it if you understand what I'm saying its just, he'd say Im cute and he really wants to go out and drink with Me, yea were only 15 please dont judge me.. We would stay up allll night...
    BreannaIsTrying BreannaIsTrying 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2014

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    he loved me..but i rejected him.

    ..now im in love with him..he doesnt have gf..but he is so proud and he doesnt want to be with me anymore....
    1golenaz 1golenaz 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Out. Now.

    Dear Matt, Embarrassingly, I cannot stop thinking about you. Come on dude, get out of my mind. You're like the tenant I just can't get to vacate the premises, even when I scream, order you out, or try to convince myself you don't belong there. The first time I snuggled next to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 25, 2009

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    Why Can't He Feel the Same Way

    I met a man three years ago by way of the internet.  From the first time we met, I thought I had found love.  And yet the first time we met, he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and was still recovering from a relationship where she was the love of his life...
    Starlyric33 Starlyric33 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    He Used Me

    I was with a guy we were flirting, he dedicated me a songs, he told me that he loved me. Well there was a problem he was 4 years older than me and my dad didn't know we were together. One day I decided enough was enough I am going to tell my dad that we are together. My dad and...
    delreals delreals 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    From the moment we first started talking I knew

    she was too good for me. She was so full of life when all I could see was darkness. When I first saw what she looked like my heart actually skipped a beat. Until then I always thought that was just an expression but I now know differently. Something deep inside me felt so...
    happinessescapedme happinessescapedme 36-40, M Aug 25, 2014

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    Recycled Teenager!

       I am 61 years old, I have been completely impotent for several years because of cancer and, although my health is good right now, I am at extremely high risk of recurring cancer. Because of this I have Health Care providers visit me on a daily basis. There are 3...
    FreedomRiderRon FreedomRiderRon 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 27, 2009

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    Too Good For Me, Too Good For Anyone

    I am 16 years old. I am super into personality types and I met someone of my same type on a forum. He left the website, claiming it was too time-consuming, but wanted to remain in contact with me. All of this sounds shallow and I feel like I'm completely debasing everything, but...
    tallowcandle tallowcandle 18-21, F Jul 29, 2013

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    Zabet Zabet 31-35, T Feb 1

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    For a long time I was in love with someone

    who wasn't in love with me but now I'm over it, I have learned that people who act like they don't care about you it's because they truly don't and it's better to walk away at the end God always has something better at the end for each of us...
    Marlenyfl83 Marlenyfl83 26-30, F Jan 29

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    Forgetting someone that you've loved whom never

    love you back can be reasonable. But it's hardd!
    Ph24689 Ph24689 18-21, M Mar 29, 2014

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    HE Dumped Me....

    Well not really. He just quit answering my calls. He wouldn't call and he wouldn't answer the phone. I drove to his place and he wouldn't answer the door. I stood outside and banged on the door for over an hour while I called him at the same time. I could hear the phone ringing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    It's funny how a simple "good night" can make

    you feel pain...the idea that you'll never be in her thoughts when she wakes up in the morning...when she's sad...or happy... I just wish I can show you more... More of me. I'm not bad too you know. If you would just let me.
    LightsinMotion LightsinMotion 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I like this friend but I don't know

    if I'm falling for him. He doesn't feel the same way about me. I know it because I know who he likes :( I accompanied him when he bought chocolate and roses for a friend (I bet he likes her too).... (well, I liked him during grade 2 and he would buy me food during recess but...
    missinvisiblegirl missinvisiblegirl 22-25, F Apr 15, 2014

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    yes.. i really love him.

    but he's doesn't. even if he didn't say it but I'm pretty sure he does not. and now, i just can seeing him with another girl happily. what should i dooooooo
    klooey klooey 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 19, 2014

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    djjd123 djjd123 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19, 2014

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    Everyday I check countless times to see

    if he's online . I find him online most times but he has forgotten about my existence . Pride won't let me text him first . I'm waiting to get over him because it's someone I can't be with anyway . Being obsessed with someone sucks especially if the person couldn't care less...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    He Doesn't Love Me...

    Does anyone remember that girl from the Notebook that Noah was sleeping with when Ally left him?  I am that girl... The awful part is that I didn't sign up to be that girl, and I certainly never asked for it, but I ended up being her.  I am with someone who said...
    Lost198 Lost198 26-30 3 Responses Jun 26, 2009

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    When does this end? I mean,

    I thought I was moving on and getting over this but tonight I drove by her house and there she was, sitting on the front porch. I don't think she saw it was me as it was pretty dark. But even in the darkness it was easy to see she was as beautiful as ever. I know she doesn't...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M Jan 25

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