I Love Someone Who Doesn't Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 707 People

    I met my ex fiancé today.

    She dumped me the Monday before last. We both travelled to Toronto by coincidence. I asked to meet up, have her dump me face to face. Turns out she never loved me - ever. I'm now more broken than ever.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 9, 2015

    Forgetting someone that you've loved whom never

    love you back can be reasonable. But it's hardd!
    Ph24689 Ph24689
    18-21, M
    Mar 29, 2014

    He Took Care Of Me. He Loved Me, Not Romantically, But He Thought I Was Special.

    He used to. Maybe not in a boyfriend/girlfriend way. Maybe as my mentor, as a friend. Maybe not in a dating way. But he cared about me. He took care of me. Now I've hurt him too many times. He doesn't want to even hear me on the phone. You used to care about me. I'm sorry. May...
    Ste11aeres Ste11aeres
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2012

    There's so many things

    that I could say But I'm sure it would come out all wrong You got something that I can't explain, Still try and try and let you know
    SuicideGray SuicideGray
    16-17, M
    Dec 18, 2015

    For a long time I was in love with someone

    who wasn't in love with me but now I'm over it, I have learned that people who act like they don't care about you it's because they truly don't and it's better to walk away at the end God always has something better at the end for each of us...
    Marlenyfl83 Marlenyfl83
    31-35, F
    Jan 29, 2015

    Why Can't He Feel the Same Way

    I met a man three years ago by way of the internet.  From the first time we met, I thought I had found love.  And yet the first time we met, he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and was still recovering from a relationship where she was the love of his life...
    Starlyric33 Starlyric33
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 19, 2007

    David, Sometimes I wonder what is is I’m

    supposed to do… what it is that would dull the pain I feel just being alive. It’s hard, going day to day without having the one person who means the world to you. I live every day in regret, wishing I’d just… I wish I hadn’t driven you away. I wish I had been enough...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire
    18-21, F
    Apr 14, 2014

    I'm writing this really upset.

    Maybe because it's raining and I stood in the rain, upset. Please don't judge me. Hear me out. I posed as this random woman on tinder. I guess I wanted attention because I knew I wouldn't get it. So I scroll across this handsome man. I messaged him and we got to talking. I...
    jenniferking123 jenniferking123
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    Day4 Serious/pain/love/ Hurting

    Yesterday, I called him around 5 to only find out he had already had left to Oakland and he never called me. No one did. I finally got a hold of him but only for a couple of minuets, not long but enough to make me cry, not in any wrong way maybe. but that i missed him and I'ma...
    Gabina19 Gabina19
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2012

    From the moment we first started talking I knew

    she was too good for me. She was so full of life when all I could see was darkness. When I first saw what she looked like my heart actually skipped a beat. Until then I always thought that was just an expression but I now know differently. Something deep inside me felt so...
    happinessescapedme happinessescapedme
    36-40, M
    Aug 25, 2014
    Zabet Zabet
    31-35, T
    Feb 1, 2015

    I Wont Give Up

    He called me one night for over two hours and asked me constantly if I loved him,and that if am dating two guys with one closer to me and the other in abroad,both treating me equally whom will I marry if am asked by both men.I then ask him if he was travelling and he said no.I...
    missy26vee missy26vee
    26-30, F
    Mar 8, 2013

    Mentally Torturous Imaginary Perfect Christmas

    I am angry with myself for letting this on again/off again behavior drag on forever but I am unwilling to cut ties with him permanently because it seems like this is better than having him completely absent from my life. At present, it seems I do not exist. In a few months once...
    deadant7 deadant7
    31-35, F
    Nov 25, 2012

    I Feel Silly And Stupid

    I mean honestly...I am 47 years old...too old for such nonsense of falling in love. Well, and in actuality I didn't "fall" in love with this man. I grew into it. I think of him as this lake which was this beautiful lake of friendship that occasionally lapped up and over its...
    PrayerWhisperer PrayerWhisperer
    46-50, F
    3 Responses May 10, 2011

    He Doesn't Love Me...

    Does anyone remember that girl from the Notebook that Noah was sleeping with when Ally left him?  I am that girl... The awful part is that I didn't sign up to be that girl, and I certainly never asked for it, but I ended up being her.  I am with someone who said...
    Lost198 Lost198
    3 Responses Jun 26, 2009

    When does this end? I mean,

    I thought I was moving on and getting over this but tonight I drove by her house and there she was, sitting on the front porch. I don't think she saw it was me as it was pretty dark. But even in the darkness it was easy to see she was as beautiful as ever. I know she doesn't...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 25, 2015

    She told me she didn't love me anymore.

    She said she was slowly realising she was asexual and aromantic. Fair enough. I still lover her romantically but we became incompatible. She then went and ****** every guy on her flat. And yet I still love her. Someone ******* kill me already.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 1, 2015

    let me just tell you

    that its a pain in the ***
    DogsonmethxP DogsonmethxP
    16-17, M
    Dec 19, 2015

    Did you ever love someone

    who didn't returned you love? Yes that's very, very sad! :( But what if you are afraid to confess your feelings to that someone, it is even more difficult. Afraid of rejection...Did you ever saw someone and felt like you known them your whole life, like there is some connection...
    delfin13 delfin13
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2014

    Will There Ever Be Room For Me?

    My love story starts early. From the moment I met her in 7th grade to today, she has been the love of my life.  We had something in those early, confusing adolescent years that I will never forget.  Yes we dated, but I wasn't the only one.  I was just a boy, and I...
    everyreason everyreason
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2009

    I Have Never Been In This Situation

    i have never fall in love with someone who doesn't love me ... i can't ... i usually love or like who love me or who cook nice meal hahahaha ... i don't know , when a girl cook a nice meal for me i start to have a good feeling towards her  lol
    listenup listenup
    26-30, M
    23 Responses Apr 6, 2010

    I Feel Like An Idiot

    So for the last year of high school, i liked a boy who has a gf. It started as  just a small interest in him, then i lost weight and he suddenly started giving me a lot of sexual attention even though he is very serious about his relationship with his gf. I guess i wasnt used to...
    LisaS2020 LisaS2020
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 24, 2011

    Everyday I check countless times to see

    if he's online . I find him online most times but he has forgotten about my existence . Pride won't let me text him first . I'm waiting to get over him because it's someone I can't be with anyway . Being obsessed with someone sucks especially if the person couldn't care less...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 28, 2014

    :( besides having a loved one die has to be the

    most challenging and emotionally crushing thing ever. To be in the same place as someone who almost hates you. And for what? I haven't done anything. I think it's sick he won't leave. I think he loves to break me down and do nothing. He is sick.
    jussme91 jussme91
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 22, 2015

    I am a girl in love with a girl

    for the first time in my life. I met her in September and we became very close since the begining. I fell in love with her but after confessing my feelings on February, she told me she was (also) bissexual but she was in love with another person (a guy). Things have been feeling...
    Aenese34 Aenese34
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 7

    Boyfriend Of 6 Years Broke Up With Me Last Night

    I've been with the same guy for 6 years. We've been on and off together. We break up, we make up. Last night was the last straw. I really love this guy but he doesn't feel the same way. He doesn't love me or see a future with me. He wants to move on and find happiness elsewhere...
    sojetlagged sojetlagged
    1 Response Nov 14, 2013

    It's funny how a simple "good night" can make

    you feel pain...the idea that you'll never be in her thoughts when she wakes up in the morning...when she's sad...or happy... I just wish I can show you more... More of me. I'm not bad too you know. If you would just let me.
    LightsinMotion LightsinMotion
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 12, 2014

    Well, I suppose it really just depends on how

    you see it. Yesterday, I told my boyfriend I loved him--I told him, but I had a feeling he wouldn't say it back, and I was right. The story, in context goes like this: We go to his place, attempt to watch The Omen and instead make love before we decide to go have dinner...
    PseudoNymph PseudoNymph
    22-25, F
    Aug 1, 2015

    my boyfriend is soo cute

    and i love his body an i really love him but i see he doesn't love as the way he used to his love for is dying slowly . i dont know or is because i have never shared sex with him since am still a virgin ,only dated for four months i really feel bad am loosing him
    gathii gathii
    22-25, F
    Nov 9, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    Recycled Teenager!

       I am 61 years old, I have been completely impotent for several years because of cancer and, although my health is good right now, I am at extremely high risk of recurring cancer. Because of this I have Health Care providers visit me on a daily basis. There are 3...
    FreedomRiderRon FreedomRiderRon
    56-60, M
    1 Response Sep 27, 2009

    I have been in quite a few relationships,

    including a few long-term ones, but I have never been truly in love until I met T. He was the love of my life so far. But he didn't love me back. I met him around March/April this year. We were working together. I just came out of a very boring, dead relationship and was...
    wynterfae wynterfae
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    Out. Now.

    Dear Matt, Embarrassingly, I cannot stop thinking about you. Come on dude, get out of my mind. You're like the tenant I just can't get to vacate the premises, even when I scream, order you out, or try to convince myself you don't belong there. The first time I snuggled next to...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 25, 2009

    My ex started drinking a year

    and a half ago. She left me for a bartender. We have twins together one has disabilities. I have them all the time and take care of everything. Some days I can't cope and breakdown. I Don't know when this pain will ever end.
    leshrac leshrac
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 18, 2014

    Why Can't I Let Go?

    I recently kind of got back together with my ex, and mother of my child. She broke up with me and left me alone with my 21 month old son. After about a month or two she started talking to me and saying she loves me. I don't really believe her, and today she said that if a certain...
    DepressedinMN DepressedinMN
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2007
    djjd123 djjd123
    13-15, M
    1 Response Aug 19, 2014

    HE Dumped Me....

    Well not really. He just quit answering my calls. He wouldn't call and he wouldn't answer the phone. I drove to his place and he wouldn't answer the door. I stood outside and banged on the door for over an hour while I called him at the same time. I could hear the phone ringing...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Mar 14, 2008
    gemini61289 gemini61289
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 20, 2015

    Down and Dirty

    today is kicking my ***. you're like a poison in my head that won't disperse. how the hell am i supposed to just forget about you- is life that simple? i was doing so well, bottling up all the emotions, pretending everything was okay. i know it's not. deep down i know i'm not...
    lostcancerian lostcancerian
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2007

    I like this friend but I don't know

    if I'm falling for him. He doesn't feel the same way about me. I know it because I know who he likes :( I accompanied him when he bought chocolate and roses for a friend (I bet he likes her too).... (well, I liked him during grade 2 and he would buy me food during recess but...
    missinvisiblegirl missinvisiblegirl
    26-30, F
    Apr 15, 2014

    He Said He Loved Me But He Didn't

    I shared this story in another group as well but thought it fit here too. I'm just so broken, lost and depressed. I miss my exboyfriend so much. We were together for a bit after a year, celebrated our anniversary with gifts and a night away and then two weeks later he said the...
    orangeblossoms orangeblossoms
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 16, 2009

    Valentine's Day Without the One You Want: a Survival Guide

    Valentine's Day (aka Singleness Awareness Day) can be brutal, especially when you know who you want and they don't want you back.  I have a radio show Valentine's night just for those of us who are alone. I invite you to listen in and I will even play a song for you if you...
    PhantomAccordion PhantomAccordion
    26-30, F
    Feb 14, 2008

    The Tables Have Turned...

    I have always been very good at getting the guys i want. but then i always get bored  before the relationship gets serious. my problem is; THIS TIME I DIDNT GET BORED. i love him so much, and for a while it seemed to be going ok. now i think he is bored with me and is done...
    LittleLady LittleLady
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2007

    Wounded Heart

    Been dating a girl for over 8 years. She broke up with me about 2 years and she wanted no contact from me. We got back together after 4 months and then eventually moved in together for a year. She recently moved out and said we were done. I'm still totally in love with her but...
    sashkenya sashkenya
    36-40, M
    1 Response Mar 17, 2012

    Every time I write a song

    for a girl, she either hates me before I can finish the song and she never hears it, or doesn't reciprocate the feelings. Maybe making songs for the girl you like is a bad idea, but I'm old-fashioned and still believe in romance that simply doesn't happen this day and age.
    alexisrhodeslover alexisrhodeslover
    Feb 8, 2015

    I'm currently seeing someone

    who hasn't shown they care about me. We don't spend much time together and he doesn't have much to say to me anymore. I'm putting too much trying to keep it together, but I can't keep it up much longer. If he ever has plans, I'm the last to know and the one left behind. He's...
    seredipidy seredipidy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 20, 2014

    he loved me..but i rejected him.

    ..now im in love with him..he doesnt have gf..but he is so proud and he doesnt want to be with me anymore....
    1golenaz 1golenaz
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2014

    I've known him ever since I've been a little

    girl. I guess I've always loved him deep down because I would always think about him as a child and right now as I write this. I think parts of me realise that he may like me back from the kisses he used to steal from me when we where you her or how he asked if I wanted to marry...
    Voldewarts Voldewarts
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 13

    I got bored and changed my facebook

    relationship status to complicated for kicks and giggles. My ex (who I still love) got super exited and sad that I didn't get a new girlfriend when I told her it was just a joke... *sigh*
    misterwhale misterwhale
    18-21, M
    Mar 22, 2015

    I never loved someone

    who loved me back. But that happens to the best of us. so I'm glad I can love :)
    Tallestdavid Tallestdavid
    26-30, M
    Nov 9, 2015

    He Said He Still Loves Me....

    He called again today and I went to meet him. I am more confused then ever now. He told me that he still loves me and always will. He says that he quit calling because he was scared of the way that he was feeling. He was afraid of getting too involved so he figured it was best to...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Apr 11, 2008
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