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I Love Someone With Anorexia

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 36 People

    My Mom

    My mother,whom i love more than anything,is anorexic.She is 83 lbs at 5'7.She is even losing her hair!I hate watching this!a size 0 needs a belt!She says eating makes her sick.How can i be supportive?She will be admitted to an inpaitent program in 2 weeks or she will die.She is...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2012

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    I Need Some Help Figuring Out My Daughter....

    My daughter has been diagnosed with anorexia and we are getting her a lot of help. She has 3-4 doctors, therapists and nutritionists. We have been dealing with this issue in the family for over a year now.Initially, her health was in jepoardy as she dropped down to 105lbs. Now...
    bbyrne11 bbyrne11 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    My Daughter Suffers From Anorexia Nervosa

    The title says it all. It is agonizing to feel that helpless and see the suffering in a most loved person. I have now met so many girls and young ladies suffering. They all share with my daughter this search for perfection, this selflessness. Why do they have to go through so...
    judo2237 judo2237 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 23, 2009

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    My Sister, My Mother, My Two Cousins And My Friend

    Sometimes i believe that the sickness is following me and wrapping itself around those i care the most, because when things seem to go well, it suddenly hits again, taking down someone that is truly close to my heart. I truly truly hate this sickness, i hate it with a burning...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes 18-21, F Apr 28, 2013

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    I Love Someone With Anorexia

    Hi, I have stumbled upon this group today. I never give up looking for support and help for my girlfriend. I met her through an on-line dating site (well she found me) we started chatting via the site and soon moved onto email chats, at first she said she has missed...
    kj38 kj38 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 12, 2010

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    I wanted to share this story,

    Maybe to make myself feel better,don't know...My mom is dying from anorexia.I saw her this weekend.She is 80lbs at 5'7 ,she has no energy,and laid in my bed for two days.You can see every bone.Now if she does eat ,her stomach hurts.She had a seizure a month ago.She has been in...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Anorexic Women

    Hi everyone, I feel i need to express my feelings about women who are anorexic from comments they have made about themselfs they say they can not be loved and some times reject friendship or even love if you think you are such a person then think twice i myself would love the...
    amilca amilca 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    My life has been a constant battle in so many ways and i feel i will always have to battle to keep as stable as i can and to stay away from toxic people. I don't hate people that...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I meet this girl who I got so close to I began to breath the air she breathed. I wanted to be so close to her all the time and when she went out with her friends I use to get so...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I am no longer with the person , it took me over two years to understand that she was brain damaged from years of cocaine use. Want to know if anyone else has seen people on Prozac...
    spaeth spaeth 41-45, M Apr 5

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    I think I am a narcissist magnet.. What makes me so vulnerable so as to enable new ones to continue coming again and again into my life?
    quantumenergy quantumenergy 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    How could I ever have told you how much I love you with so many red lights. RED RED RED RED RED ******* lights. As though the mere mentioning of that word 'love' makes you want to...
    PansLabyrinth PansLabyrinth 36-40, F 7 hrs ago

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    For any Demisexual people out there, you probably understand where I'm coming from when I say I've only truly loved someone once. I'm a Demisexual; and I can't fall in love without...
    SavedByMCR SavedByMCR 16-17, F Apr 10

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    I loved someone that didn't loved me. He used to chat on me everyday. He used to tell me 'goodnight' evernight. He played guiter for me. He gave the big doll to me. He talked to...
    preawsm preawsm 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Even til this day my feelings are so strong for him... I loved him, I love him but looking back it's pretty clear that the feelings are not mutual he must have stayed with me out...
    LadyMayah LadyMayah 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    Recently in my life, I've been knocked back. Again. I love someone, yes love, who I've seen a lot of recently, it's hard anyway because they live near me. Awkward. So I've devoted...
    MRichie97 MRichie97 16-17, M Mar 29

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    I remember when I went through this the worst feeling ever. When you love someone and give them your all and the treat you like a piece of **** in return. I'm blessed that I have...
    jsabree18 jsabree18 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I'm dating someone with asperger I think I have BPD we both just find out about this after starting having problems with our relationship, I love him and I know he loves me but I...
    MonicaCC2007 MonicaCC2007 31-35, F Apr 4

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    To love someone is to entrust them with the power to crush your soul, your spirit and your heart, and trusting them not to do it. I guess I trusted the wrong person.
    NumbHearts NumbHearts 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I really want to talk with someone without being so positive :/
    Levi2 Levi2 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    Exact opposite for me...a girlfriend is in love with me but I don't know if I love her. I love being with her and we are sexually compatible but sometimes I wonder if the grass is...
    Imaopenbook Imaopenbook 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    I love sex without protection message me and I will tell you why(;
    Hellogoodbye85 Hellogoodbye85 18-21, F 33 Responses Mar 31

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    I love being with young men and enjoy their company. I do enjoy travelling with older men too, and enjoy wonderful holidays
    PinkyPinks PinkyPinks 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love guys with beards & tattoos 😍
    Paisley01 Paisley01 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I've struggled with various eating disorders since being bullied at 11 years old, but the anorexia vs bulimia was the worst. I never lost or gained enough weight for anybody to...
    MMXIV MMXIV 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I had anorexia when I was 11 and nearly die if you would like to hear the whole story inbox me x
    elsapowelldooley elsapowelldooley 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    A few days ago one of my closest friends and classmate told me she is in an early stage of anorexia. She calls her Ana because she prefers avoiding the word. She's back in therapy...
    IcedPhoenix IcedPhoenix 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    when people get a cold or a virus it's easy to see that they are unwell. when you don't eat anything though people just presume it's because of a choice. not a lot of people look...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Please someone talk to me I will do anything
    elsapowelldooley elsapowelldooley 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    It really bugs me when people say that only skinny people have an eating disorder. I just hit 130lbs for the first time and I've honestly been anxious about it for days. But would...
    runningwithbears runningwithbears 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Throughout my younger teenage years I dealt with bulimia really bad. I had no idea what to do with my life anymore, I didn't want that for myself, I didn't want to be that way, no...
    bxttlebxrn bxttlebxrn 16-17, F Apr 6

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    I like getting feelings for someone unexpectedly out of nowhere for someone you never thought you would. When it comes as a natural surprise. The happy feelings that you get when...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Story of my life. It's not that I can't find someone to love me , it's that I can't find someone that I want to love... Smdh. I'm soooo tired of being alone :(
    GirlonFiyah GirlonFiyah 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    We always fall for this who don't feel the same Only just realise my other half doesn't love me like a girlfriend he loves me like a friend but sad that he want to me around...
    Lisalocket1225 Lisalocket1225 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Not just someone ; a boy or a girl I liked. My father.
    rath3rnotsay rath3rnotsay 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Forgetting someone that you've loved whom never love you back can be reasonable. But it's hardd!
    Ph24689 Ph24689 16-17, M Mar 29

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    I finally was able to see my son today and she was keeping him from me for a reason until the courts stepped in. She's with someone else the whole time I was supporting her giving...
    Romans12 Romans12 41-45, M Apr 6

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    Every time I like a guy or develop feelings for a guy or fall in love with a guy, I'm never liked back. Never. For once in my life, I want to be liked back. I want someone who...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 22 Responses Apr 13

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    I don't know if I should still love them or not. "Them" was my best friend who got me through a majorly bad time in my life, and I was at the edge of committing suicide. She was...
    Alice1998 Alice1998 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I don't know how i became like this. So i like someone but i am not sure if he's going to pursue me. We've been dating for almost a year now but still i don't know if he has good...
    april1814 april1814 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    YOU came into my life at a period when I was drowning in a figurative sense of term. 16 years of lonely life, a life built on day dreams, a life of escaping from reality , a life...
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    The most I'll ever amount to, is someone's number two.
    NumbHearts NumbHearts 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have had an experience where somebody who I loved decided to have an arranged marriage. If there is anyone who has had a similar experience or going through this, and wishes to...
    wishfulsoul wishfulsoul 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This one is for someone who just walked out of my life. I'm sorry that you feel the way that you do about me! I will always love you! Even if you don't.
    marine0351 marine0351 36-40, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Met Someone So Special So Amazing I Never Imagined A Love So Strong And So Wonderful And Although It's Tough For Us Being Apart We Try Our Best.Hopefully Someday We Might Be...
    LFMML LFMML 36-40, M 19 hrs ago

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    Was with someone for 3 years I thought everything was great. I guess she didn't... She broke up with me in a text message and I haven't seen her since.
    westay westay 26-30, M 15 Responses Mar 24

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    Im with someone for 6 years but when she left philippines and work in UAE she broke up with me ..Now she's sending me message and keep on saying goodbye and sorry. All i can say is...
    mhoriz mhoriz 22-25 Mar 25

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I am in love with someone who doesn't love me back or doesn't show it. I know I shouldn't be but the heart wants what the hearts and I want himmmmm! 😍😍
    toyamanaskieeee toyamanaskieeee 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    To ache for them but knowing you can't ever mention how you feel. Suspecting they feel the same but being stuck to someone you don't love anymore. Looking for them every...
    Valtielislord Valtielislord 18-21, M Apr 3

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    She was amazing, and fun to talk to, and I fell in love, and I thought at the start so did she, but a few weeks later I knew she didn't. It was if I was there just because she was...
    Akwa57 Akwa57 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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