I Love Spontaneity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 434 People

    This is a re-write of a blog

    that disappeared, as did all Blogs. It was a Sunday morning, the Kids were with the in-laws. I slipped out of bed and went downstairs to make a Cup of tea to take back up to bed. Waiting for the kettle boil I switched the Radio on, they were playing mostly Oldies. I love...
    biondetta biondetta
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2015

    Its What Makes Everything Exciting...

    spontaneity and impulsiveness is what makes everything exciting in my opinion..:) i cant seem to do anything unless it is spontanious...lol kinda funny tho but its true..i hate planning before hand..i just wanna get to it and not worry about planning ANYTHING...i know but..like...
    ElectroMagneticForce ElectroMagneticForce
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2010

    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    fergieCC12 fergieCC12
    26-30, F
    Dec 4, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 26, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 18, 2015
    ang401 ang401
    31-35, F
    Jun 14, 2015

    Unplanned Is Good

    I hate making plans that no matter how well thought out and confirmed always leaves room for those plans to fail due to some trivial uncontrollable detail. Lost luggage, delayed flight, road closure, overbooked hotel, the list goes on and on. Once one plans something out they...
    neonshades neonshades
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 5, 2010

    I'm Very "spur Of The Moment"

    I may seem disorganized to some, but if I have everything planned to the last detail, I feel caged beyond belief.  I take all of my obligations very seriously, but there's nothing quite like that unplanned night out with the girls or that stroll at midnight just to clear my...
    WastingSpace WastingSpace
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Jan 12, 2010

    Who wants to travel anywhere

    but the east cost USA with me? If you're free Monday, let's go to the airport and get out. Who's coming?
    Jennerrous Jennerrous
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Dec 4, 2014

    I Love Spontaneity.....

    I love the spontaneous person that I am..  Even though it would sometimes drive my partner crazy... There has been so many times when I have woken up in the morning and am like I want to do something, anything..  Then I'm like lets go on a road  trip..  My...
    CaliGirl3 CaliGirl3
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 15, 2008

    Calm, and restless. Passionate

    and ice cold! Deliberate, never consummate.
    Banyousbabe Banyousbabe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 13

    I Love Spontaneity

    So i joined this group Yay!!   Ok too much excitement for one day. I"m going back to my own boring life!
    Th3D0ct0r Th3D0ct0r
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 5, 2010

    Let It Be

    "...Consider your greatest moments... How many were spontaneous vs planned..." ~ David Culiner There are moments in our lives when things don't turn out as how we planned them to be. We then feel disappointed; but only because we expected. There's nothing wrong with a calculated...
    Sylphy Sylphy
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Feb 8, 2012

    I Like the Unpredictable

    My life is not a movie, no script involved. Trust me whe I say that I do not like to map and plan most things in my life, but nothing compares to just jumping in a car, no plan and do something that is out of the ordinary. I love that so much, I don't have to have an...
    RachelR RachelR
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 30, 2009

    The Road.

    I was always the one in my group of friends who was up for anything. More often than not, I was the one who would rally everyone together for something unplanned. Since my kids were born, the fun has gone out of that somewhat though. By the time you have packed four bags, toys...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow
    31-35, F
    30 Responses Mar 4, 2010

    So much for my last post!

    Thought I'd utilise a free afternoon and spur of the moment decision, set off to Formby Point at Southport to allow my two year old to experience the beach. Not planned, and it showed! No sandwiches packed for lunch (and there's no provision on site and so we'd to then have to...
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jun 16, 2015

    Usally 'stupid Spontaneity'

    For example, the other day I was at the mall before it opened, just walking around with the hubby waiting for a store to pull up a gate and there it was......Santa's chair.  I took a look around (like anyone would do anything anyway) and ran up to it and threw myself down...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 14, 2009

    Unpremeditated

    I love spontaneity! Within spontaneity is born new experiences and dreams. There are parts of my life that must be planned, But there are definately parts of my life that I prefer unwritten. I want to write the pages as I go along. This is the pleasure and memories that come from...
    finerside finerside
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2009

    And

    I even can be spontaneous myself  - though only sometimes :-)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 8, 2009

    Life Altering Changes

    In may of 2011, I found a lump. This was the scariest time of my, life. I was finallyndiagnosed of have a non-cancerous tumor in July, and had surgery in august to remove the golf ball sized tumor. In late October my mother was diagnosed with non-small cell carcinoma. We were...
    Aprillpaige01 Aprillpaige01
    36-40
    Jan 28, 2012

    One Of My Many Carefully Planned..Sweet Gestures?

    I made plans with my friend to set something straight with someone. On my way I realized that that person wasn't worth it..I sent a text to my friend saying forget it. She misunderstood what I said and assumed I wasn't coming at all so she got disappointed that she had told her...
    bunnicorn bunnicorn
    18-21, F
    Oct 26, 2013

    Unexpected Delight

    It's the nice surprises in life which make it worthwhile, not just the grand gestures, spontaneity allows for unexpected ideas and activities which if you thought too much about you'd never do normally but wish you had later.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater
    41-45, F
    Oct 6, 2010

    Think impulsivity is a better indicator of your

    true nature - before the calculating chaperone of a mind intervenes!
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015
    Somethingwhispered Somethingwhispered
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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