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I Love Spontaneity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 345 People

    The Road.

    I was always the one in my group of friends who was up for anything. More often than not, I was the one who would rally everyone together for something unplanned. Since my kids were born, the fun has gone out of that somewhat though. By the time you have packed four bags, toys...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow 31-35, F 30 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Unplanned Is Good

    I hate making plans that no matter how well thought out and confirmed always leaves room for those plans to fail due to some trivial uncontrollable detail. Lost luggage, delayed flight, road closure, overbooked hotel, the list goes on and on. Once one plans something out they...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 5, 2010

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    Unpremeditated

    I love spontaneity! Within spontaneity is born new experiences and dreams. There are parts of my life that must be planned, But there are definately parts of my life that I prefer unwritten. I want to write the pages as I go along. This is the pleasure and memories that come from...
    finerside finerside 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2009

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    One Of My Many Carefully Planned..Sweet Gestures?

    I made plans with my friend to set something straight with someone. On my way I realized that that person wasn't worth it..I sent a text to my friend saying forget it. She misunderstood what I said and assumed I wasn't coming at all so she got disappointed that she had told her...
    bunnicorn bunnicorn 18-21, F Oct 26, 2013

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    I'm Very "spur Of The Moment"

    I may seem disorganized to some, but if I have everything planned to the last detail, I feel caged beyond belief.  I take all of my obligations very seriously, but there's nothing quite like that unplanned night out with the girls or that stroll at midnight just to clear my...
    WastingSpace WastingSpace 31-35, F 12 Responses Jan 12, 2010

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    Usally 'stupid Spontaneity'

    For example, the other day I was at the mall before it opened, just walking around with the hubby waiting for a store to pull up a gate and there it was......Santa's chair.  I took a look around (like anyone would do anything anyway) and ran up to it and threw myself down...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 14, 2009

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    I Love Spontaneity

    So i joined this group Yay!!   Ok too much excitement for one day. I"m going back to my own boring life!
    Th3D0ct0r Th3D0ct0r 26-30 1 Response Mar 5, 2010

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    Its What Makes Everything Exciting...

    spontaneity and impulsiveness is what makes everything exciting in my opinion..:) i cant seem to do anything unless it is spontanious...lol kinda funny tho but its true..i hate planning before hand..i just wanna get to it and not worry about planning ANYTHING...i know but..like...
    ElectroMagneticForce ElectroMagneticForce 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2010

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    Life Altering Changes

    In may of 2011, I found a lump. This was the scariest time of my, life. I was finallyndiagnosed of have a non-cancerous tumor in July, and had surgery in august to remove the golf ball sized tumor. In late October my mother was diagnosed with non-small cell carcinoma. We were...
    Aprillpaige01 Aprillpaige01 36-40 Jan 28, 2012

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    Unexpected Delight

    It's the nice surprises in life which make it worthwhile, not just the grand gestures, spontaneity allows for unexpected ideas and activities which if you thought too much about you'd never do normally but wish you had later.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F Oct 6, 2010

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    quike23 quike23 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    And

    I even can be spontaneous myself  - though only sometimes :-)
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 8, 2009

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    Let It Be

    "...Consider your greatest moments... How many were spontaneous vs planned..." ~ David Culiner There are moments in our lives when things don't turn out as how we planned them to be. We then feel disappointed; but only because we expected. There's nothing wrong with a calculated...
    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I Like the Unpredictable

    My life is not a movie, no script involved. Trust me whe I say that I do not like to map and plan most things in my life, but nothing compares to just jumping in a car, no plan and do something that is out of the ordinary. I love that so much, I don't have to have an...
    RachelR RachelR 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    Who wants to travel anywhere

    but the east cost USA with me? If you're free Monday, let's go to the airport and get out. Who's coming?
    Jennerrous Jennerrous 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    fergieCC12 fergieCC12 26-30, F Dec 4, 2014

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    I Love Spontaneity.....

    I love the spontaneous person that I am..  Even though it would sometimes drive my partner crazy... There has been so many times when I have woken up in the morning and am like I want to do something, anything..  Then I'm like lets go on a road  trip..  My...
    CaliGirl3 CaliGirl3 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    "Luv" What's so wrong? Why the face so long Is it over? And where you going that You no longer belong here? And distance tells you that Distance must come between love Where have...
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    “To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to...
    DropsOfRain DropsOfRain 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    I no I am not the only one who feels this way, I just wish I could meet someone who desires, admires, worships, loves me as much as I do them. I haven't felt like that in about 14...
    wanthimtoNEEDme wanthimtoNEEDme 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    Poets are my favorite kind of songwriter. Love! If You Could Read My Mind. Gordon Lightfoot If you could read my mind, love What a tale my thoughts could tell Just like an old...
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    If you gotta start somewhere why not here If you gotta start sometime why not now If we gotta start somewhere I say here If we gotta start sometime I say now Through the fog there...
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    I always loved that person for his personality and stuff like that. He was my life support, He was my world, He was my everything. I tried telling him how I feel through facebook...
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    So many times I thought I would never find someone to love me the way I needed to be loved. Then you came into my life and showed me what love really is.
    TCL009 TCL009 41-45, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I fell in love with my best friend. Just the other day we had a talk about how we were both questioning our sexuality. It took a lot for me not to just kiss her dight then and...
    BeYou321 BeYou321 13-15, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    So WOAH I had no idea I had so much shinylicious glosses!!!! I actually have some others I found just the other day I have no idea where they are These were my staples during...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 20 hrs ago

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    i love my boyfriend. i love my boyfriend fully and truly. with all my mind and with all my heart i know that i love him. <3
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    As I have gotten older I know more of what I want,need. I want to love and be loved passionately. Where you can't wait to get home and see each other, hold one another. Where we...
    bedrock70 bedrock70 41-45, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I guess it's easy to say this; sometimes in the past it has made me cringe reading it. I guess because deep down I suffer from low self esteem, maybe even in some ways self...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Yes, I am married, with children, and have fallen in love with someone on the side. My new male lover makes me feel so wonderful and loved when we are together. We have so much...
    maryannelamb maryannelamb 46-50, F 10 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    with al my heart ful of love and expectations i married a man an year ago. but it didnt go smooth but some how i managed in the beginning. i showerd loads and loads of love on him...
    parveenansari parveenansari 26-30 8 hrs ago

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    Last Kiss by Taylor Swift <3 I still remember the look on your face Lit through the darkness at 1:58 The words that you whispered For just us to know You told me you loved me...
    missnicething missnicething 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I texted my ex friend/love today I couldn't take it anymore I love him and want to see him I'm waiting for him to text back. It's going to hurt if he doesn't because I have to...
    Brownsugar25 Brownsugar25 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    I do not understand this mentality that if you say 'i love you' too much it lose it's meaning. At all. I find it completely ridiculous. If someone tells you they love you five...
    faeriepool faeriepool 22-25 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Falling in love ? What's the point if he doesn't even like you back. When you're so deep in love that you can't get up. When you think someone will catch you but there's no one in...
    holyteenobserver holyteenobserver 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    How are we supposed to find love when society has smeared the line between love and lust so much that we have forgotten the distance. I just want someone who loves my intellect and...
    maemusic maemusic 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I love them so much, they're my little babies I have only got two now. My oldest cat ran away in the summer, :/ she really loved the outdoors more then us. The two I have now are...
    DevinaLockwood DevinaLockwood 16-17, F 20 hrs ago

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    I love Demi i love her songs every single one of them she is my role model she is the one who says stay strong no matter what life throws at you i don't know where i would be...
    iqra765 iqra765 16-17, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I dont know where to start from, my story is a bit complicated and I cant find an explanation.. So Im 20 years old and ever since I was a little girl i always knew I was attracted...
    niluferid07 niluferid07 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    We started off as friends and lovers... More than 2 decades ago now And the passion...oh, the passion It is our soul bond...where we are truly one We've loved and lived through so...
    iammine69 iammine69 41-45, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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