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I Love Spontaneity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 347 People

    Let It Be

    "...Consider your greatest moments... How many were spontaneous vs planned..." ~ David Culiner There are moments in our lives when things don't turn out as how we planned them to be. We then feel disappointed; but only because we expected. There's nothing wrong with a calculated...
    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    The Road.

    I was always the one in my group of friends who was up for anything. More often than not, I was the one who would rally everyone together for something unplanned. Since my kids were born, the fun has gone out of that somewhat though. By the time you have packed four bags, toys...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow 31-35, F 30 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Usally 'stupid Spontaneity'

    For example, the other day I was at the mall before it opened, just walking around with the hubby waiting for a store to pull up a gate and there it was......Santa's chair.  I took a look around (like anyone would do anything anyway) and ran up to it and threw myself down...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 14, 2009

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    Unpremeditated

    I love spontaneity! Within spontaneity is born new experiences and dreams. There are parts of my life that must be planned, But there are definately parts of my life that I prefer unwritten. I want to write the pages as I go along. This is the pleasure and memories that come from...
    finerside finerside 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2009

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    I'm Very "spur Of The Moment"

    I may seem disorganized to some, but if I have everything planned to the last detail, I feel caged beyond belief.  I take all of my obligations very seriously, but there's nothing quite like that unplanned night out with the girls or that stroll at midnight just to clear my...
    WastingSpace WastingSpace 31-35, F 12 Responses Jan 12, 2010

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    One Of My Many Carefully Planned..Sweet Gestures?

    I made plans with my friend to set something straight with someone. On my way I realized that that person wasn't worth it..I sent a text to my friend saying forget it. She misunderstood what I said and assumed I wasn't coming at all so she got disappointed that she had told her...
    bunnicorn bunnicorn 18-21, F Oct 26, 2013

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    I Love Spontaneity

    So i joined this group Yay!!   Ok too much excitement for one day. I"m going back to my own boring life!
    Th3D0ct0r Th3D0ct0r 26-30 1 Response Mar 5, 2010

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    fergieCC12 fergieCC12 26-30, F Dec 4, 2014

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    Who wants to travel anywhere

    but the east cost USA with me? If you're free Monday, let's go to the airport and get out. Who's coming?
    Jennerrous Jennerrous 36-40, F 10 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    And

    I even can be spontaneous myself  - though only sometimes :-)
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 8, 2009

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    Its What Makes Everything Exciting...

    spontaneity and impulsiveness is what makes everything exciting in my opinion..:) i cant seem to do anything unless it is spontanious...lol kinda funny tho but its true..i hate planning before hand..i just wanna get to it and not worry about planning ANYTHING...i know but..like...
    ElectroMagneticForce ElectroMagneticForce 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2010

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    It's a part of my imagination.

    Bambi/Colourfi is sound asleep beside me, so... who's up for a chat?
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F Dec 4, 2014

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    quike23 quike23 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    Unexpected Delight

    It's the nice surprises in life which make it worthwhile, not just the grand gestures, spontaneity allows for unexpected ideas and activities which if you thought too much about you'd never do normally but wish you had later.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F Oct 6, 2010

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    Life Altering Changes

    In may of 2011, I found a lump. This was the scariest time of my, life. I was finallyndiagnosed of have a non-cancerous tumor in July, and had surgery in august to remove the golf ball sized tumor. In late October my mother was diagnosed with non-small cell carcinoma. We were...
    Aprillpaige01 Aprillpaige01 36-40 Jan 28, 2012

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    Unplanned Is Good

    I hate making plans that no matter how well thought out and confirmed always leaves room for those plans to fail due to some trivial uncontrollable detail. Lost luggage, delayed flight, road closure, overbooked hotel, the list goes on and on. Once one plans something out they...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 5, 2010

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    I Love Spontaneity.....

    I love the spontaneous person that I am..  Even though it would sometimes drive my partner crazy... There has been so many times when I have woken up in the morning and am like I want to do something, anything..  Then I'm like lets go on a road  trip..  My...
    CaliGirl3 CaliGirl3 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    I Like the Unpredictable

    My life is not a movie, no script involved. Trust me whe I say that I do not like to map and plan most things in my life, but nothing compares to just jumping in a car, no plan and do something that is out of the ordinary. I love that so much, I don't have to have an...
    RachelR RachelR 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    It all started in a gloomy day at the start of high school, I met this guy who's name I will hide in J. For starters we weren't really that close, he was boy of fun and...
    Darkaeon Darkaeon 18-21, M Feb 5

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EaO-kgG7eCQ The Eagles- Best of My Love "The Best Of My Love" Every night I'm lyin' in bed Holdin' you close in my dreams Thinkin' about...
    notasmartman notasmartman 51-55, M 14 hrs ago

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    "If I Ever Fall In Love" The very first time That I saw your brown eyes Your lips said "Hello" And I said "Hi" I knew right then you were the one But I was caught up In...
    LanaKane101 LanaKane101 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    "Underneath It All" There's times where I want something more Someone more like me There's times when this dress rehearsal Seems incomplete But, you see the colors in me like...
    LanaKane101 LanaKane101 31-35, F 36 mins ago

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    stupid bastard. I hate him bc I love him loved him thought I loved him. I hate him bc I felt he was trying to love me wanted to love me. if it would have been a postcard it was...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    it's a crazy tale. i'm not exactly gay but I have a same sex lover and im in a perfectly good relationship with my partner. we are happy. really happy. my partner gets along...
    dahliaxx dahliaxx 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I don't deserve you. I don't deserve the gifts, letters, jewelry, and your love. I never give to you so why should I have all that you give to me? You're the most amazing person in...
    Mamasbabycub Mamasbabycub 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I think love is weird. It's awkward! And it makes me feel really uncomfortable! I don't know why. I just get a really weird uncomfortable feeling. I don't know .. the thought of...
    hi1347677 hi1347677 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I know this must sound fake but I married a man 49 years ago that I never really loved. I have never told anyone this. I kept making excuses that he was a good husband a good...
    blufftongal546 blufftongal546 66-70, F 2 hrs ago

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    http://youtu.be/dtQM-tuEaFo the alchemy of love You come to us from another world From beyond the stars and void of space. Transcendent, Pure, of unimaginable beauty, Bringing...
    israa94 israa94 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My favorite poem Smile - Elia Abu Madi Translated by: Mahmoud Abbas Masoud...
    israa94 israa94 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I love this life that the good Lord has gifted to me, and I pay it forward. Every Friday, for roughly the past 20 months, I have welcomed into my house, members of the Jehovah...
    leosdisciple leosdisciple 56-60, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Love love love love but my mom won't buy it anymore :( she says we have to diet
    TheGoddessFather TheGoddessFather 13-15, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    today my heart almost stop. you know when they say that you'd die for the ones you love. well my girlfriend was sick for a few days. and today after learning how serious it was my...
    kimmychantwo kimmychantwo 41-45, F 6 hrs ago

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    "Weak" I don't know what it is that you've done to me... but it's caused me to act in such a crazy way. Whatever it is that you do when you do what you're doing... it's a...
    LanaKane101 LanaKane101 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    Hi guys it's atfenix here and I'm just saying before I begin my story that this is completely true and I'm still in the predicament... So bear with me! Please like and comment, it...
    atfenix atfenix 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    It is I….Nobody and the sky…Sailing on the sea, in the dark of the night.We are anchored.Ready to hunker down… enjoy the timeWith Steaks, laughs, and wine...
    nocool nocool 41-45, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I absolutely love all of my six kids that my husband and I made together over the years. I love to raise them in a wholesome family environment. They seem to grow up so fast...
    britishfemaleinusa britishfemaleinusa 41-45, F 13 hrs ago

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    This is a poem about moving on.. (And all the a's in the random places are actually where I typed apostrophes, but EP messed it up) I know I'm not alone when you are here I can...
    Ladybugprincess Ladybugprincess 13-15, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    When you love someone... truly love them, friend or lover, you lay your heart open to them. You give them a part of yourself that you give to no one else, and you let them inside a...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    In a very short text I will try to describe my relationship with my mom.. My mother has always been to close to me because my father was always working abroad and my brother at...
    depb05 depb05 18-21, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    its a love hate relationship, i especially love baked sweets. have you ever tried apple pie pizza?? thats all love right there. 
    WhiteRice14 WhiteRice14 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Drove to the airport today to pick someone up, and even though I'm not getting on a plane I just love seeing them. To me planes literally and figuratively speaking resemble...
    Lolly28 Lolly28 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    When I was about 7, my brother and I received one gold chain each as a gift from a close family friend. Our parents thought that we were too young to wear something so valuable so...
    zilberjk zilberjk 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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    So I know I've posted a lot about being in love with my best friend. As of recently, I finally drew up the courage to leave my unhappy relationship and after a good while I've...
    CutttieBaby CutttieBaby 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    Such an amazing art by Kato Kangaroo for me ^^ He tooks it from my Fat Shiron being feed by a panda ( actually my profil pic) but on this one, i feed him :P ! Love this <3...
    Engdestroyer Engdestroyer 13-15, M