I Love Stimulating Conversation

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    An Unnamed Terror

    It was my job to feed the horses every night. Generally I would go down to the barn before or just as it was turning dark. I would go into the tack room and get some cracked corn for the horses in the stalls. I would go in and clean the stall add some hay to their feeder and...
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    Dec 5, 2012

    I Don't Like Talking ...

    Unless it is about something deep and meaningful ... something important, getting to know someone.. the future, the past ... things that change your life and your outlook, philosophy .... little things like "i love you's" are needed occasionally, but its annoying when...
    Overload Overload
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2007

    It's Gotta Get the Grey Matter Working.

    Fair enough, once in a blue moon, it's ok to have a mind numbing conversation, but really, it's so much more interesting when it's a stimulation conversation. One that makes you think and really gets your brain working. If a guy can hold a decent conversation with me, then he's...
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    2 Responses Jan 23, 2008


    There is absolutely nothing I love more than the thoughtful, free sharing of perspectives and new ideas in constructive, stimulating conversation. If you were a true lover to me you would know how to thrill me with discussion never even mentioning anything romantic or sexual.
    kittysoftpaws kittysoftpaws
    36-40, F
    Feb 14, 2013

    Something Very Strange

    chapter 1: viatris I woke up earlier than usual today. The rain hit the windows like a lot of hammers. I knew I would not go to school. I hate going to school. Especially these days. I am not so common, and sometimes I'm alone at recess. Until that day, I thought I was the only...
    afiksof333 afiksof333
    16-17, M
    Oct 21, 2013

    How Do You Know When a Relationship Has Ended?

    Is it always someone saying good bye?  Or is it when the conversations are no longer stimulating.  All that is left is the corpse of good sex...
    Flowerchild59 Flowerchild59
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 27, 2007

    I sometime go farther

    than I should because it doesn't take much to get myself stimulated.
    deleted deleted
    Dec 10, 2015

    Hmm, You Start.

    Sure, I love stimulating conversation. The trouble is, I don't know how to start it...
    KavookiSoldier KavookiSoldier
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2009

    Stimulating Conversation

    You want to keep it real and often stimulated.No need to keep it on the down low and degraded.You ought to feel within yourself you are elated.And then don't drag around behind you your mistakes,You've made.You want to keep it real and often stimulated.No need to keep it on the...
    CMA1234 CMA1234
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2012

    Kinda Sensual

    I recently had a very interesting conversation with a stranger.  We spoke about life, politics, economics and religion. he has lots of views and experience to share. It may sound bland and dull to others, but is just all too interesting for me. Till today i can still...
    nicorley nicorley
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2007

    Some conversations make me tingle.

    Some make me quite wet! Stimulation of mind and body are essential and friendly!
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Apr 30, 2015

    The time has come, my EP friends,

    to talk of many things. Of ships and shoes and sealing wax, of cabbages and kings! Who's up for a chat? ^_^
    Songsinshadow Songsinshadow
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    It's Great

    I love conversation that makes me think.  I love it when a person talks to me and it makes my wonder about a lot of things.  It makes me able to take them seriously.  I like it when I am asked questions that require some thinking to give the answer.  It...
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2010

    everybody is hiding behind avatar then asking

    for more pics to determine the next conversation.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 1

    I love it when no one is talking.

    then I start to hiss and grunt, make an unsummetrical movement or two and before I know it I've stimulated convo in the room!
    wildnfree15 wildnfree15
    70+, M
    Dec 12, 2015

    Someday It'll Be Me

    I'm generally one of those no regrets kinda guys.  I'm certainly not gonna kvetch over lost opportunities. But there is something that I deeply envy from others.  The Illuminati, dinner party conversation.  I've seen it on TV and sort of know that people...
    silvrsurfr silvrsurfr
    46-50, M
    Jul 25, 2009

    I Need More Intellectual Stinulation In My Life

    I love stimulating conversation,because i get so little of it,that is why i read books and the net. help,i am in a wasteland !!!!
    wideopenspaces77 wideopenspaces77
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 23, 2009

    I'm not sure there isn't anybody

    that doesn't love stimulating conversation. Its just a matter of how stimulating can it get and how open can you be with one another.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 6

    It Depends

    It depends on the person, or what we are talking about, or how comfortable I feel talking to them, most of the time if I feel that I have something in common with them it would be so easy for me to exchange ideas and who knows you may end up learning something new from them, is...
    OoLunaoO OoLunaoO
    2 Responses Oct 20, 2010

    Simulating Conversation

    No, it's not a spelling error. When I first spotted this group I thought that's what it was called. It got me thinking about extras in movies, all having "conversations" that you might hear bits of but usually can't. You know, the murmuring crowd in the background who...
    MechanicalBull MechanicalBull
    36-40, M
    Sep 11, 2009

    Conversations Opens Minds.

    I just love a great conversation with a friend or someone who has a lot to say. I believe that good stimulating conversations broadens my mind and thoughts. I think deeper on some facts and I love to think!
    eastsidechick eastsidechick
    26-30, F
    Sep 17, 2007

    I Liketh To Speakth Smartish

    I love an intellectual conversation everyday any day. a) requires me to think which enhances the memory b) get to learn new things and I absolutely love new things (shopaholic) c) turns me on lol, yea it gets me pretty close to an ****** because it demands my sleepy...
    silver7rose silver7rose
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2010


    I used to catch a train into Sydney city every day and always read the grafitti I would see on the journey. There was a big abbatoirs that had its own railway station that we would go past each day. The station platform ran the length of the back wall of the abbatoirs, a wall...
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    5 Responses Oct 4, 2012

    It Started With The End Of The World

    i had a great conversation with some friends of mine just the other day.  We started joking about the Mayan calender and about how many people would actually believe it.  Which I felt opened up some great opportunities to get those people to sell you their stuff real cheap...
    holloway64 holloway64
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 20, 2012

    I Love Deep Chats....

    It doesn't even have to be intellectual chat, I just like connecting with someone on a deeper level rather then just making small talk with another person. It makes me feel closer to that person and I just find it interesting.
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    1 Response May 17, 2011

    You're Not Special For Liking Snickers

    I love my grub. It amplifies my senses. I am a verbal eater and make noises to show my like or dislike of food and like to pinpoint the areas of my tongue that have sensation. Now don't get me wrong, its not like every time I eat I am this attuned. It is just a once in a while...
    averageweasel averageweasel
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2012

    Religion And Philosophy

    I love to talk about religion and philosophy with another person. I could go on forever about the topics. there are so many different topics to discuss and to agree on and disagree on, this to me get me going. and when it happens with a girl I am turned on by it, I love...
    Tekman84 Tekman84
    26-30, M
    Jan 20, 2010


    ! We can talk about everything else though!
    bevS62 bevS62
    61-65, F
    19 Responses Jan 18, 2015

    Had Me One

    Had a stimulating conversation early this am and it was really stimulating. I was actually lusting and wanting this person.
    BrattyAngel BrattyAngel
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2013

    I love discussing politics,

    social science research, business, and current events with other people. Although I certainly have my opinions, I am also open-minded and enjoy hearing other opinions. I especially like it when they have a very different perspective than I do, and then I'm actually able to look...
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    Feb 20, 2014

    Truth Be Told*

    What a Stimulating Space :) I Love diving in to What makes us Who We Are, What We Have Experienced, and How We See~ Both individually and Collectively * I want to Crack Open Understanding like an egg; like a Ripe Juicy Fruit, fresh from the Sun; Dripping from my face & getting...
    allistruth allistruth
    31-35, F
    Aug 29, 2012

    What's On My Mind

    To me, stimulating is anything that makes me want to continue to engage and continue talking to the person. It doesn't have to be an intelligent conversation, or funny, or even make sense sometimes. I just like to have that feeling that it is worth talking to this...
    RachelR RachelR
    26-30, F
    17 Responses Jul 25, 2009

    Question for all the good people of EP.

    Do you care if you exist? See, many philosophers (Locke, Descartes, Nietzsche) have pointed out that memory, thoughts, and senses can be unreliable. With that in mind, it swiftly becomes very, very difficult to say with absolute certainty that anything is real-- including...
    Songsinshadow Songsinshadow
    18-21, M
    Mar 17


    Stimulating conversations are awesome. Just the mention of fruit, butter, costumes or animals just gets me so stimulated. I love the energy I get from my circle. The stimulation is never ending! Great to be in such company where we can discuss these riveting topics.
    soulrunher soulrunher
    41-45, F
    4 Responses May 3, 2013

    Maybe Im a Biggot

    I actually really get bored with so many people. But if its stimulating conversation I can tak all night. Why i find so much so trivial i dont know
    nuttygirl nuttygirl
    22-25, F
    Oct 22, 2007

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    I think having late night conversations would help you relieve the stress in your body. If you're talking to a certain someone, and they stay awake to have a conversation with you...
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    l love when conversations and energies just flow, not forced not coerced, just present.
    Ruben1970 Ruben1970
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    l have the deepest affection for intellectual conversations, the ability to just sit and talk, about love, about life, about anything, about everything. To seat under the moon with...
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    hi who up I love to receiving pictures for my inbox up good conversation wake up women lol
    slm300 slm300
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    there's something amazing about just being able to be in someone's presence without having to force a conversation. when it happens it is natural, if it doesn't you're both content...
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    I'm attracted to intelligence, not the book smart type of intelligence, l could care less whether you've gone to college or how much money you have because of it, l like...
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    All day, everyday I would imagine someone is spending time with me and I'm just having full on conversations with this imaginary person in my head while I'm doing literally...
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    I'm a simple man. I like discussing current events history mysteries and science. I also enjoy women of all ages ;) 18 to 60s mmmm indeed I would very much enjoy stimulating...
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    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet
    41-45, M
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    Donnaen Donnaen
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13
    Have you seen the profile photo of this group? I actually literally did that once, just to break the common routine of shy first meetings between friends (or potential crushes...
    SparkofDecency SparkofDecency
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13
    YAYYYYY!!!!! Read my profile first…. R E A D! Look at the groups I've joined! Sheesh… You want to do that before starting up a conversation with me. It clearly states I'm NOT...
    SpirallingUp SpirallingUp
    26-30, F
    Apr 12
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    HazelMotes HazelMotes
    51-55, M
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