on 05:10PM at Oct 21st, 2008
Does it depend on the relationship you are in? Does the bloke feel comfortable buying lingerie as a gift? Or ladies do you prefer to buy your own?
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on 10:16PM at Apr 22nd, 2009
I think it depends on the relationship and how good the taste of your man is. I prefer to buy my own lingerie. If he happens to be with me at the time I'm shopping for some, I'm fine with him getting his credit card out at the till since he benefits, too.
I don't usually like it when my man buys me lingerie as a special gift for a special occasion. The truth be told, I prefer to be taken out to dinner, or theatre. Buying lingerie sends the obligatory message that I have to wear it for him. We all know where that scene usually ends up. I don't to feel like I have to acquiesce to his sexual overtures just because I choose to wear his gift.
If the lingerie is only part of a gift and other activities or things are included, then I'm OK with it provided it is in good taste.
on 06:08AM at Aug 7th, 2009
I don't usually buy lingerie as a gift, but rather give a gift voucher for lingerie as a gift. If the lady invites me on her lingerie buying spree, I usually offer to pay if she lets me watch the fitting. I buy my own lingerie and likes it if there is a female present to assist and give advice.
on 06:21PM at Feb 21st, 2010
My wife loves that I buy her lingerie. She actually prefers it now. You do have to do you homework though. The first time you buy it make sure it something she would wear. If you buy some outrageous pair she may get offended and she will not want you to do it again. Be thoughtful and it will turn into something very fun. There are plenty of websites that have area to help a man buy lingerie for his significant other.
on 03:17PM at Jun 10th, 2010
Well, it's a difficult task in the first instance but once you've done it successfully once then it gets much easier. I love to buy my wife lingerie & once I established the pattern (colours, style etc.) it has become something that I do twice a year (Valentine's & Christmas). She still enjoys it & so do I. Tips?
Get 2 knickers for each bra (different style)
Add with flowers
....and you're all set
on 08:25PM at Aug 12th, 2010
Sadly, being a solitary closet stockings and suspenders wearing male, I have to buy my own.
But always open to offers!