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Fresh Poster  | on 10:24AM at Nov 29th, 2007 For me, I have been stopped and complimented from time to time. I have even been honked at walking down the street, etc. I dress normal, but I know I am sexy and cute. I always smile in return or thank them for the compliment (as long as it is not crude). Just my opinion. |
| Fresh Poster | on 08:00PM at Nov 29th, 2007 Not ever a clear cut situation, I think.
Some women like to dress "sexy" for themselves, because it makes them feel good to feel attractive, but that doesn't mean they want people to ogle them.
Some women like to dress "sexy" for other women, and it's got nothing to do with you thank you very much.
Some women like to dress "sexy" to get men's attention.
Some women like to dress "sexy" to get only the attention of the hott, cute guys, and quit staring at me you fat ugly freak.
No way to please everyone, which I think brings it back to it being about how you wish to conduct yourself.
If you are respectful and civil, and view people as attractive people rather than ob jects, then you set your own standards, people can take them how they wish, but you know you meant no disrespect.
Of course, I think it helps to not act like a creep, by which I mean acknowledge the person, be it with non-creepy eye contact, a smile, a nod... or even a wink ;)
Also, I don't know what I'm talking about, but I thought I'd share these thoughts anyway. ;)
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| Fresh Poster | on 08:02PM at Nov 29th, 2007 Dodo, you know what you're talking about! |
| Fresh Poster | on 08:54PM at Nov 29th, 2007 Dodo, so true. So many time I dress up nice for the ladies but get hemmed in by guys. The attention is nice I guess, but when it's not what I'm looking for it can be rather....annoying. I start wondering if SHE will think I'm straight cuz men are nearby. But then, I'm paranoid that way, and tend to go after women I couldn't possibly get in reality. It tends to be safer that way... I'm a coward.
So really, at least in my case I guess it doesn't matter. The ob ject of my affection is very unlikely to even notice me, guys or no guys (unless she's also bi and wants a quickie, and I may be lonely, but I'm not THAT lonely....yet) |
| Fresh Poster | on 09:16PM at Nov 29th, 2007 Most women, and yes I have read some of the other comments, but most women have already heard it all before. All the one liners, etc. ME - I appreciate a true compliment and I can tell the difference between a real compliment and a pick up line, etc. You are on the right track, noticing something in particular, subtle - you mentioned perfume - that is always good. Colors are good too, or if a woman holds your gaze casually mention the shape or color of her eyes. That will tell you if you get a green or red light. Just my humble opinion. |
| Fresh Poster | on 10:55PM at Mar 27th, 2008 i am tricky... i will pretend to be offended if i am with girlfriends because that is what i am suppossed to do. but i will look back a give you a smirk... if i am alone i will say thank you.
i like feeling appreciated and looked at, as long as someone else said.. its not crude. dirty crosses a line. |
| Fresh Poster | on 06:11AM at Jun 20th, 2009 I am always flattered ..unless the person says something freaky ...then i am just scared |
| Fresh Poster | on 12:15PM at Oct 18th, 2009 I am able to say that the human body is a beautiful thing to touch feel an to look at of course
I will admit to looking an being able to sense them in different levels sexually an otherwise both women and male
there is a difference between class an not having it i have been flirted with an stared at and for me it is nice the attention if it is givin in the right way
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