I Love Them, But Am Not In Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 21 People

    When to Give Up

    Over the past 3 or 4 weeks he has been so good to me, and I honestly have been trying, too.  But I don't know if I can fall back in love with him, and I am not able to trust him.  He has rejected me and put me down so many times in the past that I have built up this...
    eromreven eromreven
    Dec 23, 2007

    Confusing?...it Is For Me

    Have you ever heard someone say "I love them, but I am not in love with them"..? This is definitely a statement that confuses me. The number of times I have heard it from a woman about her husband/partner/boyfriend when really what they appear to mean is "we are...
    mikemcneil mikemcneil
    51-55, M
    16 Responses Dec 22, 2007

    Too Many Contradictions!!!...

    I don't know if this experience can necessarily count or even equate to the others, but it is a different version of the same problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for little more that a month. When we first started talking I couldn't eat when I talked or...
    everlolita everlolita
    18-21, F
    Nov 2, 2009

    My Ex...

    He is my best, well only friend. He fell out of love long time ago, but never said so. So I kept trying, till I fell out of love too. Still lived together. I could not leave. Unemployed and in debt with big interest rate. Tried moving to my fathers place, but he soon showed me I...
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 19, 2012

    Ok Here It Is

    I'm not happy in my relationship and I've tried to leave but he threatened to hurt himself and I didn't know what to do. *edit* I thankyou for all your support but I finally got rid of this guy. he is long gone now and I've met a better person :)
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 23, 2007

    The Boyfriend

    He is making it so hard for me to love him at all. Just might be time to end it and move on.
    Cynn Cynn
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2008

    Such a Cliche

    I've heard the phrase "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" so many times in movies or jokes or even with other couples.  I always thought how is that even possible?  Well apparently I get to find out.  My boyfriend is an amazing catch, we were...
    ConfusedKitten ConfusedKitten
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2009
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