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I Love to Be Alone

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    My Life Going Wrong Way...

    I dont know from where to start only thing i know is everything is going on a bad track for almost 3 years... I have somebody in my life who is using me every way he can? he is in our family relations now I dont know how to get rid of that person or to be honest i think i love...
    prisoned prisoned 26-30 Oct 10, 2011

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    Love Has Never Done Me Good....

    Had my first girl we wa together for a year, I did ol that i cud jus to show her hw much I luv n care bowt her. i even dreamed of gettin married to her but she ends up leaving me wit nah reason todate, I begged her to forgive me n give me another chance but she refused, I olso...
    profbrizee profbrizee 26-30, M Dec 30, 2011

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    My father once told me,

    "if you don't enjoy being alone, that means you're in bad company" That being said, I've learned to love myself, alight at myself, and to cherish my solitude. So much so, that I'm beginning to want to be alone all the time! It's gotten to the point where that's my favorite thing...
    mkazemi1984 mkazemi1984 26-30, F Mar 15

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    My Own Pumpkin To Sit On Than A Crowded Couch

    For countless years, growing up through childhood and even joining religion, which I recently broke free from - there was such a huge pressure to be with people all the time always doing things "a bunch of busy bodies". Which when i tried to engage I felt torn because as much as...
    soliare soliare 26-30, M 1 Response May 14, 2012

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    Yeah I really like to be alone,

    away from all the judgements of creepy people. Just me, my home and internet. No friend, no one to bother you, no one to disturb, just silence, music and me.
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 2

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    I don't mind being alone

    but I hate feeling lonely. Like I do right now. Sigh.
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F Mar 12

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    I Dont Want To Be Alone But I Always End Up Being Alone

    I feel i love it nowPeople dont understand my feelings even if they do its temporaryi have gfs good family everything but i still feel so alone
    paljeet paljeet 22-25, M Jan 26, 2012

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    When I Was A Little Girl

    One of my favorite things to do was be by myself. I would sit in my room and read, write or daydream. Sometimes I would stare out the window happily looking at the birds and excited when I saw a new one to read up on in my bird book. As I got older I went on long walks. No...
    love2Balone love2Balone 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2011

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    I Love to Think When Im Alone....

    i love to think when im alone. its so peaceful. especially in the rain.
    NuntiusMortui NuntiusMortui 16-18, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2007

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    Being alone can give you time to be at peace

    and think. Everyone needs it. Doesn't everyone need some time to think about someone and not hear people chattering in the background?
    MeganXXXXX MeganXXXXX 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Time Alone

    i grew up with 6 brothers ............ only girl, so it was like being the only child in many ways.... i never had to share cause i was the only girl, had my own room, clothes, toys etc..... my brothers were of old school....your a girl go away .....  so i did! made my own way...
    westsideblues1 westsideblues1 41-45, F Aug 6, 2011

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    I Luv Being Alone...it Seems L...

    i luv being alone...it seems like i get a lot accomplished & i don't have to deal w/certain ppl...
    hazwms hazwms 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    I love being alone i feel like it saves me from

    myself in ways... I het to be myself and not act like at school i get to be free think freely and do what i want there are no limits !!
    otakugamerwolf otakugamerwolf 13-15, F Apr 13

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    xogirl28 xogirl28 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I Can Be Alone In a Dark Room ...

    I can be alone in a dark room with nothing in it and stay in there for hours.
    dustygirl122 dustygirl122 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2007

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    Im Free....

    Sometimes it nice being alone....you can relax your mind...stay out of problem..control your daily life activity and more....pick some nice place to being alone so you can achieve all the thing listed above...pick the place that suit with you feeling....
    RaidaraX RaidaraX 18-21, M Dec 2, 2012

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    How to Find a Mate When I Love to Be Alone So Much?

    I'm twice-divorced and I've had two other very fulfilling, long-term relationships with men here in my adult life, but in hindsight, I really think I subconsciously sabotaged all of these relationships because they asked too much of me -- i.e., the "relationship...
    Lenchen Lenchen 46-50, F 18 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    Freshly Vacuumed Carpets

    Greetings. Hey, I am alone right now! Nothing is better. After working all week, talking on the phone with "zillions" of people, I run a bath, read a "beauty" mag and unplug my telephone. I NEED to deflate daily or I am one rotten, miserable lady to get along...
    redflower redflower 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2007

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    Alone Is Not Lonely.

    I'm from a mixed marriage.  I like privacy and my own space, but my husband and his whole family are "togetherists". Last night we had an argument (not for the first time) about why I lock myself in the bathroom every night after the kids are in bed.  To...
    Mikki Mikki 31-35, F 3 Responses May 19, 2007

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    At Least Two Times a Week.&nbs...

    at least two times a week.  Alone time is very important and maintaining a sense of self  individuality.  Don't want to spend so much time with others to the point where you get a little of everyone's personality and you don't know where they end and you began...
    uncommonlysweet uncommonlysweet 26-30, F 1 Response May 4, 2007

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    When I Am Alone

    I might be an extreme case here because when I say I love being alone I actually mean it. I try to be alone as much as possible. It is nothing personal towards anyone but it is necessary for me. I actually like people, I just cannot be around them to long. I try not to put myself...
    emarr1984 emarr1984 26-30, M Oct 1, 2011

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    Big Family = No Privacy

    Which basically means that now, I absolutely, thoroughly relish the idea of being alone. I even like going to the movies by myself! Not that I mind company, but sometimes the only company you need is me, myself, and I.
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2008

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    Rare, But Sacred...

    Solitude is precious to me. It is when I am able to think clearly and reflect on my thoughts, the events that have been going on, and things that are important to me. I VERY rarely am alone, though. I am only 16 and live with my parents, so I have that to deal with. Also, I have...
    ThistleWeed ThistleWeed 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2007

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    Sometimes

    I like being alone sometimes but not all the time.  I am a people person and need to be around others but I have my days where I want to be alone.  It is nice to just sit and think with no distractions.
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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    I love been alone because you will say at out

    trouble In you have less drama
    Purplequeen21 Purplequeen21 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I Can Hear My Thoughts

    i absolutely love to be alone. i can think things through and breathe. i like to imagine and just have peace...i love to read and watch movies alone too. i also do some writing and poetry. because i am alone i can hear my thoughts
    prettyplussizeme prettyplussizeme 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    Being Alone Feels So Good Some Times.

    i real love bo alone some times,i get time to think of what to du ,and what i want in ma life,infact if i take long time without being alone,i feel so bad and i always find a place quit and not populated,to seet and think,its feels so nice,i enjoy it,
    Tulip91 Tulip91 18-21, F Oct 12, 2011

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    Its The Only Option.

    Its the only way to stay out of trouble, No one around, No Temptations, it will all be good, I already had my good times. 
    Cupcake2 Cupcake2 22-25, M 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    I feel like the world wants to much from me.

    It's getting harder to fake it around people now a days. I just count down the minutes until I can be alone with myself again. I enjoy my own company over anyone else's and it's exhausting and sometimes infuriating that I am forced to share myself with others.
    Mercurylucidity Mercurylucidity 18-21, F 1 Response May 11

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    Loner's Problem

    When I see or remember people I know and I used to know :When I wake up in an unexpected time and can't go back to sleep :When the stupid me can't stop the flow of those replayed memories in my head :When I feel like I'm in love with that person for the 10000000000000 times :When...
    HakujitsuSeiten HakujitsuSeiten 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    What It's Like To Be Alone....

    i like staying alone by myself.... it gives me time to be the real me...i can dance like crazy and sing at the top my voice and never care about who is watching or listening. sometimes i sit alone on the park bench looking at everything around me...how everything is always as...
    iamimportant iamimportant 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2012

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    Friday Night

    I spent last Friday drinking wine alone; playing darts and listening to Ryan Adams in my studio apartment, and making pizza with vegan cheese for the first time. I enjoyed rolling out the dough with the bottle I had selected before popping the cork. After two glasses I...
    veganimal veganimal 21-25, M 2 Responses Dec 19, 2006

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    I wish I had more alone time,

    I need to be alone like 6 days out of 7 to be truly happy
    roxygirl577 roxygirl577 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I am always alone. Its peaceful

    and it lets me think. I love being alone.
    Anaaaaa345 Anaaaaa345 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    But No One Would Guess.

    I love people I spend most of my day, which I love, being with people! And people often say to me... You would probably go into depression if you were not around people. For the most part that is true. But I spend so much time with other people that I forget where the end and I...
    afaintreflection afaintreflection 26-30, M Mar 24, 2011

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    I Like To Be Alone

    I like to be alone but not as much as I am alone.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    At Times

    Sometimes I get so tired of people that I just want to crawl into a shell and stay there for a while. During that time I usually stay away from friends, don't go anywhere, just sit home, read books, listen to music. And absolute minimum interaction with humans... I'm also...
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2010

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    My Thoughts Are Company Enough..

    I like being alone with my thoughts, without anyone interrupting you. It's so annoying, when you're thinking and suddenly somebody's calling you -.-
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 18, 2008

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    I Love Just Rambling Around On My Grandfather's Farm With Just Me, Myself & Nature.

    The older I get (almost 55) the more I find myself out in the north Georgia forest just walking long distances and enjoying nature. I love to sit on a mountain side as I did yesterday enjoying the natural sounds of the wind and the rushing river in the valley below. The huge oak...
    bigyards bigyards 51-55, M Jan 31, 2011

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    Left Behind By Some One I Really Trusted......

    Hi every one, My story is quiet common. Every one in their life time will come across or their friends will. I trusted a girl. But thatgirl finally left me alone and living happily with other guy. She even didnt remember our 5 long years of friendship...:( :(
    phenioxbadra phenioxbadra 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    The Pleasure Of Being Alone..

    ..when i am alone,i can do everything that i wanted to do..silence and privacy around me.
    lonewolf000 lonewolf000 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    many peOple will gEt bored

    when they R alOne but i loVe being alone & do wt i wanT
    BkkVARMA BkkVARMA 18-21, M Apr 27

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    Smiling In The Gap Between Thoughts

    I don't know a lot of people who are like me. I usually meet people who share specific interests, like wine, or politics, or cosmetics. I generally like people, but I like my quiet spaces because I have good chances to think carefully about a lot of things. I don't crave...
    GrabYourPardnerDoeSeeDoe GrabYourPardnerDoeSeeDoe 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2012

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    Because It's..

    It's better than being bullied...It's better than having to deal with other people's junk behaviors...It's better than being surrounded by selfish, shallow people...I can do what I enjoy doing without constant disruption...I can be myself...I don't have to argue with stubborn ppl...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 7 Responses May 2, 2011

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    I Enjoy My Own Company

    I like being with myself alot. I can only be around people for so long before I'm wishing they would leave me be. I like the freedom not to feel I have to make small talk, I like not habing to fake laugh because I'm feeling down and don't want anyone to know. I like being able to...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    I am an extremely joyful introvert! I love alone time, it makes me feel so happy and peaceful. Walks in nature watching birds, pottering in my garden helping my plants grow, curled...
    FinlayBrowne FinlayBrowne 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    And I'm here my love alone in my own world of desolation I tried to open my eyes and look through the curtains But all I can see is the rays of the sun piercing my mangled heart I...
    fosselfuel fosselfuel 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    “I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone.” Robin Williams...
    Pharmalady Pharmalady 31-35, F 48 mins ago

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    I've been asked a lot of times "Why are you a loner? Why are you so lonely?" for sitting alone at school. Why can't I just be with myself? Not because I'm by myself it means that I...
    anon152 anon152 13-15, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    its the time in my life when I am so alone. i don't have friends with me to share anything. i am living with my family but in this home i don't have a single person with whom i can...
    brokenangelia brokenangelia 26-30, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Sure sometimes I like just being alone but at certain times I just feel like another person is just what I need
    MidNightSightX MidNightSightX 16-17, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Goin to the movies alone-.-
    Meyrinfields Meyrinfields 16-17, F