I Love to Be Alone

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    I Dont Want To Be Alone But I Always End Up Being Alone

    I feel i love it nowPeople dont understand my feelings even if they do its temporaryi have gfs good family everything but i still feel so alone
    paljeet paljeet
    22-25, M
    Jan 26, 2012

    I love being with my family,

    but I feel as though I need time completely alone as well. I crave it.
    TheNewOldMe TheNewOldMe
    36-40, F
    Jul 1, 2015

    Im Free....

    Sometimes it nice being alone....you can relax your mind...stay out of problem..control your daily life activity and more....pick some nice place to being alone so you can achieve all the thing listed above...pick the place that suit with you feeling....
    RaidaraX RaidaraX
    18-21, M
    Dec 2, 2012

    No one care for me. No one is gonna be with me.

    I was, I'm and I'll alone forever.
    vaupadhyay vaupadhyay
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    I don't mind being alone

    but I hate feeling lonely. Like I do right now. Sigh.
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613
    18-21, F
    Mar 12, 2014

    I am always alone. Its peaceful

    and it lets me think. I love being alone.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Mar 30, 2014

    many peOple will gEt bored

    when they R alOne but i loVe being alone & do wt i wanT
    22-25, M
    Apr 27, 2014

    Enjoing My Company

    I spend the majority of my time alone and I pretty much love it! i've learned from my baby years to elementry to now in cejep how to keep myself busy and happy on my own. I love to read,write poetry,listen to music,draw,observ people. I dont find myself needing others to to...
    BelleRaven BelleRaven
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2009

    My Own Pumpkin To Sit On Than A Crowded Couch

    For countless years, growing up through childhood and even joining religion, which I recently broke free from - there was such a huge pressure to be with people all the time always doing things "a bunch of busy bodies". Which when i tried to engage I felt torn because as much as...
    soliare soliare
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 14, 2012


    I like being alone sometimes but not all the time.  I am a people person and need to be around others but I have my days where I want to be alone.  It is nice to just sit and think with no distractions.
    rondat rondat
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Dec 10, 2007

    No Complaints

    What I love most about being alone is being able to go wherever I want, do whatever I want to do, and not have to worry about upsetting the person who is with me. Also, when I'm alone, no one can tell me not to be naked! LMNAO!
    hadakarei hadakarei
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

    In all honesty the only reason

    why I don't worry about having friends at school is because I've been at the position where I've seen how fake they are and in all honesty I've succeeded by myself way more then I will ever succeed if I start messing around with them and play their little kids games i don't have...
    notgranted42 notgranted42
    18-21, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    Smiling In The Gap Between Thoughts

    I don't know a lot of people who are like me. I usually meet people who share specific interests, like wine, or politics, or cosmetics. I generally like people, but I like my quiet spaces because I have good chances to think carefully about a lot of things. I don't crave...
    GrabYourPardnerDoeSeeDoe GrabYourPardnerDoeSeeDoe
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2012

    Loner's Problem

    When I see or remember people I know and I used to know :When I wake up in an unexpected time and can't go back to sleep :When the stupid me can't stop the flow of those replayed memories in my head :When I feel like I'm in love with that person for the 10000000000000 times :When...
    HakujitsuSeiten HakujitsuSeiten
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2012

    I love to isolate myself from this world.

    To be alone especially when i feel down(always). Today its so easy, you don't really need friends if you're gamer or otaku or all of it. There's so much YouTube channels all sorts of media that will keep u busy.
    Crower Crower
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2015

    Big Family = No Privacy

    Which basically means that now, I absolutely, thoroughly relish the idea of being alone. I even like going to the movies by myself! Not that I mind company, but sometimes the only company you need is me, myself, and I.
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2008

    Time Alone

    i grew up with 6 brothers ............ only girl, so it was like being the only child in many ways.... i never had to share cause i was the only girl, had my own room, clothes, toys etc..... my brothers were of old school....your a girl go away .....  so i did! made my own way...
    westsideblues1 westsideblues1
    56-60, F
    Aug 6, 2011

    I Enjoy My Own Company

    I like being with myself alot. I can only be around people for so long before I'm wishing they would leave me be. I like the freedom not to feel I have to make small talk, I like not habing to fake laugh because I'm feeling down and don't want anyone to know. I like being able to...
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2007
    xogirl28 xogirl28
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2014

    My father once told me,

    "if you don't enjoy being alone, that means you're in bad company" That being said, I've learned to love myself, alight at myself, and to cherish my solitude. So much so, that I'm beginning to want to be alone all the time! It's gotten to the point where that's my favorite thing...
    mkazemi1984 mkazemi1984
    31-35, F
    Mar 15, 2014

    How to Find a Mate When I Love to Be Alone So Much?

    I'm twice-divorced and I've had two other very fulfilling, long-term relationships with men here in my adult life, but in hindsight, I really think I subconsciously sabotaged all of these relationships because they asked too much of me -- i.e., the "relationship...
    Lenchen Lenchen
    46-50, F
    18 Responses Apr 22, 2008

    When I Am Alone

    I might be an extreme case here because when I say I love being alone I actually mean it. I try to be alone as much as possible. It is nothing personal towards anyone but it is necessary for me. I actually like people, I just cannot be around them to long. I try not to put myself...
    emarr1984 emarr1984
    26-30, M
    Oct 1, 2011

    I Can Hear My Thoughts

    i absolutely love to be alone. i can think things through and breathe. i like to imagine and just have peace...i love to read and watch movies alone too. i also do some writing and poetry. because i am alone i can hear my thoughts
    prettyplussizeme prettyplussizeme
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Apr 14, 2009

    I wish I had more alone time,

    I need to be alone like 6 days out of 7 to be truly happy
    roxygirl577 roxygirl577
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2014

    I Love to Think When Im Alone....

    i love to think when im alone. its so peaceful. especially in the rain.
    NuntiusMortui NuntiusMortui
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 12, 2007

    Left Behind By Some One I Really Trusted......

    Hi every one, My story is quiet common. Every one in their life time will come across or their friends will. I trusted a girl. But thatgirl finally left me alone and living happily with other guy. She even didnt remember our 5 long years of friendship...:( :(
    phenioxbadra phenioxbadra
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 27, 2012

    Alone Is Not Lonely.

    I'm from a mixed marriage.  I like privacy and my own space, but my husband and his whole family are "togetherists". Last night we had an argument (not for the first time) about why I lock myself in the bathroom every night after the kids are in bed.  To...
    Mikki Mikki
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 19, 2007

    Have you ever say there

    and wondered what your time would have been like if you were just happily alone?
    FreedomRise98 FreedomRise98
    18-21, F
    Feb 6, 2015

    At Least Two Times a Week.&nbs...

    at least two times a week.  Alone time is very important and maintaining a sense of self  individuality.  Don't want to spend so much time with others to the point where you get a little of everyone's personality and you don't know where they end and you began...
    uncommonlysweet uncommonlysweet
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 4, 2007

    Friday Night

    I spent last Friday drinking wine alone; playing darts and listening to Ryan Adams in my studio apartment, and making pizza with vegan cheese for the first time. I enjoyed rolling out the dough with the bottle I had selected before popping the cork. After two glasses I...
    veganimal veganimal
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2006

    Freshly Vacuumed Carpets

    Greetings. Hey, I am alone right now! Nothing is better. After working all week, talking on the phone with "zillions" of people, I run a bath, read a "beauty" mag and unplug my telephone. I NEED to deflate daily or I am one rotten, miserable lady to get along...
    redflower redflower
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2007

    I love being alone i feel like it saves me from

    myself in ways... I het to be myself and not act like at school i get to be free think freely and do what i want there are no limits !!
    otakugamerwolf otakugamerwolf
    16-17, F
    Apr 13, 2014

    I love been alone because you will say at out

    trouble In you have less drama
    Purplequeen21 Purplequeen21
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2014

    I Like To Be Alone

    I like to be alone but not as much as I am alone.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    1 Response Jan 25, 2012

    At Times

    Sometimes I get so tired of people that I just want to crawl into a shell and stay there for a while. During that time I usually stay away from friends, don't go anywhere, just sit home, read books, listen to music. And absolute minimum interaction with humans... I'm also...
    SunnySmile SunnySmile
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2010

    The Pleasure Of Being Alone..

    ..when i am alone,i can do everything that i wanted to do..silence and privacy around me.
    lonewolf000 lonewolf000
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 4, 2012

    My Thoughts Are Company Enough..

    I like being alone with my thoughts, without anyone interrupting you. It's so annoying, when you're thinking and suddenly somebody's calling you -.-
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 18, 2008

    Love Has Never Done Me Good....

    Had my first girl we wa together for a year, I did ol that i cud jus to show her hw much I luv n care bowt her. i even dreamed of gettin married to her but she ends up leaving me wit nah reason todate, I begged her to forgive me n give me another chance but she refused, I olso...
    profbrizee profbrizee
    26-30, M
    Dec 30, 2011

    Being Alone Feels So Good Some Times.

    i real love bo alone some times,i get time to think of what to du ,and what i want in ma life,infact if i take long time without being alone,i feel so bad and i always find a place quit and not populated,to seet and think,its feels so nice,i enjoy it,
    Tulip91 Tulip91
    18-21, F
    Oct 12, 2011

    My super awesome boyfriend just left to go on a

    week long training course with his job. I'm in a humongous four bedroom townhouse with just my cat. I'm gonna try to not leave the house until he gets back which is very likely impossible. I have no friends in this city. And others might be utterly depressed and lonely about...
    prettyprude prettyprude
    36-40, F
    Nov 8, 2015

    I feel like the world wants to much from me.

    It's getting harder to fake it around people now a days. I just count down the minutes until I can be alone with myself again. I enjoy my own company over anyone else's and it's exhausting and sometimes infuriating that I am forced to share myself with others.
    Mercurylucidity Mercurylucidity
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 11, 2014

    My Life Going Wrong Way...

    I dont know from where to start only thing i know is everything is going on a bad track for almost 3 years... I have somebody in my life who is using me every way he can? he is in our family relations now I dont know how to get rid of that person or to be honest i think i love...
    prisoned prisoned
    Oct 10, 2011

    I Can Be Alone In a Dark Room ...

    I can be alone in a dark room with nothing in it and stay in there for hours.
    dustygirl122 dustygirl122
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2007

    What It's Like To Be Alone....

    i like staying alone by myself.... it gives me time to be the real me...i can dance like crazy and sing at the top my voice and never care about who is watching or listening. sometimes i sit alone on the park bench looking at everything around me...how everything is always as...
    iamimportant iamimportant
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2012

    I dont like it, i love it.

    I would rather stay home alone than be with people. I like to stay alone in my room listen to songs and just think about 1000 different things. I just love it. I dont really like being in company of 2 or more people.
    emililala emililala
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2016

    Rare, But Sacred...

    Solitude is precious to me. It is when I am able to think clearly and reflect on my thoughts, the events that have been going on, and things that are important to me. I VERY rarely am alone, though. I am only 16 and live with my parents, so I have that to deal with. Also, I have...
    ThistleWeed ThistleWeed
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2007
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