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I Love to Be Held

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 222 People

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    I love being held, feeling my boyfriends arms around me holding me close. Unfortunately It's usually me that ends up holding him. that feels good too, but I have a hard time communicating to him that the things I like doing to (for?) him are also things that I would enjoy...
    timmerb timmerb 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 9, 2009

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    Right.

    it doesnt matter what emotion is overpowering me at the time, if any. being held always feels right.
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F Jan 25, 2009

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    Hold Me

    I love being held by my hubby, one place where I feel safe and happy.  When he holds me, it feels like all the stress comes out of me.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2011

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    Close and With Love

    Just feeling someone's arms around me who I can feel loves me is the most wonderful feeling!
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2009

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    I Crave This.....

    I have talked about this often in my stories but I have a constant craving to be held. I think about it constantly. It would just be so nice to feel close to someone and to drop my defences for once. Just to be able to relax and be supported by another person instead of always...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Jul 27, 2011

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    I Need to Be Held More Often

    I am a very affectionate person and wish to be held more often. 
    Francescanolonger Francescanolonger 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2008

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    To Feel Safe In His Arms...

    I love to be held. To rest my cheek against his strong chest. To feel his arms around my waist. To inhale his masculine scent as he strokes my hair and holds me close. To feel soft and feminine; loved and desired. To hear his heatbeat echoing mine. To freeze the moment...
    WinterMountain WinterMountain 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    Yep

    I am a very sensual person, in that I like to connect to all senses as much as I can.  I like to identify as much memories and associations to others as I can, through not only conversation, but scent, touch, voice and all aspects, yet especially touch. I love to be held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 11, 2008

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    Surrounding Me

    There is something about being held...the unspoken messages passed through the arms of the other person and into your being. When I am hurting, being held by a friend around the shoulders communicates comfort and care for me and my situation.  Usually that is something I...
    dyin2live dyin2live 31-35, F Sep 2, 2008

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    Hmmmm.

    I love to be held and held tightly, i like to feel as one and that i will be missed if i let go.
    ariesaussie ariesaussie 36-40, M Jun 14, 2010

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    Love

    arms around my waist, holding me close against your body. the smell of your skin, the feel of your breath and the deep thump of your heart. the tings that make holding the most amazing thing. every emotion raidiating from our touching bodies. your arms keep me safe, pull me...
    DarkAmber DarkAmber 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2010

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    Love Being Held

    ITS BEEN AWHILE I LOVE HOLDING EACH OTHER CLOSE AND JUST EMBRACING IT FEELS SO GOOD JUST KNOWING YOU ARE BEING LOVED IN THAT MONENT BEAUTIFUL VINNY
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 15, 2012

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    Held

                                      i to be held. i could spend hours doing this .. it makes me feel safe and loved.
    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    Daddy's Grl

    I wish i could find a paternal type bf. one who'd hold me tight, P r o t e c ti v e l y ... like he's protectin' me from the yuky horible evil world... a strong grip a dominant grip. like daddy did, but not daddy of course. lol.
    PottyPrincess PottyPrincess 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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