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I Love to Be Her Male Housewife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 644 People

    It All Started With An Offer To Help.

    I was working in a persons home a long term customer and as I was finishing up my day she was there cleaning her kitchen getting ready for some of her friends to come over for dinner. This torrid woman was running behind and so I offered to help her a little before leaving I took...
    SensationSissy SensationSissy
    1 Response Aug 6, 2013

    Still At It.

    I'm still spending my days working as a man, at a job I'm tired of and can't wait to retire from. I have some interests outside of the house as well. But I still think of myself mainly as a male housewife. Seven days a week, I spend as much at home time as I can in a dress and...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    4 Responses Dec 16, 2012

    My Wife Has Been Telling Her Friends

    For Several years now, my wife has accepted my doing the cooking , laundry and housework while dressed in Women's clothes. She has always preferred that we be discrete about this arrangement, which has been fine with me. But lately she has felt the need to talk over her life...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    6 Responses Nov 5, 2013

    A Pretty Outfit

    Today I am wearing a peach colored linen dress. I think it is really pretty, and I love the way I look and feel in it . I am somewhat caught up with my house work, so I will be starting on one of my embroidery projects; an occasional pillow with a floral motif. It is such a...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    1 Response Aug 12, 2013

    I Must Serve Her

    She is my world. I have humiliated and ashamed her by being caught collecting girls clothes. I must, want, to now serve her. She is my master. She may not be bothered or know it, but I must be her slave, I live to now be her housewife. I have learnt so myth while on ep, I must...
    Surreycrossdresser Surreycrossdresser
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Oct 9, 2012

    Male Housewife Experience

    This happened shortly after my amicable divorce from my Italian wife.I was 33 and transitioning to gay life.I met this big gal with short hair who was quite dominant and full figured.It was her idea to have me play the housewife role 1 weeknd.She was 45 had been married 2x and...
    oralphase oralphase
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 4, 2010

    I Live As A Sissy Slave Husband

    I am totally dominated by my mistress wife and love being her sissy slave. She completely considers me to be female and since she is straight does not have sex with me. She has boyfriends for that. All of my clothing is female though many shirts, jeans and shorts pass for males...
    sissyslavepaula sissyslavepaula
    61-65, M
    1 Response Mar 19, 2012

    I Get More Work Done In An Apron

    When I am doing my housework, I always wear an apron. Even before I started taking over as much of the housework as I could, I often did the dishes, since my wife cooked.  I would wash a few dishes, then watch some tv, then do a few dishes, then watch some more tv, then do...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    10 Responses Nov 25, 2008

    Just Jill

    Straight heterosexual male (wish I was female though..always have) who is tgirl curious and an admirer. Have crossdressed for as long as I can silk lingerie,sexy p.j.'s, restrictive clothing - fantacies include full feminization, being sissified, maid...
    Jill67 Jill67
    51-55, M
    1 Response Apr 19, 2012


    I am a 60 year old transgender who has been living as a woman full time for the past month. I dream of being a housewife for either a male or a female and would expect my husband to assume the role and provide for me and literally wear the pants in the family. I would be...
    PinksWoman PinksWoman
    61-65, T
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2012

    She Dominated She Dominates Her Lesbian Lover

    When I was married for the first time it was to a high flying exectutive who adored spending money, expensive clothes, the high life and having me do her bidding. Although this was not obvious at the very start of our relationship but as soon as she found out about my love of...
    SusanMarina SusanMarina
    2 Responses May 15, 2012

    I started to dress as a girl

    when playing with the girls across the street who used to put me in their dresses to play house, after I got married , I would dress in my wifes clothing (we were the same size, except for shoes) whole she was at work, I always thought I was so slick and got away with it, About...
    Milliewife Milliewife
    66-70, T
    1 Response Sep 6, 2014

    Cannot Wait For My Housewife´s "career" Forever

    I have been dressing back to my earliest childhood, and I have been submissive towards females ever since. My wife caught me with dressing shortly after we first met, being very understanding and supportive. Today I am the one wearing skirts and dresses full time at home and...
    pettigirlMonika pettigirlMonika
    56-60, T
    6 Responses Oct 23, 2010


    Straight heterosexual male (wish I was female though..always have) who is tgirl curious and an admirer.Have crossdressed for as long as I can silk lingerie,sexy p.j.'s, restrictive clothing - fantacies include full feminization, being sissified, maid, tightly...
    Jill67 Jill67
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Apr 20, 2012

    Cleaning And Housekeeping

         I try to keep my need to express my feminine side in a positive, constructive vein.  Not wanting to be selfish, or self centered about my gender issues is what got me started down this path. In support of this, I have become quite diligent in my housework...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    14 Responses May 28, 2010

    Feminine Routine

    I haven't added any stories recently, because I have not felt like I had anything new to say. But today I noticed that it has been just about three years since I began posting stories on EP. My first story was about helping out in a skirt. By the time I posted it, though, I was...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    8 Responses Aug 14, 2011

    Slave To My Goddess

         My wife and I have been together for 40 years. We started our FLR 25 years ago to "spice up" our life. We started "part time", and quickly realized that she  really enjoyed being dominant. I realized I was totally submissive,and really enjoyed being submisive.  Since...
    rockynook rockynook
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2011

    Canadian Wife

    My name is Teri, I am 61, TG living happily as a woman now full time. I have met a man here on EP, and after chatting for a while we fell in love.  He is everything I ever dreamed of, strong, masculine and has a feminine side as well.  He has asked me to join him in Toronto...
    PinksWoman PinksWoman
    61-65, T
    10 Responses Feb 20, 2013

    Helping Out In a Skirt

    When we became empty nesters I decided I wanted to go back to regularly cross dressing.  This was something my wife was ok with before we started a family. I was apprehensive about how she would take this, and I thought,"well, there has to be something in it for her...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    7 Responses Sep 30, 2008

    My New Wifey Role?...I Am Getting There

    I have been trying so hard to be this, the dutyful wife and after months of trying I am so please to say I am getting there. I have only now, in the last three weeks been honestly trying, before I was still thinking like and behaving like a man I now realise I must at all times...
    Surreycrossdresser Surreycrossdresser
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Sep 1, 2013

    I am defo coming to realise my more

    traditionally feminine role In my marriage. Physically in both hairstyle and nails I am more female. My pixie style curly haircut is just what I wanted and is the total opposite to my wife's more masculine, boyish short bob. My nails are longer and more manicured and I have a...
    Surreycrossdresser Surreycrossdresser
    36-40, M
    4 Responses May 30, 2015

    Since me and my hubby have had some really hard

    times and now we are so close. I like to grab him by the hair make home help me. It's a game no real hurting each other most of the time but I love pain wen we are playing. But I love seeing my chubby man doing my lady work it makes me so hot for him.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 23, 2016

    Don't need to wear stockings.

    With the recent hot weather, I have been going without pantyhose when doing housework in my dresses or skirts. I had forgotten that being bare legged under a skirt actually keeps me more aware I am wearing a skirt, because I feel it swish up against my legs with every...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    1 Response Jul 13, 2014


    In choosing to see myself as a male housewife, I would be lying to myself and my spouse if I didn't own up to the subservience implied in this kind of arrangement. It is always expected that the man is head of the household. This is a way of thinking that has persisted into the...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    4 Responses Mar 15, 2011

    My wife and I have a Domme/ Submissive

    relationship, she has been in charge our entire marriage, and I have been her little housewife. I have been a crossdresser since early childhood, and she picked up on it from our first date, from there it was just a matter of training me to act as her wife. She enjoys me being...
    Milliewife Milliewife
    66-70, T
    6 Responses Sep 5, 2014

    My Life

    i had a gf(oh she is my owner mistress now).She was vanilla person, knew nothing about kinky and femdom i always tried to covience her for femdom relationship indirectly.i used keep femdom **** in my pc and when she came and saw it she asked me about it and found interesting.i...
    surabhiagl surabhiagl
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Sep 13, 2012


    I'm not really into cross dressing, I am physically too masculine and would look stupid in a skirt, stockings etc, even though I might enjoy it. However, there is one activity which always makes me feel I should be wearing the clothes of a maid. It's when I'm laying the fire, it...
    krsoundman krsoundman
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jan 25, 2012

    It is Still the Dresses.

    I have been functioning as the housewife in our household for some years now, and while I'm proud of my ability to handle the responsibilities of a feminine homemaker, it did occur to me recently that the reason I live the way I do is still the clothes. Yes, I like my...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    7 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    I would get up first thing in the morning

    and make her coffee, breakfast and drive her too work. Then when I came home I would spend the rest of the day doing Housewife duties. But need I say I would be dressed in panties and pantyhose first thing in the morning as that was my attire as well wearing a nightie. I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 10, 2016

    Embracing Feminine Life

    When I think of all the wonderful women in my life, my wife, both my grandmothers,my mother, my friends, almost all of whom are women, it seems easy for me to affirm that I would be proud to be like any one of them. That is the way it is in my heart of hearts. But this is a...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    4 Responses Dec 8, 2010

    Oct 7

    so home from work showered and dressed. My red lace boishort panties, red padded pushup bra with lace trimmed cups, tan knee highs, grey slacks, black tee shirt  and black ballet slippers. Currently feeling very feminine and cooking dinner and the dish washer almost done.  I...
    JeanW1 JeanW1
    56-60, M
    Oct 7, 2013

    Being A Male Housewife

    I am just recovering from a bout of flu. Both my wife and I work. In the first week I mainly stayed in bed. This second week I am up and about. I want to tell you about my day as a housewife that started yesterday (Wednesday). My wife tends to be the more dominant partner in...
    Melaniepaul57 Melaniepaul57
    56-60, T
    12 Responses Dec 20, 2012

    It Might Just Become Official Tomorrow.

    The economy has really slammed the business I work at and my wife is doing super in her profession and has plans galore for her future. I'm just not the aggressive, alpha person that she is. There are a few things that I have to check on tomorrow, but there appears to be a...
    Niqqi Niqqi
    46-50, M
    13 Responses Oct 11, 2011

    I've Spent The Week As Such

    My wife has always seemed generally uneasy about my crossdressing.This week, I've spent most of the time in this outfit taking care of the house.I cleaned, cooked, took care of the laundry, etc...She has seemed to open up to the idea a bit more because things are getting done...
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc
    8 Responses Jan 11, 2013

    I Am Your New Maid!!!

    I am retired now and I have a small part time job one day a week. MY wife works full time, so I help her out by doing the household chores. I dust, run the sweeper, do the laundry, cook dinner and even do windows. I don't have the opportunity to wear a french maid outfit or any...
    davis36a davis36a
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

    House Dress, A Poem

    A house dress and an apron used to be The emblem of a housewife and her day. That time is past, perhaps, but is for me An honored memory in every way.   The Archetypal Housewife lives in me A soft, domestic woman of a man. Respectful emulation sets her...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2010

    Learning To Be A Housewife

    When I started doing housework as a way of showing my wife the positive side of my dressing in female clothes, I had no larger goals in mind. I just wanted to wear dresses around the house without causing conflict. I was aware that I was a Goddess person. A lifetime of longing...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2011


    While my role may not be as structured and/or stylized compared with many who assume the typical female role around the house, I enjoy everything I do in that regard. It is rewarding to know I've taken care of details in order to make things easier for my spouse. My enjoyment is...
    GinaViz GinaViz
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Jul 26, 2012

    Work Makes Cross Dressing Better.

     When I decided I would make a point of doing housework whenever I was cross dressed, I thought that being in a dress would make the work more interesting, and easier to get through. I wasn't disappointed. What I wasn't expecting  was that the opposite is also true...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    7 Responses Dec 14, 2008

    Her Pretty Maid

    When we married, both my & I had demanding jobs. We discussed a division of household chores which allowed us to have the most free time together and would benefit our daily lives the best way. I found she hated ironing & cleaning bathrooms. I couldn't cook but could do the...
    janusatv janusatv
    61-65, T
    5 Responses Dec 17, 2010

    Be Carefull What You Wish For

    I have always fantasied about cross dressing and being dominated.One day I came home from work and my wife said she had a surprise for me after dinner.after we ate she said to wait 5 mins then come to the bed room. I was excited so after 5 mins i went up ,the lights where off...
    subinwaiting subinwaiting
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2012

    A Successful Sub-Femme

    It may, at first, seem contradictory to write about the "success" of a sub-femme, but looking at it more deeply, it is not. Everyone,even a submissive, wants to be successful at some level, with whatever they are into. One needs look no further than all the "more submissive than...
    aprilrose aprilrose
    61-65, T
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2013

    I Was My Spouse's Tv Housewife But Now I Am Available To Be Another's Wife.

    I have cross-dressed since the age of 9, and when my wife became disabled I had to do all cooking, cleaning, laudry and all household chores. I loved being the housewife and always dressed in feminine clothes, sometimes as a maid. Unfortunately she died a year ago so I am free...
    rosietv rosietv
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

    Happiness As A Male Housewife

    First, I should say, I have been a regular crossdresser since I was a teenager. I love women's clothes and I love being a woman although I am still technically a male -- a male with a nice set of girly boobs, however. Twenty-five years ago when I was 45 years old, I was laid off...
    Sissylips Sissylips
    3 Responses Dec 21, 2010


    Been dressing under since childhood. Last feb my wife told me she knew this is part of me and that she wanted me to be more open about it at home. She has sort of pushed the boundaries by buying me clothing (a dress, skirt,& slacks) I never had worn such outer clothing before. I...
    JeanW1 JeanW1
    56-60, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2013

    Bit Of A Problem

    I am having a bit of a problem I am trying to steer my Wife  into a Wife led relationship and am meeting some resistance from Her, this surprises me because She is staunch advocate of Womens Rights but the idea of role reversal seems to turn Her off, She is old school on gender...
    StephPa StephPa
    61-65, M
    8 Responses Jan 14, 2012

    I don't think life could get any better

    than that. I would love to be wearing heels and dresses every day. Doing the cooking and cleaning, and taking care of my spouse.
    jennloves55 jennloves55
    61-65, M
    Dec 29, 2015
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