I Love Walking Through Graveyards and Reading the Headstones

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    Something so eerie and peaceful.

    Walking amongst all those people, all those lives, all those stories. Its like an explosion of emotion and history to think they're all missed because they have lived and not because they have died
    HeyLookItsGemma HeyLookItsGemma
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

    When I go to my big brothers plot,

    I spend time at the other plots looking at names and dates.. Contemplating their lives and mine.
    chapter7 chapter7
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2015

    Me Too :)

    Really thought I was one of the very few that truly enjoy this. I remember the first time I went to a graveyard. It was when I was around 11 and went with my Granny. I still remember the feeling I got when I read a headstone of a young girl who died the year I was born. It was a...
    NoPointinLying NoPointinLying
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2012

    For a school field trip we visited Arlington

    cemetery. They had rows and rows of headstones of different people that died in war. It's hard to think that every single one of them has their own story. They all died in war and could have been brave or cowardly. They could have been saving a friend or died in a medical...
    mountainseal mountainseal
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2014


    I am terrified of funeral homes. I grew up in one practically during the summer with my grandparents but I am still terrified of funerals homes today.  Grave yards fascinate me however. I love walking through different graveyards to see when the first persons were born and...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2009


    I had to go back to Missouri recently. So while I was there I found many of my families old cemeteries. I was walking and looking at the ancient headstones and taking pics of them, when I came across one I had never seen before. It said....Rebecca-Consort of James Hill. Born 1839...
    rowenbumble rowenbumble
    56-60, F
    Jan 6, 2013

    ever since i was a teen i always liked taking a

    stroll in the grave yards. there use to be this really old graveyard on a dirt road that me and a friend use to go to when we were teens. some of them dated back to the mid 1800's some of them were hard to read as the slates were all warn from over the years of weathering. all...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 13, 2015

    I'm thinking about walking through Alabama's

    oldest cemetery on the way back home from Indiana this weekend. I love reading the head stones and imagining the lives of the people...
    FunNewAddiction FunNewAddiction
    46-50, F
    Jun 18, 2014

    I know it's morbid, but I like walking through

    and seeing how long people lived. If they were extremely old when they died, I like to make up an epic life for them. If they were younger when they died, I try to figure out the cause of death. If they were infants or children when they died, it makes me sad that they never got...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Apr 25, 2015

    It Makes A Great Date.

    Me and my significant other do this sometimes. We make up stories for who the people might have been. We wonder about how they may have died, lived, who their relatives are. Packing a lunch and eating on a bench is great. Buying a few flowers and leaving them on/by graves that...
    SofiaGrowsFlowers SofiaGrowsFlowers
    22-25, T
    1 Response Nov 6, 2013


    Safest place at night! Go exploring the past by looking at the gravestones. Who died, and how many that year in the graveyard? Everybody is dead, and yet when you read out their names honey become immortal, because they have not been forgotten. Of course, nobody dies, their...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    Nov 14, 2013

    City Of The Dead

    Last year I walked the streets of the Pere Lachaise Cemetery in Paris. It was the last week of October and the day was warm and partly cloudy. Just so peaceful. The tombs,graves,and memorials of so many that have gone on from the physical plane as we know it.I found myself...
    millabea millabea
    51-55, F
    1 Response May 10, 2012

    Its one of my favourite places to stop

    for a while.... And wander around...
    expressomarkie expressomarkie
    Oct 7, 2015

    Some of those mausoleums

    and markers are works of art.
    khewster khewster
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2014

    Sweating the Small Stuff

    Sometimes     my    life   gets   so  hectic   with   work   school   or   family   I   can   become   overwhelmed   But...
    rockybear397 rockybear397
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Apr 26, 2008

    It is amazing to see how old some of the graves

    are. I have found my great great great great great Grandmothers grave.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616
    May 5, 2015

    Strange as it is, my mother used to take me to

    the cemetery on my birthdays growing up. Per my request, of course. I like to go now too. There was a really beautiful old cemetery in the last city I lived in.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

    I went to one really,

    really old cemetery, there's very few people buried there, and I also read their headstones, one may read like, "Mary went to Heaven at twelve because of Consumption" simple headstones and nothing else. Now I go around the modern day cemeteries, they have headstones with the...
    zorba04 zorba04
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2014

    I enjoy walking through cemeteries.

    I want to know the stories of the deceased. I wish I could hear their reflection on their life. It's easy to get caught up in your petty problems, but a walk though a cemetery is humbling. It's such a strange feeling but it's peaceful.
    bawstenbrewin bawstenbrewin
    18-21, F
    Mar 5

    But it's quite depressing knowing

    that is where i'm going to end up one day.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 24, 2014


    Walking through graveyards and reading the names of those fellow humans that have gone before reminds me of how silly and useless it is to fear death.
    isingforyou isingforyou
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Aug 13, 2008

    I love going to graveyards

    and taking photos....they are so peaceful
    deleted deleted
    Jun 22, 2014

    The most touching epitaph I ever encountered

    was on the tombstone of the printer of Edinburgh. It said simply: He kept down the cost and set the type right. - Gregory Nunn
    expressomarkie expressomarkie
    1 Response Sep 12, 2014

    I'M Weird Like That...

    Just sayin... I've done this many times. I love to go to the older sections of a cemetery and look through history. I often wonder who they were and how they died. Their tombstones are works of art, a lot different than ours.
    Klayden Klayden
    36-40, M
    Nov 27, 2013

    When I was young...there was a small graveyard

    near my house where I would spend time. When the wild tiger lilies would bloom, I would pick them all and place them on as many headstones as I could...
    Unsatisfiedstace2 Unsatisfiedstace2
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    I visited this really old cemetery in

    Cairns Overgrown and quite neglected but you can still read some of the tombstones, 1800s mostly. Nothing particular until I got back to my apt. I have a million mosquito bites! Or were they?
    zorba04 zorba04
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2014

    I did it while I was in Honor Guard.

    Before the family arrived, we made sure everything was squared away at the grave site. While waiting I would look at surrounding graves. Depending on the cemetery, I'd often see other veterans' grave-stones. Veterans that are buried were WWI and II (of course), Korean, and...
    djag2007 djag2007
    26-30, M
    Jun 26, 2014

    A Whole Life

    There's a scene in the movie Trapped in Paradise where Nicolas Cage points out the dates on a headstone. He points to it and remarks that the dash between the born - died dates represent a whole life lived. I think the line is "Your whole life is in that dash". I find...
    BozoBuckets BozoBuckets
    51-55, M
    Dec 19, 2012

    Hollywood Memorial Park (Santa Monica Blvd),

    City of Angels, CALIFORNIA 🇺🇸!! Where the rich & famous R.I.P.!!!
    pyeito pyeito
    31-35, M
    Jan 7, 2014

    I walked through this old cemetery in Knoxville,

    TN this evening. The oldest gravestone was for a prominent man who died in 1800. It was a very peaceful walk through the shady trees.
    FunNewAddiction FunNewAddiction
    46-50, F
    Jun 24, 2014

    Creeps Me Out

    Graveyards are beautiful in their own creepy way. The headstones are interesting and make you think. I sometimes think, wow this person's been dead for like...that's mean but I can't help it. Never been in a graveyard at night, I don't think  i can yet even during the day it...
    eptsocial eptsocial
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2012

    Love it love it loooove it.

    ..specially in good company.I find cemeteries romantic and meaningful,it is like meeting people who are not here anymore,yet you get the valuable chance to know something about them.To pay tribute for those who are gone with respect and curiosity about their lives.
    4biandu 4biandu
    31-35, F
    Nov 1, 2014

    Glad I'm Not The Only One

    This is just a fraction of things I love about history. It's just fascinating to read headstones.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

    There's a cemetery near my house.

    Sometimes it's convenient to just cut through there on my way to soon place else. Sometimes I stop and read the headstones, and imagine the lives behind them. I don't think I ever want to know the truth behind them; I like my stories better.
    JennaDarque JennaDarque
    26-30, T
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    I remember about a year ago,

    I was at my nieces birthday party at a park nearby. It had been a while, the main party has already taken place, and at that point most of the kids were off playing while the parents were watching. my husband was off talking to friends and family members, most of whom I didn't...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 12

    I don't feel sad, I see all the nice things

    people wrote, all the "In loving memory"'s and I smile a whole lot:D I hear a lot on the internet "I weep for humanity "People need to die, animals rock way more "I hate myself and everyone, I'm cool and edgy because everyone else is a jerk And I can't believe them, because...
    Denzebarrrn Denzebarrrn
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 2, 2015

    Early Morning Walk

    This morning, I was looking for a new route to take for my daily exercise, so I took a scenic path through a wooded area along a stream and ended up not far from an old cemetery in town. I went in (Open from dawn to dusk) and climbed a steep hill all the way to the top.  It was...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

    when I started doing this my friends

    and family started calling me crazy ...they threatened to check me in against my own will to the mad house ... am glad people here understand so thought I was alone ..
    MariaAmor1 MariaAmor1
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    I have always loved to do this.

    A graveyard is so peaceful and seems full of love. I think maybe because the family and friends who have lost their lived ones visit with beautiful flowers and leave that love behind. I often used to sit and have my lunch there and now enjoy travelling around to little country...
    chrissie58 chrissie58
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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