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I Love When Someone Can Make Me Feel Like I Matter

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    So my buddy wanted to chill

    and smoke today. After having family over for dinner, which gets annoying as always, I picked him up. We ended up going to his girl's place like 45 minutes away. Turns out, the cousin she's staying with, is an absolute dime. We flirted for a bit, and of course, her personality...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2014

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    It just makes me feel

    as though I have an actual purpose in life. I think that's what made me fall for my fiancé so quickly .. He always put ME first, and always made me feel like top priority in his life. I'm so used to putting others before myself, so it was nice to have someone put ME first for...
    beyondrepair321 beyondrepair321 26-30, F 1 Response May 31, 2015

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    I don't want him to text me out of boredom,

    I want him to miss me and show me that he did and make me feel like I mean something to him, you know? oh well :/
    Ro5e Ro5e 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    My boyfriend would tell me I'm beautiful

    and how much he loves me out of no where
    Mel3210 Mel3210 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2015

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    I deserve this just as much

    as anyone else. I don't deserve to hear about who you value more than me. My value is in who I am and if you can't see it well F it.
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 1 Response May 21, 2015

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    My kids have all recently let me know

    that they are grateful for the way I raised them and what I taught them growing up.It really felt good to get that kind of surprise.First my 2nd born did so, in a big long text, starting with: I totaled my car, but don't worry, I'm fine. LOL! I think it gave me another silver...
    MarciBlack MarciBlack 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2015

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    I love how one person can me feel

    so cared for and love. How that one person can keep my smiling from the moment I get up till the moment I go to sleep. I really appreciate this person greatly.
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2014

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    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    salmax99 salmax99 16-17, F 1 Response May 3, 2015

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    Did you sleep? Have you eaten today?

    Those are the type of questions that are asked when you matter to someone. It makes me happy that somebody in my life asks those questions everyday. :)
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2015

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    I like people wo take me

    for who I am as person. The only thing I need in life is a boyfriend who loves me for real and not betrayes on me. I know the feeling, it feels like you are special.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 9, 2015

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    I've come round to the realization

    that I'm the only one who can make me feel like I matter. I'm not perfect by any means, but I'm pretty damn peachy. Not being everyone's cup o tea does not make me less. It just makes me .... limited edition. :)
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2014

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    Only one person on this entire planet can make

    me feel like I matter and that is my best friend silent62. She is actually the one who introduced me to this site. I suggest you be her friend..
    Judged62 Judged62 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2015

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    nobody really does anymore,

    even if they do, they just stab me in the back, its better to be alone
    CalZe CalZe 16-17, M 3 Responses May 4, 2015

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    Currently, the only person I can depend on to

    make me feel this way is myself. I so badly wish that I mattered to someone. Most often I don't even feel like my family cares. It would just be nice for once to truly mean something to someone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 23, 2015

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    I'm only 17 years old

    and with what little life I have experienced, I can honestly say that all life matters. We're all interconnected in some way and I think it's so amazing. So I feel appalled when I meet someone who feels as if they don't matter. We all matter.
    maddieg279 maddieg279 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2015

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    I love being able to make someone smile.

    I love the feeling of being needed. I just want to be wanted. There. I said it.
    Some1umayNo Some1umayNo 46-50, M 2 Responses May 22, 2015

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    he cried my boyfriend asked about the scars

    on my legs and arms. told him my childhood wasn't the greatest. he made me promise to never do that again. held me. cried as he placed his ear over my chest. after he kissed the last cut i made and told me that my brother lied and that i matter and it wasn't my fault
    ooak67 ooak67 22-25 1 Response Dec 14, 2015

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    i wonder ..., what people don't love

    who can love them with heart...
    noelpierre53 noelpierre53 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 29, 2015

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    It is the best feeling

    when you have found a little buddy to call you their brother. The look up to you and never leave your side. They would never hurt you, but crave every moment that you spend together. I wish I could go back to when I could see him every day. He always gave me a hug after school...
    BlazeSeth BlazeSeth 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 9, 2015

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    For a while, I thought

    that mattering to someone meant that I had to be in a romantic relationship with them. I don't really know why I thought that, it just made sense that way in my head. Maybe it's because ask my life I have been told that I don't matter, and that no one would ever appreciate me by...
    Calem545 Calem545 22-25, T 1 Response May 27, 2015

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    I am such an emotional tap.

    Everytime someone even smiles at me these days I want to break down crying. I'm not even exaggerating just waiting in the waiting room of my new course and the teach walks through and says " you alright Isma"? With a massive smile. And I smile back but what I really want to do...
    issimma issimma 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2015

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    Can I Have A Decent Male 17/19 Inbox Me ?

    In Need Of A Friend . Or Everyday Text Buddie 😁
    FlawsAndAll FlawsAndAll 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2014

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    SailorsAngel SailorsAngel 41-45, F 2 Responses May 2, 2015

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    I love it when I'm down

    and the first thing someone does is comfort me and then make me laugh. It's great to be loved and cared for :)
    TheMeBMini25 TheMeBMini25 26-30, F Oct 25, 2014

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    BradleytheBeast BradleytheBeast 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 9, 2015

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    if you miss me,call or text me.

    ..i don't like to always be the one to initiate communication,feels like am just forcing you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 10, 2015

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    Sometimes I wish I mattered to somebody.

    Most times I think that would be a lot of pressure and too stressful...I guess I'll never be satisfied. lol
    Myzery Myzery 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 24, 2015

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    I have a few people that make me feel this way.

    I have lost someone I am in love with recently, but through it I gained someone special that means very much to me, that is helping me get through it. This person not only makes me feel like I matter, but they also matter to me. A lot of times it's the only thing that will...
    Selene73 Selene73 41-45, F Sep 23, 2015

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    its good once in a while to feel like I do

    really matter even in a small way
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 9, 2015

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    As a girl, we may think

    that we should always have his attention but as a lady, we know that that is not always the case. As a boy, he could always give you the attention you want but as a man, he knows how to make you feel secure of his feelings for you. That even though his attention is not...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa 22-25, F Aug 29, 2015

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    So I have met someone

    who makes me feel this way. ALSO SIDE NOTE THIS IS LACED WITH MY THOUGHTS SO IF YOU SEE A QUESTION IT IS A QUESTION THAT I HAD WHILE WRITING THIS. FEEL FREE TO ANSWER THEM. But he said that he is just coming out of a relationship and doesn't want to depend on someone at the...
    boxking101 boxking101 18-21, M Aug 8, 2015

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    I love to feel loved

    and wanted and special
    looking76yg looking76yg 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 15, 2015

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    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 3 Responses May 3, 2015

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    Life is cruel place lies the young only once,

    do not do something now, the future is really no chance to do it.
    cougarloving cougarloving 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2015

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    yup i like it wen ppl actually care n worry

    about how i feel .... make me want to love my life more n more
    phoenixangel1802 phoenixangel1802 22-25, F Dec 15, 2015

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    dating women older than you,visit site:www.cougarloving.com
    cougarloving cougarloving 26-30, F Dec 15, 2015

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    My family has made me feel like I matter in

    past times, but my boyfriend makes me feel like I matter each time I'm with him and when I'm not with him too. My family talks a lot, they can say mean things and then do something nice which makes me feel confused and frustrated. My boyfriend doesn't talk a lot lol but he shows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 24, 2015

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    Well... It's never happened,

    but I wish it would.. It's probably impossible though.. ):
    XxToxicKissesxX XxToxicKissesxX 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2015

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