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I Love When Someone Can Make Me Feel Like I Matter

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    So my buddy wanted to chill

    and smoke today. After having family over for dinner, which gets annoying as always, I picked him up. We ended up going to his girl's place like 45 minutes away. Turns out, the cousin she's staying with, is an absolute dime. We flirted for a bit, and of course, her personality...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2014

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    A Simple Message...

    Most of all when your on ep.. lots of friends come and go..talk for a while then there gone, but its those that send daily messages, like a simple good morning..a quick hello hows your day going, that makes me feel like i matter..
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    Being There

    I can think of times in my life when I felt I was the one person that really mattered someone thought I was Important. I know to some my importance was more prominent in the past but I know I matter of my doggie he is my life right now I will have someone to matter to me and I...
    RJ43 RJ43 46-50, T 1 Response Dec 17, 2012

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    Made To Look Special

    Some are such that by nature they have a tendency to help other. This makes people feel wanted. That they are important too. Not many people care about the welfare of others or their feelings. There are times when you feel low and out of the blue someone, extends that little...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 18, 2013

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    Yes we have only started talking.

    but to me something is there....something big I can feel it. we may be 5 years apart but I'm slowly staring to not care. we text everyday from 7am till 11pm. about random things. from his college classes to me taking care of my sisters kids. when I'm down he knows what to...
    ooak67 ooak67 22-25 Dec 11, 2014

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    Touched

    When my brother's friends come over and play with my hair or when they touche my thigh and say I'm pretty I feel important. I really like how it feels and I want to make him feel good also. I hope he has a sleepover again soon.
    cloe13girl cloe13girl 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Hey who would like to talk,

    I would like to talk to someone
    BDbruce BDbruce 46-50, M Oct 28, 2014

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    It's Not Always As It Seems.

    I went on vacation down in Texas. My moms friends son just moved down there and so we saw each other again after about 8 years. Well he made me feel like I mattered. He saw my scars and he told me that I shouldn't do it. He told me I was beautiful and that I was funny and...
    AStoryUntold AStoryUntold 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    Something Is Missing!

    In every relationship I have been in, they have never been complete. Something is always missing. Never truly satisfied no Matter if the lover is good or not. I have not been able to give my all in any relationship. Never have I felt comfortable or have I trusted any of them...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    I Hate School

    i really hate scjhool and i want to get out and move on with life
    racer94t racer94t 18-21, M Oct 16, 2012

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    I don't want him to text me out of boredom,

    I want him to miss me and show me that he did and make me feel like I mean something to him, you know? oh well :/
    Ro5e Ro5e 18-21, F Dec 11, 2014

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    Can I Have A Decent Male 17/19 Inbox Me ?

    In Need Of A Friend . Or Everyday Text Buddie 😁
    FlawsAndAll FlawsAndAll 18-21, F Dec 15, 2014

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    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I love it when I'm down

    and the first thing someone does is comfort me and then make me laugh. It's great to be loved and cared for :)
    TheMeBMini25 TheMeBMini25 22-25, F Oct 25, 2014

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    on a daily basis I feel

    as if I'm insignificant and small and worthless because of my emotions but there is someone on here that brings a smile to my face when my phone goes off in the morning because I know she'll talk to me and I know she cares
    fenrirandimpachi fenrirandimpachi 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2014

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    Don't we all? It's human nature to want to be

    desired and I hate the feeling and try to push it down. I hate that feeling of desperation.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F Oct 25, 2014

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    it seems that there is

    so much superficiality and phony sentiments flying around that i wonder if i actually matter to anyone or am i just serving a particular purpose for a moment.
    karenmbrown karenmbrown 51-55 2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    Yesterday you felt that you let me down by not

    being physically here for me when in fact it couldn't have been further from the truth you were there for me, you were the one I ran to when I needed to talk because you are the only one that I can talk to so openly. You make me snap out of it and make me see my worth in life...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2014

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    Reminders Of My Past

    as i was in a small supply room, I remember the person was once gave me a lot of cards... writing me love letters and i couldn't forget the smell of roses as well.... I have to find that person again... He was the one reminded me that life is so beautiful to waste... I once again...
    chrisaicobcainah chrisaicobcainah 36-40 Oct 29, 2012

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    As I'm on my own most of the time at school.

    .. when someone takes an interest in my life, it feels as if they really care. I have classmates that chat with me for an hour or more but the next day, they're out of my life for days and weeks and months. Later on after a while, they swing by and "care". I have a friend that...
    CloeSmile CloeSmile 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2014

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    I love how one person can me feel

    so cared for and love. How that one person can keep my smiling from the moment I get up till the moment I go to sleep. I really appreciate this person greatly.
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2014

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    I've come round to the realization

    that I'm the only one who can make me feel like I matter. I'm not perfect by any means, but I'm pretty damn peachy. Not being everyone's cup o tea does not make me less. It just makes me .... limited edition. :)
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F Dec 12, 2014

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    A Purpose

    Life seems so meaningless without purpose. But that all changes when you meet someone who keeps you anchored to the shores of reality so you won't drift away in a sea of nothingness. I don't know about you but I'd like to meet someone (a woman) who will be my best friend and the...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 18, 2012

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    It's nice to be able to do that

    for someone else too.
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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    I miss her so much.. :/ I wish I could have a

    chance to be with her again before this year ends....
    katzenbrot2 katzenbrot2 22-25, M Dec 13, 2014

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    Related Experiences

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    ilovemyhaters ilovemyhaters 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    It really hard to make me laugh so I appreciate those people who can make me laugh.
    LiveEqualsEvil LiveEqualsEvil 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    A mouse was sleeping in his house, and then his friend came and knocked the door. His friend brought him candies, donuts and peanuts. What should he do first??
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    I have quite a collection of specials from my favorite comedians. My friends and family, especially my bf, can sometimes turn my day around too. Laughter is my favorite medicine.
    Kckiss88 Kckiss88 22-25, F Dec 27, 2014

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    His name will forever be etched in my heart and mind. Should the opportunity arise, i'd seek him out. Pathetic I am sure but I don't care. He was the one and even if I see him with...
    KismetWrites KismetWrites 31-35 Jan 5

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    My friend and I were sat messing around on Omegle, and came across this really cute guy who we started chatting too! I seemed to really click with him and decided to message him...
    cb478 cb478 18-21, F Jan 7

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    I cut myself when im depressed, i feel like my life is useless and pointless. Life is pain. My family loves me, but they never know who i really am.
    annaambrose annaambrose 13-15 1 Response Jan 11

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    The hidden secret of life I mean. I myself don’t know what I mean. I have a huge trusting problem. The problem is not that I don’t trust anyone but that I trust EVERYONE. I...
    avnn avnn 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    So, i mean yes i am in love. I don't want to be in love, i really wish i could stop wanting to be around him. He is shy, and kinda weird and awkward, but i men so am i. I go to a...
    isabellajamison isabellajamison 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Whenever i talk to her i feel like i can say anything and not worry about being judged. i did not expect to start feeling this strongly about anyone again but i guess you can...
    Angeldark87 Angeldark87 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I am so crazy about this one guy. We accidentally fell in love, I don't think either of us ever thought that would happen. The issue is that we can't be together. He is actually a...
    j1494 j1494 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    I met him when I was 19. We got married when I was 20. We've been married a little over a year and already I can see my husband loving me less and less. I was born and raised in...
    marriedyoungandconfused marriedyoungandconfused 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    It's kind of a strange situation, that probably requires a whole lot more back story than I'm willing to give it. Consequently, this will probably be a bit short, a bit rambling...
    LostInCode LostInCode 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I fell in love with my neighbour in my dorm, let's call her K. She was an exchange student for half a year, and I liked her from the first moment I saw her. Me and her + her...
    lassieboy lassieboy 18-21, M Jan 8

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    That's how it happens. Some version of that story is true for almost every homeless person out there. It happens because of not being loved. Because of not having supportive...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    No, I am not in love with someone. I have never experienced anything like this actually. I think it'd be cool to know this feeling of "falling in love" and be "in love" with...
    Lila2088 Lila2088 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 2

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    Today is the last day my best friend, who came from Florida, will be here in the Middle East, she's going back home tomorrow. Since the time she arrived I had been trying to get...
    psychedelicblues psychedelicblues 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    You know, there has to be a reason behind all this low self esteem. Oh yeah, I was raised this way. Not just by my household but also by society and culture. I have a hard time...
    untamablekitty untamablekitty 26-30, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I am loved by my one set of grandparents, my single mother of 51, boyfriend, and my bestie carey. I don't have any other family anymore :-( I don't feel like I can truly talk to...
    JessiAnn27 JessiAnn27 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    There's this guy, in fact the same guy that I'm always talking about on here, the older one, I feel like such a school girl whenever I talk about him or ask for advice. Yet I just...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F Jan 16

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    It feels like ****. The brighter side, though, is that it could've hurt more if he had felt the same, we'd been together, and then something bad and super dramatic happened...
    TiraVara TiraVara 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I fell in love with someone I meet on EP. We Are both married. My situation is complicated my wife had bipolar and it very up and down. Her situation is that her husband doesn't...
    Myck85 Myck85 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel our culture / society of obedience, authority, and dominance is terrible and it hurts me inside that it exists. There doesn’t seem to be what I define as love in the world...
    Love3149 Love3149 22-25, M Dec 28, 2014

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