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I Loved Somebody Who Didn't Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 93 People

    Tension Is Rising

    I'm on meds now for my BP disorder! WHOOP WHOOP But I still have really high anxiety. Michael, I wrote about him in my other post. I still like him and it's been almost two years. He's made it obvious that he doesn't like me. I hate it when he logs on facebook and I...
    ticketwonder ticketwonder 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2010

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    Unfair

    I Loved you so much, but you didnt but if you ever want me you know where i'll be
    Daveokay Daveokay 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    Weak...But Coming Out Strong

    The pain you feel when you already like somebody b/c of their sweetness then they started to get cold and left you hanging on dead air...I'm sad,angry,hurt and disappointed. But you know what? Ill put on a happy face and move on and be strong. It will hurt but I will survive..
    Camargo023 Camargo023 18-21, F Oct 30, 2013

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    One Sided

    I just came from an 18 year onesided relationship and it was not my most favorite. I have a tendency to be too aggressive and not allow the guy to pursue. Once I have conquered what I want, It falls flat. The trick for me now is to refrain from being so aggressive and its hard. I...
    cynfra cynfra 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2011

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    I Wish She Loved Me

    I recently had to go to a new school and for the first time in my life I made a friend right away. We became good friends right away. We would hang out and talk for hours. I fell in love with her. I kept quiet about it for about a month. One day we were watching a movie...
    trainrek trainrek 18-21, M 7 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    She Always Said It Wouldn't Last; Nothing Does

    I fell for her like John Lennon fell for Yoko Ono. And our relationship was just as strange. I tried holding her hand in public, she jerked it away, her face twisted into a sort of falsely apologetic mask. We only kissed when we were pretending not to be ourselves. Instead we...
    queerboi queerboi 13-15 Nov 4, 2009

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    Unrequited Love

    I'm only fourteen and have bipolar disorder. I suffer from frequent depression and become attached to things that make me happy very easily. Three years ago I had to switch schools. I had trouble dealing with this and didn't easily make friends. And then I met Michael. Michael...
    ticketwonder ticketwonder 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    I barley even knew him

    but he already had me falling, the thought of him made me as happy as could be until I realized I totally screwed with chance of me and him and he screwed my cousin so....
    picapicapica picapicapica 16-17, F May 3, 2014

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    I loved someone who didn't love me... I still love someone who doesn't love me. It's gotten easier though because I accepted the fact that we will never work. He's a great friend...
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6

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    I have never felt reciprocated love. I don't mean like the friends and family package deal that everybody gets, I mean romantically. It's not from a lack of trying, but as I look...
    monkey0506 monkey0506 26-30, M 1 Response May 9

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    I loved someone that didn't love me and I don't regret it at all. While it felt terrible most of the time, short-lived moments of happiness were also one of the best days of my...
    everydayissummerr everydayissummerr 26-30, F May 4

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    I fell for a woman who didn't love me, I thought she cared but it turns out she was in love with a ex friend of mine! We had lots of fun and did a lot with each other. Then in...
    bigjjunkman bigjjunkman 46-50, M May 22

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    I loved my ex and we dated for 5 months. he was also my best friend and now we act like strangers. we thought we could go back to bring friends. tbh I know that he didn't love me...
    klaus1026 klaus1026 13-15, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I actually think that's my new thing. Infatuations with people who can't love me. A new form of self-destruction, if you will. But he...he was the kicker. It was on and off for...
    borderlineeverything borderlineeverything 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    I stupidly believed a guy who was visiting the country on holiday that he loved me because he told me he loved me.. Only when he left the country he suddenly didn't love me and was...
    immortellecapture immortellecapture 31-35, F 3 Responses May 5

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    He said he loved me but what he really meant was he didn't want to be alone. He didn't love me, because you don't lack compassion for the love of your life. He didn't love me...
    Sunshine9001 Sunshine9001 51-55, F 1 Response May 23

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    I need to get this off my chest, and since I can't say this to him I will here... Am I a terrible person? This is what I keep asking myself as the thoughts in my mind twist and...
    LonelySnake LonelySnake 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    I don't know how I'm supposed to go on. Knowing that there's always going to be that part of me that is completely, madly in love with someone who didn't even care enough about me...
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F 3 Responses May 8

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    When I was married I loved my husband with every fiber of my being. He didn't love me.. But time heals all wounds. To an extent.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 4

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    I loved a girl deeply and she didn't love me back, it was the worst pain I have ever felt. Worse than any other physical pain I have ever dealt with.
    Trustorie Trustorie 31-35, M 4 Responses May 13

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    Today I was reading about second chances and of course my mind went back to him... I want to believe that timing was the main issue but a part of me also wants to move on and not...
    blaquetulip blaquetulip 26-30, F 2 Responses May 21

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    One of the worst feelings in the world, but loving someone who don't love you is not the bad part, because your not suppose to be afraid to love. Its the lies you didn't ask for...
    SmartShana SmartShana 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    5 years ago there's a boy who loved me. He is my childhood. He always protect me, save me, help me, make me laugh and happy, and he never ever make me sad. Then, I should move to...
    ariekaferdiana ariekaferdiana 16-17, F May 19

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    Mmmm back in high school (end of my 2nd year and the whole-ish last year) I had a awful crush on a boy who can be easily described as a hippie X3 He had long wavy, with a little...
    BerryFace BerryFace 18-21, T May 16

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    So, I'm on here cuz I've been through a lot lately. I'm single again, which is weird after the man who wanted to marry me left me after almost three years together. His job was...
    tinybutmighty07 tinybutmighty07 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have a guy who is flirting with me everyday but sometimes he distances himself and other times he is really close to me. Then one day he was really flirting with me and I thought...
    KAG676 KAG676 13-15, F 2 Responses May 14

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    I had a crush on this guy and had the bright idea to ask him out so I did and he said yes. But later after we broke up my friend told me he never loved me and just said yes because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 21

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    I didn't have a reason to be loved.
    trent128 trent128 26-30, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am at the end of nearly an 11 year relationship. I am relieved that I am moving on as this hasn't been the most positive of relationships however, I am afraid too. Even though I...
    lifesafrodisiac lifesafrodisiac 36-40, F 6 Responses May 3

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    I love one of my close friends at school. He's so kind and funny and sweet, but I know he doesn't love me back. I've felt like this for about a year. He's not perfect, who is...
    James13xx James13xx 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I had fallen in love with my former Spanish II BACT Prep teacher two years ago. My friend had even warned me of it,but I hadn't listened to him thinking that nothing was going to...
    Jada1995 Jada1995 18-21, F May 6

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    He finally texted, than we talked on the phone. It was a relief but sad and empty too. I wanted to hear him say he wanted to see me. I took two weeks off vacation to see him. Of...
    byshoreline byshoreline 36-40, F 3 Responses May 12

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    Every freaking time. Always fall the hardest for those who don't even care.
    badbabygirl badbabygirl 18-21, F 3 Responses May 12

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    Lost without You Laying in my bed thinking how lost I feel without you. I use to feel near to you, but the distance came between us. Now my heart feels is not able to love anyone...
    Natashxxs Natashxxs 31-35, F 1 Response May 13

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    He'd always make fun of my face and call me flat. So, as a defense, I called him out on all his flaws. He didn't talk to me for a couple of weeks, and he won't once I start...
    MisunderstoodGirl69 MisunderstoodGirl69 13-15, F 2 Responses May 16

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    I got over all the crushes I had in the past because I realized they didn't matter and it was just a crush. You can, too.
    MisunderstoodGirl69 MisunderstoodGirl69 13-15, F May 16

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    I remember the first thing I noticed about him was his beautiful blue eyes. Those eyes I will never forget. He was so funny and had such a great sense of humor. what really drew me...
    imdebbie87 imdebbie87 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I love a lot of celebrities and singers but yet they don't love me back. Damn (つ'Д`)ノ
    iAteYourCrayon iAteYourCrayon 16-17, F 2 Responses May 14

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    I can't love him, but I do...
    jordan43930 jordan43930 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I fell in love with a guy that had become one of my closest friends. I don't realize it until he just up and walked out of my life. I realized then I was nothing more than a girl...
    Ladyred93 Ladyred93 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I was deceived n2 loving a 1st time mother that has Borderline Personality Disorder w/ Narsacistic atributes.I married this woman knowing all along what it was all because i was so...
    mgale2711 mgale2711 41-45, M 3 Responses May 8

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    I have loved the same person for I don't even know how long. To be fair, she doesn't actually know, so I guess there will always be that big "what if" that is killing me. The issue...
    BowtiesRcool BowtiesRcool 22-25, M 2 Responses May 2

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