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I Loved Somebody Who Didn't Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 95 People

    Unrequited Love

    I'm only fourteen and have bipolar disorder. I suffer from frequent depression and become attached to things that make me happy very easily. Three years ago I had to switch schools. I had trouble dealing with this and didn't easily make friends. And then I met Michael. Michael...
    ticketwonder ticketwonder 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    One Sided

    I just came from an 18 year onesided relationship and it was not my most favorite. I have a tendency to be too aggressive and not allow the guy to pursue. Once I have conquered what I want, It falls flat. The trick for me now is to refrain from being so aggressive and its hard. I...
    cynfra cynfra 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2011

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    Weak...But Coming Out Strong

    The pain you feel when you already like somebody b/c of their sweetness then they started to get cold and left you hanging on dead air...I'm sad,angry,hurt and disappointed. But you know what? Ill put on a happy face and move on and be strong. It will hurt but I will survive..
    PrincessCamargo PrincessCamargo 18-21, F Oct 30, 2013

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    I barley even knew him

    but he already had me falling, the thought of him made me as happy as could be until I realized I totally screwed with chance of me and him and he screwed my cousin so....
    picapicapica picapicapica 13-15, F May 3

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    I Wish She Loved Me

    I recently had to go to a new school and for the first time in my life I made a friend right away. We became good friends right away. We would hang out and talk for hours. I fell in love with her. I kept quiet about it for about a month. One day we were watching a movie...
    trainrek trainrek 18-21, M 7 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    She Always Said It Wouldn't Last; Nothing Does

    I fell for her like John Lennon fell for Yoko Ono. And our relationship was just as strange. I tried holding her hand in public, she jerked it away, her face twisted into a sort of falsely apologetic mask. We only kissed when we were pretending not to be ourselves. Instead we...
    queerboi queerboi 13-15 Nov 4, 2009

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    Unfair

    I Loved you so much, but you didnt but if you ever want me you know where i'll be
    Daveokay Daveokay 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    Tension Is Rising

    I'm on meds now for my BP disorder! WHOOP WHOOP But I still have really high anxiety. Michael, I wrote about him in my other post. I still like him and it's been almost two years. He's made it obvious that he doesn't like me. I hate it when he logs on facebook and I...
    ticketwonder ticketwonder 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    and it's a good thing it didn't work out because then I never would've met my wonderful husband and had three wonderful children. And as for the guy I loved who didn't love me? He...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 16

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    I loved someone who wasn't ready to be in love. We were young and I totally understand it now. At the time I felt so empty and I let it all take over my life. I dislike how I dealt...
    InfiniteSunshine InfiniteSunshine 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    He was my best friend. The greatest friend anyone could ever have. And even while he cared deeply for me, he was in love with one of his closest friends, who was also a friend of...
    classicminx classicminx 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    He was kind of my childhood love, but I always thought more of us than he did. He led me on but I should have known, with the fact that he never wanted to be exclusive with me. But...
    staytrue123 staytrue123 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    I loved someone who did not love me at all. I experienced this several times. But, what did I win? A huge nothing. Now, I cannot fall in love anymore.
    sumela sumela 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I Let My Heart Break. I fell in love with my good friend and when I told him, he didn’t love me back (it hurt). We’ve never talked ever since. I still hang...
    rodeloves rodeloves 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's funny you know.. No being able to choose who you fall in love with. I wish I could of prevented the feelings I had for him. He was my best friend (funny how every story starts...
    justbreath12 justbreath12 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was in love with this guy, Brandon, and at first, he loved me back. We used to imagine what our life would be like together when we were older, what college we would go to, where...
    auram59993 auram59993 13-15, F a week ago

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    Ah this is the worse experience in my life to be honest. A while a go my best friend went to Ibiza to work for a few months and in that time I became really good friends with his...
    jaymes14 jaymes14 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 16

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    You looked at me like you looked at me, but I didn't want you to look at me. I wanted you to look at me like I looked at you. I saw your soul. It was charismatic, if it ever were...
    modernmuse modernmuse 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    There was a guy I really liked, or should I say loved. I guess you can say that I was truly, madly, deeply in love with him. I'd do anything for him. But he didn't like me back. He...
    RosemaryIdaho RosemaryIdaho 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    I loved him so much. I still do, though things are so different now. We used to have the world together. Now, we don't have much. I gave him all of my heart. I kept no secrets...
    ladyhawk12 ladyhawk12 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 17

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    I loved him for who he was, knowing that he couldn't love me. it would be nice not to feel this way, but you don't really have a choice. i still love him, and being the angry...
    crumbles3 crumbles3 22-25 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    August 31, 2014 Sunday I've realized that in our 10years of being together maybe I give too much, there wasn't anything else for him to take and he got tired of me making him my...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    It's funny how your heart will yearn for that which it can't have. Funnier still how people will take advantage of that. I loved him. He knew it. I told him so. He said it back...
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 9 Responses Sep 1

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    A few years back, I fell in love with a friend of mine, another guy. I didn't understand the feeling I had, and I confessed to him, not to get with him or anything, but to expose...
    thecr00cible thecr00cible 18-21, M Sep 15

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    I met him in high school and we baca me good good good friends you would say we loved each other like family he would do anything for me but one day I was with him just hanging out...
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I dated someone for a few years. I call it dating but I was really just the girl on the side. I think deep down he knew how I felt but didn't care. I tried to be there for him...
    NewGuernica NewGuernica 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    Sooo you were like my dream boy first year, and you let your friends **** with your head because they don't like interracial relationships, and you let your stupid "girl friends...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 11

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    Up to this point, my life has been all about loving/caring about people that don't love or care about me. I started out as a hopeless romantic, waiting for prince charming to...
    angelique422 angelique422 22-25, F Sep 13

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    One more so my cheating gf left me on a Friday and told me a bunch of bs saying she will always be here for me and she wants to be my best friend we'll come to find out I got her...
    Chris0707 Chris0707 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 18

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    He was my bestfriend... We were such good friends,inseparable ...i tried so hard to keep my feelings but i am too damn transparent...at first he knew that i have feelings for and i...
    kiel19 kiel19 22-25, M Aug 30

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    I guess I didn't mean as much to him as I thought I did . /: I'm such a fool to think anyone could love a mess like me . 😔😔
    Haii6130 Haii6130 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 9

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    I love a man I have never met. We have been good friends/pen pals for almost ten years and we will meet in a few months. I recently tested the waters by admitting I had a crush. I...
    femketje femketje 22-25 Sep 11

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    To me she was perfect although they told me she wasn't. Her smile her laugh made them laugh at her but I smiled and laughed with her but no matter what I did she just didn't feel...
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 15

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    He said he did and he would forever. But it's been two weeks since we broke up and he's already trying to talk/date another girl. It really sucks because it will be the 3rd time...
    rubyy25 rubyy25 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    Why do we put people that don't love us before ourselves?...
    sammimel sammimel 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    Hmmmm... Truth hurts sometimes kill me . I know she's don't love me again. She even not remember me either. Wake up Taqi! Urgh
    red4x red4x 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 19

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    He came and gave me hope, made me want to love again. He once said I could always count on him whenever I needed someone by my side, to lessen the weight on my shoulders. He made...
    dawn1005 dawn1005 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    We dated for two years, he was my first kiss and my first love. We did everything together, even in really tough times we helped each other trough it. He helped me stop cutting and...
    butterflyxxo butterflyxxo 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    If someone who you loved told you that they were going to something and you desperately told them over and over how much it would hurt you if they did it , and there choice was to...
    Hng1 Hng1 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    No one has ever love me:( i feel unloved by my friends they beome friends with my emenies and i feel unsafe need someone to be loved by:(
    frankcarter500 frankcarter500 16-17, M 4 Responses Sep 10

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    I fell in love with a woman a few months ago. I've been in love before but this felt differnt. She was so easy to love. She was kind, caring, and when I was with her nothing else...
    Sheritan Sheritan 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 15

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    My heart has been smashed to pieces over & over again for two years. I am not a stupid person but I am a complete fool. I am ashamed. I am lost. I hurt, I hurt, I hurt, I hurt, I...
    willbefreeiwill willbefreeiwill 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 20

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    He makes me sad and mad much more than he makes me happy. There's more scars on my wrists and legs because of him No healed emotions More bad memories than good ones All insults...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    But I love You! Take just one look around me and tell me what you see? Your reflection and my broken hearted me. You claim to love me, but you hurt me at the same time. You say...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Aug 30

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    I gave you that hand through your time of need. When you fell I sat down and made you laugh until you stood up on your own. I held your hand through the trails of dying leaves and...
    Undeserved Undeserved 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Obliterated Heart He loves me he says. I know I love him. I knew that sorry wasn't going to do it. He use to care, he use share his feelings with me, but the love he use to give...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I'm listening to a love song normally listen to Rap and just because I love someone that done't know it Anyone can relate
    MilesMathers MilesMathers 13-15, M Sep 1

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    Well it sucks!! having an infatuation feeling with someone else it feels good. great actually, but I really don't understand, why?! is when you confess your feelings to the"person...
    jayperez89 jayperez89 22-25, M Sep 1