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I Loved Somebody Who Didn't Love Me

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    Weak...But Coming Out Strong

    The pain you feel when you already like somebody b/c of their sweetness then they started to get cold and left you hanging on dead air...I'm sad,angry,hurt and disappointed. But you know what? Ill put on a happy face and move on and be strong. It will hurt but I will survive..
    PrincessCamargo PrincessCamargo 18-21, F Oct 30, 2013

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    Unrequited Love

    I'm only fourteen and have bipolar disorder. I suffer from frequent depression and become attached to things that make me happy very easily. Three years ago I had to switch schools. I had trouble dealing with this and didn't easily make friends. And then I met Michael. Michael...
    ticketwonder ticketwonder 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    Unfair

    I Loved you so much, but you didnt but if you ever want me you know where i'll be
    Daveokay Daveokay 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    I Wish She Loved Me

    I recently had to go to a new school and for the first time in my life I made a friend right away. We became good friends right away. We would hang out and talk for hours. I fell in love with her. I kept quiet about it for about a month. One day we were watching a movie...
    trainrek trainrek 18-21, M 7 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    She Always Said It Wouldn't Last; Nothing Does

    I fell for her like John Lennon fell for Yoko Ono. And our relationship was just as strange. I tried holding her hand in public, she jerked it away, her face twisted into a sort of falsely apologetic mask. We only kissed when we were pretending not to be ourselves. Instead we...
    queerboi queerboi 13-15 Nov 4, 2009

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    I barley even knew him

    but he already had me falling, the thought of him made me as happy as could be until I realized I totally screwed with chance of me and him and he screwed my cousin so....
    picapicapica picapicapica 13-15, F May 3

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    Tension Is Rising

    I'm on meds now for my BP disorder! WHOOP WHOOP But I still have really high anxiety. Michael, I wrote about him in my other post. I still like him and it's been almost two years. He's made it obvious that he doesn't like me. I hate it when he logs on facebook and I...
    ticketwonder ticketwonder 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2010

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    One Sided

    I just came from an 18 year onesided relationship and it was not my most favorite. I have a tendency to be too aggressive and not allow the guy to pursue. Once I have conquered what I want, It falls flat. The trick for me now is to refrain from being so aggressive and its hard. I...
    cynfra cynfra 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2011

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    Haven't we all....I mean seriously....haven't we all at some point gave our hearts and souls to someone who just didn't deserve them..... Loving them...Caring for them....giving...
    ladyamelia ladyamelia 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 11

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    I loved someone who didn't care about me. He was too selfish to give a damn about any of my feelings.
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I loved someone that didn't loved me I still do, can find no chance to vacuum love out of the heart To love Someone that will not love me Nothing can do, is there no chance...
    laughingsoul laughingsoul 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I remember the exact moment that I knew i loved him. It was when I discovered he was moving away for six years to another country I couldn't possibly visit. Must when I was about...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    And finally, it's over. Two years of lies. Two years wasted. I saw it coming. I felt us drifting apart. I could feel your absence. I just never thought it'd come to this, that you...
    mitted mitted 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    I was am 14 at the moment and a few months ago I was at a stage with a girl I loved dearly and still love where we had been "talking dirty" for a while and exchanging pictures with...
    Teyh606 Teyh606 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    I still love someone who doesn't love me, and all I can do is hope that maybe one day he might see what's right in front of him..
    adriefranco adriefranco 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I'm not in love with somebody. I'm in love with me! Just me :--) so my heart will never be broken
    wildmare wildmare 66-70, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    my best friend... i loved him more than i loved myself... and that's going to forever be the biggest regret of my life. he left. never came back, let me go without a fight. and i'm...
    meowshelbs meowshelbs 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I ran across this quote/poem the other day: "I’m not the girl your mother warns you about. I won’t kiss your best friend or break your heart. I won’t make you choose between...
    laurisilva laurisilva 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    At the time, I had feelings for a boy. I knew he would never like me back, and I didn't mind, I didn't want him to. I couldn't get over him, and something weird happened.. I can't...
    enchanthorizon enchanthorizon 13-15, F Jun 28

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    I'm so happy to be able to say (well, type) and MEAN it, when I say: I am FINALLY over my ex-girlfriend. I really am. I feel so good about finally being able to move on. I am...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    Every time we talk, I fall back in love with you, and the glowy feeling stays for the longest time. Except..BAM you're in my life again. And I fall harder every time. You're my...
    BeautifulHurts BeautifulHurts 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I'd loved you. Though our time was short I felt that you understood me better. You did everything right, you texted me sweetly, you held my hand. I remember our first date and...
    isodole isodole 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    The beginning of last year in like September maybe my best friend was talking to this cute boy she met at a friend's party and she was snapchatting and kiking him like NON-STOP...
    laurenharris1 laurenharris1 13-15, F Jul 14

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    The person I whom I trusted blindly other than my family was my best friend. We met one and a half years ago. We are in the same college. I didn't know when I fell in love with him...
    Bella2911 Bella2911 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    He told me he loved me everyday, and I knew he didn't. I just didn't believe it. I wanted to hear it from him, but all he said was " I love you too " I saw the way he looked at...
    MaddyAlexis MaddyAlexis 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's not a past tense thing for me though. It is happening right now in my relationship. We've been together for about 8 months and he is my first boyfriend (I'm 22). I told him...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    My sister and I haven't spoken for months and one night we ended up at the same bar. The guy she was with (her boyfriends friend) was there reason we spoke that night. I have met...
    Celinejean Celinejean 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    This guy stayed at my mates house with me I loved him alot I have never loved anyone as much as I love him he kissed me and made out with me turns out he didn't even like me I'm 15...
    freelikeabutterfly freelikeabutterfly 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I may not truly know what love is at this age, but the feelings I got thinking about us and how happy she made me, how I would be happy just seeing her smile. Love, she loved me...
    JerryTheFish JerryTheFish 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    Maybe she did or maybe she didn't but either way i couldn't tell. She never showed it and i fell for her and she moved on to liking my best friend after she knew i loved her for a...
    alysharoberts25 alysharoberts25 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    She was a close friend. I knew her for a year and she seemed perfect. Really feminine, intelligent, soft-spoken and stunningly beautiful (at least in my eyes). I mustered my...
    JourneyOfLife JourneyOfLife 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 13

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    One of those unrequited love situations, i had a crush on the typical kind polite funny popular girl at school who everyone liked. I genuinely liked her but also so did my mate and...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I've never really thought highly of myself. So when I started liking a boy who ended up not liking me back, I was crushed. Before I met this really adorable guy, I was already...
    SeanNation SeanNation 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's not necessarily love but I like to think of it that way. So I dated this girl a month or two back, and she said yes so I was happy. Little did I know she regretted every...
    Mjm01235 Mjm01235 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    the girl that seems so happy is the one who suffers the most pain and sheds the most tears. That girl asks herself why her, why can't things be different while she drags that razor...
    wothlessdreamer14 wothlessdreamer14 22-25, F Jul 8

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    So there's this jerk at my school i loved like more than i loved myself .. Weird i know. But he was so cute and adorable and sweet i told my friend about him and everything went...
    elissahindoyan elissahindoyan 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm in love with a guy I used to live with. He lives about 20 hours drive away , so we never see each other anymore. We did however see each other recently and we ended up getting...
    Nomi1992 Nomi1992 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    He was a year younger than me. We didn't know each other. I'm very shy so I never talked to him. I got his number and talked to him but he said he didn't like me back. He liked...
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I think at one point in a person's life, they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens...
    faithomfg faithomfg 16-17, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Whatever happened to us? How did you way of looking at me changed? You were falling in love with me; But I later found out you were too scared to handle everything. I still love...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    She did love me for a while. Then she said she didn't. Then she did, but as friends. Then, slowly she drifted away. One intimacy, one level of connection at a time. Shut off. Given...
    anyoldrobert anyoldrobert 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I am sick to death of always being constantly being lead on by people by saying really sweet stuff and flirting with me and to make me think that something could happen between us...
    jwiz28 jwiz28 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I was deeply in love with someone I would have done anything for They only pretended to love me until it didn't work out to there advantage any more and then she disappeared...
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 3

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    I know its wrong but it happens to be that I just don't love my half brother, I'm in love with him. I haven't said a word to anybody, but I have always liked him since we met. I...
    adusen adusen 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I love him so much I almost lost it to him months past I was hear thing like he have a girl friend I didn't want to believe it because I though he love me and felt the way I felt...
    magolly magolly 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I recently turned 15 I was in the 10th grade I was cool with this guy somehow me and his 17 year old cousin began texting & talking on the phone. Within 2 months he said "I love...
    young090613 young090613 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I had a crush on this boy for 9 years since first grade and I never told him about this. Then we went to different high schools so we don't talk now. But his friend actually...
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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