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I Loved Somebody Who Didn't Love Me

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    One Sided

    I just came from an 18 year onesided relationship and it was not my most favorite. I have a tendency to be too aggressive and not allow the guy to pursue. Once I have conquered what I want, It falls flat. The trick for me now is to refrain from being so aggressive and its hard. I...
    cynfra cynfra 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2011

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    Weak...But Coming Out Strong

    The pain you feel when you already like somebody b/c of their sweetness then they started to get cold and left you hanging on dead air...I'm sad,angry,hurt and disappointed. But you know what? Ill put on a happy face and move on and be strong. It will hurt but I will survive..
    PrincessCamargo PrincessCamargo 18-21, F Oct 30, 2013

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    Unrequited Love

    I'm only fourteen and have bipolar disorder. I suffer from frequent depression and become attached to things that make me happy very easily. Three years ago I had to switch schools. I had trouble dealing with this and didn't easily make friends. And then I met Michael. Michael...
    ticketwonder ticketwonder 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    She Always Said It Wouldn't Last; Nothing Does

    I fell for her like John Lennon fell for Yoko Ono. And our relationship was just as strange. I tried holding her hand in public, she jerked it away, her face twisted into a sort of falsely apologetic mask. We only kissed when we were pretending not to be ourselves. Instead we...
    queerboi queerboi 13-15 Nov 4, 2009

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    I barley even knew him

    but he already had me falling, the thought of him made me as happy as could be until I realized I totally screwed with chance of me and him and he screwed my cousin so....
    picapicapica picapicapica 13-15, F May 3

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    I Wish She Loved Me

    I recently had to go to a new school and for the first time in my life I made a friend right away. We became good friends right away. We would hang out and talk for hours. I fell in love with her. I kept quiet about it for about a month. One day we were watching a movie...
    trainrek trainrek 18-21, M 7 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    Tension Is Rising

    I'm on meds now for my BP disorder! WHOOP WHOOP But I still have really high anxiety. Michael, I wrote about him in my other post. I still like him and it's been almost two years. He's made it obvious that he doesn't like me. I hate it when he logs on facebook and I...
    ticketwonder ticketwonder 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2010

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    Unfair

    I Loved you so much, but you didnt but if you ever want me you know where i'll be
    Daveokay Daveokay 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    So I was dating a soldier for almost a year (one month from a year when he broke up with me). We were perfectly happy before he let for annual training. Two weeks into it he calls...
    ArmyNakata ArmyNakata 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Haven't we all....I mean seriously....haven't we all at some point gave our hearts and souls to someone who just didn't deserve them..... Loving them...Caring for them....giving...
    ladyamelia ladyamelia 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 11

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    I loved someone who didn't care about me. He was too selfish to give a damn about any of my feelings.
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I remember the exact moment that I knew i loved him. It was when I discovered he was moving away for six years to another country I couldn't possibly visit. Must when I was about...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    And finally, it's over. Two years of lies. Two years wasted. I saw it coming. I felt us drifting apart. I could feel your absence. I just never thought it'd come to this, that you...
    mitted mitted 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    I was am 14 at the moment and a few months ago I was at a stage with a girl I loved dearly and still love where we had been "talking dirty" for a while and exchanging pictures with...
    Teyh606 Teyh606 13-15, M Jul 22

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    it was the saddest experience of my life but my mum told me it happens at lease once in some ones life they person said they didn't love me they just liked me and I felt so sad I...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Hey guys! :) I just recently broke up with my boyfriend who was emotionally and physically abusive to me. He had abused every part of me....mentally, physically, sexually and...
    nixielizabeth nixielizabeth 22-25, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm not in love with somebody. I'm in love with me! Just me :--) so my heart will never be broken
    wildmare wildmare 66-70, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    my best friend... i loved him more than i loved myself... and that's going to forever be the biggest regret of my life. he left. never came back, let me go without a fight. and i'm...
    meowshelbs meowshelbs 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I'd loved you. Though our time was short I felt that you understood me better. You did everything right, you texted me sweetly, you held my hand. I remember our first date and...
    isodole isodole 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    The beginning of last year in like September maybe my best friend was talking to this cute boy she met at a friend's party and she was snapchatting and kiking him like NON-STOP...
    laurenharris1 laurenharris1 13-15, F Jul 14

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    The person I whom I trusted blindly other than my family was my best friend. We met one and a half years ago. We are in the same college. I didn't know when I fell in love with him...
    Bella2911 Bella2911 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    He told me he loved me everyday, and I knew he didn't. I just didn't believe it. I wanted to hear it from him, but all he said was " I love you too " I saw the way he looked at...
    MaddyAlexis MaddyAlexis 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    It's not a past tense thing for me though. It is happening right now in my relationship. We've been together for about 8 months and he is my first boyfriend (I'm 22). I told him...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    My sister and I haven't spoken for months and one night we ended up at the same bar. The guy she was with (her boyfriends friend) was there reason we spoke that night. I have met...
    Celinejean Celinejean 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    This guy stayed at my mates house with me I loved him alot I have never loved anyone as much as I love him he kissed me and made out with me turns out he didn't even like me I'm 15...
    freelikeabutterfly freelikeabutterfly 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    She was a close friend. I knew her for a year and she seemed perfect. Really feminine, intelligent, soft-spoken and stunningly beautiful (at least in my eyes). I mustered my...
    JourneyOfLife JourneyOfLife 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Maybe she did or maybe she didn't but either way i couldn't tell. She never showed it and i fell for her and she moved on to liking my best friend after she knew i loved her for a...
    alysharoberts25 alysharoberts25 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    One of those unrequited love situations, i had a crush on the typical kind polite funny popular girl at school who everyone liked. I genuinely liked her but also so did my mate and...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I've never really thought highly of myself. So when I started liking a boy who ended up not liking me back, I was crushed. Before I met this really adorable guy, I was already...
    SeanNation SeanNation 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    It's not necessarily love but I like to think of it that way. So I dated this girl a month or two back, and she said yes so I was happy. Little did I know she regretted every...
    Mjm01235 Mjm01235 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    the girl that seems so happy is the one who suffers the most pain and sheds the most tears. That girl asks herself why her, why can't things be different while she drags that razor...
    wothlessdreamer14 wothlessdreamer14 22-25, F Jul 8

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    So there's this jerk at my school i loved like more than i loved myself .. Weird i know. But he was so cute and adorable and sweet i told my friend about him and everything went...
    elissahindoyan elissahindoyan 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm in love with a guy I used to live with. He lives about 20 hours drive away , so we never see each other anymore. We did however see each other recently and we ended up getting...
    Nomi1992 Nomi1992 18-21, F a week ago

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    He was a year younger than me. We didn't know each other. I'm very shy so I never talked to him. I got his number and talked to him but he said he didn't like me back. He liked...
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I think at one point in a person's life, they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens...
    Faithlovee Faithlovee 16-17, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    9 years ago I saw him. It was a new day at my new class, thought it could be the new start at better life. However, we had few moments, we were almost the best friends, but he...
    whiskeyandtypewriter whiskeyandtypewriter 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was deeply in love with someone I would have done anything for They only pretended to love me until it didn't work out to there advantage any more and then she disappeared...
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 3

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    I know its wrong but it happens to be that I just don't love my half brother, I'm in love with him. I haven't said a word to anybody, but I have always liked him since we met. I...
    adusen adusen 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I love him so much I almost lost it to him months past I was hear thing like he have a girl friend I didn't want to believe it because I though he love me and felt the way I felt...
    magolly magolly 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I recently turned 15 I was in the 10th grade I was cool with this guy somehow me and his 17 year old cousin began texting & talking on the phone. Within 2 months he said "I love...
    young090613 young090613 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I had a crush on this boy for 9 years since first grade and I never told him about this. Then we went to different high schools so we don't talk now. But his friend actually...
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    3 years of being with a man I was besotted with. We went everywhere together I didn't do anything without him. He always kept me where he wanted me, and alienated me from my...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    Well, to be honest I'm not sure if he doesn't love me yet. I know I'm crazy about him. He just doesn't know yet but I'm going to tell him soon. He used to love me and it was...
    hamtona hamtona 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I gave her my heart, my soul but it was never going to be enough. Although I still love her I know I will never be enough, she will always want that bit more. I can't keep chasing...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jul 1

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    Why is now in days that we (people in general), always have to find a way to prove our undying love for one another? What happen to " I LOVE YOU", or "YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO ME? I...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Ok so this my first story, I was about 14 when noticed I liked girl I was lesbian or bi ...Well I fell crazy in love with this girl in my school, she great when two us where...
    freedomlovergirl freedomlovergirl 18-21, F Jul 23

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    Hi all my ep friends, My story in this group "She loves someone else and I know, I still love her" got me responses which were heart wrenching. I have observed that there are so...
    anuragch11 anuragch11 18-21, M Jul 14

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    Maybe he did once..... But my anger and hate from the past killed any chance at anything good for us....I loved him so much and so intensely.....Maybe I was delusional..........I...
    strongspine300 strongspine300 26-30, F 2 Responses