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I Loved Someone That Didnt Love Me The Way I Wanted And Needed

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    Its Been A While

    Its been a while since I've been here, sitting alone here on the bench staring at the water, I can almost feel you next to me. Its getting colder now, autum is the most beautiful time at this lake. There's coloured leaves everywhere I look on the ground in the trees, the ducks...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    The Process Of Love

    Love is given freely. However, it is a learnt process to freely give anything. Many people want to love and to be loved but it is not something that just happens; it needs to evolve. When you decide to love someone and they you a perpetual journey begins. Together you will both...
    wherewerewe wherewerewe 46-50, M Dec 14, 2012

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