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I Loved Someone That Didnt Love Me The Way I Wanted And Needed

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    The Process Of Love

    Love is given freely. However, it is a learnt process to freely give anything. Many people want to love and to be loved but it is not something that just happens; it needs to evolve. When you decide to love someone and they you a perpetual journey begins. Together you will both...
    wherewerewe wherewerewe 46-50, M Dec 14, 2012

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    Its Been A While

    Its been a while since I've been here, sitting alone here on the bench staring at the water, I can almost feel you next to me. Its getting colder now, autum is the most beautiful time at this lake. There's coloured leaves everywhere I look on the ground in the trees, the ducks...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    So yeah I loved someone who didn't love me, I gave him my all, I loved him at his worst and tried to be the one to show him how great he really was, i always listened, and made him...
    Lai96 Lai96 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    I loved my ex and though we broke up and it was for many right reasons, I still care. The way she talked to me, the way she acted I now know she never loved me. Saying I love you...
    Calvexz Calvexz 26-30, F Dec 2

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    I lost an amazing guy... I really wanted to give love another try and when I met him I really felt like love would be kind... But now I have to live with another regret. I thought...
    ecoglitcher ecoglitcher 16-17, M Nov 22

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    I really thought I had it all with my now ex boyfriend! I loved him and he told me daily how much I meant to him and how much he loved me and what he wanted for us. then out of the...
    libragirl89 libragirl89 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    You can't expect someone who was never wanted to be serious from the beginning to become serious for you. My life lesson, that I'm STILL learning.
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    Ain't that a sad reality of life. but I guess you can never stop your heart from being infatuated. you can control what you show to the world, but you can't control how you're...
    Efoile Efoile 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 28

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    How could I even begin? I spent YEARS believing the lies of someone I loved very dearly. I sacrificed everything I had for him-money, career, family. Everything. I was the giving...
    scarlet54 scarlet54 36-40 Dec 3

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    I just think it would be really nice to be with someone. Someone who loves you as much as you love them. And to share great times together. And just to have a great friend around...
    musicislife00 musicislife00 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    My heart keeps growing bigger and bigger. I want someone to love. Someone that it makes me smile just to hear her name. Who I can hug and feel everything just feels right. Someone...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Dec 3

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    Just want someone to love me as much I as I love them. Pretty much the only thing in this world I can't live without. Besides food, water and air of course
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M Nov 24

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    My navy boyfriend (ex?) decided we need a break from eachother to focus on eachothers careers. I was crushed. I still don't know what to do.We agreed not to see other people but...
    Doopala Doopala 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I want someone to love all of me and accept my past and my dark side. Like the song from muse- undisclosed desire
    Layla1721 Layla1721 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    I met a boy when I was seven years old and he would turn out to be someone that I would love without question for close to fifteen years. We were friends and then best friends for...
    little3M little3M 22-25, F Nov 20

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    To the girl he left me for, I always wondered who you were and what you were like. I wanted to see why he chose you and not me. Secretly, I wanted you to be superficial and...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Two years ago I was introduced to a guy whose I knew before but just by sight. He is one year older than me from the same hometown as me, visiting the same Uni as me. He always...
    michaela2 michaela2 22-25 1 Response Nov 25

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    I believed this was my fault from the minute I said "I'm in love with you." I didn't think after that, everything would begin to change and feelings would become more unbearable...
    ThatOneComplexGirl ThatOneComplexGirl 18-21, F Nov 21

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    I was in relationship with a Man who was telling me that he care about me ,and miss me .... But i feel like he was poser because he expressing his feeling so much than real, he...
    nassomael nassomael 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    in truth, I've loved a lot of people who didn't love me back. I've also found myself unable to love someone that for all intents and purposes i should have...just didnt. I imagine...
    elly40 elly40 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    The guy I (think I maybe) love, said he loved me. But I'm not sure if he meant it as 1) a joke 2) as a friend 3) maybe he's fallen for me like I have for him.
    AnnaSpring AnnaSpring 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    I know you said goodbye, but please read this. I am sorry I failed you. I would move mountains to take away the pain you feel. My heart broke when I hurt you; who I was died that...
    Deleated Deleated 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    I first fell in love I guess when I was in high school. I don't think it was puppy love since I was caring unconditionally for him, but maybe it's just because I'm naturally more...
    hesitations hesitations 16-17, M Dec 4

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    How can I feel alone when I sleep next to you every night. How can a love I have for you seems so distance sometimes. When I think of you why do I feel that I lost you and, your...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    everyone expects something. they expect me to behave this way, or think that way. and I'm ridiculed for the person I am. the core of my being. I think I got to the point that I...
    loveandlight29 loveandlight29 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    A few years back I met a man who was awesome in so many ways. We had enough similarities to hold a decent conversation, yet enough differences to keep things interesting. Like me...
    SadZwiebel SadZwiebel 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I think I let my heart fall in love when My mind should still be wary. Emotionally, I connect with some people...then when lips meet and conversations just blend and flow...love is...
    sunnygrlamy sunnygrlamy 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm missing you like crazy today. I can feel it in every bit of my fibre. I'm missing you like crazy & the worst part is that there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. I could...
    kimberleyyy kimberleyyy 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    this is totally not true. bc i love him, and he "loved" me. but i guess it wasnt real love because love never goes away and it wouldn't be "loved". it'd just be, i love him and he...
    flawlxsskay flawlxsskay 16-17, F a week ago

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    Someone hurt someone very close to me. my face is twisted in rage. do they think they're gonna get away with it? i hope not because i never forget and i never forgive for hurting...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    i am numb to emotions...i dont feel loved or wanted....what a toxic combination....
    lovabledoll lovabledoll 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 26

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    He abandoned me when I needed him the most. Now he's come back into my life and I've been replaced.
    quammal quammal 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    I loved this guy. who I knew for years. he used to be in love with me. when I finally fell for him, he got what he wanted and left.
    allie724 allie724 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 9

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    At 22 I've had my heart broken so many times that I'm not sure if I'll ever be loved in return..I've met somebody I really like and click with more than anyone I've met before, but...
    smokentokes smokentokes 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 21

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    Ah well. I've asked someone out on here more than once and they don't seem interested in me in that way at all. And yes- I do love them greatly but in a different way that they...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    Today memories came up of a boy I loved very much. I was listening to a song he would always play on the piano and memories of him came flowing through my head. When i met him he...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    I am a woman that was with a woman. I was with her when I was 15, she was 17. We did everything together. She was my only friend. I guess I loved her too much. She was everything...
    ti777 ti777 18-21 3 Responses Dec 6

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    She's getting a divorce; I found out today. She's made it clear over the past few years that she isn't happy with him, and soon they will be no more. I've wanted her so badly over...
    DarkestDespair DarkestDespair 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    he waited a year to tell me how he really felt. young love is such a torture. but I wouldn't know why he didn't love me because I gave him anything he wanted, sadly.
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F Nov 18

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    I told him I loved him in a friendly tone and he said the same to me. Truthfully it was more than friends but I could never say it. One day I built up the courage to tell him how I...
    maureensky3 maureensky3 18-21, F Nov 27

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    We spent 2 years helping each other through our depression and anxieties. I loved her so much. Then, once she managed to make it out of her depressive slump, she left me for...
    Light125 Light125 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 29

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    This was some young love ****. In age 13, there was this guy named vincent who was my bestfriend. He was popular for being funny and cute!! Every girl talked about him. As the new...
    Brittanybae Brittanybae 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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    My grandpas service was yesterday and I don't think it did him justice. Lots of his oldest friends didn't even show up. The one thing that keeps bothering me is my sister showed...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    "Little Things" Your hand fits in mine Like it's made just for me But bear this in mind It was meant to be And I'm joining up the dots with the freckles on your cheeks And it all...
    kitkat2797 kitkat2797 16-17, F Nov 29

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    I was with the same girl for three years and I love her so much. we broke up two months ago and she is with another girl. while we were dating I wasn't out yet so I kind of hid her...
    rachellynn99 rachellynn99 18-21, F Nov 30

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