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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

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    I have a crush on this white girl ,

    but idk what to do , I can't get her , am too shy to talk to her
    youngmulababy youngmulababy 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips 26-30, F 28 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 17 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    there's this guy at my school

    and he was my best friend for years, but I always knew he loved me. We literally did everything together and would hang out all the time. When we weren't together we were texting. But we always stayed friends. One time we were watching netflix in his room when he leaned over and...
    rsommer95 rsommer95 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    How dare you message me

    so late and ask me to send you a picture so you can "show your friend!" After I freaked out, told you "I'm not some prized pig to be shown off" All you could say was "I love u" Well sweetheart I do not feel the same and never will with the way you act, tell everyone including...
    Recklessdesires Recklessdesires 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I thought I could be strong enough,

    and when I heard your voice,I cried like a little kid,can't talk with you but keep crying.i may never see you again in the rest of my life,but these memory is so clear in my mind.i listened to you so carefully,your laugh,your joke,I knew you have moved on,I knew you had restart...
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    She had fake feelings

    for me and I fell for it
    serenaphillips serenaphillips 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    After 3 yrs with someone you adored

    and they continue to screw you over, you get incredibly tired and fed up. Especially when they walk back intoyour life whenever they please and screws everything up
    shazzarr shazzarr 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    O-Ver

    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    Well yes, after me putting up with him all

    these years he decided its time to move on, i always got the sense that he didnt love me as much as i did, he said he did way too much but i told him then where did it go? Cause love never just walks out the door that way, to tge extent that youd die without that person. And i...
    peabophile peabophile 18-21, M a week ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 28 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    I can't stop thinking of the guy I'm in love

    with, the problem is, he's not in love with me, I accepted that, we're friends, but I don't know what to do, it's the first time I'm in love...
    Naockey Naockey 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    1 + 1

             I consider myself to be fairly experienced at love and relationships…at life.  I’ve been married twice and was widowed the first time (with two small children.)  Since I met him (billions of years ago) and...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    I always tryin to get hooked up with the girl

    that I like , but later on I end up staying single :( :/ I am too kind, Idk why this happens to me
    youngmulababy youngmulababy 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    A Poem About Loving Someone That Doesn't Love You Back!!

    When you love someone that doesn't love you back When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they...
    msnc msnc 22-25 70 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Loving someone so deeply,

    and knowing deep down that there isn't even a possibly that you two might be together, is one of the deepest pains I've ever known.
    notquitesoquaint notquitesoquaint 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    It's heartbroken .when you loved someone by

    heart,it turned out he didn't.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 17

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    I wish I could rip my emotions out of my head

    it's been 8 days since I chucked him out for my own sanity but this is so hard I know exactly who he is an he's not a nice guy but he's the guy I've loved for three years an it's ripping my heart out bit having him here I know at least he's not ripping my sanity to pieces I've...
    crazycakes1 crazycakes1 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    it's hard having that one-sided love

    and afraid to tell the other person cause u might be rejected or even worse laughed at
    Black15Camdy Black15Camdy 13-15, F Mar 15

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    I decided to go on a date last night with

    someone new. It's the first time I've dated since things ended with the man I loved. It went horribly. This new man started to try and kiss me, hands were wandering... And you know what I did... I burst into tears. I'm not ready to let go. I'm not ready to move on.
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 22 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 8 Responses May 23, 2013

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    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    This is an odd thought.

    .. Its been probably a little over a month since we broke up. We had the cheesiest relationship for over a year, everything was amazing, and she was so perfect to me in everyway. Its a weird thing that we were so happy together and one day she just tells me she doesnt care for me...
    apmountaindrew apmountaindrew 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Once. They're 8 years older

    than me, I don't care. I love them. But they literally can't love me back. Can't.
    girlproblems267 girlproblems267 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I was in a relationship with someone

    who didn't love me. It took me a while to realize I was just being used, actions always speak louder than words. If someone wants & loves you nothing will keep them away, some men just don't know how to appreciate a good woman. Ladies, never chase after a man who doesnt know...
    Minix Minix 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    I've come to realize

    that I'm unlovable. I have a few good friends and I know who I am to love and care about myself, but that is not the love I mean. I've been rejected by all the girls I've ever loved except for one five years ago, and even that did not end up well. I'm not blaming them, because...
    soul7 soul7 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 17

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    She never texts first.

    I know it seems insignificant and small, but when I text her I always feel annoying, and that will never change.
    monochromaticscale monochromaticscale 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    So dramatic, no? And

    yet so cynical. Se que tu piensas en ella cuando lo lees, y mientras yo pienso en lo que senti por ti. "When you lose someone, someone you love, when they break your heart. It's the hardest thing you could ever go though. and no matter how much time has passed. It never...
    TheRoseThatGrewFromConcrete TheRoseThatGrewFromConcrete 70+, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 618 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    I gave you my heart, I gave you my soul,

    I gave you my life, my love, you stole. I never poured my heart out to anyone as much as I did for you. I did things for you, I said things to you, that you only hear and see in fairytales with happy endings. I thought you deserved nothing but the best, so that's exactly what I...
    LonelyAJ LonelyAJ 18-21, M 10 Responses Jan 11

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 19 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    I'm going to visit the love of my life this

    weekend whom I haven't seen in over a year! I'm so so excited to see him - he's my best friend, and my oldest friend. He knows how I feel but he doesn't feel as strongly as I do. And so I'm scared, too...
    megalegaloo megalegaloo 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    I'm in a complicated situation.

    I'm not in love but I've met someone, but he has a girlfriend and that's complicated too so we started seeing each other and a few months go by and now he says he doesn't think he can fall in love with me but doesn't want to stop seeing me unless we mutually agree to stop seeing...
    Toniommi Toniommi 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 20 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Well apologies its kind of long!

    I met my 'friend' in 1994. I was 18 years old and still a virgin He was 26 and worked at a pub I used to frequent Over time we started talking...long story short he stated he was only after a casual relationship and we later slept together. I never regretted it He was...
    Smile123q Smile123q 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    You have taught me one of the hardest lessons

    I've had to learn in this life: how to live without someone I love. It's also one of the most painful- my chest still tightens when I think of you, which I try not to do often, but it happens anyway. Maybe you'll say I deserved this, and part of me agrees. But the other part...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 26-30 9 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-17, F 125 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    The other way round. Last year I went out with

    a guy for 5 months, he was fantastic; attractive, funny, interesting, caring and he took me on some really amazing dates. We did connect but I just couldn't fall in love with him. He told me he loved me once and I just shunned him, I thought I felt it for a short while but I...
    Toniommi Toniommi 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Me and this guy were best friends.

    When I met him I knew he was dog so I kept it friendly. He ended up going to jail. I wrote him, answered all his calls and went to go see him. We ended up falling in love at lease I thought we did. After about a year I found out he was was still messing around with his ex. I...
    Brownsugar25 Brownsugar25 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    saboosa1 saboosa1 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I met someone wen I was 15 going through a

    really rough time. I am best friends wit this guy still to this day. I loved him like no other than wen we were 20. he told me that he no longer loved me anymore and that he wld nvr love me. so it took me so long to accept the fact that he didn't love me like I did him. I was...
    jazzyphay2 jazzyphay2 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    The Last Letter

    I don’t know when you’ll see this, or if you will ever get to but I have to tell you something important. You are so much more than you think. I have not known you for long but I can say these about you. I’ve never said this to anyone in my life. But you are beautiful. Your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    Are you hurting? Do you find yourself crying

    out inwardly? Is it because you cannot get that one person off your mind? Has it been a long time since that person sent you a text, phoned you or emailed you? Does it make you ache, is the pain enough to make you scream? When you give a person that much importance, your...