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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

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    Getting Over Someone Is Not Easy...

    It's not an easy process so if anyone tells you it is, it doesn't matter how long or how short you lasted, the thing is you were together and there were memories and that makes it hard... It's usually the small ones that pain the most... Small but the impact is huge, or the...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F 93 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    I fell head over heals in love

    for a guy once. He was everything to me. He led me on. For 3 years. Then he humiliated me in front of all of our peers and made me break down and cry. sorry just had to get that out of my system.
    FelineLover311 FelineLover311 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can't have her because she is not allowed to

    have any type of relationship with me.Or she would lost her license.She is my psychiatric nurse. :( She doesn't know i am in love with her. :( And i can't see her very often and i am afraid to tell her how i feel for fear of losing her. :( Not seeing her is tormenting and...
    Stephanielovepornaudio Stephanielovepornaudio 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    1 + 1

             I consider myself to be fairly experienced at love and relationships…at life.  I’ve been married twice and was widowed the first time (with two small children.)  Since I met him (billions of years ago) and...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    :"( epallie! I loved you just

    so fkin much! and you just... burnt down my trust to ashes! D: how dare you, bish?!!?!! :/
    slytheringuy slytheringuy 16-17, M 5 Responses Nov 8, 2015

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    I lost hope in my 2.5 long distance

    relationship. I poured my life into this and I am not sure what to do with myself now knowing that he doesn't love me as he never cares about my feelings. all I see is how much I gave and I feel so beaten to the bottom now... exhausted cos I can't try any harder any more... I...
    clevercandle clevercandle 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 20, 2015

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 26-30, M 620 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    There's this guy I work with,

    and he's so sweet and funny. He's probably my best friend, and we even have nicknames for each other; jerk and ***** (sounds demeaning, but it's a supernatural inside joke). I'm head over heels, and he's gay
    kkatiestyles123 kkatiestyles123 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Turns out we wanted different things

    so we decided to be friends. And we were the closest friends in the world on 12/31 but as of 1/16 she no longer wanted to speak to me ever again.💙
    theOnlyinolvidable theOnlyinolvidable 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    O-Ver

    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    For all those heart broken people reading this.

    .. This is what I've learnt to help me through months of pain. I hope it helps you At first you need to learn to breath through the pain and emptiness. You accept your thoughts- but let them pass by. He may be your last thought at night and your first waking feeling- but in...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2015

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    That awkward moment when you think you're

    important to someone,and you're not.....
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 31

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    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    It Takes Two

    I cannot say that I knew the power and despondency of unrequited love until about a year back.  I had begun writing a sizeable project and had been looking in vain for someone to edit my work.  It was a project that totally engaged me, and as such, I feared rejection...
    Seraph1m Seraph1m 26-30, M 67 Responses Feb 14, 2006

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    Being in love with someone

    and knowing they don't love you back. So you try to change. you starve yourself to get to 'their' ideal weight. You throw away your regards to your health. You think about then too much. Why do feelings exist?
    Makochi Makochi 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    elifarah98 elifarah98 16-17, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Words that drive a steak in any mans heart.

    Worse than Dracula. "Platonic Friendship." Never fails. Fml.
    ElSabre101 ElSabre101 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I cared for him when everyone else rejected him.

    I told him I was here for him when he was truly and utterly alone. He told me I was the most precious thing he had in his life. He made me feel loved and I did the same for him..I even told him I loved him...He didn't say it back..I thought it was because he was shy. One day...
    Iluvbeingme Iluvbeingme 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Foreverdeleted Foreverdeleted 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    It's not easy to go through the pain.

    Time is the best healer.
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    hi i am pankaj,iam 26 year old

    and unmarried. i wants to share my little love and break up story. i work in a limited firm , there are no girls working here, i operate computers, last year in my boss hire a girl candidate for computer along with me, we became friends in one day and lovers in just 7 days, we...
    sensitive2 sensitive2 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I once fell head over heels

    for a boy in my school. He was perfect; handsome, hilarious, and really sweet. Finally, during a trip with my marching band, I built up the courage to actually befriend him. A while later, we were dating and I absolutely adored him. A month later he shattered my heart when he...
    verakay verakay 13-15, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've never been the person you look forward to

    seeing. I'm no ones favorite. My name only escapes lips in the form of whispered lies. I was never the one you missed, or cried over. I was never the one you just wanted for me to notice. I was never the one you desperately seeked to impress. I was never the one you had concerns...
    ashlenamya66359 ashlenamya66359 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Turned out I fell in love with someone

    who was only dating me for a bet
    UnusualFrosch UnusualFrosch 18-21, F 39 Responses Sep 20, 2015

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 20 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy 41-45, M 10 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    A Poem About Loving Someone That Doesn't Love You Back!!

    When you love someone that doesn't love you back When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they...
    msnc msnc 22-25 73 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    if only I have used my brain

    rather than my heart..
    Mikyang Mikyang 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2013

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    was 1st marriage..dated 6yrs,

    married 6mos. She broke my heart and trust in future relationships.
    RedMaster19 RedMaster19 51-55, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's funny how your heart will yearn

    for that which it can't have. Funnier still how people will take advantage of that. I loved him. He knew it. I told him so. He said it back to me easing his way further into that place inside your chest that hides away where nobody else looks. At first it's only whirlwind and...
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    iEmperorking iEmperorking 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I decided to go on a date last night with

    someone new. It's the first time I've dated since things ended with the man I loved. It went horribly. This new man started to try and kiss me, hands were wandering... And you know what I did... I burst into tears. I'm not ready to let go. I'm not ready to move on.
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 19 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    Forbidden Fruit I loved someone.

    For the first time in my life i could actually say i loved someone. He....he was what i was looking for. Someone honest, someone who had felt the pains and worries of life so he could understand my pain. He was my rock. The reason i am still alive. He had saved me from dying of...
    PanPagan PanPagan 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I dated him for almost a year.

    he treated me like a queen and loved me like one. then life separated us but 2 years later brought us back together. he's always busy. always with friends drinking and smoking. he doesn't want a relationship with me but can leave me with a pregnancy scare and lies. I am in...
    BlackBerryCherrylette BlackBerryCherrylette 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    "I choose to love you in silence,

    for in silence i find no rejection.. I choose to love you in loneliness, for in loneliness no one owns you but me.. I choose to adore you from a distance, for distance will shield me from pain.. I choose to kiss you in the wind, for the wind is gentler than my lips.. I...
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-17, F 125 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    Feel like everyone i loved didnt love me

    or that i never was. Bt its good, wont do that love **** again.
    ElSabre101 ElSabre101 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    The I. Q. of Love.

    Love is stupid. Love is dumb. It has an IQ comparable to a packet of stale crackers. Don't get me wrong, love is without doubt one of the most important forces in anybody's life; it is wonderful, it is the closest many of us come to living with magic. It's just not...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 48 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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    He lead me on. I was

    so weak at the time and he knew that. He told me he loved me and that he would never leave me. We talked every night until we went to sleep. After hanging out and talking every night I fell for him and I told him and he knew I was in love with him. Then two months after being in...
    MadisonDaWarrior MadisonDaWarrior 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 22 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    i have a friend from brazil,

    he makes me falling in love with him because he treath me like he love me too. and now i really miss him so much, he didn't chat me anymore because he has a new friend(same country with me) and i think he enjoy with her better than me. he forgot me :(
    Deluxury Deluxury 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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