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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

Unrequited love personal stories, support, and forum. You're not the first. 54,833 People

    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    i loved this girl. I've known her

    for a while. she didn't love me. i tried everything to convince her she was the world. i still love her. she's with someone else
    drrjr drrjr 22-25, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 28 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    shaunahall shaunahall 41-45, F 9 hrs ago

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    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 16 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-17, F 125 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    Yes I loved him with all of my heart,

    I still love him N I will always love him But I've already cut him off N I am going to be alone with my cats now Meow meow meow meow mix!!!
    Skoph Skoph 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    To the man I loved, I don't know

    if you know that when you left my world ripped apart. I don't know if you know for three weeks I cried every day and woke up empty every morning thinking of you. I wish this pain would go away. But no matter how many times I sob or mourn, I can't remove this heavy pain within me...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    Yes I loved somebody

    who didn't love me...I knew he didn't but I still fell for him...I feel like a complete idiot and wish I could take back the years...but I can't:/ he left when he finally got this girls attention and just ya left without a goodbye or anything...took most of the money that we...
    LerisaEllis LerisaEllis 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I loved someone that didn't love me

    and I don't regret it at all. While it felt terrible most of the time, short-lived moments of happiness were also one of the best days of my life. It made me feel wildly ecstatic.. I was given a reason to wake up, to think of ways to talk to her.. To be with her. It made me feel...
    everydayissummerr everydayissummerr 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    It Takes Two

    I cannot say that I knew the power and despondency of unrequited love until about a year back.  I had begun writing a sizeable project and had been looking in vain for someone to edit my work.  It was a project that totally engaged me, and as such, I feared rejection...
    Seraph1m Seraph1m 26-30, M 68 Responses Feb 14, 2006

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    July 20th, 2006

    It might as well be yesterday. I could tell by her voice when she coldly said "We need to talk" exactly what was going to happen. I spent the next two hours curled up in a fetal position clutching the toilet, sobbing and throwing up.  She tossed me out like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Dec 12, 2007

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    ksssmddnlcmfvp ksssmddnlcmfvp 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have loved the same person

    for I don't even know how long. To be fair, she doesn't actually know, so I guess there will always be that big "what if" that is killing me. The issue is, she is my best friends younger sister. The age difference is not something I really thought about. I just naturally fell...
    BowtiesRcool BowtiesRcool 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    The I. Q. of Love.

    Love is stupid. Love is dumb. It has an IQ comparable to a packet of stale crackers. Don't get me wrong, love is without doubt one of the most important forces in anybody's life; it is wonderful, it is the closest many of us come to living with magic. It's just not...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 48 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 618 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I have a feelings for this girl

    but of course she doesn't even like me. Life's a *****, huh.
    midnightthoughtsofyou midnightthoughtsofyou 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I lost hope in my 2.5 long distance

    relationship. I poured my life into this and I am not sure what to do with myself now knowing that he doesn't love me as he never cares about my feelings. all I see is how much I gave and I feel so beaten to the bottom now... exhausted cos I can't try any harder any more... I...
    clevercandle clevercandle 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 20

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    O-Ver

    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    When I was married I loved my husband with

    every fiber of my being. He didn't love me.. But time heals all wounds. To an extent.
    kmutloats kmutloats 36-40, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Are you hurting? Do you find yourself crying

    out inwardly? Is it because you cannot get that one person off your mind? Has it been a long time since that person sent you a text, phoned you or emailed you? Does it make you ache, is the pain enough to make you scream? When you give a person that much importance, your...
    shaandar shaandar 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    I do anything for those

    who speak from the heart, even if i don't like what they say. My expectations are so low.. i only want sincerity.
    R0GUE R0GUE 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    I met a girl fell madly in love,

    took her the kids in add my own, coached their youth sports, took them all on vacation, would do anything for them. We were together for as little over 6 years. We always talked about having a kid of our own, after five years she gets pregnant. just when i thought our...
    timmy8512 timmy8512 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Does your life have this one person

    that you can't bear to be alone or close with because your stupid body just responds to their presence like an urge to be with them all the time? but you can't because its just plain one sided, and it hurts every time you unconsciously thought of them so you try to push them...
    areYoureallyhere areYoureallyhere 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I fell in love with a man.

    . he was sooo amazing, and what i had been searching for. Well we dated and talked about our future together and then he cheated. and stupid me let him come back and i fell even harder. now he's gone for good. and it hurts...
    hohohoe hohohoe 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 20 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips 26-30, F 29 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    You have taught me one of the hardest lessons

    I've had to learn in this life: how to live without someone I love. It's also one of the most painful- my chest still tightens when I think of you, which I try not to do often, but it happens anyway. Maybe you'll say I deserved this, and part of me agrees. But the other part...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 26-30 9 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    Every relationship I've ever been in has ended

    with "Well there's another girl..." I wish for once someone would love me as much as I love them...
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I was younger, I made my first best friend.

    He was someone I'd known my entire life because his family and my family knew each other. I was at his house all the time growing up and one summer, my girl best friend from school hung out with us. We played guitar hero, stayed up way too late and talked about stupid stuff. I...
    L48O1516S2342T L48O1516S2342T 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Years ago, when I was first going to college.

    I was finally dating a guy I had been interested in for years. It was semi long distance, just an hour n half apart. And I was head over heals and I thought he was too. But after I said I love you, he never would. And then he was always doing things I didn't like (smoking weed...
    Armywifsahm Armywifsahm 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    For all those heart broken people reading this.

    .. This is what I've learnt to help me through months of pain. I hope it helps you At first you need to learn to breath through the pain and emptiness. You accept your thoughts- but let them pass by. He may be your last thought at night and your first waking feeling- but in...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    He keeps talking **** about me behind my back

    but I still love him and I always will
    weonfire weonfire 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    A Poem About Loving Someone That Doesn't Love You Back!!

    When you love someone that doesn't love you back When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they...
    msnc msnc 22-25 70 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    One conversation with you brought back all my

    feelings Ive tried so hard for months to hide
    Ines77 Ines77 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been in love with guy

    since I was fourteen years old. We have played in the same band since I met him and we would always talk and flirt. When I was seventeen he started dating this really nice girl, and it broke my heart every time when I saw them together. For a while there they weren't talking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 20 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    It's not easy to go through the pain.

    Time is the best healer.
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    He says he loves me but chose another woman.

    It was a complicated situation and I didn't release just how much I love him. He was my friend for 3 years. Its been 4 weeks now and I feel I am getting worse instead of better. I miss him so much and he is always in my thoughts. I really don't know how to deal with this, feel...
    LadyInUK LadyInUK 41-45, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    1 + 1

             I consider myself to be fairly experienced at love and relationships…at life.  I’ve been married twice and was widowed the first time (with two small children.)  Since I met him (billions of years ago) and...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 8 Responses May 23, 2013

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    My family stopped speaking to me

    and locked me out 2 months ago like I died. No explaination even after I begged....blocked at every turn. I've never been so alone or broken. I'm a nice person! :(
    redwritinghood2100 redwritinghood2100 41-45, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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