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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

Unrequited love personal stories, support, and forum. You're not the first. 48,408 People

    taiterz taiterz 26-30, M 17 Responses Apr 11

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    I think this is happening again to me.

    .. I like this girl, I really, really do, and though she's much fun to hang out with and I generally feel comfortable around her, I still feel shy around her at times. She's seeing other people, and me, and she doesn't want a person yet, but I cannot help that I am beginning to...
    darkarts101 darkarts101 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 23 Responses Feb 18

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    Well, to be honest I'm not sure

    if he doesn't love me yet. I know I'm crazy about him. He just doesn't know yet but I'm going to tell him soon. He used to love me and it was wonderful. Maybe he still does and we can get that back.
    hamtona hamtona 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 21 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    O-Ver

    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    He Was Never Meant to Be Mine.

    Within two days of starting a new high school, I spotted this guy. The most dreamiest guy ever. I was 11, he was 15. Me and my friend spent the year following him around and supporting the school soccer team cause he played in it. He always seemed to avoid me though. This never...
    amigoodenough amigoodenough 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 617 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    our love burned like a firecracker quick,

    intense, loud- and then- nothing we crackled, sizzled then we popped, imploded- exploded! fire to ashes; isn't that the way of love, baby? fast & furious passionate and loud and then- nothing nothing but the silence that love lost leaves behind.
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 22-25 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Just a few lines from my fanfiction of my life.

    Later, as I try to fall asleep, I press my hands together. It's not the same and it's not enough but it will have to do. Ugh, story of my life. : p
    hamtona hamtona 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    To The Girl Who Will Replace Me ...

    There are just a couple of things that I thought I should tell you. I learned these while I was the object of your guy's affection. First of all, don't be frightened if he smothers much more love on you than you had expected. Don't be surprised if he treats you much better than...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    The man that I have come to realize

    that I will never be with, just told me that I am the only other woman he could ever be with. Ugh!!!!!
    rjh3 rjh3 46-50, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 27 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    Why is it so hard just to get over a girl in my

    life?? I wanna find someone new but then im afraid that im just trying to find someone because im kinda lonely
    yoshiyang yoshiyang 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Many women to whom I've been attracted,

    and all who've left me wanting...
    LoveWarrior2 LoveWarrior2 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I've never really thought highly of myself.

    So when I started liking a boy who ended up not liking me back, I was crushed. Before I met this really adorable guy, I was already battling self hate. When I realized I was falling for him, I told myself not to get too attached as I knew (or so I thought) he could never have...
    SeanNation SeanNation 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The Last Letter

    I don’t know when you’ll see this, or if you will ever get to but I have to tell you something important. You are so much more than you think. I have not known you for long but I can say these about you. I’ve never said this to anyone in my life. But you are beautiful. Your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    He was a year younger

    than me. We didn't know each other. I'm very shy so I never talked to him. I got his number and talked to him but he said he didn't like me back. He liked someone else. It's been 6 months since that incident and now I'm fine.
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 7 Responses May 23, 2013

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-18, F 123 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    What Is Love?

    I asked this question to myself several times... and i am in a constant conflict with myself "WHAT IS LOVE.." is it really unconditional? without any expectation? is it pure? is it sacred? is it game? is it a chemical reaction? do we actually understand it? do we...
    Evangeline1985 Evangeline1985 26-30 12 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    i used to not care. i said

    as long as i love that person then thats good enough for me. i was happy but recently, im starting to feel the hurt. :(
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I Married a woman who.

    .. Told her ex she will always love them the most (and only them) 2 months before marrying me. I only found out a month ago. I need someone out there that would love me with everything they have, but I am married now. I can only 'hope' she loves me at the end. I am going to start...
    Atromitos Atromitos 31-35 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Every time I like a guy

    or develop feelings for a guy or fall in love with a guy, I'm never liked back. Never. For once in my life, I want to be liked back. I want someone who wants to stay in my life, someone who wants to be with me. I want to know what it's like to have a boyfriend. I want to know...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 19 Responses Apr 13

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    When I first met him.

    I fell for him little by little. He was my air that I need to breathe. He was my heart that I wanted to love. He was the man in my dreams that I wanted to come true. He was my all. We were young but we love so strong and so much passion and desire. We was in sync for one...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Fell deeply in love with the girl from the

    states. Everything seemed fine, I asked her if everything was fine. And she would always say yes and would always say she loved me. But a yr and a half later she tells me it was all a lie.
    lostunit lostunit 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    July 20th, 2006

    It might as well be yesterday. I could tell by her voice when she coldly said "We need to talk" exactly what was going to happen. I spent the next two hours curled up in a fetal position clutching the toilet, sobbing and throwing up.  She tossed me out like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Dec 12, 2007

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    I think what was worse

    than being attracted to this person and it not being reciprocated was that the person actually turned out to be a massive a-hole, someone who had no regard for people's feelings. And this isn't the first time it's happened I seem to have this habit of falling for people who turn...
    Ailurus23 Ailurus23 18-21, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Looking on the bright side,

    you crossed another unsuitable companion off the list on the way to finding your soulmate.
    holloway64 holloway64 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I had a crush on this boy

    for 9 years since first grade and I never told him about this. Then we went to different high schools so we don't talk now. But his friend actually revealed to me that he used to like me when we were in 9th grade. I still didn't do anything even though I liked him a lot. So we...
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I like this boy and he told me he likes me too

    n then he and tell ever other girl that he loves them and it just broke my heart to know that can anybody help me forget him god like get my mind off him please
    buffalopancho buffalopancho 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy 41-45, M 10 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    Why is now in days that we (people in general),

    always have to find a way to prove our undying love for one another? What happen to " I LOVE YOU", or "YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO ME? I think back when I was dating my first boyfriend (ex-boyfriend). In that time I really loved this guy. I thought (in my head) everything was great in...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I fell in love with my best friend.

    . Numerous times. He always had a girlfriend though. I guess after a while I grew used to it and kind of accepted that it just wasn't meant to be.
    Mi5h Mi5h 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Hey guys, I need relationship opinions

    or advice. I've been really confused if part of the troubles of the relationship is on me or him. At the moment i'am in a relationship for 6 months with a guy I met from school. After we went through the dating phase and we get to know each other he started acting like a douche...
    nixielizabeth nixielizabeth 18-21, F 9 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    24 Years Later and Counting...

    Hello, everyone: I hope you are well within reasonable terms and that Feb. 14 is passing by without much of a fight from your mind. My story starts 24 years ago, I met him when I was 16, we went together to college. I do not know and will probably never know how it started. I...
    mothertheresa mothertheresa 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 14, 2007

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    I was in a relationship with someone

    who didn't love me. It took me a while to realize I was just being used, actions always speak louder than words. If someone wants & loves you nothing will keep them away, some men just don't know how to appreciate a good woman. Ladies, never chase after a man who doesnt know...
    Minix Minix 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 22

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    I'm not in love with somebody.

    I'm in love with me! Just me :--) so my heart will never be broken
    wildmare wildmare 66-70, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My boyfriend after 6 years broke up with me

    and went back with his ex wife he was divorced from for 15 years ... Do people get back together after being divorced that long
    cyote cyote 41-45, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I need to quit posting about him

    and it's always the same thing me just complaining about how much I love him and I always leave the same end as if he it actually matters but he's all iv thought of for the past few months. Iv said it before and I'll say it again I love Austin I would do anything to make him...
    renguard renguard 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 13

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 19 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 16

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    A Poem About Loving Someone That Doesn't Love You Back!!

    When you love someone that doesn't love you back When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they...
    msnc msnc 22-25 62 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 14

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    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    I always loves or liked someone

    that didnt love me or they lost interest in me after a while maybe its the way i treat them or the way I act I show my interest and they think I'm desperate :(
    realye realye 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's happened to me many times.

    i guess maybe i love too easily and just fall for the wrong women every time. Would be nice to be loved back sometime
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This happens normally.

    ..I know..But it is still hurting Few years ago..I loved a man..That time I had not anything..education or job ..That year I was studying college ...I was so into him..I was so admire him..But he was so mean to me..He never reply my message and call me a stalker ..He looked down...
    Farmerwork Farmerwork 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Love of my life lead me on

    for 6 months. Such a heartbreaking experience
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Finally Moving On... It Only Took A Decade

    My story dates way back like 10 years way back. So rewinding 10 years back...... I was about 6 or 7 years old back then .... so my family is like the family that everyone on the block knows and loves (i hope)... Anyway I got home from school (second grade at the time) and mom has...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Are you hurting? Do you find yourself crying

    out inwardly? Is it because you cannot get that one person off your mind? Has it been a long time since that person sent you a text, phoned you or emailed you? Does it make you ache, is the pain enough to make you scream? When you give a person that much importance, your...
    shaandar shaandar 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    It Takes Two

    I cannot say that I knew the power and despondency of unrequited love until about a year back.  I had begun writing a sizeable project and had been looking in vain for someone to edit my work.  It was a project that totally engaged me, and as such, I feared rejection...
    Seraph1m Seraph1m 26-30, M 67 Responses Feb 14, 2006

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