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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

Unrequited love personal stories, support, and forum. You're not the first. 53,473 People

    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    i want to die. i am pregnant by 6 weeks.

    my husband was tye one wjo proposed me and took approval of my parents, go married to me 8 months ago and doesnt love me anymore. basically my life is screwed. i want to die.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well I loved this girl,

    and this was when I was just getting used to being bi, and she was my first crush she was so beautiful and even now I still look at her and can't help but smile, she was my best friend and well I told her I liked her and she was sending mixed messages, like when I said I know...
    isabelbradley isabelbradley 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Today he told me NOW I'm the person he always

    dreamed about... 2 months & a 2000 mile move away.. After a 5 year relationship.. Ok. Thanks. No thanks.
    krmdr krmdr 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been with this girl

    for 3 years I loved her and I still love her I got us a home I worked almost 70 hrs a week paid for everything but I was an wasn't good enough. she was my first and was the mother of my unborn child till she killed our kid cheated and left after stealing everything I had and...
    Dantedark117 Dantedark117 18-21, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 28 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    I dated him for 3 years

    and knew him long before that. we moved in together and got the "the world at my finger tips" feeling. I loved him. He cheated on me. I tried to communicate with him. I even suggested an open relationship. No matter what I tried, he always lead a secret second life. Goes to show...
    techassassin techassassin 22-25, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I stayed when I should have left the first time

    around, and now I am lost. I gave him all the love I had, and now I don't have any left for myself, he never deserved a second chance and a third and forth and all the chances I gave him, he was not worth it.
    ruthm ruthm 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 20 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 8 Responses May 23, 2013

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    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    The first cut is the deepest.

    I'm so hurt by him. We met when I was 12, he was 14, up until a couple days ago, I would have called him my childhood Romeo. When we met as kids, a summer. We were so happy, then he left for a year, and came back. He was 15 and I was 13 then, he kissed me, he was my first kiss...
    Chrysii Chrysii 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-17, F 125 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    I'm hurt of the fact

    that I allowed someone to use me and never cared about me. We dated for 2 years never took me home to meet his family , friends he basically kept me a secret . He allowed his friends to call me from his phone and call me bad names. Then one day we got into big argument and he...
    artgirl1014 artgirl1014 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    For all those heart broken people reading this.

    .. This is what I've learnt to help me through months of pain. I hope it helps you At first you need to learn to breath through the pain and emptiness. You accept your thoughts- but let them pass by. He may be your last thought at night and your first waking feeling- but in...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's not easy to go through the pain.

    Time is the best healer.
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    It's been 4 years since she left me.

    Oh God,I was crazy for her.There was nothing I wouldn't do for her. The day she told me that she no longer wished to be in a relationship with me I cried all day long.I just couldn't hold my tears. I thought I wouldn't be able to pass a single day without her. At first a day...
    dreamydoc dreamydoc 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I still do love him,

    and will never stop wanting him more then anyone in the world. but we can't.
    SassySophia SassySophia 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    It Takes Two

    I cannot say that I knew the power and despondency of unrequited love until about a year back.  I had begun writing a sizeable project and had been looking in vain for someone to edit my work.  It was a project that totally engaged me, and as such, I feared rejection...
    Seraph1m Seraph1m 26-30, M 68 Responses Feb 14, 2006

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 20 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    This is a person I know,

    unfortunately he/she doesn't accept me...
    stevenlafferty stevenlafferty 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    'I wish my shadow would get up

    and walk beside me' - Jandy Nelson
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    Yet I'm not complaining.

    It might just possibly be one of life's biggest blessing...., just saying of course.
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    To the man I loved, I don't know

    if you know that when you left my world ripped apart. I don't know if you know for three weeks I cried every day and woke up empty every morning thinking of you. I wish this pain would go away. But no matter how many times I sob or mourn, I can't remove this heavy pain within me...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    3 years together, we got engaged.

    .. She refused to move away from her parents, cheated multiple times but claimed rape than the last guy she started seeing a month before I decided to say scree it and left her. Needless to say 3 years and she couldn't move in with me but one month and she's living with a guy...
    collegekid2016 collegekid2016 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 16 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    This guy a{ the start was super good to me

    but i was inlove with somebody else and unfortunatly i didn't see. This guy now is the love of my life but he never respose to enything that i say to him. He always when i say something for myself he is like i don't care. The last time that i told his something about my self he...
    Konnalove Konnalove 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips 26-30, F 29 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    I decided to go on a date last night with

    someone new. It's the first time I've dated since things ended with the man I loved. It went horribly. This new man started to try and kiss me, hands were wandering... And you know what I did... I burst into tears. I'm not ready to let go. I'm not ready to move on.
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 22 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    July 20th, 2006

    It might as well be yesterday. I could tell by her voice when she coldly said "We need to talk" exactly what was going to happen. I spent the next two hours curled up in a fetal position clutching the toilet, sobbing and throwing up.  She tossed me out like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Dec 12, 2007

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    I met him in high school

    and he was sweet with a good family. I made him break up with me and he moved on quickly. I felt myself go crazy and I regretted losing him and I lashed out at him several times. We got back in touch years later and those feelings for me were the same... but I don't think he...
    ashb3r ashb3r 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I loved a guy who broke my heart tear it into

    pieces and marinated with salts and sauces and eat it fresh !_! I tried not to bother
    nonopieo nonopieo 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Are you hurting? Do you find yourself crying

    out inwardly? Is it because you cannot get that one person off your mind? Has it been a long time since that person sent you a text, phoned you or emailed you? Does it make you ache, is the pain enough to make you scream? When you give a person that much importance, your...
    shaandar shaandar 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    oooh yeah. It was the first boy to gibe me a no.

    he was loving at first but than suddenly stopped. he made me hopes but than never reached out to me again. that really hurt and i love that i had this experience. i would blame myself and overthink alot. at the end i learned that my overthining didnt help. now i approach...
    energymustmove energymustmove 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't think you felt the same

    for me as I felt for you. I wonder if I meant anything to you at all, or if I was just an ego boost for you. The thrill of the chase was what excited you, and then, once you had me, you were done. It didn't matter that I had fallen head over heels in love with you. That I had...
    Stylesavvy Stylesavvy 41-45, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I lost hope in my 2.5 long distance

    relationship. I poured my life into this and I am not sure what to do with myself now knowing that he doesn't love me as he never cares about my feelings. all I see is how much I gave and I feel so beaten to the bottom now... exhausted cos I can't try any harder any more... I...
    clevercandle clevercandle 31-35, F 11 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Tonights just one of those nights I start

    thinking about him. Maybe it's not that I miss him but I miss what we used to have.
    Ines77 Ines77 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    You have taught me one of the hardest lessons

    I've had to learn in this life: how to live without someone I love. It's also one of the most painful- my chest still tightens when I think of you, which I try not to do often, but it happens anyway. Maybe you'll say I deserved this, and part of me agrees. But the other part...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 26-30 9 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    I think about you everyday.

    All the memories. The great times we shared. We were best friends. I try and close my eyes and relive it all.. But it makes me sad to think about you because I know you moved on and we will never be together anymore.. No new memories, no more spending time together, no more...
    bearbearisalone bearbearisalone 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My dad's girls friends nephew moved in with us

    and he was a couple of years older then me and we started to talk and hang out a lot.. We became really close and had a lot of fun together and I stated to fall for him so one day I told him and he said he didn't feel the same and he thought of me as a cousin.. So I moved out...
    bearbearisalone bearbearisalone 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was in a relationship with someone

    who didn't love me. It took me a while to realize I was just being used, actions always speak louder than words. If someone wants & loves you nothing will keep them away, some men just don't know how to appreciate a good woman. Ladies, never chase after a man who doesnt know...
    Minix Minix 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    it feels sad when you love someone

    but they dont love you back. its actually heartbreaking. I had a boyfriend. and I know I fell in love with him deeply but our relationship didnt last but 2 hours because I was "so much in love with him that I was boring him". like wtf? how can being so much in love with someone...
    lindseygreypat3 lindseygreypat3 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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