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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 7 Responses May 23, 2013

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    I was in a relationship with someone

    who didn't love me. It took me a while to realize I was just being used, actions always speak louder than words. If someone wants & loves you nothing will keep them away, some men just don't know how to appreciate a good woman. Ladies, never chase after a man who doesnt know...
    Minix Minix 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 22

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    I miss her but you can't stop things from

    changing can you? And you can't force someone to love you the way you want them to. I understand that now
    BeYourOwnSavior BeYourOwnSavior 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    When does it stop? I fell in love with a guy

    when I was 14. Fourteen! We never went out, we were hardly even friends. I'm pretty sure he had feelings for me back then. A part of me believes he still does... But he's been in a relationship with another girl for five years now. I haven't talked to him in years. I see him...
    LipstickShield LipstickShield 18-21, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    He played with my feelings

    and treated me like s*** for a whole year but i stil loved him with all my heart 💔
    aliyah519 aliyah519 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Everyone have their own choices in life,

    she took it as a joke, but i trully loved her
    rony989 rony989 22-25, M Aug 18

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    How awful to love someone

    who doesn't love you back, at least not in the way you want her to. You are best friends, and you're always there for her her, but she has told you that she cannot see you in the way you see her. She has a boyfriend. Self-created scenes begin to seep into your mind of them, a...
    logic93 logic93 18-21, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 13

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    1 + 1

             I consider myself to be fairly experienced at love and relationships…at life.  I’ve been married twice and was widowed the first time (with two small children.)  Since I met him (billions of years ago) and...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    The silence is deafening Echoing in the deepest

    recesses of my mind Pounding percussion of a mad congoist upon the drums of my ears Forfeit, let go,give up, cede, two decades of mad love, bad love, promises to me. Broken, jaded, forlorn, in need No answers for the lost love you had for me. Avoiding, evading, running away...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    "One shouldn't be too hard on oneself

    when the object of one's affection returns the favor with rather less enthusiasm than one might have hoped. " (The object of My Affection)
    greycells greycells 36-40, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 21 Responses Feb 18

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    O-Ver

    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    It Takes Two

    I cannot say that I knew the power and despondency of unrequited love until about a year back.  I had begun writing a sizeable project and had been looking in vain for someone to edit my work.  It was a project that totally engaged me, and as such, I feared rejection...
    Seraph1m Seraph1m 26-30, M 67 Responses Feb 14, 2006

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-18, F 123 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    I am married on 15 feb.

    But now. Thr is an another girl in my husband'a life. He promised me that he'll leave her but still in contact with her. He even don't allow me to leave or to die. Now I m hopeless biz nthing is happening good in my life. I love my husband a lot but can't share him with anyone...
    NehaChahal NehaChahal 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    Does my gf love me? We live together

    and were planning on getting married. I got sick today and had to cancel our vacation plans. She now is yelling at me and wants to fly out by herself. Is this normal? Am I being selfish in expecting that partners shouldn't fly out and have fun while the other person is sick...
    l3ean l3ean 26-30, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Didn't know I existed more like.

    I would sit in class, in high school, and just find my self wanting to look at him, he is so handsome. I blush every time I have to speak in front of him or if I pass him in the street or hallways. I even blush when someone say his name. (My friends tease me relentlessly about...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F a week ago

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    All these while I was trying to find the reasons

    why he can't be happy with me no matter how hard I tried and only after three years being with him and he somehow dropped the hints along the way... He's still not over his ex-girlfriend....
    whimsicalxx whimsicalxx 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips 26-30, F 31 Responses 6 days ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 621 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    When I was 14 I fell in love with a girl We

    were bestfriends but I thought she felt the same but sadly she dint feel the same and stopped being friends with me...
    alexis619 alexis619 16-17, M Aug 18

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    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 14

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    I've kept a secret from you.

    You thought that I was perfect, but I'm far from it. I know I'm young and human, but that's no excuse. You my not understand. I don't know if this was on purpose, and I don't know if you'll forgive me. I know I have to tell you the truth, but my heart tells me to wait. I'm...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Do guys ever fall in love with girls

    who they are just supposed to be friends with? *sigh* For some reason, I feel like it's impossible for this guy. Like, it's just not gonna happen. Even though we're pretty great friends, we have fun together, & he flirts like crazy, I just don't think he ever thinks of me beyond...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    He Was Never Meant to Be Mine.

    Within two days of starting a new high school, I spotted this guy. The most dreamiest guy ever. I was 11, he was 15. Me and my friend spent the year following him around and supporting the school soccer team cause he played in it. He always seemed to avoid me though. This never...
    amigoodenough amigoodenough 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    24 Years Later and Counting...

    Hello, everyone: I hope you are well within reasonable terms and that Feb. 14 is passing by without much of a fight from your mind. My story starts 24 years ago, I met him when I was 16, we went together to college. I do not know and will probably never know how it started. I...
    mothertheresa mothertheresa 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 14, 2007

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    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 16

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    Every night you're still beside me,

    lingering. You're shadow casts a dark cloud above my head; when it's raining, it pours... The showers from my eyes won't fade - neither will my feelings subside that you so easily cast away. How could you say you loved me and walk out the door? I would never turn my back on you...
    vfashionista86 vfashionista86 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Are you hurting? Do you find yourself crying

    out inwardly? Is it because you cannot get that one person off your mind? Has it been a long time since that person sent you a text, phoned you or emailed you? Does it make you ache, is the pain enough to make you scream? When you give a person that much importance, your...
    shaandar shaandar 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    A Poem About Loving Someone That Doesn't Love You Back!!

    When you love someone that doesn't love you back When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they...
    msnc msnc 22-25 64 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Ennevi Ennevi 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    the life is always vice versa i mean the people

    you love them don't care about you. but the people you don't care about, love you. i have been in such a terrible position....that is bad-
    Niotask Niotask 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I know you can never let go of your

    so called best friend. I know you still have feelings for her, I know you still love her. Why did you stay with me and see me get hurt? It's hard for me to trust you after seeing all those pictures you two took together and posted all over your social media. And yet you never...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 21 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Dear You, I'm writing you to let you know

    what's on my mind. I'm not going to lie at one time I loved you, so much to the point It was suffocating me. I was crazy for you, head over heels for you, loyal to you. You were my sun light, my shining star. All I wanted from you was your love. No one loves you more than me and...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I recently broke up with my girlfriend (1.

    5 years) because I found out for half the relationship she was lying about how she felt about me. I thought she was the one. But she went and tore my emotions apart and now I'm left. Shattered. Broken. Worthless even to myself wondering why I should even be on this earth
    ImNotReallyFine ImNotReallyFine 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    So last night I was trying to get to sleep,

    but I just couldn't. I was thinking of him...He was the one that got away. He and I had crushes on each other in high school, which we both didn't find out until later. We went off to different colleges and one summer when we both came home we started dating. It was going...
    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I understand now, what it means to live

    without. I will not stop missing you And I cannot prevent the dreaming of dreams For yours is one that never fades I think of you in the cracks of the day- When the quiet seeps in & an especially beautiful sky puts on a magnificent show- A backdrop of striking blue...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 22-25 4 days ago

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    I am in love with someone who's in love with

    someone else, who is in love with someone else. Can't you see I am in the same boat? I'd be there for you but I get it. They're the the person that you are to me. I know there's no breaking that. :/ I just figured it out. But I think I knew it all along.
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    The I. Q. of Love.

    Love is stupid. Love is dumb. It has an IQ comparable to a packet of stale crackers. Don't get me wrong, love is without doubt one of the most important forces in anybody's life; it is wonderful, it is the closest many of us come to living with magic. It's just not...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 50 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 19 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    Come with me stay with me,

    boy stay the night. The words you say doesn't feel right, you hesitate. You expect me to say something, but I know it's too little too late. I told you to take my hand, and I'll show you a love you never felt, you do. You said you changed, but you it's still a game. Again you...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Finally Moving On... It Only Took A Decade

    My story dates way back like 10 years way back. So rewinding 10 years back...... I was about 6 or 7 years old back then .... so my family is like the family that everyone on the block knows and loves (i hope)... Anyway I got home from school (second grade at the time) and mom has...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    taiterz taiterz 26-30, M 17 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm sitting my car and crying.

    . Finally grieving my breakup.. Feeling rejected sucks.. But I really want to get stronger and be better. Unfortunately, I made a mistake with having surgery and my health may get worse from here. I'm fearful of it, but at the same time my fear is part of the reason why I push...
    ShellBellem ShellBellem 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Every time I like a guy

    or develop feelings for a guy or fall in love with a guy, I'm never liked back. Never. For once in my life, I want to be liked back. I want someone who wants to stay in my life, someone who wants to be with me. I want to know what it's like to have a boyfriend. I want to know...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 19 Responses Apr 13

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    Abused me and my family took me

    for granted but what could i do i loved him.. They told me 2 let go bt it wasnt so easy 2 do. A persons tru colours show later down the line at some point. But tell u what i belive in karma! Easy to play with my feelings but like they say **** happens 💔👍
    aliyah519 aliyah519 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Getting Over Someone Is Not Easy...

    It's not an easy process so if anyone tells you it is, it doesn't matter how long or how short you lasted, the thing is you were together and there were memories and that makes it hard... It's usually the small ones that pain the most... Small but the impact is huge, or the...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F 94 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    The Last Letter

    I don’t know when you’ll see this, or if you will ever get to but I have to tell you something important. You are so much more than you think. I have not known you for long but I can say these about you. I’ve never said this to anyone in my life. But you are beautiful. Your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    I know this as every girl i fall in love with,

    she never loved me not even a little bit. They mostly thought i am a person who wanted to hear love words from but never acted same way as i did towards. Girls used to ask for love and just think they are no longer feel what love means. Imagine living whole of your life and no...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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