I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

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    4 yrs ...waste of time.

    ...family his only dtr not taking it well
    cateyeslady cateyeslady
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 31

    I was writing poems to this girl I met

    and she loved them so I sent her one everyday and I even wrote her a song and she loved it and we talked over text and she told me about her past and how she was put up for adoption after her dad threw her against the wall and broke her bones but after all that she is a...
    erickv354 erickv354
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 6

    I'm going thrust he worst breakup of my life.

    He gave me the "it's not you its me" excuse.
    notavictimbutasurvivor notavictimbutasurvivor
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 14

    For all those heart broken people reading this.

    .. This is what I've learnt to help me through months of pain. I hope it helps you At first you need to learn to breath through the pain and emptiness. You accept your thoughts- but let them pass by. He may be your last thought at night and your first waking feeling- but in...
    missssyme missssyme
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2015

    Turned out I fell in love with someone

    who was only dating me for a bet
    UnusualFrosch UnusualFrosch
    18-21, F
    36 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    I felt it and I knew This,

    between us was real As real as my flesh upon yours and yours upon mine Lips merging and tongues colliding, arms knotted and legs tangled There was an inextricable rope From the very first moment We locked eyes and spoke, Connecting us- Tying my smile to yours, Your warmth...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 7

    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade
    41-45, M
    20 Responses Mar 21, 2009

    The I. Q. of Love.

    Love is stupid. Love is dumb. It has an IQ comparable to a packet of stale crackers. Don't get me wrong, love is without doubt one of the most important forces in anybody's life; it is wonderful, it is the closest many of us come to living with magic. It's just not...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo
    31-35, M
    48 Responses Dec 10, 2007

    Getting Over Someone Is Not Easy...

    It's not an easy process so if anyone tells you it is, it doesn't matter how long or how short you lasted, the thing is you were together and there were memories and that makes it hard... It's usually the small ones that pain the most... Small but the impact is huge, or the...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist
    22-25, F
    92 Responses Jul 10, 2008

    It Takes Two

    I cannot say that I knew the power and despondency of unrequited love until about a year back.  I had begun writing a sizeable project and had been looking in vain for someone to edit my work.  It was a project that totally engaged me, and as such, I feared rejection...
    Seraph1m Seraph1m
    26-30, M
    66 Responses Feb 14, 2006

    A Poem About Loving Someone That Doesn't Love You Back!!

    When you love someone that doesn't love you back When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they...
    msnc msnc
    73 Responses Nov 24, 2008

    I've been crying my eyes out

    because in this 2yr relationship I fell in love. I have never loved anyone like that. I didn't care about his background, I didn't care that everyone said I was too good for him. I didn't care he had kids from his previous relationships. I didn't care because I fell in love with...
    linzzy linzzy
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 15

    I used to be in an LDR with a guy 12,

    000 km. away from me before my current bf now. I spent a lot of time and effort trying to make things work even we were apart. I started building dreams and hopes for our future. Whenever we're talking, somehow he manages to make me feel like we're on the same track. We stayed...
    HomelessSoul HomelessSoul
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 9

    So basically I told this one guy

    that I like him, but then he just like totally ignored the question and changed the subject. I really like him, so I felt sort of heartbroken. But my younger brother started watching a show and I fell in love with one of the actors
    Heyoitsme Heyoitsme
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 7

    Sooo first time doing this

    but I need some serious evaluating from an outside party. I was talking to this guy for awhile and things got pretty serious saying "i love you" and I had to move and when I came back he claimed to only want to be FWB. Which I was not okay with but said ok anyway. Now he claims...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 8

    I loved someone and they loved me too,

    but I didn't let them come near me because I wasn't ready. If only Id have let them walk into my life I wouldn't have had to deal with such a hurtful revenge. Whatever happens happens for the good. It does.
    lonelylifeindia lonelylifeindia
    26-30, M
    Apr 4
    AmityLove AmityLove
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 14

    When i was in high school,

    I thought I loved some one but he did not love me as he said he did. He just wanted to get into my pants and then shoot his load into my vagina. I gave myself to him and he knocked me up. I carried his twins and raised them as my own. He was not very good sexually but he was...
    maryhenderson69 maryhenderson69
    66-70, F
    Apr 21

    This guy... has me crying

    and feeling depressed and then he acts as if he doesn't even care, but tells me "I don't want to be the cause of your depression".
    jaslovely jaslovely
    70+, F
    8 Responses Apr 10

    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty
    16-17, F
    124 Responses Mar 28, 2007

    It doesn't matter that you hurt me,

    that almost entirely forgotten. However, what bothering me is that you have made me believe that I will never be good enough for anyone and that I am not wanted by anyone. I have been feeling like this for a while now, I'm starting to accept this feeling as well.
    Laraamani Laraamani
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Apr 9

    Remember Dad , you left on purpose

    when I was a baby . Remember you said you never wanted a daughter I've never met u but I know u have other kids and I know u don't want to meet me but that's all I ever wanted on Christmas on my Christmas list I put my dad and you never came :( Why did u abandon me Why didn...
    Dessily Dessily
    13-15, F
    8 Responses Apr 12
    Differentisgood Differentisgood
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    I (f) had sex with my best friend (m)

    for the first time and I ended up getting pregnant. That experience kind of ruined sex for me.
    Calhoontrista16 Calhoontrista16
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Apr 1

    well, he texted me a half hour later saying

    Thank you and saying that he is required to do some counciling now, and he's telling me how much he misses me and how his love for me is consuming him...I don't know what to think. Is it mean to call Bull ****?
    Fractured247 Fractured247
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 31

    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    I always loved someone

    who can't love me back. I always end up crying for the person that will never love me. I am fool in love and do everything for the one that I love even if it could hurt me.
    icesky icesky
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 7

    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper
    26-30, M
    28 Responses Dec 31, 2006

    He reminded me of a distant dream filled with

    Promise and hope; an indistinguishable yearning. He was carved from marble, and I was made from glass. His hair was made from feathers, while mine were made of wires. His voice like wind chimes and mine, a quiet storm. Our eyes were made of onyx, though different in shape...
    Just1n Just1n
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 5

    i dreamed about you last night.

    it was beautiful yet painful. we never met in the real life but in my dreams, i could be with you. i get to pinch your cheek and laugh with you. in my dream, you found someone better than me who loves you, and you love her too. you asked me if it was okay for you to go, because...
    whitenut whitenut
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Apr 5

    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Foreverdeleted Foreverdeleted
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes
    26-30, F
    9 Responses May 23, 2013

    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy
    41-45, M
    9 Responses Aug 6, 2006

    Yeah she cheated on me a month

    and half after we got married
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Apr 17

    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917
    31-35, M
    12 Responses Jun 19, 2013

    I got some texts last night from him saying he

    drank some whiskey and took a bunch of pills, he had no one around so he was asking for me to phone 911..
    Fractured247 Fractured247
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 31
    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips
    26-30, F
    24 Responses Aug 22, 2014

    i wonder if she meant all those things she said.

    you told me that if you got mad and said hurtful things i should just ignore them because you dont mean them.i wonder if you really loved me for the person i am in those two years. but then again, why did it seem so easy for you to say goodbye.did i mean anything to you? did you...
    lanbanan lanbanan
    18-21, T
    Apr 21
    dammitjanit dammitjanit
    31-35, F
    15 Responses Feb 18, 2014

    1 + 1

             I consider myself to be fairly experienced at love and relationships…at life.  I’ve been married twice and was widowed the first time (with two small children.)  Since I met him (billions of years ago) and...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Aug 6, 2006

    I love my husband and he doesn't like me

    and if I was asked to come with me dinner doesn't come with the dinner
    samsam2016 samsam2016
    22-25, T
    3 Responses Apr 4

    It's not easy to go through the pain.

    Time is the best healer.
    maplegirl maplegirl
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 20, 2014

    I lost hope in my 2.5 long distance

    relationship. I poured my life into this and I am not sure what to do with myself now knowing that he doesn't love me as he never cares about my feelings. all I see is how much I gave and I feel so beaten to the bottom now... exhausted cos I can't try any harder any more... I...
    clevercandle clevercandle
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    He said he loved me, then left me like I meant

    nothing. Even though he hurt me, and we are "friends" I still love him, I just want to tell him, but I don't want to be with him either. It hurts every day.
    babyseal1998 babyseal1998
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 4

    I I love her but she didn't love me back.

    I think of her consistently and not just when I'm lonely, even when I'm busy midday. I try my best to stop or hinder how I feel, but I can't and it makes me feel weak. What hurts the most is I know she used me because she knew I cared about her. I know it made her feel...
    LostHaze LostHaze
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Apr 20

    To the man I loved, I don't know

    if you know that when you left my world ripped apart. I don't know if you know for three weeks I cried every day and woke up empty every morning thinking of you. I wish this pain would go away. But no matter how many times I sob or mourn, I can't remove this heavy pain within me...
    missssyme missssyme
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Dec 23, 2014

    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine
    41-45, F
    16 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker
    51-55, M
    22 Responses Nov 14, 2012

    02/04/2016 - it's happened before

    and it will most likely happen again but that's okay doesn't stop me from still wanting to love people.
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 2

    I fell in love with an idiot

    and i was so madly crazy in love with him and turns out he doesn't want to be in a relationship because he's bad he has bad habits that he doesn't want me to get hurt so he says that he wants me to be his back up but I didn't wait for him and i found an amazing person and fell...
    Mar1mar Mar1mar
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 15

    You have taught me one of the hardest lessons

    I've had to learn in this life: how to live without someone I love. It's also one of the most painful- my chest still tightens when I think of you, which I try not to do often, but it happens anyway. Maybe you'll say I deserved this, and part of me agrees. But the other part...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 11, 2014


    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Apr 8, 2013

    :"( epallie! I loved you just

    so fkin much! and you just... burnt down my trust to ashes! D: how dare you, bish?!!?!! :/
    slytheringuy slytheringuy
    16-17, M
    5 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    then he sent a bunch of garbled non sense.

    I texted him back that if I didn't hear from him in 10 min, I would call an ambulance. I didn't hear from him so I called
    Fractured247 Fractured247
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 31

    A week before I turned 30 I found out my wife

    had been cheating on me for some time. We patched it up or so I thought and then I found out just before I turned 40 that she had never really ended it with the other guy and was still cheating. What a dumbass I am.
    deleted deleted
    Apr 19

    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper
    26-30, M
    612 Responses Dec 31, 2006

    I wrote a paragraph about it.

    *sigh* I wish I could get over feelings. My friend is trying to hook me up with someone. I am loosing some of my friends. Someone said I made "many" friends this year, but in reality...sike. I feel lonely a lot, I hate it and yet when I want to be alone and I am left lonely I...
    Kayla429 Kayla429
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Mar 31

    I decided to go on a date last night with

    someone new. It's the first time I've dated since things ended with the man I loved. It went horribly. This new man started to try and kiss me, hands were wandering... And you know what I did... I burst into tears. I'm not ready to let go. I'm not ready to move on.
    missssyme missssyme
    36-40, F
    19 Responses Dec 14, 2014
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