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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

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    The I. Q. of Love.

    Love is stupid. Love is dumb. It has an IQ comparable to a packet of stale crackers. Don't get me wrong, love is without doubt one of the most important forces in anybody's life; it is wonderful, it is the closest many of us come to living with magic. It's just not...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 48 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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    It was amazing when the most handsome guy at

    school asked me to be his girlfriend. He was so kind to me and told me every time we talked or texted he loved me. I loved him so much and he told me I need to show him how much. So I did and gave him everything he ask for. Then a few days later I found out he told all his...
    Becky2002 Becky2002 13-15, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    X3Riley X3Riley 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yep. She was my neighbours daughter

    and when she realised I fancied her and wanted her she told me she was a hooker. I was obsessed by her. She would only allow me to have sex with her if I paid her. I tried to encourage her to change her habits but without success. I kept on obsessing about her and even took her...
    Antoni50 Antoni50 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was totally in Love

    and he still does not even know I exist!!! Jan-Micheal Vincent was a hunky hollywood leading man the first time I saw him in 1980. The Movie was Defiance and he looked and acted amazing!I have never been a huge movie fan but in 1982 when Endless Summer came out I saw...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    You have taught me one of the hardest lessons

    I've had to learn in this life: how to live without someone I love. It's also one of the most painful- my chest still tightens when I think of you, which I try not to do often, but it happens anyway. Maybe you'll say I deserved this, and part of me agrees. But the other part...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 26-30 9 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 28 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    O-Ver

    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    First loves are so memorable.

    I'll never forget how stupid I was to fall for a guy that I blindly put on a pedestal where he didn't belong. Nevertheless, I loved him. I lived for him. I suffered for him. But, he's just a boy... He doesn't see me, he sees past me.
    MissEurydice MissEurydice 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I'm shell shocked today.

    I came across a hard drive with all my computer pix dating back to 2004. My wedding, the births of my children, our moves from house to house, our family vacations... all there. It's clear to me that I was very in love with my life, with my family and my husband. I...
    BrandysGood BrandysGood 31-35, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    1 + 1

             I consider myself to be fairly experienced at love and relationships…at life.  I’ve been married twice and was widowed the first time (with two small children.)  Since I met him (billions of years ago) and...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    It's okay, though. It's totally his loss.

    He could have had me, and now he never will.
    bluejay749 bluejay749 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Haha man- the guy I was crazy for

    but just casual with (distance) started dating another girl last week. One time we were talking and he was saying how he always wanted to **** around with someone who was older, and I laughed and told him if he was ever going to leave me for a woman, that it would have to be...
    CassandraLynn96 CassandraLynn96 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Though I thought she did.

    Trying to recover.
    poiema poiema 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    About 7 years ago i met this girl

    and we started chatting everyday and then one day I gradually kept falling in love with her but she didnt feel the same for me...I recently confessed but got rejected but that didnt change how we were to each other, we still were the same to eachother. But it only got worse...
    Mikka95 Mikka95 18-21, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 618 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 21 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-17, F 125 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    Multicolour12 Multicolour12 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 16 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I loved someone. I chased

    after them. I was teased and tortured because they liked the attention I gave. The final rejection was hard and I realized "I deserve someone who wants me." I still hurt. I wish there was something to fill this hole in my heart, but there is nothing right now- maybe there will...
    starlight1006 starlight1006 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    ..& he goes by the name of Johnny

    Depp 😔💔😞💔😢💔
    LaLaNiaa LaLaNiaa 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    He played on my Intelligence an knew how much i

    loved him. I was young but wiser now
    yvettemae48 yvettemae48 46-50, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So I thought I can never have somebody I love.

    So I got married to somebody who loved me but I did not love. I finally fell in love with somebody who loves me. But I had to let him go.
    Selene0801 Selene0801 36-40, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    To the man I loved, I don't know

    if you know that when you left my world ripped apart. I don't know if you know for three weeks I cried every day and woke up empty every morning thinking of you. I wish this pain would go away. But no matter how many times I sob or mourn, I can't remove this heavy pain within me...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    It seems like I am giving up on my husband

    nonstop ignorance and cold feelings I have tried with him different ways And talked to him many times!!! He does not care we used to be in deep love what shall I do ?? I feel lonely I want someone to love me and treat me nicely that's allll!!!
    layalshannak layalshannak 26-30, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 20 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    so is it ok to be married to someone

    who isn't interested in sex. except for making a baby
    infinity3333 infinity3333 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2013

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    July 20th, 2006

    It might as well be yesterday. I could tell by her voice when she coldly said "We need to talk" exactly what was going to happen. I spent the next two hours curled up in a fetal position clutching the toilet, sobbing and throwing up.  She tossed me out like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Dec 12, 2007

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    I am in love with someone

    that does not reciprocate. She has been the apple of my eye for almost four years. To me, she is my best friend as I am able to tell her anything and have. Like wise she trusts me enough to tell me the most intimate of details. Our interactions are how I envision my ideal...
    Ozz210 Ozz210 26-30, M 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    How about everyone? Does

    that Count at all? I've loved husband children parents .... People.. And in the end no one can really be trusted to support me. I will love with all my heart, despite everything, I will trust, only to have others betray my trust. Some people are lucky to have been blessed in...
    cujo0807 cujo0807 31-35 32 mins ago

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    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    I think I have a problem.

    I'm in love with my teacher. He has two kids and a wife. Sadly I've met them, his kids are the sweetest thing in the world. One's 5 now and the other should be 3. His wife is somewhat, she's not really the affectionate type, or nurturing. She's very...reluctant I guess. So...
    MissOreoX MissOreoX 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I lost hope in my 2.5 long distance

    relationship. I poured my life into this and I am not sure what to do with myself now knowing that he doesn't love me as he never cares about my feelings. all I see is how much I gave and I feel so beaten to the bottom now... exhausted cos I can't try any harder any more... I...
    clevercandle clevercandle 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 20

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    I loved someone so truly

    but she dumped me...
    jackvik jackvik 22-25, M 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    It's funny how your heart will yearn

    for that which it can't have. Funnier still how people will take advantage of that. I loved him. He knew it. I told him so. He said it back to me easing his way further into that place inside your chest that hides away where nobody else looks. At first it's only whirlwind and...
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    Salarymen Salarymen 16-17, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips 26-30, F 28 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    A Poem About Loving Someone That Doesn't Love You Back!!

    When you love someone that doesn't love you back When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they...
    msnc msnc 22-25 71 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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