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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

Unrequited love personal stories, support, and forum. You're not the first. 48,447 People

    Many women to whom I've been attracted,

    and all who've left me wanting...
    LoveWarrior2 LoveWarrior2 26-30, M a week ago

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    Are you hurting? Do you find yourself crying

    out inwardly? Is it because you cannot get that one person off your mind? Has it been a long time since that person sent you a text, phoned you or emailed you? Does it make you ache, is the pain enough to make you scream? When you give a person that much importance, your...
    shaandar shaandar 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    Finally Moving On... It Only Took A Decade

    My story dates way back like 10 years way back. So rewinding 10 years back...... I was about 6 or 7 years old back then .... so my family is like the family that everyone on the block knows and loves (i hope)... Anyway I got home from school (second grade at the time) and mom has...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    3 years of being with a man I was besotted with.

    We went everywhere together I didn't do anything without him. He always kept me where he wanted me, and alienated me from my friends and family. He made sure he was my only friend in the world. He beat me, neglected me and abused me mentally and physically. After I'd stayed...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 13

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    I Married a woman who.

    .. Told her ex she will always love them the most (and only them) 2 months before marrying me. I only found out a month ago. I need someone out there that would love me with everything they have, but I am married now. I can only 'hope' she loves me at the end. I am going to start...
    Atromitos Atromitos 31-35 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why is now in days that we (people in general),

    always have to find a way to prove our undying love for one another? What happen to " I LOVE YOU", or "YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO ME? I think back when I was dating my first boyfriend (ex-boyfriend). In that time I really loved this guy. I thought (in my head) everything was great in...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 14

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 617 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 23 Responses Feb 18

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    O-Ver

    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    1 + 1

             I consider myself to be fairly experienced at love and relationships…at life.  I’ve been married twice and was widowed the first time (with two small children.)  Since I met him (billions of years ago) and...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    I fell in love with my best friend.

    . Numerous times. He always had a girlfriend though. I guess after a while I grew used to it and kind of accepted that it just wasn't meant to be.
    Mi5h Mi5h 16-17, F Jul 17

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    I've never really thought highly of myself.

    So when I started liking a boy who ended up not liking me back, I was crushed. Before I met this really adorable guy, I was already battling self hate. When I realized I was falling for him, I told myself not to get too attached as I knew (or so I thought) he could never have...
    SeanNation SeanNation 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Every time I like a guy

    or develop feelings for a guy or fall in love with a guy, I'm never liked back. Never. For once in my life, I want to be liked back. I want someone who wants to stay in my life, someone who wants to be with me. I want to know what it's like to have a boyfriend. I want to know...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 19 Responses Apr 13

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    I had a crush on this boy

    for 9 years since first grade and I never told him about this. Then we went to different high schools so we don't talk now. But his friend actually revealed to me that he used to like me when we were in 9th grade. I still didn't do anything even though I liked him a lot. So we...
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ok so this my first story,

    I was about 14 when noticed I liked girl I was lesbian or bi ...Well I fell crazy in love with this girl in my school, she great when two us where together everything was amazing !! I started to think she may feel same and i told her how i felt she ok with it but then noticed...
    freedomlovergirl freedomlovergirl 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I loved a man for 14 years,

    still do. In that time he has gotten married and had kids as have I. He is always in my thoughts and I feel like I'm going crazy some days. My husband is wonderful and I love him but I can't help thinking of the other man still. We had something once and we still have a...
    MrsStark MrsStark 41-45, F 15 Responses Jan 19

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    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 16

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    A Poem About Loving Someone That Doesn't Love You Back!!

    When you love someone that doesn't love you back When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they...
    msnc msnc 22-25 62 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    I think what was worse

    than being attracted to this person and it not being reciprocated was that the person actually turned out to be a massive a-hole, someone who had no regard for people's feelings. And this isn't the first time it's happened I seem to have this habit of falling for people who turn...
    Ailurus23 Ailurus23 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Fell deeply in love with the girl from the

    states. Everything seemed fine, I asked her if everything was fine. And she would always say yes and would always say she loved me. But a yr and a half later she tells me it was all a lie.
    lostunit lostunit 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    you promised me you'd never abandon me.

    you promised me you'd always be there. you promised me i'd always have a special place in your heart. you promised me things, and i believed you. then, you left. and i begged, pleaded, threw myself at your mercy...only to be greeted with silence. cold, deafening, crushing...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 22-25 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    taiterz taiterz 26-30, M 17 Responses Apr 11

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 21 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 27 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    faithomfg faithomfg 16-17, F 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I was in a relationship with someone

    who didn't love me. It took me a while to realize I was just being used, actions always speak louder than words. If someone wants & loves you nothing will keep them away, some men just don't know how to appreciate a good woman. Ladies, never chase after a man who doesnt know...
    Minix Minix 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 22

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    So here is my story .

    . My first story on here in fact ... So i was on instagram. A weird way to meet someone but yeah instagram. He liked all of my pictures all 100 when i had 100 ... Then he Direct Messaged me . Saying "wanna chill one day ? "I responded because he looked the same age as i was...
    Nayaaa Nayaaa 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 7 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Getting Over Someone Is Not Easy...

    It's not an easy process so if anyone tells you it is, it doesn't matter how long or how short you lasted, the thing is you were together and there were memories and that makes it hard... It's usually the small ones that pain the most... Small but the impact is huge, or the...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F 94 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    He Was Never Meant to Be Mine.

    Within two days of starting a new high school, I spotted this guy. The most dreamiest guy ever. I was 11, he was 15. Me and my friend spent the year following him around and supporting the school soccer team cause he played in it. He always seemed to avoid me though. This never...
    amigoodenough amigoodenough 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    It Takes Two

    I cannot say that I knew the power and despondency of unrequited love until about a year back.  I had begun writing a sizeable project and had been looking in vain for someone to edit my work.  It was a project that totally engaged me, and as such, I feared rejection...
    Seraph1m Seraph1m 26-30, M 67 Responses Feb 14, 2006

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    The Last Letter

    I don’t know when you’ll see this, or if you will ever get to but I have to tell you something important. You are so much more than you think. I have not known you for long but I can say these about you. I’ve never said this to anyone in my life. But you are beautiful. Your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    So there's this jerk at my school i loved like

    more than i loved myself .. Weird i know. But he was so cute and adorable and sweet i told my friend about him and everything went well but then my friend the one i trusted told him that i like him .. And she started flirting with him. How is she my friend ? Don't ask. So when...
    elissahindoyan elissahindoyan 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I like this boy and he told me he likes me too

    n then he and tell ever other girl that he loves them and it just broke my heart to know that can anybody help me forget him god like get my mind off him please
    buffalopancho buffalopancho 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I loved someone for 8yrs,

    have my whole life to this person but they never appreciated, nor did they see the love I gave them. I went through so much turmoil in those 8 yrs, from emotional, mental and verbal abuse, I sacrificed career moves, lost all my friends, lost my self-esteem and confidence and I...
    Navia55 Navia55 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    To The Girl Who Will Replace Me ...

    There are just a couple of things that I thought I should tell you. I learned these while I was the object of your guy's affection. First of all, don't be frightened if he smothers much more love on you than you had expected. Don't be surprised if he treats you much better than...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I think this is happening again to me.

    .. I like this girl, I really, really do, and though she's much fun to hang out with and I generally feel comfortable around her, I still feel shy around her at times. She's seeing other people, and me, and she doesn't want a person yet, but I cannot help that I am beginning to...
    darkarts101 darkarts101 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-18, F 123 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    sexymommy2014 sexymommy2014 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    What Is Love?

    I asked this question to myself several times... and i am in a constant conflict with myself "WHAT IS LOVE.." is it really unconditional? without any expectation? is it pure? is it sacred? is it game? is it a chemical reaction? do we actually understand it? do we...
    Evangeline1985 Evangeline1985 26-30 12 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    My question is, why does someone act

    so crazy for you one day then poof they disappear? It's like if you actually were crazy for me it would last more than one day.. That's like turning a light on in a room then leaving with the light still on...completely pointless!!
    auburnfire auburnfire 18-21, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    This happens normally.

    ..I know..But it is still hurting Few years ago..I loved a man..That time I had not anything..education or job ..That year I was studying college ...I was so into him..I was so admire him..But he was so mean to me..He never reply my message and call me a stalker ..He looked down...
    Farmerwork Farmerwork 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Looking on the bright side,

    you crossed another unsuitable companion off the list on the way to finding your soulmate.
    holloway64 holloway64 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy 41-45, M 10 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 19 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    24 Years Later and Counting...

    Hello, everyone: I hope you are well within reasonable terms and that Feb. 14 is passing by without much of a fight from your mind. My story starts 24 years ago, I met him when I was 16, we went together to college. I do not know and will probably never know how it started. I...
    mothertheresa mothertheresa 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 14, 2007

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    Honnibee Honnibee 36-40, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    i used to not care. i said

    as long as i love that person then thats good enough for me. i was happy but recently, im starting to feel the hurt. :(
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    i hate friday night..

    he gets drunk and saying names on me...grrr... i love saturday morning coz he feels sorry..
    sexymommy2014 sexymommy2014 31-35, F 9 hrs ago

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    The I. Q. of Love.

    Love is stupid. Love is dumb. It has an IQ comparable to a packet of stale crackers. Don't get me wrong, love is without doubt one of the most important forces in anybody's life; it is wonderful, it is the closest many of us come to living with magic. It's just not...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 50 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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