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    There's been a few times in my life

    that I think I've fallen for the wrong person. Or maybe the right person, at the wrong time. To be completely honest- I feel like I care too easily, and too deeply- and I care way too much about what the other person thinks about me. I need to find a way to get past the hurt...
    trying2hard trying2hard 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    tessaccaa tessaccaa 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    It's funny how your heart will yearn

    for that which it can't have. Funnier still how people will take advantage of that. I loved him. He knew it. I told him so. He said it back to me easing his way further into that place inside your chest that hides away where nobody else looks. At first it's only whirlwind and...
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Not only did he not love me,

    he loved molesting freaking children!! I found out I was married to a *********! As soon as I found out got those divorce papers
    xobluebirdxo xobluebirdxo 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I fell in love with someone (sooo unexpectedly)

    and realised cultural differences meant his family would never approve... we had EVERYTHING.. but sometimes love doesn't conquer all..
    greeneyes90 greeneyes90 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    1 + 1

             I consider myself to be fairly experienced at love and relationships…at life.  I’ve been married twice and was widowed the first time (with two small children.)  Since I met him (billions of years ago) and...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    Broken hearted every single time.

    I don't understand why a guy would date me as a joke or give it his all then start to ignore me and be a jerk. They just say they lose interest. All the guys I have been with were not romantic, they were stupid (not on my level at all) so conversations were so boring, most of...
    purplepumpkin17 purplepumpkin17 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    He just used me for my body.

    He never stayed the night... Went on for months. Every day we had sex.. But he never stayed the night or suggested we meet elsewhere. At first I was ok with this. After all I was an expat. But he was my real first sexual experience.. Took me a year to get over him..
    ThoughtfulSoul ThoughtfulSoul 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been in a merry go round relationship

    with the father my children for over 7 years now. we break up and he goes back to his ex and then once they are not in a good place he comes back to me and then when I expect more from him and he feels like he can't measure up he leaves and goes back to her. A year and a half...
    Hilltrini Hilltrini 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    For all those heart broken people reading this.

    .. This is what I've learnt to help me through months of pain. I hope it helps you At first you need to learn to breath through the pain and emptiness. You accept your thoughts- but let them pass by. He may be your last thought at night and your first waking feeling- but in...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    Well the signs were clear,

    and we got on well, but I find out later she was just being friendly. She had next to no interest in me, and I got let down hard. I need to learn not to fall so hard for people...
    achilles3456 achilles3456 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 28 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    I guess you can say that I have a lot of guy

    friends.Well,my best guy friend,Jack and I had been talking since forever.In the beginning it was just friendship.He saved me from a ton of bad relationships and would protect me.Over time,I began to love him.I told him this one day and his only response was,"It can't happen."At...
    jdog0324 jdog0324 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I am a married girl to a guy I love.

    .. I only ask him to show me that he loves me and cares about me. I do not ask for anything he is to far away, cold and careless! It's hurting me when I keep asking him without any respond. I really missed being loved and important for someone! I am not asking for too much just...
    layalshannak layalshannak 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    i care for her alot.she is

    so toxic but i cant leave her.she would probably break down.i dont know why im staying with her still when almost everyday its just all negativity.i dont think she even means it when she says she loves me.she is slowly sucking the life out of me
    waitformesenpai waitformesenpai 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I decided to go on a date last night with

    someone new. It's the first time I've dated since things ended with the man I loved. It went horribly. This new man started to try and kiss me, hands were wandering... And you know what I did... I burst into tears. I'm not ready to let go. I'm not ready to move on.
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 21 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-17, F 125 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I hate his being consistently inconsistent.

    .. But I admit I still love him even now
    mielicus mielicus 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    I like my best guy friend.

    He liked me before but not anymore now. He tel's me about all these girls and about how he likes them. He flirts with me constantly but to him it's just being, nice. He is hurting me so bad and it's all I think about all day and now i sad. He tell's me he won't like me because...
    unknowngirlonline unknowngirlonline 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I still am in love with him

    but , he doesn't like me back. We r best friends but, I can't tell him because he has a girlfriend already. What do I do?๐Ÿ˜ซ
    abalde03 abalde03 13-15 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    3 years ago, I had my first boyfriend.

    He seemed amazing, perfect for me, etc. He gave me my first kiss, and I just felt so happy. I felt like I was in love. I looked past all of his flaws and saw someone who I thought was amazing. It turns out that he was just using me to make his true love jealous. He still...
    CrystalPiano CrystalPiano 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 618 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    I was totally in Love

    and he still does not even know I exist!!! Jan-Micheal Vincent was a hunky hollywood leading man the first time I saw him in 1980. The Movie was Defiance and he looked and acted amazing!I have never been a huge movie fan but in 1982 when Endless Summer came out I saw...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 47 mins ago

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    Billyaldo Billyaldo 26-30, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Last year I met someone

    who I thought was the right one for me and we was dating for about 7 months. At the start I really believed that she loved me but nope she didn't even show it. But now I'm with the love of my life and I have never been happier, she's like no other and I know she loves me back...
    xxSatansDemonxx xxSatansDemonxx 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 16 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    You just know when you love someone

    and they don't feel the same for you. It just sucks because you are left alone with all of these feelings.
    Livelife0532 Livelife0532 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    "In a way, you fixed me

    but you also broke me. ??
    Marychavez0376 Marychavez0376 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    ..& he goes by the name of Johnny

    Depp ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ’”
    LaLaNiaa LaLaNiaa 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    July 20th, 2006

    It might as well be yesterday. I could tell by her voice when she coldly said "We need to talk" exactly what was going to happen. I spent the next two hours curled up in a fetal position clutching the toilet, sobbing and throwing up.  She tossed me out like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Dec 12, 2007

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    Love is an addiction.

    I agree. But "love addiction" is a totally different matter. When you're so madly in love to someone who cannot & absolutely will NOT be able to fully commit to the relationship. You're an love addict. I feel having an affair falls into that category. And I was that addict. I...
    MorningRose10 MorningRose10 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    You have taught me one of the hardest lessons

    I've had to learn in this life: how to live without someone I love. It's also one of the most painful- my chest still tightens when I think of you, which I try not to do often, but it happens anyway. Maybe you'll say I deserved this, and part of me agrees. But the other part...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 26-30 9 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    The feeling of rejection is the worse feeling

    in the world, but the realization that you are not cared about the same way that you care about this person is even worse.
    Kukla13 Kukla13 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    All my long term relationships esp my ex-wife.

    It has taken me many years of living through tough times to understand why?I changed my life to accommodate theirs.Acting like this I got used and tossed away like a dirty rag.I just loved to hard and thought doing all the right nice things,I would do for them was enough for them...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M 1 hr ago

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 20 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Ryderz Ryderz 31-35, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    If only my heart and brain were in sync i

    wouldn't feel the way that I do.
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 16-17, F 19 hrs ago

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    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips 26-30, F 28 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    You tell me that you care

    for me and that I am the most important person in your life, but why do you still speak with so much passion about someone else? I don't understand what I have to be for you to want me more than just as a friend.
    TheRainSong TheRainSong 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    Iโ€™ve just heard the news that youโ€™re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. Iโ€™m not crying because Iโ€™m in love with you, because Iโ€™m not. Iโ€™m crying because why her and not me? Why wasnโ€™t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2013

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    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    To the man I loved, I don't know

    if you know that when you left my world ripped apart. I don't know if you know for three weeks I cried every day and woke up empty every morning thinking of you. I wish this pain would go away. But no matter how many times I sob or mourn, I can't remove this heavy pain within me...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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