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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

Unrequited love personal stories, support, and forum. You're not the first. 57,363 People

    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    i feel as if i have experienced

    both ends of the spectrum in this field. I have been the one unloved and did not love....many....I'm not sure where this all came about and honestly the way i have been towards others has made me become this cold, distant, self sabotaging, selfish, and self conscious person. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The Last Letter

    I don’t know when you’ll see this, or if you will ever get to but I have to tell you something important. You are so much more than you think. I have not known you for long but I can say these about you. I’ve never said this to anyone in my life. But you are beautiful. Your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 16 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    I remember the first thing I noticed about him

    was his beautiful blue eyes. Those eyes I will never forget. He was so funny and had such a great sense of humor. what really drew me to him was his experience in travel and worldly things. He spoke two languages and was well traveled. We went out, but things didn't click on his...
    imdebbie87 imdebbie87 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Loved being the word.

    I did and thought he loved me. Now I don't, just feelings of anger at being cheated on. I always found loving myself more pleasurable and longer lasting anyway ;)
    DishyDianne DishyDianne 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So today I got to confess to her

    that I've fallen in love with her. Nothing gets more awkward than this convo: Me: I fell... T: where!? M: for you T: hahaha I thought it was true. But it's only a pick up line so...haha Then I told her I was serious. It was one of those awkward conversations where I just want...
    alltimestrokes alltimestrokes 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 28 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    When You Are Rejected

    As we all know, getting rejected is never pleasant. In fact the feeling it leaves you with really sucks and is sometimes hard to get over, and it's especially worse when the reasons are beyond your control. However, if anything good came out of my latest rejection, it was that I...
    Army0917 Army0917 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    jordan43930 jordan43930 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    He liked me,and I liked him.

    The sad part is he's back to liking her. I'm still like and no matter how hard I try to stop I can't.
    riillleeeyyy riillleeeyyy 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    July 20th, 2006

    It might as well be yesterday. I could tell by her voice when she coldly said "We need to talk" exactly what was going to happen. I spent the next two hours curled up in a fetal position clutching the toilet, sobbing and throwing up.  She tossed me out like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Dec 12, 2007

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    It's not easy to go through the pain.

    Time is the best healer.
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    To You

    I know you will never read this and even if you do, by some cosmic coincidence, stumble upon this entry, you will never realize it was that it this is meant for you. So, I guess it's ok to put here, in broad daylight even though I cannot talk to you anymore. You brought so...
    KnightBlade KnightBlade 36-40, M 20 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    "I wanted you more" I loved him,

    trusted him, and thought he loved me. Not only does he not believe me, he believes what other people that hate me say about me...
    jaejae200 jaejae200 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Somewhere down the line,

    people have to stop playing the victim. We've all been hurt sometime. It's not a "guy" thing, it's not a "girl" thing, it's not because it was a "he" and it's not because it was a "she". IT HAPPENS! Saying "I'm so emotionally damaged" or "I can never trust any guy/girl again" is...
    Yu12 Yu12 26-30, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 21 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    It Takes Two

    I cannot say that I knew the power and despondency of unrequited love until about a year back.  I had begun writing a sizeable project and had been looking in vain for someone to edit my work.  It was a project that totally engaged me, and as such, I feared rejection...
    Seraph1m Seraph1m 26-30, M 68 Responses Feb 14, 2006

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    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips 26-30, F 29 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    Getting Over Someone Is Not Easy...

    It's not an easy process so if anyone tells you it is, it doesn't matter how long or how short you lasted, the thing is you were together and there were memories and that makes it hard... It's usually the small ones that pain the most... Small but the impact is huge, or the...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F 93 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    ks145 ks145 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know that in most cases it's hard

    for males to reciprocate most feelings and 9/10 the woman falls in love much quicker.. but I never understood how you as a woman could feel like you're doing everything right but it's never enough for them... you could be head over hills Inlove and its like their side is so...
    asiabeautyxo asiabeautyxo 18-21, F 13 Responses a week ago

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    O-Ver

    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    around a year ago , I dated this boy & we were

    together for around 6 months . I fell in love with him . he was so sweet & just the way he looked at me , was insane . after we broke up , we still missed eachother & had feelings & had " things " a few times . then we went to a new school & he met this girl & they ended up...
    dancejazz2000 dancejazz2000 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    if you read my stories may be you will feel it

    how much i love her i just found out some other guy is in love with her and she likes him too to be honest i dont want be a problem in his love story its starting to make sense perhaps she wasnt for me perhaps she is for him may be my words could reach to her heart i would...
    Mdesires Mdesires 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    To the man I loved, I don't know

    if you know that when you left my world ripped apart. I don't know if you know for three weeks I cried every day and woke up empty every morning thinking of you. I wish this pain would go away. But no matter how many times I sob or mourn, I can't remove this heavy pain within me...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 8 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Honestly, I don't know

    if she loved me back because I never asked. I'm married and she was seeing other people too. She had warned me that if she got an offer for a steady relationship she would take it. I often wonder if she would have taken the offer if I had told her how I felt. It sounds...
    Rodgers1981 Rodgers1981 31-35, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    May be I was dumb to take your anormal behavior

    as love towards me.. I just love the way you are.. when you look back one day You will see me waiting for your company.. I'll never let anyone take your place;I have only one Heart and it is all yours.. If im blessed with a chance I'll try to express how much you mean to me, how...
    alekya99 alekya99 16-17, F May 20

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    I'm in Love with my Supervisor.

    Plot twist: I'm married, he's engaged.
    Januaryelf Januaryelf 22-25, F 1 Response May 20

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    i think this is what is happening to me right

    now. i think i love her. she got annoyed at me for saying something and i told her i said it because i care about her. she replied saying that she cares about me too and i had to restrain myself from telling her that we care about eachother in completely different ways
    artandtravel artandtravel 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    During my sophomore year of high school,

    I fell in love with someone that I unconsciously knew was never going to love me back.
    Adripie Adripie 26-30, F May 20

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    I decided to go on a date last night with

    someone new. It's the first time I've dated since things ended with the man I loved. It went horribly. This new man started to try and kiss me, hands were wandering... And you know what I did... I burst into tears. I'm not ready to let go. I'm not ready to move on.
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 21 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Today I was reading about second chances

    and of course my mind went back to him... I want to believe that timing was the main issue but a part of me also wants to move on and not hold my breath waiting for the 'right time' when I know he didn't love me... at least not as much as I loved him.
    blaquetulip blaquetulip 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I lost hope in my 2.5 long distance

    relationship. I poured my life into this and I am not sure what to do with myself now knowing that he doesn't love me as he never cares about my feelings. all I see is how much I gave and I feel so beaten to the bottom now... exhausted cos I can't try any harder any more... I...
    clevercandle clevercandle 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 20

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    In Love With My Teacher

    I realize that everything I write will seem extremely insipid and cliched, but that doesn't make my thoughts any less sincere or true. Let's just get the facts out there: I'm sixteen, and my teacher is about 15 years older than me. I've honestly never felt this way about anyone...
    uncertainty uncertainty 16-17, F 125 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    am i the only person

    who cant live to see the person i love but left me love another person....its living hell.....
    Cherlene Cherlene 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had a crush on this guy

    and had the bright idea to ask him out so I did and he said yes. But later after we broke up my friend told me he never loved me and just said yes because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. The only thing is he got me a card and presents for my birthday and Valentine's Day. So...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses a week ago

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    He said he loved me but what he really meant

    was he didn't want to be alone. He didn't love me, because you don't lack compassion for the love of your life. He didn't love me, what he wanted was sex. He didn't love me, what he wanted was me to do domestic chores. He didn't love me, because you don't treat the thoughts...
    Sunshine9001 Sunshine9001 51-55, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    A Poem About Loving Someone That Doesn't Love You Back!!

    When you love someone that doesn't love you back When you've given so much of yourself-mind, body, and soul and that person could care less. When theyre all you think about night and day and they hardly think of you. When they dont call, text, or come by like they said they...
    msnc msnc 22-25 70 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    For all those heart broken people reading this.

    .. This is what I've learnt to help me through months of pain. I hope it helps you At first you need to learn to breath through the pain and emptiness. You accept your thoughts- but let them pass by. He may be your last thought at night and your first waking feeling- but in...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    You have taught me one of the hardest lessons

    I've had to learn in this life: how to live without someone I love. It's also one of the most painful- my chest still tightens when I think of you, which I try not to do often, but it happens anyway. Maybe you'll say I deserved this, and part of me agrees. But the other part...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 26-30 9 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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