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I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

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    September 2014. I just turned 17

    and started college. I met this really pretty girl with red hair and piercings and I immediately got a crush on her. It took me two weeks to build up the courage to have ask if she wanted to get some coffee. She said yes and we talked for about two hours and I had never felt...
    AwkwardSarcasm AwkwardSarcasm 16-17, M a week ago

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    o feel dumb cuz i always end beleiving him

    and trusting his words , i give him chances to stab me in the back ! why my heart beat my mind everytime ! i am really ....lost
    Granet Granet 22-25, F a week ago

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    ks145 ks145 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I learned the different between infatuation,

    attachment and love. It still hurt but I'm strong to heal. I will be OKAY
    wonderfulgrayce wonderfulgrayce 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    He said he loved me but what he really meant

    was he didn't want to be alone. He didn't love me, because you don't lack compassion for the love of your life. He didn't love me, what he wanted was sex. He didn't love me, what he wanted was me to do domestic chores. He didn't love me, because you don't treat the thoughts...
    Sunshine9001 Sunshine9001 51-55, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm in Love with my Supervisor.

    Plot twist: I'm married, he's engaged.
    Januaryelf Januaryelf 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    O-Ver

    This story is directed mostly to people who want to get over someone they love but feel like they can't. That's how i was a few months ago. My whole world circled around her. It was constant pain, obsession and depression. I tried so much to be with her, but no matter how much i...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    my ex best friend. lol he sees me everyday

    and ignores me. he probably thinks I'm crazy. I just miss how things used to be
    lunaqueen10 lunaqueen10 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    It Takes Two

    I cannot say that I knew the power and despondency of unrequited love until about a year back.  I had begun writing a sizeable project and had been looking in vain for someone to edit my work.  It was a project that totally engaged me, and as such, I feared rejection...
    Seraph1m Seraph1m 26-30, M 68 Responses Feb 14, 2006

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    Last year .. I fell in love with a guy .

    .. He touched my heart forever. I was so madly in love with him that I forgot I too have a life to live, he was very possesive about me;he doesnt want me to post my pics on facebook or any other social media,he often decides what kind of dresses i should be wearing.. he often...
    alekya99 alekya99 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    You have taught me one of the hardest lessons

    I've had to learn in this life: how to live without someone I love. It's also one of the most painful- my chest still tightens when I think of you, which I try not to do often, but it happens anyway. Maybe you'll say I deserved this, and part of me agrees. But the other part...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 26-30 9 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    I had a crush on this guy

    and had the bright idea to ask him out so I did and he said yes. But later after we broke up my friend told me he never loved me and just said yes because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. The only thing is he got me a card and presents for my birthday and Valentine's Day. So...
    lexifaye10 lexifaye10 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    1 + 1

             I consider myself to be fairly experienced at love and relationships…at life.  I’ve been married twice and was widowed the first time (with two small children.)  Since I met him (billions of years ago) and...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    "I wanted you more" I loved him,

    trusted him, and thought he loved me. Not only does he not believe me, he believes what other people that hate me say about me...
    jaejae200 jaejae200 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    5 years ago there's a boy

    who loved me. He is my childhood. He always protect me, save me, help me, make me laugh and happy, and he never ever make me sad. Then, I should move to the other city, so we got separate and he confess his feeling to me and I was his first love. I have no idea, in my life he...
    ariekaferdiana ariekaferdiana 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Yup this happened to me!

    Once a cheater always a cheater.... Working on healing my heart!
    Oliviaa92 Oliviaa92 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've been married twice been cheated on

    both time a have a beautiful terrific entellagent daughter from my first marriage not sure if I have it in me to try again I just feel I'm gonna be cheated on again
    newcomer1984 newcomer1984 26-30, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Today I was reading about second chances

    and of course my mind went back to him... I want to believe that timing was the main issue but a part of me also wants to move on and not hold my breath waiting for the 'right time' when I know he didn't love me... at least not as much as I loved him.
    blaquetulip blaquetulip 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Are you hurting? Do you find yourself crying

    out inwardly? Is it because you cannot get that one person off your mind? Has it been a long time since that person sent you a text, phoned you or emailed you? Does it make you ache, is the pain enough to make you scream? When you give a person that much importance, your...
    shaandar shaandar 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    like i have said here at ep the snow

    and i have a connection and i wanted to propose the girl i love on the peak of snow mountain i forgot almost to write here what would i have said to her while doing the proposal i gonna write her name most probably she will never read it and even if she does i know she wont...
    Mdesires Mdesires 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 617 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    I think at one point in a person's life,

    they will experience this. I have experienced love for people and not getting love in return. It's not a good feeling, and when it happens, you feel like you won't love anyone like you loved that person. But always remember that when you are going through a break up, that God is...
    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    I lost hope in my 2.5 long distance

    relationship. I poured my life into this and I am not sure what to do with myself now knowing that he doesn't love me as he never cares about my feelings. all I see is how much I gave and I feel so beaten to the bottom now... exhausted cos I can't try any harder any more... I...
    clevercandle clevercandle 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 20

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    During my sophomore year of high school,

    I fell in love with someone that I unconsciously knew was never going to love me back.
    Adripie Adripie 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    People say that it’s better to have loved

    and lost than to never loved at all, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s even true. Because in truth love hurts so much.
    TinkerbellChica TinkerbellChica 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    Can you love the second person truly more

    than the first one, or you can't never forget the first even if he broke you? Anyone who experience this? It's like Soulmate vs Destiny.
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    if you read my stories may be you will feel it

    how much i love her i just found out some other guy is in love with her and she likes him too to be honest i dont want be a problem in his love story its starting to make sense perhaps she wasnt for me perhaps she is for him may be my words could reach to her heart i would...
    Mdesires Mdesires 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    You Know They Don't Love You Back When...

    Symptoms of Lovesickness One Broken Heart Too Many Unwiped Tears That E  m  p  t  y Feeling Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain. When more...
    wycomper wycomper 22-25, M 28 Responses Dec 31, 2006

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    It's not easy to go through the pain.

    Time is the best healer.
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I was twenty two and I believed it was me he

    wanted when we first got together. I trusted him enough to give him his own keys to my place; he robbed me of everything I had, even my clothes and shoes. Everything. He stole over five grand worth of belongings, and he was sleeping with someone else. The pain was unbearable. He...
    misskelz90 misskelz90 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    The I. Q. of Love.

    Love is stupid. Love is dumb. It has an IQ comparable to a packet of stale crackers. Don't get me wrong, love is without doubt one of the most important forces in anybody's life; it is wonderful, it is the closest many of us come to living with magic. It's just not...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 48 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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    Getting Over Someone Is Not Easy...

    It's not an easy process so if anyone tells you it is, it doesn't matter how long or how short you lasted, the thing is you were together and there were memories and that makes it hard... It's usually the small ones that pain the most... Small but the impact is huge, or the...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F 93 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    It's a Heartbreak

         I was introduced to this girl through a friend of mine via phone.  We both met on our first date by going out to play miniature golf first. Then out to a really nice casual restaurant where we both really hit it off exchanging each other personal...
    KaraokeGuy KaraokeGuy 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips 26-30, F 29 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar Disorder

    I held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we...
    therealfokker therealfokker 51-55, M 21 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    It's funny how your heart will yearn

    for that which it can't have. Funnier still how people will take advantage of that. I loved him. He knew it. I told him so. He said it back to me easing his way further into that place inside your chest that hides away where nobody else looks. At first it's only whirlwind and...
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    The Last Letter

    I don’t know when you’ll see this, or if you will ever get to but I have to tell you something important. You are so much more than you think. I have not known you for long but I can say these about you. I’ve never said this to anyone in my life. But you are beautiful. Your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    I decided to go on a date last night with

    someone new. It's the first time I've dated since things ended with the man I loved. It went horribly. This new man started to try and kiss me, hands were wandering... And you know what I did... I burst into tears. I'm not ready to let go. I'm not ready to move on.
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 22 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    To the man I loved, I don't know

    if you know that when you left my world ripped apart. I don't know if you know for three weeks I cried every day and woke up empty every morning thinking of you. I wish this pain would go away. But no matter how many times I sob or mourn, I can't remove this heavy pain within me...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I just dont know how to Trust again

    or how to love again. After so many negative experiences i just dont want to go through all the trusting , getting excited, enjoying someones company again just to get my heart broken. Its the most debilitating thing To love someone who doesnt love you back, who plays games, who...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    mina94 mina94 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    For all those heart broken people reading this.

    .. This is what I've learnt to help me through months of pain. I hope it helps you At first you need to learn to breath through the pain and emptiness. You accept your thoughts- but let them pass by. He may be your last thought at night and your first waking feeling- but in...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    Congratulations On Your Engagement

    I’ve just heard the news that you’re engaged. I know I should be happy for you, since I am over you. But these tears running down my face beg to differ. I’m not crying because I’m in love with you, because I’m not. I’m crying because why her and not me? Why wasn’t I...
    cherrytomatoes cherrytomatoes 26-30, F 8 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Superfly Bauman, on line predator

    and all around parasite, no more. Larry Robert Bauman. Do not attempt contact with me. I will remain untouched by the disgusting lifestyle choices you make. You are a sick narcissistic sociopath and may you never find another victim.
    btrflifree btrflifree 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I know that in most cases it's hard

    for males to reciprocate most feelings and 9/10 the woman falls in love much quicker.. but I never understood how you as a woman could feel like you're doing everything right but it's never enough for them... you could be head over hills Inlove and its like their side is so...
    asiabeautyxo asiabeautyxo 18-21, F 13 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F 6 days ago

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