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crowguynate wrote
on 02:49AM at Feb 18th, 2008
Who among you has heard these fatal words?  Perhaps more than once from the same person, or from multiple people, but nevertheless, who's felt the pain of rejection that these words offer, perhaps unthinkingly by their source?  Or do you view this sentence another way?  Are there variants that really get to you?  I'll spill my own thoughts later on after I've heard some stuff from you guys :)
My mood: very contemplative

 

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Charos wrote
on 01:01PM at Feb 18th, 2008
Definitely...even worse is when you don't hear them...my last relationship was a 4 year situation, we'd set ourselves up to move in together, I'd put myself into a financial situation to do that (I quit my job so I could transfer to the town we were moving to and told my landlord I was moving) and then about a week before we were planning on moving she comes over 5 minutes before she has to be at work, throws a not on my bed essentially saying "we're breaking up now" and left...4 years and she just cut me loose, completely ****** me financially and such and bailed...wouldn't talk to me or associate with me at all.  Last I heard she was engaged to some guy she'd been with for less than a year.
My mood: very lonely
My health: slightly well

 

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Priya9 wrote
on 01:38PM at Oct 31st, 2009

hey,


I just joined this community few minutes back. I was crying since past3 weeks almostr daily. Dont know what came over me and I just googled 'I need to talk to someone' and this site came up.your post came up as I was just browsing. And I couldnt help but write to you.  I understand how it feels like. But I ruined my chances myself :(  I did not understand that it was love till it was too late... :( I am still not able to forget him. It's been 2 months almost.... and I lost my best friend as well. :(

 

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FearThePiggy wrote
on 01:18AM at Nov 4th, 2009

The 5 most terrible words any one can hear. Personally I think that is the most ironic statement ever, because it rarely ever leads to friendship. When I have heard those words, the only thing it lead to was a depression, which in times past has only led me to hating that person who can just go about life so easily, expecting me to just ignore the feelings I have for them and just be fine with friendship.  It is not that easy.  Especially when they're someone can be flirtacious without even realizing it.  That usually ends up with me cutting off any sort of relationship I had with them and avoiding them like the plague.

My mood: extremely depressed

 

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retrogirl44 wrote
on 12:44PM at Nov 4th, 2009

try ..I like you a lot but I dont think I can offer you what you want ..but Ill be your friend ..with benifits?????


oh and what he cant offer?? seems he can to anyone else??(yet hes not dated anyone since?? )


now who needs to cry and bang their head off a wall?? ..I dont know what to do?? say sure and hope things change?? ya ok been 3 years now and still the same .. maybe I need to just simply curl up and die !!!


what was I so stupid


 


why do I still hang on??


 


so much for hope and faith as they say


 

 

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