I Loved Someone Who Didn't Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 464 People

    With Or Without You

    I was doing fine until a received a voicemail from him a few days ago. You would think after deleting someone from your facebook that they would leave you alone. You would also think the fact that you haven't emailed or called them in months would also hinder them from making any...
    tilliammyselfagain tilliammyselfagain
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2009

    I still don't want to believe

    that I've wasted my love and my dreams on her. Turns out she fell for someone else.. It was impossible for me to let her go.. It's still hard for me. But my stupid heart tells me if I really loved her, her happiness should come before mine. And so I let her go. We are now...
    h4n5dj22 h4n5dj22
    26-30, M
    Dec 30, 2015

    I used to believe the weather indicated whether

    or not you were thinking of me. I'd pray for sun breaks on cloudy days just because I needed to feel like my love was powerful enough to change things. You were always so far from me, and I never knew what I meant to you. But I dreamt that one day you'd find me in my place, the...
    AshleyJea AshleyJea
    22-25, F
    Jan 16

    Truth is I still love you.

    Despite the lies and grief, I still love you It was so easy for you to say that you don't love me anymore and I should move on.. And I know it was. Because you never loved me. You don't even know half of the meaning of the LOVE. You think that love is like picking up your...
    h4n5dj22 h4n5dj22
    26-30, M
    Dec 27, 2015

    Hollywood Got It Wrong Again

    You know how in films the guy and the girl always get together at the end? Doesn't happen in real life. Most love is unrequited, and it sucks. If you're really lucky you may eventually find someone who feels the same way as you.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty
    18-21
    5 Responses Dec 7, 2008

    Never Understood Why

    I really don't know where to start but here it goes. In 2003 a girl I had dated about 10 years earlier called me out of the blue and she wanted to get together. Her marrage had failed and she wanted to talk. When we dated earlier I didn't realize how much I really cared about her...
    jerrysheart jerrysheart
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2012

    Stitches...

    I know this boy who stole my heart broke it into pieces and then stitched it back together, only to break it all over again and again and again, he must be running out of thread by now.
    JadedDeath JadedDeath
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    It's Best To Keep Loving Them

    Modern psychologists would tell you to stop loving someone when they don't love you back. And this kinda works for some people. But, it is not the best path.  The best path is to always keep loving someone once you have started loving them, no matter what happens.  No matter...
    ForLove ForLove
    46-50, M
    22 Responses Jan 6, 2013

    Depressed.

    I have absolutely no self confidence, but today I had finally told my crush that I liked him. Turns out he didn't like me back. The messed up thing was that he acted like he did. He would tell me that he felt nervous around me and that I made him feel something that he hasn't...
    LameGirl98 LameGirl98
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2013

    Hahaha it's been so long

    since I've felt like this. It was over over a year ago and sometime during and after it I was self-medicating. Days like this remind me why I started. Just something to keep me from being overly emotional. I've been blubbering like a freaking baby for hours.
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire
    18-21, M
    Aug 6, 2014

    I wrote a book about my life.

    This would be the title.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 10, 2015

    One Day I'll Wake Up And Know That The Worst Is Over

    Loving her took me to extreme highs and lows. We started out as friends and in the long run something deeper than friendship emerged. I was not expecting that.. to fall for someone like her. My feelings for her went crazy more and more each day. I was trying so hard to ignore and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 19, 2013

    Unrequited

    We can't choose who we love. It happens. Love is something I keep close,hoping and waiting, but when it is one sided, it's painful. I loved her, let me correct that, I love her. She doesn't love me. Never has. Not once did she ever say it. I did and often. Each time the words...
    Padraig56 Padraig56
    56-60, M
    Mar 9, 2013

    I dated my best friend.

    We'd liked each other for a long time. And we finally decided to date. I dated him for the longest I've ever dated anyone. 5 months, which is big for me. And I was way willing to continue. But then he broke up with me. He is the first guy I've ever cried over. Basically, he had...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 25, 2015

    I've Fallen In Love With My Guitar Teacher

    It's quite scary to say this, but I have fallen in love with my guitar teacher. I'm 13 years old and don't say this is just a crush because I know it's not. I know the difference. Otherwise I wouldn't say I was in love with him. Anyway, I see him every week 1-to-1 lessons and it...
    cut6e1 cut6e1
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2012

    I'm not in the mood for anything.

    I basically feel like **** right now. But a few weeks ago when I thought about him I felt nothing and everything was fine. Now all of a sudden I kinda miss him. TT_TT I don't know what to do... It's been a year, shouldn't I be over it 100% soon?
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    He was in my 4th grade class.

    He was funny. But he was also a bit mean to me. He didn't know he was being mean. He said that I wasn't like him.
    weirdthingshavehappenedtome weirdthingshavehappenedtome
    26-30, F
    Aug 10, 2015

    Im Thinking About Self Harming..

    When i was 11 years old i was abused by this man who was living in our house..he would stab me and cut me and hit me and rape me..i tried to kill myself one night by cutting my neck..i didnt...my boyfriend of two years just fell out of love with me. I am devastated. It has been a...
    Rewter22 Rewter22
    13-15, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2012

    I'm In A Process

    I am coming through. Sort of like been for a long walk in the woods. You ever walked through the deep part of the woods? As you enter you where sure of your location. As you being to come out? your surroundings begin to appear new? Well that's my process of loving someone who...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2013

    One day I met this guy

    and we started talking then I fell in live with him but a couple days later I told him and he said sorry but I only like you as a friend.
    skyegraeler skyegraeler
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 29, 2015

    I am actually with her rn we are

    both working together
    HeidiJohnson HeidiJohnson
    22-25, T
    Nov 6, 2015

    Young Love

    I fell in love with a girl at a montessori school when i was in 5th grade (she was a 6th grader at the time) and i thought she loved me. Sadly in turned out she didn't.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 19, 2012

    All Over the Place

      I miss him.Even though he's not even ten blocks away.I remember when we were together.I remember how I messed it up and now...I know I deserve every single minute of regret and unrequited love.I wish I didn't have to learn by losing him...Sort of.I have his friendship...
    Lamestown7028 Lamestown7028
    16-17, F
    Jun 9, 2009

    I wished she loved me

    as much as I still love her.. Nothing feels the same once you see your biggest nightmare turning into reality.. Sometimes I wished I never met her, Sometimes I wished I never fell in love with her Love used to be my new drug and now drug is my new love... I still love...
    h4n5dj22 h4n5dj22
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 25, 2015

    They were my best friend

    for years. We knew everything about each other. I was the first person they came out to. I loved them with all of my being, with more than what I am. I didn't tell them I was in love--it was a difficult time for them. And then, Jesus almost four months ago, they dropped off the...
    anationsaysbloom anationsaysbloom
    18-21, F
    May 5, 2014

    Crush Desire...

    - desire-It's like something always goes,as if it were my desire,only this pain and evil,this ******* pain emptiness,love fatigue,as hunger without gratification,-love-like a big empty hole with no bottom .....When you satisfacted,you're not the beloved detect any errors,pleased...
    skyfone464 skyfone464
    41-45, F
    Feb 22, 2013

    I love him...but he didn't love me He didn't

    look at me the way i look at him I need him but he need someone else Even just talk with him,that makes me happy I always look at him from far Im afraid he didn't love me back My heart broke when he with someone else
    Bluedust Bluedust
    16-17, F
    Feb 24

    Is this an okay message to send to a guy

    that I have feelings for? It is not infatuation, it is his heart that leads me to satisfaction. His outer persona is full of silliness, he represents an egocentric man. But his inner soul is beyond different, though his alluring appearance fulfills me and his mind is full of...
    AngelK2010 AngelK2010
    22-25, F
    Jul 13, 2015

    It started with her name.

    She was a friend of a friend, and when her name was first mentioned I remember thinking: “*****, that is a gorgeous name.” It would be a while before I'd see her, but whenever I heard the name I caught myself painting a picture. “I bet she's cute. And sweet. What a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 24, 2015

    The woman I truly loved

    and been into a committed relationship for about a year just ended it today, Christmas Day.. It's something I can never be prepared for.. As cliché as it may sound, I'd never love anyone else besides her ( I know it for sure).. In short, love has been ruined for me.. Now...
    h4n5dj22 h4n5dj22
    26-30, M
    Dec 25, 2015

    my best friend! i love him

    so much but he doesn't have those kind of feeling. im so lost because i want this more then anything and i know we'd be prefect together
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 29, 2015
    IamMoon IamMoon
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    It Hurts!

    Rejection is a hurtful emotion and state to find yourself in. Rejection from someone you love and care about, who makes thoughtless states and responds to your frustration from trying so hard to make them see how much you care. It hurts! It's the simplest words to describe...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2013

    I Just Wish She'd Talk To Me...

    We had something that was special to me, even if it wasn't for a long time and I now know it must have meant close to nothing to her, I felt like it was everything. I completely changed the way I think about my life. Its been 2 months since I last saw her and I miss her like mad...
    JM1988 JM1988
    22-25
    1 Response Oct 15, 2011

    My heart burns at the thought of you.

    You were someone to me. You meant something to me. You were more than just a guy I saw at work every day. You were more than a pleasant conversation I had during a walk on a fall afternoon, more than the quiet, still voice that told me everything would be okay as I trembled...
    kisstherainn kisstherainn
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2015

    I Love You

    I love him. He lied to me. I still love him. I asked him out on a date and he said that he was gay. After this we became really good friends. He then told me that he was actually straight and interested in a few different people. I think I may have been one of these people. He...
    tilliammyselfagain tilliammyselfagain
    26-30, F
    Sep 7, 2009

    I Loved Her

    I loved her,Don't know why,She never loved me,Told me so,When we parted,Broke my heart,Wish I knew why.
    startinover1 startinover1
    46-50
    Aug 7, 2012

    Not the right guy

    I never thought I have loved someone that can't love me back. Runs back 5 months from now, I met this guy during our sports fest and he is looking good, tall, and a basketball player and at the same time a football player. I always see him on the field playing ball games and I...
    MauGuju03 MauGuju03
    16-17, F
    Oct 19, 2010

    I don't know if I should still love them

    or not. "Them" was my best friend who got me through a majorly bad time in my life, and I was at the edge of committing suicide. She was just one of those things and I loved her. And I would think about her every day and talk to her and text her and try to get in touch with her...
    Alice1998 Alice1998
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2014
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