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I Loved Someone Who Didn't Love Me

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    They were my best friend

    for years. We knew everything about each other. I was the first person they came out to. I loved them with all of my being, with more than what I am. I didn't tell them I was in love--it was a difficult time for them. And then, Jesus almost four months ago, they dropped off the...
    anationsaysbloom anationsaysbloom 18-21, F May 5

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    Crush Desire...

    - desire-It's like something always goes,as if it were my desire,only this pain and evil,this ******* pain emptiness,love fatigue,as hunger without gratification,-love-like a big empty hole with no bottom .....When you satisfacted,you're not the beloved detect any errors,pleased...
    skyfone464 skyfone464 41-45, F Feb 22, 2013

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    I Just Wish She'd Talk To Me...

    We had something that was special to me, even if it wasn't for a long time and I now know it must have meant close to nothing to her, I felt like it was everything. I completely changed the way I think about my life. Its been 2 months since I last saw her and I miss her like mad...
    JM1988 JM1988 22-25 1 Response Oct 15, 2011

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    Hollywood Got It Wrong Again

    You know how in films the guy and the girl always get together at the end? Doesn't happen in real life. Most love is unrequited, and it sucks. If you're really lucky you may eventually find someone who feels the same way as you.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 5 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    It Hurts!

    Rejection is a hurtful emotion and state to find yourself in. Rejection from someone you love and care about, who makes thoughtless states and responds to your frustration from trying so hard to make them see how much you care. It hurts! It's the simplest words to describe...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2013

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    All Over the Place

      I miss him.Even though he's not even ten blocks away.I remember when we were together.I remember how I messed it up and now...I know I deserve every single minute of regret and unrequited love.I wish I didn't have to learn by losing him...Sort of.I have his friendship...
    Lamestown7028 Lamestown7028 16-17, F Jun 9, 2009

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    IamMoon IamMoon 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    One Day I'll Wake Up And Know That The Worst Is Over

    Loving her took me to extreme highs and lows. We started out as friends and in the long run something deeper than friendship emerged. I was not expecting that.. to fall for someone like her. My feelings for her went crazy more and more each day. I was trying so hard to ignore and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 19, 2013

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    Never Understood Why

    I really don't know where to start but here it goes. In 2003 a girl I had dated about 10 years earlier called me out of the blue and she wanted to get together. Her marrage had failed and she wanted to talk. When we dated earlier I didn't realize how much I really cared about her...
    jerrysheart jerrysheart 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2012

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    Im Thinking About Self Harming..

    When i was 11 years old i was abused by this man who was living in our house..he would stab me and cut me and hit me and rape me..i tried to kill myself one night by cutting my neck..i didnt...my boyfriend of two years just fell out of love with me. I am devastated. It has been a...
    Rewter22 Rewter22 13-15, F Oct 21, 2012

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    That Was All I Had

     I have loved you with ALL my heart and soul and all you have done is sh*t on me.  I want no more of this crap.  I deserve better than what you gave.  I deserve better than what you think I earned.  I will be loved for who I am, or I won't be loved at all.   Today, I stop...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Young Love

    I fell in love with a girl at a montessori school when i was in 5th grade (she was a 6th grader at the time) and i thought she loved me. Sadly in turned out she didn't.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    Hahaha it's been so long

    since I've felt like this. It was over over a year ago and sometime during and after it I was self-medicating. Days like this remind me why I started. Just something to keep me from being overly emotional. I've been blubbering like a freaking baby for hours.
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M Aug 6

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    I Love You

    I love him. He lied to me. I still love him. I asked him out on a date and he said that he was gay. After this we became really good friends. He then told me that he was actually straight and interested in a few different people. I think I may have been one of these people. He...
    tilliammyselfagain tilliammyselfagain 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2009

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    With Or Without You

    I was doing fine until a received a voicemail from him a few days ago. You would think after deleting someone from your facebook that they would leave you alone. You would also think the fact that you haven't emailed or called them in months would also hinder them from making any...
    tilliammyselfagain tilliammyselfagain 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    Not the right guy

    I never thought I have loved someone that can't love me back. Runs back 5 months from now, I met this guy during our sports fest and he is looking good, tall, and a basketball player and at the same time a football player. I always see him on the field playing ball games and I...
    MauGuju03 MauGuju03 16-17, F Oct 19, 2010

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    Many People Let Me Down Yet I Was There For Them And I Learnt A Lesson

    I WAS FORCED TO LISTEN TO THEM... I WAS FORCED TO PUT EVERYONE FIRST OVER MYSELF ... THAT IS THE CATHOLIC WAY... THAT IS WHAT MY MOTHER TAUGHT ME TO DO... THAT GRAND OLD CATHOLIC WAY THAT I HATE AND DESPISE !!!!!  I NEVER STOPPED HEARING HOW IMPORTANT THE DOONANS WERE ... THEY...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    Unrequited

    We can't choose who we love. It happens. Love is something I keep close,hoping and waiting, but when it is one sided, it's painful. I loved her, let me correct that, I love her. She doesn't love me. Never has. Not once did she ever say it. I did and often. Each time the words...
    Padraig56 Padraig56 56-60, M Mar 9, 2013

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    I'm In A Process

    I am coming through. Sort of like been for a long walk in the woods. You ever walked through the deep part of the woods? As you enter you where sure of your location. As you being to come out? your surroundings begin to appear new? Well that's my process of loving someone who...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    I've Fallen In Love With My Guitar Teacher

    It's quite scary to say this, but I have fallen in love with my guitar teacher. I'm 13 years old and don't say this is just a crush because I know it's not. I know the difference. Otherwise I wouldn't say I was in love with him. Anyway, I see him every week 1-to-1 lessons and it...
    cut6e1 cut6e1 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    I don't know if I should still love them

    or not. "Them" was my best friend who got me through a majorly bad time in my life, and I was at the edge of committing suicide. She was just one of those things and I loved her. And I would think about her every day and talk to her and text her and try to get in touch with her...
    Alice1998 Alice1998 16-17, F Apr 16

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    It's Best To Keep Loving Them

    Modern psychologists would tell you to stop loving someone when they don't love you back. And this kinda works for some people. But, it is not the best path.  The best path is to always keep loving someone once you have started loving them, no matter what happens.  No matter...
    ForLove ForLove 46-50, M 28 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    I Loved Her

    I loved her,Don't know why,She never loved me,Told me so,When we parted,Broke my heart,Wish I knew why.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Aug 7, 2012

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    Stitches...

    I know this boy who stole my heart broke it into pieces and then stitched it back together, only to break it all over again and again and again, he must be running out of thread by now.
    JadedDeath JadedDeath 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Depressed.

    I have absolutely no self confidence, but today I had finally told my crush that I liked him. Turns out he didn't like me back. The messed up thing was that he acted like he did. He would tell me that he felt nervous around me and that I made him feel something that he hasn't...
    LameGirl98 LameGirl98 16-17, F Sep 19, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I loved someone who did not love me at all. I experienced this several times. But, what did I win? A huge nothing. Now, I cannot fall in love anymore.
    sumela sumela 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    He was my best friend. The greatest friend anyone could ever have. And even while he cared deeply for me, he was in love with one of his closest friends, who was also a friend of...
    classicminx classicminx 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    loving someone without expecting anything is good thing but loving someone who dont even love you back is a **** thing for me
    naraleon naraleon 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    When I Let My Heart Break. I fell in love with my good friend and when I told him, he didn’t love me back (it hurt). We’ve never talked ever since. I still hang...
    rodeloves rodeloves 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Can't understand why he didn't love me back ..world full of ****!!
    ashtadidto ashtadidto 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    I was in love with this guy, Brandon, and at first, he loved me back. We used to imagine what our life would be like together when we were older, what college we would go to, where...
    auram59993 auram59993 13-15, F Sep 22

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    It's funny you know.. No being able to choose who you fall in love with. I wish I could of prevented the feelings I had for him. He was my best friend (funny how every story starts...
    justbreath12 justbreath12 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    it’s been exactly one year since i wrote that first poem about you. i sat in bed and started thinking about what happened at sandy hook, and how fragile life is, and how much i...
    maddisonn maddisonn 16-17, F Oct 2

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    He was quite easy on the eyes. Immediately, my body's chemical reaction took the reigns of what little self control I had at that time in my life. For weeks, I admired from afar...
    dancingsunz dancingsunz 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    This situation is a rather horrible one to be in and I'm sorry to anyone who is feeling this way. But with this experience comes beauty, and that is you loved someone. You sent out...
    damnflanders damnflanders 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    You looked at me like you looked at me, but I didn't want you to look at me. I wanted you to look at me like I looked at you. I saw your soul. It was charismatic, if it ever were...
    modernmuse modernmuse 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    If someone who you loved told you that they were going to something and you desperately told them over and over how much it would hurt you if they did it , and there choice was to...
    Hng1 Hng1 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 25

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    We dated for two years, he was my first kiss and my first love. We did everything together, even in really tough times we helped each other trough it. He helped me stop cutting and...
    butterflyxxo butterflyxxo 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    He loves **** more than me. He decided he couldn't live without **** but could live without me. In his words, "the girls I look up are more physically attractive than you." Why...
    ladyhawk12 ladyhawk12 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 30

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    Ok so I posted another experience/question a while ago and no one replied so I thought I would try again. I think I am in love with my best friends older brother. I have known...
    Coolquestinsgirl404 Coolquestinsgirl404 13-15 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I am so in love with my friend that I've known for several years now. We're such good friends too, one of the few people I can trust. When we first met many years ago, she "liked...
    cowboyspikespeigal cowboyspikespeigal 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 5

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    Not 'in love' love. But a friend I loved as a friend. Really loved her. Used me. Never thought anymore of me than someone to 'pass the time with' and let her parents take advantage...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I met him in high school and we baca me good good good friends you would say we loved each other like family he would do anything for me but one day I was with him just hanging out...
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    He makes me sad and mad much more than he makes me happy. There's more scars on my wrists and legs because of him No healed emotions More bad memories than good ones All insults...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I currently love someone who is three years older than me and only sees me as a very good friend. We also have a great distance between us and his brother is one of my best friends...
    TeresaChanaki TeresaChanaki 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 11

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    My most recent ex....I guess it was my fault that I'm hurt. I knew he was out of my league. I knew that he still had feelings for someone else. I knew that interracial...
    nikkiiic nikkiiic 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    He may of said he loved me back but now I feel he never did love me... I feel as though it was a lie and because of him I can't love again cause I will not do this again and have...
    Datenshi Datenshi 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    There was this girl, we'll call Nikkie. Girl faked me out for over a year. We hung out quite a bit, texted everyday and really helped each other out. We've always been there for...
    goofysk8 goofysk8 22-25 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    He said he did and he would forever. But it's been two weeks since we broke up and he's already trying to talk/date another girl. It really sucks because it will be the 3rd time...
    rubyy25 rubyy25 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    Being in love with someone that isn't in love with you is the most painful thing that is happening to me as I'm writing this, and I have been living with this "pain" for the past...
    MondoEG MondoEG 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 30