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I Loved Someone Who Didn't Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 319 People

    IamMoon IamMoon 22-25, M 8 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    It Hurts!

    Rejection is a hurtful emotion and state to find yourself in. Rejection from someone you love and care about, who makes thoughtless states and responds to your frustration from trying so hard to make them see how much you care. It hurts! It's the simplest words to describe...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2013

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    I dated my best friend.

    We'd liked each other for a long time. And we finally decided to date. I dated him for the longest I've ever dated anyone. 5 months, which is big for me. And I was way willing to continue. But then he broke up with me. He is the first guy I've ever cried over. Basically, he had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 25

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    Im Thinking About Self Harming..

    When i was 11 years old i was abused by this man who was living in our house..he would stab me and cut me and hit me and rape me..i tried to kill myself one night by cutting my neck..i didnt...my boyfriend of two years just fell out of love with me. I am devastated. It has been a...
    Rewter22 Rewter22 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2012

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    It's Best To Keep Loving Them

    Modern psychologists would tell you to stop loving someone when they don't love you back. And this kinda works for some people. But, it is not the best path.  The best path is to always keep loving someone once you have started loving them, no matter what happens.  No matter...
    ForLove ForLove 46-50, M 28 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    They were my best friend

    for years. We knew everything about each other. I was the first person they came out to. I loved them with all of my being, with more than what I am. I didn't tell them I was in love--it was a difficult time for them. And then, Jesus almost four months ago, they dropped off the...
    anationsaysbloom anationsaysbloom 18-21, F May 5, 2014

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    I Just Wish She'd Talk To Me...

    We had something that was special to me, even if it wasn't for a long time and I now know it must have meant close to nothing to her, I felt like it was everything. I completely changed the way I think about my life. Its been 2 months since I last saw her and I miss her like mad...
    JM1988 JM1988 22-25 1 Response Oct 15, 2011

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    I'm In A Process

    I am coming through. Sort of like been for a long walk in the woods. You ever walked through the deep part of the woods? As you enter you where sure of your location. As you being to come out? your surroundings begin to appear new? Well that's my process of loving someone who...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    Young Love

    I fell in love with a girl at a montessori school when i was in 5th grade (she was a 6th grader at the time) and i thought she loved me. Sadly in turned out she didn't.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    With Or Without You

    I was doing fine until a received a voicemail from him a few days ago. You would think after deleting someone from your facebook that they would leave you alone. You would also think the fact that you haven't emailed or called them in months would also hinder them from making any...
    tilliammyselfagain tilliammyselfagain 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2009

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    It started with her name.

    She was a friend of a friend, and when her name was first mentioned I remember thinking: “*****, that is a gorgeous name.” It would be a while before I'd see her, but whenever I heard the name I caught myself painting a picture. “I bet she's cute. And sweet. What a...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    Hollywood Got It Wrong Again

    You know how in films the guy and the girl always get together at the end? Doesn't happen in real life. Most love is unrequited, and it sucks. If you're really lucky you may eventually find someone who feels the same way as you.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 5 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    Crush Desire...

    - desire-It's like something always goes,as if it were my desire,only this pain and evil,this ******* pain emptiness,love fatigue,as hunger without gratification,-love-like a big empty hole with no bottom .....When you satisfacted,you're not the beloved detect any errors,pleased...
    skyfone464 skyfone464 41-45, F Feb 22, 2013

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    I Loved Her

    I loved her,Don't know why,She never loved me,Told me so,When we parted,Broke my heart,Wish I knew why.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Aug 7, 2012

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    All Over the Place

      I miss him.Even though he's not even ten blocks away.I remember when we were together.I remember how I messed it up and now...I know I deserve every single minute of regret and unrequited love.I wish I didn't have to learn by losing him...Sort of.I have his friendship...
    Lamestown7028 Lamestown7028 16-17, F Jun 9, 2009

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    Never Understood Why

    I really don't know where to start but here it goes. In 2003 a girl I had dated about 10 years earlier called me out of the blue and she wanted to get together. Her marrage had failed and she wanted to talk. When we dated earlier I didn't realize how much I really cared about her...
    jerrysheart jerrysheart 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2012

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    That Was All I Had

     I have loved you with ALL my heart and soul and all you have done is sh*t on me.  I want no more of this crap.  I deserve better than what you gave.  I deserve better than what you think I earned.  I will be loved for who I am, or I won't be loved at all.   Today, I stop...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Hahaha it's been so long

    since I've felt like this. It was over over a year ago and sometime during and after it I was self-medicating. Days like this remind me why I started. Just something to keep me from being overly emotional. I've been blubbering like a freaking baby for hours.
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M Aug 6, 2014

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    Not the right guy

    I never thought I have loved someone that can't love me back. Runs back 5 months from now, I met this guy during our sports fest and he is looking good, tall, and a basketball player and at the same time a football player. I always see him on the field playing ball games and I...
    MauGuju03 MauGuju03 16-17, F Oct 19, 2010

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    One day I met this guy

    and we started talking then I fell in live with him but a couple days later I told him and he said sorry but I only like you as a friend.
    skyegraeler skyegraeler 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I wish my face was good enough

    for you.... Pretty enough. I wish my body was good enough for you.... Perfect enough. I wish my personality was good enough for you.... Interesting enough. I wish my feelings were good enough for you.... I love you with all my heart and soul, even though you are not...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F Jan 1

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    Unrequited

    We can't choose who we love. It happens. Love is something I keep close,hoping and waiting, but when it is one sided, it's painful. I loved her, let me correct that, I love her. She doesn't love me. Never has. Not once did she ever say it. I did and often. Each time the words...
    Padraig56 Padraig56 56-60, M Mar 9, 2013

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    I don't know if I should still love them

    or not. "Them" was my best friend who got me through a majorly bad time in my life, and I was at the edge of committing suicide. She was just one of those things and I loved her. And I would think about her every day and talk to her and text her and try to get in touch with her...
    Alice1998 Alice1998 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2014

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    Stitches...

    I know this boy who stole my heart broke it into pieces and then stitched it back together, only to break it all over again and again and again, he must be running out of thread by now.
    JadedDeath JadedDeath 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    One Day I'll Wake Up And Know That The Worst Is Over

    Loving her took me to extreme highs and lows. We started out as friends and in the long run something deeper than friendship emerged. I was not expecting that.. to fall for someone like her. My feelings for her went crazy more and more each day. I was trying so hard to ignore and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 19, 2013

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    Depressed.

    I have absolutely no self confidence, but today I had finally told my crush that I liked him. Turns out he didn't like me back. The messed up thing was that he acted like he did. He would tell me that he felt nervous around me and that I made him feel something that he hasn't...
    LameGirl98 LameGirl98 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    I'm not in the mood for anything.

    I basically feel like **** right now. But a few weeks ago when I thought about him I felt nothing and everything was fine. Now all of a sudden I kinda miss him. TT_TT I don't know what to do... It's been a year, shouldn't I be over it 100% soon?
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I Love You

    I love him. He lied to me. I still love him. I asked him out on a date and he said that he was gay. After this we became really good friends. He then told me that he was actually straight and interested in a few different people. I think I may have been one of these people. He...
    tilliammyselfagain tilliammyselfagain 26-30, F Sep 7, 2009

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    I've Fallen In Love With My Guitar Teacher

    It's quite scary to say this, but I have fallen in love with my guitar teacher. I'm 13 years old and don't say this is just a crush because I know it's not. I know the difference. Otherwise I wouldn't say I was in love with him. Anyway, I see him every week 1-to-1 lessons and it...
    cut6e1 cut6e1 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    I loved someone who didn't love me... I still love someone who doesn't love me. It's gotten easier though because I accepted the fact that we will never work. He's a great friend...
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6

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    I have never felt reciprocated love. I don't mean like the friends and family package deal that everybody gets, I mean romantically. It's not from a lack of trying, but as I look...
    monkey0506 monkey0506 26-30, M 1 Response May 9

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    Yes I loved somebody who didn't love me...I knew he didn't but I still fell for him...I feel like a complete idiot and wish I could take back the years...but I can't:/ he left when...
    LerisaEllis LerisaEllis 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I loved someone that didn't love me and I don't regret it at all. While it felt terrible most of the time, short-lived moments of happiness were also one of the best days of my...
    everydayissummerr everydayissummerr 26-30, F May 4

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    I don't know how I'm supposed to go on. Knowing that there's always going to be that part of me that is completely, madly in love with someone who didn't even care enough about me...
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F 3 Responses May 8

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    Years ago, when I was first going to college. I was finally dating a guy I had been interested in for years. It was semi long distance, just an hour n half apart. And I was head...
    Armywifsahm Armywifsahm 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    I fell for a woman who didn't love me, I thought she cared but it turns out she was in love with a ex friend of mine! We had lots of fun and did a lot with each other. Then in...
    bigjjunkman bigjjunkman 46-50, M a week ago

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    I stupidly believed a guy who was visiting the country on holiday that he loved me because he told me he loved me.. Only when he left the country he suddenly didn't love me and was...
    immortellecapture immortellecapture 31-35, F 3 Responses May 5

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    I actually think that's my new thing. Infatuations with people who can't love me. A new form of self-destruction, if you will. But he...he was the kicker. It was on and off for...
    borderlineeverything borderlineeverything 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    I need to get this off my chest, and since I can't say this to him I will here... Am I a terrible person? This is what I keep asking myself as the thoughts in my mind twist and...
    LonelySnake LonelySnake 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    He said he loved me but what he really meant was he didn't want to be alone. He didn't love me, because you don't lack compassion for the love of your life. He didn't love me...
    Sunshine9001 Sunshine9001 51-55, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    i loved this girl. I've known her for a while. she didn't love me. i tried everything to convince her she was the world. i still love her. she's with someone else
    drrjr drrjr 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 29

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    When I was married I loved my husband with every fiber of my being. He didn't love me.. But time heals all wounds. To an extent.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 4

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    He finally texted, than we talked on the phone. It was a relief but sad and empty too. I wanted to hear him say he wanted to see me. I took two weeks off vacation to see him. Of...
    byshoreline byshoreline 36-40, F 3 Responses May 12

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    I loved a girl deeply and she didn't love me back, it was the worst pain I have ever felt. Worse than any other physical pain I have ever dealt with.
    Trustorie Trustorie 31-35, M 4 Responses May 13

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