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I Loved Someone Who Didn't Love Me

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    I Loved Her

    I loved her,Don't know why,She never loved me,Told me so,When we parted,Broke my heart,Wish I knew why.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Aug 7, 2012

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    I Just Wish She'd Talk To Me...

    We had something that was special to me, even if it wasn't for a long time and I now know it must have meant close to nothing to her, I felt like it was everything. I completely changed the way I think about my life. Its been 2 months since I last saw her and I miss her like mad...
    JM1988 JM1988 22-25 1 Response Oct 15, 2011

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    I don't know if I should still love them

    or not. "Them" was my best friend who got me through a majorly bad time in my life, and I was at the edge of committing suicide. She was just one of those things and I loved her. And I would think about her every day and talk to her and text her and try to get in touch with her...
    Alice1998 Alice1998 16-17, F Apr 16

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    Im Thinking About Self Harming..

    When i was 11 years old i was abused by this man who was living in our house..he would stab me and cut me and hit me and rape me..i tried to kill myself one night by cutting my neck..i didnt...my boyfriend of two years just fell out of love with me. I am devastated. It has been a...
    Rewter22 Rewter22 13-15, F Oct 21, 2012

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    Unrequited

    We can't choose who we love. It happens. Love is something I keep close,hoping and waiting, but when it is one sided, it's painful. I loved her, let me correct that, I love her. She doesn't love me. Never has. Not once did she ever say it. I did and often. Each time the words...
    Padraig56 Padraig56 56-60, M Mar 9, 2013

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    Hahaha it's been so long

    since I've felt like this. It was over over a year ago and sometime during and after it I was self-medicating. Days like this remind me why I started. Just something to keep me from being overly emotional. I've been blubbering like a freaking baby for hours.
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M Aug 6

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    I'm In A Process

    I am coming through. Sort of like been for a long walk in the woods. You ever walked through the deep part of the woods? As you enter you where sure of your location. As you being to come out? your surroundings begin to appear new? Well that's my process of loving someone who...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    Depressed.

    I have absolutely no self confidence, but today I had finally told my crush that I liked him. Turns out he didn't like me back. The messed up thing was that he acted like he did. He would tell me that he felt nervous around me and that I made him feel something that he hasn't...
    LameGirl98 LameGirl98 16-17, F Sep 19, 2013

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    All Over the Place

      I miss him.Even though he's not even ten blocks away.I remember when we were together.I remember how I messed it up and now...I know I deserve every single minute of regret and unrequited love.I wish I didn't have to learn by losing him...Sort of.I have his friendship...
    Lamestown7028 Lamestown7028 16-17, F Jun 9, 2009

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    It Hurts!

    Rejection is a hurtful emotion and state to find yourself in. Rejection from someone you love and care about, who makes thoughtless states and responds to your frustration from trying so hard to make them see how much you care. It hurts! It's the simplest words to describe...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2013

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    Hollywood Got It Wrong Again

    You know how in films the guy and the girl always get together at the end? Doesn't happen in real life. Most love is unrequited, and it sucks. If you're really lucky you may eventually find someone who feels the same way as you.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty 18-21 5 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    Never Understood Why

    I really don't know where to start but here it goes. In 2003 a girl I had dated about 10 years earlier called me out of the blue and she wanted to get together. Her marrage had failed and she wanted to talk. When we dated earlier I didn't realize how much I really cared about her...
    jerrysheart jerrysheart 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2012

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    Crush Desire...

    - desire-It's like something always goes,as if it were my desire,only this pain and evil,this ******* pain emptiness,love fatigue,as hunger without gratification,-love-like a big empty hole with no bottom .....When you satisfacted,you're not the beloved detect any errors,pleased...
    skyfone464 skyfone464 41-45, F Feb 22, 2013

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    One Day I'll Wake Up And Know That The Worst Is Over

    Loving her took me to extreme highs and lows. We started out as friends and in the long run something deeper than friendship emerged. I was not expecting that.. to fall for someone like her. My feelings for her went crazy more and more each day. I was trying so hard to ignore and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 19, 2013

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    Stitches...

    I know this boy who stole my heart broke it into pieces and then stitched it back together, only to break it all over again and again and again, he must be running out of thread by now.
    JadedDeath JadedDeath 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I Love You

    I love him. He lied to me. I still love him. I asked him out on a date and he said that he was gay. After this we became really good friends. He then told me that he was actually straight and interested in a few different people. I think I may have been one of these people. He...
    tilliammyselfagain tilliammyselfagain 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2009

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    That Was All I Had

     I have loved you with ALL my heart and soul and all you have done is sh*t on me.  I want no more of this crap.  I deserve better than what you gave.  I deserve better than what you think I earned.  I will be loved for who I am, or I won't be loved at all.   Today, I stop...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Young Love

    I fell in love with a girl at a montessori school when i was in 5th grade (she was a 6th grader at the time) and i thought she loved me. Sadly in turned out she didn't.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    I've Fallen In Love With My Guitar Teacher

    It's quite scary to say this, but I have fallen in love with my guitar teacher. I'm 13 years old and don't say this is just a crush because I know it's not. I know the difference. Otherwise I wouldn't say I was in love with him. Anyway, I see him every week 1-to-1 lessons and it...
    cut6e1 cut6e1 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    They were my best friend

    for years. We knew everything about each other. I was the first person they came out to. I loved them with all of my being, with more than what I am. I didn't tell them I was in love--it was a difficult time for them. And then, Jesus almost four months ago, they dropped off the...
    anationsaysbloom anationsaysbloom 18-21, F May 5

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    Many People Let Me Down Yet I Was There For Them And I Learnt A Lesson

    I WAS FORCED TO LISTEN TO THEM... I WAS FORCED TO PUT EVERYONE FIRST OVER MYSELF ... THAT IS THE CATHOLIC WAY... THAT IS WHAT MY MOTHER TAUGHT ME TO DO... THAT GRAND OLD CATHOLIC WAY THAT I HATE AND DESPISE !!!!!  I NEVER STOPPED HEARING HOW IMPORTANT THE DOONANS WERE ... THEY...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    It's Best To Keep Loving Them

    Modern psychologists would tell you to stop loving someone when they don't love you back. And this kinda works for some people. But, it is not the best path.  The best path is to always keep loving someone once you have started loving them, no matter what happens.  No matter...
    ForLove ForLove 46-50, M 30 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    With Or Without You

    I was doing fine until a received a voicemail from him a few days ago. You would think after deleting someone from your facebook that they would leave you alone. You would also think the fact that you haven't emailed or called them in months would also hinder them from making any...
    tilliammyselfagain tilliammyselfagain 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    Not the right guy

    I never thought I have loved someone that can't love me back. Runs back 5 months from now, I met this guy during our sports fest and he is looking good, tall, and a basketball player and at the same time a football player. I always see him on the field playing ball games and I...
    MauGuju03 MauGuju03 16-17, F Oct 19, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I loved someone who wasn't ready to be in love. We were young and I totally understand it now. At the time I felt so empty and I let it all take over my life. I dislike how I dealt...
    InfiniteSunshine InfiniteSunshine 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I love someone who don't love me. I fell in love when I am 14. I love her madly. She was my classmate who cheeled up with frnds an also popular in the school. At first I hate her...
    paulsneha paulsneha 18-21, F Aug 25

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    and it's a good thing it didn't work out because then I never would've met my wonderful husband and had three wonderful children. And as for the guy I loved who didn't love me? He...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    He was kind of my childhood love, but I always thought more of us than he did. He led me on but I should have known, with the fact that he never wanted to be exclusive with me. But...
    staytrue123 staytrue123 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    How awful to love someone who doesn't love you back, at least not in the way you want her to. You are best friends, and you're always there for her her, but she has told you that...
    logic93 logic93 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Up to this point, my life has been all about loving/caring about people that don't love or care about me. I started out as a hopeless romantic, waiting for prince charming to...
    angelique422 angelique422 22-25, F Sep 13

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    I am in love with someone who's in love with someone else, who is in love with someone else. Can't you see I am in the same boat? I'd be there for you but I get it. They're the...
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    He was a great person. He was funny and made me laugh when I was down. But he didn't love me he cheated on me for someone that looked better than me. I was heart broken. I am...
    darrencrissxoxo darrencrissxoxo 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    I was in love with this guy, Brandon, and at first, he loved me back. We used to imagine what our life would be like together when we were older, what college we would go to, where...
    auram59993 auram59993 13-15, F 22 hrs ago

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    Ah this is the worse experience in my life to be honest. A while a go my best friend went to Ibiza to work for a few months and in that time I became really good friends with his...
    jaymes14 jaymes14 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So last night I was trying to get to sleep, but I just couldn't. I was thinking of him...He was the one that got away. He and I had crushes on each other in high school, which we...
    SpeakUpNow SpeakUpNow 26-30, F Aug 24

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    You looked at me like you looked at me, but I didn't want you to look at me. I wanted you to look at me like I looked at you. I saw your soul. It was charismatic, if it ever were...
    modernmuse modernmuse 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I dated someone for a few years. I call it dating but I was really just the girl on the side. I think deep down he knew how I felt but didn't care. I tried to be there for him...
    NewGuernica NewGuernica 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    We dated for two years, he was my first kiss and my first love. We did everything together, even in really tough times we helped each other trough it. He helped me stop cutting and...
    butterflyxxo butterflyxxo 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    August 31, 2014 Sunday I've realized that in our 10years of being together maybe I give too much, there wasn't anything else for him to take and he got tired of me making him my...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    There was a guy I really liked, or should I say loved. I guess you can say that I was truly, madly, deeply in love with him. I'd do anything for him. But he didn't like me back. He...
    RosemaryIdaho RosemaryIdaho 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    I loved him so much. I still do, though things are so different now. We used to have the world together. Now, we don't have much. I gave him all of my heart. I kept no secrets...
    ladyhawk12 ladyhawk12 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I met him in high school and we baca me good good good friends you would say we loved each other like family he would do anything for me but one day I was with him just hanging out...
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's funny how your heart will yearn for that which it can't have. Funnier still how people will take advantage of that. I loved him. He knew it. I told him so. He said it back...
    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 9 Responses Sep 1

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    Sooo you were like my dream boy first year, and you let your friends **** with your head because they don't like interracial relationships, and you let your stupid "girl friends...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11

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    A few years back, I fell in love with a friend of mine, another guy. I didn't understand the feeling I had, and I confessed to him, not to get with him or anything, but to expose...
    thecr00cible thecr00cible 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    One more so my cheating gf left me on a Friday and told me a bunch of bs saying she will always be here for me and she wants to be my best friend we'll come to find out I got her...
    Chris0707 Chris0707 31-35, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    When does it stop? I fell in love with a guy when I was 14. Fourteen! We never went out, we were hardly even friends. I'm pretty sure he had feelings for me back then. A part of...
    CinnamonCat CinnamonCat 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I guess I didn't mean as much to him as I thought I did . /: I'm such a fool to think anyone could love a mess like me . 😔😔
    Haii6130 Haii6130 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 9

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    I love a man I have never met. We have been good friends/pen pals for almost ten years and we will meet in a few months. I recently tested the waters by admitting I had a crush. I...
    femketje femketje 22-25 Sep 11

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