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    Love, Is It Real?

    I think about love. I wish I had true love. I think I was in love before. Love to !e is like the wind. It is there, it is real. We can not see it, but we know it is there. We can even measure it. We can see its effects. Much like the recent tornadoes where I live, it can cause...
    bobolink1 bobolink1 66-70, M 4 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Married but lonely

      I am married since 3 years and have a beautiful 18 month old baby. My husband is a nice man. He is very helpful - doing chores, taking care of baby when needed. He does not abuse me or anything like that. The problem is that we are very distant in personalities. And we are...
    nova15 nova15 31-35 Jun 25, 2012

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    I wanted to wait until marriage, but it didn't work out that way. I was 22 when I lost my V card and to a guy I known since I was 11. He wanted to make it special for me. He...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I think there are different cases in long distance marriages. I believe the emotional challenges is different even though they are all "long distance marriages". The list below...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    My husband and I have been together for 8 years and we have many issues like trust, loyalty, infertility, and respect and problems with crazy in-laws. Yes I know these are big...
    NotSoConfident123 NotSoConfident123 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I asked my husband what's the name of his second child with another woman.. he answered "Lawrence." I replied.." the first one is Lucille and now Lawrence, what's with the letter L...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    Marriage is a religious institution. The government shouldn't be in the business of giving out marriage licenses. The government should only be giving out Civil Unions. If you want...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Just wanted to say goodbye to everyone here. I will remain in the group just to check back on stories and the many people I have chatted with. I am no longer in a sexless marriage...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 18 Responses 4 days ago

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    You can learn a lot about a man by his perception of marriage. Somen think of marriage is a government conspiracy, another man can think marriage is only good for having sex with a...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've never been very fond of marriage. No, my parents never got married. No, I didn't really want them to get married nor did I not want them to. I think I just realized after...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    We no longer seem interested in one another. we work diifferent schedules
    HardGuy4u HardGuy4u 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    We had 'the chat' last night. It was difficult to express how I felt. I didn't want to hurt him. Divorce was not discussed but laid everything out on the table. Seems that he...
    CupidBowLips CupidBowLips 36-40, F 23 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate him so much right now. It really hurts to hear that my adopted brother would be more willing to come with me to support me through my surgery than my husband is. All day...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just love how much my husband loves me. He knows that I am having minor surgery on my feet and he wasn't prepared to take me or go with me. Now, it sounds like he will be...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It's hard to explain what it feels like to wake up in the morning knowing that the space beside you will be cold whether he's lying there or not. I've been with my husband 15...
    Shortie82 Shortie82 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    What I have to come realize in my sexless marriage is it is not the sexual acts per se that I miss most, but it is the intimacy and connection that comes before/during/after sex...
    rustyblueday rustyblueday 46-50, F 15 Responses a week ago

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    One man, one woman. No sex until marriage. Traditional Christian vows including "to love, honor and Obey" for brides. Husband as undisputed head of the family and sole provider...
    MrsAshleyR MrsAshleyR 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    My husband has not looked at me as a lover in a lot of years. I feel he's not attracted to me at all and it makes me really depressed at times. I know I'm not so young anymore but...
    hopelessromantic66 hopelessromantic66 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 4

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    It seems like such a long time since I felt that he loved me. In a lot of ways, it feels like I lost a husband and gained a roommate. I don't understand where things went wrong...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    I have been married 18 years. 2 Kids. Can count on both hands how many times we have had sex in the past decade. We've been to therapy twice. We have had hard conversations. I have...
    rustyblueday rustyblueday 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    If anyone has read my I live in a sexless marriage thread .. My husband bitched at me for not helping him out with the car payment and the loan and that's it's all his...
    Blue5514 Blue5514 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    wow who would of thought that finding a woman that's ten years younger would of put me in a sex less marriage
    fastorstandstill fastorstandstill 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 30

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    We went out to dinner tonight. It was nice. We haven't gone out just the two of us in months. We got home and she put the kids to sleep and as always, she got into bed with our...
    Bardowl15 Bardowl15 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I am a 33 year old Indian gay looking for an open marriage with a straight female/lesbian. I am in the US and seek someone that is sane, stable and serious. Please get back to me...
    krishere1982 krishere1982 31-35 1 Response Jan 29

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    Hi I am decent well educated guy 33 from uk looking for a bi sexual / as sexual girl for serious marriage in uk. I have believe in family be happy, i can keep our secret till...
    Ananthkrishna Ananthkrishna 31-35, M Jan 29

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    I grew up with a father who could not fathom how men cheated on their wives. I heard him say multiple times, "It's not that hard to be faithful." He set up boundaries for himself...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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    How can someone not want to have sex with their girlfriend on occurring circumstances. I try my hardest to put off gestures to make sex happen , but he is never in the mood. It's...
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 28

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    I just want to share. I joined this place after two years of struggles in my marriage. I have gone by various names in here : Thedarkenedshadow Dsop Some people have followed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 27

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    My husband and I can't go without fighting for more than a couple weeks. We rushed into the relationship and marriage, getting married on the 1 year anniversary of our first date...
    kimpossible86 kimpossible86 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    My husband and I have been married for almost four years, together for 10. We spent the first three years together without disagreeing or arguing even once. It was sheer bliss, I...
    TjbDetroit TjbDetroit 26-30, F Jan 26

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    Last night was one of those nights when I really took a moment with my thoughts. I rolled in from work about 7pm. Zero lights on in the house. So I figure no one is home. But as I...
    babalulu babalulu 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 26

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    Pulling the trigger Our marriage is over. Not only could you poke me with a fork, the thing that is being poked is now charcoal. A pneumatic drill couldn't poke it. My husband...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 46-50, F 13 Responses Jan 25

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    Chumps I recently found a web site that gives advice to chumps. "Chumps" people who wake up one day finding their partner has been unfaithful. The Chump wisdom she gives to the...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    hey there , I am Frank. i,m from new berry . 3 months backs i was so tired from the daily issues i was having at my marriage front . Everyday we tried to give our relation a new...
    franklampard14 franklampard14 31-35, M Jan 25

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    Back in my young and single days, before I married and had kids, I used to frequent the nightclubs with my friends and dance the night away. I love dancing, plus I am a social...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 25

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    Was 18, at a party. A nice experience but nothing electrifying, we got together a few more times. Took another 12 years and as failed marriage to find my true love and soulmate.
    RocknRollCowboy71 RocknRollCowboy71 41-45, M Jan 24

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    Irritated I am not sure how I feel about this. My ex husband is getting married again. I actually feel pretty good about that. Apparently my kids "new mommy and little sister" (as...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    I have been married for just 3 years today (25 Jan) and having one daughter aged 2. Since our marriage, we don't really have sex much often. It's not that either of us having an...
    nazrule11 nazrule11 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I'm not saying I've arrived at the "final word" on this matter; but I want to share my latest thinking. You can all let me know what you're thoughts are. I need to believe that I...
    BinaryBill BinaryBill 61-65, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I'm in a marriage of 11 years and together for 16 years she has always been selfish when it comes to us .I've changed things about my self to make her happy.we have three kids and...
    Stevenkull Stevenkull 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 23

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