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    Love, Is It Real?

    I think about love. I wish I had true love. I think I was in love before. Love to !e is like the wind. It is there, it is real. We can not see it, but we know it is there. We can even measure it. We can see its effects. Much like the recent tornadoes where I live, it can cause...
    bobolink1 bobolink1 66-70, M 4 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Married but lonely

      I am married since 3 years and have a beautiful 18 month old baby. My husband is a nice man. He is very helpful - doing chores, taking care of baby when needed. He does not abuse me or anything like that. The problem is that we are very distant in personalities. And we are...
    nova15 nova15 31-35 Jun 25, 2012

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    I went to see our marriage counselor with my wife today. I feel more and more that the situation is hopeless.
    Cowboy011 Cowboy011 51-55, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Daily it seems I see the same post...someone stating they live in a sexless marriage. Sometimes I respond and offer advice though it feels like I'm just adding my voice to the many...
    RLB2 RLB2 41-45, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's been a year since I last posted. I had an online affair with a woman I met on EP. I fell in love with her. My wife found out and I broke it off. I haven't spoken to her in a...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 28

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for just over 16 years. In that time I've been through the counseling sessions, countless fights, nights on the couch, online trysts, real life near...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Well I'm not sure where this will end up. But I'm here as a former refuser. One to make some amends and two to tell the truth to all the women who are currently living with a...
    Transgressed Transgressed 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 10

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    It's been a long time since I wrote: If you have read my previous articles then you already have the background or a lot of it. If not my situation is as follows: I have been...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Don't ever think you're completely secure in a relationship. I say this because you can't know another persons mind or heart. Like me, you can't believe you're living a fairy tale...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am not a virgin, I have also been married before and have unfortunately had many experiences of sex without marriage. I really enjoy sex, however, I have always believed sex...
    jrsybelle jrsybelle 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage, I was very young about 15 yrs old when I lost my virginity. Although waiting until marriage is insane to me!! I'm proud of those who can actually wait...
    AlissiaMarie AlissiaMarie 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I am so tired of living in a sexless marriage. It's a nightmare. I need to leave, get a divorce, and be on my own but I have no clue how to leave, and be on my own. I keep thinking...
    loveangelmusicbaby0 loveangelmusicbaby0 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 27

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    I don't believe in divorce. So, my first marriage is most likely going to be my only marriage. But I am not going to get married until I am 46 or 49. Lmao
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    Ive been married for 1 year and i hate my marriage. All my husband do is take me for granted, harass everyone in the house, disrespect us and verbally abuse us. Im tired of my...
    shakii00 shakii00 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Wow... the title couldn't fit me better... I've been married for 14 yrs to a man that use to be a good man... that is before he retired from the army and before he started getting...
    neydi1972 neydi1972 41-45, F 9 Responses Dec 3

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    I'm Roman Catholic and believe that the reasons are based on evidence rather than faith. That said, I struggle with gay marriage and even the Biblical references on it. I've...
    originnone originnone 51-55, M 10 Responses Dec 6

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    You know what hurts? What really, really hurts about my marriage? That I am my Husbands Best Friend. He's told me this. It's true, all the good friends I've known him to have...
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 11

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    From being in a sexless marriage for the last three years or so, I have really become discusted and sad with my life. This last year has been zero attempts because of menopause I...
    Feelingnotsogreat Feelingnotsogreat 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 12

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    Active efforts to work on our marriage are "on-hold" to an extent over the holidays at my wife's insistence, though I struggle to believe good things can come from letting serious...
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Well at the end of July my mother in law moved in, and was told she would be helping, well no such luck. Our sex life and intimacy has only gotten worse. I feel more like a...
    Fotoman Fotoman 46-50, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I don't feel marriage proves your love to someone. Actions speak louder than words and if you want to prove your love to someone you spend your life with them. Saying you're going...
    ChristianKekoa90 ChristianKekoa90 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm back from the dead people, not dead really just not in the mood to deal with anyone. I'm sick of depression, sick of my horrible lonely marriage, and now it's the holidays...
    Wantfreedom67 Wantfreedom67 46-50, F 8 Responses Nov 22

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    My husband and I have been having problems for a while now. He is an addict. He was struggling with opiate addiction when we met, but went into methadone treatment and has been...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 22

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    The hubby came home this morning at 5 am declaring he wants to have another baby.......I have 3 already. I guess he really doesn't see that our marriage is essentially over and I'm...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    confronted my husband... boy did that backfire. presictibly he denied that he had any intention of cheating. He went on plenty of fish to "meet friends." boy he must really think I...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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    And we shouldn't. Do you know what made society shame sex and confine it to marriage? Christianity. What started as a zealous, heretic religion turned into what we know today...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    I hate the word marriage because I regret been in one , I can't wait to be free
    World4me World4me 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I am 23, a wife, and mother. I have a very high sex drive as most people my age do but it's like my husband and I are lucky to have sex once a month which isn't my doings. We've...
    Amb0331 Amb0331 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    It seems more and more men, especially, live in sexless marriages. I wonder why? Is it because they can't look at their wives in the same way as they once did. She's had the...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    40 years of a miserable marriage/ I cant afford to leave. I am not working. We have a lot of debt. He causes me so much stress. He has such a temper. Never helps me in the house...
    Maggie1909 Maggie1909 61-65, F Nov 27

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    I am in a DD marriage. My wife is in charge. She is very dominant and runs our life. I get spanked and disciplined
    happyguy99 happyguy99 66-70, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    If the right guy came along I wouldn't hesitate to be in a long term relationship. But marriage I will never do again. I don't need a piece of paper to define my life and...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Nov 28

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    well after our huge fight the other day, my husband sent this nice long text that he wanted to save or marriage and we should have a nice long talk about what we want, and not...
    nodbates nodbates 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 28

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    I won't have to be here to listen to her whine, nag, complain etc !! I do nothing right in her eyes. She is NEVER happy unless she's nags We never have sex, and when we DID have...
    World4me World4me 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    Marriage is a scam. Would it be nice to be stuck with someone forever? Sure. But I can do that without a legally binding document that means absolutely nothing except "hey at least...
    cg443319 cg443319 18-21, F Nov 29

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    I'm 22 and no I didn't wait for marriage but I believe that every women should be carful of who's out there. I promise people will put on "a show" for you, you just got to be able...
    skipper596 skipper596 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    I did not have an opportunity to wait until marriage to have sex with my husband. My virginity was taken from me at age 13 from being raped by someone that I personally know and...
    connie1975 connie1975 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 30

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    Ever since I was 13, I've had the desire and want to abstain myself until marriage. I used to wear a purity ring from the Silver Ring Thing until the pool severely tarnished it...
    arianemariexx arianemariexx 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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    10yeargap.com focuses on younger women dating older men and it encourages age gap marriage. 10YearGap.com is not a sugar daddy site. Single women are attracted to older single men...
    JessieFay JessieFay 31-35, F Dec 2

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    I have been in a sexless marriage for nearly 14 years. Sexless meaning No sex at all! We are only roommates living under the same roof. I had an online affair with a beautiful...
    Clandestine1 Clandestine1 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I ended up in this place because I can't say anything. Not to my family and not to my friends.Not to the therapist even. The stakes are high. This marriage is too advanced. My...
    BonneNouvelle BonneNouvelle 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 4

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    To those who say "Don't stay in a sexless marriage for the kids", I have two questions: 1. Did you grow up in a broken home? 2. Could you go a month without kissing your kids...
    2feetApart 2feetApart 36-40, M 6 Responses Dec 4

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    Well I obviously didn't wait till marriage. Unfortunately I gave it away to the devil not saying any names . He took everything from me. I always did everything an anything he...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Men are visually stimulated, and it is a wonderful benefit to a marriage when a wife understands that although modesty has a definite place in public, the home is place to be...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 5

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    I'd like to talk to someone about there marriage and why it isn't working and we could talk about other stuff to
    StephyLynnJoe StephyLynnJoe 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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