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    Love, Is It Real?

    I think about love. I wish I had true love. I think I was in love before. Love to !e is like the wind. It is there, it is real. We can not see it, but we know it is there. We can even measure it. We can see its effects. Much like the recent tornadoes where I live, it can cause...
    bobolink1 bobolink1 66-70, M 4 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Married but lonely

      I am married since 3 years and have a beautiful 18 month old baby. My husband is a nice man. He is very helpful - doing chores, taking care of baby when needed. He does not abuse me or anything like that. The problem is that we are very distant in personalities. And we are...
    nova15 nova15 31-35 Jun 25, 2012

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    Married 25 years with three kids (25, 23, 21). I have been living in a sexless marriage (meaning zero sex) for the past 6 years, touchless (meaning zero touch) for the past 3 years...
    acceptingmediocrity acceptingmediocrity 56-60, M 8 Responses Mar 9

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    I have been married for over 20 years and have 3 kids that I cherish. My marriage has been unhappy for many years. We live together as roommates raising children together. We do...
    newphoenix123 newphoenix123 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    No, I did not wait either to have sex before marriage. I started having sex when I was 16 and was on the pill at that time so I would not get pregnant. My mother made sure of...
    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Roy Moore calls for 'Biblical marriage' at Texas rally AUSTIN, Texas — About 250 people gathered Monday afternoon at the Texas Capitol to rally in support of what they call...
    FindMeIAmYours FindMeIAmYours 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Good evening --- I however AM HAPPY IN MY MARRIAGE. This post is in response to the countless women that are unhappy in their marriages. Many wives lament and languish that they...
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    Sexless Marriage Help | The best online way to rejuvenate a marriage : Power of Two Marriage The first step in getting sexless marriage help is to understand the problem. Here’s...
    lass1 lass1 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    At what point do you give up? When do you finally say I've had enough of feeling alone. You build a life, kids, house, good jobs. You seem to have everthing and from the outside...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 9 Responses Mar 6

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    I CANNOT BELIEVE WHAT I AM READING... I have read so many stories of sexless marriages on here.. No intimacy! I am so sorry for many of you. I was treating my spouse very similar...
    KeraJo75 KeraJo75 36-40 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have never been married, but I do know if relationship does finally end it will most likely happen at the worst time. When you are already married, that's why I don't want to get...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Mar 13

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    There's a member that posted a story on marriage, loss of intimacy and love and divorce. In the end the husband realizes how he neglected his wife, how much he still loves her and...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F Mar 3

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    I have always had a picture of my honeymoon night all planned in my head. i have always wanted to surprise my husband with a gift that god had given me. i am not a girl that is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 3

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    I have a sexless marriage and the marriage is working. It is because my wife and I have experienced lack of sex, knowledge or practicing it but in different ways and places. So we...
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 8

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    So everyone asks me once they find out I'm in a sexless marriage why I married this person to begin with. Well, honestly, we were two people who had both been single for a long...
    PenelopeAnne PenelopeAnne 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    People change, if you do not have the spark in your relationship you had when you first get married you should move on..... At least this is how I see it now.. Marriage is a 24/7...
    navyguy1976 navyguy1976 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    It's a shame marriage is looked down on and viewed in this way, any relationship is a risk and many end in divorce but for me, being married is something I have always wanted. It...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I wonder why in a society where marriage is probably love before marriage fails. While in some of our communities, there is a relationship before marriage.
    XOSO XOSO 51-55 a week ago

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    I have been with my husband for almost 6 years. 3 of those years we've been married. It at all started like a fairy tale we were head over heals in love! Our first year we got...
    sadblueyes88 sadblueyes88 26-30, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sexless marriage is a sense-less marriage.
    BUalways BUalways 46-50, M Feb 27

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    Shocked. Repulsed. Tormented. Disgusted. Few respect marriage anymore. Swingers. Bisexuals married but free to play. Family cheats. Why. Changes in love...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 9

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    I had a little too much red wine last night... My mouth was spewing with truth. Hurtful truths. Ive always been honest about my need for more sex in the marriage. But last night I...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 14 Responses Mar 15

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    My wife and I had a good talk today. She told me one of her friends is getting divorced, largely due to her (female) friend's infidelity towards their husband. Their marriage is...
    onlymortal onlymortal 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 15

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    I feel like I'm in a rare and special situation. I would love to know if anyone else is too - I feel very alone in this. When I was 18 I moved out and landed a very lucky position...
    seekingafrica seekingafrica 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    The hardest part about being married to a narcissist/sociopath is their lack of empathy and shallow emotions. The hardest part about leaving the narcissist/sociopath is their lack...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 25 Responses Mar 19

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    Like most things in life, marriage is what individuals choose to make of it. Unfortunately there are those who choose to abuse and betray it. Others try to avoid it. Some even try...
    BlackMagicAttack BlackMagicAttack 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    When I met my wife she had an almost insatiable sexual apatite. But, she was a full blown out of control alcoholic. The day before she went into rehab, she was hospitalized for...
    Ivithos Ivithos 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just don't understand. We're both passive-aggressive, which makes this all even that much more fun...*sarcasm*. But I love my knucklehead deeply, and that is why I'm still here...
    lonelygirl222 lonelygirl222 41-45, F 14 Responses 5 days ago

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    So my lover says she can't be the "shadow woman" anymore, but WOW did we ever create some seriously amazing memories in 4 1/2 months of finally seeing each other after nearly 2...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I didn't wait tell marriage to have sex but i guess it's to late now I didn't even like it at all it just everyone around me didn't wait tell marriage so I just said lets do this
    tackett2002 tackett2002 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    So i met this guy Lumi on internet And i thought he was the one i mean we talked tk each other 24/7 , i really thought i knew him , we liked the same things and shared the same...
    Lellaa Lellaa 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Surrendering our sexuality, decency and the best of our fertile years is what the sexless marriage club is all about. I didn't sign up for it though. My club was supposed to be the...
    angelwanderer angelwanderer 46-50 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Agree. I was happy and everything was great, then I got married, and everything changed like I expected. I never was a person that believed marriage was necessary. But I did...
    Kman4You Kman4You 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My husband doesn't seem to care. Always preoccupied with his hobbies and interests. Always boasting on social media about his successes, but his posts are never about me or the...
    Alone1980 Alone1980 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    Sometimes I feel like since he doesn't even sleep with me, I should never be talked down to. He should be 100% kind to me. I feel so intolerant. I'm wishing I was not in a...
    caddriss caddriss 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 28

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    Tuesday my wife and I begin talking to a marriage counselor. I have an appt next week with the lawyer to advise if I should move out and how to protect my share of the marital...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 28

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    Laying here to Marvin Gaye sing "Just To Keep You Satisfied" the track before this song is called "You Sure Love To Ball". The latter song was my love life for 30 years. Now...
    tomthumb1974 tomthumb1974 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I truly and firmly believe in interracial dating and marriages and off springs that come from their unions. I am a white female and my husband is black man. We have six biracial...
    britishfemaleinusa britishfemaleinusa 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I have been very emotional lately. Getting resentful and angry maybe even when he is trying. I have been rejected sexually so many times by him it is like I anticipate it. I...
    indianagirl76 indianagirl76 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    You know, one never wakes up one day and says "hey, I want to get married to someone who doesn't appreciate me". So here I am at 19 years old, in a sexless marriage. I'm married to...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 2

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    I don't live in a sexless marriage, but my H uses it as a weapon. I relate to a lot of your stories. Mind if I hang around for awhile?
    milkysecret milkysecret 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 5

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    it is like being a slave, it is not a normal marriage because my husband is controlling and no matter how I try to find good in this , it is nowhere to be found. I always wanted to...