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I Lusted After Someone I Can't Have

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    Stop Dreaming

    My work spouse turned into an emotional affair.  I've contemplated taking the next step with him; but think now it will never happen. Now that I've opened myself up to the possibility of an affair I'm very uncomfortable with my husband. Time to get grounded and stop...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2009

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    My Uncles Girlfriend

    I am seriously lusting after my uncles girlfriend. I am 27. He 43. Compared to my father, who is a normal working class man, he has been fairly successful and earns quite a bit of money. He is a good looking guy for his age and always attracts younger and beautiful women. His...
    MintBerryCrunch MintBerryCrunch 26-30, M Sep 15, 2013

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    To Watch,share And Be There.....

    To watch, to care and be there.  to enjoy the view of someone who fills your heart, and makes you start to smile. even when you're alone in a crowded room and that silly tune of that song that wont get out of your head  starts playing again. To hear his voice is...
    Shuga Shuga 46-50, F Oct 20, 2009

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    My Step-Daughter

    I had a dream last night. my step daughter kissed me on the lips. I was shocked and deeply in love with her even more. HELP Me
    andrewmoran andrewmoran 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Dreaming....I was laying In bed in

    that sexy silk piece you love oh so much and smile and tell you to come here and lay down let me take the stress of your day away You sit down I start kissing your neck while taking your shirt off you try and lay me down but I stop you because tonight it's all about you and...
    June4U June4U 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    Flooring Girl

    I work with her almost every day. She is one of those girls that is rarely seen without her smile. When she talks to me she reaches out and touches my arm or shoulder. When I come to work I go out of my way to pass by her dept. before going to mine. Once when I was using the...
    mjon64 mjon64 46-50, M Feb 17, 2013

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    Can't Have Him

    He was so handsome. Large brown eyes, enormous eyelashes, tall, so smart. I was 15. He was 17. I could not have him for a number of reasons, most notably because he wasn't interested in me. I still remember the desperate desire I felt for this boy, the pain of rejection, though...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 30, 2010

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    1000 times. And some of them would have been

    the "right one"; good for me, kind, flexible, attractive on the inside AND outside, but certain that I couldn't be with them I sought or accepted the attention of those that would be with me and often that has been a disaster. So damned if you do, damned if you do the other way...
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 1 Response Jul 25

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    Unfortunately. The wrong person came into my

    life at the wrong time. He is eves apple - I have never felt such strong desire. I feel drunk around him. I feel weak. These feelings are so strong, yet unreasonable. I already have someone I love. Things haven't been going too well. I still love him, but the damage to our...
    happycupcake happycupcake 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Love And Lust

    Ever since I fell in love with him,he's been in every single one of my dreams.Then I began to notice I started to desire him that much,and thought,and dreamed of him and me sexually.Every edge,every part of his body made me bight my lip.Although he's no model,and weighs about 230...
    FlutterFlower FlutterFlower 16-17, F Jun 26, 2013

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    I lust for someone so amazing

    and I cant have her. I am so attracted to her...she is so beautiful. Her body is perfect, every curve and every part so soft. I dream about her laying next to me with nothing on. I wake up and take in her beauty. I then run my fingers across every contour. I want to make love...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    Always dreaming of this on coworker

    that I known for years. She is recently married. Just can't stop thinking about doing her and giving her my kid. Had to get that off my chest.
    Stonecold1 Stonecold1 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    Brandon

    I never knew having you in my life Would cause me so much strife. Should've known what I was getting into All you ever cared about was you. I know I never told you how I felt But the worry of you not feeling the same made me feel as if i'd been strangled by a belt. You...
    StarkButcher StarkButcher 16-17, F Sep 24, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    The boy i love, we send certain 'pictures' to each other but never actually got the chance to be with him or do anything in real. We've been talking since January ect i've...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    We flirt(ed) all the time in person, we'd hug and sit together and have inside jokes at the back of the bus even though he's 3 years older and it looked slightly weird to all his...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm in love with someone I can't have.
    NecklessCage NecklessCage 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Am I ready to let go of something I can't have???? I just want to cry!!!!! Can I accept the realization of him having another interest? I may have myself up for another heartbreak...
    ExecutiveAsst ExecutiveAsst 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    You got me caught.... In all this mess.... I guess, we can blame it on the rain.... My pain, Is knowing I can't have you.... I can't have you.... Tell me does she, look at you the...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I'm in love with three people I can't have. Don't know how it happened. It just did.
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    Always happens to me. I'm attracted to those I can't have. And those who show interest, I'm not attracted to. At some point I wish there would be a match, but I'm getting older and...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    I am a mother at heart... I have cared for children since I, myself, was a child. At 7 years old, I taught myself how to make macaroni and cheese for me and my younger brothers...
    HiddenAnger HiddenAnger 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Seems I always fall for the ones I can't have. I'm starting to think it's more a of a defense mechanism and my way out of committing. If I never commit to anyone I won't ever get...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I've always loved him since I met him. His sparkly brown eyes, his little soft-lipped smile, his tattoos, the way he dressed however he wanted and did whatever he wanted and never...
    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    3 months ago I found videos & pictures of my husband having sex with another woman. I was devastated, as he had been emotionally abusing me for a year & telling me he wanted a...
    RayRoMac RayRoMac 26-30 1 Response Jul 28

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I remember seeing you walking pass me right across the chapel. That back pack hanging in your shoulders and the wearisome look etched on your face. I love those metals on your...
    skypiea skypiea 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I know this is really strange but I don't know what to do anymore, I'm struggling and just feel like letting all these feelings out by writing this... I have a really terrible...
    DingleberryBooBoo DingleberryBooBoo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    ...i asked God's permission to love this man, and to protect me to whatever it will lead me in loving this man...i can't bear the thought of letting him go...i love him every day...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Jul 28

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    I am in love with a Mormon. Our relationship has been full of ups and downs, from the very start. We can't be together because of his religion and his family, but I am so in love...
    wpsiatwin wpsiatwin 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    *sigh* It seems like it always happens this way. I don't think I'm in LOVE with her, per se (I don't know if I am mature enough to feel romantic love for anyone)... but I do know...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I had him and I ruined it. I got too jealous, too clingy, too demanding, too sweet. He moved on. He just wants to be friends and I can't do that when I love him so much on another...
    becxboo becxboo 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    Hey so there is this girl haha I know right.... How original.. But idk with this girl there is something different we never have hung out but we are friends so we do chat and the...
    tdwprpbs tdwprpbs 18-21, M Aug 6

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    So basically I was instantly attracted to this guy the first time I laid eyes on him. He wasn't hot or anything but he was cute to me and just something about him had me hooked...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    It's stupid. I fell for a friend, who turned out later, wasn't one at all. He played me. Used me as an ego boost and I was so into him and him alone, that I rejected guys who were...
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I am in love with a friend and colleague who is happily married to a woman he calls his soulmate (and she is beautiful and lovely.) There is absolutely no chance that he and I...
    brendabrenda brendabrenda 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    What are we? gfbf, mate or Fwb? He just ended a long term relationship (and i heard they are in open relationship now) Obviously he is not that into me, he rejected to take the...
    wtsthiswtstht wtsthiswtstht 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Every woman wants her man to love her from his heart and soul. When a woman loves a man she wants to be the most important person in his life. When a woman truly loves you she will...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    But I'll spend my time writing about the one sided love story, while you figure out where you stand. I'll spend every waking hour, telling people about how much you made me feel...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm not her type, and when i talk to her my heart breaks a little more, knowing i can't and never ever will have her
    futurediary futurediary 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    i tried to end but I can't get over him..I will soon be leaving(work related) in 2months time, he doesn't know about it...the thought that we will go on separate lives soon, deeply...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Aug 16

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    It's really just this one girl, and it bugs the hell outta me. Most times women I thought were hot but found out they were married or had boyfriends, I usually didn't care about...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M Aug 11

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    When a person says that they like me, I somehow lose attraction to them. I like guys who are gay (yes this is super weird), because I know they will never like me back. I am...
    jiumpuu jiumpuu 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I think I seek them out because I like a chase and its a confidence boost to know that I can have even whats not on the market. I blame Nick Cannon. If he wouldn't have married...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I usually don't get this stuff.. Sigh I usually don't get crushes. It's just not something that happens to me. Might shock some of you who stereotype bisexual women. Anyway, I went...
    Amandaline Amandaline 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    She was my best friend. We were extremely close. Then, one day, she found out, and after about a month she abandoned me. She won't answer the phone or reply to a text. She moved a...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I spoke to him today just to say "Hi" as a friend. He told me he was happily in love. Those words felt like a bullet in my heart, as if my heart had been stabbed to death...
    NiteOwlet NiteOwlet 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    This is to her parents... I wish you a very Merry Christmas and a happy New Year. I just want to take a little bit of your family time, to tell you about myself. You may know me...
    NishantJ NishantJ 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    A little over a month ago, I went to a weeklong music camp (it was hours away from where I live, and I literally stayed there for a week). I met a boy there, a year older than me...
    Nightingale73 Nightingale73 13-15, F Aug 6

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