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I 'm A Lover Not A Fighter But I'll Fight For What I Love

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    I am a lover to the core.

    I love things, I Love to help others. I love making people happy. I am just a lover to the fault, of being too loving. I do not like to fight, I do not like being mean, or hateful, however, I will always, always, always fight for the ones i love. I will never stand to see...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 2

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    I'll give up my life

    for her, no I won't back down. Not until I lie cold on the dry hard ground. Cause she gave me reason to even live and stand tall. Even if she don't really love me at all... I'm a lover not a fighter but I'd fight the world for you. But if you were in the situation that I am in...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    My girlfriend of 3 years recently developed a

    crush on a co worker. She wants to rethink out commitment before we decide this will be forever. I want to give her the space and time, but it feels like I am letting her go. I am hoping for the best and struggling with the reality. I will do whatever it takes to make it work.
    religiousd religiousd 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I love my family of two,

    still fighting and will continue to fight
    newlifejuliana newlifejuliana 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    "Hey I just meet you

    and this is crazy XD But here's my number so call me maybe ^_-" Brain: What was that about o_O Me: That would be my pick-up line on Society -_- But Society never left me no messages >_< Never sent me no letters o_O You got some kind of nerve -_-' Somethin' somethin' Im Lost...
    SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 18-21 Feb 16

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    I love God. And I'll defend what I believe.

    I'm His soldier, and I'm His daughter. I will keep what I know and love. I love my boyfriend. And I'll fight against school, work, time zones, distances, or other circumstances, just to be with him. I love people. I can't fight. I can't defend the weak. But I will continue...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F Apr 6

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    spreadingsmiles spreadingsmiles 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 24, 2013

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    I Don't Know

    I love someone. He lives far from me, and we dated online back then. It was very sweet when I still can laugh with him. But we never met. I finally let him go, for his own happiness. I love him, but I still let him go. I don't know whether this can be call as "fight for what I...
    TulipsLover TulipsLover 18-21, F Oct 9, 2013

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    I am a very peaceful person.

    I try to consider Jesus' approach in everything I do because we are made in his and his fathers image and I want to start acting like it. I will fight for who I love, but violence is not the way.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    angelas896 angelas896 22-25, M Dec 6, 2013

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    I have always been really bad at conflict.

    So bad, in fact, that sometimes I have been a doormat when I should have fought. That doesn't mean that I can't fight, or that I'm not going to! There is one weapon that I am going to use in my upcoming wars: The Pen (well...laptop). I want to write about the people I see...
    purplemessenger purplemessenger 18-21, F Dec 21, 2013

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    I don't have very strong opinions on a lot of

    things because I'm an open easy going person, but one thing I will fight for is anything that I love. It brings out the fight in me I never knew I had and I love it.
    itsallii itsallii 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I hate fighting. I really despise any drama in

    my life at all. It stresses me out and makes me cry, but I will always fight for what I love. I would fight to the death for the people I love. Sometimes fighting is necessary. I will always do all that I can to avoid getting to that point, though.
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F Mar 29

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    may b not quite so literally!

    ...but wouldnt let some1 i luv get beat up and not jump in and try 2 help them...i think fighting 4 ur loved 1s is more bout bein tru 2 them...standin with em in whatever there goin thru...luvin them!
    IamAndy IamAndy 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    I Will Keep On Getting Closer To The Next Step

    My love for drawing has been enormous lately. My dream for being a manga artist will be hard to reach in the future since my parents never approved manga. I'll keep on fighting till I'll reach the last step. I kept on telling myself that I should wait until I get to college to...
    BlackBloodDemon BlackBloodDemon 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    Single And Looking

    hie everyone,l'm looking for a lover someone to start a relationship with the woman of my dreams l'm so lonely.l will do anything to make you happy,l will take care of you and make sure l do right things to you.you will be my everything and will with you forever.
    donald6300 donald6300 22-25, M Sep 7, 2012

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    I Never Knew

    I've always said this line "I'm a lover not a fighter" but the additional ending is true and I must now complete this quote. I've always stated that everyone has it in them to kill or do extreme harm. There's always a button that can be pushed. I never knew what my button was...
    yourfuturewife yourfuturewife 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    I'm a pacifist not because of religion

    or anything, I'm just usually too lazy to fight. But if someone I love is at risk, I will fight to defend them. I have actually sent a guy to the hospital with a knife before. But he was pointing a gun at my then boyfriend, but current fiancee.
    ZC343454 ZC343454 18-21, M 14 hrs ago

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    I am a lover :) not a fighter .

    I love him and i am willing to do anything for him and to never let him go or loose him. I am willing to fight for him.I always need him in my life.I cant imagine my life without my special someone.He is my everything and he has made me a much better person.I love him to the...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    Last Dance

    Intensity flowing so deep my lips can't split to speak... ... Fear of rejection while holding you in my eyes; I see... ...I love with my heart bleeding down my arm; your warmth I seek... ... I lose sleep... ...The sound of your voice; I need... ...Music to my soul; I keep...
    soulofagypsy soulofagypsy 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    Fight Too Much Sometimes?!

    I am one of those people that very much fight for what i want and what i love. Sometimes i forget what i am fighting for i fight so much =( I sometimes wish i knew when to stop the fight though and to know when enough is enough. I have come to realize that sometimes it takes two...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    That's Right

    I am lover but when it comes to fighting for what I love that is what I will do. I love my children so much and anyone who crosses them may as well be crossing me. I also am very against child abuse and abuse of animals do not get me on that topic I could go on for hours and...
    northernlightsalaska333 northernlightsalaska333 22-25, F Oct 12, 2013

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    I am too humble to be a fighter cause life's

    too short to be a fighter. But i will most definitely fight/defend for what means a lot to me. I don't look for trouble cause i am a lover not a fighter. However there's 0 tolerance for people who are trying to provoke or take something/someone that i love, Its not on. Cause if...
    everythinghappens4R everythinghappens4R 22-25, M Feb 24

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    totsy50 totsy50 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Judging a person doesn't define

    who they are. It defines who you are. You should wonder how many people you've looked at all your life and never seen beyond the limits of your judgement.
    TheOtherPsycho TheOtherPsycho 22-25, M Dec 12, 2013

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    I Am Good

    I was recently told of an African tribe that does the most beautiful thing. When someone does something hurtful and wrong, they take the person to the center of town, and the entire tribe comes and surrounds him. For two days they’ll tell the man every good thing he has ever...
    Evangeline1985 Evangeline1985 26-30 2 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    This quote reminded me I something.

    An old friend of mine last we chatted had horrible things going on in her life, her father which she was close to died, her boyfriend of 7+ years cheated and left, and so forth and decided to jump off the map for a while. When we got back into contact she was doing better, had...
    hitvl hitvl 18-21, F Nov 28, 2013

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    Truthfully, I'm the opposite!

    I love getting in fights (as long as they stay in the safety boundaries (I'm not an idiot (or at least if hope I'm not xD)))!
    EmbryosandSkulls EmbryosandSkulls 13-15, M 14 hrs ago

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    And I'm A Student Of Wing Chun!

    Kick, kick, punch punch I would like a lighter lunch, Look at their throat to see Just how they might fight me. I have a tactic that doesn't miss I wink an eye and blow a kiss, The guys aren't sure of it what to make, Out on the dojo floor my *** I'll shake!
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    I can't stand to see someone I care about being

    manipulated or hurt. That is the one time I will stand up and fight. Sometimes even if they don't have any fight in them.... Men and relationships....I feel slightly different about that now. I used to be a little jealous and would want to fight for my man if necessary. As long...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    So my ex wants to get together,

    cuz she says luvs me wants to be together,were talking abt the moved she did & on on she goes abt all about she wants,all I said I need some of my money to up a debt,she goes off yelling I'll give your $ & do what you want walks away saying I'm to bed,so said I'm tired of being...
    torres54 torres54 51-55, F Mar 22

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    I am introvert and shy by nature.

    I avoid confrontations. I have always been uncomfortable to fight or argue unnecessarily. I love too much and that's what I enjoy doing. I am very protective of my loved ones and if I have to fight to save then I am willing to do so. I will shield them. I will fight for what I...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I always fight for what I believe in because there is a goal that everyone has and it has to be achieved someday... I won't stop until I get there!!!
    ZebraPerfect01 ZebraPerfect01 13-15, F Mar 28

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    If you don't fight for what you believe In then you never really believed in it. Just joined the bandwagon because you thought it would look good. That's my personal thought for...
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    People have definitely forgotten what love is. Either that or people just haven't figured it out yet even after all these years. Love is not killing, love is not giving up on a...
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    I am picking up my ex's kids on Saturday to go to a movie and ice cream. I am going to pour my heart out to her in hopes that we can get back together. I miss her and the kids...
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    I am not ok but I've been good at faking it so far. I am completely miserable most of the time and have struggled with thoughts of suicide over the last year. I don't want to wake...
    CaliLove87 CaliLove87 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm messed up, but I'm still alive, so obviously I must be managing.
    BlankCanvas22 BlankCanvas22 13-15, F Mar 28

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    I'm totally ****** up. I'm late in life, no girl, no money, I skate downhill and I don't care about what people think of me. I miss something in life, I like to drink but I have...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M Mar 28

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    Toe everyone in here who is true to their word, good for you. You know yourself, that's more than a lot of people can say for themselves. But that doesn't make the fact that you...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I think you won't get this... but I miss your smile. Even though I've never seen it in person, I'll miss it. I think you won't hear this... but I miss your voice. Every time I...
    SimplyL SimplyL 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I feel like when I cry out for help no one cares enough to listen.
    MissAma MissAma 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Because I've promised that I would stop her from self harming. But I don't love her anymore but I worry that if I leave her, she'll cut and I don't want her to. Is there any way I...
    iloveevery1 iloveevery1 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love or care about although he says he does. I was abused as a teen and now in my late twenties I've been able to have my first relationship. The...
    Tillnow Tillnow 26-30, F Mar 22

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    Please anon, don't make it any more difficult than it needs to be for me.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 28

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    What you guys still don't get is that it IS best for us if I leave her alone for right now.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 1 Response Mar 30

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    You aren't the first person I've sent myself to jail for, Kilig. You just happen to be the one that matters most to me.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 30

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    If we're finished, Kilig; it was decided by you. If you want our relationship to be over, it's been all about you from the very beginning. However, I'm not through with you. You...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 31

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    Little did THEY know, that the only thing I really believed in was us. I never forget. We never forget. #ops
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 25

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    I never wanted to look back. I had to stack the deck against myself. I'm too scared of losing you to be involved with what I used to do. Please, let me break my cycle. I always...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 28

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    I hate having to push you away right now, Kilig. I don't want things to be all about me. I just need to figure out how to talk to you about how hurt I am right now. I don't think I...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 29

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    I didn't want it this way and I still don't Kilig. Never is a horrible word.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 1 Response Mar 30

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    Sometimes you just reach a point where you tell yourself you have to get your life together. Unfortunately for me, that point is now.
    warro97 warro97 16-17, F Mar 28

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