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I 'm a Military Girlfriend, Fiance Or Wife Unleashed

This group is blunt and says what we think. No sugar coating needed. If you can't handle that don't join.x 1,015 People

    I Wish This Were Fake....

    "My boyfriend Will is also leaving Novemebr 3 rd for basic to San Antonio.  I'm already lost and he hasn't even left.  I don't know what i'm going to do!! plus they changed basic fomr 6 weeks to 8 for NO REASON!! i'm so upset, now he doesn't get to come home...
    Caligirl125 Caligirl125 26-30, F 22 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    Why Bf Looking At Wedding Rings

    My bf just come home from the deployment and being station over sea for 2 years .He has 20 days left.It been going alright just having a hard time that he be leaving again to go back for 7 months .All he been talking about since he been gone is how he cant wait to get married to...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F Sep 10, 2012

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    Military Spouses!!!!

    Are you a Military spouse? Did you know that if your spouse is E-5 and below, or W1-W2 or O1-O2 you could be eligible for the MyCAA grant that grants you $4,000 to go school. Here at Meditec we offer 65 programs ranging from Business, Legal, Pharmacy, Medical, IT, and Real Estate...
    meditec2012 meditec2012 18-21, F Nov 21, 2012

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    If You Can't Make It Through Boot Or Basic Jog On!

    I 've ******* had it. I mean you must be ******* kidding me in all areas. How the hell can't you handle it. Sure it is tough.   But if you can't make it through boot go join the group that has no boot and basic or trainings or detachments or deployment ...
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 9 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    My boyfriend has 2 weeks left of basic training

    at fort sill & gets a 30 minute phone call on Sundays & when he called me yesterday he told me he was going to call his friend... Does anyone have any advice... I just thought he'd try to talk to me all he could until he was out of basic at least..
    dnichholee7 dnichholee7 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Military Funeral Protests.

    I go to an extremely liberal school, but there's also a very big Army ROTC program here, so we're pretty divided on the whole war issue. In one of my classes, we somehow got on the topic of military funeral protests and whether they were fair or not. About half of the people said...
    lauren27 lauren27 18-21 10 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    How We Met.

    I have to give a back story that led to meeting him. I met a guy a Montgomery after I graduated, dated him for about 3 years. He left me high and dry after damn near two years of waiting. I vowed never again would I ever date a man in the military. Honestly, the only reason I...
    pandabebop143 pandabebop143 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2012

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    I'm Getting Engaged!

    So on the phone the other night Rick asked me what I wanted for Christmas..I jokingly said a diamond..no biggie. But just last night Rick starts by saying how much he loves and wants to stay with me and since we are moving in together across the country...he wants to marry me and...
    marinecorpsprincess marinecorpsprincess 18-21, F Aug 29, 2012

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    WTF

    So I'm checkin' out the latest stories in another group... and I come across a girl who tells a story of cheating on her marine and getting pregnant and not knowing whose it is. Yeah a tough situation for a 16 year old in need of advice.  I know everyone in a difficult...
    Allyx3 Allyx3 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 10, 2009

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    He Is Coming Home!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    So its been 70 days since I have seen him, a month since I had talked to him until yesterday. I was starting to feel very weak and distrought and ready to give in to the depression that was settling on me when he called me and I swear you could have knocked me over with a touch...
    NewArmyGF20 NewArmyGF20 18-21, F Mar 6, 2013

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    Easter Sunday Waiting Waiting Nothing!!!

    So I get a letter from my fiance last wednesday. First time hearing from him in 2 and a half weeks. He puts in his letter: P.S I GET A PHONE CALL ON EASTER SUNDAY SO BE HOME!! Well I got out of work early and rushed to his parents house so I wouldn't miss his call. We waited all...
    seabeegirlfriend051610 seabeegirlfriend051610 18-21 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    Caught Her Cheating She's The One In The Military

    Last night she made up an excuse to avoid me so she could spend time with him. I did some digging and found out that she was getting some calls and making calls to someone in the airforce. I called with a hidden number and confirmed it with his voicemail. Apparently this is the...
    Yakuza2979 Yakuza2979 31-35, M 14 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Support Page!

    If anyone is looking to be an admin to a facebook military support page, please come by and fill out the application. http://www.facebook.com/pages/Peace-Love-Combat-Boots/304506446257479
    kbiard kbiard 18-21, F Dec 28, 2012

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    Any Advice?

    Hey everyone.... The man I have been dating for 6 months left for Afghanistan 3 weeks ago. I'm technically not even his "girlfriend" because he said he didn't want to "tie me down" while he was away. We may have not been seeing one another very long, but I have absolutely fallen...
    GonnaProve2Him GonnaProve2Him 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    I wish I really had someone it could just talk

    to about life as a military fiancé face to face. I mean my friends try to understand, but on those bad days none of their advice really helps. It drives me crazy hearing how they understand because their boyfriend is gone for a couple day, or that it could be worse because at...
    Kgray134 Kgray134 22-25, F 4 Responses May 12

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    :)

    I hope all is well! Have you been in contact with him lately? If not I'm sure he is OK and he will contact you soon enough! My best advice for you is to continue with your normal schedule and introduce new and exciting things into it. You mentioned yoga I'm doing that 3 times a...
    Candyapplesam Candyapplesam 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    Go Ahead, Call Me A B Itch

    Aggrivated, I'm aggrivated. I'm going to go ahead and apologize for everyone I am about to offend. HERE YA GO KIDS! Your boyfriend is in boot, GET-OVER-IT and quit complaining. I am so tired of reading how these ladies think their life is ending and they "cant handle it" because...
    elupchurch elupchurch 22-25, F 19 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    I'm Living In Australia, He Is In Okinawa. :(

    So i met my Marine when he had just started his deployment in Okinawa and a whole battalion got sent to Oz and i met and befriended one of his mates earlier on. Then we met, well briefly at first. My cousin and i had been together through out. So being 18 we were excited that we...
    AussieBub23 AussieBub23 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    Super Annoyed

    So I went to walmart the other day and this ***** had the nerve to tell me that dating a marine was a hugd mistake it took everything in me to not punch her in the face but I just smiled at her and said how's your freedom you enjoying that cause my man is fighting for it she just...
    bledsoeciara bledsoeciara 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 1, 2011

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    Missin Him

    So..... Yeah. I really miss my boyfriend. I want to see him, to touch him, laugh together and go out and do things and be silly. We're hoping he can come home to visit in July, which isn't altogether that far away, but it doesn't help very much right now. I don't know. I guess I...
    navygirl00 navygirl00 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Gahhh

    So.... I'm sure all of you know it can be hard to keep in touch with your man when they're far away, and for the last 3 or so days, connecting with my boyfriend hasn't gone quite as well as usual. Which wouldn't normally bother me, but I pretty much haven't talked to him all day...
    navygirl00 navygirl00 18-21, F Mar 22, 2013

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    My Young Life Story

    I met my husband in school. He was in the grade above me. It was quit cliche. We literally ran into each other in the hall way to class. This was my 7th grade year and his 8th. We became friends, had a big fight and made up. Well he asked me to home coming and from then on out we...
    SemperFiTilDeathDoUsPart SemperFiTilDeathDoUsPart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2012

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    Ranting.

    Okay so I just had to get this out and I know everyone on here will understand.I'm sorry but I can't STAND it when girls complain that there man left for work and they have to go without him for a whooooole 8 hours!!!! I woke up this morning and got on my Facebook to find one of...
    trackrunner2010 trackrunner2010 18-21, F 5 Responses May 18, 2011

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    He Is Almost Here

    so i am super happy my sons birthday party was amazing not bad for being my first party to ever organize....and my marine is going to be home this friday i am so impatient already i cant wait for this week to go by already i wana see him already and i want him to see our son...
    cindyncarlos cindyncarlos 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Okay so, I have a bit of a problem.

    I just told my mom about my man's going to the meeting for military spouses to get me info on his next deployment, thinking it would earn him some points in the thoughtful/sweet category. You should have SEEN how ruffled her feathers got. My parents are very cautious about this...
    navygirl00 navygirl00 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    Bri's Post.

    Ok in the other group i had my share of whiney post but saince ive talked to you ladies ive learened to roll with the punches. My life this past year has not been easy everyone knows that. And it will only get harder. But im done complaining. If i complain from this moment on...
    Bri202 Bri202 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    Ignorance Is Bliss

    So this afternoon I went to another site I use quite often and I saw a blog saying I am having a Happy dance because there were no Americans that died in the bombing in Kabul. I was like are you serious. My husband is British and constantly deployed what if he was there and hurt...
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 10 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Learning To Deal With It

    I've realized that no matter how much my soldier loves me his job always comes first. In 5 days he's leaving for SERE for a month and I won't even be able to talk to him. The scariest thing I think is that if something happens to him I may not find out for a long time if ever...
    lbelle95 lbelle95 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    I Am An Army Girlfriend!

    I am so new to this whole lifestyle! My boyfriend has to explain litterally EVERYTHING to me lol he blames it on me being blonde! I have no clue what is to come but i know as long as hes alright it will be fine. :) any advice on how not to think about things constantly?
    soldiersangel94 soldiersangel94 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Why Bf Looking At Wedding Rings

    My bf just come home from the deployment and being station over sea for 2 years .He has 20 days left.It been going alright just having a hard time that he be leaving again to go back for 7 months .All he been talking about since he been gone is how he cant wait to get married to...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F Sep 10, 2012

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    Getting Started

    Hi there, this is my second deployment with my fiance. this one is so much harder then the first i believe that it is because this time we are engaged, more in love, and planning our wedding( well i am planning and sending him emails about plans then he is giving me his input) I...
    crcbab1123 crcbab1123 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    Ok My Turn To Be Blunt...

    I like all of you am in a military relationship. I met my bf after he had joined, and actually only a month before he deployed. I knew from the beginning what I was getting into. Yes I know my story may sound like a few others, oh this girl is just another one whos going to give...
    BlackBetty13 BlackBetty13 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    OMG. My fiance left me in the care of his truck

    with the explicit instructions to not let his sister borrow it because she is so destructive and she texted me seeming all interested and caring only to ask for the truck and stop texting me after I shut her down.
    foxyfi19 foxyfi19 22-25, F Feb 27

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    Meeting My Baby

    So Hi my name is jennifer , I was out clubbing with my girls , I had dresses up feeling and looking good ,was not in search for anyone two months out of my last relationship just looking to dance and have fun when this tall good looking guy walks by , I turned to my friend...
    lalabrook lalabrook 26-30, F Jul 15, 2012

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    Update

    I got a 15 minute phone call with my soldier yesterday. Needless to say, it hit the spot haha. Moreover, we discussed traveling plans to get to and from his bct graduation. And discussed when we plan on getting married. He will be back from a.i.t. around the end of June so that's...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F Mar 25, 2013

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    They Dont Understand

    Why do girls always think I'm bragging when I talk about my boyfriend. That's not me bragging its a way for me to feel connected because I I miss him so much. They don't get the fact that I'm not going to be able to see him for months or that hes going to miss all major holidays...
    bledsoeciara bledsoeciara 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    Navy Fiance, Missing Her Soldier

    Hi, I am a Navy Fiance. My man has been in the Navy for about 5 years now. We have known each other for about 7 years, and have been dating for about 1 year. He was recently told he was automatically volunteered for a year long deployment. It was extremely sudden and quite...
    USNinlove USNinlove 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 10, 2010

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    Finaly!!!!!

    ok my loves! i finally put the video on youtube. lol its pretty raw because im obviously not a movie producer or anything but i hope you enjoy and are able to relate to it. this video is only for entertainment purpouses not to make anyone feel bad and im not making fun of any of...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    Day 3: Annoyed

    Yesterday I was just annoyed with people. Of course I was thinking about him all day and that's all I wanted to do. Am I wrong for that? No I don't think so. And then everybody wantto be in my business like I owe them an explanation. Asking why you still with him? How you know...
    tabbybby09 tabbybby09 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2013

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    Military Spouse Education Information

    Who wants to spend all day in a boring classroom racking up interest on loans, for a job that takes forever to achieve? If you're a military spouse E5 and below, O1-O2 OR W1-W2 you may qualify for the MyCAA grant! This is $4000.00 to go back to school! At Meditec we offer over...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F Jan 28, 2013

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    My fiancé ships out

    for basic training for the Marines on the 28th.... It's killing me, I want to support him, but I honestly wish that he would just stay... We currently live two hours away from each other and I'll only get to see him one more time before he leaves... I'm so scared and I feel like...
    ScaredyKatH ScaredyKatH 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Well Hi There

    Hello everyone, this is my first deployment with my sailor. He's been stationed overseas which makes planning a wedding rough but we're getting through it. I thought I would likely be the one who would have the toughest time but lately my sailor has been having a rocky time. Any...
    WatsonsGirl WatsonsGirl 18-21, F Sep 26, 2013

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    I miss him. I really miss him today.

    I just want to be able to wrap my arms around him and stay that way for a looooong time. On another note...... My man and I met in high school, dated for a while, broke up, and then he enlisted. It was a bad breakup, but while he's been in the service, we got another chance...
    navygirl00 navygirl00 18-21, F Jun 2

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    Boohoo Isnt Your Life Hard?

    If I hear one more girl at school talk about how much they miss their boyfriend at college I'm going to hurt someone. I wish my only problem was worrying about my boyfriend drinking himself to death or cheating on me. I'm so sorry he didn't text you yesterday - I haven't heard...
    futureusmcwifey futureusmcwifey 16-17 8 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    I Can't Do This Anymore

    I can't sit around and waste my days waiting for him but I will because I love him with all my heart it just kills me that he is so far away and seeing all my friends with their bfs/gfs im gonna go crazy by the time he comes home I'll be in the mental hospital in a stray jacket...
    Ilovemymarine121 Ilovemymarine121 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2012

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    Sorry In Advance ...

    ok, so I'm sorry in advance, I'm sure I'm about to **** a lot of you off. I feel like a lot of you need a reality check! Your life isn't over because your boyfriend is in boot camp. Give it 13 weeks and you'll be able to see them again for 10 days. Instead of complaining about...
    BrittanyLaRue BrittanyLaRue 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    I keep getting letters

    but he's upset because he hasn't gotten any mail from me but I write to him every single day & there's no way I can tell him anything & it really sucks. I'm going crazy 😔😔😔
    dnichholee7 dnichholee7 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Thank You.

    I really like the idea of this group, and thank you for whoever came up with it. Its hard to realize, but if you're dating a man in the military or married to him or whatever, remember you signed up for it too. It is your choice to be with that man, so you can't just sit on your...
    carrieannxo7 carrieannxo7 18-21 5 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    I Hatee....

    i hate when people say "why are you even with him, you never get to see him" OR "are you sure you want to be with him, there are penatly of guys at home" OR "do you see a future with him because it doesnt seem like it" im with him because i love him, im with him because every...
    balint777 balint777 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    Thinking Out Loud

    This is definitely tough being a fiancée to a soldier imagine when we get married :/. He says I worry too much as it is . Which I can't help it. All I can do right now is pray to god that he returns home safely and healthy. Just waiting for a phone call and/or a letter. I miss...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    My Sailor Stole My Heart!!!!

    Hello ladies, Please check out my support page if you are in love with a Sailor!! We are almost at 1,000 members!! :) http://www.facebook.com/MySailorStoleMyHeart
    headcheerleader570 headcheerleader570 18-21, F Oct 21, 2012

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    I'm Not Sure What To Do

    So I moved an hour or so from where my boyfriend is based. I have my dream job and he's closer. All of a sudden he wants a change in our relationship. He says it doesn't feel the same. He drives all the time to see me. Do you think he should or do you think I should every once in...
    wxgirl1427 wxgirl1427 22-25 5 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    So He Is Gone...

    So it has been a few days since he has left. I have gotten to hear from him a bunch of times now! i know that it won't be like this the whole deployment but for now it's so nice. I am very surprised that I have been taking this as well as I have been, I am not sure if it is...
    slyyx99 slyyx99 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2012

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